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| 58 | Most hated misandrist trope?Man requesting physical intimacy from cold partner= sex pest that needs to win her over. Woman requesting physical intimacy from cold partner= neglected wife not getting her needs met and should cheat/leave. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/25 12:27 PM |
| 39 | What’s something you wish more people understood about being a man?That the freedom associated with being male comes with a lack of protection. The boys who grew up doing whatever they wanted were not privileged. They were neglected and not being parented. There's always talk about how men don't live in a constant fear, but that isn't from privilege. It is from numbness after a lifetime of understanding you wouldn't be protected by others as a male past the age of 12 or so. Alot of men just walk around with an "it is what it is" mentality, when it comes to safe… | /r/MensRights | 29/08/25 07:57 AM |
| 19 | 17 year old girl murdered in The NetherlandsThe night has never been safe at any point in history for either gender. Safety measures have improved so much that people forget this. A single murder sparking national outrage shows how safe it has become normally. Both genders should go out in groups, if at all, and/ or be armed. No amount of muscle blocks a blade, and bats don't actually break like they do in movies. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/25 02:19 PM |
| 99 | Germany moves closer to bringing back compulsory military conscription for men onlyTo nobody's surprise, the demographic affected by conscription is opposed to this. The demographic that holds a small portion of national wealth, that doesn't own land, and has usually not started a family doesn't wish to fight for the country. Everyone else is, of course, in favor of others dying to protect their land and families. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/25 11:56 AM |
| 37 | Stop apologizing for being physically stronger than half the population. #NotOurProblemGirlsPeople with abusive mothers know just how good women can be at weaponizing their physical inability. Years of physically abusing you, and you dare to fight back? They will play the victim. The adults around you should be blaming the violent adult who harms children because they "felt disrespected." Instead, they will call in men as attack dogs to also abuse because 'that's your mother" or "you don't hit women.". Those attack dogs will join in on bullying a child because of the size difference. W… | /r/MensRights | 20/08/25 04:54 AM |
| 8 | What destroys more men today, chasing comfort or chasing women?Chasing women usually means adhering to whatever standard they set, so eventually you will lose your sense of self if that just isn't who you are. Men chasing comfort is good for them as an individual even if it's bad for society. All political groups push onto men that the idea of masculinity includes service and sacrifice. If they didn't it would be difficult to convince men to go die, work jobs nobody else wants, and always stress over the next achievement. This advances society and leads to … | /r/MensRights | 17/08/25 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Whats your go to statistic or argument when some women try and say throughout history, wars were the result of men?I agree with them, but disagree that war always equals bad. Starting revolutions that led to them fighting and dying for freedom and rights? That was historically men Creating borders so that unique cultures with opposing values could exist? That was men Being the threat of violence that deters people from invading those borders? That's men The treaties that came after these wars? That was men Modern people like to sit on an idealistic high horse after receiving the benefits of violence committe… | /r/MensRights | 09/02/25 09:50 PM |
| 0 | What are some of the stances and beliefs held by most of the sub that you personally disagree with?I brought up fairness because the usual argument I've seen in this sub is if women can abort a child then it's only fair that I can financially abort. If the argument you're making is that in cases of rape and paternity fraud then we are on the same page. You should not be held accountable for something you are not responsible for and you should not be held accountable for something you did not consent to. I don't know if I would deem that a financial abortion though. I one case custody should b… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/24 04:09 PM |
| 2 | What are some of the stances and beliefs held by most of the sub that you personally disagree with?Indeed. It's unlikely that paternity fraud will be put at the forefront as an issue any time soon. The problem is that the only situation deemed fair by people who support paper abortions is that both agree to an abortion. If men claim to want the child, but she does not then it becomes inhumane. Just like I would not support a draft, I would not support forced birth. Perhaps they could come to an agreement where he gets primary custody after birth while she pays child support, but it's not some… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/24 03:32 PM |
| -3 | What are some of the stances and beliefs held by most of the sub that you personally disagree with?I'm in the camp of paternity testing at birth. It gets rid of paternity fraud while having the benefit of catching an strange cases of swapped children. There is a heavily lopsided risk of bodily change towards women during any sexual encounter. This is why it is usually in a woman's but interest to not sleep with someone who has not committed to them. We've already passed the point as a society of trying to get people to accept that. In exchange for lower risk and lower burden men lack choice i… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/24 03:02 PM |
