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OneBrowUp/r/askTRP07/07/18 08:49 PM
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OneBrowUp/r/askTRP13/07/18 04:58 PM
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Hahaha, she says that she's got Tinder and only uses it to go out for a coffee? It's like saying "I've got a vibrator but I only use it to massage my back". Jesus, what a BS.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 07:06 AM
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*Man handled
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/19 04:51 PM
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If we keep lowering our standards they will keep pushing the boundaries. Now it's 5 years for you, then it will be 10 and so on... We are the only ones who can stop the decline. Unless we don't really want to and just want to watch it all burn and collapse. Which wouldn't necessarily be a bad thing.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:08 PM
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Doing exactly the same, nearing 40. Used to worry about that too but now after two years since swallowing the pill I don't care at all. Sure, it's best not go overboard with this, especially with the newly met people, but it's a great tool for veryfing who is insecure and has no sense of humour and therefore should be avoided anyway. And people may and most likely will hate you no matter what you do or don't do. And most definitely they will hate you for being more successful.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 09:38 AM
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And he obviously won't, so why waste time on an attention whore anyway.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 09:44 AM
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You acted accordingly & 3. She's a toxic bitch Attention. Advice: drop her ass ASAP and never look back.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 05:29 AM
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Logical thinking and common sense seems to be the best resource for that.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 01:44 PM
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Skip those books, try this http://redpillhandbook.com/The%20Red%20Pill%20Handbook%202nd%20Ed.pdf and after that read The Rational Male. Should be more than enough to set you up. It all needs time to be properly digested and internalized. Change doesn't happen overnight.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 03:48 PM
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First off, you need to read the whole sidebar at least twice. Just remember, those are just tools and concepts that might help you to get laid but the absolute core of TRP (to me at least) is the realization that women are totally unimportant, a mere addition to your awesome life. They bring very little or often nothing to the table. Once you start working on self-improvement and become the best version of yourself women will come. You won't need to do shit to attract them. Also, time is on your…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 09:48 AM
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I'd guess that you come off as needy, put them on pedestal, and they know they have you secured and don't need to put out. Girls will just use you as a source of validation and a living ATM. That's why we advocate escalating as soon as possible to make sure you're not dealing with someone who will put you on her orbit. In fact, there is no need for IOIs, just go for it.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 07:36 AM
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The real question: is this the ONLY thing she lied about and do you think she won't lie to you in the future?
/r/askTRP18/05/19 11:13 AM
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Nobody cares and nobody will ever care about you chosing one or another. In 20 years time you won't even remember it.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 11:06 AM
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Aww poor confused gal with too many cocks to choose from. Drop her and GTFO of her orbit.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 10:59 AM
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I have an idea how to end all poverty and hunger in the world. Let the hungry eat the poor.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 11:40 AM
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Houston, orbit established 🚀
/r/askTRP20/04/19 12:38 PM
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This. Also look for a two-ply or Egyptian cotton. The thicker the material the fewer wrinkles it will have.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 07:03 AM
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It's a beginning of a new life for you. Take your time and rebuild yourself completely, cut contact with her (it's a MUST) and in a year time you should be past the anger phase. It hurts, but it's the only way. Kill the beta inside you and never look back. Be glad that it happened while you're still young.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 05:51 AM
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Because they're actually called Chadians not Chads and Chads are their descendants and much superior in the sack due to local environmental factors and excessive use of genitalia when compared to the original. Lift the sidebar and go read at the gym you autistic incel!
/r/askTRP01/04/19 08:17 AM
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I see. Well, if you're really sure that it was you who screwed this up then you need to wait till she tries to get back with you. If you chase her, it will actually push her away. And chances are, that by the time (if at all) she does come back you will be over it anyway.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 08:55 AM
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"Convince"?
