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I disagree. Its interesting to hear certain men talk about how women pretend to be "backed into a corner" but have never experienced what its like to be a woman. Most of the time when women vent to me its because they feel like the won't be heard by other people, which is exactly what is happening here. A lot of men will only accept that a woman who "can talk straight about sex and gender politics" is a woman who shares their exact views and won't bring up differing opinions. It's easier to pret…
/r/MensRights07/03/23 05:06 PM
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I wasn't talking about male birth control, but unfortunately the only reliable methods are to use a condom and pull out or to get a vasectomy. That doesn't mean we should take away women's birth control. (Expecially since hormonal birth control is used to manage a variety of medical conditions.) There are many male birth control options being tested, but I doubt any of them will be made (except for the male pill) because big pharma would rather keep people paying for drugs as opposed to using an…
/r/MensRights06/03/23 09:11 PM
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You need to reread my comments, especially that bit where I said I have no problem with people who go their own way, I have a problem with people who "pump and dump" others. If men and women who say they're going their own way actually do that then it would be lovely as they won't abuse the opposite sex any longer. (This goes for men who pump and dump women, as well as women who use men for money.) Also, women do have dozens of options for birthcontol if they have the money to pay for it, which …
/r/MensRights06/03/23 06:08 PM
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I'm not whining about men, I'm stating the reasons women aren't having sex and have information to back it up. Not once did I blame men or say men are at fault, I'm just struggling to understand how this is a problem for men when they're having more sex than women are in the last few years. (Are women not allowed to go their own way like men are?) I really wish this sub would bring up and try and solve issues men actually face, like schools contacting mothers when fathers are listed as being the…
/r/MensRights06/03/23 05:48 PM
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Why do you believe women aren't having sex? Also, I never said they were facts. Women not having sex is due to a cumulation of factors, like the ones I've mentioned. These are just some of the important ones that I got from actually talking to the women around me.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 04:51 PM
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The graph shows "under 35s who have not had sex in the last year". The number of men who have not had sex drops from 23% to what appears to be 18%, meaning more men are having sex. Edit: The overall trend is that both men and women are having less sex as the years go on. It isn't an outlier that currently men are having less sex because it flip-flops between the two sexes.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 04:19 PM
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I'm not a feminist, but can you please link your data? Here's mine: https://imgur.com/HGlnCTJ Men are having more sex between 2020-2021 than women. Women don't have reliable access to birth control. https://www.usatoday.com/story/money/retail/2022/07/21/walgreens-pharmacy-birth-control-condoms/10110827002/
/r/MensRights06/03/23 04:03 PM
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Just like how men aren't entitled to a woman's body. Humans aren't entitled to anyone's body.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 03:59 PM
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Would you like to tell me what it means to "face consequence of their actions"? I'm genuinely curious. Getting plan B if a condom breaks to prevent an egg from meeting sperm? Responsible. Using birth control to prevent an egg from being released? Responsible. Getting sterilized to never get pregnant in the first place? Responsible. They're doing everything possible to prevent pregnancies despite how hard it is to access this stuff.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 03:28 PM
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The repeal of Roe, pharmacies refusing to fill birth control prescriptions, and doctors not sterilizing women despite them wanting to be sterilized, means that many women don't feel safe having sex anymore. And that isn't mentioning how there is a visible spike in the data for both men and women as they weren't having sex (due to isolating) because of covid. Edit: You "not being allowed" to talk about "real" reasons tells me everything I need to know. You know nothing. (1) Women are scared about…
/r/MensRights06/03/23 06:04 AM
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Tate locked people in his home in Romania and refused to let them leave claiming the Romanian police wouldn't do anything about it. He's not needed. Edit: If it is a lie it hasn't been disproven. Him claiming he hasn't prevented anyone from leaving when a handful of people say otherwise isn't disproving anything.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 02:45 PM
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This is why its important to live with someone before deciding to move in long term and get married. You might think someone is your other half only to find out they don't bother with house chores, see you as a work horse, take you for granted while buttering you up so you don't leave, etc. If the biggest reason why men are going their own way is that women might break up with them then they should go their own way already. There's nothing wrong with admitting you're no longer a match. Edit: Her…
/r/AntiFeminists06/11/22 02:58 PM
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MGTOW repeatedly talked about "pumping and dumping women", how to find a girl who will do all the chores you need them to do but lead them on and never marry them, said women shouldn't vote, and regularly called women dogs. Even original MGTOW members had left these online spaces because it wasn't about men lifting up other men anymore, it was about how to use and abuse women. Still having relationships with women, whether it is sexual or romantic, isn't going your own way. Go your own way alrea…
/r/MensRights06/11/22 02:53 PM
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Out of curiosity, it took you "2 years of confrontation" to make her agree to no kids fully knowing she wanted them and your sex life hasn't been good. You cannot compromise on having kids and that should've been the first sign to break up with her. You also didn't follow up and ask if you two had safe sex, you just assumed, so unfortunately some of the blame lies with you. Why did you stay together? Why haven't you gotten a vasectomy yet if you know you didn't want kids? If you were drunk and s…
/r/MensRights26/10/22 02:00 PM
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I haven't read anything more true.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:38 AM
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Except that HVM are different for all women and that if significantly less women than men are using these apps then women would be more likely to let go of these apps compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:35 PM
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Realistic female characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:22 PM
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I like how this post talks about the struggles of men asking women out but I rarely hear about someone complaining how uncomfortable women feel being asked out in inappropriate scenarios. Get turned down? Move on, don't waste your time. ...So many men don't take "no" for an answer that its mentally exhausting having to prove that you actually have a partner (because they won't believe it). I also asked my male partner out, so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:11 PM
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There are significantly less women on dating apps than men. I think its men who need dating apps more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:55 PM
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Comparing richness to being a high value male isn't the same. Sure if everyone is rich then no one is rich, but based off of dating preferences not everyone has the same idea of a "high value male". My friend likes "big buff black men" (her words, she's not white either), while I don't care about height and like pudge. I also like larger noses and people around me don't. The one thing me and my friends believe is that a potential partner shouldn't be sexist and should have some sort of a job (i.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:49 PM
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Men who are tortured into listening to women vent endlessly have to leave people who emotion dump. I left both a male and female friend because they would emotion dump every time I talked to them regardless of the situation. It doesn't really matter what website I source in this case as both Psycology Today and the American Psycological Association say the same thing, one just puts the scientific articles they cited into a more reader friendly format in my opinion. The problem with rule 3 is tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:29 AM
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I don't agree with rule 1 because when it comes to venting men and women aren't that different. I have known women that want solutions and men that don't. It has less to do with sex and more to do with the type of person as well as the situation they're dealing with. I also don't believe that men resort to logic more than women. Both men and women express anger at equal rates but men are more likely to be outwardly aggressive (Psycology Today). They definitely don't "avoid" emotions getting in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:51 AM
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There's a difference between dating a bum (someone who doesn't have a job, doesn't care about looking for a job, and won't bother to help anyway with the finances) vs a man who has a lower paying job then you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:36 AM
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I'm saying this politely, but "rule 7" is a joke. If you cannot talk to your partner about the difficulties in your life then why are you dating them in the first place? I'd leave my partner if they felt like they couldn't talk about their frustrations with me. (There's also a difference between venting and emotion dumping.)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:23 AM
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(1) All people need to vent sometimes, both men and women, and bringing up a solution too soon might make it seem like their struggles are not important and can easily be fixed. (2) Men think extremely emotionally as well depending on the topic, they just don't seem to address it likely due to the "men aren't emotional hurr durr" nonsense. (3) My female friends will absolutely bring up facts in an argument (and even show stats depending on the specific argument), but for whatever reason many men…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:01 AM
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Courts are more likely to leave children with the parent that is home the most often and is therefore the most likely to be involved in child care. This also usually means that the parent who is at home more than the other usually has a lower paying job and women are less likely to earn more than their husbands who work longer hours. Yes women are seen as more nurturing than their husbands, but they also spend twice as much time on average taking care of the kids (and in over half of all divorce…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:01 AM
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Its funny to me how its "zero maternal instinct" if the mother doesn't want to deal with the kids but if the dad threatens to leave the kids for not being his (before finding out that they actually are his) then thats somehow okay. If my partner wants kids and I don't and they accuse me of something I consider to be a very vile act then they can have the kids. I wouldn't be able to deal with either of them unfortunately. (With that being said, if someone leaves me with their children temporarily…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:40 AM
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The other person could be calling the post toxic because this post heavily implies that the majority of women wouldn't want their children to get dna tested because they're cheaters when really it is more likely that the women feel betrayed by their partners not trusting them. I don't want kids but if my partner convinced me to have a kid and then asked for a dna test out of the blue I would absolutely leave him and the kid (if I knew he was otherwise mentally okay and the kid would be safe). Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:17 AM
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Its not about women who get "laid", its about women who orgasm while already having sex. I'd be willing to pull up other polls that show the percentage of satisfied women being less.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 06:10 PM
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I'm mostly pointing out the shockingly large amount of men who ignore the clit and assume all women can get off to piv sex. After a while, for a lot of women, its easier to lay there and let it be over with because trying to explain things to a partner who won't listen is like talking to a brick wall. Doesn't matter how enthusiastic you are during sex. Edit: Its funny how you said men are usually the ones doing all the "work" when women will blow men and end up getting nothing out of it (in fact…
/r/MensRights06/07/22 05:47 PM
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WebMD also says "that only about 7% of women experienced regret within five years after their own sterilization, called tubal ligation. And only about 6% of women regretted their husband's vasectomy." https://www.webmd.com/women/news/20020619/few-regrets-after-sterilization For the first post I only went with what was first recommended to me and what I believed to be more accurate based on knowledge I've already had, but it just depends on the sources you want to use.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 05:35 PM
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Its not like the protests or constant harassments in front of clinics have anything to do with it. Definitely not the misinformation around how birth control causes abortions either. /s
/r/MensRights06/07/22 04:18 PM
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"More than 90% of men usually experience orgasm in their intercourse; among women, this proportion is only around 50%." Never having to touch toilet seats or having to awkwardly squat? I accept your trade.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 04:17 PM
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Women can die in childbirth as well as a whole host of complications that come with carrying a child, so its not the same. The only way to do a paper abortion would be to allow men to sign on to be fathers at 10 weeks and allow women to get abortions around 15+ weeks, but it looks like that's not happening anytime soon.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 04:12 PM
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"as many of 27% of women who undergo this procedure, later regret it." https://femalesterilizationreversal.co.uk/regrets-about-tubal-ligation-consider-sterilisation-reversal/#:~:text=In%20all%2C%20as%20many%20of,you%20and%20explain%20your%20options. "up to 20% of men may regret their vasectomy procedures." https://www.bestvasectomy.com/vasectomy-regret-real-but-often-delayed-risk-of-vasectomy/#:~:text=Regret%3A%20Not%20the%20most%20immediate%20risk&text=It%20is%20estimated%20that%20up,also%20be%…
/r/MensRights06/07/22 04:07 PM
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To add to this, there are trap questions during interviews asking women when they intend on having children with some places not even giving women of certain ages jobs for fear of them taking time off of work to have a kid.. its disgusting.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 04:01 PM
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Translation: Women aren't getting the care they need for diseases such as cancer and certain cysts because pharmacists aren't filling prescriptions that contain one of the drugs used in abortions. All women, pregnant and not pregnant, remain affected.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 03:58 PM
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What men should've done is called for paper abortions where they have to sign a paper around the 10 week mark agreeing to be a parent while the woman could get an abortion at the 15 week mark. If he doesn't sign on she has time to abort. By making it an opt in system women can't "trick" men into having kids and men aren't forcing women to stay pregnant only to dump them when she's done giving birth. The issue is the government wouldn't like this as it would have to support single mothers who wou…
/r/MensRights06/07/22 03:54 PM
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If they cared about men's rights they would mobilize in public and share stories and legal ways how men can get out of actually abusive situations. They don't care about that, they just b*tch about women. Compare that with women's subs that post dates on where there are protests, fund raisers, how women can effectively report rapists, etc. Edit: There are no "legal remedies" for women to get out of abusive situations either (depending on where you live). The thing is is that on a lot of women's …
/r/MensRights06/07/22 03:50 PM
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Topless rights.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 03:42 PM
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No, that would be like saying you consent to having bodily harm done as a result of a car crash despite doing everything possible to prevent it (smarter cars, air bags, seat belts, safety seats for kids, etc.) Just because something could happen doesn't mean you consent to being disfigured as a result of the risks.
/r/MensRights26/06/22 06:40 PM
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Big pharma doesn't want male birth control to be a reality. The testicle baths are really promising, but they're a reusable tool one would keep at home. They're also working on a reversible "plug" that keeps sperm from being released from the testicles. The issue is that with these types of male brith control there would be a drop in the sale of female birth control pills, something women have to constantly take and pay for.
/r/MensRights26/06/22 06:17 PM
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Except how do you prove that the man did not give his consent earlier and only changed his mind after she couldn't get an abortion? If women on average find out they are pregnant around 5-6 weeks, then men should have 3-4 weeks to opt-out of rasing a child they don't want if 91% of abortions are done in the first 13 weeks. At around 9-10 weeks a guy should have to formally sign a paper (with his wife acknowledging that he read it) whether he is signing away his rights or choosing to stay a commi…
/r/MensRights26/06/22 05:59 PM
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Women don't normally sue for "regret", they sue for wrongful births when the sterilizations have failed. There are evaluations you have to take part in and sign papers stating you know you will be sterilized and will never have biological kids from that point on and doctors still won't preform these. (And that's even if you have the money or can convince your insurance to cover one.) Tubals aren't a realistic form of birth control for a lot of women, so please don't act like this is something th…
/r/MensRights24/06/22 04:41 PM
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"Use birth control" is a funny one when elected officials are also going after birth control, as well as insurance companies not providing them due to "religious" reasons. Tubals are also not easy to get unless you're over 30, have two kids, and are married. Women are routinely turned away from getting tubals and hysterectomies (yes, even if they have severe endometriosis) and are asked "what will your future husband want?". There are small lists women have created for other women of doctors who…
/r/MensRights24/06/22 04:31 PM
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This. I'm also not even talking about terminally ill fetuses that women will have to birth only for them to die, still forcing them to pay an average of $13,000 to $22,000. (As if men won't also be on the hook for this.)
/r/MensRights24/06/22 04:10 PM
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"Children" shouldn't be consequences and the "life" of something that doesn't have nerves to connect pain receptors to a brain shouldnt have priority over someone who can feel pain and emotions. I'm going to copy and paste this comment I wrote earlier, but overturning Roe will cause women to: • Be criminalized for miscarriages and still births they can't control (this has even happened in California), • Die because they can't get a life saving abortion (ex: sepsis from miscarriage and ectopic pr…
/r/MensRights24/06/22 04:08 PM
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"Life of mother" exceptions have also proven to not work, so it also blows my mind when people say this won't affect women who are dying as a result of a pregnancy complication. Unfortunately they will affect both pregnant women and women who have never been pregnant because doctors, nurses, and pharmacists won't be able to act out of fear or won't have the resources available for care. (I'd like to add that period tracking apps are selling information, states are looking into limiting pregnant …
/r/MensRights24/06/22 03:58 PM
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So when will we start punishing victims of car crashes for taking joyrides? Why should my tax dollars pay for life saving medical care because someone wanted to ride their car? Who cares if they were using airbags and seat belts (birth control, condoms, and plan B), it was still their fault for getting into a car. They should start paying with their own money for the consequences they've made and take responsibility.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 03:55 PM
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I'm not sure if you're aware of this, but banning abortion will cause women to: • Be criminalized for miscarriages and still births they can't control (this has even happened in California), • Die because they can't get a life saving abortion (ex: sepsis from miscarriage and ectopic pregnancies), • Not be allowed certain medications that treat tumors and stomach ulcers because they contain one of the chemical compounds used in abortion pills. (Even pharmacists are not filling prescriptions writt…
/r/MensRights24/06/22 03:52 PM
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I am not talking about abortion, I am talking about actual cancer care and how women with medical complications during pregnancy won't receive medical care because almost the majority of states with abortion restrictions don't include exceptions to save the life of the mother when the fetus is considered not viable (and those that do are still deterring doctors from doing their jobs). Even women who are not/have never been pregnant are being affected because they won't be able to find doctors wh…
/r/MensRights12/06/22 01:29 PM
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I just want to add that there are no amount of "social skills" to shake of a very persistent guy. Saying "no, I'm not interested" multiple times doesn't work, saying you have a partner of over 5 years doesn't work, saying you like women doesn't work (they just smirk and say they can turn you), etc. The one thing I found that works is saying I keep cockroaches as pets. If they see you as crazy only then will they leave you alone. Edit: For the people that are down voting me, can you please explai…
/r/MensRights12/06/22 06:03 AM
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"Abortions are allowed until a fetal heartbeat is detected." You will not be given an abortion pill unless a pregnancy is confirmed using a heartbeat and a positive pregnancy test. "Life of mother" exceptions have not worked in other counties causing women to die of ectopic pregnancies and miscarriages due to sepsis. Women have been incarcerated for accidentally ending pregnancies by getting in car crashes and even falling down stairs. Currently doctors are turning away miscarrying women in some…
/r/MensRights12/06/22 05:41 AM
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Roe v Wade is constitutional and shouldn't be left ot the states because this is an equal access to health care issue. ("nor shall any State ... deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws".) Even the threat of overturning it has caused some states to limit the teaching of surgical abortions which are also used to remove tumors and cysts from female reproductive organs. Even if doctors perscribe pills used to treat cancers and stomach ulcers, pharmacists aren't ha…
/r/MensRights12/06/22 05:23 AM
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One of the few scummy things members of MGTOW did was repeatedly talk about how to "pump and dump women" (their words). If they cared about going their own way then they would've been giving tips on how to avoid women, how their lives were better with women being absent, and how they could help other men going through divorces to separate from their toxic wives. Instead they just insulted women and didn't do anything productive. Even original members started to complain that the sub was too heav…
/r/MensRights06/06/22 01:42 AM
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The "you" is referring to men capable or r+pe which includes men from all classes. I'm not a victim, but I'm not exaggerating either. I honestly could care less, I just don't watch movies anymore and I'm picky about what I read. If anything its just exhausting. I decided to go to the movies recently and, again, went "never again". Want to watch a viking movie? R+pe in the background. An unrelated viking show? Boom, r+pe. A show about a popular French king? Sprinkle some r+pe in there. A spy show…
/r/MensRights26/05/22 10:15 AM
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How is something that still happens "whataboutism"? I don't think its redistribution of equality either, its more like "this is how you made us feel, doesn't feel good now, does it?" as opposed to "let's oppress men now" which will never happen given who we have in our government. I'm still waiting to see movie and shows which depict scenes of men's genitals being brutally disfigured get popular, but I know stuff like that won't be made popular. Guess I'll just stick to shows where female's ches…
/r/MensRights26/05/22 01:44 AM
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Its wrong, but its supposed to be a commentary on how women in movies were treated. Its not enough that women are now graciously allowed to just exist in films, they have to make men uncomfortable to see why these scenes in films were wrong. There's still r*pe of female characters shown in films, so I'm not sure what your issue is.
/r/MensRights26/05/22 01:18 AM
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I think there's is controversy because people believe women are going to get "free" leave regardless of pain when really its just so that doctors, teachers, and employers take period pain more seriously. Both Japan and South Korea have some form of menstrual leave and it isn't an issue for them. I don't think this is going to be more abused than other chronic pain issues like headaches/migraines.
/r/MensRights23/05/22 03:53 PM
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Its specifically talking about women who have painful periods as a result of hormone issues, endometriosis, PCOS, etc. Its not about all women who bleed. (Both endometriosis and PCOS affect 1/10 women and it can take up to 10 years to get an ENDO diagnosis with 8 years being the average because "painful periods are normal" and doctors won't listen.)
