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If the foundation of that role play is based off trauma it’s completely different. People sometimes don’t even know that the trauma from their life has become a fetish. If you don’t see anything wrong with a fetish based off a traumatic experience due to how our society deals with body shaming for men, I don’t even know how to process that. Just because it’s harmless doesn’t mean it’s healthy for the individual. Not all fetishes are healthy or good for you simply because you derive sexual pleasu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:38 AM
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Look, let’s say that someone was bullied for having a small dick and used to feel bad. If he drives sexual pleasure now from people making fun of his small dick, what do you think happened? To me it feels like trauma coping and taking advantage of someone’s trauma. It’s like trying to justify the “we happy few” world or some kind of dream world. If he truly enjoys it whatever, but I fuckin doubt he truly enjoys it but his brain has probably figured out a way to enjoy it, which is horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:37 AM
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I’m using “you” generally. Here’s a gold star for not enjoying making fun of people’s insecurities, you are truly a rarity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:33 AM
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Eh physical pain I can understand more than trying to justify internalised trauma because “hE eNjOyS iT” Do you have the same opinion about rape fantasies?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:32 AM
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God you people are psychotic. Just because the brain has brainwashed themselves into liking something doesn’t mean they truly like it. That’s like justifying Stockholm syndrome since the victim ends up enjoying it. How about you stick to body shaming without trying to justify it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:24 AM
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Please tell me you are not saying that making fun of someone’s dick size is fine if they enjoy it. Please
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:20 AM
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1) no one here is trying to change preferences, or if they are, it’s futile. No one wants to be settled for and physical attraction preferences generally don’t change 2) complaining is cathartic. I don’t know why people don’t understand this. Ranting and being listened to makes people feel better and listening to others experiences can help people feel less alone when they are struggling with their own body 3) do not gaslight me into believing that my hatred for my own body is misplaced. I do no…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:17 AM
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Good for you! Very cute stuff. I still stand by my statement. Being short is a disadvantage, and my body dysmorphia is valid. I don’t need people showing me their SOs and telling me to get over it. It’s like telling a depressed person that another depressed person was able to get over his depression so you should too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:45 PM
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There’s a leprechaun joke to be made but idk if it’s racist or not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:38 PM
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You are entitled to your opinion. I’m sure he’s a lucky guy for having a caring wife/girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:29 PM
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January philosopher, I can’t remember her exact user ID. Just wanted to include that to be funny cuz she does bring her husband being short to every height-related discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:07 PM
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It’s ok to reject a man on their height, just don’t tell me that “most women love short men”, and I won’t tell you that “most men love fat chicks”. Both are insincere and just a product of gaslighting. You are allowed to reject people for whatever reason, just don’t pretend that all preferences are equal, they are not. And for the Irish chick who’ll see this, please don’t bother using your husband as your empirical proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:44 PM
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Mhm
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:05 PM
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Kk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:42 AM
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Nah, I “whine” online because it’s the only outlet I have. I made sure to not bring up my grades till the end when I was absolutely sure I couldn’t do anything to make them better and felt defeated. Good job victim blaming though. Istg the people of this subreddit are truly something else
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:37 AM
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I’m sure I’ll move on from this eventually, but for now I’m done with dating. All I need is myself, and my friends who listen to me far better than any girl could ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:52 PM
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Read the first line of my response, that’s the answer to my question. Also I’m not really yelling, capitalisation is used for emphasis
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:21 PM
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That’s how I’ve become pretty much. I don’t share shit with anyone anymore. I don’t see it as worth it, and I definitely will never marry anyone who I cannot confide in and says “it’s your problem, go get therapy”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:20 PM
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Mhm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:47 PM
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You think it’s singular? I just mentioned the most recent one I had… I’ve had others with women who weren’t even my girlfriends. Usually I would have called this a generalisation, but I’ve had too many of these occurrences and I don’t care anymore if I’m generalising. But please go off, tell me how I should feel. I’m surprised you even believed my story, I was sure you would have accused me of making it up and being a whiny asshole too… Also you girls have no problem saying “we don’t know who th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:26 PM
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Ah yes a question for women, who will definitely be answering honestly and will not be creating a confirmation bias situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:33 AM
