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The Texas family code you posted as your definition of abuse does not include any kind of emotional abuse as abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:06 PM
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You've made many very interesting points here. About your question of when it would become abusive, I'd say it would need to be determined based on the impact it has on the person being nagged. Like a kid can develop issues with self esteem, ambition, etc. that can severely harm their life that stems from a parent that is constantly finding fault in the child throughout their life. Certainly being annoyed wouldn't count as real abuse, but it's like how water erodes a rock wall. Over a very long …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:59 PM
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Ok but did you read your definition of nagging? It's different than just asking someone to do something, you seem to ignore the persistent fault-finding aspect and nagging is usually accompanied with yelling and berating of the person being nagged as well. It's not just "honey, can you please pick this up?" and I feel like you should know that and are just not being honest. But it is interesting that you don't think emotional abuse is a thing that exists at all. I certainly disagree with that bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:49 PM
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But then if socks on the floor aren't a big deal why would you feel the need to nag him about it so much? You're acting like it's a big deal then saying it's not a big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:45 PM
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Or incestuous relations with her father
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:11 AM
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Women don't want to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:11 AM
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So you want to be a prostitute? A commodity to be bought and sold on the market to the highest bidder?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:10 AM
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But she said there's no difference between the emotions in her romantic relationships and that with her father. How is that based in truth for anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:09 AM
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For real, they must be best friends with the mods or something because Lilith is constantly breaking the rules and never seems to be punished for it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:08 AM
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Cool, will you start to be the change you want to see in the world? Will you spend time on this subreddit spreading this message that men are good decent people who's value is not determined by sexual success?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:08 AM
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Oh damn, I didn't realize Mohammed Bin Salman was posting on reddit. How's your sexually segregated society going?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:06 AM
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Who is saying you can't? People are just saying platonic and romantic relationships are different. Do you not understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:05 AM
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Ok now I'm curious then. What would you do as a man to find a woman to have sex with within a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:40 PM
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Well I don't think I said it was a majority of women settling like this. But when the common line from these women is something like "the asshole fuckboys I chased when I was young and having fun were just for casual sex because they were hot. But now I want the husband material guy for stability" it does imply, if not directly state, that they are done having fun and are settling for a guy they don't think is hot since he never got the chance to have his own hoe phase. I'm sure you can understa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:00 PM
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Well if your partner doesn't care about what you say then yeah you should just break up with them. I swear some of y'all just want to be miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:48 PM
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Because people didn't believe these hysterical lies, hell Kamala didn't believe it if you watch her concession speech. Trump was already president and none of that happened, it's not gonna happen now either. People understand it's just hysterical liberals giving themselves anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:46 PM
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So no I didn't say that and you replied to something nobody said. Glad we understand this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:33 PM
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Yes did you read the very next sentence? > The girl at the bar wearing the 2Pac shirt isn't trying to hear all that though, she bought the shirt at target cause she thought it looked cool, the only song she knows is California Love. That's the definition of a poser
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:17 AM
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> You just said no one has ever tried to kidnap you, so I went with that, not an assumption Well when you say nobody has tried to victimize me then you are making an assumption. Just it's not kidnapping doesn't mean it's not violence > I'm not saying I'm not gunna learn how to defend myself, and I'm definitely not encouraging people to not learn self defense That's good, I sincerely hope you can join a decent mma gym. This training is the only thing that can really keep you safe if you are in da…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:15 AM
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Did I say they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:10 AM
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I didn't ignore it, I disagreed with it. Also when you say it's "like pursuit" that's you saying it's not pursuit. Disagreeing with your definition of pursuit doesn't mean I'm ignoring it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:10 AM
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Nah it's adult women in liberal larger towns and cities. This is from interaction in real life, believe it or not. I'm willing to accept that these women are just stupid people, and after all a lot of people are stupid. But this is stuff I've picked up from interacting with women irl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:26 AM
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I just told you that some women have asked me out, and more than that have flirted with me. So I don’t need to “ask women” when I’ve experienced it myself. And I just told you that no woman has ever asked me out and the vast majority of women say they will never ask a man out. I've experienced this myself, why don't you listen to me the way you demand I listen to you? I am pretty sure that most women have flirted with a man before, contrasted with them standing in a corner or hanging out with fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:55 PM
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A kickflip is actually pretty difficult to learn, the most basic trick is an ollie
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:52 PM
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Knowing more songs than just the most popular Tupac song is hyperfixation in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:52 PM
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Did he say the word "most" or did he say "more women" (implying that more women don't need to work than men)?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:51 PM
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He didn't say we should use and discard women, he's saying we should not have long term expectations in dating. And he's right. Especially if you're using dating apps women are very much not interested in long term dating with most men they go out with. The most common experience with dating apps is going on up to a few dates, hooking up and then going back to the apps to repeat the process. A man who wants to actually seriously date a woman through dating apps is going be seriously hurt time an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:50 PM
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But the vast majority of women do not ask men out, never will ask a man out, and are very open about this fact. Why don't you listen to women dude? A woman actually pursuing a man is so rare that it practically is not an option for the vast majority of men. We shouldn't advise men based on the world we want to exist, we need to advise men based on the world that does exist. Personally I've never once had any woman ever ask me out on a date and at this point it's clear that it never will happen. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:43 PM
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Why do you think those are the only two possible actions women can take? In general women who are interested in a man are receptive to his flirtation, advances, pursuit, etc. It's wildly different from ignoring all men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:25 PM
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> No hate here, just fear Fear and hatred go hand in hand. Genocides have been caused by fear and I'd say mass murder is pretty hateful. > Its rational to pick a bear over a man, but irrational to be afraid of every man you interact with These are two contradictory statements and I hope you're smart enough to understand this. If you're picking a bear over any man then you should be afraid of every man you interact with. How could you possibly not be afraid of every man? I would be terrified if a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:26 PM
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Who is blaming victims? You're the one saying men are more dangerous than bears. If there was a grizzly at your door you would just walk out and shake it's hand? Really? > You need to make it a safer place so men aren't dangerous. Oh you're right, why didn't I just become Batman and patrol the city looking for shitty men to beat the shit out of? Wow that totally justifies you treating me as some subhuman savage who can't control himself and is less human than a fucking bear. But go ahead lady, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:17 PM
