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Best Comment Award: "OP might find some comfort realizing there are things his partner does with him that she [didn't] do with her ex - like being honest ... imho the feeling of safety and love ... is worth 10x more than a slightly bigger dick." Yeah, a huge dick and wild sex with my girl vs. honesty. Real tough choice there. I'll take Just Castrate Me Already for $500, Alex. Anyway, that dude has confused his value with how he perceives she views his value in this world, and in comparison to ot…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 06:17 PM
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Of course not. There is zero incentive for any man who's worth his salt to get married. My only issue is that I know I want kids, and the data proves a two-parent household is the best, so I have to find a way to either side-step marriage, or do something outside the legal framework, but ultimately I'm sure I'll need a prenuptial agreement regardless just to cover my bases. Why government ever became involved with marriage is insane, but those with their hands in the cookie jar know how to sell …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/20 07:09 PM
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Chasing women was exciting before I realized the feminine mystique is a lot like the Wizard of Oz: it's just some ugly, short dude behind the curtain pretending he's something he's not. That is to say: women know they need to pretend like they have something to give you that no other woman can give you; that's how they create the attraction. But once you pop the hood you realize every car has the same shitty engine, whether the outside is a Hugo or a Viper. Whenever a girl says some stupid shit …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/20 06:41 PM
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Of course, and constant attacks on male-only environments over the years has destroyed alternative relationship structures for men outside of the female-dominated narrative. It should be continuously pushed that men create male-only spaces so that they can speak openly, honestly, and have honorable men who support them in life and who can give them wisdom and feedback.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/20 07:21 PM
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The answer is that despite the current generation looking down on men who worked hard to support their families during more traditional times -- 'fathers are never around to take care of the children' -- more than ever they intertwine their value as a human into having a job that they "love and is fulfilling" (whatever that means). Instead of realizing that jobs are inherently socially fulfilling, as they are filling some necessary gap in society, they need something far and beyond, something on…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 05:15 PM
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And it goes full circle. Marriage was only ever really about the kids and not for the magical romance to last forever. Men understood this since antiquity -- marriage prior to the 20th century was about building power (through marrying wealthy families) and finding a woman who could bear as many children as possible, it was about the functionality of it and not the whimsical nature of "love". But now women are realizing the flimsy nature of love and swinging the power into their end of things, a…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/20 01:26 AM
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The point of the video isn't if you're hot you can get away with anything the point is if you're ugly you're more likely to be accused of being a creep And we all already know this. It's the same reason why women who decry wolf whistling are usually getting it from nasty homeless people or sub-value construction workers; if it's coming from a Calvin Klein model they're going to be 100% receptive. Further, more than likely those good looking guys are accused because: The woman felt spurned becaus…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 05:36 PM
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... that's not doing anything right. It's just failing to do anything wrong. Elegantly said. Nothing else to say, really. He's been a good boy just like everyone said he should. I'm sure mommy and sissy agree: he's such a stand-up guy; always so thoughtful and caring. To prove it, he got pet on the head some times, but those slowly diminished. He still got some treats dropped on the ground now and then. But good boys get predictable; good boys get boring. His world is about to get turned the fuc…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 11:11 PM
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I don't care how you do it, but you need to create ways for you to 100% not run into this woman for at a minimum of one month (30 days). I don't care about mutual friend groups and those types of excuses; create ways to not be around that person no matter what. This might require that you have some of your closer friends in this group to notify you of her presence at some events so you know when to avoid those social gatherings. You need to not see her or communicate with her until you're to the…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 07:09 PM
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98% of the women in China are fugly. Same with Singapore. Not only is the face a mess, but they won't even have a nice ass or good tits. It's just a 100% loss all around. I talked with a contractor from Portugal about this when we were working in Singapore. He told me he knew when it was time to leave Singapore/China: when he started to find the women attractive. Over time your standards slowly lower as your dick starts to do the thinking. This is around week 3-4 and that's when he calls his bos…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 02:36 PM
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curvy Bruh, that's what I keep finding on the Tinder scene. This chick used pics from when she did spin class a year ago or just face shots, which made her look relatively in shape. Meet up for the date: a baby beluga. I'm not gonna say full beluga cus she wasn't "fat", but she stated she was "curvy". I mean, she was barely fitting in the dress. This whole fat acceptance and feminist rhetoric about loving your body regardless is sexual attraction cancer.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 06:25 PM
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She hasn't been satisfied ever since grandpa passed away
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 06:08 PM
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I see you seeking attention with a "poor me" and "I'm a different kind of girl" rhetoric, but I'm gonna give you a little insight anyway. What you said is putting the cart before the horse. I would estimate the majority of the men who are Red Pilled originally had someone they probably considered their "true love" or some such thing. Then something happened and they lost that relationship. From their viewpoint they think that everything they did was "correct" by BP standards, but still she left …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 05:46 PM
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Things are always going great until they're not. Women always love you until they don't. It's called the lightswitch effect for a reason. One day she'll find another guy who sets off the fireworks and she'll lose interest in this guy. Fuck, it's only been 6 months and the limerance (butterfly love feeling) lasts until 1.5 years, maybe up to 3. Yeah, she's fought through her toxic problems, but once the shine wears off on this relationship she'll be off to something more emotionally engaging.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 05:57 PM
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But he stuck around because he's a #RealMan. Awwwww. Moral: Real men stick around and take care of another man's kid, even if the woman is a lying cunt to trap him. There's always some sad, lonely sack of shit that will clean up a woman's mistakes just to get a hug every now and then.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 04:02 PM
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“fix” women Reading comprehension, my dude. He said nothing about fixing women. He said the men are having their needs met and the marriages are strong because of this. This is all done by the man fulfilling his own needs and has nothing to do with the man dictating how the woman ought to think or behave; which is a 100% waste of a man's time. There's nothing to "fix" about women; they're the way they are by nature. You cannot "fix" nature; but you can get your dick sucked by a prostitute when y…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 03:01 PM
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Number 9 boils down to ego investment in the outcome over a person with which you should give zero fucks. A pithy text only comes from an emotional place; that means you cared about how she treated you. Your frame should be you don't give a fuck how she treats you because she is a child and you are a man with other goals that are far more important. We have ego; we need to remove our ego. Priorities in your life should be: Your happiness Livelyhood Family Personal Goals . . . Bitches ​ Bitches s…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/19 06:43 PM
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What's that rushing over the hill? Why it's a wild heard of autists. "Your logic is x but the reality is y; this shit is a waste of time when I could just be fucking girls I meet at the Dollar Store like a real pimp". ​ Shit is simple: You go out to do awesome things -- you know, live your fucking life. You take 5 minutes to get a picture taken while living your life. ​ You set up the app, put some simple bullshit in your description that identifies you as not a creepy douchey fuck. ​ When you t…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/19 06:13 PM
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This dude is young and has some serious mental shit going on. ​ Dude needs a lot of help, otherwise he's gonna get chewed up and spit out by this world.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 04:47 PM
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There's quite a bit of truth behind the fact that many men utilize porn as an escape from having to actually man the fuck up, make themselves attractive and fuckable, and ask a woman out. It's the path of least resistance. And while men can't be at fault for 100% of the world's woes, the vast majority of women still want men to ask them out. So, if men wanna fuck, it is 95% of the time going to start with their ability to grow a pair and approach women. Unfortunately, a lot of millennials are pr…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 04:21 PM
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Wishes she was a mermaid Loves all things Disney Idolizes Marilyn Monroe You know, basic white girl shit. Edit: FYI - Red Flags don't matter.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 04:42 PM
