OneMonk Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How do you handle dead chats when girls suddenly go cold and stop responding? Sometimes I think I should start a dating column 😂	/r/seduction	26/03/26 01:08 PM
1	How do you handle dead chats when girls suddenly go cold and stop responding? I would usually send a message and say, ‘Hey, this is feeling a bit one sided. I get that life gets in the way sometimes, but am looking for someone that matches my energy so maybe we should just leave this here.’ If they are interested they’ll apologise and do better, sometimes life does get in the way. If they aren’t they’ll ghost or agree. Either way you actively solved the issue in an assertive way that increases your value, and leaves the door ajar should they just be busy.	/r/seduction	26/03/26 12:25 PM
7	What do 18-20y.o girls want on tinder? I get matches, one reply then silence. Why? Attention, and the small regular dopamine hits that come with matches and knowing those matches are real (one message). The incentive of tinder is to keep you on the platform and make money, not actually match you with people serious about dating or who might be a good fit for you on any conceivable metric other than (arguably) proximity.	/r/seduction	04/01/26 12:21 AM
3	Some guys just have it Dude you code desperate from your messages. You can’t learn confidence, you need to reflect on it. Also, age matters.	/r/seduction	10/07/25 10:54 PM