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If the foundation of that role play is based off trauma it’s completely different. People sometimes don’t even know that the trauma from their life has become a fetish. If you don’t see anything wrong with a fetish based off a traumatic experience due to how our society deals with body shaming for men, I don’t even know how to process that. Just because it’s harmless doesn’t mean it’s healthy for the individual. Not all fetishes are healthy or good for you simply because you derive sexual pleasu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:38 AM
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Self-care is productive. Maybe you don’t understand it but if I bottle up my feelings and simple focus on work without talking to people (or ranting on Reddit), I will burn out, which is bad for productivity. That simple. Yes, people on Reddit do take it an extreme, but to say that ranting isn’t productive is a fundamental concept I disagree with. Even worse is shaming people into believing that by complaining they are “whiny” will do more damage to them. I’ve closed off myself from people for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:32 AM
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Or to men’s body positivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:40 AM
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Kk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:15 AM
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Look, let’s say that someone was bullied for having a small dick and used to feel bad. If he drives sexual pleasure now from people making fun of his small dick, what do you think happened? To me it feels like trauma coping and taking advantage of someone’s trauma. It’s like trying to justify the “we happy few” world or some kind of dream world. If he truly enjoys it whatever, but I fuckin doubt he truly enjoys it but his brain has probably figured out a way to enjoy it, which is horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:37 AM
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I’m using “you” generally. Here’s a gold star for not enjoying making fun of people’s insecurities, you are truly a rarity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:33 AM
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Eh physical pain I can understand more than trying to justify internalised trauma because “hE eNjOyS iT” Do you have the same opinion about rape fantasies?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:32 AM
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God you people are psychotic. Just because the brain has brainwashed themselves into liking something doesn’t mean they truly like it. That’s like justifying Stockholm syndrome since the victim ends up enjoying it. How about you stick to body shaming without trying to justify it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:24 AM
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Please tell me you are not saying that making fun of someone’s dick size is fine if they enjoy it. Please
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:20 AM
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1) no one here is trying to change preferences, or if they are, it’s futile. No one wants to be settled for and physical attraction preferences generally don’t change 2) complaining is cathartic. I don’t know why people don’t understand this. Ranting and being listened to makes people feel better and listening to others experiences can help people feel less alone when they are struggling with their own body 3) do not gaslight me into believing that my hatred for my own body is misplaced. I do no…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:17 AM
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You sound like the same person who would say that men shouldn’t have an international day because “eVeRy DaY iS mEnS DaY” Believe it or not we still have issues like how society simply glances over body positivity for men and that has a lot to do with the fact that we, the current age of men are constantly blamed for the patriarchy and considered oppressors. And even though shitty things still happen to women, men as a gender has been tainted to be inherently evil “not all men by always a man” i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 07:41 AM
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Men should fight for themselves. To stop having the world see us as oppressors so that we can finally talk about our problems and struggles without judgement. Every time anything body positivity related is brought up, it’s always turned into a pissing contest saying that women have it worse. Well guess what, the children dying in Gaza have it far worse than entire of us… Men should be proud of being men instead of believing that they are inherent monsters and should push away the fact that they …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:12 AM
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I get no sympathy actually. Every time I hear the same shit of “it’s your personality” (I have never, ever talked about my height irl) or “just be confident” (which is like telling a depressed person to just be happy) or “stop whining” (which is not what you wanna tell men if you want them to be more emotionally receptive). I have yet to have someone actually fully listen to me. But go off. Of course it suddenly becomes another game of pain Olympics. I have no doubt other people go through shit …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:25 PM
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Good for you! Very cute stuff. I still stand by my statement. Being short is a disadvantage, and my body dysmorphia is valid. I don’t need people showing me their SOs and telling me to get over it. It’s like telling a depressed person that another depressed person was able to get over his depression so you should too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:45 PM
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Yes, my apologies, they all do. Nah, I think people who use that are definitely hypocrites otherwise they wouldn’t be using it, and would understand why it’s hurtful and perpetuates toxic masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:42 PM
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There’s a leprechaun joke to be made but idk if it’s racist or not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:38 PM
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You are entitled to your opinion. I’m sure he’s a lucky guy for having a caring wife/girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:29 PM
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January philosopher, I can’t remember her exact user ID. Just wanted to include that to be funny cuz she does bring her husband being short to every height-related discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:07 PM
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It’s ok to reject a man on their height, just don’t tell me that “most women love short men”, and I won’t tell you that “most men love fat chicks”. Both are insincere and just a product of gaslighting. You are allowed to reject people for whatever reason, just don’t pretend that all preferences are equal, they are not. And for the Irish chick who’ll see this, please don’t bother using your husband as your empirical proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:44 PM
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First sentence basically summarizes it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:43 PM
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Women use incel to shut down any argument because it’s a hurtful insult. It’s like Napoleon syndrome, small dick energy, fragile ego, whiny etc. They target characteristics that are deemed attractive such as being tall, larged-dicked, confident and stoic respectfully. The last one even perpetuates toxic masculinity as it indicates that if you aren’t a man if you complain, which encourages men to remain emotionless and not talk about what bothers them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:42 PM
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Almost like men are also effected by body shaming, who would have thought…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:39 PM
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Male thirst and simpry is literally the reason why dating is harder for men. If we had a movement like feminism that encouraged us to live our lives independently from women like feminism did for women, we would be in a far better place and men would not need to try as harder because we would be content living our own lives. The issue I think is that women and society as a whole dont really want to equal the Plainfield
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:38 PM
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Mhm
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:05 PM
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Kk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:42 AM
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Nah, I “whine” online because it’s the only outlet I have. I made sure to not bring up my grades till the end when I was absolutely sure I couldn’t do anything to make them better and felt defeated. Good job victim blaming though. Istg the people of this subreddit are truly something else
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:37 AM
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Sees men as inherently evil: ✅ Yea there’s no point continuing to reason with you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:35 AM
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I’m sure I’ll move on from this eventually, but for now I’m done with dating. All I need is myself, and my friends who listen to me far better than any girl could ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:52 PM
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Read the first line of my response, that’s the answer to my question. Also I’m not really yelling, capitalisation is used for emphasis
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:21 PM
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That’s how I’ve become pretty much. I don’t share shit with anyone anymore. I don’t see it as worth it, and I definitely will never marry anyone who I cannot confide in and says “it’s your problem, go get therapy”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:20 PM
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Well atleast you admitted it. Props to you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:16 PM
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So you’re essentially shaming men who’ve been hurt before by saying that you don’t respect them if they don’t risk themselves out there again? Just because you’re unicorn doesn’t mean that there are many of you out there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:15 PM
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Mhm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:47 PM
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Yea ok misandrist… men are monsters, we got that. Even if I showed you the data, I’m sure you’d deny that shit within a heartbeat, so let’s not waste either of our times. Again, “whiny” doesn’t work on me anymore, especially coming from snarky assholes like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:32 PM
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You think it’s singular? I just mentioned the most recent one I had… I’ve had others with women who weren’t even my girlfriends. Usually I would have called this a generalisation, but I’ve had too many of these occurrences and I don’t care anymore if I’m generalising. But please go off, tell me how I should feel. I’m surprised you even believed my story, I was sure you would have accused me of making it up and being a whiny asshole too… Also you girls have no problem saying “we don’t know who th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:26 PM