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Women are fighting hard AF to give back the freedoms they fought for in the 60s. Use to be women were chaperoned around college campuses by "gentlemen", had a curfew, etc. The revolution in the 60s had women stating: "we are grown ups, we can take care of ourselves". We are finding that this is, actually, not true.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 09:07 PM
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That's a fair play; Brian Banks would still be a rapist if he hadn't recorded Wanetta Gibson's admission of guilt without her knowledge. Specifically because she didn't want her family to lose the money they had won. That being said, that's only one case and I believe that she never would have admitted guilt to him if, aside from losing money, she also risked equal 41 years in prison for a lie or 5 years plus probation. The chilling effect is a real phenomenon worth thinking about. Levying the s…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 09:02 PM
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The best responses are from the clueless people who still think the world is trying to be "fair" to everyone. Such as the "lets just perform paternity tests" guy. He points out that it's relatively inexpensive; yeah, it's inexpensive to perform the paternity test. But the real expense comes from the tax and social burden created by cheating whores: single moms who need government assistance to raise their kids, who -- coming from broken households -- will be more likely to join gangs (men), have…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 05:19 PM
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after X amount of years of sex without a child that says, this guy is infertile I've never considered this as a possible factor. Very interesting idea. I feel like this could definitely be one of the many factors that contributes to the "71% of women initiate divorce" statistic. tight knit social group This also factors into increased risk to social status if caught in an extra-marital affair, thereby lowering the incentive to partake in the risky behavior. Women are especially heavily influence…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 05:06 PM
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The chilling effect on the false accusations is something worth considering, though. Do you think a woman would accept 5 years in prison and 5 years on parole, and being registered as a sex offender -- as was the case for Brian Banks. That's if we applied equal ruling to false accusers as to the falsely charged rapist. He only got exonerated some 9 years after the original claim, which already speaks volumes to how long it took her to feel her guilt. Do we think that she would have admitted guil…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 04:39 PM
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highest quality sex possible We talk a lot about number of fucks, but not quality of fucks way too often here. I find the quality of the fuck goes way up the longer I'm with someone, until the limerance period fades (1.5 to 3 years in). One night stands are fun for the stories and for the hunt, but the sex isn't typically as high quality as when it's with someone who I've been with a few times. That being said, the great sex will fade after the following: 6 to 18 months after first fuck. You beg…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/19 02:29 PM
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Women do not want men who are in touch with their (his) feelings, but ones who are in touch with their (her) feelings. It's gynocentrism. This is why even when practicing RP techniques with a plate or LTR, when you indicate a boundary they have crossed their first response is: he's so sensitive (bad). If the boundary is not clear to them prior to crossing it, they assume it's sensitivity nonsense and not something that matters. It's not until you instill dread and revoke your attention that they…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 02:11 PM
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Missed the train on the Johnny Walker situation; what's the deal there? Already switched off of Proctor & Gamble, which is too bad because I've been using Old Spice since elementary school. But there's always somewhere else, and I'll keep choosing that somewhere else when companies try to push "woke" bullshit through their ad campaigns. Thing is, men are the ones who came up with the phrase "it's the principle of it"; which is to say, these companies keep pushing anti-male bullshit and they will…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 04:10 PM
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That's been 100% my exact same thought on the situation since the beginning. They're both body image issues. Use to be when people had poor body image issues, we tried to deal with it psychologically -- and there was success with psychological approaches to solving bulimia and anorexia. But these days we go deeper and deeper into the physical roots with medication and surgery, and it's not good. We are toying with shit we don't fully understand and it's going to result in worse shit that we can'…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/19 03:52 PM
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Yeah, that reminds me of one guy's response that made me laugh: when he was 5 he pretended to be a T-Rex for like a year; but that doesn't mean he should get corrective surgery to look like a T-Rex or now sexually identifies as a T-Rex.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 07:10 PM
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Apparently I use to play with dolls and doll houses like it was nobodies business. I have one faint memory that is like a little picture in my mind of a dollhouse, but I don't remember any of that shit. It wasn't until later that my mom and brother mentioned it. Honestly, boys and girls will both play around with a wide range of toys that will fall into the other's "traditional" toy category; but that doesn't mean they are now the opposite gender. Just because a girl wears jeans and wants to cli…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 04:19 PM
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I respect you wanted to "take a break" instead of cheating on me Fucking hilarious. So respectable that she pushed pause on their relationship to get a free pass at some strange. It's almost hard to remember how delusional the blue pill makes you. I remember, even when I was drowning in the blue, that when my first ex asked to "take a break" that it was really "break up". Further, that it was just an excuse to get some strange. And you bet your ass within one week I got my strange. I still laugh…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 05:21 PM
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Of course I want kids: I think I'm awesome and my genes deserve to go on. Further, for 3.5 billion years (emergence of single celled organisms) all of my ancestors in their various forms successfully reproduced. I'm not about to end that kind of streak. And honestly, the typical response from TRP has always been "no kids, because fuck marriage", which is the most beta response ever. And that's not to be cliche, but to point out that it's a quitter's mentality with no attempt at solving the funda…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 05:06 PM
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It's a shit test. Women want to know if their man can handle his shit -- his life, his stress, his work, the trials and tribulations, and ultimately her and her children. This is his sexual fitness as provider. But how to find out if the man can do these things? Why not make up a phrase that could be parroted as the root cause for all issues that are even tangentially related to men? It would also be great if this phrase could be used to shame any male trait or expression of masculinity that goe…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/19 05:57 PM
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Your viewpoint on the marriage and children situation is the same as mine. Just recently hitting 30 I did some digging through Ancestry and the likes and really got an appreciation for my heritage and realized that I want children to keep passing on the line. That my family line worked through all these hardships since the beginning of mankind; and I'm just going to give up on it while living in one of the healthiest, safest times to be alive? That's weak, disrespectful. So now I'm thinking of k…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:07 PM
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She could get that dick from a very long list of willing guys. That's the point of the logic -- she doesn't want all that long list of dick because they're either losers (which makes them gross) or too easy (which makes them of low value). Just like we have our standards of who we're going to fuck -- no whales -- they have standards -- no low value men. That's why we flip the logic; it's not about going crazy. It's about selling the product, and to sell the product you need to believe in the pro…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/19 05:32 PM
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A lot of people will say that life is like business, but the reality is that business is like life. The ability to walk away from anything allows for the most power. As soon as you cannot walk away, you have no power. This technique is frequently used in business; but that's because it mirrors regular social interactions that occur millions of times on a daily basis with no pretense of economic value. Everyone has a bit of a tyrant in themselves; they want to be king of all their interactions. T…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 04:34 PM
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When various tanker ships go in for drydock, they hire specialists from various companies to come aboard and work on each unique piece of equipment; typically from European or American companies. These drydocks typically take place in Singapore or China. These specialists have a saying: How do you know when you've been in China too long? The women start to look beautiful. 5-6 in China is a -1 to 1 in the USA. I am saying this as someone who has visited Singapore, which is full of Chinese ex-pats…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 04:05 PM
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Done this before. Had plenty of IoIs. Wrote my personal number on the back of a business card, handed it to a customer. Didn't even say "text me", just said here's my personal number if you need anything. Knew it had backfired when she texted me not 5 minutes later and proceeded to blow up my phone. She turned out to have serious daddy issues. This was pre-RP so I wouldn't do this again. I don't shit where I eat anymore.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 03:34 PM