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You are hating men if you say we are more dangerous, less predictable, and overall less human than a bear. This is the same kind of stereotype that justified the genocide of my Native American ancestors and you perpetuating this exact kind of hate would make your ancestors weep if they could see you. Using the same logic as their killers and rapists is disgusting, do better. There's a reason we don't live with bears and we live with men. Stop being ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:15 PM
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So why do you assume every encounter with a man is an attack?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:14 PM
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I've had multiple paranoid schizophrenics try to kill me, you don't know my life don't act like you do. The simple fact is violent people exist in this world and always will. When it's just you and a violent attacker who else is gonna save you? You gonna just let them kill you because you "shouldn't" need to learn how to protect yourself and should always rely on others? Nobody ever saved me so I learned how to fight and now I don't need someone to come save me. You can do the same. Or don't and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:13 PM
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A man who is more violent and less human than a bear is absolutely the horror movie version of a man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:10 PM
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Well I guess we disagree then. Because pursuit to me is making things happen rather than leaving yourself open for other people to make things happen
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:09 PM
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I think you need to rewatch that video bro. Yes on the internet they all can be trolls. Most comments on public forums and posts are trolls. I feel like spending any time on reddit should show you this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:09 PM
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That is not pursuit and you know it dude, stop being disingenuous. Pursuit would be giving him her contact info and asking him on a date
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:25 PM
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Because the other trolls found it and agreed with it. Dude come on, do you have any critical thinking skills? This is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:24 PM
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But the vast majority of women here openly say that they will never approach a man at any point. Plus I'm not talking about the internet dude. Go outside and actually talk to women irl they will tell what they've always told me too. They do not pursue men, they want to be pursued. Sorry to burst your bubble but gender roles do exist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:12 PM
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No they don't do that actually. Talk to women and they'll tell you themselves. They'll have a million reasons why they can't pursue men they like and instead wait for him to do it. Seriously talk to women, I'm not making any of this up and it all comes from talking and listening to women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:05 PM
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Does this please you my queen? https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1h3gyyi/comment/m02gigw/ https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1h3gyyi/comment/m02ge8f/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:56 PM
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Speak for yourself buddy. Some of us are actually heterosexual men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:55 PM
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Damn bro, you'd rather fuck a tree than a human and you think that's something to brag about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:54 PM
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Ok now I'll go start an argument with this guy to defend your honor and please you my queen!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:54 PM
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Funny that you can't show me one example of a man doing what you claim we all do. Seems like you're just to rage and abuse people, like I said before
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:48 PM
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Yes there is more anonymity and less consequences on the internet. So people lie and say ridiculous things for entertainment. Have you seriously never heard of the concept of trolling on the internet? Here man you need to watch this it helped me in the past and it should help you too: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iHrZRJR4igQ&t=4s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:46 PM
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Lady just read some of my comments, how can you put all this effort into this comment and just refuse to read any of the comments on my public reddit profile? How about this, link me a comment of a man saying that ONLY fit, busty women with doll faces and an hourglass shape in their teens and early 20s are attractive and I'll be your personal champion of justice and start an argument with him. I have never seen that posted even one time by a man on this subreddit so how can I do what you command…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:41 PM
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Dog come on people are doing that constantly. That's how rage bait is successful But if you think people are more honest online than irl then you are completely lost and need to log off the internet. I'm a bit older than you and I was raised to understand that people lie on the internet all the time. I could say I'm the king of england on the internet. Nothing is stopping me but does that make it true just because I said it anonymously on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:39 PM
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No men will call average women average. Sorry if you think simply not being fat is too much but that's what guys are talking about when they say someone is average. I should know, I'm a man and you're not. I know better than you about what men tend to do and think
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:11 PM
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Dude I'm gonna be honest, do you practice your critical thinking skills? Because it seems like you don't or you're just really young. Rage bait is successful when one side agrees with it and the other doesn't so they start arguing in the comments racking up views and engagement on the shorts. It is also successful, although less, when only one of those groups finds it and interacts anyway. Plus these platforms are pushing the controversial comments to the top not the most upvoted ones, and the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:10 PM
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Yeah the death of even the most basic media literacy and critical thinking skills is the cause of so many problems in society and which get talked about here. If people could actually read we wouldn't have half the arguments here lol > Sadly I think there are definitely people on this sub and beyond who would unironically believe that every single person they asked said gave the same answer and society is conspiring against men with that name Oh for real, but when did this change? I'm a millenni…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:06 PM
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Hey look here, it's me disagreeing with a man https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1h49m7v/comment/m02685l/ And again if you actually read any of my past comments you would have seen many many cases of me doing this in the past. You just didn't look because you're a dishonest person just looking for targets to rage at and abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:03 PM
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> They are, though. Isn't testosterone almost literally the hormone of initiative? I have no idea how we would actually test this specific to know either way. But it doesn't matter since women have testosterone too. Why do you think culture has absolutely no impact on people's actions? > But despite all that, they still don't generally make the first move. They expect to be bought food. They're a minority on dating apps, and so on. These things suggest that it's not the culture, cause they're ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:01 PM
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But women don't pursue the men they want. You should try talking to women about this they are very open about it. How do you think I came to this conclusion in the first place? Why do you think culture has no impact on people's actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:58 PM
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Weird, I've never seen a man deny that he wants an attractive woman. What I have seen is men say that an average woman is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:57 PM
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Ok, what is stopping these women from lying in order to go viral and get some clout? How do you know it's not rage bait?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:56 PM
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The ick is about losing sexual attraction to a man. How is it not sexualized by definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:33 AM
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Sure but icks have existed before tik tok was a thing and it was always used to describe very minor things that make a woman lose attraction. Back when I was in college I heard girls irl talk about icks pretty frequently and that was like 10 years ago at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:30 AM
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Maybe, but remember these videos are edited to only show the most extreme and entertaining responses. They aren't gonna show the the 100 women who were incredibly reasonable about having any icks. They'll show the 3 women with ridiculous icks. Don't treat every random video on the internet as the gospel truth. Plus people lie for fun all the time, especially on the internet or if it's entertaining in some way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:29 AM
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You definitely didn't read even half my comments if you think I've never disagreed with a man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:25 AM
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Then you didn't look at my comments. Just keep on proving my point for me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:57 PM