/r/askTRP29/03/19 08:45 AM
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Well, you almost anwered your own question - they are "cool", give women tingles, have IDGAF attitude and respect of others. It does raise SMV in the eyes of certain audience, which IMO is mostly women between 18-25yo.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 10:36 AM
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They simply see them as alphas/bad boys. It does not contradict SMV theory, it actually proves it. This tendency in women seems to diminish with age.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 10:13 AM
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It's been 2 years and you still haven't depedestelized her in your head.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 08:37 AM
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Just as with conservative, i.e. not marrying.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 07:26 PM
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TRP is apolitical, isn't it?
/r/askTRP04/03/19 04:50 PM
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So is your favorite grocery store /s
/r/askTRP02/03/19 09:25 PM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 02:37 PM
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Is there a guarantee to anything in life? Why take unnecessary risk? She's a LTR and not a plate, so the standard should be way higher. Do you want OP to waste his time and resources on such high risk investment? And for what in return? To me she is clearly prepping for a branch swing and needs a good excuse to be in a slut behaviour inducing place where anything can "just happen" waaay easier than in any other place. It's a waste of OPs precious time.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:05 AM
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Oh please, and how do you know they didn't cheat? Because they told you so? That's literally what every slut says. Why would any half decent woman want to serve alcohol to horny, drunk or high guys during nighttime? There are hundreds of other opportunities to earn money. Why not fancy restaurant or coffee shop?
/r/askTRP28/02/19 10:15 AM
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Excellent job. There is absolutely no room for negotiation here, and if she applies for this job then it's just a matter of time before AWALT kicks in with full force. Don't waste your time.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 10:06 AM
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Genital herpes? Just abstain from intercourses until you're clean. It's two God damn weeks or even less. Jesus H. Christ... would you want to touch a blistered pussy? Guess not.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 01:39 PM
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Address the cause and start lifting or get tested for hormone imbalance. Either way as cliche as it may sound lifting is the ultimate answer.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 09:44 AM
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It's all fine what you're saying, but I don't like the notion that everything men do they do to get laid. Improvement is something much much more and yes, the urge to get laid could be one of the initial triggers, but if it's all about pussy, then you clearly have some issues if that's your motivation.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/19 09:30 AM
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The pill got stuck in your throat halfway through. I can already sense that you're subconsciously wishing that she will come back or initiate herself. And yes, she will, they all do at some point, but don't make the grave mistake of going through the trash.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:50 PM
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What can I say, it gets lonely at the top. But you won't get to the top with fake friends and toxic people. They sooner or later will drag you down. The older you get, the more obvious it becomes.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 08:22 PM
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I'm also European and even though it's illegal in most countries you can easily get escorts. Just browse the web and start with striptease/bachelor party sites. They usually offer more 'services'. As for supplements the brand doesn't really matter that much although you might try some US stuff like BioTech or Weider just for comparison. Perhaps you need to add more carbs to see results. If you're not eating enough then don't expect to bulk up. First time I've tried to put contact lenses in it to…
/r/askTRP27/01/19 08:31 AM
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I've read the whole thing and I understand what you're going through. First of all you need to realize that you need to go beyond your comfort zone with women. To do so, you must stop thinking that sex is some special magical thing because it is not. It's almost like with the video games you used to play, some of them are good, some are bad. And having sex is like completing a side quest on your way to the endgame which is becoming a better man. So stop obsessing over sex. If you feel like you'r…
/r/askTRP26/01/19 10:26 PM
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I'm older than you. Been there done that. I know it could be extremely hard, but you MUST go full NC, and resist the urge to stalk her on social media. It took me almost a full year to regain composure. And don't even think about giving her any closure, being friends or whatever. She will use it too hoover you back. TLDR; RUN!