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And what else is there that you expect a man to find? Unconditional love? A best friend? Someone to confide in completely? Unconditional love doesn't exist and people who offer the rest of these things come and go throughout life. And why make the person you date those focal points, when they can so easily move along at some point? The Disney dream you think exists beyond the simple principles outlined above also exist beyond the edge of reality. To place the deeper meaning in your life -- found…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 08:35 PM
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Is there a source on this? Wouldn't Singapore be a great example of how stiffer penalties certainly decrease levels of crime. Additionally, the Singaporean hard line stance on criminality is one of the reasons it was able to become one of the most successful southeast Asian countries.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 05:07 PM
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You either aren't reading or aren't learning. Girl acts up as normal. TRP Says: Hold your frame, be alpha, dominant. Correct TRP MMA Fighter does so, and fights back. This is where you go wrong in your logic: fighting her is not holding his frame, but entering her frame. The red pill response is this: abundance mentality. Bitch being crazy? Done. It's finished. There's no talking about it. You're ghosting her, and it's over and there's no possibility for reconciliation because she is a loaded gu…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 05:15 PM
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When a girl begins talking about past relationships you want to redirect as quickly as possible. Those talks require an emotionally heavy cognitive load, and totally saps the fun out of all else happening. These conversations re-frame the interaction into a perspective of "ex-boyfriend = bad feelings", and then you are now the symbol of potential future boyfriend which = bad feelings. If you try to convey that you are there to help her through this troubling time, you are now orbiter; congratula…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 06:30 PM
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The age of decadence makes sense. I have for some time believed that atheism is a luxury. What resources do you recommend to read more on these topics?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 06:10 PM
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I have a friend who has some RP tendencies (the more socially palpable ones) but also quite a few BP tendencies. Not long ago he showcased one of his more BP thoughts. We were out as a group going to bars/clubs, and one of his coworkers (an 8/9) was getting a lot of attention from several men. Upon noticing this, he commented: "what a pimp". For standard society, the slut pride walks and shit like that have been accepted and glorified to the point that a woman can be a "pimp" by having multiple …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 04:44 PM
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The root cause is the fundamental pillar of the ideology: Liberals have a root belief that humans are altruistic in nature and only have the common good in mind, except for those nasty conservatives. Conservatives have a root belief that humans are self-serving, both liberal and conservatives. These are across a continuum, so you may find that they hold true to a greater or lesser degree for any individual. This is why liberals can be so baffled by people looking out for their own interests and …
/r/MensRights25/05/18 06:14 PM
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What? I am shocked; utterly shocked. I wonder if there is some sort of correlation between the high debt burden and the degrees they chose. Certainly they would not be shouldering such huge debt if they had chosen the highly profitable and much touted degrees in Gender and Women's Studies, Sexology, Sociology, and the likes. These are the degrees that employers are hungry for! There's absolutely no shortage of work out there for those women who have studied what it means to be a woman. When I as…
/r/MensRights24/05/18 04:15 PM
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It ties in well to the concept of money that I feel like so many young people completely miss these days. When you are at a job you are paid money to do a thing when you could have chosen an infinite array of other things to do - go camp, fish, video games, read a book, rock climb, etc. Your time is one of the few commodities on this planet that is completely non-refundable; and it is essentially your life energy that is slowly depleting. So when you are given money, it is saying "here's the val…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 04:00 PM
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You will be fucking next. It's AWALT. The biggest irony I see consistently on TRP are the men who think that because they are Red Pilled, and think they are using every RP trick in the book 100% effectively (they aren't), that they will maintain a marriage or relationship without the woman stepping out. They laugh at "BP Cucks", whose girlfriends or wives they fuck, but think they're somehow immune to the potentiality due to their understanding of RP or because their girl comes from a good, old …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 09:22 PM
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You're a fool if your only end-goal in life is attracting "the best woman", and you're an even bigger fool if you set your goals so low as to simply "work to live". You can live on welfare and go to your part time McDonalds job and meet the criteria of "working to live". Living is a bare bone minimum. Family is important, but no man should be aiming all their life goals for the attainment of a woman and their flippant emotions. Women are fun, no doubt; but they're not above everything else in my…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 03:56 PM
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This was 2 years ago. But yes, I did shed some tears in private when it "hit" later. There were other moments when I realized I was seeing an experience someone else was having that I'll never again have; and this felt painful. But, on the flip side, there's a certain sense of freedom after her passing. I find that I'm on a much better path and I don't feel the need to satiate her expectations anymore. I have my own expectations I need to meet, and I've found much more success in this endeavor.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 03:38 PM
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I've mentioned this before, but when my mother passed I recall going into the hospital room and seeing her there; lifeless. Only myself and her best friend (woman) were there to see this, and the friend began bawling. I had no response. No crying, just sort of processing everything. I remember her friend hugging me and saying "it's okay, let it out". But there was nothing to let out at that time. I had to actually pretend like I was crying to satiate her and the nurse's (female) expectations of …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 05:39 PM
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Hah. Two options: 1) They didn't do enough research to understand the difference. or (most likely) 2) They know the difference and use incels as the "in" to destroy everything else they dislike that can be remotely tied to it. It's the same as using fear of terrorism to convince people to give up their liberty in the name of safety and the common good. And I assure you, they do not see the "good things" of TRP as good enough to counter the "bad things", or they don't see the benefits at all.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 10:43 PM
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Yeah, my issue is that BP minds immediately see prenuptial agreements as some sort of proof of expected failure; they have that "love concurs all" ideology and prenuptial is signaling a preemptive defeat to them. Most women think it's a no go zone, and beta men fall for it. Which is why I'm trying to think of good information that will make it seem more palatable. Any topics that might help ease him into understanding the risks is what I'm looking for, so I'll consider forwarding the Misandry Bu…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 08:15 PM
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I have no interest in attempting to shock his system with deep TRP knowledge. I am simply trying to see if others can think of information that's more palatable to the BP mind that might persuade him to consider protection just in case. More RP fringe information, if you will. I have no delusions that he'll follow through, but for good conscience I need to at least attempt something that will get the information to him and he can make his own mind up.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 08:08 PM
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There's a reason why in Dante's Inferno the bottom layer of hell is Betrayal -- and you're just now understanding why this is the case through great emotional upheaval. There will be many things you will need to learn moving forward, but a fundamental one has already been said: you will have to take your new found, first-hand knowledge about the nature of women and use it to protect yourself moving forward. This means accepting that women are only a side-quest in your life. That your meaning of …
/r/askTRP26/04/18 06:34 PM
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First, lets think why people do this type of communication technique? When was the last time someone did this? Typically when we think of someone giving a warning of "we need to talk later" it's a parent telling a kid prior to school, so that the kid has to marinate all day in fear of what they may have done wrong. Don't play into this tactic. Ever. They're trying to draw out concern in you by giving no information but hinting at something that's serious. By accepting the terms of the agreement …
/r/askTRP26/04/18 06:20 PM
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While I have no interest in being labeled a nice guy or believing I am a fundamentally nice person, I feel you on this angle. I'm finding the sex with my current LTR (6 months) who is 21 much more enjoyable than the shit that can be pulled in the club or on a ONS. She's also young enough for me to "groom"; not necessarily manipulate, but I find her much easier to deal with than older women who have their mind made up. I positively reinforce good behavior -- keeping my house clean, being on time,…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 03:42 PM
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One would think this, but alternatively I think it actually creates a docility in the man (post-orgasm relaxation) and puts the feminine form on a pedestal -- not necessarily any particular woman but the "feminine form", as such. After all, the brain signals this every time they look at a pussy and end with an orgasm and all that sweet sweet dopamine signaling: "this is the shiiiiit". It also breeds a sort of perversion of incentives for the man who uses porn as a coping mechanism. They go out, …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 02:51 PM