/r/MensRights23/05/22 03:11 PM
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Because women are already told how to treat men by their parents and grandparents. They're told from a young age that they'll "make great house wives" when they bake or do basic chores. They're told to put up in bed to keep their husbands fulfilled. They're turned away from sterilization because "what if your future husband wants kids" while ignoring that you don't want them. They're already told how to do x, y, and z for men.
/r/MensRights23/05/22 02:55 PM
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I've made fliers, volunteered, wrote to SCOTUS (in hopes someone will read it), etc. What have you done for causes you believe in? Edit: I am burnt out over a lot of injustices, I can't fight for every single one of them. Edit 2: You're more qualified to talk about this stuff than a lot of other people. I'm just really tired of people expecting others to fight for their beliefs while just sitting at home and ranting on the internet all day. People don't have to go all out, but even just rallies …
/r/MensRights13/05/22 10:02 PM
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Women are turning up for missing women. Where are the men protesting for missing men?
/r/MensRights13/05/22 05:50 PM
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Throwing up due to pain after being physically assaulted by being kicked in the balls is expected. I don't support men and women who kick other men in the nuts and we shouldn't encourage it. However, no one is kicked in the nuts 5-7 days straight every month from 10 years old to 40-60 years old. What is the point you're trying to make? Being assaulted is bad.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 12:06 PM
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Its a good thing in my previous comments I said that a doctor should be the one determining how bad a specific woman's periods are. (How is this bit being ignored?) Edit: "By treating all women as if they're required special treatment merely for menstruating" is the opposite of me saying doctors should determine their level of pain.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 11:04 PM
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I sadly don't believe that would be an option since period pains (no matter how painful) aren't taken as seriously as other pains. It is a good idea in theory though.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 11:00 PM
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Was the "DOES NOT HAPPEN" comment also in regards to your family? You do understand how the range of period pain doesn't magically exclude people with pain so horrible that they cannot move, right? You also ignored when I said a doctor should be determining a person's pain, not solely based on sex. "Please remember to judge something based on the entirety of it not the part you picked out and tried to take out of context."
/r/MensRights11/05/22 10:43 PM
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A woman on her period is not a disabled person (correct), but being on a period can have debilitating pain depending on the person. Lots of women I grew up with in high school and middle school would leave class to cry and throw up in the bathrooms and then go back to class like it was nothing. This should extend more towards schools than work since you can get held back if you miss too many classes. (For work you could get a doctors note.)
/r/MensRights11/05/22 10:28 PM
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That's why I said you'd need a doctors appointment to confirm your condition. The "This stupid "example" had never occured" bit is mildly infuriating to me cause here me and my friend are and we're living proof. I want to remove my reproductive organs but doctors won't do it because I'm too young and don't have kids. Edit: I also can't listen to music or watch TV because hearing noise increases my nausea. Yes I am seeking medical treatment.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 10:02 PM
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I think there's a difference between giving an able bodied person 3 extra days off per month vs giving someone who sits in a bath tub crying and throwing up for 2-3 days straight 3 extra days off per month. (Although things like this should be determined by doctors visits, not sex.) Edit: I need to start taking pictures and having physical proof of how often I vomit due to pain since people like me apparently don't exist.. and I'm the one in my family who has the highest pain tolerance. Edit 2: …
/r/MensRights11/05/22 09:34 PM
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Louisiana removed the line "implantation" after fertilization in their newest bill meaning anything that prevents a fertilized egg from implanting such as plan B, IUDs, and possibly the pill will likely be harshly controlled. There's no other reason why they would've removed that line. The pills unfortunately can cause breathing problems for people to where an IUD is necessarily and condoms aren't an option for people with PCOS or endometriosis. I'd rather be safe than have even the thought of m…
/r/MensRights11/05/22 01:32 PM
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I'm not a woman, but I use birth control to treat a debilitating condition that will be under threat as a result of these laws, but have fun in this echo chamber, sweaty! Your lack of empathy towards other humans is apparent. (Childbirth is also taxing on the body and can result in life long issues as well as death. Adoption is a solution to parenting, not pregnancy.)
/r/MensRights11/05/22 01:14 PM
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Cow's go through grief when their calves are taken from them, yet videos of cows being inhumanely slaughtered are not going to stop people from eating meat. (I'm not a vegan). The idea is a fetus doesn't have developed pain receptors and the very few pain receptors that have developed don't connect to the brain and spinal cord until 20-26 weeks.. 92% of abortions happen before 13 weeks. Cows, chickens, pigs, etc feel everything when they're killed and no one cares about making more human slaught…
/r/MensRights11/05/22 01:10 PM
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More women will be forced to carry children to term which means more men paying child support.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 01:05 PM
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"It's about states rights" is the argument used to say "we don't support women's health care". Some states are already working on banning teaching medical care professionals how to preform surgical abortions, as if miscarriages and ectopic pregnancies don't happen. D&Cs are not only used to remove fetal tissue, but cysts and tumors. Access to life saving health care should be protected.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 01:00 PM
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Whats the point then? Men's rights are an issue that more people need to advocate for, but there are different subs for different issues. Also, I like how this person's ignorant post is talking about men's parental rights while women will die from the over turn of Roe (lmao). I'd rather pay for 18 years than have my body permanently changed or disfigured (and deal with possible death). Edit: Advocating for issues you believe in is tough. I have written to the Supreme Court justices, made flyers,…
/r/MensRights11/05/22 01:12 AM
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Do you consent to getting k!lled when you leave your home? You accepted the risk after all, so don't seek medical care if something happens to you. (Especially if you were wearing protection like a helmet while biking or seat belts and air bags in cars.)
/r/MensRights11/05/22 12:40 AM
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Very very few people are using a painful $300-$1000 procedure as birth control, it very much is a last resort. Maybe more men should start protesting and calling/sending letters to their representatives like women do. Edit: Its funny how you meantion MGTOW and them not posting about men's rights. Where are all the posts about women's rights in this sub? Oh right, they're two different subs each highlighting the lack of rights for two different groups. How interesting.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 12:30 AM
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Not a feminist. 2. Women in Ireland and Poland have died where there were "life of mother" exceptions. Some state governments (Missouri) originally wrote in a bill that ectopic pregnancies won't be able to be aborted. Louisiana removed a line that specified that "implantation" was required, so now anything that prevents a fertilized egg implanting is fair game (i.e. birth control). I take birth control for endometriosis which could spread to other organs. 3. Ya'll are just shooting yourselves in…
/r/MensRights11/05/22 12:14 AM
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Yeah, they're losing their minds over the fact that ectopic pregnancies and failed miscarriages will threaten the life of the mother and will now actually cause the death of women. No one is going to be "forced to parent against their will" because adoption exists, we're worried about dying. Maybe instead of taking away women's healthcare you guys should rally to be able to sign away rights when the woman is pregnant (and she has a chance to abort). Edit: Here are my ramblings. https://docs.goog…
/r/MensRights11/05/22 12:06 AM
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Considering I wouldn't get the arm implant, I've had negative reactions to the combination pill, waiting to see if I have reactions to just the progesterone pill, and my doctor recommended me an IUD (which will likely be targeted in many states), there aren't enough in my opinion, especially when the pro"life" group argues that the majority of them can prevent a fertilized egg from implanting. This also purely depends on what your insurance covers and what your doctor is willing to do. (Steriliz…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:09 AM
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"Constitutional law addresses the scheme of government that the Constitution establishes, the powers that it confers, and the rights that it protects. Civil rights considers the law pertaining to discrimination on the basis of race, gender, age, sexual orientation, national origin, or religion." "Federal law is the body of law created by the federal government of a country." 14th Amendment: "No State shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:28 PM
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Those aren't my arguments. There are people and some justices who believe it is unconstitutional because it has nothing to do with the 14th amendment. ("Roe was egregiously wrong from the start,” - Justice Alito) Law makers in Louisiana said they don't have time to wait for the over turn of Roe and will start criminalizing and banning abortion earlier and compared it to how blue states went against the federal government in regards to weed. Women have died when doctors wouldn't give them life sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:59 PM
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I don't have that much faith in our government and elected (religious) officials who are acting in their own interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:31 PM
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It will "never" go away, but I do belive we are going to have trouble accessing them. Newer birth controls are already not being covered by insurances and some insurances aren't required to cover birth control "for religious reasons". They're not going to be required to update their lists and the less things insurance companies will cover the better for them. Go on Amazon and look at the comments for plan B, there are people who strongly believe its an abortion pill and should be banned, and Lou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:30 PM
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Because now even if the woman does get pregnant her life is on the line (medical exemptions never work and women with ectopic pregnancies or miscarriages will die). The lives of women are worth the snip where before a condom should've been enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:40 AM
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Ironic considering most men don't bother to help a girl finish. Toys are more than enough when the alternative is being forced to carry a pregnancy from a guy who doesn't care about you in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:32 AM
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States are trying to convict women for homicide if they leave the state to get an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:27 AM
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They're coming for birth control too, so good luck with women getting more BC methods..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:26 AM
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The irony is that I live somewhere very liberal.. Today women can sleep with more people if they so choose but they will still be shamed for it by a large group of people (take some men on this sub). These are phrases you only really hear if you're female/look like a woman. I have been told I look very "conservative" (whatever that means) so maybe I'm more likely to be approached by overly religious individuals who think women are only put on this earth to serve men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:08 PM
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I agree to some extent, but a guy doesn't have to have sex to have the viewpoint that women don't need to orgasm. (These type of men I've talked to irl have slept with at least one person but still complain about not having sex/options as well as saying women don't need to finish.) "Men not having access to sex" isn't the same group as "men who've never had sex", but they do overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:02 PM
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Women are told to "please their husbands/partners" but when women want to feel pleasure suddenly its "men were made to ejaculate to make kids and it doesn't matter if a women finishes". Everyone should help their partners in bed, but we don't live in a perfect world and many men aren't going to please their wives. Its no wonder women aren't bothering with relationships anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:50 PM
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Just going to sit back and watch certain people argue how "straight men don't get sex" all while knowing that only 38% of women (18-24 y/o) orgasm during sex. "The fed don't understand the hungry" largely seems to apply to male pleasure while ignoring female pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:17 PM
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"But as women made more money past that point, men become "increasingly uncomfortable" and stressed, according to the findings. The reason? Traditional social gender norms suggest that men should be the breadwinners in relationships." https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cnbc.com/amp/2019/11/20/study-men-get-more-stressed-when-their-wives-make-more-money.html Edit: "Women who outearned their husbands were more likely to seek jobs beneath their potential, they found, and to do significantly more hous…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:29 AM
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Just ignore hypergamy for a second and maybe consider that lots of men are insecure and wouldn't want to marry a women who makes more money than him. (In other cultures too these men are still made fun of if their wives make more money.) Also, women who have full time high paying jobs aren't likely going to play "house" and be a stay at home mom cooking dinner for her husband who's off working all day. There's more than just "hypergamy" at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:34 PM
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So there's two groups I'm noticing, (1) Hot/muscular guys that belong in movies and (2) average looking balding dudes. I'll take option zero, average height, stomach pudge, puffy hair, a nice smile and a great personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:25 PM
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Actual good guys won't be stereotyped as "nice guys" unless they did something to warrant being called one. Also, good guys would laugh it off and also mock nice guys themselves instead of getting angry. If you're not part of a group of assh0les there's no reason to be offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:19 PM
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Hmm.. someone who likes to cook, bake, keeps a clean house, is easy to get along with, willing to take part in my partner's hobbies, communicates issues, is career motivated... I think a potential child dating someone "like" me (minus some flaws) would be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:46 AM
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I feel like this is still what a good chunk of women have/are dealing with. Men get annoyed when they're friendzoned, but when a guy doesn't want to have sex without a relationship then there's sympathy. Its interesting to see how different genders are treated when it comes to the same issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:07 PM
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If he's willing to have kids while not married it still won't "avoid the legal process".. I don't want to get married and really don't care about it, but if he wants kids then we're getting married because its easier to work out any issues with the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:03 PM
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Obligatory "these men are lying!! Of course men would abandon the 7 that they love for a 10, that's how hypergamy works!!11!1". Because apparently men can stay loyal but women can't. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:59 PM
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"Being in competition with other men" assumes all women can be won over. However, it doesn't matter how hot you are, how tall you are, or how much money you have, your personality won't be for every women. You're not even an option for them so you aren't in competition with the types of men she actually likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:58 AM
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I don't think of myself as a woman but I have a uterus, XX chromosomes, I am very female presenting (so I'm treated like a woman), and have female experiences. I feel like I am qualified to post under topics for women but I won't post under topics for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:02 PM
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I wouldn't say "most" but there would be higher cases of rape if there was less of a chance of getting caught. The difference between humans and other animals is we have a better understanding of our emotions and guilt would probably prevent the majority of us from going through with an act like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:54 PM
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Women shouldn't take up spaces for their bags, but I see both men and women taking up space with their backpacks and (again) no one brings up the men. Here's a fun fact, the seats and seat belts created for cars and public transport were created by men. (Which is why in car crashes seat belts are less safe for women because of the damage done to their chests.) Have a problem with the size of seats? Take it up with the men who design them. Men don't need to take up multiple seats to be able to sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:03 PM
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I'm not going to continue talking to someone who thinks jokes about rape are funny. Why don't you explain whats so hilarious about someone being taken advantage of when they repeatedly say no? (I'm also tired of men saying "periods aren't that bad" while I wait for people to leave the house so I can scream into my pillows.)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:24 PM
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Not a woman, but go ham.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:22 PM
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The difference is that I've had larger people ask if I needed a seat while I've never had a person spreading their legs ask the same. There also aren't a lot of fat people using public transport in my area, so its basically a non-issue you brought up just to say "Ha! Gotcha!". Man, I wish I took videos then, especially of them not wanting to move. Edit: Mmmm love it when we start name calling and use words like "fatties." /s Do you take public transportation at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:22 PM
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If a fit woman was spreading their legs on a train taking up 2+ seats than they're also a jack*ss, but cherry pick my points all you'd like. You've already reached the conclusion you wanted to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:19 PM
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(1) There's something called lived experience and no amount of books is going to school someone about what its like to deal with a body you don't have. Unless a guy is a health care professional I'm not going to listen to him about my body (since I know a lot and I'm in constant contact with my doctor for my uterus related issues). (2) Its wrong to joke about murder and r*pe in general, but its especially cruel to do it when a person is in the room. I don't understand how these are topics of jok…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:02 PM
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Women and men who are that large are likely dealing with other issues and they can't help it. A man being a jack*ss and taking up 2-3 seats for his supposedly massive junk is just doing it to be rude. (These men also don't move based on my experience).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:54 PM
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I don't know why, but even if I'm right I'll still have people try and "mansplain". I used to hate that word until I started taking my higher up classes in college and suddenly every man is smarter than me (and I'll gladly pull up the scientific articles they were trying to poorly reference to show that they're wrong cause apparently my word alone isn't enough). Words like emotional labor and mansplaining are the result of women having to deal with these issues/annoyances constantly and by givin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:26 PM
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Mansplaining: "the explanation of something by a man, typically to a woman, in a manner regarded as condescending or patronizing." Explaining something politely is not the same as mansplaining, (although that word is too overused in our society and has almost lost its meaning). Edit: There are dumb women but its not as encouraged and not a widely spread issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:16 PM
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I should've clarified, I was mostly talking about issues that come along with anatomy (like how recently I've been told to get more "wet" despite that not going to raise my cervix). If she's that insistent then she should probably talk to her gynecologist, don't try and argue with people like that. If only sex ed was better.. (just remember that because you've read a book doesn't mean you'd know more than the average female population about issues they deal with.)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:10 PM
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"What makes a man more exciting?" You've got a pretty good list over there, why do you have to ask? (Everyone is going to say something different anyway because of preference.)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:02 PM
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When a guy takes up 2-3 full seats on a very crowded train that's what women complain about. :) Edit: These men didn't make room when asked (I should've recorded them since its so unbelievable).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:58 PM
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No one has a problem when men (a) explain things to women, (b) joke with their friends, or (c) desire sex more often. The issues come when men try and (a) "explain" certain issues to women on a topic they think they know a lot about, but actually don't, and do it in a very condescending way. (Like no, I don't want to hear from strangers online about how my body works when they don't have a body like mine.) (b) Joking with friends is fine, everyone can enjoy a good joke. A "joke" that I have hear…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:52 PM
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My point is movies period are not realistic. Even in spy or action movies men get tossed out of buildings where they wouldn't survive from a fall and no one is saying its unrealistic. And those are regular ol' humans too. Want to watch something realistic? Okay, your categories are romcoms. Enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:15 PM
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I'm sorry, but "following the rules (within reason)" still allows for strong female characters in "realistic" settings (whatever that means..). One of my family members loves spy movies and the 5'5" lean male lead will single handedly pick up a muscular 6+ ft tall guy and no one cares. The women in these types of films do the same and suddenly its "UnReALisTiC". Its a movie, don't like the style and think it doesn't follow the rules? Don't watch it. I'm also not going to bring up how when there'…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:35 AM
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I was using sarcasm, but it doesn't matter if he's "superhuman" the amount of spider silk he's using is not strong enough to hold someone of that weight. Hollywood movies are mostly fake and people are complaining about a 5 ft woman kicking some average dude's rear end? Not about other glaring obvious fake aspects of movies? "It's hypocritical".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:20 AM
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Its Hollywood, are you going to tell me batman and Spiderman are fake too?? "Nature isn't that malleable", so I think its very unrealistic to have a 141 lbs man swinging through a city using only spiderwebs. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:08 AM
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Oh boy, can't want for my strong protector to come save helpless lil' me!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:50 AM
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Just because they're putting in the "trouble" to get fit to hook up with hot women doesn't mean hot women should toss themselves at those types of men. If "ugly women" (or ugly men) are bagging people hotter than them then good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:09 PM
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(1) I don't care about height (I've dated shorter and my current partner is only a few inches taller) (2) I don't like muscles (not comfortable to hug) (3) Big dicks are uncomfortable A cute face is a must (which is subjective) and money only matters if he wants kids. You just need enough to pay the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:50 PM
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You know there's something up when everyone knows what only fans is but we still can't get proper sex education.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:53 PM
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I don't care as long as they get an STD test done and they aren't a cheater, so men shouldn't care either. (I'm also rolling from the guy who said that most damaged women are promiscuous meanwhile I'm here with a very small body count and still carry baggage.) Edit: I don't think the issue is with allowing men to have "preferences", the issue is that men can sleep around with whoever and (use biology/biological urges to justify it) yet when women want to sleep with more people then they're calle…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:55 AM
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The people who are pretending to be your friend only for sex usually throw a hissy fit if they can't date you.. a friend who genuinely develops feelings for you isn't likely to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:29 AM
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Except I don't believe that (those type of) men do all the effort, they just think they do because no woman wants to approach them. And what do you mean women use male friends for personal gains? Is wanting to hang out with a friend, male or female, taking advantage of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:35 PM