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Yep and you're too lazy to look at my comments that are publicly available on my profile for everyone to see. Many comments of me doing exactly what you say I don't do. But you're too lazy to do the bare minimum and just look. Like I said you're just here to rage and abuse people. What a fucking joke
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:47 PM
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I guess Kayleigh since she doesn't have fucking HIV lol. But Kayleigh is still far from what I want and she wouldn't want me since I'll never be a doctor or lawyer and I will not be with a woman who wants to be a stay at home mom. Without the HIV I'd go with Ruby
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:46 PM
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No I won't link you any examples, you are not an honest person. No matter what I link it won't be good enough for you, you will find something to rage at me over just like the abusive person you are. > Speaking of strawmen, I never asked you to do any such thing. Yeah sure you didn't, that's totally why you used me not replying to every man underneath your comment as some kind of attack against me. Listen lady if you just someone to rage at go somewhere else. I'm not here for that. I told you I …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:43 PM
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Yeah the constant insults, disrespect, and emotional reactions from you in this thread clearly shows you're lying about being so unbothered by an internet stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:35 PM
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I think replaying mass effect could be a good thing to do. I have old games I go back to when I'm looking for something to play and chill out. It's definitely good to have those kind of activities at the ready. I still go back to shit like Skyrim and Fallout New Vegas to this day and I bought them at release over 10 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:35 PM
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Not ego death, just what I mean which is finding your purpose in life. What fulfills you? What brings you joy and a sense of accomplishment in life? For me it's music and martial arts. If I'm not doing that stuff my life is significantly worse and I feel like shit until I start actively doing it again. You gotta find what it is for you if you want to be truly happy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:33 PM
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No I haven't come up with a list and have it at the ready. Then again, masculinity is far from one of the main topics of conversation in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:32 PM
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Yes I will and I have. Why don't you treat me like an individual instead of some strawman stereotype? Yeah sorry I'm not replying to every single comment on the subreddit at all times. How dare I have a life and other things to do outside of reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:31 PM
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I think it's more that the culture determines men do this and women don't. It's not some gender essentialist thing that men are born with the initiative gene and women aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:30 PM
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You have to remember that those women are individuals and not representative of all women. You really think 4 billion people are just genetically predisposed to treating you like shit just because they were born with a vagina? You say your brain is wired to be logical and solve problems so direct at this feeling. It's incredibly illogical to believe this about an entire gender. I do think your rejection of therapy is weird though considering your so open about having clear mental health issues t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:24 PM
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You sound like you haven't actually found your purpose in life or what makes you happy. I'd suggest looking into some philosophy and explore to really find that, I'm sure you've got an idea of what that is already somewhere in your mind. Just gotta find it. Or you could smoke some weed and chill out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:22 PM
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Bruh that is an absolutely insane thing to do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:20 PM
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Some kind of active hobby could be good for you. I love martial arts and the training is just competing with yourself if anything. It's also a useful skill to have in your back pocket in case you need it. Other kind of sports if you like them more. You could also try reading, I feel like it's hard to be stressed out reading a book. I recently finished the Book of Five Rings and if it turned Jiri Porchazka from a street thug to a respectful martial artist and world champion in two promotions it m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:18 PM
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Lol nah, if you're looking for a relationship you don't do this fucked up shit and use people like walking dildos for you own amusement. You have to know that this kind of behavior would be disqualifying for any man with any self respect who wants a serious relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:16 PM
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> You know in age gap discussions when women say 2 disparate ages have nothing in common what are they on about? It feels like anyone who says this is still stuck in high school, either mentally or literally, because I've had diverse age friend groups and had nothing in common with others of my same age. Feels like only a child or childish person would actually think that age determines someone's personality this strongly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:11 PM
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Do you think someone who graduated from Arizona State is equally prepared and connected in the business world as someone who graduated from Harvard?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:10 PM
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Does the study exclude athletes that went on to play professionally? It doesn't seem to mention either way so idk, but there are for example ivy league football players who go on to play in the nfl and make millions of dollars. Like Ryan Fitzpatrick made more money in just his deal with the Bills than 99% of people will make in their entire lives, and he's had a 17 year nfl career. He graduated from Harvard and played for their football team. If someone like him is included in this dataset then …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:09 PM
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Well my life is relatively fine so yeah things are generally going well for me and on an upward path too. Idk where this attitude is coming from, nothing I've said is controversial or disrespectful. I understand what you explained I just disagreed, that's different than not understanding it. There is no other way you need to explain it. It honestly feels like you stopped reading my comment after a few sentences made you upset and replied accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:04 PM
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> No. Vibe is for your vibe, how you carry yourself, how your dressed, how you talk, the way you approach, the way you walk towards someone, everything about you. Right so before they talk to you, it's just their appearance. As personality and rizz are really only things that can be found out after talking to someone. Sure you can make assumptions about someone's personality by their appearance by like they say, if you assume you make an ass out of you and me. Assumptions are often wrong and inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:58 PM
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But vibe is just code for your appearance and you don't know his personality or rizz before he talks to you. So how are men rejected before saying three words to a woman if this is how all women operate? And do we just not believe the women who say that height and jawline are the reasons for rejecting men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:48 PM
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Bro she changed race, it's more than just aging lol. She definitely got lots of plastic surgery. Her head is significantly bigger. Out here with the Joe Rogan aging strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:47 PM
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You're half right, men aren't attracted to most women. But you're completely wrong that only young, fit, busty women with doll faces and an hourglass shape in their teens and early 20s are attractive to men. Maybe for a very specific subset of men but it's obvious that men are horny for many different types of women than just that one specific type. Remember chubby chasers are thing, men who like skinny women are a thing, men who like muscular women are a thing. Men are very open about this horn…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:45 PM
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I really don't think I would. Her look is very unnatural in a very uncanny valley kind of way. Believe it or not the plastic surgery face is unattractive to many men and we would prefer a woman who is comfortable the way god made her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:42 PM
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Damn that sucks, but LA really is different. Especially in the west side neighborhoods there's tons of spots for a romantic streetlight proposal. Hell there's a whole art exhibit at LACMA with all the styles of these streetlights throughout the years. Ladies love taking pictures at it, so maybe streetlights are a bit more romantic and cute than previously thought
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:34 PM
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I think people's issues with recognizing invisible women comes largely from these women still not pursuing men and not taking initiative to make anything happen. Now maybe you just didn't include it but it seems like in your example this woman did nothing to make any moves on this guy or make her attraction really known to him while they both pined for a partner and seemingly would be in each other's leagues. Do you think if she talked to the guy and flirted and asked him out, would he have reje…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:30 PM
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I think it's also that being the pursuer makes it easier to fail like this than when you have the option to pursue or let people come to you. I think there would be way more incel and invisible women if they had to pursue men like men have to pursue women. That shit is hard and doesn't come naturally to a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:26 PM