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Once you spend the amount of time to dig through the facts about diet (not fad shit, but actual nutrition balance) and spend the time finally reading nutrition labels, measuring and weighing your food, limiting your alcohol and sugar intake, and forcing yourself away from your previous addictive eating habits (oreos and goldfish for me), you really and truly begin to lose respect for people who just complain but never attempt to fix their shitty diet and physique. You can give these people all t…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 02:32 PM
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The most egregious danger of the Western infatuation with rape culture and putting the onus on the accused to prove their own innocence is the slow deconstruction of something so concrete as the temporal. Time passes inexorably forward and what has happened is done and cannot be changed. Yet the feminine imperative seeks to actually reach into the past and change the meaning and reality of events that have already happened based on the fluid and subjective feelings of women as years pass, based …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 03:42 PM
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Not sure what these other fools are talking about "have you asked her..." or "have you talked about why...". Fucking hard next, immediately. When the marriage talks begin, it's time to end. Once they got marriage on the brain, all they see is signs of marriage and commitment. She'll zero in on all social media about friends getting married, then bitch. Or she'll talk to a friend who's brother's cousin's sister is getting married, then bitch. It's just death by a thousand nags. Been there, fuck t…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 04:51 PM
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When you have an entire generation of men being told that they need to be sensitive, open, in touch with their feelings and "communicate" this is what happens. And by their own admission, women can't fucking stand it. It's just a big fucking subconscious litmus/shit test. It's an easy way to quickly and efficiently disqualify the weak ones. It's not a conspiracy, just so few fathers able to teach their sons men shit and how to deal with their problems. Too many women trying to teach sons how to …
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 09:47 PM
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It's the same as the fatties and hags tearing down the flag girls. Women have free agency, until the other women say they don't.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 09:35 PM
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Promoted my 20 year old plate to top-tier status. Been a plate since October and she: Likes for me to make decisions on where to eat, what to do, etc. It's not a power struggle. Seeks my guidance on many personal and political issues. Actively grabs my dick and wants to give me blow jobs; no need to tell her what/when/why Loves to fuck every time she visits. If she's on her period she'll just gimme a blow job Cuddles up next to me and loves to show her affectionate side Enjoys being active - hik…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 09:27 PM
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Great points. The obvious problem in today's society has been the glorification of single motherhood. First there were the no-fault divorces, with women since the 60s to today initiating 70% of the divorces. But how could you do this to the family unit? Well, that's easy: the family unit is an out-dated social construct. Okay, that's fine if you wanna live alone with cats; but what about when kids are in the equation? Well a mother is equipped to be both mother and father, obviously. And attempt…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 05:30 PM
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she's not sticking up for me Of course not. Women take the shape of their container in any setting. At home she should be conforming to your container. However, when her family is talking shit about you, she's -- at worst -- hen-pecking behind your back or, at best, she's just acting neutral. But she certainly is not confronting them about their bullshit. And of course as women conform to the container, they're taking information from all those other people into account and it's becoming ingrain…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 05:13 PM
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I know you're a nice guy because only a nice guy would see two ways to interpret the problem: nice or psychopath. You have deeply black and white thinking. You think in order to get women these are your two options; though I am certain you don't even know what you mean when you say "psychopath". Go read No More Mr. Nice Guy. And then read it like two more times. Being nice =\= good person. It means having no backbone in a bid to get what you think you deserve. I.E. if I'm nice enough, I will get…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 06:54 PM
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they inevitably hit a "dog year" Awesome. I'm going to use this in the future.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 07:58 PM
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we live together Moving forward, make the rule: no moving in with a girl until marriage. Most likely this means never, since I think 99% of the Red Pill understands how incredibly fucking risky marriage is in this day and age. A relationship is a constant negotiation, and you can only be successful in negotiating if you have the ability to walk away. When you live with someone, your ability to walk away is severely limited; especially if the lease is under both names. The capability to walk away…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 06:47 PM
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Easy rule of thumb: If you're looking for deep conversations, save it for your bros. There's a reason men historically have had men-only clubs where they discuss business and other affairs among each other. You should be cultivating male-male relationships that assist in pushing your thoughts about deeper philosophical topics, building power, financial stability, etc. If you're looking to fuck, keep it light, fun and flirtatious. Why do so many young professional women work M-F then get shitface…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 06:19 PM
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Every RP man would have liked the knowledge sooner, just as the earlier version of the same man would have assuredly rejected that very knowledge. /u/CutLiver has it right: when the time comes he will search why his attempts with women constantly fail. And he'll inevitably find his way to some form of the manosphere. But he needs a "mental break" with the bluepill to initiate this search on his own; it can't be foisted upon him preemptively. As it stands, he sleeps cozy at night thanks to his bl…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 04:45 PM
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Don't forget this article where the only named witness in the case actually admits she forgot writing love letters to him. She was so surprised that she was betrayed by her past self. But of course he's still guilty, and she's a victim because it was quite the mental toll on her to dredge up all these terrible memories.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 05:00 PM
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I wanted validation that it was actually bad. Women outsource their concept of self. Just like they outsource the burden of responsibility to men -- mansplaining, consent under the influence, etc. -- they outsource their feelings to the closest friends. You've seen it before if you've ever been around a few women: one is happy about a certain situation, then two others gang up on her and tell her how she should actually feel the complete opposite, and suddenly she starts to waiver and before you…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 04:30 PM
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Similar to something Camille Paglia said, which is along the lines of: women asked for social freedom, and the men responded: no, it's too dangerous out there. And feminism responded: we'll take the risk. But here we are, and all women do is continue to outsource their responsibilities to men. If they feel unsafe by a man's advances, it's because he's creepy: be more respectful towards women! If women feel like they can't get a word in edge-wise, it's because he's mansplaining: shut up and liste…
/r/MensRights12/01/18 07:23 PM
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Don't confuse a woman's desire for dick and sex drive. It's like comparing a distance to a velocity. Certainly, women have a lower sex drive than men; as this is based on testosterone levels. But that doesn't mean women are inherently not craving the dick; they crave the dick. They just don't think about craving the dick as often as men think about craving the pussy. You are right, though: a big BP myth is that women have as much sex drive as a man. They don't; again, this is rooted in biology. …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 10:37 PM
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Different times, dude. Women essentially crowd-source for the proper response to any situation, especially the more unknown the situation. That is to say, when she isn't sure how she should respond to something you do that she thinks pisses her off or confuses her, she'll consult friends/family. How many times I've seen girls go from neutral on a topic to rage-mode simply because a friend indicates that's the proper response. The opposite can happen, too. They can be very easy to manipulate if y…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 07:37 PM
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Whether you think you can, or you think you cant, youre right. Literally the fundamental flaw with all incels. I met one not too long ago. My brother's roommate. The kid clearly has some level of autism. I say kid because, while he's in his early/mid 30s (although looks like in his 40s), he has all the signs of the social maturity of a 9 year old. He complains and bitches about literally everything in his life. So of course his attitude in other realms of his life flow into his attempted sexual …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 06:56 PM
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Holy shit. I remember in elementary school when they banned Groundies -- marco polo + tag -- for being too dangerous. I attempted to beat the system by creating a very similar game with a different name. They caught onto it. So this is the dystopian future...