| -7 | What are some of the stances and beliefs held by most of the sub that you personally disagree with?Because the burden was asymmetric. Pregnancy and birth will never be completely safe. Though it would be preferable that she found a family for the child beforehand. The burden of primary custody in these situations is also far more likely to fall upon women. No matter what choice the woman makes, the man gets a better deal. If she gives the child up, then she still goes through pregnancy and childbirth. If she keeps it, then she has to deal with all of the aspects that come with a child. This i… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/24 01:29 PM |
| 5 | What are some of the stances and beliefs held by most of the sub that you personally disagree with?If a female rapist gets pregnant and decides to have the child,she should be in prison as soon as possible. A rapist who is willing to ignore others' rights has no business being around children. If the biological father wants nothing to do with the child, then said child should be given a fighting chance while still at the most adoptable age. I agree it should be based on current income. The goal is not to bankrupt the father. I'd much rather there be programs in place to help these fathers fin… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/24 10:58 AM |
| 1 | What are some of the stances and beliefs held by most of the sub that you personally disagree with?How would they be single mothers if the child was never born in the first place? People love to talk about how much single motherhood increases crime rates while ignoring how many of them live in poverty. A second income alleviates this and it should come from the other irresponsible party. The women do take the burden even when men choose not to. If she chooses to get an abortion then her body is the only one being affected. What burden does the man have in that case? That he might pay for it? … | /r/MensRights | 31/10/24 09:29 AM |
| 2 | What are some of the stances and beliefs held by most of the sub that you personally disagree with?I don't believe in paper abortions. I don't feel bad for either party in the situation. For centuries, in many countries, the system of not sleeping with people who have not committed to you has worked. Women pushed back against "if you keep your legs closed the issue would drastically decrease.". Men pushed back against "if you kept it in your pants the issue would drastically decrease". Both sides are just incredibly irresponsible with who they sleep with. For most of the "crazy" baby mommas/d… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/24 09:19 AM |
| 3 | What’s one thing you wish all women understood?It's more to do with how attractive and (un)threatening people perceive you as. Men are considered to be more threatening by default and must be aware of this socially at all times. This is doubly so for men who are large in stature. Both genders also, on average, consider women to be more attractive. You are given far more grace when you are considered to be attractive. Men who are large and conventionally unattractive play every social situation on hard mode. There's a stigma that men make oth… | /r/MensRights | 29/10/24 12:25 PM |
| 19 | What’s one thing you wish all women understood?That men don't have worse social skills. We usually just need different a different set of social skills than they do. It's also easier for a man to be seen a negative light due to his social skills. Bad vibes, creep, etc. If a man and woman are equally socially accepted, then he is usually putting in more work than she is. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/24 08:15 AM |
| -1 | 'Female' is considered dehumanizing and offensive but 'Persons with uterus' isn't?No, it was a thing in the black community long before long before it was ever co-opted by feminists. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/24 04:53 AM |
| -1 | 'Female' is considered dehumanizing and offensive but 'Persons with uterus' isn't?There are, in fact, people who mostly say female and when they don't they just use slurs. It not being something you have experienced in an area you've been in does not make it untrue. This is a conversation that I remember from as early as four years old, which was over two decades ago. I don't understand how people are attaching this to recent ideas. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/24 03:50 AM |
| -14 | 'Female' is considered dehumanizing and offensive but 'Persons with uterus' isn't?The complaint came about long before trans issues were a mainstream talking point. The examples I used are what most women are referring to are talking about when they say it dehumanizing. The people who use it in such a way would not use male or males in the same way. Only a small number of people use birthing person or chest feeder. Most people understand that those people should be ignored. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/24 12:35 PM |
| -18 | 'Female' is considered dehumanizing and offensive but 'Persons with uterus' isn't?It has nothing to do with trans people. People reached so hard to be antiwoke that they co-opted the complaint. A few examples of the actual complaint- "There's a lot of good-looking females in here tonight" or "Don't you ever put your hands on a female" It rubs one the wrong way when you hear it in person. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/24 12:19 PM |
| 82 | Is it true that MRAs use the word "misandry" meaning only women's hatred of men?I call people misandrists when that is clearly what they are. The gender of the person doesn't matter. It's usually men who go out of their way to talk about how much they hate men because a single man did something. The other case is when they try to make their misandry seem okay by specifying that they hate straight men in particular. Misandrists will find a way to make anything male into a negative. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/24 11:49 AM |