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Do you think the invisible woman pining for dick looks any better than this guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:24 PM
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Why would I ask when that's clearly what you mean? Because you're too smart to claim that every man who is single is just some shut in loser who never leaves his house and can't tell you one good restaurant or bar in his neighborhood. You're certainly claiming that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:06 PM
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So why did you say you'd link it then honey? Is it because you wanted to seem smart and when called on it realized you don't have a paper to actually share? Is it possible that someone who can't even read 2 paragraphs isn't capable of writing a 140 page essay? And yeah you'll toooootally stop replying, just like all the other times in this comment thread you've said you were done talking to me only to come right back because you just can't resist my charms. We both know you'll reply to this comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:37 PM
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So how well do you know your city? And I'll be honest, nobody I have ever known has ever been given a quiz on the history of where they live before a woman dated them. Being some civic historian seems to be just a you thing and not something any other woman cares about in her partner
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:35 PM
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Where's the paper honey?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:32 PM
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Ok link it then baby girl. But you're the one acting like a child. Idk why you are so full of rage that you can't even have a conversation like an adult, but again you should work on these mental health issues with a professional. Because if you treat your boyfriend like this you would be abusing him. So, do you treat your boyfriend like this too whenever he disagrees with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:14 PM
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You didn't do that and yes I think reading 2 paragraphs is a reasonable expectation of an adult. But why do you keep replying to me? I'm not going anywhere so you'll just have to keep hearing me "yap yap yap" I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:11 PM
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Yeah I knew you couldn't read and couldn't handle a conversation like an adult. So why do you keep replying to me if you don't want me to "yap" to you? Do you enjoy wasting your time doing things you hate? Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:04 PM
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You really thought you did something with that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:00 PM
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Damn so you don't respect yourself? That's sad. But are you sure you're replying to the correct comment? We haven't even talked about concepts and you haven't explained anything at all. Hell I even agreed with you in the first comment I made, I just expanded your concept onto women as well. After all women are people just like men, you're not perfect angels who are always right about everything and the masters of the universe. You flying into this blind rage and throwing every insult you can thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:57 PM
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Ok lady, whatever. You are extremely weird and wildly disrespectful for absolutely no reason. I can tell you don't go outside and interact with people if you don't understand how to have a normal conversation and immediately pivot to whatever lame childish insults you can think of whenever there's any disagreement
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:40 PM
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Can you explain what goalposts I've moved? I only made 2 comments and they are both staying on the topic with the same argument about the same thing. That's the exact opposite of moving the goal posts. Did you also miss the part where I said it's a good list and only provided a minor point of moderate disagreement? Try reading my comments before replying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:39 PM
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When did I ever say otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:37 PM
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Idk, why would any man marry a woman that sees him as a prop in her life with no thoughts or feelings of his own and who must obey her every command?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:36 PM
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> I don't think it's a bad thing to have strong opinions about how one of the most memorable romantic moments of your life is gonna g It's certainly bad to have strong opinions about this moment before you even meet the guy you want to be in this moment and never doing anything to take into account what he wants or might do. Just a recipe for disappointment and treating him like a doll in your dollhouse rather than a living human partner
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:18 AM
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There's thousands upon thousands of these exact kind of romantic street lights in many cute neighborhoods all over LA. Sure they could have been in skid row, but I doubt he pulled over in some busted ass sketchy neighborhood to do this proposal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:16 AM
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Sure but if your fantasy is more important than the relationship then you don't love the man either
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:13 AM
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Sure but if you need the proposal to be so specific to a fantasy you created before you even met the person you want to marry. Then maybe you should propose and make that romantic fantasy happen. Or don't have such hardline fantasies about something you can't control and before you even meet the partner you want to marry. The event of the proposal is way less important than the relationship, seems like a decent amount of women out here forgot this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:12 AM
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I can see both sides in this situation as you described it. Like if they went on a trip to LA then yeah he should just go to one of the 10 or so beaches that are within an hour drive of the city and just do the proposal there. It's such an easy way to make her happy he could just do it. Pro tip, a spot like Sunset Beach on the way up the PCH to Malibu would be a good spot for doing that around sunset especially. But at the same time it's weird as fuck to have this dream proposal planned out befo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:10 AM
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> Have women used toxic masculinity improperly? Duh. But that doesn’t mean the term is false Why do you think I said the term is false when I only said the common usage of the term is false? Go anywhere on reddit that talks about toxic masculinity and you'll see most people (hint, not just women) using it incorrectly. > There are many aspects to positive masculinity... It's a good list but maybe just too vague to be super actionable. But otherwise you agree with everything else I said so idk why…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:58 AM
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Yes you are. Can you show me examples of any other woman ever using "the spark" to mean "physical attraction"? Just one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:55 AM
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Buddy how can you say you hate the red pill due to their misandry and say some shit like this? You are more misandrist in this comment than any red piller I've ever seen in my entire life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 11:01 PM
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I feel like you're thinking of the ideal use of toxic masculinity here when it's pretty obvious that the most common general use of the term is to mean "man I don't like and who I need to shame and insult based on his gender". It's pretty obvious when you look at how the term is used and what it's used to describe that most people using this term don't understand it, just like how "incel" has become "man I don't like and who needs to be humiliated as a virgin loser". Like people are calling Elon…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 11:00 PM
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The spark has always been used by women to describe emotional attraction and having compatible personalities. Nobody other than you has ever used it to mean the guy is physically attractive. So you're just using words wrong and making your own definitions that nobody else uses and then playing dumb like you don't know what you're doing. I just straight up don't believe you when you say you've never heard anyone in your 38 years of life ever use the spark in this way. Like I'm a man who's 9 years…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:56 PM
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Women fucking men they aren't attracted to/don't feel a spark for Can you show me where in the linked comments anyone said women are fucking men they aren't attracted to? Why are you conflating two very different things here? Seems like someone's reading comprehension keeps getting worse Women making men wait because they're afraid of messing things up. If you've never heard this then you must have never talked to any women, especially young women. I'm a man and heard women say this countless ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:17 AM
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Yes and you just said you don't pay attention to what you read here. Thanks for admitting you're not acting like an adult "I've never heard of a woman having sex with some men faster than others" This is literally what you said though, nothing I shared proved me wrong in any way. Is your whole issue with the word "spark" here? Which everyone else in the entire world uses in this context to mean "emotional connection and compatibility" and which you use to mean "physical and emotional attraction"…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:56 AM