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I hate that term so much. “Unpaid therapist”. Is it really a fuckin therapists job to just listen to people? My friends listen to me. I listen to my friends. The subject matter gets deep and depressing sometimes. So what. We’re a brotherhood. We are there for each other. The fact that people expect any emotional support to be done ONLY by therapists is fucking toxic and capitalistic. No one is entitled to be cared about but fucking hell man, I want to care about others! I WANT TO LISTEN TO MY FR…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:30 AM
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Your pain Olympics nerve was twitching huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:28 AM
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I was talking to my girlfriend about how bad my semester has been at the end and how I was failing every exam and feeling demoralising and she called me “whiny”. Suffice it to say, I will not be doing that with any woman ever again
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:27 AM
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Focus on my career. I’m tired of chasing people who clearly don’t want me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:29 PM
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Women’s movement have larger pushed this narrative that they can be independent and don’t need men (which I agree with), however it hasn’t happened with men. This expectation needs to move towards men to (without being mocked like the MGTOW movement) and soon men will start finding meaning in their own passions over finding this check list expectation to have a chick with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:16 PM
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I’m sure the robots won’t meet women’s expectations any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:12 PM
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As a man yes, as men have to be the ones to appear confident, absent of insecurity, and must be the ones to approach a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:17 PM
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Stay at home husband? Weak dude? Just put the opposite of what you think a traditional man is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:44 PM
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I don’t agree with everything you say, but yea, I do find that (some) women love using “whiny” as a insult cuz it will often shut people up, as they don’t want to be perceived as whiny. This heavily perpetuates toxic masculinity, just by implying that complaining is not something men should do. Even if you don’t MEAN to insinuate that, it is what is often the after effects. It’s funny how people literally will mention this shit online… on an anonymous forum, as if they are forced go engage with …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:22 PM
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Jeez, the dude cannot rant on an anonymous, online platform without you not being able to listen to him non-judgementally? Seriously? And no, I know plenty of people who do not like themselves and have others who like them. I don’t even need to name people. Suicidal people sometimes are depicted as the happiest, even moments before they kill themselves, and have plenty of other people who love them. Maybe consider that, maybe, for one goddamn second, if you (not you in particular but anyone) jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:16 PM
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All I’m hearing is, be happy no matter what because if you’re not happy, you’re gonna put yourself in a self-fulfilling prophecy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:10 PM
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80/20 rule dude. Most men are not hot enough to be approached by a woman, but most women are hot enough to be approached by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:12 PM
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This is what happens when a gender is obsessed with being the victim. If it isn’t the victim in any case, it will desperately try to be
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:10 PM
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Jesus. Look the entire basis of statistics is that it’s an approximation. That’s why there are concepts such as confidence intervals… The entire point of it is to approximate what a larger population thinks. Is it completely right? No, but I would say it tries it’s best to be larger correct, otherwise we wouldn’t be using it. If I say ALL WOMEN LIKE TALL MEN, I can’t say that cuz I can’t use stats to prove that. But if I say MOST WOMEN LIKE TALL MEN, I can say that because I can show evidence of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:08 PM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/4sYjtJFUY6M?si=7eT9aWOv-87uhulk Yes… I’m sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:59 PM
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Anyone who says “good men” is an instant red flag. Maybe don’t use that terminology.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:57 PM
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What is the worth of a woman? As far as I’m concerned the only reason the opposite sex’s person is worth anything is attraction and an offer of companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:56 PM
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Autistic logic. Not only are you contributing to toxic masculinity, but your logic makes no sense at all and is one of the many double standards that women take advantage if
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:27 PM
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I’m not interested in this convo anymore. It seems like I aimed my frustrated at the wrong person. I just know women who will say they want a emotional man, but until they become too emotional, then it’s bye-bye. This very much makes me feel that “you can be as emotional as the women tolerates” which annoys me, very much. I’ve unfortunately internalised these beliefs and feel bitter about them, maybe that’s why my responsible was visceral
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:38 PM
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Yes I’m sure the very theoretical scenario I made where two guys are exactly the same in every way except their height managed to happen in real life… There is no point arguing about this if you can’t even acknowledge reality. Why don’t tall guys complain about getting rejected by women? Because tall is a desired trait to women. Not all obviously, which can be seen by your imaginary scenario, however it is still by the majority. But please keep underplaying our struggles just because you can’t s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:22 PM
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Oh shut up dude. Imagine complaining about people complaining anonymously online.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:59 PM
