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A girl is nice, you try to be a gentleman and not move too quick, then she turns cold. What happened? Prince Charming fantasy wore off. Women want a man to sweep her off her feet into a romantic paradise and if that does not happen she loses interest. She sees you, thinks "Maybe that is my Prince Charming" and gives you chance. When it turns out you are a regular guy she loses interest. Since all men are in the end regular guys, all women eventually lose interest, light switch effect in sidebar.…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/20 02:50 AM
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after 3 times of getting your heart destroyed, you change inside. Brilliant! The young man cannot control his emotions, they are new and strange. When he falls in love it is literally uncontrollable passion. He learns the hard way to control his emotions until the woman can be trusted. This is a conscious, deliberate decision. He holds himself back in case she is just stringing him along. If she does not put out after a few dates he stops calling her. That is hard but the mature thing to do, the…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 09:29 PM
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After 12 days I get an email about your response? Whatever. Hopefully Red Pill will raise male consciousness so men do not become what you describe. 1950s defined gender roles need not apply. The man as bread winner and dutiful husband is for today's losers. Once his children are grown he dumps his menopausal wife for arm candy half his age. Why not? Women dump men constantly, give them a taste of their own medicine. When she says no to you say no to her and see a lawyer. Wedding vow says "to ha…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 02:56 AM
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In the Red Pill universe masculinity has two parts- first, a man has to have something to offer a woman and second, he needs the power to tell her, get lost, my way or the highway. This is better seen in reverse- women despise poor, shy guys, that is, young guys. It's really matter of age. The 50-year-old male will have an estate and can give a woman the comfort and protection she craves and the 25-year-old cannot. And young guys are needy and insecure. Outside Red Pill masculinity means nothing…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/20 10:47 PM
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ONEitis is a disease of youth. The young man, called beta by TRP, is attracted by nature to the most attractive girl, who in turn is the most likely to tell him to bug off. Much better for the youth to practice on a homely girl who might appreciate his manly attention and, if she tells him to bug off, she won't break his heart and in fact help him might develop the correct response: What's wrong with YOU, lady? A real man, called alpha by TRP, makes micropasses, such as patting the empty chair n…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/20 05:59 AM
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What's funny is, girls go steady with guys they see on TV. It's all in their heads. What WE call "boyfriend" is not what THEY call boyfriend. Women are emotionally cold, they have "friends" which TRP calls "plates". They go out with a guy who is to them nothing but a meal ticket, and that is all they know. The guy is hoping to "get lucky" but to her he is literally no one. He wants to love her passionately and unconditionally but she is as cold as a stump and has no clue what emotions even are.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/20 05:22 AM
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"high quality women are so rarely single for any length of time" How do you know? I suspect they are not so rarely single for any length of time. Just because you see a "high quality women" with a guy does not mean they are a couple. She's out to get attention and he is just a friend. Recall "women want attention like men want sex". Ask, where are all the women? Good question. Recall in school and college guys are surrounded by girls then grad and POP! No more women. Where did they go? They are …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/20 05:03 AM
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Shit tests are simply to see if you are needy or not Yep. TRP's "shit tests" are a way for women to dominate men with capricious consent. "I know you want me but you can't have me" is her game. The real man, TRP's alpha, knows when the games start the relationship ends- no means no, you say no to me and I say no to you and it's over between us. When the female knows this, and the man has something to offer, then she will control her games. The young female is unable to control the game because s…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/20 02:35 PM
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Yep, this is the problem with TRP "alpha male". The only alpha males in the real world are rock musicians, movie actors, famous athletes, billionaires. Since we are not, the distinction alpha-beta is misleading. We are all "beta" and there is nothing superior about "alpha". The romance world is divided between real men and young men. Young men are clumsy in their mating dance and called "creeps" by women. Real men are much older, around 50, virile and strong and self-controlled, worldly. Real me…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 09:22 PM