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Ah, tell me oh all omniscient being, do you see everything? It does happen, just because you haven’t seen it (or probably refuse to see it), doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. I’ve seen many examples of how the guy may be resting and is equated to “look at the average useless man while the wife is doing everything stoically” There’s no point using the victim blaming card, sweetheart. I don’t expect you to understand it, as long as you keep demonising men, I don’t think you’ll ever see it or underst…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:19 PM
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That’s not what I fuckin meant. Ofc you can do things to help with the process, but you cannot help at all with the pregnancy. It’s like writing an essay vs spell-checking an essay. People will look at you doing your best with other things and still mock you if you say anything about struggling because “you’re not the one pregnant”. Once again you’ve misconstrued what I’m trying to say. Men cannot physically help with the pregnancy part and are constantly mocked for it. You can literally take ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:51 PM
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Your point is dumb because you equated men not being able to listen to each other to male loneliness which is a multifaceted problem that has many causes, and for you to definitively say that because men are bad listeners is presumptuous. Male loneliness is for many reasons some of which is the fact that we simply cannot even talk to people because of anxiety. If we cannot even talk to people because of how social media isolates us, how can we be there for each other. To use an analogy, If we li…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:38 AM
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So until women stop having a victim mentality and realise that men also suffer a lot of the same projections that women do? I guess never then cuz women will never acknowledge that men can be victims of “erotic projections”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:15 AM
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Kk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:02 AM
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Alrighty… I guess we’ll wait till we’re considered human beings and not monsters so that we can start discussing our issues
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:59 AM
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That’s the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard. We cannot listen to each other if we keep believing the lie that society says about how men are not empathetic. And also for us to listen to each other we must be friends with each other or know each other and the anxiety of making friends has probably more to do with male loneliness. It’s astonishing how stupid that take was. You pretty much blamed a complex issue of male loneliness on your shitty take of men being bad at listening. Maybe stop demonisin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:45 AM
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Because looks and money is becoming feast or famine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:35 AM
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Ah yes a question for women, who will definitely be answering honestly and will not be creating a confirmation bias situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:33 AM
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I hate that term so much. “Unpaid therapist”. Is it really a fuckin therapists job to just listen to people? My friends listen to me. I listen to my friends. The subject matter gets deep and depressing sometimes. So what. We’re a brotherhood. We are there for each other. The fact that people expect any emotional support to be done ONLY by therapists is fucking toxic and capitalistic. No one is entitled to be cared about but fucking hell man, I want to care about others! I WANT TO LISTEN TO MY FR…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:30 AM
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Your pain Olympics nerve was twitching huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:28 AM
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I was talking to my girlfriend about how bad my semester has been at the end and how I was failing every exam and feeling demoralising and she called me “whiny”. Suffice it to say, I will not be doing that with any woman ever again
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:27 AM
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Women on tinder literally say that they have too many options, so yea.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:25 AM
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Yea tbh every time a man is mocked for being a useless person during pregnant (DESPITE US LITERALLY NOT BEING ABLE TO DO ANYTHING), I stop wanting to get a wife. I hate feeling useless and if I’m going to be belittled by women despite trying my best to be a supporting husband, I’ll just not have a wife. Cool. It’s ridiculous. Women literally perpetuate more pain olympics than men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:24 AM
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“I’m gonna be racist to every white guy cuz the KKK are racist people”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:21 AM
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Hello again! Hope you’re doing well. I ask how many years will it take before women stop blaming current men for something that was created 3000 years ago? As long as y’all keep blaming men stupidly for the patriarchy, we will keep being seen as oppressors and the important conversations regarding men’s issues will never actually happen because “men can’t be victims”. So sincerely, how many more years are you going to hold this grudge?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:19 AM
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Most empathetic woman to men’s issues
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:16 AM
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Men are far better listeners to men’s issue because the second men talk about anything, women will have a subconscious “men started the patriarchy and are oppressors so I don’t care what this guy has to say” mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:15 AM
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I pray to God you don’t end up with any man. That poor guy is gonna have to fight off so much stereotyping. And if you believe that men who share their emotions are only doing it to manipulate you, I suggest you stay away from dating and work on your own mental health. My prayers stay with you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:14 AM
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ah so you want a guy who is emotionally intelligent, but only for you. This just goes to show that you should only talk about your feelings to your male friends cuz women will do anything to make a guy feel like a monster for trying to talk about how they feel. You deflected OPs claim by saying “aggression” when in reality it won’t change your opinion even if he was passive because y’all just hate seeing men show their emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:11 AM
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Literally. I fucking hate the above argument. This is my significant other, not my friend. We are going to be living together. To say that you’re just “dumping” stuff onto your wife just goes to show that there is NO ONE isn’t the world that men can be open with. I would love my wife to talk to my about ANYTHING and as much of it because… get this… she’s my wife. I want her to feel safe around me, not just “oh I really wanna rant but I’ve already ranted too much to my husband and I’m afraid I’ll…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:07 AM
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I’m so fuckin tired of y’all claiming to be the majority. If you truly believe you are the silent majority, how about you start becoming less silent?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:03 AM
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You can literally see this simply by looking at how men’s insecurity vs women’s insecurity is handled. Men’s insecurity isn’t tolerated and is always responded with “whiny”, “fragile ego”, “entitled”, “loser/victim mentality” “defeatist mentality” despite knowing that no one can be happy all the fucking time. Yet with women it’s “oh no you poor thing, I hope things get better for you” It’s entirely different and probably has to do with how men used to be seen as stoic, emotionless beings. Shows …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:01 AM
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Focus on my career. I’m tired of chasing people who clearly don’t want me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:29 PM
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Women’s movement have larger pushed this narrative that they can be independent and don’t need men (which I agree with), however it hasn’t happened with men. This expectation needs to move towards men to (without being mocked like the MGTOW movement) and soon men will start finding meaning in their own passions over finding this check list expectation to have a chick with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:16 PM
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I’m sure the robots won’t meet women’s expectations any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:12 PM
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As a man yes, as men have to be the ones to appear confident, absent of insecurity, and must be the ones to approach a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:17 PM
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Stay at home husband? Weak dude? Just put the opposite of what you think a traditional man is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:44 PM
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Nah you’re good, it just seemed very bitterly revengy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:30 PM
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That makes more sense, I guess “Forces men to realise what they have been doing” sounds like “eye for an eye”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:27 PM
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Unforgiving? Devils incarnate? Where did I call her the devils incarnate? What are you on about? I’m struggling hard with my own body image issues and to have such a beloved singer say some real horrid shit about men’s body image pretty clearly is what makes me struggle even more. At no fuckin point was I ever thinking about women. If a guy did the same thing, I’d be fuckin pissed at him too. And I don’t care how young she is… she has an audience now and is responsible for what she says
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:25 PM
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I didn’t know what revenge porn then, my bad. What I meant to say was an “eye for an eye” If you truly want to inflict what was inflicted onto you (you being women) you are no better than the patriarchy-loving men in the same way you aren’t better than the villain if you do the same thing they do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:20 PM
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Ah so revenge porn… I’m glad I don’t know you in real life then
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:09 PM
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You were literally defending her by trying to misconstrue her clearly misandrist statement…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:07 PM