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 09:50 PM
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Not only are the boundaries and goalposts constantly shifted, but most women don't take responsibility for their actions. This is no surprise -- we all know this. To reference Camille Paglia: women asked for freedom and society said "no, it's too dangerous for you"; women responded: we'll take the risk. But here we are 50+ years later and we find the vast majority of women do not accept that risk. They did not understand what it meant to have a co-ed environment in just about every facet of life…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 11:20 PM
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Most well-rounded response in this thread is by /u/Thotwrecker. OP definitely had a sort of "perfect storm" of issues that resulted in his performance problem. I see a lot of people in this thread who don't entirely understand the role to which porn plays into the PIED problem. It's a confluence of multiple things, including tight hand grip; however, two other big factors of whether it will cause PIED are (1) the age at which you begin watching and (2) how far your tastes in porn escalate. The e…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 04:09 PM
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The problem with those failed societies wasn't the system but the corrupted elite who abused the system and the people they "governed." Sigh - that excuse could be made about literally every style of government ever made, and have some sort of truth to it. And it is the same, old, tired excuse by every leftist and communist apologist ever. There is no one who makes that style of government work. But lets just look at the history of it: Alright Stalin, lets give power back to the workers -- oh sh…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 03:20 PM
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We don't live in a jungle anymore. Not in the physical sense but in the metaphorical sense we certainly still live there. You think the best of the best get to where they are because someone said they deserve it and handed it to them? No -- they earned it. And anyone who tells you that there's no need for competition is someone who already gave up a long time ago and is looking for the free handouts. NEWS FLASH: Those who espouse equality the most are the one's at the bottom who want something f…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 11:54 PM
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Because many view women's rights and men's rights as a zero sum game. They believe any benefit or attention given to one reduces the significance of the other's issues. This is a fallacy, but amounts to social suicide when confronted.
/r/MensRights14/09/17 04:24 PM
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Since August I have been trying to piece together my own post similar to this in regards to the crisis of sperm count and Testosterone in the West. One recent study I was looking at was published in July this year and stated that sperm count "had declined each year, amounting to a 52.4 percent total decline, in men from North America, Europe, Australia and New Zealand." This study looked at 42,935 men from 50 countries from 1973 to 2011. Note that those from non-Western countries did not show si…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 03:45 PM
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there's a new law that's being talked about, not sure if it's implemented yet, in CANADA that states that going against your young child's TRANSGENDER identity is a crime. It's already been passed and is called the "Bill 89 Supporting Children, Youth and Families Act, 2017". What an innocuous title, when in reality it offers ever-encroaching power of the government into family affairs. TRP isn't huge about marriage, but the reality is that countries whose governmental powers supercede the family…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 10:00 PM
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Ding ding ding -- we have the winner. Further to this point, we have the research into a birth control pill for men. I am certain that at least 50% of men will take that -- no more fear of condoms breaking, no more fear of crazy girl fishing a condom out of the trash. How many times do you think a man will utter the following: oh, dang -- I forgot to take my pill! Not even once. Currently, the biggest tool for siphoning money from a man is marriage and children. Male pills, similar to vasectomie…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 09:05 PM
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There are some who will say that this is the behavior of an insecure person. You act as if this is the only reason why this behavior might be considered unnecessary, but it's not. The bigger reason why this is terrible advice is because it completely contradicts your main argument, which is to secure your time and money as your most valuable assets. Going to these levels of checking up on her all the time, aside from the other apparent issues with it -- paranoia, insecurity, etc. -- it is a comp…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 08:56 PM
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Like Bill Burr says: there's an epidemic of gold digging whores.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 03:19 PM
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There's not a single part of me that doubts you have helped some men in calculus. There are capable and incapable people in all walks of life, in regards to various skills. I previously dated a woman who now has a PhD in Neuroscience. I understand there are those women out there who -- instead of bitching about the gender distribution of STEM -- actually work their butts off to be the difference they wish to see in the world. At the same time, there's also not a single part of me that believes t…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 11:06 PM
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Open borders, anti-racism and anti-islamophobia Ironically, guess who is the most anti-open borders: the ones who worked their ass off to emigrate legally. Dated an Indian chick for a while, and she was one of the biggest opponents to sanctioning illegal immigrants during Obama. After all, it completely devalues almost all her life as she spent it studying her ass off to get into a US college and a chance at a better life through the correct channels. The people who want these things have no clu…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 09:26 PM
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Further, the paradox is that while women yearn for the threat of violence, or violence in some sanctioned forms (BDSM, see 50 Shades of Grey) which is why they are attracted to the "asshole", the reality is they are safer with an RP aware asshole than a BP asshole. Why? Because BPs put all their eggs in one basket and take some drastic measures when they don't get what they think they deserve, whereas a RP man will think "plenty of fish in the sea". BP men all over the world make irrevocably lif…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 09:00 PM
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A) I should because "it's what people do" Been there, dodged that. Luckily, I didn't throw down money for any engagement ring. I did notice the main tool she utilized was shaming: any time a Facebook friend got proposed to or married she would start in on me. It was a constant point of contention, that turned into a guaranteed fight. Being a BP bitch, I dreaded seeing yet another friend post that they were engaged because I knew the shitstorm was a-coming. Finally, we broke up but I didn't tell …
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 05:20 PM
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Women want all the benefits of marriage without getting married.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 02:45 PM
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This post is very timely, as I was seeing a lot of JBY (just be yourself) mentality popping up in comments and actually receiving upvotes from, what I can only presume, are confused new RPers that have some vestigial BP tendencies they can't seem to shake or Purple Pillers. The JBY mentality is directly based on one's belief in their self-prescribed personality, as well as their need to ego-protect. JBY mentality is a fallacy that ultimately protects the feminine imperative, as it services sever…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 04:27 PM
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That's a dumb thing to say. He would not have known that she would be looking for a man to settle down with until he talked to her. You're attributing the pointlessness of Action A (his approach) to the outcome of Action B (her need to have kids), but he would not know the pointlessness of Action A until Action B occurred. This is outcome bias: you're evaluating the quality of his decision based on an outcome he would not have known. You're stating that his approach on this woman was pointless s…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 03:22 PM
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Plenty of time for you to catch up. First off, ignore the JBY (Just Be Yourself) mentality that dude posted. That's some feel good, empty bullshit. JBY mentality is a pillar of blue pill mentality and is poison. There is no JBY; how would you even define JBY. No one is the same person at 15, is the same person at 23, is the same person at 30. As you read and learn more and change your thought processes in regards to women, your previous mentality will slowly die and a stronger one will take its …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 02:54 PM