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I'm not retyping it for the third time. Go to this comment and click the links https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1h1jc87/comment/lznpq8q/ Frankly lady, you're an adult. It's time to start acting like it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:52 AM
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Oh so now who's got horrible reading comprehension? You care so little yet you make a dozen replies in this same thread about the same topic. Interesting. I guess your only goal is to lie and twist anything to just make people mad online. Congratulations I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:44 AM
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Do you think I'm the same guy as the one in the linked comments? Because I'm not, be sure to double check the usernames when you're on reddit. It can be easy to mix up who you're talking to on this website What parameters did I specifically give? Please link and quote the comments of mine that you are referring to. Please hold yourself at least to the standards of the children you educated. Or just don't reply if you're incapable of having an honest conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:18 AM
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You lied when you said you've never heard of anyone doing what you do, which is make relationship men wait for sex while having sex with casual guys right away. That was objectively a lie. So why did you lie? And don't feign ignorance, I linked and quoted the comments I'm talking about. Go up the thread and look at that comment if you need a refresher Like I said, I've never heard of that outside of media. LADY THIS WHOLE THING STARTED BECAUSE YOU SAID YOU DID THAT. Holy shit how can someone be …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:46 AM
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No no no, answer my question first. Why did you lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:30 AM
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The part where you said you have never heard of anyone doing this outside of media in this comment: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1h1jc87/what_do_you_think_about_the_idea_that_women_may/lzcx0db/ I've never heard of that happening outside of media. In reply to this comment: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1h1jc87/what_do_you_think_about_the_idea_that_women_may/lzcvski/ I think what guys assume is that some women will happy put out for an attractive guy they f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:04 AM
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We are clearly not on the same page. So let's take it from the top. Do you make ALL MEN wait for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:55 AM
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Notice how you're completely dodging my question? You're too old to be acting like this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:52 AM
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Right but you also said that NO MAN (including casual guy) is so attractive that you bend your standards. Now you're saying the opposite, why do you constantly do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:48 AM
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Answer the question don't be scared homie. But I did read your first comment too, I also read this: No man is so attractive that I'd bend my standards for him. What reasonable person would infer that you bend your rules for hookups when you say that NO MAN is so attractive that you would bend your standards for him? You constantly say contradictory and then get angry and belittle people for pointing out your contradictions. Why do you do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:45 AM
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I would infer that you do not have causal sex. Especially with this line: No man is so attractive that I'd bend my standards for him. What would you infer from this line?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:37 AM
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This you? https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1h1jc87/comment/lzc2qyi/ I make guys wait because I know guys lie about wanting a relationship to get laid. It has nothing to do with how attractive they are. No man is so attractive that I'd bend my standards for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:27 AM
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Well you haven't been generous because you have refused to answer my very simple question. It's really fucking weird that you're doing this but whatever, keep acting like women are inherently lesser than men. I'm sure it'll improve your life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:11 AM
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I mean you kind of are saying that though. You're acting like this something that specifically happens to women that initiate when it's just something that happens to everyone who initiates. Men just don't really have the option to be the passive participant in dating. > To many men if a woman wants him even if he’s not that attracted to her it’s a free ticket to vagina even if he has to wait a while. Sure but why are you acting like this is something unique to women who initiate? Women do this …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:27 AM
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Do you want men who think women should passive participants in life? Why do you think men who initiate don't get treated like shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:23 AM
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The only ones who don't have to wait are the ones asking for casual sex, because they aren't asking for a relationship. Oh so you just don't even make all men wait at all. So I was right this whole time. Why have you been arguing about something you know you don't do? Why do you feel the need to constantly lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:23 AM
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Yeah that's true, the general liberal American standard is that a straight man being forward about his attraction to a woman is bad and he should be nice to her and get to know her as a friend first. Obviously we know as adults that this is some serious bullshit but for some reason men and women are still teaching their kids this shit. Really makes no sense, but with the gains of feminism within gen x and especially millennials it's not surprising we're seeing a cultural rise in redpill shit and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:22 AM
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You think women don't do similar things to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:18 AM
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> I just gave you the answer why. And it’s very true women making the first move, initiating dates and planning for the relationship etc. almost never works out Oh come on girl that's just life. You think most first moves, dates initiated, and plans for relationships that men have with women work out? Again you need to talk to the men in your life and gain some perspective. You sound, frankly, like a child ignorant to the life of an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:17 AM
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> Because a huge chunk of men would accept a woman’s advances even if she’s not his dream girl or wife material And why do you think this is something women don't do to men? This is something women have done to me, a man, many times in my dating life. Remember, women are people just like men and do all of the horrible shit men do too. Go ahead and ask any of the men you know if a woman has ever accepted his advances even if he's not her dream man or husband material. Ask them if they've ever had…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:16 AM
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So they don't all wait, this is very simple. What part of this is confusing you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:13 AM
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So what's the point of the criticism? It's like false rape allegations, it's super rare so it's not worth making these grand condemnations of it. Plus this condemnation is extremely vague, "expecting something in return" is practically a meaningless statement and I'm sorry but I'm tired of this shit and it deserves to be called much more than the minority of men who freak out when rejected. The fact is most people (i.e. men and women) genuinely flirt with others because they expect it to be well…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:11 AM
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Right but you do bend your standards depending on the man. One may need to wait one month, another one day. That is you bending your standards. How do you not understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:58 PM
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You did right here: No man is so attractive that I'd bend my standards for him. Try reading
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:37 PM
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Except you just acknowledged it's not only men in political leadership, so you must understand it's also set up by women. Plus any system was created by less than 1% of the population so it isn't even on any gender at all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:37 PM
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The same thing for the unrealistic beauty standards for women. Promote different body types as attractive in our culture, bring awareness to the unrealistic body standards that men are held to, and culturally shame the women with unrealistic body standards the same way we did for ugly men who demand a supermodel with a body type only achievable through photoshop and plastic surgery. Am I really the only one who remembers this happening for women already and how these days there is a wider range …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:08 PM
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Right here baby girl, try reading: I make guys wait because I know guys lie about wanting a relationship to get laid. It has nothing to do with how attractive they are. No man is so attractive that I'd bend my standards for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:03 PM
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Ok my goal is to get you to acknowledge that women are full human beings equal to men and that they have equal responsibility over what happens to their children. Why do you refuse to treat women like equal adults?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:01 PM
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Or maybe your criticism is just not accurate and you're taking extreme actions that the vast majority of men do not do and acting like every man does it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:00 PM