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He has said clearly that he is going through a rough time… And no, it wouldn’t, I would emphasize with him and try to help him instead of turning away from him…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:37 PM
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I don’t agree with everything you say, but yea, I do find that (some) women love using “whiny” as a insult cuz it will often shut people up, as they don’t want to be perceived as whiny. This heavily perpetuates toxic masculinity, just by implying that complaining is not something men should do. Even if you don’t MEAN to insinuate that, it is what is often the after effects. It’s funny how people literally will mention this shit online… on an anonymous forum, as if they are forced go engage with …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:22 PM
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Jeez, the dude cannot rant on an anonymous, online platform without you not being able to listen to him non-judgementally? Seriously? And no, I know plenty of people who do not like themselves and have others who like them. I don’t even need to name people. Suicidal people sometimes are depicted as the happiest, even moments before they kill themselves, and have plenty of other people who love them. Maybe consider that, maybe, for one goddamn second, if you (not you in particular but anyone) jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:16 PM
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All I’m hearing is, be happy no matter what because if you’re not happy, you’re gonna put yourself in a self-fulfilling prophecy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:10 PM
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80/20 rule dude. Most men are not hot enough to be approached by a woman, but most women are hot enough to be approached by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:12 PM
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This is what happens when a gender is obsessed with being the victim. If it isn’t the victim in any case, it will desperately try to be
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:10 PM
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Jesus. Look the entire basis of statistics is that it’s an approximation. That’s why there are concepts such as confidence intervals… The entire point of it is to approximate what a larger population thinks. Is it completely right? No, but I would say it tries it’s best to be larger correct, otherwise we wouldn’t be using it. If I say ALL WOMEN LIKE TALL MEN, I can’t say that cuz I can’t use stats to prove that. But if I say MOST WOMEN LIKE TALL MEN, I can say that because I can show evidence of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:08 PM
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This entire thread is just women victim blaming
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:39 PM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/4sYjtJFUY6M?si=7eT9aWOv-87uhulk Yes… I’m sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:59 PM
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Anyone who says “good men” is an instant red flag. Maybe don’t use that terminology.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:57 PM
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What is the worth of a woman? As far as I’m concerned the only reason the opposite sex’s person is worth anything is attraction and an offer of companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:56 PM
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You lost me at AI, and I say this as a computer scientist
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:53 PM
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Then women’s rights are not men’s problem 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:50 PM
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Autistic logic. Not only are you contributing to toxic masculinity, but your logic makes no sense at all and is one of the many double standards that women take advantage if
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:27 PM
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Hilarious stuff… ofc body shaming towards men isn’t a thing so yes, go ahead hypocrite, keeping laughing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:17 PM
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Jeez…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:01 AM
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I’m not interested in this convo anymore. It seems like I aimed my frustrated at the wrong person. I just know women who will say they want a emotional man, but until they become too emotional, then it’s bye-bye. This very much makes me feel that “you can be as emotional as the women tolerates” which annoys me, very much. I’ve unfortunately internalised these beliefs and feel bitter about them, maybe that’s why my responsible was visceral
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:38 PM
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Thanks dude. You don’t need to help me. I just need to world to be more accepting about the height insecurity without using the “it’s personality”, “I’m 6’4” and can’t pull” or “women aren’t a monolith” card everything I lament about a real issue. I swear if people were more understanding I guarantee you the height complain would go down significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:35 PM
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Yes I’m sure the very theoretical scenario I made where two guys are exactly the same in every way except their height managed to happen in real life… There is no point arguing about this if you can’t even acknowledge reality. Why don’t tall guys complain about getting rejected by women? Because tall is a desired trait to women. Not all obviously, which can be seen by your imaginary scenario, however it is still by the majority. But please keep underplaying our struggles just because you can’t s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:22 PM
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Insecurity sucks… that’s all I’m gonna say. I can’t stay bottled up forever and hide the fact that I’m insecure and feel like. I’m sorry. It has to be expressed somehow, and I choose to do it online, in the least damaging way. Maybe consider that it could be a subset or a real life phenomenon which why the insecurity began?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:15 PM
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Dude fuckin seriously, wake the fuck up. The beauty standards of men are pretty fuckin obvious. Height is an undeniably attractive trait, if your spouse could wish you were taller, they would (majority would anyway). Not only that, it’s also linked to masculinity. Will short people get married? Sure. But if a taller dude exists and had everything the short person did, he would be chosen more, most of the time. I could provide ample evidence of this but, again, I’m sure you won’t listen cuz you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:06 PM
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Oh shut up dude. Imagine complaining about people complaining anonymously online.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:59 PM
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Yes, tell me how 6 ft has RANDOMLY become the number that is associated with being tall and desirable, which btw accounts for less than 15% of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:57 PM
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💯 it comes from a place of pure ignorance. Same thing for most women. They don’t understand it, so they mock it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:56 PM
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Ah yes, this anecdotal list you just made up perfectly encapsulates the average standards set up women across the world. Thank you for being the spokesman for all the women on earth. I promise you a taller dude would beat out a shorter dude if they had the exact same remaining characteristics. And it’s definitely not 5 foot + for most women…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:53 PM
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Did I hurt your feelings with truth? My bad 😂. Please continue your existence. I pray that the dude you end up with isn’t emotional vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:49 PM
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This is nuts to me. Outside the anger thing, I can understand that, say that your partner refuses to get therapy for his insecurity because therapy isn’t helping or he has a bad experience. Would you rather he keep it to himself so that you don’t become his “untrained, unqualified therapist” or would you rather just send him to the curb? Maybe I didn’t get your point initially, but there is so much emphasis on women telling me to express themselves but only in the way that women like it… which i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:47 PM
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I didn’t expect a good rebuttal, and I definitely didn’t get one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:41 PM
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Welp from the looks of things I’ll just keep my emotions, feelings and insecurities to myself then. Thank god I’m not looking for a relationship of being human is considered an unattractive trait…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:05 PM
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“Emotional outbursts” cool so, you must be able to control your emotions at all time as a man. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:01 PM
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God fuckin forbid men are allowed to feel their feelings of insecurity eh? Whining is just a toxic masculinity way of saying ranting, which is a healthy behavior. I sincerely hope that the person you end up with doesn’t kill themselves from feeling enclosed and unable to talk about their feelings. It’s amazing how women claim we dont view them as human, when they do the same thing to us. And no, it’s not “there’s a line” feelings are not “there’s a line”. If you are ranting, chances are it’s ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:00 PM
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A trend is a trend. And a logical trend is a logical trend. For example if I were to say that “most dudes would like to date a thin women” I’m sure there are an X% who do not compare or like it. But this biased “men exist who like fat chicks” does not encompass the whole story. If we were to open our eyes, we can easily see than men would like thinner women. This isn’t some kind of weird thought process… it’s backed up by science. Similarly applies to men. On any given day, if you had to choose …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:50 PM
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I think we are literally on the same side lmao. Maybe I thought we were on opposing sides
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:40 PM
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Trying to invalidate someone’s feelings and struggles just because you don’t feel them anymore is insane. Genuinely some guys and girls on this subreddit and abnoxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:53 PM
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I don’t believe in body shaming anyone, cuz body shaming NEVER affects he person it’s aimed at. And I’ve never beard of loose pussy energy, get real. Greta used small dick energy in her post and it got tons of support. It’s not equivalent. Men don’t have the same respect when it comes to body positivity because “men are evil” and “don’t have feelings”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:05 AM
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Heavy virtue signalling. I’ve been over this a million times but the stats don’t show what you say. Short people are seen as attractive DESPITE their height, meaning you are settling
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:55 PM