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• My partner was not listening to me. Years ago I was on the receiving end of this type of abuse. The interesting thing is you are blind to it, until you're not. And even now, it's hard to attribute the word "abuse" to any of it. If we had an argument and I walked away to think about it, she would follow me and push/hit me as a way to coax me back into conversation. She wasn't very strong, so it didn't hurt very much, except when she started going for the below the belt hits; and, in general, it…
/r/MensRights21/08/17 04:53 PM
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The only top-level response worth reading. The denial in this thread is palpable. The vast majority of the responses are from potheads who would rather spend more time hamstering over their pot use than consider an alternative to their current life style. Then you have the guy talking about how he gets high all day but it's okay because he's really made it in life; you see: he's a delivery driver. Well call the bank to enlarge their vaults, we got a delivery driver over here about to make a depo…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 03:06 PM
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That doesn't sound right; if she's left handed you should be staring at her right hand. This will signal to her that you want a sad handjob.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 06:22 PM
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I wouldn't recommend conflating the two. A good way to remember the separation is as follows: Men's Rights Activists (MRAs) seek to change the system MGTOW seeks to leave the system TRP seeks to manipulate the system to their advantage The devil's in the details. Although there are certainly some overlap between the three, there are very important core differences in the prime directive for these different groups. MGTOW focuses too much on moralizing the issue and as a result feel defeated by it…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 02:11 PM
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We don't damn women for their hypergamy; if you're damning women for their hypergamy then you're still in the anger phase. We recognize it as a natural tendency. Damning nature for being natural is a fool's errand. We also don't pass judgement from a moralized stance. We don't say women are bad for branch swinging; at most in early red pill stages we get upset about the effects their branch swinging has on us. And if you come to the conclusion it's just women being bad, then you've missed the fo…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 05:26 PM
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and i get her point though. You say that, but I don't think you do. Or you understand her point in the way she wants you to understand it, but not in the way you need to understand it for yourself. You really need to understand to watch her actions, not her words. Her actions: Wants you to give up everything that defines meaning in your life personally in favor of everything that defines meaning in her life She wants you to invest all your money into her farm, instead of for your own house She w…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 04:44 PM
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Met a pretty decent guy from Nepal back when I was in college. He got accused of rape and was deported back to Nepal. White girl raped by a Nepalese man? Open and shut case, Johnson. This man's life was irrevocably changed because a woman said a few words. At worst, he may have committed some sexual faux pas -- he seemed really inexperienced with women. But of course, he may have done nothing wrong other than being a poor guy from Nepal; and what would that say about her SMV if people found out …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 03:49 PM
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A 20-something y.o. chick I banged in SF couldn't properly follow the instructions on the mac n cheese box when making a snack later, but all the while remarking ironically about how good she was at "playing housewife". They mock the simplest of things they can't even do.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 05:36 PM
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a black, 6'3", successful business owning, tesla driving, buff, martial-arts lovin, cigar smokin, 7 foot dong playa Oh, shit. So I just need these pre-reqs and it's okay to call my girl a dude and vice versa? It's almost too simple. ADMINS-Please put on the sidebar ASAP. Fresh TRPers need to know the truth.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 05:15 PM
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The only actual part that needs to be watched: 1:43 - 1:46 She can't stand having his arm around her for 15 seconds.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 04:59 PM
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Good guys exist. This should be common sense but it's hard to remember that sometimes. Mission fucking accomplished. Pack it up, boys; we're going home. Dude got the "good guy" recognition; that oughta hold him for another 6 months without sex. He'll stumble on this thread and reaffirm: "I'm a good person; I did a good thing"; while simultaneously something deep in his gut is screaming: you failed. Even a dog gets a fucking cookie for being a good boy; this dude got nothing but the old blue ball…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 05:33 PM
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If a homeless/convict is cat calling, who the fuck cares. That should be your stance on it. Unless you want to be the white knight who is ready to get into a serious altercation 'cause some crazy or drunk dude said a thing. In fact, general mate guarding behavior is beta shit. Especially if you're not even mating with them, which you're not. Further, even if you are fucking her, why would you care if other men are attempting to move in on it. That's why TRP preaches abundance: when you have opti…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 02:57 PM
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In some cases, the women ... said they would be happy to be in a relationship with someone less educated, but they felt they were “intimidating” to the men who were available. Lol, sure. Yes, the men are intimidated and it has nothing to do with the fact that the woman simply doesn't find him attractive. I'll just copy + paste what I wrote last time in regards to this egg freezing "epidemic". Cross-culturally, women date laterally or up and men date laterally or down, in regards to socioeconomic…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 02:40 PM
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I just wish I hadn't assumed so much. He'll wish he hadn't assumed so much every time until the time he wish he had assumed as much.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 02:30 PM
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This ties back into a lot of the push-back I saw in the community in regards to the "TRP App". A lot of people don't seem to understand how easily anonymity can be compromised on the web, or further don't understand the havoc that can be wreaked once they lose their anonymity. When it comes to TRP, your life can and will be ruined by zealous feminists and most liberals. This CNN situation is a great example of why you always need to use a separate account strictly for TRP and is not used in any …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 04:43 PM
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Any man below her educational level is now defunct Cross-culturally, women date laterally or up and men date laterally or down, in regards to socioeconomic indicators. While some cultures will show differing strengths of this correlation, the statistical reality of this correlation cannot be ignored. You must have one sex going up and one going down, otherwise it doesn't work. Women are typically marrying men roughly ~5 years older than them, who's education and career success are equal to or gr…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 03:53 PM
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“If you invite, you pay,” said Diane Gottsman Funny how that will directly correlate with men paying. A quick google search will show that ~93% of women preferred to be asked out, and that ~83% of men preferred to ask women out. So both genders agree, the men are the ones who have to initiate. Further, an average of men will have at least asked 4-5 women out in the last year on a first date, and the majority of women will have asked: zero. “There’s a huge gender pay gap,” FALSE. Of course, there…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 05:19 PM
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Yeah, and I certainly appreciate the ability to have a conversation about differing view points. I am just concerned that the level of analysis is maybe not as deep as it could go. I mentioned in another response that freedom and value to society is a dichotomous relationship, and a line we all must walk individually. And I certainly agree he chose some obligations, which I think makes it easy to infer that he perhaps enjoys those obligations. Not necessarily with a big smile all the time, but h…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 05:06 PM