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Yes, tell me how 6 ft has RANDOMLY become the number that is associated with being tall and desirable, which btw accounts for less than 15% of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:57 PM
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Ah yes, this anecdotal list you just made up perfectly encapsulates the average standards set up women across the world. Thank you for being the spokesman for all the women on earth. I promise you a taller dude would beat out a shorter dude if they had the exact same remaining characteristics. And it’s definitely not 5 foot + for most women…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:53 PM
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Did I hurt your feelings with truth? My bad 😂. Please continue your existence. I pray that the dude you end up with isn’t emotional vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:49 PM
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This is nuts to me. Outside the anger thing, I can understand that, say that your partner refuses to get therapy for his insecurity because therapy isn’t helping or he has a bad experience. Would you rather he keep it to himself so that you don’t become his “untrained, unqualified therapist” or would you rather just send him to the curb? Maybe I didn’t get your point initially, but there is so much emphasis on women telling me to express themselves but only in the way that women like it… which i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:47 PM
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I didn’t expect a good rebuttal, and I definitely didn’t get one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:41 PM
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Welp from the looks of things I’ll just keep my emotions, feelings and insecurities to myself then. Thank god I’m not looking for a relationship of being human is considered an unattractive trait…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:05 PM
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“Emotional outbursts” cool so, you must be able to control your emotions at all time as a man. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:01 PM
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God fuckin forbid men are allowed to feel their feelings of insecurity eh? Whining is just a toxic masculinity way of saying ranting, which is a healthy behavior. I sincerely hope that the person you end up with doesn’t kill themselves from feeling enclosed and unable to talk about their feelings. It’s amazing how women claim we dont view them as human, when they do the same thing to us. And no, it’s not “there’s a line” feelings are not “there’s a line”. If you are ranting, chances are it’s ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:00 PM
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A trend is a trend. And a logical trend is a logical trend. For example if I were to say that “most dudes would like to date a thin women” I’m sure there are an X% who do not compare or like it. But this biased “men exist who like fat chicks” does not encompass the whole story. If we were to open our eyes, we can easily see than men would like thinner women. This isn’t some kind of weird thought process… it’s backed up by science. Similarly applies to men. On any given day, if you had to choose …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:50 PM
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Trying to invalidate someone’s feelings and struggles just because you don’t feel them anymore is insane. Genuinely some guys and girls on this subreddit and abnoxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:53 PM
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I wonder why men are insecure about their height? It’s not like it’s linked to confidence for most people… You act like insecurity is inherently unattractive, when it’s just human. I wonder if your boyfriend ever opened up about his insecurity (hypothetical), if he would be met with reject and disgust from you? Pretty sure we’ve done this dance a million times, but height insecurity is a real thing, and I feel that men should be allowed to feel that instead of shamed and just told to “man up”. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:14 PM
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It isn’t? Women’s standards are high, but I’ve never seen that used as a way to mock women. Pretty sure it’s usually men will have … requirements or women will have … requirements. I’ve seen this used my mainly women who want to make it seem like men are just mindless horny people. Which is more misandrist the more I think about it. So no, if you see it being used against a women, chances are that they’re wrong, but I doubt you would have listened to anyone who would have said that anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:48 PM
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More than the women here would admit, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:00 AM
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They get to choose their partners so ofc they’re happy with the situation men are in
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:52 AM
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You can’t put make up on a trash can and it suddenly not become a trash can. Self improvement has limits, and as a feature as sought after and prominent as height, I can tell you why people feel insecure about it. Grow up. Stop telling people how to feel about their feelings. I’m sure if a girl felt insecure about the sizes of her chest you definitely wouldn’t use the same thing to make her feel better BUT OF COURSE, men can’t be victims or feel insecure so yea… cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:11 PM
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Born with great features (tall, handsome, great ab genetics), ripped, rich, ambitious and confident. You may be a HVM without being born tall or handsome but the tall and handsome dudes will beat you out 9/10
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:24 PM
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No… Women have clowned on me for wearing them… Just like men and makeup, we don’t have that choice Besides if every short dude started wearing that, guess what? Minimum height is now 6’5
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:22 PM
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what… on… earth? Seriously? You think this low of men that you think they won’t help when you’re in need? Believe it or not, we are human beings. Some of us don’t may not help because we fear the consequences, it’s not something in our biology that makes it so we are less likely to help. This is incredibly toxic… I’ve seen women in danger and try to get her away from the aggressor, so yea, I have done it. And will gladly to it to anyone in danger regardless of age or gender. This is only if I kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:52 PM