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The general message was good, but there are lots of flaws on the women's side that leads me to believe you don't fully understand the smaller struggles that women deal with. (Especially how you gloss over how women have to stay thin and get shamed for having tummy fat when its completely natural. Also that they have to limit themselves when out at restaurants, etc. Its not just that women are hot and can get away with looking cute not putting any effort forward, they have to do a number of thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:51 PM
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I agree, but to me it also highlights how men have a greater hold on dating than they think. These types of men like to say women 'determine which men end up in relationships' and that 'men have to do all the effort', but then terms like "friendzoning" are created and used supposedly by the party who's not in charge (if that makes sense, going off of their beliefs).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:46 PM
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Hmm... maybe we should address why women feel the need to lie about having a boyfriend. It can't be because guys otherwise don't accept the answer "no", right? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:29 PM
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Can we stop calling it friendzoning? I hate that women are blamed for not wanting to date every man that approaches them and that there's zero blame on guys who pretend to be your friend and get huffy when you don't want to date them. Like bro, I thought we were cool and were vibing, but I guess that was all a lie since you just wanted to get in my pants. But to answer your question, a guy can be a smoke show and I still wouldn't want to date him because I don't match with his overall personalit…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:21 PM
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Its because if you and a guy don't fit you might as get some fun out of it. (Men too are comfortable getting "butt naked" with women, but thats never an issue.) You're not going to do something that would bring up red flags for a person you're interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:39 AM
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It could be that some women get "lazy" after marriage, but it could also be that men expect more from their partners after getting married (such their wives doing the dishes or laundry more often).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:47 AM
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If you like someone and consider them "boyfriend material" you're not going to sleep with them on the first date or else they'll think you're too easy and bail. Or the guy is only in it for the sex so you want to have more dates with him before giving him what he wants in hopes he'll decide to date you ideas of ghosting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:40 PM
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The issue is that the type of men who work on themselves only to hit on "hot" women are not the types of men many "hot" women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:34 PM
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I haven't changed my stance, you just assumed I said one thing over the other. Wouldn't you gather all the evidence you would need for a divorce? Isn't that how that works? I don't think its manipulative to believe a relationship can still recover when things aren't working out, but suit yourself. Its probably why a lot of people aren't in relationships (because they just assume everything will work out and refuse to put effort in.) Edit: In your very first comment you said that women don't feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:51 PM
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If both a man and a woman were to "ditch" their partners until it was "convenient" then they're both assholes. But the issue is that women are more likely to hang onto relationships in good faith hoping it will work out only to be extremely angry and disappointed after giving a person multiple chances to fix themselves. Then its easy to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:25 PM
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I disagree, they leave when its a lost cause, not when its convenient. I've given people 4-5 chances to fix things and only then do I leave, but thats because I like to assume the best in people and hope they can fix simple issues. Either way the break up would be hard for the person who isn't expecting it, whether it is right away for 6 months down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:19 PM
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I never said it was malicious, I'm just explaining why its easier for women to move on. They've already accepted that certain men won't prioritize very small things for them no matter how often they tell them (without nagging) that there's an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:15 PM
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I think it depends which group you're a part of because people are more likely to notice bullying directed at them/their group. Virgin men will notice their group being bullied more while women who have sex will notice slut shaming more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:07 PM
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I don't think its about being a "victim". I have dated women and men and most of the time when I ask something small of my partner the women would change meanwhile the men would change for a couple of days to a few weeks and then go back to how they were acting before. Then when you leave its "but I did change!!!!" even though they didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:58 PM
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I just want to add that it might seem like women move on quicker, but they often start grieving a relationship while still dating (when they explain their concerns to their male partners who refuse to acknowledge that there's a problem yet the women still try and make it work).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:46 PM
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But if she's not having sex with a guy on the third date then that's the issue because men don't want a prude..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:49 PM
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These types of men usually mess up and say "females" instead of "women".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:47 PM
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I find many cute lesbians and bi girls on Instagram, but that's because I'm bi/pan myself and that's the content geared towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:06 PM
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No one has to do anything specific. I started liking my partner when they realized how awkward I was and made sure I was okay during social gatherings. It doesn't have to be a romantic or sexual action that sparks any feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:45 AM
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Damn, guess I can't have female friends either because I like guys and girls. Have you never had friends of the opposite sex? Cause one of my closest friends is a guy and we were in both 3 year relationships when we met. He's dating someone else, but I'm still with my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:43 AM
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The numbers might say that women break off relationships more because men put less effort into understanding their partners. "Women are much more aware of the emotional health of their marriages than men. ... Lack of communication, lack of empathy, lack of feeling supported by your spouse, and lack of emotional growth generally distress women more than men, making women more likely to file for divorce than men." https://www.divorcemag.com/blog/6-reasons-why-women-are-more-likely-to-file-for-divo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:40 PM
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You're making the assumption that women are responsible and not men expecting their wives to look after the children, get jobs, cook, clean, etc. Anyone would snap if they had to do this work alone. We can't assume just the husbands or just the wives were the sole reasons for divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:34 PM
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In my opinion, the only times where turning a platonic relationship into a romantic relationship (where one party wasn't on board) has only ended horribly when the person making the advances wouldn't back off after a while. I've been friends with people who tried to ask me out. I wasn't interested, but wasn't offended either. The issue is when they keep trying to convince me to date them. If a relationship between two people turns romantic on its own then I see no problem. I'm still dating my be…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:27 PM
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Because we grew together more over time. I feel like people who expect romantic/sexual attention are going to be disappointed (and it probably explains why there are so many nice guys). You don't have to start off asking someone on a date right away, just hang out and see if you two fit first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:52 PM
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There was no romantic attraction between us first, but I left a note on his desk asking about anime. We've been dating for 5+ years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:39 PM
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People don't notice a difference, I mostly wrote that for guys who say "WoMEn LikE mEn OvEr SiX fEeT". (I don't care about height personally.)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:10 AM
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It all depends on individual people and what they find hot. A lot of people here are saying they think large noses and curly hair is unattractive, yet a significant number of women find Daniel Ricciardo hot. The man is 5'11" too, so not 6'.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:56 PM
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(2) Monogamy is being in a committed relationship with one person at a time which is irrelevant when talking about having sex. (3) Yes? That's why long term relationships without marriages exist. (4a) She wasn't "used" because she isn't an old cloth or a piece of gum. That word makes me especially angry since it implies women don't have a say over their bodies and that men are aggressive and take what they want. I have the same issue what people say that someone "took their virginity". No, they …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:33 AM
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(1) If that model works for you then perfect, but its not for everyone. (2) Virginity doesn't matter to me and I don't sleep around. I personally think its a dumb way to control gullible people. (3) So is official marriage something that should or shouldn't matter? (Because a lot of people don't feel comfortable combining finances.) (4) The odds of lifetime commitment are better if you're with someone who shares similar views, not if they're a virgin. Also, people who marry as virgins are usuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:06 AM
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Are you saying that keeping your "virginity" is a job? Virginity doesn't matter to everyone. Getting officially married is just signing paper work. I've known people who've gotten divorced multiple times and I've known others who've only been in one long term relationship for decades but never married. It all depends on the couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:48 AM
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Except that hymens can "rip" from gymnastics, horseback riding, even basic exercise, or just never develop in the first place. Take it from a person in a happy relationship: women are allowed to voice their opinions and whether she has a hymen means squat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:54 PM
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This isn't an advice sub, but if you're going to date a man be upfront with your intentions. My partner's sibling dated a queer person and it turned out they weren't really interested in a relationship, they just wanted to see if they were attracted to the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:43 AM
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The type of men ya'll consider "betas" are more likely to focus on their partners in bed and have a greater chance of getting them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:34 PM
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I have zero problem with talking to your partner about what sex acts you two like to do in bed. That's called a healthy relationship. My issue comes with women being expected to "sacrific more than one hole" for their partner or else their partners "cannot take their love seriously", as OP put it. Women are pressured into oral or anal when they don't want to do it under the guise of 'but if you love me you'll let me do it!!!1!1' but when butt stuff is brought up for men suddenly its not the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:57 PM
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Absolutely, but in this case being promiscuous (and not being in relationships) is different from deciding to be committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:58 AM
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The future of both men and women matter because it will involve the other person AND the possibility of children. The past is in the past, you can't change it, and people grow from their mistakes. (I don't care what my partner did before me because I wasn't there, but its different if we're planning a future together.) Edit: To clarify, I don't think its hypocritical for women to be able to judge a man's future while men should be allowed to judge a woman's past because they're two completely di…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:05 AM
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Nice, but squirting in porn is usually fake because its easier to pee on command than it is to squirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:22 PM
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So how would you feel about your partner using your rear end (with a toy)?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:10 PM
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The average dick size is 5 inches in the US and my partner is larger than that (but I wish they weren't because it's not always comfortable). Edit for sources: 1. https://www.bostonmedicalgroup.com/whats-the-average-penis-size/ 2. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32articles 3. https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/271647 4. https://www.healthline.com/health/mens-health/average-penis-size 5. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size 6. https://ro.co/health-guide/average-penis-size/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:01 PM
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I have a good sex life (lots of experimentation and fun toys) with my long term partner and from that experience I can say that porn sex is unrealistic. You need a larger than large dick to do some of those poses, not to mention the fake moans and fake "squirting" those shots have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:54 PM
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The beliefs that men are better at "perception and coordination" and motivating their kids while women have better "social skills for memory and multitasking" and are nurturing is what bothers me. It just creates more stupid rules for people to use to alienate others. Its likely why men are usually given the stink eye when taking their children to parks, because men cannot be nurturing and caring apparently. These traits are not exclusive to one sex or the other. Guys also may want more sex than…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:37 PM
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Its almost as if human beings are unique individuals who will dress up for themselves while some of them will dress up for others. It doesn't matter what I say anyway cause people here are quick to label anyone a liar if their views or experiences are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:50 PM
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I didn't say those specific ones are mandatory, but some women like the way they look. My dance class didn't have any men and women still wore them. I'd like to hear from women who go to women only gyms as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:04 PM
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Why do men like to be shirtless in gyms? They wear hardly any clothes and take care to cut their facial hair nicely so they seem presentable. They're obviously sexualizing themselves and are attention wh*res, do women feel uncomfortable as a result of this? /s In all seriousness, it's still unacceptable for women to look unkempt and sweaty, even at a gym where you're working out. Leggings that seems to draw attention to butts are also really comfortable and were mandatory in a dance class I took…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:50 PM
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Yup, which is why I wrote in my original comment that "They're both bad questions".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:04 PM
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Not that it matters but: "Here the survey showed that whereas the women tend to underestimate their men’s weight levels only slightly, the men showed a clear tendency to overestimate their women’s weight when the women were either underweight or normal weight. On average, it only took a BMI score of 22.59 for the men to start assessing their partner as overweight, even though it takes a BMI score of 25 or more to be considered overweight." https://sciencenordic.com/denmark-men-obesity/men-say-wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:47 PM
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I want my partner to be career oriented because there's no way a single person where I live can afford a house and I do not want someone who stays at home and plays games all day. (They can work at Walmart for all I care as long as they have a job). I do not need a provider because I'm going to be the breadwinner in my relationship, but even if I made much more I'd still have to have a roommate if I wanted to live somewhere other than an apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:25 PM
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I didn't mention changing height, I said many men are ignorant about the numbers when it comes to weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:19 PM
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Ever since I was a kid I didn't think I was my assigned gender. I wasn't exposed to any LGBTQ+ ideas nor was I sexaully abused. Whenever people would talk about gender x I'd go "Yup, doesn't have to do me". It took me years till nonbinary was a label I found. Even if gender dysphoria is a result of sexual assault/trauma, as long as they were evaluated by a professional then I see no issue. This is a coping mechanism that isn't hurting anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:43 PM
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If someone is rude to me then I can lose all attraction for them even if they're the hottest person I've met. The behavior of humans and what partners they choose cannot be summed up in black and white cases like whether a guy has "good genes". With science we're also helping people have kids who would otherwise not be able to reproduce and we're technically selecting for bad genes when we give people glasses who need them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:30 PM
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They're both bad questions in my opinion, but the weight one is slightly worse for the sole reason that many guys are ignorant and don't know what an average weight is for women. (I've had men think that 115 lbs is heavy for a 5'2"-5'6" woman.)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:21 PM
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A girl insists on splitting the bill, the guy says its on him, and then he pulls the "But I paid for your dinner!!!" card when you decline sex. Its not worth the "outing".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:58 PM
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I'd rather it be nothing. They treat you as if you're nothing but a pretty face. Its also not a "free dinner" because you're very much expected to have sex with the guy afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:52 PM
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It doesn't matter if women get a lot of invitations cause I can tell you now a lot of them are from thirsty men who want nothing but sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:43 PM
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These stereotypes and forced social standards took a while for me to get over, no thanks. Humans are too complex to be boxed into two separate categories like animals whose only purpose is to successfully produce healthy offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:24 PM
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I think that whole bit about women lacking impulse control is a myth. Both men and women can be extremely emotional, but we don't tend to notice it for our own sex because those behaviors aren't directed at us. Edit: Women are usually called more emotional when they use negative emotions, but it turns out women express "more happiness and sadness" while men express "more anger". That doesn't mean women are more emotional and definitely doesn't indicate that men are more level headed. https://www…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:33 AM
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I'd love nothing more than to be left alone after I tell them I'm not interested.👍
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:54 AM
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Then how do you suggest I tell a guy/girl I am taken if he/she will not believe me? Men are quick to say women are lying but then won't listen if they tell the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:48 AM
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Translation: I have no argument to go against what you're saying, but you're wrong!! >:( ...How do I show a guy I'm taken if he won't believe me in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:44 AM
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I already know these facts and they're all great reasons why circumcision should be banned outside of it being a violation of basic body autonomy. My issue is when people say FGM is equal to MGM (male genital mutilation). Most of the time when the foreskin is removed a man can still orgasm while if the clitoris is removed then there's almost no chance of an orgasm, so I consider FGM worse than MGM even though both should be banned. They're barbaric practices that have no place in our world today…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:52 PM
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I gave advice that was backed up by 3 different studies summarized in one concise news article. How is research on this issue "nonsense advice" when science says worshiping your partner is unhealthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:41 PM
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I was originally comparing talking to a person online vs in real life and how conversation translates better in person. They're the one who changed what I was saying to argue a point I never made in my initial comment. I'm not sure about other men and women here, but my partner's character turns me on a lot in bed. If they weren't a good person then I wouldn't feel comfortable sleeping with them and wouldn't be turn on enough to continue. I'm also not a woman, but its easy to dismiss my points a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:36 PM
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I have had enough successful relationships and I'm in one now, thank you for your concern!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:02 PM
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Character is a big deal, but its not the only factor. Maybe you're going after the wrong kinds of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:57 PM
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I didn't know that 'talking to someone in person compared to trying to ask them out online' is bad advice, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:50 PM
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Source? Are you talking about your experience not being able to make women wet?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:47 PM
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Both have different risks which, again, is why women shouldn't be judged the way they are. They have taken more into consideration when making their decision compared to men who just have to get their d*cks wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:29 PM
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Women have more risks which is why they shouldn't be harassed if they decide to have sex. They know the risks of pregnancy and STDs that can be passed onto children during birth while men don't share that burden. A woman wanting to be promiscuous carries more weight and she shouldn't be judged for it if she makes the decision knowing the possible outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:18 PM
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Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:04 PM
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Except it almost always ends in a poor way if someone was pedestalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:55 PM
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They're not, but it doesn't matter if a person respects you and worships you because it's the worshipping that leads to more pressure and stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:54 PM
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"So why does this over-idealization wreck relationships? Researchers suggest that when put on a pedestal, a person may be less willing to put their partner's needs first. That person also may feel like their partner doesn't really know them and that they have to meet impossible expectations, which can lead to stress and resentment." https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a19896433/too-much-affection-relationship/#:~:text=When%20husbands%20thought%20their%20spouses,you%20actually%20feel%20…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:53 PM
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"once a relationship lasts a year, the likelihood that it ends begins to drop precipitously. Over the first five years, the rate falls by roughly 10 percentage points each year, reaching about 20 percent for both straight and gay couples. And the rate continues to fall until about 15 years in, when it levels off for both—at just over 10 percent for gay couples and roughly 5 percent for straight couples." https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2016/03/18/how-the-likelihood-of-breaking-up-cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:56 PM
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Its likely because character and humor does not translate well over texts/online messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:46 PM
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You can be deeply in love with someone but initially have decided to go out with them for their looks. I feel like lots of long term relationships are at the point where looks might have mattered initially but now they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:44 PM
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I don't think its hypocritical. When FGM was banned it was because women were getting their labias sewed together and their clits removed. Removing the clit is the equivalent to removing the whole penis, so they cannot be compared. Even now what FGM is banned in a lot of places it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. There are women whose labia have to be sewn up every time men have sex with them or after she gives birth. They aren't the same as removing a small piece of skin when a boy is young. How…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:04 PM