/r/askTRP22/01/19 09:49 PM
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I'd guess this state of mind enhances outcome independence.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 03:23 PM
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I'm just warning him not to miss red flags. You'd be surprised how many of young girls have behaviours within this spectrum. I'm almost 40 and I wish it only was 'one girl'.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:53 AM
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Borderline Personality Disorder. It can manifest in many ways and having plenty male friends might be one of it symptoms in this case. Here's a decent read: https://www.verywellmind.com/borderline-personality-disorder-symptoms-425175
/r/askTRP06/01/19 08:13 PM
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Smells like BPD, be extremely careful and do not let your guard down.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 07:54 PM
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BPD or Narc. Find out more about her father to make sure which one of the two is she, then run.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 10:57 AM
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Try from behind.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:18 PM
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With a hand written memo saying "Best Friends Forever"
/r/askTRP18/07/18 10:35 AM
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Friends? Definitely not as this means you're just an orbiter. Don't look for excuse to keep her around. Although if you really have common social circle just treat her like a dude.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 09:50 AM
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What do you need to know exactly? Also which city you're staying?
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:57 PM
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Oh, and also they love to play damsels in distress. Truly a female version of the dark triad.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 07:47 PM
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Basically it's all about feeling an almost instant connection. You feel like you've known them for years. They focus on you all their attention, can try to love bomb you, you feel admired and respected. They mirror your interests and opinions, but not in an ass kissing and 'me too' type of way, intelligently, so it does not raise your suspicion. The pace of such relationship is usually high, especially in the beginning. They are true chameleons. You should look for inconsistency in what they say…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 07:43 PM
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Actually I do really well gaming women at work, especially those bored with their beta LTRs, but I am completely hopeless with selected few ones that give off super negative vibes (aggressiveness even) even though I've never crossed them and was genuinely nice and helpful (could be a reason). I'm a TRP lurker for a year now but I don't recall this dark knighting you've mentioned, I assume it's the opposite of white knighting - but could you elaborate on this please?
/r/askTRP13/07/18 07:27 PM
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Smart, thanks.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 07:14 PM
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Oh I've learnt it the hard way and all it took was a slightly too sarcastic humor that was not well received by one melady. And despite the fact that all other female co-workers loved me, she managed to effectively bad-mouth me for three long years. But she was worst case of narcissism I've ever encountered. In the end I've beat it with praising her several times and boom, we suddenly became BFFs. Crazy.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 07:12 PM
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Read this: https://illimitablemen.com/power/
/r/askTRP13/07/18 06:30 AM
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Empathy. Also, WTF are you talking about?
/r/askTRP11/07/18 06:53 PM
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No. But given certain circumstances they might. It's like asking if all women will have car accident or do all dogs bite.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 06:50 PM
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Watch out for mirroring and instant 'clicking' with the person you just met. If it feels unicorny it could be cluster B on a hunt. On the other hand sleeping aids or low dose benzos shouldn't worry you this much. Those are like candy now.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 05:24 PM
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Well, in my book by the time you pass 30yo you should be financially independent, confident in your skills, know your value, be emotionally stable etc. etc. All this creates a certain aura that attracts people (not just women). You tend to care way less about what others think of you, because you know yourself better. You have plenty of interesting opportunities in life as you can afford a lot more than you could when you were younger (traveling, going out, working in different fields). Women wh…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 08:02 PM
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Symptoms you've described aren't specific to pregnancy. It's rather related to the pills she's taking.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 07:15 PM
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Well, entering her social circle doesn't sound overly menacing, right?
/r/askTRP09/07/18 06:55 PM
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Ah, brings me back memories of the Larry series...
/r/askTRP09/07/18 06:49 PM
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Isn't it just a normal thing people do?
/r/askTRP09/07/18 06:47 PM
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He used the word "sensing".
/r/askTRP09/07/18 06:03 PM
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You're subconsciously reading her body language and expressions.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 05:08 PM
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Do you really choose to ignore them or you somehow do not register them? Is it only related to situations with women or do you notice similar pattern in other aspects of your life?