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People will always deny this. Same with height. One is clearly much better. Try complimenting one and see which one sounds condescending. Having a small dick or being short will always always give you 0 points. Also to most women it’s a way to get back at horrible men by body shaming them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:33 PM
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Idk a lot of tall girls and short girls go for tall men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:07 PM
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I wonder why men are insecure about their height? It’s not like it’s linked to confidence for most people… You act like insecurity is inherently unattractive, when it’s just human. I wonder if your boyfriend ever opened up about his insecurity (hypothetical), if he would be met with reject and disgust from you? Pretty sure we’ve done this dance a million times, but height insecurity is a real thing, and I feel that men should be allowed to feel that instead of shamed and just told to “man up”. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:14 PM
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It isn’t? Women’s standards are high, but I’ve never seen that used as a way to mock women. Pretty sure it’s usually men will have … requirements or women will have … requirements. I’ve seen this used my mainly women who want to make it seem like men are just mindless horny people. Which is more misandrist the more I think about it. So no, if you see it being used against a women, chances are that they’re wrong, but I doubt you would have listened to anyone who would have said that anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:48 PM
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This question is inherently biased as the virtue signaller will speak up to try to make themselves look good whereas the women who actually do use a height filter will not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:02 AM
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More than the women here would admit, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:00 AM
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They get to choose their partners so ofc they’re happy with the situation men are in
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:52 AM
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Yea, not happening till the world accepts that men can be victims of body shaming. So long the terms manlet, short man syndrome, small dick energy and shit that like that are still accepted, we’re going nowhere. And activism won’t work as we’re told to simply “man up” and accept this instead of complaining about it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:56 PM
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You can’t put make up on a trash can and it suddenly not become a trash can. Self improvement has limits, and as a feature as sought after and prominent as height, I can tell you why people feel insecure about it. Grow up. Stop telling people how to feel about their feelings. I’m sure if a girl felt insecure about the sizes of her chest you definitely wouldn’t use the same thing to make her feel better BUT OF COURSE, men can’t be victims or feel insecure so yea… cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:11 PM
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Born with great features (tall, handsome, great ab genetics), ripped, rich, ambitious and confident. You may be a HVM without being born tall or handsome but the tall and handsome dudes will beat you out 9/10
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:24 PM
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No… Women have clowned on me for wearing them… Just like men and makeup, we don’t have that choice Besides if every short dude started wearing that, guess what? Minimum height is now 6’5
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:22 PM
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what… on… earth? Seriously? You think this low of men that you think they won’t help when you’re in need? Believe it or not, we are human beings. Some of us don’t may not help because we fear the consequences, it’s not something in our biology that makes it so we are less likely to help. This is incredibly toxic… I’ve seen women in danger and try to get her away from the aggressor, so yea, I have done it. And will gladly to it to anyone in danger regardless of age or gender. This is only if I kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:52 PM
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Yea well it’s incomparable. Who’s the sex that has to approach the other one more? It’s men. We approach women more, and we are expected to approach women more and pay for the date. No one is speaking in absolutes but women are the choosers in most cases, and the one have to set up to her standards
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:01 AM
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Men get belittled for their trauma dumping so they don’t do it. Women don’t, or generally fight back when being rejected to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:18 PM
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It was implied in your message. Your entire post shows that. You’ve used the words “men can’t say ‘no one cares’” when this shit can also be applied to women, but you specifically wanna target men because we are evil and women can do no wrong. Why didn’t you say “people can’t say…” unless you truly believed that women can’t do it or that you actually do hate men. I’m not interested in wasting my time on this convo, especially with someone who has an internalised hatred for men. I didn’t expect a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:01 AM
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You don’t need to say it, but you’ve implied it very much. I’m really not interested in this battle of semantics convo, you can continue living your life bashing men. Just FYI there are women who also don’t care about others but expect to be cared about but ofc that could never happen right? Like I said, I didn’t expect you to show any kind of care or understanding so I’m not showing that entire
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:57 AM
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Yes yes, you can go ahead and invalidate the way I feel. I didn’t expect anything else from your reply. We all have the exact same experience but clearly us incels are the ones that are evil only. I don’t expect consideration, but I hope that human decency is still a thing. When I’m immediately generalised into being a stereotypical man that will rape given the chance, I stop caring. I give exactly what you show me. And I can understand those that don’t want to give anything anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:47 AM
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My apathy only started growing after I realised that no one cares for men, and that we were constantly villianized to be rapists, murderers etc etc. I’m not gonna be friends with someone who constantly belittles an aspect of who I am, likewise I’m not interesting in engaging with any part of society that simply bashes men. I care about my friends, because they’ve been with me while I was by their side. I care for my family, and I care about people who don’t think about me negatively. I think as …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:28 AM
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Yea I’m sure it does. Good luck to you with your stuff I still feel shit for being short but the only thing I can do is move forward. Thanks for taking the time to listen to me I guess haha
/r/MensRights27/09/23 03:40 PM
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Read the question wrong 😅 I thought it was about if she refused to let you be emotionally vulnerable with them. I’m just going delete my post. Sorry haha It’s not a dealbreaker, but I want to be there for my future wife, and if she doesn’t want to then chances are we won’t have a connection and will be glorified friends. There’s nothing more I want than to make sure my SO feels that she can talk to me about anything but she doesn’t WANT to, then I’d still date the person but we wouldn’t go very …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:32 PM
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dealbreaker. I don’t need that shit in my life, many of my SOs already were like that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:57 AM
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“Too short” Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:06 PM
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I thought it was men’s fault for being gatekeepers. I guess whichever story helps you set up your agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:53 PM
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No… There evidence of the opposite actually… Though I don’t like going through a doomerish mindset, to me, feeling sad about being short just can’t catch a fucking break. You complain about being even once you get labelled an “incel” who is “blaming his height for his problems”. God forbid short men share their feelings. Oh the horror
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:37 PM
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There are a few things that the majority of women would find attractive because of the nature of their trait. Like money or being tall. Yes some people might be fine with someone poor or short, but chances are that it’s because of a different set of traits that they decided outweighed the negatives. Chicks would choose a rich person and a tall person over someone poor or someone short. That’s just common sense. Obligatory exceptions don’t make the rule disclaimer
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:35 PM
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Nah dude it’s her laugh, and I’m tired of people denying it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:45 PM
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With this, I can agree. I will work harder, and I can feel shit about it to, but it doesn’t mean I’m gonna give up Im glad we came to a decent conclusion lol
/r/MensRights24/09/23 12:27 PM
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Firstly my eyes are open. Thank you. I see couples of various sizes…. Doesn’t change anything. Height is still the beauty standard. Doesn’t mean I don’t wanna be tall. Chicks could also easily settle for the height, it’s not good evidence for anything. Good trends show trends which I never see as absolutes, I know exceptions exist, but gives an idea about life Secondly, yes, height is beauty standards and they’re just part of society. I still have the right to feel shit about it, and I don’t exp…
/r/MensRights24/09/23 11:09 AM
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I’m not talking in absolutes… I’m talking in trends as they represent the majority. I’m happy to hear you don’t care about height, but that doesn’t mean that the exception is the rule. I’m not at all saying all women think the same. If I had to say that men like skinny women, am I saying all men? No… I’m saying that it is a trend based on biology, culture, attraction, whatever. I don’t care if you don’t think this, but the beauty standard for men is being tall, and I’m not tall and wish I was. T…
/r/MensRights24/09/23 09:15 AM
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Doooooooownvoooooooote. I don’t deny that it’s not true, buts more than enough when women claim it’s not that many.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:31 PM
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Considering the average STEM major is unattractive to women, yea I’d say this is pretty accurate. What women like is the intelligence that musical or artistic dudes have (there was name for it in psych but I can’t remember)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:30 PM