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A 6+ ft guy who had abs, a perfect jaw line, and a perfect nose tried to ask me out. He hit all the points for what society considers "handsome". However, he was extremely sexual, did not respect personal space, and was just an over all asshole. He's still single around 6 years later because despite how hot he is the guy is an absolute creep. Guys are so quick to blame their looks on not getting women when most of them don't know how to approach women, especially now that younger men are using r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:51 PM
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Having someone who worships you and puts you on a pedestal is a good way for a relationship to end in a dumpster fire. You want someone who respects you, not worships the ground you walk on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:45 PM
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The thing about male dominated harems is that females stay with one harem until it is taken over by another "alpha". If we're going to assume humans have harems (which I don't think they do), then I propose a new idea: women are the alphas and have dedicated followings of specific men. In male dominated harems seen in animals, the males often drive off undesirable females from the group like how women are supposedly doing to select men. I do think that this idea is over simplified, however, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:42 PM
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I've literally had strangers compliment my butt and ask for my phone number all in the same sentence without asking for my name. I think they count as an initial approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:33 PM
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It depends what you mean by "being put off". I don't feel sexual attraction to my partner when they're going through something tough, no one should, because them being sad doesn't turn me on (it would be messed up if I was into that). I still have deep romantic feelings for them during this time, however. Those do not fade.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:29 PM
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I remember the majority of approaches I've had and the poliet ones I remember the most while the gross ones all blend together for being the same (unless they're ridiculously crazy/unexpected). I wouldn't mind having said yes to the poliet ones if I wasn't dating someone already.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:23 PM
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Men are expected to be stoic even when they've lost a family member for "the sake fo their families". They have to be a rock for their children when grandma or grandpa pass away and they themselves aren't allowed to grieve, even though they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:20 PM
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I don't think these situations are cut and dry because no one is starting out with a blank state and how they act determines creepiness. Some things might be subjective, but men asking you out when you've turned them down or men that use sexual remarks at a stranger are the majority of the time creepy. I personally think other men have "fucked up the dating process in our society". If assholes weren't so bold and there weren't so many of them I wouldn't have minded being approached by strangers.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:17 PM
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Both men and women prefer circumcised men, so don't try and pin this issue only on women. "Sixty per cent (n=64) of uncircumcised men and 69% (n=68) of women who had uncircumcised regular partners reported that they would prefer to be circumcised or their partners to be circumcised". https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15763713/ Men are more likely to circumcise their sons if they were circumcised or leave their sons uncut if they are uncut. Either way, permanently removing a body part should not be…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:04 AM
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That's only true about the women who don't really care about you and who you shouldn't want to be with anyway. A good girlfriend or wife will support you through tough days, depression, loss of a friend or family member, bad medical news, help you get therapy, etc. Its hard to find good men and women these days, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:59 AM
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What do you mean by "politically correct answers"? OP is asking what women want in a relationship, not what women want from a one night stand. You don't have to tolerate a person for decades if you're only planning on sleeping with them once. That's the reason why people someone has sex with might not align with what they're looking for in a relationship. I am dating my best friend who I share similar morals with and if that's not a good enough answer then so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:51 AM
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I got told by someone that I want a muscle-y man with abs... I prefer pudge and love handles I can grab onto. Certain men will completely ignore what women want and assume all women are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:45 AM
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I don't think they are extremes because around 40-50% of guys I had ask me out were sexual and the majority of them didn't listen when I said I was taken. I don't enjoy wolf whistles either, its extremely gross. Just because you're a descent person, and lots of descent people exist, doesn't mean assholes aren't a thing. They may be in the minority but they're often the loudest and the most straightforward.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:31 AM
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This is probably why those guys are labeled creeps. If a girl says they have a boyfriend and the guy continues to badger her then he's an asshole. Do I have to call my partner or something to show proof? Pull up photos? Is respect a small thing to ask for? My go to response is now "I keep cockroaches as pets" and just ignore the very real "I'm in a 5 year relationship" answer because no one believes it to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:27 AM
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Good/normal women are not put off by a man showing "weakness". Having emotions isn't called being weak, its called being a human being. Everyone has their ups and downs and support is sometimes needed. (There is a difference between showing emotions and trauma dumping/being an emotional burden.) If a girl won't take care of you when you're down or makes you hide your feelings then that's not someone you want to be around in the long terms as there's no guarantee they'd support you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:09 AM
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Men are being labeled as "creeps" because of some of their tactics. Making a sexually suggestive remark at a stranger is never okay, nor do I think its okay to ask out someone twice your age and say you'd be their boyfriend if they weren't already dating someone (as if the girl has no say in whether or not she'd even date you). Its also fun when many guys say they can make you change your sexual preferences or that your partner isn't right for you (despite never having met them in the first plac…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:05 AM
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The funny thing is that being "manly" is defined by men, women just play along with it. "You're not manly unless you use x deodorant", "you're not manly unless you join the military", "you're not manly if you have an average sized dick", etc. I only ever hear men talking about how dick size matters, "big dick energy", or "small dick energy" if a guy has something he's trying to compensate for. Most societies were created and are largely governed by men who decide what is masculine, not women.. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:49 AM
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When the only thing most men expect from women is sex then there's no convincing them that women are good at other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:31 PM
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For every woman who says they're attracted to most men there's likey a woman saying they only prefer 20% of men. Its almost like people have different tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:27 PM
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Couldn't have said it better myself. The average age for menopause in the US is 51, but its different for everyone as some women have trouble at around 45.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:23 PM
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They do occasionally get the option but then drive women away.. I wouldn't mind dating short men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:43 PM
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My views haven't changed before and after the purge.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:10 PM
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Google it. I'm not saying women should have kids between 40-50, I'm just listing the average age of menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:08 PM
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Oh sorry, I'll go dump my long term partner then. You were right, my bad. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:01 PM
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If he doesn't have pudge I can grab onto during sex then I don't want him. Men with muscles are not fun to cuddle with either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:58 PM
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I've average weight for my height and not a vegan.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:51 PM
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I love this comment. The majority of lingerie in adult stores is meant for women to wear, but where are the sexy male outfits? Where are the male g-strings hidden??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:42 PM
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I wouldn't date any of these men, but alright. If you think girls like muscles then why don't you start working out? No one is born with them. Get on it!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:00 PM
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What did you define "high quality women" as? Because models are more likely to follow other models. A model isn't going to follow an average Joe who gave her a follow. You didn't mention how often a profile was viewed either which would better show if these men were being rejected or not, maybe the profiles didn't get enough attention. You're also ignoring how on tinder most women are on there for hook ups, not to date and find someone of quality character. If you gave the "beta" a description t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:40 PM
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This is honestly kind of funny given the fact that a lot of men won't date women taller than them, and if they do, they police their wardrobe (not being allowed to wear high heels to appear taller than she already is).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:30 PM
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Vegans and child free people have every right to be a little angry because people constantly badger them about eating meat or having kids. There's no such thing as just being able to say you don't want kids because everyone around you will immediately dismiss you saying you haven't met the right person or you'll change your mind one day. Its even worse for people who want to get surgically sterilized but doctors decline the procedure because they aren't 35+, don't have at least 2 kids, and aren'…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:26 PM
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The majority of girls are not believed when they tell an adult they were hit. The only times there are any repercussions is if a responsible adult saw what happened, but most of the time this behavior is dismissed. Boys shouldn't be allowed to hit girls nor should the reverse be allowed either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:37 AM
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Women are told from a very very young age that they must have children and that they "expire" and "hit the wall" around 30 (even though menopause is around 51). Men can do whatever they'd like because sperm apparently doesn't have a shelf life and these men are called "silver foxes". Men also aren't expected to do "70% of the work" in a relationship. The majority of women still hold the mental loads in relationships as they do most of the chores, are expected to care for their children, and need…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:33 AM
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You have a sad view of the world, buddy. Edit: This view isn't a "reality", its a delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:27 AM
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The selective service is barbaric and should be banned for women and men. I'm not about signing women up to get "equal treatment", I'd rather work towards banning it for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:22 AM
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(1) I have yet to see even a handful of women advocate for "pumping and dumping" men in the same way MGTOW did and if women do this they're likely "venting" for being taken advantage of. (2) The fact that posts talking about rape in MGTOW and MGTOW2 weren't removed and got significant amounts of upvotes disproves your idea. Even if its a minority that endorsed this kind of behavior (it wasn't) then why did they get hundreds of votes? Why weren't these posts removed? (3) Again, women do not care …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:15 AM
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According to a collection of 33 separate studies, only 25% of women reliably orgasm from penetrative sex. The majority of women need clitoral stimulation (which they usually don't get in bed). https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/200903/the-most-important-sexual-statistic%3famp
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:51 AM
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The average age of menopause for US women is 51, so if she's 40 she likely has around 11 more years to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:43 AM
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Women don't hate mgtow because they aren't "pedestalized" anymore, they hate them because mgtow often talk about pumping and dumping (using women), they repeatedly compare women to dogs (no human deserves this), endorse rape, and discuss how women should have the right to vote taken away. They aren't descent human beings, they're a hate group. If a reddit sub was created where they mentioned taking the right to vote way from people of color that would be shut down real fast, but apparently its o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:34 AM
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Lots of incels say women peak at 16. Those are still CHILDREN and women have every right to be disgusted by this behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:28 AM
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Young boys are not actively told to hit girls, but their actions are excused if its done in a playful way or a supervisor/teacher/adult didn't see what was happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:16 AM
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Yikes, a lot of women do not do that. The few women that do also don't "inflict themselves on some beta". The (supposed) beta men in this case aren't victims. They're adults who can weigh pros and cons and decide to stay with a person who is infact a leech (not that many of these women exist).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:14 AM
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Squirting is real but the squirting in porn is often a woman peeing because its easier to pee on command than it is to squirt. Its a real act that is faked on camera.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:04 AM
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My body doesn't get wet for assholes nor does it get wet for normal people, but whatever helps you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:48 AM
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Kids can grow out of bad behavior, but again, I'm talking about the effects it has on 'victims' and the constant reinforcement of this bullying well into high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:58 PM
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I'm still considered a "young woman" and I have had this be told to me when I was a child and I still hear it on playgrounds. It just depends where you live I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:56 PM
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Is that why douchbags can hold long term relationships? Oh right, they can't. Even if assholes make them wet, it doesn't last and women end up dry and disappointed by the end of sex. The excuse of women being attracted to "douchbags" is what certain men tell themselves because they can't get a date (likely due to other red flags).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:54 PM
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That's not called mind reading and everyone has different traits they find attractive. (I don't like muscles and consider them unattractive, so I turn down gym rats.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:49 PM
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Damn, gotta go dump my boyfriend and tell my friends to dump theirs. Being mean does not equal masculine any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:46 PM
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I've only ever dated nice men and women, so to me and my friends 'just being a nice guy' is enough. Also, the idea that men cannot be victims was created and spread by men. I don't agree with it though because men can be victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:36 PM
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I'm not equating children to adults, I'm saying from a young age many kids are not taught healthy behavior when it comes to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:30 PM
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Eating pizza wouldn't be a good equivalent to sex in p0rn because p0rn is very very unrealistic. A lot of different positions are either uncomfortable or you need a magnum d0ng in order to do them in the first place, not to mention that some things are straight up lies. (Such as women being able to squirt but its easier to film a woman peeing and label it as squirting.) Women in these videos, even in a surprising large amount of amateur stuff, have had work done. It creates an unrealistic expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:18 PM
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Can't wait for the day where the majority of FDS and Antifeminist posts are nuked. There really shouldn't be a place for blatant hate on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:00 PM
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Found the incel. Also, men talk about the same things all the time just like women. The only difference is that stand up comedy is largely male.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:56 PM
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I don't care as long as he/she doesn't apply it to real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:50 PM
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Last I checked human beings don't have the ability to read minds. Young girls are also told that boys being mean to them is their form of showing affection. It normalizes abuse which can effect relationships later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:08 PM
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So you're going to just ignore how women are dumped when they're infertile? They aren't loved unconditionally, they're loved for their ability to spread a man's genes. "Learn how to argue."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:00 PM
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And men are quicker to dump their infertile wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:45 PM
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Women can make their own money. It isn't a buyers market either since a lot of women aren't gold diggers nor are there enough extremely rich men (if we were to argue all women wanted men with money). Edit: Sugar babies are in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:42 PM
1

Both me and my partner (opposite sex) are romantics and this is the same for the large majority of couples I've known. Healthy relationships strive off of mutual care and love. Also, women are dumped if men find out they're infertile. In some parts of the world infertile women aren't allowed to be buried in the same cemeteries as 'normal' people. This shows that women must also "provide something". They aren't loved unconditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:39 PM
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With his beer belly, bald head, and entitled attitude? Good luck with that. Men don't "age like fine wine" like red pillers would have you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:32 PM
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I wouldn't say "women are getting absolutely demolished", more like when they try and make a point they're called 'idiots', 'stupid', 'feminist', or their words are just twisted to misrepresent their views. It says more about the people they're responding to than the women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:29 PM
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I still hear adults say to little girls that when a boy hits them that means he likes her.. women are still taught that "hot and cold games" are normal and what they should expect in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:25 PM
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Wow, ist almost as if liars LIE about who they are before women find out their true colors. 👁👄👁 Fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:22 PM
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Its not a feminist narrative and I'm not a feminist. Most women don't even know the difference between a vagina and a vulva because of this male view until they go to a gynecologist. Aren't you be considered that medical textbooks, which did not label things correctly, are being used to train doctors? I'm also well aware that you're a troll, I'm just putting these out there for anyone who hasn't realized that a predominantly female view does not exist in society yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:15 PM
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The vulva is still called the vagina (even though it is a different organ), the clit wasn't talked about in college anatomy books until recently, and birthcontrol pills still have this stigma around them where if you need to take them the only reason for that is because you're a slut. These were all views created and spread by men because they didn't bother learning about women's bodies and don't care to correct themselves now. The male view is still dominant. Want more examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:03 PM
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It likely got removed because it violated rule 1 of the reddit site rules. ("Communities and users that incite violence or that promote hate based on identity or vulnerability will be banned.") This sub's rules don't matter during purge week, but the overall site rules do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:58 PM
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Gynocentrism involves looking at issues through a feminine lense.. we aren't at that point yet and I doubt we'll ever be. We've been looking through a male lense for hundreds of years and we'll keep doing just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:50 PM
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"US rapper, actor and TV host TI has prompted revulsion after he revealed he accompanies his 18-year-old daughter Deyjah Harris to a gynaecological exam each year, for her hymen (and therefore virginity) to be checked – a practice condemned as “humiliating and traumatic” by the World Health Organisation." https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/music/2019/nov/07/ti-rapper-daughter-hymen-check-outrage I don't get how this extreme opposite treatment is a form of protection and it doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:45 PM
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She just had surgery two weeks ago... she's allowed to not want sex and I really doubt she's exaggerating about that. I also wouldn't want my husband or wife to grope me infront of my kids, so she's not wrong there either.
/r/AntiFeminists01/01/22 08:03 AM
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The only way to be in a car crash is to be around cars, but you don't see people calling for a ban on all vehicles. A person can do everything right (birth control pills, condoms, plan B, cycle tracking) and still get pregnant. That doesn't mean someone should be forced to keep it when there are such high risks. Edit: Love that sneaky edit you made there. Here's a fun fact: all pregnancies carry some risk of death.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:48 PM
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The majority of people have sex for pleasure and not to have children which makes that point invalid. If someone is a decent husband then they'd better help their wives in bed. Either way, that wasn't my argument. If fulfilling sex isn't a need for women then if shouldn't be considered a need for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:42 PM
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An unwanted pregnancy cannot be compared to getting your dick wet as some pregnancy symptoms include gestational diabetes, high blood pressure, increased obesity and weight gain, increased UTIs and other infections, nausea, sleeplessness, etc. Pregnant women also have to restrict the food and drinks they have as well as having to go off of certain medications. Not to mention that not having sex won't kill you while giving birth can.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:39 PM
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Why? I know women who haven't orgasmed in 3-5 years with their partners and they're expected to stay with their husbands but somehow men are justified leaving their wives/girlfriends if they can't finish? Its hypocritical when sex is a need for one sex but isn't considered a need for the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:05 PM
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Considering lots of men ignore the clit and don't bother to try and give their female partners a proper orgasm yet women are expected to stay with these men (because leaving them would be considered "shallow") then I can say yes, sex is not a "need".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:01 PM
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And if you skim for even 5 minutes you'll immediately see that at least 50% of posts are talking about "women" not "feminists". This sub is turning into the male version of FDS (or what MGTOW was before it was deleted).
/r/AntiFeminists26/12/21 07:05 PM
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I'm not a feminist, but whatever floats your boat I guess.
/r/AntiFeminists26/12/21 07:04 PM
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Cause that's real mature. At least I can admit when people of my own sex do something wrong and not defend them when they talk about harming the other sex.
/r/AntiFeminists26/12/21 05:51 PM
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And maybe instead of saying "all women are x, y, and z" maybe ya'll can start calling out specific hate groups instead, not endorsing other ones. Edit: "Women do worse" followed up with "You're including me in the pack" is contradictory. The view that 'women can say whatever they want' is funny too because, as someone with a uterus, I'm still routinely told I don't know what I'm talking about for having this body. My thoughts are still dismissed because of the way I look and men still talk over …
/r/AntiFeminists26/12/21 04:00 PM
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Like...? We shouldn't be saying "women do worse". Assh0les do worse, regardless of gender. One group doing a bad thing also doesn't make it okay for another group to do a bad thing as well.