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Yea well it’s incomparable. Who’s the sex that has to approach the other one more? It’s men. We approach women more, and we are expected to approach women more and pay for the date. No one is speaking in absolutes but women are the choosers in most cases, and the one have to set up to her standards
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:01 AM
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It was implied in your message. Your entire post shows that. You’ve used the words “men can’t say ‘no one cares’” when this shit can also be applied to women, but you specifically wanna target men because we are evil and women can do no wrong. Why didn’t you say “people can’t say…” unless you truly believed that women can’t do it or that you actually do hate men. I’m not interested in wasting my time on this convo, especially with someone who has an internalised hatred for men. I didn’t expect a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:01 AM
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Yes yes, you can go ahead and invalidate the way I feel. I didn’t expect anything else from your reply. We all have the exact same experience but clearly us incels are the ones that are evil only. I don’t expect consideration, but I hope that human decency is still a thing. When I’m immediately generalised into being a stereotypical man that will rape given the chance, I stop caring. I give exactly what you show me. And I can understand those that don’t want to give anything anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:47 AM
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My apathy only started growing after I realised that no one cares for men, and that we were constantly villianized to be rapists, murderers etc etc. I’m not gonna be friends with someone who constantly belittles an aspect of who I am, likewise I’m not interesting in engaging with any part of society that simply bashes men. I care about my friends, because they’ve been with me while I was by their side. I care for my family, and I care about people who don’t think about me negatively. I think as …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:28 AM
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Read the question wrong 😅 I thought it was about if she refused to let you be emotionally vulnerable with them. I’m just going delete my post. Sorry haha It’s not a dealbreaker, but I want to be there for my future wife, and if she doesn’t want to then chances are we won’t have a connection and will be glorified friends. There’s nothing more I want than to make sure my SO feels that she can talk to me about anything but she doesn’t WANT to, then I’d still date the person but we wouldn’t go very …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:32 PM
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dealbreaker. I don’t need that shit in my life, many of my SOs already were like that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:57 AM
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“Too short” Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:06 PM
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I thought it was men’s fault for being gatekeepers. I guess whichever story helps you set up your agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:53 PM
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Nah dude it’s her laugh, and I’m tired of people denying it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:45 PM
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Cuz people keep saying that X doesn’t matter when reality shows that it does fucking matter. Height matters, size matters, frame matters, muscle genetics matter. I don’t blame women for liking these things, even if women didn’t I would still want them, but people keep saying “nah dude short, bald, dad bods are good too, you are just being dumb”, invalidating people’s feelings is what makes me upset, and women do that a lot pretending that since it doesn’t matter to them, now suddenly it’s a rule…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:29 PM
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Thank you for your kind words. Know that one day I’ll appreciate it, but for now it feels like irrational hell. Also short girls are great. Makes giving backrides or carrying them way way easier. I do see a lot of short portrayal in media being negative (Lord Farquad, the dude from Austin Powers). It didn’t help that they made 5’8 Miguel into 6’5 or something. That fuckin hurt haha, cuz I loved Spider-Man 2099. I’m not gonna make any claims or try to dismantle anything you’ve said, I just hope t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:44 PM
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I’ve had therapy. Didn’t work. Once therapy is accessible in my college again, I’ll try it again. I’m not blaming women for shit. All I’m trying to say is that it sucks be short, and I don’t need deflections or reflections or any of that kinda stuff with “personality, confidence, charisma” shit. I just want people to know that it sucks, that it’s a disadvantage. Women can’t help what they’re attracted to, and I can’t help that I feel bad for being short. That is all. I don’t think I’m the person…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:16 PM
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Just cuz you know people doesn’t change the beauty standard for men…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:43 PM
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And only women can solve women’s issue. There, now stop complaining about the patriarchy to us
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:32 PM
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Emotional vulnerability is sexy if it benefits the chick. I’ve been told my entire life not to burden others, especially my spouse, and I’ve been told that women will simply leave you if you are an emotional burden. And we all know that not all women are the same therefore there is no way to gauge how tolerant she is so I simply shut up and rant to my friends who I could say anything to. At this point I don’t want to show emotions to anyone except my closest friends cuz they’re the ones that won…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:31 PM
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Nobody is claiming such a thing. We have our problems. That doesn’t mean women don’t. Moreover, our problems are in a different spectrum to women’s issues. I have a strong hatred for anyone trying to justify shitting on people’s suffering with their “boohoos” just because other people have it worse. That’s a shitty inhumane way of thinking And resentment isn’t a choice, cuz resentment is a feeling. Acting on that resentment as harassment or hate speech is a choice. At the end of the day, this th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:37 AM