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Cuz people keep saying that X doesn’t matter when reality shows that it does fucking matter. Height matters, size matters, frame matters, muscle genetics matter. I don’t blame women for liking these things, even if women didn’t I would still want them, but people keep saying “nah dude short, bald, dad bods are good too, you are just being dumb”, invalidating people’s feelings is what makes me upset, and women do that a lot pretending that since it doesn’t matter to them, now suddenly it’s a rule…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:29 PM
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Thank you for your kind words. Know that one day I’ll appreciate it, but for now it feels like irrational hell. Also short girls are great. Makes giving backrides or carrying them way way easier. I do see a lot of short portrayal in media being negative (Lord Farquad, the dude from Austin Powers). It didn’t help that they made 5’8 Miguel into 6’5 or something. That fuckin hurt haha, cuz I loved Spider-Man 2099. I’m not gonna make any claims or try to dismantle anything you’ve said, I just hope t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:44 PM
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I’ve had therapy. Didn’t work. Once therapy is accessible in my college again, I’ll try it again. I’m not blaming women for shit. All I’m trying to say is that it sucks be short, and I don’t need deflections or reflections or any of that kinda stuff with “personality, confidence, charisma” shit. I just want people to know that it sucks, that it’s a disadvantage. Women can’t help what they’re attracted to, and I can’t help that I feel bad for being short. That is all. I don’t think I’m the person…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:16 PM
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Just cuz you know people doesn’t change the beauty standard for men…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:43 PM
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And only women can solve women’s issue. There, now stop complaining about the patriarchy to us
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:32 PM
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Emotional vulnerability is sexy if it benefits the chick. I’ve been told my entire life not to burden others, especially my spouse, and I’ve been told that women will simply leave you if you are an emotional burden. And we all know that not all women are the same therefore there is no way to gauge how tolerant she is so I simply shut up and rant to my friends who I could say anything to. At this point I don’t want to show emotions to anyone except my closest friends cuz they’re the ones that won…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:31 PM
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Idk where this convo is going. I’m not against self improvement, I think it’s very important. I just think this attitude is very much a way for you guys to make men shut up or demean men about their issues because they’re minuscule or “in their heads”. Your vocabulary showed that much. If people reach resentment that’s just another call for them to get help, not just “fix your mindset”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:18 PM
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A mindset shift isn’t easy, and often revolves confronting why you resent things. For one to truly get rid of their resentment, they have to figure it out, not just hide it within and smile and be happy. You’re oversimplifying many many things. Emotions isn’t a choice one feels. You can distract yourself or confront them. I choose to confront them instead of simply being okay with my insecurities and hiding them inside despite not being over them. Either way I don’t think you understand what I f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:11 PM
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Nobody is claiming such a thing. We have our problems. That doesn’t mean women don’t. Moreover, our problems are in a different spectrum to women’s issues. I have a strong hatred for anyone trying to justify shitting on people’s suffering with their “boohoos” just because other people have it worse. That’s a shitty inhumane way of thinking And resentment isn’t a choice, cuz resentment is a feeling. Acting on that resentment as harassment or hate speech is a choice. At the end of the day, this th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:37 AM
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We’ll agree to disagree. Using any subreddit as proof isn’t really viable to your point, but I guess we can only speak in anecdotal evidence so we won’t convince each other. That being said if we were to use this subreddit as proof, I’d say a lot of chicks don’t have sympathy for short men. Simply denying people’s experiences, feelings and opinions is in its own way gaslighting. Ofc men do this too, but while men may insult, I find women more often gaslight. Regardless I don’t think I’ll ever co…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:33 AM
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Life isn’t fair yes, but I’m not gonna pretend to be emotionless about the pain I’m feeling. I’m valid in feeling the shit I do. Also it’s not mutually exclusive. I work out, have been doing good, AND STILL feel shit about my height. Your tone just proves OPs point. Your use of “booboos” just shows that you have no empathy. The struggles people face, even if they seem small to you, and still real. I feel shit cuz of the hand I was given, I know I can’t change it, but I struggle with getting rid …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:08 PM
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The spark can ignite with the right looks. The spark is beyond dead even if the ugly guy is trying to light it with matches
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:40 PM
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Pretty sure most sane men will, it’s just Reddit tends to have more of a certain audience. I’ve never understood that sex frequency thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:35 PM
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I will agree to your first point to a certain extent. That’s not what I see irl though, but what I see is anecdotal. And I’m not even gonna touch on your second point lol. If that’s the case, then where is this monumental sympathy that women have for short men? All I see is women blaming short men for their insecurities like having feelings isn’t allowed. Your own message is apathetic. And my point was that men can relate to each other struggling with height because it is characteristic we are j…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:29 PM
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So something like “No your insecurities are just all in your head, manlet, stop worrying about them, laugh at your height with us”? Well yea, that’s toxic positivity, but it’s also aimed at an insecurity of men, and traditional masculinism, meaning to be tall
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:22 PM
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Pretty sure chicks would start doing counter-protests… In all seriousness though, have a campaign isn’t going to undo the years of mental turmoil of being emotionless that society has done to men, hence the accepting of this message will be hard. It’s also simply not true. Not all men are handsome. Because of that leap in logic, it’s a very patronising message
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:20 PM
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I don’t have high standards but if a women settles for my height or some of my trait, I would feel fucking hurt. I know there will always be someone better than me, but to know that person “settled” for me, like I’m a half decent plate of dinner, I’d rather stay single. I am probably going to stay single knowing that a chick will probably settle for my height
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:18 PM
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It is women bringing short men down. It is men bringing short men down. Believe it or not, being an asshole isn’t gender specific. I just find that men can show more sympathy when it comes to that stuff cuz they’ve related to it. I don’t think women really understand how sad it feels to be a short dude, cuz they aren’t a dude. They can show empathy but not sympathy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:15 PM
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Yea it’s tough man. Keep your chin up, and try to not focus on women. Not until you’re successful enough to have people respect and want you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:46 PM
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Don’t put words into my mouth Jesus. There are genuine rants on their that I feel horrible for and sympathise with, but then there are also horrid generalisations that isn’t a vent, it’s purely to bash… They use their trauma and then fuel it with these men bashing messages. Also manosphere places have been banned for a long time, but FDS is still up. If you claim that Reddit is a male-centered site then guess what? Men banned TRP and the other incel shitholes. They’re kind of behavior isn’t tole…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:52 PM
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Yea she did. Honestly man, I’m pretty young so I don’t have advice for you. It’s really shitty that we have to worry about this stuff. The only thing I could really suggest is keeping your head above water. I understand you may feel that there is no point to since you’re in an ocean, but I think it’s worth trying. Also I think as men, we gotta shift our focus from doing things to attract women, and doing things just for the sake of ourselves, even if it’s not really true. Like I want to become r…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:12 PM
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I was about to say the same thing lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:17 PM
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Yea… I’m not a part of any pill, and I am as optimistic as I can be, but people tend to really deny reality sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:00 PM
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I will hate whoever I want
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:48 AM
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If your short, just be confident and you’ll suddenly be as attractive as tall dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:46 AM
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Who actually unironically says “women will die alone with their cats”? I can tell you, definitely no one whose ever felt truly alone. Cuz I would NEVER wish loneliness on another person, man or woman. Also men’s issues tend to be mocked. If I bring up my height insecurity, I get mocked. If I bring up my loneliness, I’ll have people quoting that shit just to post it into TwoX or TrollX with some funny caption like “haha male loneliness epidemic” Our issues will never be discussed because we are c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:38 AM
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I don’t know, maybe when I go there and all I see is generalisations and how apathetic they are to men’s issues (men who literally have done them no harm, not evil men), I start thinking maybe this is a breeding ground for male bashing and hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:34 AM
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Hmm let’s see what are the most attractive traits in a man: Face (genetic) Height (genetic) Muscle Genetics (genetic) Hair / Bread (genetic) Frame / Shoulder to Hip Ratio (genetic) 6 Dick Size (genetic) You can put makeup, face-wash and shower gel on a trash can, in the end, it is still a trash can. Ugly is ugly, no matter what you do. Yes, being ugly and clean/well groomed is much better and depending on your situation, you may be able to become average, but the traits that make men PHYSICALLY …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:22 AM