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They taught us abstinence too. Some of us just grow up and learn to form our own opinions as adults and realize you can't believe everything adults tell you as a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 04:57 PM
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I make guys wait because I know guys lie about wanting a relationship to get laid. It has nothing to do with how attractive they are. No man is so attractive that I'd bend my standards for him. Here you are claiming that you make every man wait It varies, but they'd wait until I was confident they were sincere about the relationship. That varied anywhere from a few weeks to a couple of days. Here you are in the very next comment saying you don't make every man wait. How did you already forget po…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 04:56 PM
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Yes I sound reasonable, because I've only been reasonable lol. But yeah I've gotten pissy about rejection before, not most of the time of course. But I was young at one point and women have lead me on to then reject me quite a few times in life. Things are complicated irl, sometimes you got a girl grinding her ass on your dick all night at the club and when you leave together suddenly she doesn't want to do anything. Sometimes you get a girl who literally grabs you when you're on the way to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:07 PM
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That's good and doesn't disprove anything I've said. I never said it's all women doing this in all relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:57 PM
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I'm 29 baby girl
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:43 PM
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Right so people who are dating for a relationship and have sex while dating are not having casual sex. Glad I could educate you on this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:43 PM
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You don't seem to know what casual sex is then. Do a little google search to learn what the words mean then come back
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:27 PM
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Weird because I grew up in a medium-sized city in the Midwestern US and nobody ever acted like how you claim everyone you know acts. In the kind of environment you describe absolutely nobody I ever met in my entire had any plans to wait until marriage to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:27 PM
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Come on it's a simple yes or no question that is the crux of our supposed disagreement. Why can't you just give a straight answer to this question that we all know is yes, both parents responsible for the parenting decisions regarding their kids. This has been my point the whole time and you disagreed with me and refuse to elaborate or address my actual point. Why is that? What is your goal here?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:17 PM
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Then she is very dumb and doesn't understand the most basic concept of consent. Another person's expectations of how a situation will go has absolutely no impact on the other person's consent in any way in any situation ever I'm sorry if I come across too harsh but people need to understand the most basic parts of the concepts they talk about before they talk about them. This is the barest of bare minimum you can get and yet it seems like nobody here can pass that standard. People need to do bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:59 PM
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Did you finally read that section and understand what my point is or do I need to repeat myself again?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:56 PM
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> The word expect is where you're getting caught up in things. I'm going to be generous here, and assume you are using the term such that it means you are expecting the conversation to lead to sex because you are very confident in your approach and your ability to gauge a person who is likely to want it. I love this multi paragraph condescending ass comment that proves you didn't fully read my 6 sentence comment. If you did read it you would see this chunk: > Like do you honestly never expect pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:55 PM
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So let's keep it simple, do you think both parents are responsible for the parenting decisions regarding their child?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:49 PM
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Like do you honestly never expect people to do anything in reaction to what you do or say with them? You're out on a date and flirting the whole time with a bunch of chemistry and ramping touch and everything, then agree to go back to your place and you're telling me you wouldn't expect to be having sex? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:48 PM
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Yes I do disagree with you. I think women are full human beings equal to men, you do not. We fundamentally disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:04 PM
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So it's a problem to flirt with the goal of having sex. Why do you think that's a problem? Do you think it's a problem when women do the exact same thing? Like do you honestly never expect people to do anything in reaction to what you do or say with them? You're out on a date and flirting the whole time with a bunch of chemistry and ramping touch and everything, then agree to go back to your place and you're telling me you wouldn't expect to be having sex? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:27 PM
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> Men who talk to women expecting sex in return deserve to get shit on… This is you saying it's wrong for a man to want to have sex with a woman. What made you change your mind in the last 27 minutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:16 PM
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Why is it so wrong for a man to want to have consensual sex with an adult woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:09 PM
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Oh but these men do want relationships. Why do you think it's impossible for a man to want a romantic relationship with a woman he wants to have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:05 PM
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Ok so where do you live where there's so many extreme christians? I have never once met a single person who refused to have sex before getting engaged so it feels like you're just lying right now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:04 PM
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Right but you said they don't all wait the same amount of time. You literally are the living proof of the thing you say doesn't happen. Make that cognitive dissonance make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:03 PM
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So you just didn't read my comments then. I'm saying that BOTH PARENTS are responsible for what happens to THEIR CHILD. Why do you disagree with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:02 PM
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I guess men are just more open people who are willing to give others more than one chance and have a wider range of attraction 🤷‍♂️ But ok, what does a man need to do to create this spark? Start grabbing your ass on the date and shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:02 PM
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So you don't make every man wait the same. Now that we know you lied in your previous comment will you edit it to accurately reflect what you do and believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:13 AM
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Their behavior with the men they are in the relationship with. How old are you? Are you honestly saying you've never once heard of a woman being way less sexually active with her husband than she was with past boyfriends or even less than she was with that same guy before they got married?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:10 AM
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> I just don't understand why they see it as settling. Like casual is just for fun or novelty anyways, and exes are exes for a reason. Because women are very open about settling for these men after they have their fun. These women are often way less sexually active with their "relationship material" husband. These are the same men who were constantly rejected throughout their 20's by being told "you'll make some woman happy some day", reinforcing the idea that they are not attractive and would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:08 AM
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> I really don't know where men got the idea that relationship guys are ugly. Oh it comes from a few places, the majority of women talking about relationship guys explicitly say these men are less attractive than hook up men, relationship men are exclusively the guys who were not attractive enough for the exact same women to hook up with, attractive men are never called relationship men they're just attractive men women get into relationships with, and these kind of men are rejected when they're…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:06 AM
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Or could it be possible that these men are being honest and they want to have sex with the same woman they want to be in a relationship with?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:02 AM
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The answer isn't there but if you can't or don't want to explain your ideas then that's fine too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:59 AM
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So the off topic part of your comments is shifting the topic from socially awkward autistic men to unpredictable mentally ill men. Hope this helps :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:35 PM
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But I'm saying that there is something there, no red flags and a fun first date seems to imply there's something more than nothing even if it's not a "spark". But again you keep contradicting yourself within your comments, are you seriously not aware of this? Idk maybe if you could be more specific about what you're actually talking about that would be helpful because right now it's all very vague and feels contradictory