| -5 | 'Female' is considered dehumanizing and offensive but 'Persons with uterus' isn't?The people that i've heard express their distaste to being referred to as females have been mostly black women. The conversation against it started in those same communities that you refer to. I know this because I grew up in those areas and plenty of the older men in my family speak exactly like that. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/24 11:19 AM |
| 31 | 'Female' is considered dehumanizing and offensive but 'Persons with uterus' isn't?Like most things on the internet, the complaint has been bastardized over time. The original complaint made sense when they talked specifically about people who always used the term men but specifically used female for women. Then, when people who didn't understand the complaint saw it, they took offense to the word female even when it was being used correctly. In an age when gender identity is a consistent talking point, the word female should be used more, not less. People would rather muddy t… | /r/MensRights | 17/10/24 05:43 AM |
| 60 | Aussie woman hits man, gets hit back - Australian media doesn't even acknowledge she hit himWhat exactly about the statement makes him an incel? Women are able to hold government positions in Australia. Why shouldn't they be held to the same level of accountability and face the same social consequences as a man? What exact justifications do you have that women should be protected from the same retaliation a man would face? A small man would just be told that that was the obvious result. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 07:08 PM |
| 10 | Boys who reject masculine norms get higher grades, it's sad that masculinity is associated with negativenessForcing anyone to abide by traditional standards is wrong. It is also wrong to keep lying to boys and men that masculine roles are harmful. Even men who choose not to follow these roles can tell you the advantages of conforming to them. Lying about male reality does nothing more than create bitter men. It is these lies that push men into red pill spaces. They're trying to unlearn lies they have been told just to end up being taken advantage of. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/24 01:09 PM |
| 8 | i have questions.In most areas of society men make up the very top and the very bottom. The arguments about number of CEO, politicians, or billionaires by gender don't make sense when people below 50 years of age make them. Most of those positions are held by older people that lived in extremely different conditions. Between inheritance and business many women are now becoming billionaires. Women are the majority of consumer spending so products for women extremely well. This is especially the case when it is ma… | /r/MensRights | 10/10/24 03:13 AM |
| 65 | This is getting out of handFeminism stopped being about equality the very moment they started preaching equity. Having special laws that take violence against your gender more seriously when society already takes violence against your gender more seriously is not equal. Having equal opportunities but still access to more specific scholarships is not equality. Having your own gender specific spaces while being able to force your way into those of the opposite gender is not equality. When countries start claiming that priso… | /r/MensRights | 08/10/24 05:15 AM |
| 13 | Kamala Harris doesn't acknowledge that the draft controls men's bodies.By definition, the draft does, in fact, violate your autonomy. From Meriam webster the quality or state of being self-governing especially : the right of self-government The territory was granted autonomy. 2 : self-directing freedom and especially moral independence personal autonomy 3 : a self-governing state Even if the country was burning to the ground, other people's morals shouldn't be able to tell you that you have to fight to protect it. You're right. I wouldn't conflate the draft with ab… | /r/MensRights | 08/10/24 04:41 AM |
| 5 | Do they used to teach about feminism in your schoolIt's an interesting read. It could also explain why a large portion of MRAs are older men who no longer feel the need to compete for approval from women. The situation is concerning. If teachers continue to insert black and white views, then they risk radicalizing both sides. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/24 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Do they used to teach about feminism in your schoolHonestly just focus and your grades and learning the actual subject material. It's better for your mental health in the long run to not see those teachers as an example of morals or ethics. You can apply your own critical thinking to the facts you were taught and form your own opinions. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/24 11:32 AM |
| 3 | Do they used to teach about feminism in your schoolYeah. It's not new, and the boys brought it up even then just to get shouted down. We were consistently told we were just imagining the agenda they were pushing. There are articles about young boys pushing back against this. They claim the boys are the problem and not the teachers who refuse to just teach without inserting their personal feelings. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/24 11:24 AM |
| 18 | Do they used to teach about feminism in your schoolNot as part of the curriculum, but history and English teachers did always find ways to insert it. Math and science teachers never really mentioned it. It's unsurprising that institutions with a majority of leadership being women push feminism. They only have their own lived experiences and constantly project it onto others. I remember having assemblies to "teach boys not to rape" a decade ago. That wouldn't have happened in an environment with more men in leadership. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/24 11:13 AM |