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Gene errs. Women are hot for plumbers and tow truck drivers and construction workers because they are "real men". While I agree with most of TRP I disagree with hypergamy. Women are notoriously poor at choosing men because women operate romantically purely on instinct. A woman will leave her millionaire software engineer boyfriend because he is "weak" i.e. shy and "needy" i.e. committed, a man who is faithful and loving and supportive, and run off with a junky musician and in a year wind up in a…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 09:01 PM
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Yep, thanks to you and to others for pointing this out. Times have changed. In those days, women considered it weak and old-fashioned to go whining over what some guy said or how he looked at you funny and made you uncomfortable 20 years ago and how that traumatized you for life. Instead, women showed strength by standing up straight, looking a man in the eye, and talking dirty because she had an education and career and was "equal". Now women want it any way they like, hypocrisy be damned. Fina…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 08:48 PM
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Brilliant! I like the idea you "narrow the range of options" which includes sex from the start. That is, you have to appear interested in her from first impressions and eliminate other options, behavior defined as "frame", "amused mastery", or "if you can fake sincerity you have it made". Male mating ritual is the learned focus of passion, female mating is physical and instinctual. Since women are turned off by "weak" (= shy) and "needy" (= commitment), the man who is confident and direct turns …
/r/TheRedPill06/12/19 11:03 PM
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Lots of people in the military are like that, angry at their parents. I read a discussion where some guy said virtually everyone on his ship joined the Navy to get away from their families, and many posts in that thread backed him up. It's not taboo if you know where to look. I am sure you'd find similar stories of neglect at women's shelters.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 11:48 PM
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Agreed, kiwifx. The neglected child carries lifelong scars, the wanted child bears lifelong confidence. You do not just get over it like in a media fantasy. This is serious business. Thanks to Red Pill for educating males when their fathers cannot. Serious as in "healthy mind in a healthy body" excludes the heart, found in "sex education belongs in the home". When the family fails the child fails, no choice. Of the three, assuming you are in good health and most of us are, the heart, the emotion…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 11:43 PM
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My father was spoiled rotten as a child and grew up a sissy, that is, a man with a woman's personality. All women are spoiled by their youthful beauty. Men are not. Men have to learn to be men. A boy who is a sissy never learns to be a man. My father was not a sissy like homosexual but sissy like a woman, for example play emotional games like denial in order to show superiority, self-centered conceit "it's all about ME!", a mean angry guy, a psychopath. As a child matures he goes through "open p…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 11:24 PM
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One more time: At every age there are more men looking for women than women looking for men. So it IS the women's fault. Women do not have the passion to satisfy all men. Blaming men for women's weak passion plays into women's hands, gives them power, and is feminist. Women deny they lose passion. They will always demand that men work harder to arouse them as they lose their passion. They blame the men. Women have weak passion and lose what little passion they have. Female passion is rare, fleet…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 03:21 PM
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All religions back you up on this. Let go of outcomes, they are in the hands of God. Focus on means, for in means are virtue and morals, not outcomes. Let go of judgment. Judgment is in the hands of God and God does not like to be mocked by mortals who presume to take judgment unto themselves. Worldly success in any form is a distraction from worship. Satan sends worldly success as a temptation from worship. We all need to ask God for strength to resist this temptation. Love the sinner, hate the…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 01:27 AM
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"the government forcing marriages" is reality. With tax law and common property law, including common law marriage in some states, government encourages if not demands marriage. We take it for granted, and living as an unmarried couple is frowned upon. The converse is government supplied consorts. Dan Savage in the Maher interview mentioned Handmaiden's Tale, a fictional reversal of reality. Incels might demand government give them women in the same way women demand government give them men. Gen…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 11:40 PM
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Jordan Peterson attacks leftists for defending all those incel losers when the simple solution for those losers is to "be a man". That's like the rightists who tell poor people to "get a job". Leftist means support the people, and since incels are the people, they are supported by leftists. I'll meet your rightist and raise you a Dan Savage on Overtime May 18, 2018, look it up. He says incels should be able to buy sex without stigma. And I'll mention that at every age there are more men looking …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 11:15 PM
