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People are confusing socialization with dating. Yes you should be socializing and interacting with new people constantly, that does not mean that you should replace online dating with asking people out in real life. Firstly a bar or club is just tinder in real life, it has all the upsides and downsides depending on how you look. Sports and activities, just use the bumble rule. If a woman is interested she will make it known. There’s no point in going to a hobbiest club and asking everyone out an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:52 AM
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Yes I had to add that parentheses to distinguish from people who do have sex but are lonely. I’m not saying this would solve all incels but it will give everyone the best shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:26 PM
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That’s an interesting point for sure but we’re a long way from there, for the time being western governments can continue a steady flow of immigration to offset declining birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:19 PM
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It shouldn’t start at teens, it starts at young child with a high quality multi sports program, if that doesn’t work, adaptive sports, if that doesn’t work, more focus on music, arts, languages etc. All parents should be doing this but due to divorce, poverty, ignorance etc, they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:06 PM
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How are incels not a product of failed parenting? Many people will deal with repeated rejection and loneliness before they’re an adult and the tools that they need to deal with that also have to be developed before they’re an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:57 PM
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The government collects taxes to solve different societal problems. It already does sort of force you to play sports through gym class, I think it should expand on that so if a parent doesn’t have time or knowledge and resources the government can sort all that out. I don’t think I need to go into why it’s more beneficial to pick up sports at a young age vs an older age, it’s documented.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:45 PM
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I’d like to see the study you are referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:39 PM
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Really? Is this the response when women complain about how men just want them for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:32 PM
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A guy with his shit together, to me, means a guy who exercises every day, has a good job, has lots of friends, cooks and cleans a lot. I’d say that’s 20%, maybe a bit less. It’s normal for a guy to buckle under one of these things. How many are on this sub? Hopefully none
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:18 AM
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No, but I wouldn’t tell an overweight woman the reason she’s in this situation is solely her fault. Where were her parents? Did they enroll her in sports, did they help her cultivate a good diet and habits. Also what does overweight mean. There can be two women with same height and weight, one has the right shape and the weight is distributed in all the right places. All else being equal she would probably get pursued more. There’s a lot of things beyond our control, we can tell people to focus …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:51 AM
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Yeah I listen to my wife, I feel like communicating in a relationship is different than seeking advice and perspective from the opposite gender about dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:08 PM
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Yeah that stat must be way off, I feel like it’s normal for the woman to orgasm more?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:47 PM
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Alright so I actually read the post that you linked. This guy is deep in the hole. I would start by explaining how men and women process sex differently and how it’s normal that an average man would feel more invisible than an average woman, then start untangling it from there. But yeah I really wasn’t sure if he was a troll so the snarky comments he’s getting are understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:25 PM
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Because it’s only men who would try to ask this stuff to women. And yes, assuming that person is not a troll, I do think it’s worse for that person to post this in a space where women are going to dunk on him The same works in the other direction
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:24 PM
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“ On the flip side women do not give a crap what men think about their dating issues, it’s of no concern to them.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:10 PM
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Yeah maybe I could have stressed that men also have an equally if not worse understanding of female loneliness and frustration. I thought the last sentence of my OP was enough for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:09 PM
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Then join the Republican Party, you tell people to pick themselves up by the bootstrap all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:07 PM
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Yes, that’s part of what I’m talking about, how can we stop this. Just imagine if a woman posted something similar, there’s no value to it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:01 PM
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I have no clue what you are talking about, I’ve already been through the ringer and I’m now married with a kid. I’ve never treated women like a commodity. I would not want my daughter going to male spaces and listening to whatever they have to say about body counts or what have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:59 PM
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To protect their confidence? Does an incel need to hear that the reason they’re in this situation is solely because of their own doing? Or that confident and secure people are totally comfortable without relationships or sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:46 PM
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Ok well, to make it less infuriating, I believe the same thing in the other direction. I think women have done a good job in creating spaces for women to talk with each other about their dating issues and mental health. And they’ve done a good job at shielding other women from all the bs they would get if they went to men to validate their views on dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:42 PM
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You’re misreading my comment, I do not take it on women to “address the frustration”. I’m trying to address frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:34 PM
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The men who are doing that are trying to make sense of their situation and process their emotions anonymously. So they fall into this trap of “hmmm, let me see what women think, let me get their perspective”, and it all goes downhill from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:20 PM
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The intent of this post was not to make women angry, it’s to address the frustration of men who are seeing these same garbage talking points spewed over and over, not just in this sub but in many places on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:15 PM
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