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To clarify, I am not at all saying high value and freedom go hand in hand; I am definitely saying the opposite: that being high value will be dichotomous with the ability to freely leave at any moment without the company putting pressure on you. And that's a line we all walk: between our personal freedoms and our value to society (or in this case, the company). And I think the analogy of the plough horse is not appropriate, as the horse does not have any choice in the matter. The man did have a …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 05:01 PM
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I don't think this premise is entirely sound. Even with the knowledge you have of all the events, that still doesn't give you the whole picture. We have no idea of how much he enjoys work compared to a trip with his family, and I don't think a man like that would particularly hate work. People who reach that level usually put in the kind of effort that the majority of people can't even fathom. Most of those high power type of guys have a highly competitive, hard-ass attitude. They're striving to…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 09:24 PM
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Even removing the moralistic aspects of your assessment, it ultimately finds the real conclusion of this gigantic post being: dude hamstered his way to being heart broken. It's really simply that. He put on blinders for the bad shit and only saw the green flags. He further justified any red flags he found. At the end of the day, the moral stance of fucking another man's wife doesn't even need to be brought up to understand that at the most basic level this man put himself through the ringer beca…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 08:22 PM
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This is how being too leftist results in a tyranny: visual example. Whether you're more conservative or more liberal, the further you go in either direction results in the same outcome -- tyranny -- but in different forms. People keep pushing for change simply for the sake of change. There's no qualification anymore, and certainly no time to quantify the positive or negative outcome of change. There's constantly so much change we have no time to stop and really understand what has just happened,…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 07:51 PM
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I'm neither qualified to speak on the behalf of Dr. Frankl -- he ded -- nor am I qualified to give any real diagnosis or assistance, as I am not a trained logotherapist or clinical psychologist. My personal answer to your question would be the following: Anticipatory anxiety is a manifestation of the pressure you put upon yourself to reach a goal that you feel is paramount to your definition of personal success. The point of paradoxical intention isn't simply a way to trick your mind, but a way …
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 06:38 PM
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I dunno about that Edit 4 link. Looks like that originated from a troll twitter account that was just made this month, and someone else mentions anon. Not a lot of people understand the beast that is 4chan, but they'll go to great lengths for trolling. I wouldn't be surprised if that pic is a photoshop to stir up more trouble. And of course we have the guy here who links the 4chan detective work, which is creepily on point. That being said, we all know what happened here, but one more detail to …
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 02:56 PM
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Aside from The-Hardball-Player's response -- which is straight gold -- I'd like to add a little insight from Dr. Viktor Frankl on issues with anxiety: Treatment of neurosis Frankl cites two neurotic pathogens: hyper-intention, a forced intention toward some end which makes that end unattainable; and hyper-reflection, an excessive attention to oneself which stifles attempts to avoid the neurosis to which one thinks oneself predisposed. Frankl identified anticipatory anxiety, a fear of a given out…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 09:07 PM
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Do you know why the vast majority of New Year's Resolutions fail? Because people run their mouth about all the great shit they're going to do to turn their life around, people congratulate them on thinking about something they haven't even accomplished yet, do it a couple times (or not at all), feel good and then quit. They've gained nothing, learned nothing, and will continue to amount to nothing. Don't talk about doing, just do. The most powerful thing is discipline and action. Discipline your…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 08:47 PM
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Came into thread to say exactly this. Two days ago there was a news article about one third of the world being overweight. This is actually really awesome news for those of us who give a fuck about how we look and what we eat. A large portion of the world is automatically disqualifying themselves from being attractive. My brother made a comment when I had my shirt off around the house months ago - he said it was embarrassing for him how good I looked, so I should put a shirt on so he wouldn't fe…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 02:54 PM
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Regardless of whether it's scripted or what bullshit, just take a moment to dissect the statement: "...she... wouldn't have done what she did... to jeopardize that relationship" This is a very common line used by women cheaters, and it's no wonder as it totally distances themselves from the real issue, and puts on display their disregard for the individual man and their only interest in the man as a provider. Notice that it's not about how she loves the man, or how she doesn't want to hurt the m…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 07:33 PM
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A woman's place in raising kids is absolutely essential, as is a father's. I fear that all too many Men's Rights and RP men forget this important point. The masculine and feminine compliment each other, and are not meant to be in constant conflict. RP is about learning how to make yourself stronger in the absence of women, but also how to handle women when you're around them. This is becoming a man. And it's certainly not about scorning women who have been raised in a backwards culture that perp…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 02:21 PM
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An important speech that all young men need to hear. Marriage is a raw deal for men in its current iteration. Like Bill Burr says: "Is this the line where I lose half my shit?"
/r/MensRights13/06/17 03:34 PM
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I was raised by a single mother, visited my Dad on Holidays, and many people would say I had a tendency towards being a "Momma's Boy". The odd, and perhaps some might say "dark", truth is that after she passed last year, I've felt more free. As if I don't have to live anymore in a way to make her proud, but I can live my life in my own right with no strings attached. That's not to say that I wasn't upset by the death; it's just that over time I have experienced a different outlook on life since …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 06:32 PM
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If you haven't already, I would recommend reading "No More Mr. Nice Guy" or getting the AudioBook version.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 06:14 PM
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Did you purchase that strawman or make it yourself? No one is arguing that child abuse is a good or bad thing; in fact, it's not even on the radar. What is being argued is what falls under the purview of child abuse, and the increased strength of the government to dismantle families on what many would consider to be fallacious grounds for defining child abuse. The more any government attempts to increase its role as "parent", the more it supersedes the role of the family unit. Historically, the …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 03:56 PM
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Oh I have no doubt they already are. They hire a few really high quality woman, then tout how they are pro-diversity. In reality, they're a minority. But who is going to get into the actual numbers of exactly how many women have been hired by the company? Big companies are no doubt "cooking the books" when it comes to selling their pro-diversity stances -- as well they should. The most successful companies are not hiring edgy SJW types, and any diversity programs they implement are strictly smok…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 02:47 PM
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This article seems to be filled with a lot more information, specifically: the girl was also 16 years old. This being the most important fact, I would not be surprised if the original ABC article was written in a way to obfuscate this critical piece of information. Without this information, the original article plants doubts in the readers mind about whether the young man was or was not a sexual predator. Clearly, he was not a sexual predator and the fear instilled by the cop was excessive; this…
/r/MensRights31/05/17 06:53 PM
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Jesus Christ, the website at the bottom of that form is...wow. "Loveology University" -- She has a doctorate in human behavior. Can we all agree on a heuristic that signals a sociologically based doctorate. Maybe "Sdr." instead of "Dr."; that way we can immediately disregard that person, instead of thinking they're a useful doctor?