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Sex education = romantic education = Red Pill, not the mechanics of sex. And by romantic education in the home I mean a loving nurturing family, which is rare these days, so how to compensate? If every family were loving then none of us would be here. "Teach them how to maintain frame" where, at home, at school, in media? Frame means only to play the game without naming it. In romance, if you name the game you spoil it. The media action hero that gets all the girls plays the game without naming …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 07:50 PM
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Testosterone feed back loop, a provocative concept. I wonder if it's been proven in the real world.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 05:30 PM
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Testosterone- Viagra for women.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 05:26 PM
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"Romance novel heroes are the stuff of hypergamy's wet dream" you betcha. The Prince Charming fantasy is right there in print, boosting women's expectations. I deny hypergamy because the "better man" does not exist. Women only chase fantasies. A woman sees an attractive man, he's my Prince Charming! she thinks. Then, after a few dates or weeks, months, years, the fantasy wears off and he turns out to be a regular guy and she falls for another Prince Charming. This is the generator of the "light …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 05:13 PM
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Don't complain, don't explain, good romantic advice if there was any, and I am sure someone has brought this up in the 167 comments before mine. The real man says, fuck me or fuck you. There is nothing else. What is a woman for? If she does not put out, then good bye. After all, they say no to us and men need to say no to women. Not tonight? Then fuck you, I'm going sky diving (or scuba diving or earn a PhD, real men do not need women to be real men). Red flags are important. As soon as the game…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 12:47 AM
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"Plenty of faking is in store to keep the gravy train coming but it can be volatile." BINGO! You got it, my man. Women fake orgasms, and why? Satisfy the man, satisfy the gravy train. "She isn't going to be genuinely lustful in the sack" no kidding, and a big problem for men who have no clue women have no desire. They are cold inside. Men say, we need Viagra for women! Females throughout nature want sex not for sex itself but for something else, mainly the biological clock which men do not have …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 08:46 PM
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Looks are less important than social status for women, looks are more important than social status for men. Compare a young guy going to college on student loans, he is nobody romantically but a young woman going to college on student loans is at her romantic peak. Compare a 50-year-old wealthy male business owner, he is a hot "real man" for a woman half his age. But a 50-year-old wealthy female business owner is a romantic nobody to any man since she has lost her fertility. Women want men who h…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 03:55 PM
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"Nicholson.. shamelessly flirted with Jennifer Lawrence—50-odd years his junior" Sounds good to me. Lots of movies have romantic leads decades older than his female love interest, no one minds. A wide age variance might seem creepy but in the real world it's fine.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 04:19 AM
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I'll match your Jack Nicholson and raise you a Dean Martin. The book "Dino: Living High in the Dirty Business of Dreams" uses the life story of Martin to riff on sex, music, business, underworld, Rat Pack, on an on, a brick of a book you cannot put down. Now there is an alpha male who used music to charm the ladies and used indifference and confidence as a laid-back attitude that made him millions.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 04:09 AM
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"The alpha/beta dichotomy is a simplification, it doesn't accurately describe the social behavior of any animal, let alone us." Except it does. Alpha males are proficient at the mating dance, betas are not. Say a bird flutters down and starts his mating dance, strutting around, and the female flies off. That's a beta. When the male becomes proficient with his mating dance, he can attract a mate. A human male who is proficient at the mating ritual is alpha. He attracts a mate, marries, and leaves…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 03:52 AM
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Although off topic, I'd just like to point out that early modern humans out of Africa were the smart ones. And just why there are no blue eyed or blond Asians, I have no clue. You mention introversion. Since I am typing anyway, I suggest looking up introversion as originally defined by Jung. He uses the term to define "internal locus of control" that is, confidence, as opposed to extrovert, "external locus of control" that is, depending on approval of others. That is different from the popular d…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 03:42 AM