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We’ll agree to disagree. Using any subreddit as proof isn’t really viable to your point, but I guess we can only speak in anecdotal evidence so we won’t convince each other. That being said if we were to use this subreddit as proof, I’d say a lot of chicks don’t have sympathy for short men. Simply denying people’s experiences, feelings and opinions is in its own way gaslighting. Ofc men do this too, but while men may insult, I find women more often gaslight. Regardless I don’t think I’ll ever co…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:33 AM
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Life isn’t fair yes, but I’m not gonna pretend to be emotionless about the pain I’m feeling. I’m valid in feeling the shit I do. Also it’s not mutually exclusive. I work out, have been doing good, AND STILL feel shit about my height. Your tone just proves OPs point. Your use of “booboos” just shows that you have no empathy. The struggles people face, even if they seem small to you, and still real. I feel shit cuz of the hand I was given, I know I can’t change it, but I struggle with getting rid …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:08 PM
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The spark can ignite with the right looks. The spark is beyond dead even if the ugly guy is trying to light it with matches
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:40 PM
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Pretty sure most sane men will, it’s just Reddit tends to have more of a certain audience. I’ve never understood that sex frequency thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:35 PM
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I will agree to your first point to a certain extent. That’s not what I see irl though, but what I see is anecdotal. And I’m not even gonna touch on your second point lol. If that’s the case, then where is this monumental sympathy that women have for short men? All I see is women blaming short men for their insecurities like having feelings isn’t allowed. Your own message is apathetic. And my point was that men can relate to each other struggling with height because it is characteristic we are j…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:29 PM
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So something like “No your insecurities are just all in your head, manlet, stop worrying about them, laugh at your height with us”? Well yea, that’s toxic positivity, but it’s also aimed at an insecurity of men, and traditional masculinism, meaning to be tall
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:22 PM
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Pretty sure chicks would start doing counter-protests… In all seriousness though, have a campaign isn’t going to undo the years of mental turmoil of being emotionless that society has done to men, hence the accepting of this message will be hard. It’s also simply not true. Not all men are handsome. Because of that leap in logic, it’s a very patronising message
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:20 PM
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I don’t have high standards but if a women settles for my height or some of my trait, I would feel fucking hurt. I know there will always be someone better than me, but to know that person “settled” for me, like I’m a half decent plate of dinner, I’d rather stay single. I am probably going to stay single knowing that a chick will probably settle for my height
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:18 PM
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It is women bringing short men down. It is men bringing short men down. Believe it or not, being an asshole isn’t gender specific. I just find that men can show more sympathy when it comes to that stuff cuz they’ve related to it. I don’t think women really understand how sad it feels to be a short dude, cuz they aren’t a dude. They can show empathy but not sympathy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:15 PM
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Yea it’s tough man. Keep your chin up, and try to not focus on women. Not until you’re successful enough to have people respect and want you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:46 PM
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Yea she did. Honestly man, I’m pretty young so I don’t have advice for you. It’s really shitty that we have to worry about this stuff. The only thing I could really suggest is keeping your head above water. I understand you may feel that there is no point to since you’re in an ocean, but I think it’s worth trying. Also I think as men, we gotta shift our focus from doing things to attract women, and doing things just for the sake of ourselves, even if it’s not really true. Like I want to become r…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:12 PM
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I was about to say the same thing lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:17 PM
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Yea… I’m not a part of any pill, and I am as optimistic as I can be, but people tend to really deny reality sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:00 PM
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I will hate whoever I want
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:48 AM
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If your short, just be confident and you’ll suddenly be as attractive as tall dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:46 AM
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Who actually unironically says “women will die alone with their cats”? I can tell you, definitely no one whose ever felt truly alone. Cuz I would NEVER wish loneliness on another person, man or woman. Also men’s issues tend to be mocked. If I bring up my height insecurity, I get mocked. If I bring up my loneliness, I’ll have people quoting that shit just to post it into TwoX or TrollX with some funny caption like “haha male loneliness epidemic” Our issues will never be discussed because we are c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:38 AM
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Hmm let’s see what are the most attractive traits in a man: Face (genetic) Height (genetic) Muscle Genetics (genetic) Hair / Bread (genetic) Frame / Shoulder to Hip Ratio (genetic) 6 Dick Size (genetic) You can put makeup, face-wash and shower gel on a trash can, in the end, it is still a trash can. Ugly is ugly, no matter what you do. Yes, being ugly and clean/well groomed is much better and depending on your situation, you may be able to become average, but the traits that make men PHYSICALLY …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:22 AM
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Did you… not look at the tweet? It was reposted on TrollX and they were all making fun of male loneliness.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 11:25 AM
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Yea cuz these countries don’t put that much weight on height. Americans put weight on height