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Did you… not look at the tweet? It was reposted on TrollX and they were all making fun of male loneliness.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 11:25 AM
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Shit opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:18 PM
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“Tall dark and handsome” has always been a thing. Most women like tall men even before social media
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:18 PM
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Nah… just nah. I can accept that all women don’t have the same interests. That’s obvious. But if I say that height is an advantage in a man, and shorter men often struggle more than their taller counterparts. That’s just a fact… Height is a beauty standard, and it makes absolutely no sense than something like height won’t affect dating, cuz reality shows otherwise (ie the quote “tall, dark and handsome”) There is a difference between a straight line and a trend line. Trend lines are ABSOLUTELY s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:40 PM
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Yea cuz these countries don’t put that much weight on height. Americans put weight on height
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:23 PM
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If a chick doesn’t want to do 50/50, chances are she doesn’t care enough about the relationship. If she is deeply uncomfortable even after a couple of dates about me being a rapist then the relationship is simply not gonna work. I’m not gonna waste my hard earned money on someone who doesn’t trust me or care about me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:21 PM
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Yea and literally heels to be taller, which is something that MEN want to be, but somehow shoe lifts are demonised among men. It’s honestly ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:13 PM
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Yea and then ppl say “BuT hEiGhT dOeSnT mATteR” I’ve had the same experience
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:11 PM
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Just cuz it applies to you doesn’t mean it applies to everyone. Also “high end photos” are false advertising. They are no different than taking ab photos in perfect lighting. I know when I was young and naive I saw those as real photos. I have no intention of lying like that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:59 PM
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Yea like I said, no sympathy. Alright have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:59 AM
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PREACH DUDE HEIGHT, DICK SIZE, FRAME, AB GENETICS, FACE, WAIST SIZE God it’s depressing how much shit is based on genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:11 PM
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Sympathy will kill you huh? Alright, you do you. Just try to see my perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:53 PM
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It’s a thing. I’ve been rejected solely cuz of my height (not always obviously). No need to be rude, jeez. And it’s not just a meme, sure it is a meme, but it’s based on something that has existed. If women didn’t like tall dudes, then the meme would have been below 6ft. Even if you don’t think is…. “Tall, dark and handsome” is a phrase, not “short, dark and handsome”. Tallness is a beauty standard for men, even if you wanna deflect by being a douchebag
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:08 PM
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At least someone admitted that women find tall men attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:41 PM
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So I assume that this tinder meme of “6 ft up” came from thin air right? Even if you say “OLD IS DIFFERENT” doesn’t change from the fact that women find height attractive. That’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:35 PM
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Because men have many things about them… still doesn’t change the fact that if we have clones of the same person, the shorter dude would be less attractive to most women. That’s the point. You’re compensating. Short men have a disadvantage, they’re not unlovable, you need to put more effort in. People on Reddit in general and denying this disadvantage
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:32 PM
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Yea cuz men are the ones on Tinder going “no manlets, only 6 ft+)”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:31 PM
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Exception isn’t the rule A dude can like a fat chick, doesn’t mean that most women find fat chicks attractive. Also doesn’t mean that no man on earth likes fat chicks. It’s no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:30 PM
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Can you go tell this to the women that deny heightism please?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:29 PM
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HAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:23 PM
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Women don’t care so long as they have a tall man, the dude could be a serial killer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:56 PM
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😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:16 AM
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Become rich and go sleep, the worlds issues are my issues
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:32 PM
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Ur absolutely right about 1), however it’s still a trend that people tend to overlook… For example being tall is more attractive than being short. I’m not claiming that all women like tall dudes, or that no women likes short dudes, but I’m in a vacuum where there was only height difference, tall dudes are viewed as more attractive, and this fact is instantly overlooked by saying “women aren’t monoliths” Like you said in 3) exception doesn’t make the rule, and often rules are seen as absolutes by…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:31 PM
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Look what they do, not what they say…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:18 PM
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What on earth is such a good take doing on this subreddit the hell
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:48 PM
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Yes I don’t need someone attractive, I want someone caring
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:46 PM
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Eh, “tall, dark and handsome” is a phrase that has always existed. Women simply prefer tall men because they have a wow factor over an average or tall man. This is amplified by social media I guess, but a lot is amplified by social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:41 PM
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Man this is what happened to the FDS refugees eh? My condolences in losing your city, Ms. 111
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:39 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:38 PM
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In this economy, fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:35 PM
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Learn to happy and successful while single instead of trying to find happiness and success in finding a spouse, the former is far more worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:11 PM
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The truth is, the only reason it’s brought is because women complain. They can complain. When men complain, they get labelled as whiner, loser, incel cucks that are insecure. That’s why male beauty standards are never brought up. Women will complain about Scarlet Johansson but then look at Chris Hemsworth (who literally has to dehydrate himself to get abs) and fawn over him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:18 AM
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Ok my bad, I understand your point better now. Still, I believe that those women are irrelevant. I want to discuss body shaming publicly so that we raise awareness of it, such as the Noel who talks about men’s mental health. I do agree with you to a certain extent we should stop seeming so desperate infront of women. But at the same time, I know from a logical perspective that some “incels” are disadvantaged, and are frustrated by this and frustrated by people denying it. I’d rather they vent ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:46 PM
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Lamenting in public WILL LEAD TO CHANGE. IT WILL LEAD TO ACKNOWLEDGEMENT. WHY DO WE NEED TO SHOW MEN RANTING AND SHOWING EMOTIONS IN FUCKING PRIVATE?? It’s entirely possible I’m not understanding you (which is my fault not yours) but I really don’t care if women see me as an incel in pubic. Body shaming and gaslighting short men is an issue that exists and I’m not simply going to stand down and talk to my friends about it privately. Im tired of people denying this disadvantaged nature of being s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:41 PM
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So we aren’t allowed to complain cuz we’re men? Cuz that’s all I’m understanding from this. Women don’t like it when men complain, perpetuates toxic masculinity because being upset snd being mocked as a “whiny man” is another way to say “real men don’t cry”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:43 PM
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“Most people don’t enjoy listening to people complain” Then that’s what you SHOULD do… You want to help? Stop giving useless advice and serve as a venter to the “incels” around you. I don’t care you deny it or not, there is a heavy negative stereotype about men being emotional. This leads to a self-fulfilling prophecy of men staying more silent ES-fucking-SPECIALLY when there are comments like “stop whining lol” Open your empathy for just a goddamn second and UNDERSTAND rather than analyse or ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:14 PM
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Yea, this is why men with insecurities are often mocked for having them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:34 PM
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That’s great to hear. Personally I’ve had a balance of both who don’t mind splitting and those who are offended like I talked trash about her mom or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:47 PM
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Low salary + low appearance = many dates Many dates + paying each date = lots of money spent Lots of money spent + low success each date + realisation that some women just do it to get a free meal = annoyance and bitterness I wouldn’t mind paying for a girl I knew was dating me and not there to use me for a free meal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:59 PM
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THE WORLDEST SMALLEST VIOLIN
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:55 PM