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"she'll try and branch swing back to you"? fat chance. What does a woman say when you try to hook up with an ex-girlfriend? Get lost. Too bad for her. Over time, men get manlier and women lose their looks. There is not reason to go back, a real man never does. A real man finds a younger and sexier woman.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 01:03 AM
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Asians have more Neanderthal DNA than whites. Non-Africans also have Homo erectus DNA. Apparently as early modern humans spread out of Africa they encountered groups of Homo erectus as well as Neanderthal. This genetic diversity makes non-Africans healthier. We know blacks do not live as long as whites or Asians, and it's not just life style decisions.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 12:58 AM
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Neil Armstrong, the first man on the moon, was divorced by his wife, a horse-faced bitch. What was she thinking? "I'm too good for the most famous man in the world, I'll divorce him to show him I'm better". He promptly married another woman, much more beautiful and sexy. Then he died. Point is, SMV and your "Men usually lock in to one woman per social convention, and shut out other women, if for no other reason for appearances. Men shouldn't". Case in point, Armstrong did not, plenty of women we…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 10:26 PM
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Acting indifferent is part of the game, the mating dance throughout nature. Nature documentaries on television show this. The female will act indifferent when a male performs his mating dance, a male will act indifferent when challenged by another male. Emphasis on ACT since the ritual is serious, it IS an act. And the dance itself is honest? Ask a lizard, ask a bird, ask a spider or fish or any other creature when he dances, wiggles, and flashes his colors to arouse a female who pretends to be …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 09:57 PM
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Real men lean into fear. They are afraid, and know from that fear that they are on the edge, away from the comfort zone that does not lead to growth. I forgot the name of the book I read that in or I'd give credit.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 09:32 PM
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Let's compare parents. Say your parents argued all the time, showed no love for each other or for you when you were little, then divorced. After the divorce, none of the adults your parents dated showed any interest in you either. Now Chad Thundercock's parents loved each other, hugged and kissed each other and hugged and kissed Chad when he was a baby. They held Chad and told him they loved him and supported him and helped him with his homework so he got good grades and his teachers liked him. …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 09:16 PM
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"I told her sorry, nothing I can do" yep that's the way it works. Women play hard to get. If she does not put out after a few dates, stop calling. She'll probably forget about you, which justifies you dropping her. but now and then she''ll call you back, "ask about me", why don't you call anymore? The best answer is, sorry, you had your chance. That is what THEY do to US- call an old flame, she'll say, "you again? Get lost". Once a nice girl told me, let's be friends. I paused, and walked away. …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 04:55 AM
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"Her body is signaling to everyone around her 'Hey look how pretty I am'" because her reproductive years are few. Nature must advertise aggressively or she misses her chance. Men are all equally fertile so they need not advertise fertility. Men have a great advantage this way and need to say no to sexy girls because they lose their fertility before your eyes and men stay virile forever. Males throughout nature perform mating dances, that is how a male advertises his virility. That beauty makes w…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 04:46 AM
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Women want above all a high status male, and the easiest way to show a high status mate is to spend money irresponsibly, as if to show "my man has so much money we can just throw it away". Thus irresponsible spending GAINS women status. Second, the woman's greatest fear is her man values his money more than he desires her. Thus a gift of an expensive ring shows he values her more than he values his money, and makes her lust for him. When a man exhibits financial responsibility it shows her he is…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 04:32 AM
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"No means No" means one thing- time to say goodbye. When the no-game starts, the relationship ends. Men need to say no to women like women say no to men. A man who is ready to walk away at any time is a real man. Men who allow a woman to jerk them around are weak and needy, a big turn off for women. Women will stifle the no-game if they know the man will walk away. If she still cannot control the no-game it justifies ending the relationship. A woman who cannot control her power plays cannot sust…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 04:26 PM
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Hello. To pursue your points: -"socialist demand side economist" = ? Please explain. -"sitting on cash improves a rich persons life? It doesn't". You are correct. Giving the rich more money does them no good. They dump it in the stock market. -"interest rates on loans drop and incentives others to borrow"? Nope. No one invests without a return; it's the return that drives the investment. Imagine borrowing a billion dollars to build the world's most efficient buggy whip factory. That's dumb becau…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 03:35 AM