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:21 PM
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Don't bother anymore dude, you got as far as you can. You will never get a straight answer from these kind of people because they refuse to be honest and are giving this advice with ulterior motives. The contradictions are the point. If you want to meet women then you obviously need to go to where women are and socialize. Anyone who says otherwise is trying to hold you back for whatever weird reason they have to be a hater
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:19 PM
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Yeah it's honestly crazy to me that people can still act like the internet has no impact on the real world. Have these people been living under a rock since 2016? The internet is part of reality, what we see online impacts our real life even if it's not a perfect 1:1 comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:17 PM
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Have you ever seen a man deny the fact that he's looking for a hot woman? Because there's women all over this thread denying that they are looking for hot men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:15 PM
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Just keep that shit to yourself man, use the filter without telling the world that you're doing it. It's just really weird to do that, people don't need to know this and you'll figure it out from looking at the woman's profile anyway. There's no need to share this list of dealbreakers, especially in your bio
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:13 PM
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Do you think it's good when those women do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:11 PM
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Nah bro come on, it just looks weird as fuck if you have a shopping list of traits you demand in a person before you even say one word to them. You gotta be normal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:11 PM
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Weird then that I struggle so much with dating apps when I perfectly meet all the criteria you just listed and always have. Wonder if there's some major aspect of this that you're not listing 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:10 PM
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Idk it's really not hard to call it after a couple dates vs just one date. Like you just met this guy and only hung out for a couple hours. How can you expect to really know someone at that point? It's interesting this just feels like a very different way of dating between the genders. It seems like men are more willing to keep going out with a woman as long as there's no problems from her where women seem to be willing to call it off without any real problems just because the guy isn't exceptio…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:08 PM
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Oh but that's not what we're talking about, can you please stay on topic if you're going to respond?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:05 PM
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Why can't both parents be responsible in this situation? Why does it have to be all on one parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:05 PM
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Being murdered
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:03 PM
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So how can you say you don't see misandry anywhere if that's what misogyny is? Come on you're on this subreddit which is full of the exact same kind of misandry daily on every thread
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:03 PM
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Well what you described is also not fear but I understand I can never change your mind on this one, only a medical professional can help you now > Why on earth would I spend time and money to fix something that’s merely a minor-ish inconvenience and that I can power through when needed? But this honestly shows me that you're lying. What you described would be a debilitating condition if you go outside and interact with people every day. Having such a strong fear response to every awkward social …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:51 PM
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I mean I've never felt this spark with a stranger I just met, so I absolutely date without a spark at least for a bit. Idk if you think I'm asking people to do something I'm not doing, but I am absolutely holding everyone else to the same standard that I hold myself to. Is it really so bad to go on a few decent dates to get to know someone before you determine there's no chance of ever having a spark?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:10 PM
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Then it sounds like you have some serious mental health issues that you need to see a medical professional to get help with. Because you should absolutely not be so terrified by having an awkward social interaction
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:07 PM
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> It's not about instant gratification, I don't want to have first date sex or anything, but I want there to be some sort of spark to build on that says some day we will want to have sex with each other. I can have deep nonsexual connections with friends, I don't need to date for that. But isn't this you describing how you want instant gratification when saying you don't want that? You say you don't get turned on easily but also say you require an immediate spark with a stranger. Do you see how …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:06 PM
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> I’m also not afraid of schizophrenics or the homeless like many people are because statistically they aren’t more dangerous. Well then it's weird to be so afraid of socially awkward nerds lol. But to be serious again, these are more dangerous than the general population though, the only people who have honestly tried to kill me have been paranoid schizophrenics. These people are deranged and violently react to their delusions and then black out everything they did the next morning. Trust me, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:56 PM
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Imma need you to rewrite this because I have no idea what you're trying to say. too many typos to understand your point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:51 PM
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When did I say I was not attractive to any woman? I'm sure I never said that so could quote me? Because if I did that would be wrong and I misspoke. Instead of making assumptions based on incorrect reading of my comments, you can just ask me a question and I'll explain what I think “You find one that likes you back does not mean just cause “you exist”. FFS What are you saying with this sentence though? I don't really understand what you're trying to say. To me going out in public and talking to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:45 PM
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Why are you changing the topic to war? Can you please stay on topic and participate if you're going to reply? This bad faith participation is against the rules and can get you banned Also women have committed every atrocity in war that men have. Some of the most famous images of mass torture from Abu Ghraib features women torturing the prisoners. So I assume you'd pick the bear over a random woman too right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:43 PM
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Well that's not my experience with dating women as a straight man. The constant thing I hear when getting rejected after a date is some variation of "you're a great guy but I just didn't feel the spark". And like yeah sure I didn't want to marry any of these women right away either lol, but come on if it's a decent first date you can at least go on a second one and see if anything develops further. The spark that comes quickly also fades quickly, if you want a deep connection it's gonna take mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:41 PM
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Where did I say “just exist?” I said go out there and meet a bunch of people till you find one that like you back. You're saying it right here dude, in the very next sentence after asking me where you're doing this. Are you serious right now? Going out and meeting people in public is just existing in public And where have I ever said I was a virgin? I'm not a virgin so that would be a lie if I said that, so good thing I never said that. But I did recently break a fucking 5 year dry spell by fina…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:35 PM
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Are these two guys also the 5'2" bald fat Indian janitors that are constantly slaying puss too?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:31 PM
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True, but people also need to stop lying to autistic boys about the rules of the game they're playing. Society is training these boys wrong as a joke and then blaming them for not understanding what to do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:30 PM
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Nah the women get a pass because they don't have to do all the emotional labor and initiate all the social interaction in dating. It's much easier to be socially successful when other people are willing to take the lead. That's why you can be an awkward guy who has lots of friends but can't get a date to save his life. Platonically, people will be willing to meet a man halfway. Romantically, they are not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:29 PM
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It feels like you've lived a very privileged life and have never actually been unsafe if you think an awkward social interaction is actually a threat to your safety. I've been attacked by actual insane people, interacting with them (even without being attacked) was nothing like a mere awkward social situation. Please stop with this wild exaggeration and just be honest that you're disgusted by awkward men and not that you actually feel that you are in real danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:27 PM
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Bro, can you just acknowledge that there are unattractive men who need to do more than just exist in public and then get pussy gifted to them on a silver platter? Why are you trying so hard to deny this obvious fact of life that everyone who's ever been outside understands? Also you can struggle with dating and still have had sex before. Dying a virgin is extremely rare but is dying alone and without a romantic partner as rare? I highly doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:23 PM