/r/AntiFeminists26/12/21 03:58 PM
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Its funny how you called it a "safe space" when you haven't actually visited the sub you're asking about. They routinely advocated 'pumping and dumping' women, how to manipulate them, compared them to dogs, and I even saw some comments saying men should lie about birth control (which was weird since many of them don't want to be tied down with kids). They weren't men who wanted to go their own way and better themselves, it was a hate sub obsessed with women. Edit: Forgot to add that many men the…
/r/AntiFeminists26/12/21 03:51 PM
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Thank you, it doesn't bother me much anymore. I'm just adding it because I'm not sure if its important to include. (Some people would argue that my opinion doesn't matter on certain topics because I'm "damaged goods" or they would say my body count is actually two. I don't want to ruin someone's poll if my definition of body count is different from there's.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:02 AM
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I've slept with one person (but I've been fingered without my consent by a different person), so I would say I have a body count of one. I don't care how many partners someone has had as long as they get an STI/STD test before sleeping with me. (I'm nonbinary.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:32 AM
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I think a good chunk of people are equally lazy and don't work out. It doesn't matter if someone has the capability to have more muscle mass if they sit on their asses all day doing nothing. I never understood why men say being stronger is a positive as if it has any application outside of manual labor. Edit: Look who's talking, "MGTOW".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:37 PM
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Abortion still isn't a privilege, its healthcare. Men should be able to sign away their rights before the abortion period hasn't passed so women can make a choice whether to keep it or not, but abortion itself is healthcare. The argument that women should just "be on birth control" and "wear condoms" is coming from a place of ignorance, and may I say, "privilege". Abortions can cost anywhere from $450 to $900+. They aren't a woman's first choice. Men should start advocating for themselves to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:24 PM
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(1) Abortion isn't a privilege. Not wanting to deal with the pain of child birth, nausea, gestational diabetes, higher risks of UTIs and other infections, high blood pressure, changing your diet, and the stitches that come with tearing, etc. is valid. Certain men somehow cannot wrap their heads around how messed up pregnancy/child birth is and that women do not want this to happen. (2) Women are far more likely to take pleas where sentences are reduced and they're less likely to commit crimes. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:28 PM
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I agree with that first part, there are very few people that do things because they're altruistic. However, I don't believe the majority of men are stronger than women. Men have the capability to be stronger because of more testosterone, but let's face it, men and women today both don't do as much sports as they should and choose to be lazy at home. I also haven't heard that men are expected to help out women, but if they are I'm not surprised. Men are more likely to be hired for their potential…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:23 PM
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What special privileges do women have?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:15 PM
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The vast majority of women retire earlier because they're paid less, they have to leave to care for aging parents and grandchildren, and women on average are more likely to be laid off and their departments down sized. None of these are sounding like upsides to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:24 PM
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(1) Women aren't allowed to sign up for the draft because men believe women aren't good in combat roles. Hell, only 5ish years ago were women in the military allowed to fight on the front lines. I personally believe there shouldn't be a draft for women and men. (2) Maternity leave is give to women because the process of giving birth does a number on their bodies. The average time of maternity leave is 12 weeks and it can take 6-8 weeks to heal from it, possibly longer if it was a complicated bir…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:03 PM
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I disagree, I think a lot of couples are around the same level of (stereotypical) good looks. But maybe that's because I like men and women and see them equally compared to straight men who judge women more harshly because they aren't into men. Guys are also the one's usually asking women out, so if you think 7/10 guys are going for 5/10 girls, why don't higher ranking men go for equally higher ranking women? If men only settled for women in their same level then lower level women would have no …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:49 PM
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Such as...?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:31 PM
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Or maybe, just here me out, they wanted women to have the same rights as men. (Also, I'm not sure about you, but lots of women end up with what society considers "average" when it comes to looks. Go out more and do some people watching.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:18 PM
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A guy can be confident and a respected partner without pushing boundaries making their partner uncomfortable. Why are some posts here so r*pe-y?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:10 PM
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Because unless you get a rape test and spend time and money hiring a lawyer nothing is going to come of it. People don't have the time or resources to do this. The second part is almost true, if a woman is sexuallt attracted to you then she'll want to explore with you more. However, if she tried something like anal with a previous partner and didn't like it she doesn't need to "explore" anal further with the new guy. Its not going to make her magically into anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:08 PM
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The previous partner they might have tried things out with could've been a 9/10 and the current guy could be a 12/10, that doesn't mean a person suddenly enjoys a certain sexual act. If they didn't like it with their first partner (but tried something with them for whatever reason) then they won't like it with their second partner even if the guy is sexier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:57 PM
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Have you ever been emotionally manipulated or gaslit? Also yes, I do consider that assault and/or r*pe. Certain assholes will threaten suic!de claiming that you don't "love them" enough to do certain things with them so you end up letting them have their way with you when you're very uncomfortable. My rollarcoaster analogy isn't flawed because some people need to do things a handful of times to see if they like it or they might know from doing it once. Everyone is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:47 PM
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Undiagnosed medical issues that my doctors are trying to sort out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:41 PM
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Haha no, I'm not on any medication yet. I'm worried that if I do need to take some eventually that it'll only make my libido lower (because meds can definitely mess with that).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:41 PM
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Its not about pleasing "other men". (1) If she was pressured into doing it and didn't want to do it she's not going to want to do it in a healthy relationship and (2) people are allowed to try something once and not like it. Is there anything you tried once and never want to do it again? (I don't like rollercoasters but I've been on one with a friend. That doesn't mean I don't like my other friends if I never want to ride a rollercoaster with them, even if it would make their day.)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:31 PM
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Welcome to another episode of what inanimate object women are today: a leather handbag. But in all seriousness, people are allowed to try something and not like it. They shouldn't be pressured to do it again if they don't want to, especially if its something sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:25 PM
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I'm very attracted romantically to my partner but I have a low libido (because my hormones are likely out of wack). Not everyone has the same need for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:19 PM
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"dilation and evacuation" procedures are only really done on late term fetuses (where either the mother's life is at risk or the potential baby isn't viable after birth). They aren't offered as a regular abortion procedure. At that point the family has set up a baby room, gotten clothes and toys, and has likely picked a name. The majority of abortions are done via pill, don't spread misinformation. Edit: The fetus isn't flushed down the toilet when it comes to the later term abortions you're tal…
/r/AntiFeminists06/12/21 01:09 AM
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I'm not "holier than thou" I'm saying I have experience with certain topics that other people here might not and regularly discuss topics like these with other people despite my age. It annoys me when people claim x, y & z and call people "moronic" when they have don't facts to prove otherwise. (Gotta resort to name calling and shipping people off to other countries when you don't have info, right?) Also I'm not a "chicka". Edit: "That's unfortunate, people who claim to understand biology but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 01:59 AM
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Not really, its just what a loud minority of (nice) guys say when they can't get a girl. I've had other men tell me that I should ditch my partner because they look better than him, but they don't. Also, I think its overall better to be the nicer looking one in a relationship because your partner might be less likely to leave you, but that's just an idea not backed up with much evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:44 PM
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I'm nice to people but don't try and be overly nice since I don't want attention. I try and hide in groups of people at bus stops but the types of men I'm trying to avoid go out of their way to approach me anyway. It's exhausting just wanted to go about your day and then having a stranger ask why you aren't married yet, etc. Edit: Its interesting reading a couple comments where guys are saying they 'can't imagine what women are thinking' when they don't pursue them... they're probably relieved.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:47 PM
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(1) I don't want to educate anyone because frankly I don't care. No point talking to brick walls who don't bother to inform themselves with new research. Everyone here needs to take some college level biology classes and some anthropology classes as well and (2) is that an insult directed at me? Because I'm not upper middle class or a woman. Edit: I'm also noticing that most people here base their arguments off of assumptions and don't bother to link any sort of expert testimonies or scientific …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:08 PM
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I'm going to paste the study when I find it again, but overall in children 2 years old they found that both boys and girls preferred pinkish red toys that were round in shape and didn't have many angles. Either way, even if studies show that gender preferences do or don't matter, how much of that is due to nurture compared to nature? Do parents think children don't need "cultural prompting" but then expose certain types of toys to their children subconsciously?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:34 AM
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They didn't depend on men because hunting for meat was inconsistent. People needed meat to get essential proteins/vitamins/nutrients, but its not something you can always rely on. Edit: People could depend on fruits and root vegetables more because weather patterns/seasons could be observed more reliably. I suggest you read the textbook if you have any other hang ups on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:25 AM
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I never said it was "just those evil Europeans", I said the world was very much influenced by them as the British, Germans, etc have left a big imprint on what is culturally "correct". (I am also European and bilingual.. and why are people on this reddit page so obsessed with violence and threatening others? I've been told to get punched by men with a closed fist and now stoned? Nice.) I also don't think its accurate to bring up some middle eastern countries and China because free speech doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:15 AM
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Mean while the majority of people in my area share this view. I don't think its radical to have two different words for it because by defining something as a "gender" issue or as a "sex" issue were better able to handle it. What's wrong with more specific words? (By saying "virtually every culture" you're also mostly talking about cultures influenced by Europeans, i.e. the ones you've likely grown up in.) Edit: If virtually no one shares this view then why are these definitions being included in…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:51 AM
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Words change over time. The would "awful" used to mean "awesome", "meat" once stood for "all solid foods" and "trigger" would mean to cause a a reaction, not something that negatively effects your mental state. Words are great, but they can change to mean something completely different. Could it be argued that we are no longer speaking English because we're using many different words than what Shakespeare used?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:38 AM
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Gender is more synonymous with gender roles as they're both created/assigned within a culture. Sex is based on biology. A large number of people say gender is defined as "the fact or condition of belonging to or identifying with a particular gender" and sex is "either of the two main categories (male and female) into which humans and most other living things are divided on the basis of their reproductive functions". Words change to better reflect our world/world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:27 AM
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I don't want to be rude, but that bit about kids choosing certain toys in your other comment is bull. Me and my opposite sex partner would both go for Legos and dinosaur toys. It just so happens that when girls are told to pick pink toys and boys are told to get blue toys then they do just that. When they're free to choose whatever then that's what they do. Also, there have been credible, peer reviewed and published scientific articles that have found "Brain activity and structure in transgender…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:15 AM
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What are the behavioral differences for men and women then? That women are more nurturing? Cause I've known many stay at home dads that prefer to be with their kids compared to their provider wives. You're also dismissing other cultures where there aren't just females and males. Are they mentally ill too because they're different from your beliefs?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:36 AM
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Except gender =/= biological sex. Just because some animals have gender roles like meerkats and hyenas, there are animals that don't have gender roles such as whales and penguins. Hell, male and female penguins both switch on and off between which one of them goes hunting for their chick. Gender roles/customs determined by a society are fluid. Not long ago blue was a feminine color and pick was masculine. There are also cultures (like those belonging to some Native Americans) that have a third g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:02 AM
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You do know a good chunk of women wear makeup not for it to be sexy but for them to not stand out, right? Men and women both make fun of minor imperfections people have and because of this "natural" make up is the most popular. Women wear foundation so they don't look pale, they wear mascara if their eyelashes aren't as dense, and use lipstick to create thicker lips so they aren't made fun of for looking more manly. There were even studies which "found that women who don a “professional” amount …
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/21 10:02 AM
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....What? (1) Of course its difficult living in poverty, it shouldn't be happening to anyone. I was saying that that terrible scenario cannot be compared to being without a partner because you aren't entitled to a person's attention. (2) I don't steal people's money and in a perfect world lost money would be returned. Edit: I'm not phrasing things oddly, but clearly no one has demanded something as personal as sex from you so I wouldn't expect you to understand. Also asexual =/= aromantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:21 PM
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I never said isolation and lack of physical intimacy don't increase depression, it can, I'm saying you can't demand a stranger/(person who isn't blood related) for intimacy. Edit: Is this why some men get so violent/aggressive when being turned down? Because they think they're entitled to a woman's attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:06 PM
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Eating only potatoes won't give you the full range of vitamins and minerals needed and living with 500 people would increase stress. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:00 PM
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The feminists are saying its not a double standard because these sex toys are modeled to be/look like women. The equivalent to dildos would be flesh lights, not life sized replicas of women.
/r/AntiFeminists01/12/21 08:28 PM
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Being greedy is to have "intense and selfish desire for something, especially wealth, power, or food". Having a whole city to yourself is greedy because you could be happy in a single home. Realisitcally you can't enjoy an entire empty city. Wanting to be happy isn't greedy because if you aren't it would affect your mental health. Happiness isn't selfish. ...No study is saying women want 1% of men, but also, I would be selective with online dating too. No one wants to meet up with a crazy person…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:48 AM
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I'm in a relationship but I'm asexual (I don't find people "sexy" and do not need other people for sexual pleasure). I have been touched in the past without my consent and I still carry that with me. If this relationship doesn't work out I am completely fine just being with myself and I'd be happy. How is it greedy to want to be happy by myself? Especially when giving sex to just anyone would make me completely miserable? Also, have you ever considered that these women really are looking for a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:11 AM
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Because you cannot force love and sexual feelings or else the other person becomes miserable instead. Friends exist to vent to and prostitutes/escorts exist if toys/your hand isn't enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:59 PM
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I have known both male and female pairs who live together and do not want to be involved with romantic relationships. Again, those scenarios are not comparable. Providing sex when someone doesn't want to can be traumatic and demanding love can easily drain someone. At what point is one person's happiness and well being worth more than another person's?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:52 PM
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They are not entitled for wanting love, they're entitled for demanding it from someone (who isn't a relative) who does not want to provide it. You do not owe a stranger or acquaintance any romantic feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:47 PM
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It sucks but that's life. They aren't entitled to another person's body or even their love. (Also, companionship can be found in friendships, not just romantic relationships.)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:31 PM
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Except its not a good example because you don't need sex with someone to live. You might need sexual pleasure and you can get that using your hand. Its not greedy to not want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:25 PM
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I mean... a Texas woman was kept on life support for months despite being brain dead (and her fetus showing now signs of growth) because medical staff didn't want to be in legal trouble due to the abortion laws there. Her husband spent forever fighting to finally lay her to rest as she would've wanted. Sh*tty abortion/prolife laws also effect Americans. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_of_Marlise_Mu%C3%B1oz#:~:text=Because%20she%20was%20pregnant%2C%20doctors,her%20removed%20from%20organ%20s…
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/21 02:22 PM
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Honestly it doesn't matter if a majority of women here say they prefer men that show (negative) emotions, ya'll won't believe it anyway. This isn't the first time this topic was brought up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:20 PM
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Agreed. I waited for my partner to be ready but I wouldn't wait till marriage to see if we're sexually compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:45 AM
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And reading that post it still looks like men don't know how women decide their mate. I don't like muscles and prefer ~pudge~ and very few women think "can he support me while I'm PMSing?"... I don't pms at all, I'm only moody when I'm in physical pain that has me crying for 2-3 days straight. I'm not even going to address some of the other issues I have with certain points. Some of these however are just basic green flags that men use too, such as your partner being well groomed and being fun t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:50 PM
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Extra extra, man thinks he knows every woman's fantasies!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:52 PM
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I was a kid. I can't be pushed around any longer so if a guy makes dirty comments at me and reporting him does nothing then I won't be afraid to slap him, sorry. Edit: Love your assumptions that I'm a 4 ft tall feminine person that can be easily pushed around. /s The nuts are an easy target too, but you've forgetting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:50 PM
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Good for you. I wonder if thats the type of woman you attract since my group of friends and couples don't enjoy rough sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:49 PM
1

Nice assumptions, sadly they're wrong. 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:46 PM
1

After a couple dates it might be appropriate to ask. Its not romantic, but if you share your concerns a good person would get tests done. After all, it benefits them as well and lots of places now offer free tests. Real mature with that response though, what a good quality comment. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 03:26 PM
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You don't immediately know what a person is like until you spend more time with them. Its not uncommon to go on a date or two before finding out how assh0le-ish someone is. This woman might know soft guys exist but would not know of a specific guy she wants and would try to date the "alpha" to see what he's like. Also, you'd be surprised how many women don't use tinder (because they think the men they want aren't on it).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 03:21 PM
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There are women who use men, but the 3 date rule exists for some women because they want to make sure a guy actually wants to be with them and not just use them for sex. A lot of them didn't have these rules in the past and seemed to sleep with anyone before they realized that guys will take you out on one date, have sex with you, and ghost you the next day. Ha, found the nice guy. Women can want to go to expensive places and not have sex afterwards. If you don't feel comfortable paying for her …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 03:16 PM
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Women who are having sex with "fuck boys" aren't the same women who don't like them. People who like to have frequent sex, men and women, will have sex. You also forget the fuck boys use lots of "woe is me" emotional manipulation to get women who don't usually sleep around to sleep with them (which is why they hate them). Also, how will women "leverage sex against you for their personal gain"? To make you pay for a salad at a restaurant and nothing else? Talk about splitting the bill ahead of ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 01:57 PM
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I wouldn't mind dating a girl who's been with a lot of guys as long as she gets an STD test before s3x (I'd get one with her and we can make a day of it). It probably means she's good in bed too. I'm more iffy on the fact that she still seems attracted to her best friend and openly admits it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 01:47 PM
1

There are women answering this question openly saying they love their shy boyfriends/husbands. A guy doesn't need to be an "alpha" or have alpha qualities to end up in a relationship, they just need to find the right partner like everyone does.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 01:38 PM
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Guys who label themselves as "nice guys" usually set off alarm bells because they're the types to demand sex after every good deed they do and throw a fit if they don't get it. I've gotten very assertive when paying for food because a guy might insist on paying for my part of the meal and use that as leverage to worm his way into bed. Genuinely nice men who look okay, have a good sense of humor, bother to shower, and don't always badger you for sex will find someone eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 01:30 PM
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The men who enjoy putting women in their place and openly admit that will absolutely carry that belief not only in the bedroom. The people in my social circles get turned off from men who are aggressive in bed and so do I. Surprisingly different people with different tastes exist but men here act as if all women like one type of guy and thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 01:17 PM
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You're acting like women are choosing from a group of men lined up infront of them when actually they might meet the "alpha" first before they even know a specific "beta" exists, spend a night with them, and then realize he's even more of an assh0le than they thought. There's no choice if they only meet one guy at a time. I can't speak for everyone, but a good chunk of women would choose the massage boy over the guy who's insecure and constantly trying to prove he's a manly man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 01:11 PM
1

I wouldn't be because I'm too prideful and stubborn. (What is with this idea that people who aren't men can't/won't fight back?)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 01:05 PM
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How is this the "only red pill" we need? When we go as far back in time past written records to explain why there were at least 2 women reproducing for every man it wasn't because women were sleeping around. R*pe and taking women by force was more common and it was also more likely that men in power were given more women. Women were also treated like property and essentially had to be bought in some cultures, if you had more power you could buy more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 06:59 AM
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This. Guys ask such broad questions on how to attract women without saying what kind of woman they want other than someone who's "hot". It's hard to give good specific advice to use on a certain group when they ask a general question that won't work on all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 06:43 AM
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The guys that ask for relationship advice usually give very broad scenarios and expect specific answers. These guys are also looking for advice that'll let them be with a woman longer. Being with a "hot" assh0le doesn't work long term (and if any guy tried to put me in my "place" I'd slap him across the face).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 06:29 AM
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Can we stop with this alpha and beta nonsense? Fewer women will choose someone who is considered to be an "alpha" when they can have a nice guy who gives them massages and gentle kisses. The "make me fight for your attention" and "pin me up against a wall and give it to me rough" routine gets old so fast. These beliefs are just an excuse for certain guys to try and explain why they can't get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 06:24 AM
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My mother is a SAHM and doesn't care for feminism. Both of my parents also lead the household together (and still openly flirt before anyone says they aren't in love). I'm also going to be keeping my last name too because it might be the last thing that connects me to my culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:20 PM
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What's wrong with hyphenated last names? I have one because I was given both of my parents' names and they have a happy marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:14 PM
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No one has a problem with women choosing to be stay at home moms, they have a problem with these women saying that "feminists complained" about it. Let women work if they want to work and let them be SAHMs if they want to be SAHMs. Edit: I'm guessing your older family members weren't as poor as you thought because my grandparents and great grandparents all had to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:09 PM
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It's the woman who has to carry it for 9 months, change their diet, deal with nausea, chest and back pains, unwanted c-sections, possible destational diabetes or death, not to mention other health issues and struggles. They have to push a 6-9+ pound baby out of them and get stitches afterwards, plus a 2-4+ day hospital stay. The man doesn't have to deal with these life changing risks, so the woman gets more of a say. (But to answer the post, yes sexism is bad. Doesn't matter the direction.)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:50 AM
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I don't think I can rate my happiness as I've not moved in with my partner yet, but a good reason why lots of women aren't happy is because of the extra mental workload they have to deal with on top of their already stressful jobs. Men don't equally share the burden of thinking about what to eat for dinner, making doctors appointments for the kids, etc. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/world/2017/may/26/gender-wars-household-chores-comic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:57 PM
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"He'll also take a big family group shot but then insists on the photo with just them and that's often the one he hangs up in the house and shares all over social media." Imagine walking into a family members house and the only pictures hung up and shared on social media are of the opposite sex. No one cares he's taking extra photos, the issue is he's not sharing any photos of the whole family.
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/21 01:55 PM
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By all means, talking about the shitty parts of feminism is great. I have zero tolerance, however, for people who say "all women are x" and it pisses me off like how people say "all men are r*pists". Not all women, just like how not all men.
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/21 02:55 AM
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I understand that, but what you say is different than what other people say. If you scroll though posts on this sub they very much say stuff like "all women..." which is not okay.
/r/AntiFeminists18/11/21 11:17 PM
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I just very much have a problem with the "all women are blank" argument, in the same way some people say "all men are r*pists". Let's not start swinging in the exact opposite direction.
/r/AntiFeminists18/11/21 10:40 PM
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Because this anti feminism sub can be better instead if having just woman hating nonsense.
/r/AntiFeminists18/11/21 09:54 PM
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The majority of the time its a good thing. However, if they're in therapy for something like liking little children a bit too much then I wouldn't want to be with them/have kids with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 08:21 PM
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Is that you Jesse Lee Peterson? (Edit: Also wanted to say that this question should be reposted somewhere where actual feminists can respond, not this hateful eco chamber that has come to hate all women even if they aren't feminists.)