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:23 PM
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If a chick doesn’t want to do 50/50, chances are she doesn’t care enough about the relationship. If she is deeply uncomfortable even after a couple of dates about me being a rapist then the relationship is simply not gonna work. I’m not gonna waste my hard earned money on someone who doesn’t trust me or care about me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:21 PM
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PREACH DUDE HEIGHT, DICK SIZE, FRAME, AB GENETICS, FACE, WAIST SIZE God it’s depressing how much shit is based on genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:11 PM
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😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:16 AM
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Ur absolutely right about 1), however it’s still a trend that people tend to overlook… For example being tall is more attractive than being short. I’m not claiming that all women like tall dudes, or that no women likes short dudes, but I’m in a vacuum where there was only height difference, tall dudes are viewed as more attractive, and this fact is instantly overlooked by saying “women aren’t monoliths” Like you said in 3) exception doesn’t make the rule, and often rules are seen as absolutes by…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:31 PM
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Look what they do, not what they say…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:18 PM
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Yes I don’t need someone attractive, I want someone caring
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:46 PM
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Eh, “tall, dark and handsome” is a phrase that has always existed. Women simply prefer tall men because they have a wow factor over an average or tall man. This is amplified by social media I guess, but a lot is amplified by social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:41 PM
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In this economy, fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:35 PM
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Learn to happy and successful while single instead of trying to find happiness and success in finding a spouse, the former is far more worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:11 PM
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The truth is, the only reason it’s brought is because women complain. They can complain. When men complain, they get labelled as whiner, loser, incel cucks that are insecure. That’s why male beauty standards are never brought up. Women will complain about Scarlet Johansson but then look at Chris Hemsworth (who literally has to dehydrate himself to get abs) and fawn over him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:18 AM
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Ok my bad, I understand your point better now. Still, I believe that those women are irrelevant. I want to discuss body shaming publicly so that we raise awareness of it, such as the Noel who talks about men’s mental health. I do agree with you to a certain extent we should stop seeming so desperate infront of women. But at the same time, I know from a logical perspective that some “incels” are disadvantaged, and are frustrated by this and frustrated by people denying it. I’d rather they vent ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:46 PM
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So we aren’t allowed to complain cuz we’re men? Cuz that’s all I’m understanding from this. Women don’t like it when men complain, perpetuates toxic masculinity because being upset snd being mocked as a “whiny man” is another way to say “real men don’t cry”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:43 PM
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“Most people don’t enjoy listening to people complain” Then that’s what you SHOULD do… You want to help? Stop giving useless advice and serve as a venter to the “incels” around you. I don’t care you deny it or not, there is a heavy negative stereotype about men being emotional. This leads to a self-fulfilling prophecy of men staying more silent ES-fucking-SPECIALLY when there are comments like “stop whining lol” Open your empathy for just a goddamn second and UNDERSTAND rather than analyse or ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:14 PM
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Yea, this is why men with insecurities are often mocked for having them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:34 PM
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That’s great to hear. Personally I’ve had a balance of both who don’t mind splitting and those who are offended like I talked trash about her mom or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:47 PM
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Low salary + low appearance = many dates Many dates + paying each date = lots of money spent Lots of money spent + low success each date + realisation that some women just do it to get a free meal = annoyance and bitterness I wouldn’t mind paying for a girl I knew was dating me and not there to use me for a free meal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:59 PM
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THE WORLDEST SMALLEST VIOLIN
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:55 PM
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There is someone for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:39 PM
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Approaching women is a massive gamble from a W to false harassment accusations, that we have to play because women would never approach unattractive men. That or give up on love
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:44 AM
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Blue lock: the value of ego. As a kid who was really boring and believed that being nice was the right choice, I watched blue lock and realised that yea no, I wasn’t choosing the right thing. Though I still believe heroes like Spider-Man are amazing people, I think in reality being humble, selfless and kind will be much less attractive than people who are selfish and ambitious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:42 AM
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So does this alpha male need to be 6 ft+ with a god-like physique?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:34 AM
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I don’t care if she uses it, as long as she realises it’s a hoax phenomenon, then it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:17 AM
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Wait ur telling me I forgot to download the giant height/dick/shoulder update THIS ENTIRE TIME HOLY SHIT.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:15 AM
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Oh nooo I have too many options on Tinder Queue the worlds smallest violin