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Idk if an awkward guy makes you genuinely feel unsafe then I think you've lived a very privileged life and haven't spent time with genuinely unsafe people. When I've had to deal with paranoid schizophrenics, it showed me first hand what an actual dangerous crazy it's in a whole different universe than a guy who's socially awkward and struggles to make eye contact. People really need to think about the words they use because the vast majority of the time people say they feel "unsafe" with an awkw…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:20 PM
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> Women rely on feeling a connection much more than men do and it's next to impossible to feel with an autistic man. I feel like an understated issue is that there's a common expectation to have this connection immediately on the first date, especially with a stranger you met off the internet. I don't think I'm far on the spectrum if I am at all, but does anyone really feel a genuine connection with people that fast? I think this desire for instant gratification has made things much harder for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:17 PM
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I have done all of those things, never met a single woman who I hit it off with at any of those places or doing any of those things. The issue is you're trying to make this into a matter of personal responsibility when the people who you meet when you're going out is completely random and totally out of your control. Again it seems inconceivable to you that a man might just be unattractive rather than just not trying to pull himself up by his bootstraps hard enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:01 PM
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And how do you find them? Not like you can go to the girlfriend store and just pick out the best one off the shelf lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:56 PM
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But what do you do when you do chill and have fun but women still don't want you? I feel like your worldview just doesn't have room for the possibility that a man might be unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:41 PM
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Or there are men "out there" but they're just invisible to you. Every time I go out for any reason I see men out solo doing their thing too. Hell I'm one of those men but when I go "out there" women don't seem to notice me and they certainly don't show any signs of interest in me. Stop acting like some helicopter mom, video games and porn isn't the root of every problem. It's weird to be so hyperfixated on this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:41 PM
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And you're only focusing on the horror movie version of a man. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:38 PM
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Ok but what actually happened? Because I've also been molested, assaulted, threatened, and harassed regularly since I was a kid. Wasn't a big deal though because it's stuff like groping or getting hit once or twice and not being full on violently raped or stabbed in the face. But if we these nice buzzwords we can make everything seem way worse than it is. But this is all beside the point, stop trying to change the subject when you realize you can't defend your argument. Tell me what the actual o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:37 PM
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Really? Because you're still wrong so what I'm saying is actually true. Most people of both genders are not interested in casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:29 PM
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Yeah and how big is the risk? 0.0000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000001%?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:28 AM
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Well good news, most men aren't into casual sex either. Sounds like you are like most men and your sexist view of men all being inhuman savage predators is incorrect > I think that most men who could have sex with a complete stranger or, more certainly, a prostitute, could potentially assault a woman whom he doesn't know if he knew that nothing would happen from it. Well good news, you're objectively wrong about this. Now can you tell me why you believed this incorrect stereotype of men in the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:28 AM
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I don't think you know what the word gaslighting means
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:26 AM
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You seem to be projecting your issues onto me, the only anger here is you. Do some introspection on this and I hope you can change for the better and let go of all this anger you have bottled up inside. This intense emotional outburst to a very unimportant casual social situation is not normal or healthy adult behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:55 PM
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It wasn't a personal attack, maybe think about why you think someone logically coming to the conclusion that someone who has chosen to never have sex might be asexual is an insult. If you don't want to be like this then you can change whenever you want, nobody is forcing you to do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:46 PM
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I have had long hair for the vast majority of my life as a boy and man. Nobody has ever come anywhere close to even attempting to kidnap me. Jesus Christ you have severe mental health issues and you desperately need professional help for this. This is not a healthy way to live at all. Stop scaring with internet horror stories and learn some mma or at least brazilian jiu jitsu if you want to be safe. You are the only one that can actually ensure your safety
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:45 PM
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> bear attacks are easily avoidable, and to say otherwise is to know literally nothing about bears, or to get all your information from a horror movie The entire premise of this hypothetical is that you can't just avoid encountering the man or bear. Hope this helps :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:43 PM
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> Bears have natural responses, men do not. Wait, aren't you supposed to be a man? You would understand that men have natural responses just like women and every other animal that has ever existed and ever will exist. So how many lies are you spreading right now just to justify hating men and treating us all like inhuman violent savages (coincidentally the same justification for the genocide of my Native American ancestors but I'm sure you don't wanna unpack that thought process)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:43 PM
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> Well in other countries that's already a thing. Women aren't allowed to leave their houses without a man. But that's not a solution Oh so you don't actually think men are more dangerous than bears? So why have spent so many hours lying and spreading bigotry that you don't even believe in? Weird hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:41 PM
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It absolutely is irrational to hate and fear an entire class of people just because of how they were born. Or are you honestly saying that bigotry is rational and justified?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:39 PM
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So you honestly think every man would become a horror movie monster if they weren't around other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:38 PM
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So you're a man and what you're saying applies to you. So why do you think the only thing stopping you from being a real life horror movie monster is other people being around you? Why do you want to torture, rape, and murder women in the woods?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:37 PM
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Oh so you're just asexual. Sorry but it's different for people who experience sexual and romantic attraction. Hope this helps :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:36 PM
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That's not what we're talking about though, please try to stay on topic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:35 PM
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Work out consistently at least 3-4 times per week. Count your calories. Stop drinking pop, juice, milk, really anything that isn't water or coffee. Stop eating all junk food, no more snacks either. You are going to be kinda hungry for most of the day, get used to it it isn't that bad. Find healthy recipes you enjoy, I like this one for myself the most https://www.chewoutloud.com/chicken-shawarma-easy-healthy/ and it's helping me lose weight. Only eat within about an 8 hour window of the day, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:30 PM
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How long have you gone without sex while trying to find sexual partners as an adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:25 PM
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Sounds like she's talking about herself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:25 PM
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Because she would have bought the house and worked the job she had if she could. Are you honestly asking this question? Are you a child or something? Every adult should automatically understand this extremely simple concept of adult life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:24 PM
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So don't choose to be a housewife if you don't want to do the job. Why do women like you act like you're forced into being a housewife when the vast majority of women, even mothers, work a real job and it's always been like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:23 PM
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What's even worse is that the men doing the same shit were executed in the streets and the women merely got buzz cuts, but somehow women were the real victims. Can anyone make this make sense to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:20 PM
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