/r/AntiFeminists18/11/21 08:13 PM
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I think your first mistake is assuming that women who have a lot of s3x can't be loyal, but a lot of women are mostly annoyed at guys who f*ck around and then demand "pure" women for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:08 AM
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I do, I'm picky and ask these questions ahead of time. Friends and people online don't pay as much attention however. Edit: Its not the woman's fault if she's having sex with him for the first time, its the AH's fault for not thinking of his partner. It'll be her fault is she keeps complaining and makes no attempt to fix it with him or leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:48 PM
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Damn, guess we're still in the honeymoon phase 5ish years after we started dating. Guess I'll go tell my love that we should stop having sex because at this point we should have a dead bedroom. /s Are you also insulting Walmart dates? Cause those are great. We're still trying to choose which Nerf guns to pick out for when we get our own place and can run around an empty house shooting each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:49 PM
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Absolutely not, but there is a (mostly true) running joke that men don't even know where the clit is and don't bother focusing on their partners much (which is why orgasms are likely less in women). Lots of men also don't usually keep going after finishing themselves and I've also heard some say "women don't need to finish to get pregnant" as an excuse to be half-assed in bed. There's really no point having s3x if your partner isn't going to put much effort into making you feel good as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:42 PM
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I'll say it again, I'm not getting my posts removed for indecent language because you never know what other people consider as indecent. With that being said... I'm between 20 to 30, have a number of toys, and frequently try to have s3x with my partner of soon to be 5 years. I don't think doing the deed is bad/wrong in anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:29 PM
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Cause I'm not getting my post possibly removed for indecent language. 🥴👌
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:16 PM
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I just don't think that these desires can be compared because it wouldn't be an equal trade, and that's not considering STD risks if the guy lies, the chance of getting pregnant, or someone releasing your nudes. Men and women also shouldn't be expecting s3x for paying for a meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:59 PM
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The meal is a gift. Men and women shouldn't be expecting s3x for paying for another person's meal. Also, "One study of college students found 91 percent of men and 39 percent of women always or usually orgasm during sexual encounters". So no, women don't usually "get pleasure" for showing off their bodies. https://www.thedailybeast.com/women-dont-orgasm-as-much-as-men-thats-a-problem#:~:text=Women%20were%20found%20to%20orgasm,percent%20as%20often%20in%20relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:56 PM
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I think paying an extra $20-$30 is a bit different than undressing, showing every part of your body, and having s3x with someone. I also believe its safer that both parties pay for their own meals (so certain scumbags can't use it as a way to manipulate someone), or the person who asked their crush out should be the one paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:50 AM
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Oof you know nothing about me and my life, but alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:59 PM
1

Body language is important too, but if you're rubbing cheeks then its a given you don't need to ask. Its something else when a guy wants to kiss you and you haven't even held hands much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:58 PM
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I would prefer it if someone I haven't kissed before asked first because that's what I find more attractive and respectful. I still start blushing when my partner of soon to be 5 years jokingly asks if he can kiss me 'cause thats hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:55 PM
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I can back them up, its hotter if a guy asks to kiss you instead of going for it. It gives the impression that the guy was actually thinking about it and was kind enough to ask/be respectful, he isn't kissing you out of impulse or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:27 PM
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It would be an okay strategy if ALL parties knew what was going on. If I found out a guy/girl I was into was having s3x with other people on the side while we were having dates (before becoming official) I would've felt like I've wasted my time and would leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:41 PM
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I agree that we need to teach young men more discipline and self worth. Its the reason why red pill/MGTOW communities exist, because men feel as if society has screwed them over and that they're worthless. However, these groups then go about blaming women and act hostile towards them which is never okay. There have to be healthier ways to increase self worth so men feel better about themselves and are more comfortable in their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:36 PM
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No, abortion isn't used for women to have limitless condomless sex. Abortions can cost anywhere from $400-$900+ and can range from just uncomfortable to downright painful. If you want sex without physical protection like a condom then there's birth control pills and plan B (which is around $50 per single pill). I'm genuinely asking, is this a serious question/discussion? Abortion isn't something to poke fun at.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:53 AM
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Mine and other people's conservative relatives. ("Oh, but he's such a great guy and you should be lucky he chose you!! How could you say no?!!)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:48 AM
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I'm not shaming the guy, if he wants to leave then he can. However, he shouldn't crawl his way back to his ex afterwards if he changes his mind cause that's a sh!tty thing to do. ("Hey babe, I couldn't find anyone better, so I guess I'll settle for you.") Ending a relationship isn't always mutual and it wasn't what I was talking about, I was talking about how a break allows for two people to both drift apart with no hard feelings instead of putting the blame on one person (if you're with an assh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:45 AM
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I don't think its a fair analogy because men can only get big b00bs from women while women can get jobs by themselves, the don't need a man's money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 10:28 PM
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I think that bit about how females would leave their offspring most of the time is wrong. It depends largely on the species and the time and effort it takes to reproduce, not that women are always putting themselves first. Bigger animals like elephants, polar bears, and orangutans will defend their children to the death because it takes a long time for them to reach maturity while other animals (usually prey) grow up faster so its easier to abandon their children and make more the following seas…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:37 PM
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These are similar to how "women can't drive" and they should "be pregnant and barefoot in the kitchen". Why do people, women and men, think jokes like these towards opposite sexes are funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:22 PM
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I think people notice the opposite group more than their own groups and also get treated differently because of it. For example, as a man you likely wouldn't see the negative sides of delusional guys who hit on women out of their league (and call them b!tches when they're turned down) because you aren't their target/won't have to deal with their harassment. This goes for Delusional women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:49 PM
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How is she a "second hand" woman? When I was talking about someone being a person's second choice I meant that if the guy is unsatisfied he shouldn't be running back to his partner because he couldn't get better. The woman in this case may have slept with other people in the past, but she chose this guy and isn't being unfaithful as far as we know, she considers him her number one and isn't attempting to sleep with anyone whole they're together, unlike this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 01:25 PM
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His prospects aren't going to be zero, but he talks as if women will flock to him which I still don't think would happen no matter how much experience he has. He's in for a rude awakening if he decides to break up with his partner after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 01:19 PM
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And I don't disagree with that because its still experience, but then there are the types who get too confident thinking they know everything when not all women are the same. Its still not smooth sailing like how the guy thinks it will go.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 07:22 AM
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I did some reading on it and in the book she broke up with her husband because of unsuccessful attempts at getting pregnant and in the movie she left because she wasn't in love with him anymore.. not much you can do if you fall out of love. Edit: There's a difference between falling out of love and leaving vs leaving because "mah wife's titties got saggy ;( "... which seems to be why lots of men leave. For sickness and in health, except when there are young hot babes around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:53 AM
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The only people I have talked to do it for safety. Another thing I have heard/read is when a guy asks for a break he expects his partner not to sleep with anyone while the same doesn't apply for him. I don't really have a problem with a mutual break where both people can sleep with whoever they want. [I can go browse through a couple relationship subreddits and find some examples of guys complaining their partners "cheated" while they were on a break, I've seen it happen before. I don't see this…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:41 AM
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It funny how the movie is "lauded by mainstream society" yet no one knows what this movie is about and no one is talking about it. Its probably a collection of failed social media posts and famous people talking about it hoping to get this movie trending. If you break up with your long term partner because you're bored and don't attempt to talk it out you're an assh0le, woman or man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:34 AM
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It's "by large" women because it's the safer option to pick. Ever heard of the "we can still be friends" line when a girl rejects a guy? Its the same thought process. Better safe than sorry and not have a guy tell everyone you're a b!tch or worse. Meanwhile I've had an "ex" (don't know what to call it, we dated for 3 days) who still comes back to me 6 years later despite blocking his phone number and new social media accounts he makes. I'm probably not the only one that has dealt with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:25 AM
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Probably, because if you speak up and say you don't want to be someone's second choice or if you want to leave because a guy is an assh0le then you're called a selfish b!tch. "Taking a break" and mutually drifting apart makes no one the bad guy. Edit: You also don't have to worry as much about the guy spreading rumors or possibly posting revenge p0rn if its mutual. Better safe than sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:13 AM
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"People are making very unfounded assumptions about this guy's ability to get any action"... The guy admitted to everyone himself that he was getting rejected which led to him not trying anymore. It has nothing to do with a "Women are Wonderful Effect", if a guy or girl sucked at picking up partners before a committed relationship then they're going to continue to suck once they leave that relationship, especially when they put no effort into it. Also, a lot of the time women are expected to tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:07 AM
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You'd be selecting for a specific type of woman because I feel that women who don't prefer those types of men wouldn't have children with them but would just settle eventually. (Hypergamy is also a joke.)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:49 AM
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That might have been true in the past, but the majority of women have jobs and can provide for themselves. They don't need men to be the sole providers and it could be argued that men hit "physical degradation" faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:43 AM
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"The wall" is just a myth created by certain angry men who get annoyed because not only do younger women not want them, but older women don't want them either. Its a shame tactic. Older women can date men their age if they'd like, but if younger men are into MILFs then there's no harm (as long as they are into older women by their own accord, not pressured, and aren't young enough to manipulate). Its also funny how men get beer bellies and start balding sooner, but that doesn't matter because "m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:02 AM
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That is not an appropriate thing to say at all, but HELL YEAH I'm into anal! You better bend over for this one though, the six inch strap-on I bought just for you is larger than it feels and won't go in easy! But seriously, that's not an okay thing to say. Edit: So its completely fine to say "So you do anal? I'm okay with that"? What part of that is okay to say? I'm not going to be sleeping with you and it's gross you implied that it had an effect on your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:38 PM
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I never said I don't agree with his argument, I said that he misread what I wrote and made an argument based off of that. I was the one who was talking about having sex 24/7. It was one of my points of how some cultures expect women to have sex whenever their husbands feel like it, not his. Edit: You misread what I wrote to fit your narrative. Let's leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:03 PM
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1) I wrote it in one paragraph meaning it was one argument, I'm sorry if it was hard to follow. 2) I didn't know respecting your partner when they don't want to have sex was a "bad belief". 3) You were talking about sex starved marriages where there's little to no sex while I was talking about how women are pressured into sex. You created a whole strawman by yourself. Thanks for the facts that mean nothing when you weren't arguing against what I said, but about what you thought I said. Have a ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:59 PM
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1) I never said you said something like it, I specifically said "there's still this belief in many cultures" which you ignored. I'm also not a woman, (I'm nonbinary with a body I don't agree with. I'm giving female experiences based on my female body and how thr world sees me as female.) 2) I was talking about the worst case scenario in the first place, but you misinterpreted what I said and tried to argue against women never having sex with their husbands. That's what I would call a strawman as…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:32 PM
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If a person asks to have sex with their partner and they say no then that's a no. If they continue pressuring them until the other person caves then they're the asshole. Being forced to have sex when you don't want to sucks and you kind of just lay there and wait for it to be over. You come out of it feeling like you're a used rag only there for the other person's pleasure. You misinterpreted what I was saying, its not a woman's job to have sex with their husband 24/7 whenever he wants it. Relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:08 PM
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Yup, I have such bad attitudes on sex because no matter how much I want it (when my libido goes up) I physically can't because sex is painful for me. I'm also not forcing him to stay. I'm just curious, but did you miss the parts where I said we cuddle, massage each other, and make food for the other person? Hell, I love to massage my guy's feet after a long day while watching our shows together. We physically cannot keep our hands off of each other. I literally tell him every day how handsome he…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:54 PM
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It'll get fixed eventually because if the antibiotics and birth control don't work then I'll ask for exploratory surgery or eventually a hysterectomy. I don't think I can realistically live with this pain forever. He's free to leave if he likes, I've told him that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:11 PM
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He will resent me for trying to be active in the bedroom despite a medical condition I don't have control over? You know he's free to leave, right? I think people who force their partners that don't want to have sex into having sex are assholes, but a person isn't an asshole for wanting sex in general. People can sexually please themselves in other ways and then have non sexual forms of physical affection with their partners to reaffirm their love. The issue is with posts on dead bedroom reddit …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:09 PM
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Nope, it makes the pain worse temporarily. I'm constantly horny and in pain which is exhausting, but rarely the pain fluctuates so I get somewhat of a break then. I've learned to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:01 PM
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Maintenance sex is having sex with someone despite you yourself not wanting to have sex at all in that moment for the sole benefit of one person. People can use porn or get sex toys if PIV sex isn't possible. (I also wouldn't say someone has maintenance sex if they willingly have sex despite no libido.) I was specifically talking about assholes who say its a woman's job to sexually satisfy her husband whether she wants to have sex or not, I wasn't saying that men don't also preform maintenance s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:40 PM
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If he wasn't understanding than I would break up. I'm a very empathetic person and wouldn't consider putting my sexual pleasure above someone's pain, so I would expect my partner to do the same. Especially considering there where times when I couldn't help but cry if we tried to do something sexual because the pain was just that bad. He didn't really ask for sex before 2019 in a sense that our libidos just happened to fit and we didn't have to talk about it. He still didn't ask me for sexual fav…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:48 PM
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Its pointless because there's a chance the woman they want a date with is already dating someone else or just isn't interested.. and then these guys get annoyed and aggressive when they get "friendzoned" for wasting their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:03 PM
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I've been having this pain in my sides since 2019 and had a drop in libido around the start of 2020. I've had blood and urine tests, two different ultrasounds, CT scans, and I'm about to go for 2 more ultrasounds and maybe antibiotics followed by birth control pills because doctors can't figure out whats wrong with me. They're essentially just trying to rule out what does and doesn't work. Not only did I not have a libido, it was physically painful to have sex and I had to put pressure on my sid…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:56 PM
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If only my nausea had a known fixable cause. I'm not going to engage with you any longer because you've clearly never had to deal with something as draining as a pregnancy. I envy your ignorance. If only men could get pregnant as well. Edit: Morals are an interesting thing to bring up when you knowingly prefer a nonsentient creature over someone that can feel physical and emotional pain. I'm good with my beliefs, thank you.
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/21 04:13 AM
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You seem to call anyone a "moron" and "retarded" if they don't agree with you and I can't even say that you are arguing in bad faith because I wouldn't say name calling is a valid argument. Writing out a mini essay saying how women are at fault for aborting out of "convenience" while putting zero blame on the guy who made 50% of the future child is pretty telling of where you stand, especially when certain men are so quick to argue that a dad should get a say in what happens but then don't bring…
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/21 04:12 AM
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Using the word "inconvenient" is a really funny way to say "giving birth is extremely painful and can cause death or permanently disfigure your body". Edit: I have been dealing with medical issues that have left me nauseous for soon to be two months now and I cannot tell you how much it sucks waking up drained and not being able to eat much food. Pregnant women who have to deal with morning sickness are really something else.
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/21 03:37 AM
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I love how the man is completely void of all fault in this scenario if his lover gets pregnant. Man, women really are evil for choosing to abort or keep a pregnancy (and making the dad pay alimony). No winning here, folks. I'm not vegan, but cows go through a long grieving period when their calves are taken from them and you're concerned about something that doesn't even have a nervous system? Nice.
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/21 03:35 AM
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Women aren't the only ones who control access to sex, that's something men say when women find out the guy they like is not the best of people and then these "females" refuse to engage with them. These types of guys cannot admit that the fault might be with them. You also can't control speeders and drunk drivers just like how you can't control early/late ovulation and disruptions in hormone cycles that might make pregnancy more possible, but you can take safe measures. These include seat belts a…
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/21 03:18 AM
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Saying "How much of the shit in the Bible has legal repercussions" directly goes against stating the "Bible got a pass because it's a political tool". Is it or is it not used to tell people what they can/can't do and how certain groups of people treated? Edit: I haven't seen any stonings, but I have seen women die because of listening pastors (who speak for the bible) and therefore don't get the health care they need. That's always fun, isn't it? And there's no legal repercussions for spreading …
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/21 03:05 AM
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That would be like saying people shouldn't be allowed to drive cars. After all, people "wanted everything that came with" being able to drive, but when they get in a car crash even if it isn't their fault and don't have insurance its other people's tax dollars that pay for it. Why should other people pay for their mistakes? Before 20-22 weeks an embryo cannot feel anything. Fetal "hearts" are electrical signals that can be recreated in labs while fully developed human hearts on the other hand ca…
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/21 02:33 AM
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Because of these pro"life" bills women are dying. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/world/2021/nov/06/poles-march-against-abortion-ban-after-pregnant-womans-death https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_of_Savita_Halappanavar Then there was the graphic story of a Texas husband who had to go to court to put his brain dead wife to rest which the doctors wouldn't allow because they thought they would get sued because she was pregnant. They kept her on life support for over two months d…
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/21 02:10 AM
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Women don't have a problem with other women themselves being prolife, but the whole point of the prolife movement in general is to take away abortion rights from women who need it. Prochoice means you do you while prolife means no one can get an abortion. I myself cannot support prolifers given the fact that women have died because they haven't been able to seek an abortion for their (very much wanted) fetuses which were sick.
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/21 02:00 AM
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Cause very few, basically no, women would say "AWALT".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:45 AM
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If I was using red pill logic I could say that woman can get any man they want and, therefore, don't need to play any number games. And no, not even most women. A lot of women and men don't have time to waste on numbers nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:03 PM
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If you look through previous posts in this sub (or red pill subs) whenever age gaps are brought up a significant number of men largely talk about women being at their peak between 18-20, although I have seen 16 being used as well. Between 25-29 they claim women have "hit the wall", so I don't feel its accurate to talk about these women. Even still there's a difference between someone fresh out of collage and a person who has been working for 10+ years, but at that point I don't care much about w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:03 PM
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I disagree with this, people can be completely happy with only platonic relationships. Also lesbians exist and I doubt they'd rather be dating a man compared to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:16 PM
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As a kid I could ignore sex ed, but its not like I can avoid an issues that come up with my body. I still have to go to gynecologists and eventually have mammograms because breast cancer runs in my family. I've come to peace with it even if I don't agree with this body.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:14 PM
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I just never considered myself a woman. I remember having sex ed in elementary school and coming out of it thinking "this is stupid and doesn't apply to me anyway", but periods aren't something you can avoid. Its just easier to dress and continue looking like a woman because of the views most people share. An employer is still more likely to hire a woman than an androgynous person who openly goes by they/them pronouns.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:10 PM
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Nonbinary with no pill. My only standard is to just be smart, not be an asshole, and have hair. I don't care about height, race, d!ck size, or body count (as long as everything was mutual and everyone was safe). I have no interest in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:58 PM
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I am female presenting and I'm treated like a woman. Although I don't consider myself female, I am basing my experiences on how the world sees me as a woman. I wouldn't comment on posts meant for men because those aren't experiences I have. (I would compare it to how a dog that looked like a pit bull was euthanized because of how other people saw it, despite it not being a pit bull at all.) But these "question for women" posts make no sense anyway because (cis) men will comment on them and these…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:55 PM
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Why does a large majority of people shame age gap relationships? Because a 35+ man or woman shouldn't be trying to get with a 20 year old. People in these age groups have different priorities and levels of maturity. It seems extremely manipulative to me that any adult would want to be with someone who barely entered college. It's also easy to convince these younger adults of doing things they otherwise wouldn't have done, such as pressuring them into marriage or having kids before they are ready…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:39 PM
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It wasn't my intention to date this guy because I only saw us as classmates. I wasn't looking to go out with anyone. He asked first and I agreed, because why not, but I'm glad that I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:47 PM
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Except not all women "deep down inside of them have the need for a man in their life". I just happened to click with someone and ended up in a long term relationship, but I wasn't actively looking for one nor do I need a man to "lead" me in life. If anything happens to us I wouldn't go hunting for another partner (and it's not like I need to because I don't care about marriage or kids either). If things happen organically with a new guy/girl then so be it. Edit: Not a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:34 PM
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People on FDS filter out supposed HVM from LVM before they get to pen!s size, but I'd like to add that just like d!ck size women have varying length in their vaginal canals. You just have to meet the person that fits for you, although its not always a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:12 PM
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I wouldn't say commenting on size alone should be a red flag, only if they compare you to their ex. (I always tell my partner he has a good girth and he's the only one I've slept with. No red flags here.) Edit: I would compare it to nuts and bolts. Different nuts fit with different bolts, but you don't have to mash ALL the different pieces together to say which ones fit perfectly, you can usually tell when you stumble upon something that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:09 PM
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As someone who's dated women (as well as men) and actually listened to their wants, no, they don't give bad advice. The issue is a lot of guys try to follow a step by step guide and assume all women are the same. That, or they ignore the advice all together and then blame it on women when it doesn't work out. It's really not hard to listen to another person's needs and wants. Edit: Forgot to add the scenario where guys you aren't close with come up to you and ask generic questions on how to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:21 AM
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As long as the financial issues didn't involve stealing my money instead of talking it out and it didn't effect my mental health to the point where I'd end up hurting myself then I'm down for anything. Momma didn't raise a coward and a quitter. If I make a commitment to someone, especially someone I love very much, then I won't abandon them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:14 AM
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Yup, I brought up an ancient book that is extremely relevant and people still willingly support, especially since people have edited it over time to remove mythical animals to be more "believable" but they chose to keep the abuse in it.
/r/AntiFeminists10/11/21 04:14 AM
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The bible. It advocated stoning women to death if they didn't bleed while having sex with their husbands for the first time. Surprise surprise, you largely only bleed if the opening is too small and your husband trys to force his way in when you aren't wet enough. The difference is books like in the post mentioned above don't lead to women killing men. Its written like that to catch people's eyes, but it doesn't advocate for a death sentence in ways lines in historical books directed at women we…
/r/AntiFeminists09/11/21 04:02 PM
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Then why don't men save their first times as well so they could experience having sex as a couple?
