| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Some guys just have itAlso posting in the conspiracy subreddit about the “feminist agenda.” That probably has something to do with his issues. | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 12:30 AM |
| 6 | I (23M), want to get into an open relationship / three-some with 2 best friends (22 F, 23 F)No, that’s girls unaware of each other’s existence. That’s not difficult to do, average guys do that all the time. | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 10:00 AM |
| 7 | I (23M), want to get into an open relationship / three-some with 2 best friends (22 F, 23 F)Not trying to be mean, but from your post, you come across as not being very successful with women. If that’s the case, then trying for a threesome open relationship with two best friends is going to be extraordinarily difficult. It’d be like some guy who only walks his dog in the park once a day deciding that his next activity is to run a marathon with no training. Start small, work at improving yourself and “typical” dating. | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 08:21 AM |
| 2 | How To Eliminate Approach Anxiety - 1 Simple Exercise To Get Out Of Your Head (FASTEST WAY)Watching this video is nauseating. It cuts every one to three words while you’re talking. Why do you do that? There’s also no content. I don’t know why you created or posted this. | /r/seduction | 17/05/19 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Got prom tomorrow and want to lose my virginity but don’t know howDon’t go to prom with an agenda like this. It will ruin the night. Everyone can smell the desperation of a virgin wanting to have sex. If sex is your mission, it’s going to show. Instead, try to have a fun time. That will more likely get you laid than trying to get laid. Obviously this advice is for a horny virgin. Someone self-aware and confident can have the goal of getting laid with good results. | /r/seduction | 27/04/19 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Going to my first Frat party, any advice for a newbie trying to drop game?If you’re just trying to hook up that night, go ahead and chat with whichever attractive girls are there. If this is your first frat party though, I’d recommend trying to get to know a few of the brothers so that they’ll remember you for next time. Having that social proof will pay off more in the long run. Be careful that you don’t use that as an excuse to never approach girls though. | /r/seduction | 09/02/19 08:27 AM |
| 1 | I wish I wasn’t born with a sexuality. Why did this have to be?Your post reeks of depression. If you’re in college, you should be able to see a school therapist for free. Work on your depression first. After that improves and you improve yourself, the girls will naturally follow. | /r/seduction | 31/10/18 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look hideously different compared to the tinder pics??You have a serious problem | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look hideously different compared to the tinder pics??You need to seek help from a medical professional. Sounds like you probably have body dysmorphic disorder or extreme anxiety. Either way, seek help from a professional, not internet strangers. The pictures are fine, but that’s not the real issue here. | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 11:39 PM |
| 8 | What are your thoughts on just texting "How's it going?" if there's no specific thing to text about?Hands down one of the worst things you can text to a girl you are interested in. If it turns into a good conversation, it only did because she is already interested in you. | /r/seduction | 22/02/18 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Is Approach Anxiety actually evolutionary?Old school pickup artist Mystery actually had a terrific answer to this. Not sure if I can find it. Basically, in a tribal society, you know everyone in your tribe, and the women are already accounted for/assigned. So, approach anxiety would affect you when you encounter an unfamiliar women (i.e. From another tribe). If you approach a woman from another tribe and she rejects your advance, then she would run back to her tribe which would likely try to kill you for poaching their women. Thus, appr… | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Did therapy help you guys?It has helped literally millions of people. It won't hurt you. No need to be afraid. Honestly, if it doesn't help you, it's probably the wrong therapist for you. | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Dilemma about an online dating encounter...Your entire post reeks of neediness and outcome dependence which are perhaps the number one turnoff to attractive girls. If you're new to this site, read about outcome independence (sidebar), and try to internalize that. What are you hoping works out? You're not in a relationship. You had a very clear conversation about it. If you want to be, you should let her know that (though it sounds like it's too late). You should never have hidden contracts with women (where you act a certain way in order… | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Do you probe for a girls intentions before a date?I'd say, don't delay a date to get more details, but definitely have flirty conversation beforehand if you can. | /r/seduction | 16/06/17 12:33 AM |
| 4 | Do you probe for a girls intentions before a date?Many girls won't be honest about their intentions if asked. Even more girls don't even know their intentions before a date. Asking is basically useless, especially in your example of a date set up online. Plan a simple date which is easy to leave or extend (like drinks). Then go on the date. In the first 15 minutes you should have a sense of where things could lead. I think the biggest issue is that your actions on the date should have influence on a girl's intentions. You could meet up with the… | /r/seduction | 16/06/17 12:03 AM |
| 28 | Would you take this bet? The simple maths behind why more approaches increases value of approachThey're all refusing the 2:1 bet given 10 chances. None of these people have the slightest concept of probability. | /r/seduction | 05/01/15 11:52 PM |
| 2 | I have not gotten nearly as much attention from girls as I did when I was in EIGHTH GRADE. Could this be why?Could it be a factor? Yes. Could it be why? No. | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 08:30 PM |
| 12 | I just cut myself off from reading all "pickup" related material and did the 100 set challenge in one month. OMFGI'd say it's like dieting for a whole year and losing a pound... for someone who usually gains 20 lbs a year. Something small for one person can be massive progress for another. | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 08:30 AM |
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