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:56 PM
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Yeah, something feels off.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 02:38 PM
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Ok, from my experience I can tell you that office game is slow at first and applying nightclub tactics won't work well or at all (although AWALT). So drop tinder contact with her unless she initiates. Since it's the office environment she'll obviously be a bit hesitant/afraid and you need to build familiarity. But women freaking love the idea of office romance. And even if she's not interested, you will pop on her friends radars. Think of Don Draper mixed with Christian Grey (in office environme…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 02:22 PM
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I missed the whole digital dating era and I live. IMO real fun for men starts after 30. Focus on improving yourself, it will pay off in spades later on.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 11:43 AM
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How old are you and how often and where you usually spot her at work?
/r/askTRP09/07/18 11:37 AM
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You're just looking for an excuse to bang this chick and trying to hide it behind some sort of TRP Messiah complex. Sure, do it, why not, but don't expect anyone to be thankful for this or support your decision. Imagine what will happen if you fail to bang her and she tells your buddy.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:42 AM
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Yes. Be humane. She genuinely could've felt shitty and didn't want to risk a bloodbath, even if you're into this kind of stuff. As for inviting a guy over... well, that's whole other story.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:32 AM
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Oh, this is very challenging, that's why I love doing it. And yes, you're right it may result in awkward situations if things go south, but please keep in mind that I'm well in my 30s, so there's not much drama, we're all adults. It's almost like doing business. Also, you're assuming that it's sexual harassment and poor gals are sex slaves. All I'm saying is that it's legal to have romantic relationships at work, but not display it publically. I've been to US many times and I fully understand wh…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:24 AM
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Ah, that would make sense, she usually displays this sort of erratic behaviour towards me. Kind of hit and run tactics like if she remembers how the dating was 10 or 15 years ago, had a looong break and tries to apply it now with awkward effect. But nontheless she acts nervous around me and about year ago she really upgraded her looks. Prelude to branch swinging I suppose or just frantic validation seeking for someone approaching the wall at 100 miles per hour. Or both.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:08 AM
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Oh, we have super long fully paid maternity and paternity leaves. C'mon guys, you stress waaay too much about this. Some prefer night game, some day game, I prefer this. After all TRP is a toolbox, right?
/r/askTRP07/07/18 10:01 PM
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It's legal in my country.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 09:36 PM
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Yeah, this was my initial interpretation, and when I think about it, at the previous party she also behaved... odd in my presence.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 09:13 PM
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Actually that's sort of my specialty. I treat my workplace as a hunting grounds. And I accept the risks.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 09:07 PM
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It's not really an AWALT case, it's BPD classic.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 01:50 PM
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It only gets worse in an adult life. You need to learn to cut such people off.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 02:56 PM
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Ok, before you downvote me to the depths of hell read the whole thing and think for a moment. We all agree that gaming chicks at work can be risky and leave things awkward after it's over. That's true. It can. But not necessarily. From my experience it's not worse than gaming chicks outside your work or a classmate or a neighbour. Who the heck cares? I do it all the time and women love it (corporate environment). They LOVE the concept of office romance. To me it's the best place to practice day …
/r/askTRP18/06/18 12:34 PM
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I'm not sure you can call them plates in this situation. Since there is no sex involved they might be using you as ATM and emotional tampon AND at the very same time have sex with other, less religious guys. I'm not sure TRP will help out. As for your question on SMV - it might go both ways, depends on the type of women. You might be seen as a challenge for some of them and you may become invisible for other. In the end just remember about AWALT.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 02:50 PM
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I bet they wouldn't say it to Chad's face though. But yeah, I get this too with 30+ yo women and in the moment I never know if I should just ignore what they say and and treat it like a typical shit test or just back off and not risk wandering into rapey territory. I used to think that this is some sort of "blue pill stigma", like if they can sense a person who was blue pilled for so long and it turns them off. Lets wait for some more experienced folks to comment.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 02:29 PM