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"Who are the individuals most likely to be parasites on the economic system, those with the lowest potential"? Nope. The rich, who sit on their cash. The strongest driver of the national economy is consumer demand. Put money in the hands of a poor person, and they'll spend it and make jobs. Put money in the hands of a rich guy and he keeps it, and we all get poorer. Those with the lowest intelligence are the workers who create the most wealth and benefit society more than a hedge fund manger, wh…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 05:27 PM
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Much of this was covered in sidebar "Women: The Most Responsible Teenager in the House". Females mature earlier and faster than males due to the need for her to take care of her children. "Transfer support and resources from men to women"? That's old fashioned. With more and more women with careers, income, estates, women do not need men's support and resources. If you divorce and remarry, your ex will get half the estate but you new spouse has an estate with no net loss. "They are not YOUR chil…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 05:18 PM
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The black American community is in its current condition due to its being African where marriage is not a tradition. Men and women have sex because it is in their nature. Women bear the children, and take care of them because they bore them, while the man wanders off. Look at any street market in black Africa, the sellers area all women, the men are drinking tea. That is their culture, not a criticism. I do not care, they can live any way they like. What I find interesting is the idea that their…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 11:32 PM
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'honeymoon phase", a good term for an relationship that is euphoric at first then deteriorates. A man is like a crab that scuttles along and a woman is like an angel floating in the clouds of her conceit. A man to catch a woman has to rise up and perform the mating dance and a woman to maintain a relationship has to control her conceit. In your case, the woman has given up controlling her conceit becasue the man has lost his novelty value and become just another guy. The female equivalent is whe…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 01:14 AM
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"needs a Beta to show off to her gfs, coworkers, family, etc, to validate she is worth the investment from a BB" precisely, and I wish more were made of this on Red Pill. Women come on to guys to show them off for the reasons you list. No man would do so, it a natural behavior for women and something a young man needs to learn. Let's say at a party a lady asks your name then introduces you to her friends then tells you to get lost, and you stand there thinking, what was that about? Or a girl com…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 12:56 AM
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You talk like that with internet dating. "SWM 35 seeks SWF 25 for LTR" or some such formula, nothing to figure out. Then the details are negotiated- Do you read books? What is your job? Do you like camping? So if one turns out to be a 300 lb diabetic on welfare, then hit delete and that's that. Nice girls do not go to bars to get laid. Nice girls are going to use the internet as an intermediary to screen for chumps. Nice guys do not go to bars to find girls. They too will use the internet to scr…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 12:43 AM
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In a romance forum such as this, the alpha male is defined in terms of woman. In the real world, the alpha male has little to do with women. The alpha male is defined as a man of action, with many interests, women being only one. "No one is on your side. Not your family. Not your friends. Not your girlfriend. No one" refers to do your own thing, follow your bliss. Women have no role in this. If confidence required a high level of achievement, few would be confident, which is opposite. We should …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 03:26 AM
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"Judge a person by their ability to betray you not by their loyalty to you." A powerful statement, in a romance forum, that connects with "the one who invests the least in a relationship has the most control". "I could be at the top but who wants to put in that effort' indeed, wider than a romance topic but important nevertheless. Confidence is important for romance, confidence just by itself. Another topic described how, if confidence was earned only by highest achievement, no one would be conf…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 02:56 AM
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Plan the work, work the plan. Reading and thinking about romance is the first step, putting those into action is the next. Romantic intelligence is basic to romantic success. No male can have romantic success without romantic intelligence. Part of romantic intelligence is appearing to be sincere when in fact you are 100% analytic. The woman MUST feel you are being sincere. If she feels you are faking it, you are a klutz and she loses interest. Young men without practice are rejected by women and…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 05:32 AM
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