OneCuriousMFGuy Archive

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1	I Met a 40-Year-Old Virgin: Here’s What He Taught Me About Settling in Dating Very insightful. I never thought of it that way. I didn’t realise it but I may be numbing. Although I don’t resort to doing those things to make myself feel better I do allow myself to feel. Instead of expressing it out loud I just write it down. Briefly dating someone that seemed like relationship material ironically gave me so much motivation to do better. It was short but sweet. I’m probably more just lazy and contempt rather than numb though. I’ll keep this in mind. You’re a really good frie…	/r/seduction	08/01/25 02:04 AM
2	How to stop Catching Feelings when dating? I’ll let you know when I figure it out lol. From what I’ve noticed, the best way is just to have an abundance of options. When you start to date multiple people you have less time and energy to put into one girl. If you think about it, girls naturally have options so they don’t need to break a sweat ghosting and moving to the next guy. As much as I don’t like mind games, they have to choose you before you choose them and hold off on investing feelings of commitment to them. When you have options…	/r/seduction	26/07/24 10:22 AM
3	How to stop Catching Feelings when dating? It was rough learning this the hard way. I nurtured those feelings despite it not making sense so early into the dating scene. Things like cuddling just release more oxytocin basically makes you want to care more and stay with a person. No wonder some guys just get up and leave. Unfortunately I happen to naturally care a lot about whoever I’m seeing. Doesn’t matter how attracted I am to them as I feel it’s necessary for whatever reason so it’s quite the balancing act	/r/seduction	26/07/24 07:32 AM
3	Beautiful women into me, but I have low self-esteem Huh that advice could be applied to pretty much anything lol. Basically challenging your thoughts and internal beliefs. “I can’t do this” “that’s cap bro”	/r/seduction	21/07/24 09:36 AM
1	Girls WILL put themselves in positions to let you make a move Bro this happened to me once a few months back because i hadn’t been on a date in years at this point and it’s not like I did anything special look wise. I looked the same maybe just made a good impression dressing decent and looked more presentable. She was wearing comfortable clothing, hair bit messy but overall still pretty good. Anyways I did nothing special talk wise on the date and she asks and hints on what the next will be. We talked about horror movies. I innocently and genuinely sugges…	/r/seduction	19/03/24 11:06 AM
2	Did I fuck up? I’m not OP but got pinged for this. Agree with being genuine advice but it’s context dependent and I think both advice applies. In this case OP seems to have just overly expressed interest in her well too early before even their first date so the other person has suggested he tone it down significantly. Your advice would be more practical throughout couple dates they have. Unfortunately modern dating complicates things, there are “unspoken” rules and such to navigate texting and doing things etc…	/r/seduction	16/03/24 04:29 AM
2	Did I fuck up? Would be nice to have known a lad like you. I’ve still got years to go, friends are many moons behind in the dating scene so I’m picking up lessons fast but you’ve articulated much of what I’m thinking. Get what you mean when you say it sounds “manipulative” in a sense to be mysterious and not be upfront. It’s just who I am to not waste others time, hence, my slight impatience. I just lightly said “i think I kinda like you” and she responded back the same in a genuine tone. But I also got tired …	/r/seduction	15/03/24 04:02 PM
8	Not making any progression Oooo once this guy patches up his minor mistakes, he’ll be unstoppable	/r/seduction	15/03/24 03:51 PM
1	Question for the people that are good at getting hook ups. Do your hook ups just happening or do plan to get a hook up at all cost when going out? Wish I had you around to motivate me haha. All my buddies like to stick to the sidelines and I’m not entirely used to going to things on my own just yet.	/r/seduction	15/03/24 03:48 PM
3	Did I fuck up? An unfortunate reality and a lesson all guys had to probably learn early on. Though I do have conflicting thoughts on this still. I’m not of a fan of these goose chase games generally. If I like someone I’ll say so after a few dates but If there’s no active plans being made, I cut it off in a reasonable time out of respect. Don’t like the idea of seeing and getting intimate with multiple people at once. Call me slightly immature but if they’re gonna randomly come back after few weeks, would it a…	/r/seduction	15/03/24 02:39 PM
0	Girl thinks all I want is sex. Can I turn this around or should I give up. Neatly written. Also unexpected fellow Batman Arkham person. Am I stupid	/r/seduction	15/03/24 01:33 PM
3	Girl thinks all I want is sex. Can I turn this around or should I give up. Didn’t read the whole post but def agree mostly with the overall sentiment here in general. Fairly solid advice No.1 in particular. Recently made a good call the first time with a ghosting person and then messed up on the second. Couldn’t stand this game of cat and mouse when I was trying to be respectful of the other by not seeing others for the time being. Unfortunately harsh reality is a numbers game. Difficult trying to find a real one and a lack of options def gets you here. Just observe wh…	/r/seduction	15/03/24 01:23 PM
2	average looking guys who have had success dating, what did you do? Funny enough that’s sorta type of vibe I get from reading some of the blog posts. It feels professional mixed in with a “big brother” vibe or like talking to a really good best friend giving genuine advice that explains and gives his own experience to back it up. Might be a preference thing but most times guides are written straight to the point without explanation on how they came to that conclusion so it’s kinda refreshing :)	/r/seduction	02/03/24 09:38 AM
1	average looking guys who have had success dating, what did you do? Off topic but I randomly found this and liked the way you write in general as it integrates your own personal experiences that is fairly relatable to make a point. Pretty enjoyable even if just reading for leisure.	/r/seduction	02/03/24 09:14 AM
1	FR [20Y/male] slept w 3 girls on holiday w the boys in 5 days & how I did it Do you occasionally just notice someone staring using your corner side eye? Happened a couple times and it’s so bizarre haha. I guess having a fun time usually does it	/r/seduction	30/08/23 03:48 PM