| 12 | Reactions to boys falling behind vs girls falling behind in educationI'd say the down votes have to do with the left also having a large amount of open racists. Try going to any major left media platform and not hearing about white people being fragile even if the complaint of said white person was valid. It wasn't the right that coined the term "reverse racism" just to make their discrimination tory behavior more okay. The right also didn't give us gems like "black people can't be racist". Black right wingers are seen as race traitors. The large number of white … | /r/MensRights | 07/10/24 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Opinions/Thoughts on this article on Sexual HarassmentProbably, but that is a remnant of those same traditional beliefs. Women were acknowledged as a protected class. Men accepted that responsibility due to the fact that for better or worse, women had fewer rights, less freedom, and less access to authority. This is a staple in many traditional cultures. This doesn't coincide with progressive ideology. If women are given equal freedom, equal rights, and equal access to authority , then being a protected class makes no sense. Them being a protected … | /r/MensRights | 06/10/24 01:09 PM |
| 4 | Opinions/Thoughts on this article on Sexual HarassmentThe author is correct that sexual harassment has always been around. That's exactly why in many cultures women were fully covered in loose clothing and had escorts whenever they went out. There are not more men today that think sexual harassment is okay and there is nothing more to teach. What more can you teach besides that it is wrong punish those who do it. Yes leftist ideologies did increase the amount of sexual harassments due to an increase in opportunities. Women going out unaccompanied i… | /r/MensRights | 06/10/24 07:20 AM |
| 28 | I'm so sick of progressive ideology that refuses to allow men exclusionary spacesI agree. There's a strange refusal to acknowledge that adding even one woman to a male only space changes the dynamic. Some men will talk more. Some won't talk at all. Some will develop feelings. Others will find it annoying that they did so. Society does however acknowledges how a man would warp a female only space. They do so because the actually care about the comfort of women. Men are far more likely to be reprimanded if they make a woman feel uncomfortable than vice versa. This empathy gap … | /r/MensRights | 06/10/24 06:59 AM |
| 6 | Do you think it’s wrong for a high body count man, to want a female partner with low body count?You can have any preference that you want. Yes it's hypocritical, but I get it. I'd link the double standard to the concept of male courtship. It's difficult to not feel slighted when you are expected to do the approaching all of the work at the beginning of the relationship. The concept of courtship is supposed to be a man showing a woman that he offers more than other potential suitors. This becomes complicated when she has already slept with multiple other men. Most men will question why they… | /r/MensRights | 06/10/24 06:36 AM |
| 95 | Reclaim #NotAllMenThe hashtag is meaningless in either use. It is the equivalent of being expected to prove to a racist that you are "one of the good ones". The vast majority of men are not abusers or misogynists. Men are under no obligation to educate bigots of this. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/24 04:33 PM |
| 10 | When was the first time in your life when you realized it just isn't fair and started to look more into discrimination against men and men's rights?Indeed. People like to brush things aside as teenage angst, but that will just cause them to ignore the struggles and feelings of that age group. A lot is wrong with her, to be honest. We weren't particularly close before, but that was the straw that broke the camels back. She still fails to understand that on that day, she lost both sons and not just one. He made the final decision, but her actions contributed heavily. The problem with the things people deem to be toxic masculinity is that they… | /r/MensRights | 20/09/24 12:08 PM |
| 37 | When was the first time in your life when you realized it just isn't fair and started to look more into discrimination against men and men's rights?I was in early high school when I first started looking into mens rights. Boys in my age range constantly talked about suicide and how much they hated life. They usually engaged in self-destructive actions to cope, and this earned them the reputation of being problem children. They were seen as disruptive instead of depressed. I solidified my stance as an MRA at the end of my sophomore year when my older brother committed suicide. As he lay dead in the emergency room, my mother's first words wer… | /r/MensRights | 20/09/24 11:07 AM |
| 22 | How toxic is "Healthy Masculinities" to men and boys. Why are feminist academics deciding what constitutes healthy masculinity?Extremely toxic to boys. All of the parts of traditional masculinity that benefit you are deemed toxic, but the ones that benefit others are seen as positive. I have yet to see it be called toxic that boys even below the age of ten fantasize about sacrificing themselves. Even media aimed at male children tells them this is a good thing. Being the "hero", who stays behind and saves the day all for no reward beyond a few words. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/24 10:40 AM |
| 2 | What is the most hypocritical thing about feminism?"Women owe men nothing." "Men need to call out other men." "all those men around and none of them helped her?!" The entitlement in thinking that men need to police to behaviors of others on women's behalf I'm not claiming that women owe men anything. I am claiming that men have no social obligation to help women. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/24 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Woman killed her dad for not taking her to hair appointment gets one year sentence and probation.Ex h8t hk7c3d d dczhg 35 | /r/MensRights | 27/07/23 12:36 PM |
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