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Ofc but there ARE general trends you can see if you choose to be open minded. I use “tall, dark and handsome” as an example often because it shows the ideal beauty standard for men. No one can deny in women that those who are thinner are GENERALLY more appealing to men. The point is that these trends are often ignored by women in the weak rebuttal of “women are not a monolith”. It’s a false rebuttal cuz we aren’t claiming that it is… There will be women that like short men… there will be men tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:29 PM
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There is someone for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:39 PM
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Low-key I’ve talked to chatgpt about my issues and insecurities so much it’s so sad yet relieving. Maybe AI isn’t so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:46 AM
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Approaching women is a massive gamble from a W to false harassment accusations, that we have to play because women would never approach unattractive men. That or give up on love
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:44 AM
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Blue lock: the value of ego. As a kid who was really boring and believed that being nice was the right choice, I watched blue lock and realised that yea no, I wasn’t choosing the right thing. Though I still believe heroes like Spider-Man are amazing people, I think in reality being humble, selfless and kind will be much less attractive than people who are selfish and ambitious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:42 AM
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No thanks, I’m actually proud to be a dude. I resonant with a lot of badass stuff that men do in anime/shows and want their physique. Also this is really downplaying the struggles of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:37 AM
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So does this alpha male need to be 6 ft+ with a god-like physique?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:34 AM
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Dude, it’s a discussion subreddit. We discuss? More importantly, we’re anonymously online. I’m often hyperbolic in my comments because of that fact… Bitterness is an emotion. If you believe men are allowed to have emotions then you need to acknowledge tis
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:18 AM
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I don’t care if she uses it, as long as she realises it’s a hoax phenomenon, then it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:17 AM
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Wait ur telling me I forgot to download the giant height/dick/shoulder update THIS ENTIRE TIME HOLY SHIT.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:15 AM
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People don’t like quoting that one 80/20 study because it’s online dating, however it still holds a point which is that women really don’t find men attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:12 AM
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Oh nooo I have too many options on Tinder Queue the worlds smallest violin
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:05 AM
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No. People need to accept that humans are shallow enough to reject ugly people over their face no matter how good their personality is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:00 AM
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Men’s issues are mocked and it’s only exponentiated by people like you who make light of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:57 AM
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Height has always mattered and it will still matter. Thing with short and average height is that it’s not “eye-catching”, while being tall is like an exquisite, special thing that has only been amplified using social media and especially Tik Tok https://youtube.com/shorts/_aBnIXVd9bE?feature=share On an unrelated but related note: The fact that this is still up just shows the immense difference between body shaming between men and women. Having a tall boyfriend, you can make these videos and get…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:49 AM
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1) if women can do it, men should be allowed to have a perfect 8 shaped women with anime sized boobs and ass and an actual personality. OR 2) the more people in general crave these unrealistic standards the more people will be disillusioned into believing that these are real standards. If more and more women wanted a 7ft tall man, guess what? Eventually they’d start becoming more wanted and anything under that becomes unwanted
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:04 AM
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Yea well, when statistics, research, reality, and even logic tells you one thing… and then suddenly you’re supposed to believe the complete opposite because “hOw wOuLd yOu KnOw wHaT wOmEn LiKe” it becomes off-putting Example: Is it “tall, dark, and handsome” or “short, dark and handsome” Is it “above 6 ft” or “below 6 ft” I’m not claiming that ALL women like tall men, but I do believe more often than not women like tall men. But now suddenly the minority of that stat comes in all huffy and puffy…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:54 AM
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IT, but men who work in IT are probably not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:43 AM
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I’d give you an award if I can. This is really the kind of empathy I’ve seen missing in a lot posts regarding height from women. I’m sorry about you struggling with your body image. As you could probably imagine, yea, I can definitely relate to that in a certain way. And for sure that male privilege thing. I mean there are literally studies people tend to deny just to make themselves feel that they deserved their victory, it’s really frustrating. The main issue I’ve seen is just a lack of empath…
/r/MensRights15/08/23 10:06 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensLib/comments/6fiod9/why_do_we_love_tall_men/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1 It’s true
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 08:59 PM
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Well I guess then we’re in agreement :) Thank you for showing sympathy to our issues. I apologize if I came off as aggressive. I’ve just seen this issue dismissed and labelled as an “incel” issue.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 02:27 PM
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Yea I agree the hatred part is an exaggeration. But I would argue that the greater population of women would not want to date a short dude. So the wording is off, it’s more like they would not prefer a short dude. Which is still a frustrating thing. I agree some short dudes may have bad personalities. Cuz they are indeed human. But the point is people will often shrug off the truth and just blame personality. Sometimes it’s literally that they are too short, and personality is used as a scapegoa…
/r/MensRights14/08/23 12:29 PM
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It’s a fact that shorter men at less attractive to the majority of women. Why the hell are you going trying to lie about this? If you like shorter men, CONGRATS, you are the unicorn. You wanna know an ideal man? LOOK AT CHRIS HEMSWORTH OR HENRY CAVILL these men are attractive and height is 200% adding on to it. Being short is a fucking disadvantage
/r/MensRights13/08/23 10:12 PM
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Majority of women would never date a short man, is probably want he meant by “hate”. And yes, the above is true. If you date shorter men you are the outlier
/r/MensRights13/08/23 10:09 PM
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Yes. Tall men are considered more attractive. Bottom fucking line. Women settle for short men
/r/MensRights13/08/23 10:09 PM
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I swear each thread of absolute gaslighting on this post just makes me feel more miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:24 PM
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Whatever dude.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 05:49 PM
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First off I’m sorry of the shit you had to go through, sounds really rough. But seriously, it’s not a binary thing. Just because you complaining about this injustice doesn’t mean you’re gonna sit all day inside and fucking complain. It’s not binary at all. I’m going to the gym and trying to improve myself but some days the weight just falls on me and I have this urge to rant. To fucking vent. To talk to someone. You can control your emotions. Good for you. I wish I could stop crying when I felt …
/r/MensRights13/08/23 05:26 PM
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And women wonder why insecurities get made
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:06 PM
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Yea… no For the love of God and all that is holy. Please stop downplaying height in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:03 PM
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“Just man up. Stop being emotional” Yea okay…
/r/MensRights13/08/23 03:23 PM
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OH WELL THEN SHORT GIRLS MUST REALLY LOVE ME THEN /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:12 AM
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“Just compensate for being short by having other good qualities like charisma” So I imagine you would admit that being short is a negative trait?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:47 AM
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Yea sorry, my comment was a bit aggressive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:01 AM
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You forgot short. Women would never swoon over a short man like they would someone taller
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:42 PM
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Women would NEVER swoon over a short dude like they would a tall dude of equal handsome-ness. I don’t even know what’s the point of denying this. I’m a dude and even I find shortness in myself unattractive. I look like a gnome, or a hairy child
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:39 PM
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So in other words, you can rant as long as it’s not what you truly feel, and only what the woman allows you to feel. /s If I ever get a girlfriend, and she wants to rant to her hearts content, I’d happily listen because I know at the end she’ll feel better. What you’re saying is that men should only rant based on how the woman wants…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:32 PM
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Horseshit. My friends have never judged me for it. Our brotherhood gets strengthened whenever we talk to each other about our insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:30 PM
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Fuck this thread. I’m gonna go watch blue lock
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:26 PM
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Yes im aware
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:02 PM
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Yea when my 5’2 ass gets a date I’ll jump on your ship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:59 PM
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Limb lengthening and jawline surgery?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:56 PM
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If this becomes normalised, the standards would simply go up. 6 ft or 5’10 or whatever would become 6’2 or 6’5.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:48 PM
