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correct! this may be more effective with girls < 25 / a girl who is easier going (ie. not trying to get married, or has too high standards)
/r/seduction24/12/19 07:50 PM
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TARGET . popcorn, icees are very inexpensive but have enough salt, fat, and sugar to make someone feel like they're in love. a great first date to get to know eachothers like/dislikes and sense of humor. and if you can easily buy them something as a souvenir if you feel so inclined, all for $20 or less!
/r/seduction24/12/19 06:31 PM
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pretty great as long as the rapport/mood is there! my gf and i do something similar just without actually saying its a game. Actually saying its a game in a fun way i think is great, and adding that there's a rule about her not distracting you while driving, definitely can add to the tension between stops!
/r/seduction27/05/16 10:55 PM
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for the date with no kissing, just talking, i would suggest teasing as much as possible without actually kissing, because hopefully the first times were good enough that shes thinking about it, secretly hoping you will, but also actually expecting the moment so she can try to resist. get close, but DONT make the actual move until near the end when the tension is just right. the key here is to maintain the sexual tension is a light and fun way.
/r/seduction18/02/16 10:15 PM
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hey man, you gotta celebrate every little victory and carry over the positivity, but right- dont stop! Absolutely. texting is awful.. so many misinterpreted texts, and both or either sides reading too much into little things, or not being clear etc etc..
/r/seduction30/01/16 01:24 AM
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nice man, good shit to remember. i myself need reminders all the time. its good to keep busy, and have your own plans as much as possible. and of course working on yourself is never bad! and bonus, you'll have more interesting things to say, as opposed to the common or mundane tasks of living.. hopefully its something that engages her interests too..
/r/seduction30/01/16 01:04 AM
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compliments like, "the way you did your hair is really cute" or "Your style is killer" are infinitely better than, "you are so sexy" a compliment about something that they chose or that they put thought and effort into, says you're taking an interest in them as people rather than objects of attraction. especially if they obviously put effort, they know, but by mentioning it, it means you obviously noticed yet think of them as more than eye candy, but rather a personality behind their looks.
/r/seduction22/01/16 06:17 PM
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why not? unless this is the first kiss, adjust her, take her by the chin and kiss her.. who cares about missing a minute or more of the movie(just aim for a relative quiet or uneventful part.. movie choice is a little important) since youre asking this question, its obvious you haven't kissed her much, so it'll absolutely be more exciting to her than watching a movie. if it is a first kiss, what i would do is either get it out of the way early on in the evening or near the end.. the more 'romant…
/r/seduction20/01/16 07:18 PM
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stop trying so hard. just do less. and focus on eye contact and flirting, rather than friendly banter.. you need to maintain some mystery, and not let them feel as if they got the whole picture of how cool you are, so to speak.. being a "safe" option for a girl is only something you only want to hint at, while still maintaining the air of, "i'm going to fuck you later". if you want to be in a relationship, then more of that side is usually welcome..
/r/seduction24/12/15 06:34 PM
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great point! the potential is there. and guiding/molding is better than trying to adjust to or work with someone who's sexual tendencies don't quite align with your own.. so to speak. unless they're self aware enough that one stroke doesn't work for every guy. willingness to learn is key regardless.. And i figure how long can a 19 year old really hold out for?!
/r/seduction19/11/15 05:36 PM
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no your absolutely right. part of me is thinking marriage material, because i am so happy with her, even without sex, but then part of me is countering that with, it is BECAUSE of the absence of sex that i am still so into her.. you know? still too new to really tell.
/r/seduction17/11/15 07:51 PM
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a lot of times, i find i'd put up with more before having sex with them, then afterwards I would just not care to put up with them. the goal is to find a girl that is super cool though, so sex is just a plus. the situation i'm in now though, the girl is super cool, but is a virgin and seriously holding out for.. a while. i joked "not until marriage", and she said "no not that long.." but still... how long does super cool and beautiful cut it? i guess i'll have to wait and see how i feel?
/r/seduction16/11/15 10:57 PM
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wise! love the insights.
/r/seduction12/11/15 11:20 PM
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absolutely, they crave safe intimacy, which is exactly what kissing/making out is. builds trust, which obviously can potentially lead to more.. i was told i was so hug-able and cuddle-able, but basically i just embrace them, and run my hands over her body. she reciprocates.. and its all good! sometimes though, its not your fault the kiss is bad. some girls are bad at kissing/making out/reciprocating !
/r/seduction12/11/15 10:35 PM
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look into their eyes, smile(with or without teeth depending on if you have a nice smile) with your eyes, place your hand on their waist/hip, small of their back/ neck/ head, or hold their hand(something with your hands touching them!) aim for their mouth, then as you move into kiss, close your eyes just before they start to go a bit cross eyed. bite your bottom lip and wet it just enough, then pucker, moistening both your lips, pout out your lips(bottom mostly) a little and connect deliberately,…
/r/seduction12/11/15 10:32 PM
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"Internal Freedom" this is huge and something that I need to remind myself of from time to time. great read with helpful insights. thanks
/r/seduction27/10/15 08:25 PM
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yeah, i mean basically to get your foot in the door .. so to speak. but still a deal breaker is a deal breaker... but sometimes an undesirable trait can be accepted if you show them how great you are in every other way.. just basically putting your best foot forward, making the positive outweigh the negative.
/r/seduction12/10/15 04:57 PM
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this, but also there are tons of variables (pun intended) if you're <x in looks , you may be >x in one or multiple desirable personality traits. getting the chance to display them to a girl is sortof where the luck comes in, as well as not showing the girl a trait of yours that may be a deal breaker to them.
/r/seduction09/10/15 12:44 AM
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mild jackass upfront(dont do anything you can't recover from or is too out of character), genuine good guy "in the back" as far as gaining attention.. a lot of girls like it, simply because you seem fun. then again, if thats not really you, you may be setting yourself up for failure in the long run
/r/seduction09/10/15 12:44 AM
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you were making out with her/while dancing? 5 minutes of makeout or more ? or just a quick kiss/slip of the tongue? where were your colleagues? then you use the bathroom come back and shes back in a group dancing? or grinding with one guy specific? anyways, sounds like you should have realized you already won in a sense because you made out with her, and in the pecking order, are above the rest. not entitled, just secured. next time approach, dance, and if she doesnt jump over to you, start tryi…
/r/seduction19/08/15 10:27 PM
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"you're so hot i'd actually date you" haha.. no. ok anyways, keep it light and fun, try to find out an interest or two of hers, and capitalize on some mutual ground. just ask her flat out, if she wants to hang out after work or on the weekend.. hopefully with something to do in mind.
/r/seduction25/03/15 11:18 PM
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if shes smiley with others, chances are they may be having the same thoughts as you right now, so try not to waste time. tell her you want to talk, then tell her you like her and think shes cute. at your age chances are, this alone will give her butterflies and have her fall for you as well. Even if she has even the slightest interest in you. follow this up by asking to hang out with her, watever that may be.. OR she may get nervous and close up from the pressure she may feel.. this means shes n…
/r/seduction05/02/15 08:06 PM
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