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Well I'm not judging you because I'm no better, but let's put it straight - you're the one who's doing the betrayal and trying to find an excuse to leave your wife and continue banging other women. I get it, really. But realize this, you don't need an excuse, closure, thumbs up from her, us or anybody. If you want to do it, do it, but consult with lawyer first, make sure it's worth it and be aware that it will be hard for you to find some quality women for any kind of LTR or build a new family i…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 11:38 AM
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So do you feel like leaving it then anytime soon? Yeah, I thought so 😁 Oh and there is a terrible punishment for leaving. You become a beta or sigma. But joking aside, I think we're missing the big picture the OP has paited here.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 01:01 PM
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You'll be tormenting yourself whilst giving her free attention and validation and keeping things this way will further cloud your judgement. In my experience the only thing that will work in your current state of mind is blocking her on all social media. Only then you will be able to see clearly and regain your power. I know it feels overwhelming and you'll be looking for any possible excuse to hold onto this failed relationship but in every scenario be it splitting for forever or getting back t…
/r/askTRP10/06/18 12:52 PM
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Haha love it.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 11:23 AM
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It would be hard to keep frame in the beginning, so I would advise avoiding being around her until you feel more stable. But even then be prepared for uncontrollable blue pill relapses. Your friends will know that's something is up anyway, no matter what. And it's none of their business. It will be awkward, sure, but that's on HER not you. Don't feel obliged to explain anything to anyone. It will create drama, make you doubt your judgement. You need to be unmoved by anything she does. And I can …
/r/askTRP10/06/18 11:19 AM
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Oh I wouldn't do this nonchalant bit, as it in fact equals giving her attention/orbiting. I can bet that she'll try to hoover him back anyway and he mustn't fall for it. Indifference is the key here.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 10:08 AM
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Been on the exact same boat. It's not a biggie really unless there were some deep feelings involved. You've perfectly answered your own question - ignore or even block on social media, at work keep it short and basic, do not pickup breadcrumbs she might soon start dropping. Avoid being alone with her and keep your distance. Control yourself and prepare for eventual feelings (negative or positive) for her to flare up due to such abrupt broke up. Do not be passive aggressive, be indifferent. EDIT:…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 08:46 AM
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Go for it, come back after few years and have you 'local' SMV skyrocket.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 08:31 AM
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Very interesting. Everyone here should be reminded from time to time that the red pill should not become a cult. And as a long time lurker (new account) I've noticed that we sometimes treat all this lift, awalt, idgaf, at/bb etc. etc. as if it was a gospel or science mixed together.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 07:35 AM
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Just be aware that it gets considerably worse in adult life, especially at work. Majority of people are just lazy, selfish and opportunistic.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 08:27 PM
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Some sort of daddy issues I suppose.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 07:37 AM
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I would ask what is your real goal here. To be huge ASAP? If so, what's the reason behind it. Would getting fatter affect other areas of your life? Would getting huge solve any of your problems? Perhaps you can find a better balance here.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 09:34 PM
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It means exactly the same that "I just think we're too different". It's either shit test or she's not interested. Or both.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 03:29 PM
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Always try to dress as good as the top tier people at you work, or even better (depends what type of work it is). It's always better to overdress, as it will distinguish you from the grey masses. It shows you're taking your job seriously and you'll be amazed how more seriously people will take you. Just make sure you are wearing clothes that fit. Not baggy, not too tight. Invest in some nice office friendly cologne, like Chanel Bleu. You get the idea.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 03:19 PM
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This. Also even if there is anything 'wrong' with you, then it's rather slightly narcissistic than sociopathic. Which actually should help you achieve your goals.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:44 PM
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Guys, seriously, gaming women at work isn't that bad. Just don't game the crazy ones and don't overdo it.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:28 PM
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Don't use deodorant, use long lasting parfums. In the end it has much better effect. You will sweat anyway, at least nothing will clog your armpits and you won't smell cheap.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:31 AM
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