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:05 AM
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No. People need to accept that humans are shallow enough to reject ugly people over their face no matter how good their personality is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:00 AM
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Men’s issues are mocked and it’s only exponentiated by people like you who make light of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:57 AM
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Height has always mattered and it will still matter. Thing with short and average height is that it’s not “eye-catching”, while being tall is like an exquisite, special thing that has only been amplified using social media and especially Tik Tok https://youtube.com/shorts/_aBnIXVd9bE?feature=share On an unrelated but related note: The fact that this is still up just shows the immense difference between body shaming between men and women. Having a tall boyfriend, you can make these videos and get…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:49 AM
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1) if women can do it, men should be allowed to have a perfect 8 shaped women with anime sized boobs and ass and an actual personality. OR 2) the more people in general crave these unrealistic standards the more people will be disillusioned into believing that these are real standards. If more and more women wanted a 7ft tall man, guess what? Eventually they’d start becoming more wanted and anything under that becomes unwanted
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:04 AM
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Yea well, when statistics, research, reality, and even logic tells you one thing… and then suddenly you’re supposed to believe the complete opposite because “hOw wOuLd yOu KnOw wHaT wOmEn LiKe” it becomes off-putting Example: Is it “tall, dark, and handsome” or “short, dark and handsome” Is it “above 6 ft” or “below 6 ft” I’m not claiming that ALL women like tall men, but I do believe more often than not women like tall men. But now suddenly the minority of that stat comes in all huffy and puffy…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:54 AM
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IT, but men who work in IT are probably not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:43 AM
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Yea… no For the love of God and all that is holy. Please stop downplaying height in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:03 PM
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Yes im aware
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:02 PM
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Yea when my 5’2 ass gets a date I’ll jump on your ship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:59 PM
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Limb lengthening and jawline surgery?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:56 PM
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If this becomes normalised, the standards would simply go up. 6 ft or 5’10 or whatever would become 6’2 or 6’5.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:48 PM
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I could get limb lengthening surgery but unfortunately they’re expensive, risky, shunned by society, and doesn’t actually genetically increase my height. I imagine it’s similar to looks. Yes you can dress nicely and be hygienic but at a certain point you have to realise putting makeup on a trash-can does not change that it’s a trash-can. For example, on this very subreddit there was a study that said getting muscular as a short man does not make them more attractive. There is no point then getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:41 PM
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Also the denial of this obvious bias is the thing that makes it even more frustrating
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:18 PM
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Ofc, but if you’re hideous or short, it can only compensate you so much
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:42 AM
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Bitterness exists at the realisation that life is unfair and being subjected to hatred and humiliation. I don’t really know about the rest of the people on this sub, but I come here to browse and rant about my height so that I can either 1) find a way to get over it/fix it 2) minimise my insecurity irl. What I find is that bitterness starts existing when people start invalidating other peoples experiences. I’ve been rejected many times purely because of my height, and on this sub many people hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:52 AM
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Confidence is the secret weapon that all women claim tall men have that make them attractive, definitely not the height itself /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:05 AM
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Right, yet women still want the 15% of men who are 6 ft
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:38 AM
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I imagine it’s the same as any other undesired trait like being short or ugly. The minority of women don’t care or fetishise it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:29 AM
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Dating apps are a store for women, by taking away their power, less women will come to the platform. That’s how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:27 AM
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It isn’t beyond women to love serial killers so yea, make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:38 PM
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Literally. See any short male models? No probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:20 PM
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From what I read, women see “I personally like short guys, therefore whatever this person must be feeling is invalid” instead of sympathising with em. Even worse is when there is a clear societal-level preference that says tall men are better, we see virtual signallers that say “it’s all in your head”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:15 PM
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Yes. Men with money tend to be preys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:52 PM
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And the majority don’t understand what it means to be short as a guy either
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:02 PM
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My parents were a part of arranged marriage so :P
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 12:59 AM
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