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I could get limb lengthening surgery but unfortunately they’re expensive, risky, shunned by society, and doesn’t actually genetically increase my height. I imagine it’s similar to looks. Yes you can dress nicely and be hygienic but at a certain point you have to realise putting makeup on a trash-can does not change that it’s a trash-can. For example, on this very subreddit there was a study that said getting muscular as a short man does not make them more attractive. There is no point then getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:41 PM
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If you’re ugly, You’re ugly. If you’re short, you’re short. If you have money, are ugly and short, then women are not attracted to you, but your money. She is attracted to your car, not to you. She is attracted to your status, not to you. I’d rather be alone than be with someone who’d abandon me if I lost all my money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:39 AM
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It goes into the thing of “women want me because of my money”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:37 AM
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Cuz most men find women attractive enough to compliment, but the opposite isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:34 PM
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Also the denial of this obvious bias is the thing that makes it even more frustrating
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:18 PM
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0.5%
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 11:42 AM
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Height Height Height Face Hygiene Sense of Style Haircut Grooming (beard, hair, nails) Skincare
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:22 AM
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Ofc, but if you’re hideous or short, it can only compensate you so much
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:42 AM
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Height and dick size is surgery Charisma is practice and research Power and status is becoming a man who is in charge of something, whether that’s a business or a high position in a job or field. If you’re short tho, it’s basically impossible to get to a decent status because taller people will be looked to for leadership skills
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:38 AM
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Tall, rich, handsome, high social status, tall
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:57 AM
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If it was normalised then yea, it’s no different to wearing makeup for women. However men are generally not allowed to do that kind of stuff. Makeup isn’t normalised for us, neither are height extenders, we’re supposed to be good looking naturally. If most men start wearing extenders then I imagine women will go from 6’ requirements to 6’4 to negate the effects since it’s not the men’s real height. Most women still look pretty without make-up, but being shorter eliminates attraction for men from…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:55 AM
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Bitterness exists at the realisation that life is unfair and being subjected to hatred and humiliation. I don’t really know about the rest of the people on this sub, but I come here to browse and rant about my height so that I can either 1) find a way to get over it/fix it 2) minimise my insecurity irl. What I find is that bitterness starts existing when people start invalidating other peoples experiences. I’ve been rejected many times purely because of my height, and on this sub many people hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:52 AM
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Short
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:06 AM
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Confidence is the secret weapon that all women claim tall men have that make them attractive, definitely not the height itself /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:05 AM
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It’s called a trend man… There are outliers on some trend lines yes, but it doesn’t make it any less of a trend line… There are some things that don’t have trends And some things that do. Height for example is an obvious trend of “women like tall guys” Now do women exist that like short dudes? Sure, there are people with 1 arm, but they are OUTLIERS. For knowledge, data gathering and trends is an important way for connection and discovery
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:01 AM
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It’s a million times easier to feel confident when you are the height that women and society deem attractive, I can tell you that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:51 AM
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Art imitates life, and then life imitates art. I’m just going to stay single than be settled for. Screw this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:47 AM
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God i fucking hate being short
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:44 AM
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Right, yet women still want the 15% of men who are 6 ft
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:38 AM
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Height, dick size, face as well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:37 AM
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I imagine it’s the same as any other undesired trait like being short or ugly. The minority of women don’t care or fetishise it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:29 AM
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Dating apps are a store for women, by taking away their power, less women will come to the platform. That’s how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:27 AM
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No… https://www.reddit.com/r/science/comments/1aqd2y/women_want_taller_men_more_than_men_want_shorter/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1 It matters to Europeans (dutch people) too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:20 AM
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It isn’t beyond women to love serial killers so yea, make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:38 PM
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“I like tall men” “Yes, and water is wet”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:28 PM
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It’s a virtue signalling move or a way to make life look better then it is. Looks matter and will always matter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:16 PM
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Thank you for your nice words :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:07 PM
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Tall women want tall men, short women want tall men. They have to settle for average sized men, since only 15% of men are tall. From my experience, short men usually make it work somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:44 PM
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Young tall men are killing it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:40 PM
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Please say it louder. Women love tall dudes, blatant fact
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:34 PM
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The vast majority of women like taller dudes. The issue is the exceptions thinking that they are a rule. LOOK AROUND YOU, male models are tall. Do you see short men as models? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:26 PM
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Literally. See any short male models? No probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:20 PM
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Most women like tall men so I assume it’s pretty important
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:17 PM
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From what I read, women see “I personally like short guys, therefore whatever this person must be feeling is invalid” instead of sympathising with em. Even worse is when there is a clear societal-level preference that says tall men are better, we see virtual signallers that say “it’s all in your head”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:15 PM
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I want women to like me. I want to like women. But the truth is that the world is unfair. Tall men will always be more advantageous and more loved by women. This realisation stings. What stings more is that people deny this (hence the gaslighting) . You are the EXCEPTION not the RULE. This just causes me to see no point in continuing. There is a giant gap of sympathy when it comes to people with less desired traits, and this leads to bitterness, gaslighting, and then even more bitterness. Look b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:09 PM
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Literally this. People always deflect the blatant truth which is that women just don’t find short men attractive and blame it on their “personality” when women say stuff like “I would date you if you were taller” It’s incredibly frustrating. Not the fact itself, but the fact that people deny this bias
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:42 PM
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Short men are “compensating” for their height, so yea I agree with your premise OP
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:24 PM
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Women do find tall men attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:23 PM
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Yes. Men with money tend to be preys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:52 PM
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Yea… right…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:29 AM
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A, easy We all know that the Silicon Valleyers as a 5’5 Indian dude with great paying jobs are definitely no panty droppers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:26 AM
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Men can’t do that, only women can
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:06 PM
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Horse shit. The women on here underplay it cuz they can’t sympathise with it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:01 PM
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And the majority don’t understand what it means to be short as a guy either
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:02 PM
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Women on Reddit grossly downplay the affect of height in a relationship in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:16 AM
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Being short will always be unattractive to MOST women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:14 AM
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My parents were a part of arranged marriage so :P
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 12:59 AM
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Sounds about right :(
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 12:53 AM
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JUST BE CONFIDENT BRO! IGNORE ALL YOUR INSECURITIES AND THE WALL OF PROOF STACKED AGAINST YOU!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:43 PM
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0%?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:51 PM
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