/r/AntiFeminists09/11/21 03:45 PM
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What would you like stats about? This is an opinionated post asking for opinions as to why women/non-men see red pill individuals the way they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:35 PM
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If these men actually wanted to focus on themselves then there wouldn't be a problem, I fully support self improvement. However, most of these men are misogynists, claim all women are hypergamous and will divorce r*pe men while taking their kids, assume all women are lying when it comes to sexual assault allegations, get insulted when women don't feel comfortable being alone with a stranger (especially a man), claim that men are the head of the household, sleep around but shame women for doing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:00 PM
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I disagree with this, there's a difference between dating someone for less than a year and relying on them vs dating someone for less than a month and dumping your trauma and pent up feelings on them. There's a time and place for everything. I also don't think its "most women" and especially not women "under the age of 30". The assh0le women who fvck around with men's feelings are the ones who are the loudest and get around the most. You won't hear much from people in happy relationships who hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:48 AM
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I agree with this, those were some garbage people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:43 AM
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If you can't share your problems freely with a woman you're in a long term relationship with then you shouldn't be dating that specific woman in the first place. If she truely loves and cares about you then she wouldn't "lose some attraction to you".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:42 AM
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It sounds similar to how some guys will say they love you and then bail when you want to relax and not have sex for a day. I'm sorry you had to deal with that, it feels like there are a lot more shitty and entitled people lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:14 AM
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How do you, as a guy, assume they are all "BS answers" when you aren't a woman and can't speak on female thoughts/experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:10 AM
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My love relied on me when he was dealing with some stuff I won't mention and then later again when he had a family member pass away. I don't see him as less of a man for talking about how he felt or when he cried. I'm sorry that's how you see all relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:05 AM
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Yes, I'm my partner's rock and he's mine. We're in it together and both rely on each other for emotional support. If a girl tells you to go to her mother than that's just what she is, a girl, not a woman and therefore not worth dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 05:45 AM
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The majority of red pilled men are like that as of this moment, but they may not have been as extreme as before. Now they just always complain about not getting sex as frequently as they would like, especially when their partners are depressed or have medical issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 05:13 AM
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Nope, they'd probably demand sex when my weird side pains act up and then emotionally manipulate you by complaining about never having sex. They don't respect any partner they get.. maybe there's a reason they're missing of why women leave them for "chad".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:28 AM
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Genders and its rules about what people should do change all the time, so I'm waiting to see what it looks like many years down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 02:08 PM
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Ah yes, I forgot, every single woman is physically inferior to men and no hand to hand combat should be shown. /s But dude, its entertainment. None of it is real and there are so many other things you can nitpick. Let young girls have their buff warriors from Shera, its better than just a single female character in a show thats only there to be a sexy yet helpless damsel in distress for the main guy. Edit: Also, men aren't "stronger" to women. Men have more points of connection for muscles to at…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 02:02 PM
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Except women don't "hit the wall" and men don't "age like fine wine", all people age like normal human beings do. Its similar to how men bald, end up with dad bods, and gain excess wrinkles. I wouldn't say that women are valued more either, they're just expected to give up their jobs and hobbies once they have kids, so of course these types of women would try and find men better off. (Its gross being told as a 12 year old kid that your goal is to find a richer man and have children of your own o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:15 AM
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Go on to any red pill, anti-feminist, and even this reddit page, many men complain about wearing condoms and then continue to get angry when their partners have trouble adjusting to birth control. We get it, "cOnDOm BAd", but at least be aware of how suck-y it is that they have to take something that'll likely change their sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 11:02 PM
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I don't think women with hormonal changes are part of the minority because many women are pressured to take birth control (cause their sleazy partners don't like condoms).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:33 PM
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I would love it if men stopped making gross comments on Instagram and would quit doing cold approaches when women are alone, it would make life a lot more easier and less gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 10:40 PM
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I don't think you understand what its like to be called a cheater when you've been nothing but loving and faithful to your partner, especially when some people rank cheaters just under m*rderers, ped0philes, and r+pists. I mostly don't want kids because they're a lot of work and I don't want to mess up my body when there are already lots of children to adopt, but if my partner convinces me to go through the whole process but he ends up calling me a cheater then there's an issue. I gave up my bod…
/r/AntiFeminists04/11/21 01:29 PM
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I disagree because suggestive men are still left up and it can be considered "sexualized content" (even if it isn't p0rn). They had every right to remove her post however because p0rn shouldn't be linked to a "children's" reddit page, but I don't agree with the other posts left up.
/r/AntiFeminists04/11/21 01:36 AM
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The thing is the genders were reversed. Three muscular shirtless guys were dressed up as dugtrio and the post was left up but a fully clothed Misty was taken down (the caption should've removed the only fans link or she should've posted with a different account). It's hypocritical in the wrong direction.
/r/AntiFeminists03/11/21 10:12 PM
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My point is that women don't always recognize they're being strung along, and therefore, that the ball is supposedly in their court. That's why they ask people online. Women who realize they won't get the marriage that they want don't need to make these posts. If women try to break up then these men will love bomb their girlfriends to keep them from leaving, such as giving them promise rings. Guys who have no intention of marrying but don't tell that to their partners are assh0les, its not the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:58 PM
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I'm not overcomplicating anything. If you go onto different relationship reddit pages you'll see lots of frustrated women complaining about regularly asking their boyfriends when they're going to get married and have kids. They aren't strangers to the "what are we" talk, but surprisingly many men string their girlfriends along for whatever reason. It doesn't help when there are other reddit pages advocating for men to make their girlfriends always "audition for the role of the wife" but never gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:33 PM
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This woman cannot make an informed decision if she doesn't have all the facts. It would be like going to look at a car and only finding out what is wrong with it once you've committed and already bought it. She can't make the decision if her partner is lying and deceiving her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:13 PM
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I agree, especially that line about how no man should have to go through a "dry d!ck drought" because he isn't being honest. Some women want to get married and start having kids asap, so a guy stringing her along and promising marriage is an assh0le.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:44 PM
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I feel like you're talking about multiple things here and acting like they're all one form of love. First there's lust which is a very strong sexual desire for a person, and then there's the honeymoon phase where a person feels very carefree, lovey-dovey, your partner turns your world upside down and you can only think about them all the time. Lastly there's a deep form of love that you feel after a longer period of time where you've accepted a person's flaws, you share almost everything with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:36 PM
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Its not "one" thing. If your partner won't open up about their feelings then how can you trust them with other things? And I'm not saying a person should share all their secrets with me, but communication is key. I need to know what is bothering my partner so I can work with them to fix it. Its one of the only major deal breakers I have. Emotions are important to me. Edit: And I don't really care about height, weight, or what job someone has.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 10:58 PM
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Yeah, its especially telling when they use the word "females" multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 07:49 PM
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Its one of those things you can't sniff out immediately, but I would probably leave after 5 years if they didn't cry infront of me. People who don't cry or show many emotions after hard life events make me very uneasy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 06:42 PM
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What kind of scummy take is this? If I was with my partner for decades and they'd never show vulnerability then I wouldn't call us a match and would probably move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:40 PM
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You hear about women leaving their husbands when they cry because that's an extreme. If a couple has a healthy relationship then people aren't going to be talking about it. Whenever my partner is upset, I rub his back and try to be there for him the best I can. Its also important to ask whether they want solutions to their problems or do they just want someone to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:36 PM
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They exist and my partner is neutral, but we switch things up occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:23 PM
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When it comes to FDS I don't count their opinions because they are (1) outliers and (2) biased against men. (As an example: I'm not going to listen to people about the best breed of dog when they hate dogs in general.) And excuse me, its manipulative women and complete assh0les.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 09:48 PM
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I agree with this, if you go on predominantly female reddit pages (ignoring troll pages), lots of women say 5 to 6 inches is good while sizes much larger are painful. I don't think getting slammed in the cervix is something many women enjoy. Also, penis sizes aren't accurate a lot of the time because many guys inflate their sizes or don't measure them properly (you have to press the ruler where it would aline with the pelvic bones). They care more about sizes than women, and so many manipulative…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:04 PM
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The types of people who usually cheat don't immediately say "I have a boyfriend/girlfriend" because it would ruin their chances. They wait until after a couple of dates so their side piece has doubts about whether or not they should stay. They don't immediately leave. "Nothing ventured nothing gained" is a very gross thing to say when people who are faithful keep getting hit on after they say they aren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:07 PM
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The "I have a boyfriend" approach also isn't working well as it used to, some creepy guys still take that as an invitation to try and convince a girl that they would be better for them. (If these guys ignore that answer when talking to me then I just say I keep hissing cockroaches or something weird along those lines.)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:58 PM
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It grinds my gears when a loving husband tries their best and is there to support their wife whenever but she's just there for the money. There are too many scumb bags around who have no problems using people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:35 PM
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I'm not planning to get married (or have kids), I'm talking about if marriage has already happened and divorce is soon to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:58 PM
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My point is that divorce is going to happen anyway if married people become significantly sexually incompatible. If a guy cheats its more likely his ex wife will try and get primary custody and make him pay more money. Divorce is likely already in the near future, so its best to end on a good note. I don't want to get married or have kids, but if I did and my husband/wife cheated on me then I would absolutely take the kids and milk them dry. I have zero sympathy for cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:56 PM
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I just say I keep hissing cockroaches, that usually has them running. If you say you aren't interested you get hit with a "you don't know me well yet"/"I can be better"... It's the same if you say you have a long term boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:10 PM
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Its not incentivising men to cheat because they can act like adults and use their words to figure out how to fix a dead bedroom or get a divorce right away. If sex is that important then its best to get divorced from the start than to cheat and break any trust your ex had in you.. (that'll definitely create a healthy co parenting relationship. /s) But similarly, it could be argued that men incentivize women to not have sex when men dump most of the child care and household duties on them. Its ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:01 PM
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But when you scroll through the posts in this sub and a guy is talking about how women should be under the control of men again (and people say he isn't an anti-feminist), isn't that also a no true scotsman fallacy? What about that vegan who was preaching that how we keep male animals as slaves and said he was also anti-feminist. Why can you all gatekeep who's an anti-feminist but suddenly every woman is a feminist unless they say they aren't?
/r/AntiFeminists24/10/21 01:42 PM
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There's nothing pedantic about it. Research digs into the smallest of details and either trys to prove or disprove the annoying little issues that pop up, its the reason why research reports can be 20+ pages long. If a hypothesis surrounding increased orgasms cause increased pregnancies because of rape then all factors should be considered. If I tried to submit a recent scientific article without addressing other forms of contraception, the effects of stress on contraception and how it relates t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:10 PM
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The research isn't there, only hypotheses that remain unproven. 5% to 50% is a very very large range, imagine if scientists said the new vaccines were 5% infective compared to 50% ineffective. Also, a theory is an idea already strongly supported by data (like the theory of gravity), while a hypothesis has little to no research done. This would be a hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:02 PM
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They only talked about condoms and nothing else. It sounds vaguely like a post written by someone who's into pregnancy after r*pe because it didn't try very hard to consider any other factors or reasons why pregnancy could be higher after rape. The point still stands that if someone is in a happy relationship then their partner makes more of an effort in regards to protection and a woman is in a better headspace to get plan B sooner and to keep up with bc pills (which have to be taken religiousl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:29 PM
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I don't like coffee either, are there any smoothie places nearby you could take her to? (Don't go out with her if she insists on you paying for her food.)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:11 PM
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I read the post and it was ignoring a lot of factors, birth control pills might not work when you're stressed, r*pists aren't concerned with putting on condoms (and if they are, the friction from not being wet can cause them to tear), and IUDs can get dislodged. Its almost like if you're in a health and consenting relationship you listen to your partner and bother to also wear protection as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:09 PM
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No, sexual assault doesn't lead to more orgasms than regular sex with a partner. As low as 5% and as high as 50% is such a large range that they have no way of proving, meanwhile women in relationships have "reached orgasm 86 per cent of the time". https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.deccanchronicle.com/amp/lifestyle/sex-and-relationship/080318/heres-why-men-orgasm-more-than-women.html Also, I'm not sure if you know this, but you can get pregnant if you're r*ped. You're making it seem like the body…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:40 PM
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Are you going off of your own experiences or is there research for this? I've only dated "betas"/"simps", as you would call them. Everyone has a type and for the louder minority that type is assh*les. Quiet people in happy relationships are not going to complain about their partners. Edit: Source?? My point still stands that you aren't going to hear from people in happy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:57 PM
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Gender is man made and based on culture, sex is based on biology. (There are Native American cultures that have 3 genders and its cool, I'd look into it.) But guess what? There are more than two sexes, the only difference is that if you're born with a mix of the two the parents decide what sex you get and force their young children to have surgery. They're mutations, but sh*t happens. (A child shouldn't have a knife taken to their genitals, whether it's circumcision or to assign someone as male …
/r/AntiFeminists21/10/21 11:23 PM
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I don't care what couples do, there are different solutions for different people. I'm just angry at the gatekeeping that says one person can sleep with others while the other person isn't allowed to, and this is usually for cases where men can f*ck around but they expect their wives to only have sex with them. Its "cringe".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:50 PM
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If someone needs to be happy through sex then they should've started dating a person who has a similar libido. A person might have a low libido, but what if their partner isn't present when they want to have sex? Does that mean they can't seek out what they "need to be happy" but their partner can? They should still have that opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:23 PM
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Damn, that's why I started dating my boyfriend. Guess I'll go break up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:18 PM
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They can choose to leave or can talk about an open marriage, but they shouldn't get angry if their low libido partner decides to sleep with other people too. Open relationships shouldn't be a one way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:22 PM
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I did go vegan for over a month and my boobs were the same, I'll stick to being vegetarian for now because that's what I can afford. Edit: Yeah... I'm not getting arrested for indecent exposure, troll.
/r/AntiFeminists21/10/21 02:24 PM
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If its an open marriage for one partner it should be an open marriage for the other partner, even if one has a low libido and might not act on it. Its hypocritical if one person in a marriage is allowed to sleep with strangers but they don't let the other person do the same. Edit: If a guy had a low libido and his wife wanted an open marriage he should be allowed to sleep around too. Sometimes people want different sexual experiences and, who knows, maybe their partner isn't good in bed but they…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:23 PM
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Vegan or not, your tit size won't grow unless there's a major hormonal change like having a child.
/r/AntiFeminists21/10/21 02:20 PM
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What about the people who don't want kids period?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:51 PM
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Pressuring someone into sex when they don't want to do it is rape. Not stopping while they're pushing your hand away is rape. Continuing to touch someone and use their bodies after they start crying and are very clearly uncomfortable is rape. Women are taught not to say "no" or a guy will get more violent. Its not a "game". Sex needs an enthusiastic "yes" to even start.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:36 PM
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But should women be allowed to f*ck other men as well if its an open marriage? Then there are the men want to be monogamous and will break up with women who wouldn't mind open relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:25 PM
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So everyone [who you agree with] is allowed to use anecdotes but when I talk about my experiences its wrong? So does that make all red pill/mgtow people wrong since they base their whole beliefs off of personal experiences and argue that women are hypergamous sluts who want to divorce r@pe men and sleep with 6'5" chads? Why are their anecdotes acceptable? Edit: There are whole communities based off of anecdotes and no one is going after them. I am allowed to talk about my lived experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:11 PM
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Don't listen to men using a book of myths claiming that a woman's body is ready to have kids at 14-15 because they have hit puberty. I'm sorry you have to listen to these guys who are trying to justify dating children. "Complications from pregnancy and childbirth are the leading cause of death in young women aged 15 to 19 in developing countries, warned a report published last week. An estimated 70 000 adolescent mothers die each year because they have children before they are physically ready f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:02 AM
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Its because specific guys are insecure and don't want to be compared to other men. They also like to think that a d*ck somehow changes a woman and its gross. Its the reason why there are such myths as women being "too loose" or having "stretched used labia" if they have sex with other men. Women are also pressured to buy creams that "re-virginize" you or are encouraged to use little "blood" capsules that make it look like you lost your viginity, although you shouldn't bleed unless your hymen is …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 11:57 PM
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I'm really sorry, I can't imagine how that felt. I hope he went painlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 11:43 PM
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It's because it's a myth spread by some guys who have terrible personalities and no one will sleep with them because of it. Out of the 10+ guys I know, only one of them hasn't had a partner and slept with them, and it's not the nerd who wears thick glasses and draws hentai or the 5'2"-5'3" pudgy guy. Hell, most of the guys in this group are pudgy and there's nothing wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 11:32 PM
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Anything above 4 ft is good, my last partner was between 5'0"-5'2", I'm slightly above 5'4", and my current partner (who I had no intention of dating at first) is 5'9"ish. I don't care about height. Note: I'm nonbinary but I was assigned female at birth and I'm still treated like a woman because I'm female presenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 11:20 PM
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The type of men who are vocal about wanting women "that aren't like other girls" are the ones who complain if their date doesn't wear makeup nor shaves their legs. There's no winning with that specific type of man. Edit: I'm assigned female at birth and I'm female presenting, so my experiences are based on being treated like a cisgender woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:22 AM
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Except that not all women care only about themselves the same way not all men only care about their partners. If you're going after assh*les then that's what you're going to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:18 AM
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That's because breasts are erogenous zones, "parts of the body that excite sexual feelings when touched". These include breasts and butts, but it also includes necks, ears, lips, and even the soles of feet. It's not apples to oranges, breasts and Adam's apples are both secondary sexual organs, Google it. Secondary sexual characteristics =/= sexual. You don't need a bachelor's in biology to know this. I'm European and they're "lax" about it because breats are only sexual in certain cases. Also, j…
/r/AntiFeminists17/10/21 10:56 PM
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Women's breasts aren't sexual or sexual organs in general, they are secondary sexual characteristics like Adam's apples and facial hair. People also pay thousands of dollars for nose jobs and eyebrow injections, but those aren't sexual in nature either. Just because people pay to have something done doesn't mean its to increase sex appeal. Then there are the groups of people where men and women all go topless (parts of Europe and Africa). Men and women aren't given equal rights because of people…
/r/AntiFeminists17/10/21 10:16 PM
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Men can wear thongs in public too, they just choose not to. The issue is that I can't legally sunbathe topless because of the set of genitals I was born with (even though I'm not a woman).. and it's funnier when there are men displaying their larger tits. Edit: American men gave themselves the right to go topless around 1936, but whenever women have gone to courts over this they were shut down... by men.
/r/AntiFeminists17/10/21 09:57 PM
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I'm sorry, can you explain how getting into a longterm relationship and being married will make you gain weight? Your partner can kick you out/divorce you at any time so you can't relax and those examples don't involve hormone changes. Guys also gain weight in the same way, there's a reason why "dad bods" exist. Edit: Oof these comments make me sick and I cannot associate with this group. Can't wait till this sub gets taken down for hate speech instead of actually critiquing feminism like I thou…
/r/AntiFeminists16/10/21 04:49 AM
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Men can walk around in tight speedos at beaches but if women take off their tops its "public indecency"...
/r/AntiFeminists15/10/21 11:54 PM
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I know 20-21 year olds that squeal about college prom and get together to watch anime... getting a job doesn't give you maturity either as you can sign up when you're 16 where I live. There is no sudden transition when you turn 18 and leave college (and this goes for men and women).
/r/AntiFeminists14/10/21 07:44 PM
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Yeah.. I consider anyone under 25 (when the brain fully develops) still a child. You don't magically gain experience when you hit the 18-21 group and I still find it gross that there are 30+ year olds that date 21 year olds.
/r/AntiFeminists14/10/21 07:40 PM
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I agree with that, we need new characters that represent diverse groups of people because this feels like a cop-out. However, with Marvel and DC where there are different "universes" and characters have different versions of themselves (swapping gender, being a different species, being a different race, etc.) I could care less.
/r/AntiFeminists12/10/21 11:20 PM
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The majority of people in my labs were men, but I don't think personal examples should matter. US women are 27% of stem workers while US men are 52%, (the rest are non-US scientists/engineers). I also don't agree that it is solely companies providing funding that want the "most bang for their buck" or else why would they be funding research on algae and cyanobacteria when finding cures and exploiting people in pain could yield more money faster. It's still largely men that propose ideas on what …
/r/AntiFeminists12/10/21 05:05 PM
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I believe she is saying that if there were more women in the STEM field then the function of their body parts would have more research and funding. The amount of women that have endometriosis equals the amount of women that have diabetes, but diabetes has more research because it also effects men. I don't blame people/men for not looking into and doing research on something that won't ever effect them personally.
/r/AntiFeminists12/10/21 04:30 PM
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There was literally a superman comic where he was an anthropomorphic lion (1958) and its known as "lion head superman", yet I don't see anyone arguing that its promoting furries. Just let gay/bi men have something to connect to.
/r/AntiFeminists12/10/21 04:14 PM
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I somewhat agree with this. I have been told by men that women "do not need to finish" to get pregnant and so that's why men finish easier, but then they also brag about making no effort to get their partner to finish. Even in R rated movies and porn, sex always ends when a guy is done and I'm sure this is having a subconscious effect on couples in their bedrooms. "In 2009, the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (NSSHB) asked 1,931 U.S. adults ages 18 to 59 about their most recent sex…
/r/AntiFeminists11/10/21 05:47 PM
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In the nicest way possible, you're "messing with nature" by living in an air-conditioneded house with running gas and water. Its also against nature to seek out any sort of medical treatment and drive around in metal cars at 60+ mph. Besides, 40-60% of fertilized eggs never implant and 1 in 8 pregnancies end in miscarriage. What's the difference between my body deciding it can't carry a pregnancy to term vs my mind deciding it can't do the same? If you want a child you should have one, but don't…
/r/AntiFeminists10/10/21 03:40 PM
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Giving away a puppy is not the same as being forced to give birth, having your organs literally moved around, having to get stitches when you tear down there, being at an increased risk for many medical complications, having to pay thousands of dollars in medical bills, having to change your diet and daily routine, etc. The dog is outside and not taking advantage of your body. If I never want to have kids and have taken birth control, plan B, and have been refused for tubal ligation then an abor…
/r/AntiFeminists10/10/21 03:03 PM
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I want to add to your post, because pro"life" groups can't wrap their heads around that not all abortions are bad: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/uk-northern-ireland-20321741.amp Savita Halappanavar died from sepsis two days after her wanted baby's heartbeat stopped despite having complications for weeks and wanting an abortion earlier. (Ireland) https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vice.com/amp/en/article/d3nk7q/turnaway-study-shows-people-are-already-dying-from-being-denied-abortion…
/r/AntiFeminists08/10/21 03:06 PM
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The Students for Life group (shown by the little logo on the right) conveniently left out footage of pro life advocates "protesting" in front of clinics where they screamed and physically grabbed women to prevent them from entering. There's a reason why some planned parenthood clinics now have escorts. Don't act like only members from one side are the aggressors here. Edit: There is no "getting along" with rare cases like this one. Women have died because they had a sick/dying fetus in them that…
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/21 11:20 PM
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I mean.. let's ignore just how in China and some parts of India alone there's a shortage of women because male children are preferred over female children (and so they're aborted). Edit: "They’re desperate because there are 37 million fewer women than men in China—a gap roughly equivalent to the entire population of Poland. That gender imbalance is the result of China’s longtime policy of allowing families to have only one child and the traditional cultural preference for boys." https://upfront.…
/r/AntiFeminists03/10/21 09:52 AM
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But the deal is we don't know the full story. Maybe he also had a bad reaction to vaccines in the past that warrants his concerns, maybe he just doesn't believe there was enough research, or maybe he's against all vaccines. Its his choice to make if he wants to stay with a woman like her and get the vaccine, but either way, I don't believe this post belongs here.
/r/AntiFeminists24/09/21 07:48 PM
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People here will say "thank men you got voting rights" and "thank men for the world you live in because we built it", but when you point out the flaws suddenly its not their fault. In all serious, everyone is contributing to climate change. Not that it matters because things like recycling have always been a scam created by plastic companies and not enough is being spent on renewable energy resources.
/r/AntiFeminists24/09/21 02:43 PM
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The idea is the woman in the post is manipulating her fiance into getting the covid vaccine by threatening breaking up with him if he doesn't get it (which is called an ultimatum). I, however, don't see it like that because we don't know the full story. Supporting the use of vaccines can be considered a deal breaker for some people and if a partner refuses to vaccinate themselves they might refuse to vaccinate their kids, making two people incompatible if the other person wants to vaccinate thei…
/r/AntiFeminists24/09/21 02:39 PM
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Its because most of the people downvoting me are men who've never had to deal with this double standard. (But you know whats really satisfying? Watching anyone that had skin showing be dress coded in college lab classes. Girl with stomach showing? Not allowed to come in. Guy with spaghetti straps and sandals? Not allowed to come in. Suddenly guys are dress coded too when chemical burns are an issue.) Here's some other dress codes that only applied to women by the way: https://www.revelist.com/fe…
/r/AntiFeminists24/09/21 01:21 PM
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Its the double standard that women are complaining about. A friend I had was dress coded because teachers got a glimpse of her bra (no skin) from her arm holes (even though female shirts have tight arms holes as it is). Meanwhile, a male classmate had a shirt with larger holes on it and you could see his skin/nipples. No one dress coded the guys either when they took their shirts off to cheer for games despite the rules applying for men and women. I'm not going to link the article about a teache…
/r/AntiFeminists23/09/21 04:01 PM
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"When the mans feelings are often the last ones considered and made fun off." Okay, I'm tapping out now. If this guy wants to date assh@les and b*tch about it when it goes wrong then be my guest. He has poor taste in women. A good woman won't want to date "bad boys", but if he changes himself to be like that because "its what women want" then that's the type woman he's going for and he get what's coming.
/r/AntiFeminists22/09/21 01:22 PM
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Leaving a kid at an orphanage technically counts as child abandonment which is very much illegal (and safe haven laws only apply three days after birth). This is a very rare case and most women wouldn't go through the pain of childbirth if the father didn't want to be present, so if she gets 20 weeks to decide to keep it he should get around the same time too (slightly less so she has time to abort).
/r/AntiFeminists22/09/21 12:51 PM
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Nope, I've only dated 2 people and they were both long term healthy relationships. My current partner is very supportive, encourages me to do better, doesn't pressure me, and occasionally bakes and gets surprise gifts for me. (And I do the same back for him). I'm going to get him an expensive lego set for our 5 year anniversary, wish me luck!
/r/AntiFeminists21/09/21 10:21 PM
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Saying a father should be able to sign away his rights at any time is not equal because a woman can't just decide to abort after a certain period. Many women would only bring a child into this world if they have a partner to help care for the baby. Edit: I don't think you understand that I'm trying to say many women would just want to avoid giving birth in general. Edit 2: I am not a woman and I don't get what's so complicated. I'm agreeing that men should be able to have a way to opt-out of par…
/r/AntiFeminists21/09/21 10:16 PM
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And if you don't immediately say you have a boyfriend they get huffy and say you're "leading them on". (Then there are the guys who say they could be better for you than your current partner, etc.)
/r/AntiFeminists21/09/21 10:08 PM
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So would you like to propose actual equality or do you just want to be petty to get back at women? (Edit: I also don't think its something that can be compared. I'd much rather pay thousands in child support than go through the pain of childbirth. Men should still get a chance to decline childcare duties if they want to.) Edit 2: The parental rights of a "potential father" can only be terminated if all potential fathers fail to respond to the adoption agency contacting him when the mother attemp…
/r/AntiFeminists21/09/21 09:57 PM
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I don't think that's fair because it opens the door for the father to essentially trick the mother into carrying a child. Also, it takes two parents to surrender the rights to a child once it is already born.
/r/AntiFeminists21/09/21 09:47 PM
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Agreed, it should be an opt-in system instead of an opt-out system to avoid confusion. (It could also be more romantic for the couple as it reaffirms that the father won't bail.) Things like this would be harder with the (unconstitutional) Texas abortion law, however.
/r/AntiFeminists21/09/21 08:37 PM
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To make things equal, the paternal surrender law should be made so the man can only back out before the abortion period ends wherever they live. If the law said women can only abort before 20 weeks then he should get the paperwork done before 20 weeks. That way if things fall through in a relationship she still has time to abort while he won't be forced to pay child support.
/r/AntiFeminists21/09/21 08:22 PM
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"Lay waste"? It returns to normal after sex. Biology is very cool. If a girl says you "don't need to worry about" a guy and you don't trust her you shouldn't be dating her. Edit: Sorry, I don't talk to cheaters or people who condone cheating.
/r/AntiFeminists21/09/21 02:52 PM
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Yup, they don't care about actually changing the world's view on men. 1) In a divorce children are usually placed with the parent that is home the most often which is usually the woman, but there is a strong bias towards women as being the caretaker of the home which opens the door to children being placed with abusive parents. 2) Dads will get judged for taking their children to a park and people might think they're kidnapping kids because of this idea that it's not a man's role to take care of…
/r/AntiFeminists21/09/21 02:16 PM
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1) Nothing wrong with calling out bad women's anatomy considering people are still too ignorant to learn how bodies work and sex ed is garbage. 2) I gotta ask questions about PCOS and other issues people have similar to mine and how to cope with them because my doctor isn't quite sure of what I have. (Ultrasounds and CAT/CT scans haven't shown anything.) 3) Gotta enjoy a little entertainment. You post on AmITheAsshole too.
/r/AntiFeminists19/09/21 09:37 PM
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If more sex makes the vagina loose because it wears down then the penis gets smaller because it wears down too. Not that it matters because the vaginal canal is made up of muscles. Imagine if you worked out and instead of building muscle you became weaker. The average vaginal canal length is usually between 2-3 inches but can increase to 4-6 inches when aroused depending on the person. Being nervous or a "virgin" will prevent this from happening, hence the myth that sex makes women looser over t…
/r/AntiFeminists19/09/21 06:18 PM
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But you do know that women don't get stretched out from sex, correct? You're not "doing something right". That's like saying dicks get shorter from constant pounding. Edit: Increased births can lead to weakened vaginal muscles, but that can be fixed with exercises. If the women you've slept with are "too loose" then they're either very excited or you need to fix your death grip. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.deccanchronicle.com/amp/lifestyle/viral-and-trending/040216/meet-woman-who-can-lift-h…
/r/AntiFeminists19/09/21 05:42 PM
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Yes it is depending on what is written. If someone wanted people to comment on their tits they'd post to porn sites or only fans. You don't get to determine what is/isn't creepy for women. Edit: Thats a horrible analogy as dctors get to decide what being schizophrenic means based on their medical knowledge. If a group of people largely come out and say talking about their tits isn't a compliment then you should listen to them.
/r/AntiFeminists18/09/21 12:19 PM
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What does this have to do with feminism?
/r/AntiFeminists18/09/21 04:48 AM
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You are playing a very dangerous game depending on what state you live in. A lot of states consider rape to be “sexual penetration ... accomplished by fraud", which is what you ended up doing. You lied about who you were (your genetics) and so she couldn't properly consent.
/r/AntiFeminists18/09/21 04:43 AM
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Its intentional. A couple days ago I was having a discussion with a man and he said women "owe" it (yes he used that word) to their partners to give them children. I've also had a guy telling me I "owe" him a blowjob when he did a task for me I didn't ask nor want him to do. Its an overused word because shared experiences create an ecochamber, but its used for a reason.
/r/AntiFeminists18/09/21 02:31 AM
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Here's some insight for you: this is why women will get angry at "compliments" given by some men. They usually say something along the lines of "Its very form fitting ;)". You do understand how that is creepy, right?
/r/AntiFeminists17/09/21 10:29 PM
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Exactly!! Now let's go after shirtless men with ripped abs too while we're at it. Gosh forbid people feel comfortable and sexy in their bodies. Boobs exist and nipples are going to poke out of shirts because that's what happens (especially when it gets cold). Take it up with designers of women's clothing and ask them why female shirts are so thin compared to "male" shirts. I'm not a feminist but man does it make me angry when people complain about the slightest outline of a nipple. If you can't …
/r/AntiFeminists17/09/21 09:44 PM
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Its because women are told this a lot (at least I am by men double my age). "Smile! You look prettier that way!" is insulting, women don't go out in public solely to be eye candy to other people. Its also rude because it doesn't take into account how the other person is feeling. Who knows if they had a relative die, had to put a pet down, or simply had a rough day at work. An unwarranted comment is not a compliment. Edit: I just also want to say this is still a common problem and that many women…
/r/AntiFeminists15/09/21 07:41 PM
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So because the potential babies aren't "dismembered" it means they aren't worth the research to save their lives? So does that mean conception isn't when a new life begins because they aren't worth the time and money to save them? I see no difference between a fertilized egg that hasn't developed the ability to feel and a embryo that also cannot feel before 20 weeks. Even so anesthesia is used just in case. But if were talking about that, millions of animals are killed for human consumption and …
/r/AntiFeminists11/09/21 03:18 PM
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The 99% statistic is if birth control is used as directed but doctors have admitted that people don't always use it correctly (such as forgetting a pill, putting a condom backwards, gaining weight to where the pill is not effective, using a menstrual up that can dislodge IUDs etc). Is those cases the effectiveness can fall down to 80-90%. Also, you're more likely to have twins on the pill for this reason because when people forget to take it it can cause hyper ovulation where two eggs are releas…
/r/AntiFeminists11/09/21 01:33 PM
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"Literal cave women" were giving birth with ASSISTANCE because we have been selecting for larger head sizes. This doesn't help with the introduction of c-sections because, although it saves the lives of many people, it continued to select for larger heads. (I'm not a feminist, but go "ham" I guess.) https://www.google.com/amp/s/medicalxpress.com/news/2016-12-instances-c-sections-evolutionary.amp Women do take "precautions" for having sex. Birth control such as plan B, the pill, and condoms are v…
/r/AntiFeminists11/09/21 06:44 AM
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I'm not a feminist, but I do have female reproductive organs and won't expect men to fully understand what it is like to deal with "female" issues. With that being said, if my partner decided to abort a child we wanted I wouldn't hold that against them because I understand the struggle and pressure (I'm bisexual). If there was a way to transplant a fetus and expect a man to carry it to term I don't think they would take it on. Its so easy to tell a woman to continue a pregnancy when they'll neve…
/r/AntiFeminists10/09/21 11:19 PM
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Yup! And a wife's duty is to pop out as many kids as possible for her dear hubby. Who cares if she decides that a 20+ year commitment is too much and she doesn't want to feel nauseous while pregnant nor be cut up if she has to have a c-section. And that's ignoring any medication she has to stop taking and the possibility of dying during childbirth. That's her husband's right to force her to stay pregnant!!!! /s Look up the side effects of pregnancy and all its complications. Imagine having to de…
/r/AntiFeminists10/09/21 09:58 PM
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I track my period but sometimes its a week or two late because my doctors think I have 🌟PCOS🌟. (Yes I have gotten ultrasounds and CT scans, we're still working on a treatment plan.) According to this law, if I were to get pregnant I wouldn't have time to get an abortion because there are mandatory waiting laws in a lot places and there might not even be appointments open at clinics. Let's assume someone has a normal period (28 day cycle, 4 weeks) and gets pregnant. The six week mark is counted f…
/r/AntiFeminists07/09/21 03:35 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/english.emmaclit.com/2017/05/20/you-shouldve-asked/amp/
/r/AntiFeminists07/09/21 02:58 PM
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What confuses me is if pro-life people really think life begins at conception then why do they not go after IVF clinics where multiple eggs are fertilized and not used compared to abortion where one fertilized egg is expelled. You don't hear pro-lifers protesting these places despite so many more potential children being killed per couple.
/r/AntiFeminists06/09/21 05:44 AM
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Go visit the archives.
/r/MensRights03/08/21 09:13 PM
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Again, then the mods would've taken down the posts, not supported them. Its more concerning that (if the posts were made by fake MGTOW) real MGTOW agreed in the comments to these posts.
/r/MensRights03/08/21 08:33 PM
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Buddy.. most work today (9 to 5 jobs) that women and MEN do involve repetitive tasks.. they make up 71% of the jobs available. Also, believe it or not, women also were allowed to be radar operators and anti-aircraft weapon crew, so not just very important "production workers".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:52 PM
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During World War 2 over 6 million women joined the work force. History.com even says "In just the aircraft industry, women made up 65 percent of all employees. Dorothy McCann, who worked in an aircraft factory in Baltimore, told the Washington Post in 2014, 'It was something I never dreamed of doing, but after I learned how, I loved it.'" What makes you think women can't do hard labor or even have basic jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:24 PM
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That's what sub-par sex education tends to do. It also doesn't help that like OP these women likely have awful parents who don't teach their kids (some start menstruation at 10) how to dispose of sanitary products.
/r/MGTOW15/06/21 08:00 PM
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Create a fake identity on a dating website as a stereotypical hot woman and watch the men with truly bad personalities come out of no where.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:56 PM
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More money is now being invested in women's health, but drug trials for female medications are still done on mostly men leading to toxicity and overdoses. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2020/08/200812161318.htm https://medicine.yale.edu/news-article/a-drug-for-women-tested-on-men/ Edit: Less women were also used in covid vaccine trials and there are reports of menstrual cycle changes, who knows what else is being effected in women's bodies because of the vaccine.
/r/AntiFeminists06/05/21 11:32 PM
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The penis isn't removed and you can buy rubber dog testicle implants. Also, it is reccomended you wait until the dog has been through puberty so the hormones and muscles develop properly.. How else do you suggest we try and curb the 1.5 MILLION pets that are euthanized each year in the US alone? I suggest you work at a dog shelter and walk into the fridge where they keep the animal carcasses that are only there because people won't fix their dogs. Its a necessary evil to prevent more pets from b…
/r/MGTOW06/05/21 06:35 PM
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I feel like this is a perfect image to explain MGTOW. They see themselves as the victim matchstick-boy.. when, in reality, the "bad boy" fire extinguisher candle-girl is fawning over will extend her life. He is the better match for her.
/r/MGTOW29/04/21 11:09 PM
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1) Sexual coercion is considered rape in some states while its considered sexual assault in others, whether you're 15 or an adult. A part of me is glad you don't understand this right now because it means you haven't had to deal with it yourself. 2) Again, I was talking about favors that happened in the past, not continuing future favors. If there was no agreement between said favors in exchange for sexual acts then the person has every right to refuse and the AH of a guy shouldn't assume he is …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:32 PM
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I'm talking about men holding things done in the past over their partner's heads, not wanting "free goods and services" in the future. An example being: "But I pressured you into letting me finger you after you said no multiple times and only said yes to get it over with!! Who cares if you started getting tears in your eyes and I kept going! Now pay me back with a blow job ;) " Edit: Fun fact, many people wouldn't accept gifts if it ment you had to sleep with someone afterwards without explicitl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 10:46 PM
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Only twice in our 4+ year relationship, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 03:37 PM
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Umm.. I've mentioned that he's my boyfriend? He behaves like that because we're equals that care for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 03:32 PM
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Manipulate: to "control or influence (a person or situation) cleverly, unfairly, or unscrupulously." I do so enjoy it when certain men take advantage of their female partners after the women have grown to trust them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 03:02 PM
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I don't know what that question has to do with anything, but no. He doesn't because of the possible cysts that make sex painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 02:53 PM
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Bringing someone somewhere the way he did is absolutely a sign of love. He took the day off of work, we arrived early because he knew I'd freak out before going in, he came in with me and spoke to the nurses when my mind completely shut down relieving pressure off of me, and he held my hand and comforted me the second I started crying harder. We went back to my place and cuddled as he rubbed my back. Hell, the guy remembered what foods I can eat when I get anxious so I don't throw up. He loves m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 01:42 PM
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No, her neglecting him and not reciprocating the effort that goes into making things work while using him is toxic. (Both men and women do this.)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:19 AM
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A relationship is a two way street. If he's living in the past thinking about the good old days not realizing the relationship has become toxic then he has to wake up. It would be the woman's fault too of course for being such an AH, but the guy isn't the victim if he keeps himself in that position as he continues to bring it on himself. If love isn't equally felt the person who noticed it first has to sit them down and reevaluate if the relationship is worth continuing. Both men and women manip…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:16 AM
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There's absolutely a "ride or die love" if you find the right person, but I'd like to talk about you saying it comes down to "making her feel good in that moment". There are far too many nice guys (and I'd like to clarify that it's not all men) who expect your time and sexual favors for things they've done in the past. Some guys will demand sex and use the few nice things they've done in the past as leverage to manipulate you into doing things you aren't comfortable with and never keep putting n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:02 AM
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