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 09:15 PM
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This is going to keep snowballing into even higher levels of unhappiness for women. Which means more blaming. Freedom of choice comes with a price. Jordan Peterson has some great videos that touch on the burden of choice, and also some great videos about the big lie that is being told to young women: that a career is the main goal in life. Now, he diverges off and makes a point about the importance of children and marriage, but his main point is that the majority of people do not have careers, t…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 09:01 PM
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include in your dirty talk some acknowledge from her that she wants it. Dirty Talk 2017: "Yeaahh, you want my big dick in your tight pussy" "Yeah, I do want that dick" "Yeeahhh, you consent to getting fucked by this big dick." "Mm yyeah" "No, say: "I consent to getting fucked by your big dick" "... I consent to getting fucked by your big dick" "Great, mmm yeah -- please sign here agreeing to this consent. Oh, mmmm, that signature's so hot" So this is pretty much where we're at as a society.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 02:56 PM
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Because women view their men like a toy or a new car. A principle my brother always utilized for gauging women: keep an eye out for women who always need the newest thing -- trade in their car for a new one every year, the latest purses, etc. -- because they're the type who will always look to upgrade. And this includes their men. He's been married for maybe 25 years now and is the closest to a natural red pill that I know. Although I'm not looking at the marriage route, I can respect how well h…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 02:26 PM
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An interesting concept I've considered lately is the "it's alright to cry" rhetoric. I have a beta friend who is a teacher, and he's mentioned he's told young boys it's alright to cry. He never gives context of the situation, but exclaims this as if by simply stating this that he is bolstering the child's emotional coping skills. And we hear this all the time as a basic socially accepted counter to, I guess, "masculine toxicity"; that if we tell our young boys that it's okay to cry then they won…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 06:59 PM
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No need for anyone else to waste their time posting, as he's already stated: Don't care to improve anything. I was just curious.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 05:01 PM
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Interesting story... but every time you say Skinny L all I see is Skinny P from Breaking Bad. Woof.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 02:34 PM
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Visited Singapore for nearly a month recently and I can tell you that your number 1 is wrong. I was in awe of how unattractive everyone was there. Clean, safe city though. The only way they make it to number 1 is if you're in America, since they're actually Asian-American not just straight Asian. In which case I usually find them very attractive. When talking to another contractor about how surprised I was by the people, he told me this as an allegory: "How do you know you've been in China for t…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 02:37 PM
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The problem is these men don't believe in prostitution. They are so far gone that they don't even see that as an option; they are so utterly beta in their thought processes. They have been raised in a generation where an emotional bond needs to be created prior to sex. Most of them had poor relationships with their fathers and raised by a mother who complained a lot about their father's male traits. They then disassociate and repress these male tendencies to create the persona that will be most …
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 05:57 PM
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Validation is a learned behavior from years and years of schooling. During the majority of our most formative years we understand that in order to excel in life, we must say the right thing -- which, depending on the type of class, requires heavy pandering to the teacher's inherent biases -- to get good grades, which is the foundation of a successful future. Think about it: ~70 of your best years for brain plasticity are used to absorb and regurgitate knowledge to appease someone else, who choos…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 06:23 PM
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One week of reading TRP does not give you the full depth of what it means to be Red Pill. It took me months before I grasped enough of TRP to even consider posting in this subreddit; so I don't see why you think your one week has given you any insight into the deeper meaning of TRP foundations. This is markedly shown by your superficial understanding of AWALT. AWALT can be shallowly interpreted as "all women are sluts", but its depth and meaning goes beyond this. First, TRP is deeply rooted in e…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 05:55 PM
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They fall in love with you because they don't know you. This is why you always offer up less information than they do; why you always send 1-2 text for every three she sends, etc. We've all had this experience. During the height of my final relationship during my BluePill days, she would constantly mention how she felt there was so much about me she didn't know. Women love the mystery and suspense of not knowing who you are. During this phase of the relationship she would send unsolicited nude p…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 03:55 PM
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dont know if i posted this in right spot You didn't. If you're looking to rant, start a diary. You can even put stickers in it to really express your emotions. If you're looking for consolation, try starting a Facebook group for people banned from OK and PoF. You can all high five each other about how edgy and cool you are. If you're looking for sympathy, tell your mommy. She might even give you a tampon to dry your tears. Whatever you're looking for by posting this garbage here, you won't find …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 07:00 PM
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Your post, actually, is not an example disproving TRP philosophy, since that quote depends directly on what the definition of what that "idealized love" is that women are inherently incapable of. The idealized love was defined in that very post you linked to as: "Because men want to believe that they can be happy, and sexually satisfied, and appreciated, and loved, and respected by a woman for who he is." You already said you're not sexually satisfied, so in fact your case is not an example of t…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 02:18 PM
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I'm noticing that dude posts in waves. I hadn't seen him post in a week or two, but then the other day 4 or 5 of his were on the front page. I wonder if he has like manic episodes or something.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 11:01 PM
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My 7 year BP relationship from college ended on mutual terms, but a point of contention was definitely when I saw that her coworker was texting shit like "I bet you look good naked" and her responses were smiley faces and "Oh, you..." types of responses. I quickly found a history of many texts from him like this, and not once did she rebuff him. I only happened to see it pop up on her phone one day, otherwise I never checked her shit -- trust and all that. When confronted she played it off as "O…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 09:59 PM
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I maintain that the Red Pill, despite what the non-informed would say, is much safer for women than the current BP society. RP men learn to not ego-invest in women as much as your generic BP would, and this means a RP man is less likely to feel like his world is crashing down when a woman leaves. This lack of ego-investment is possible by not allowing the growth of oneitis, the pursuit of an abundance mentality, and stoicism. In the end, BP mentality is actually more dangerous for women, but the…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 08:27 PM
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The Myth of the Lonely Old Man. Further, why is marriage the end game? What about marriage makes it the end game? What might be your end game isn't necessarily everyone's end game. Are you certain the end game will pan out the way you perceive it? Is your life only meaningful if you meet this one prerequisite? Further readings: The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Mark Manson. At one point he references the story of Hiroo Onoda, the Japanese Army Officer who lived in a Philippine's jungle for 29…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 04:15 PM
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No amount of female empowerment campaigns can fix that. That's because true freedom is quality of choice, not quality of outcome. The countries with the highest levels of freedom see that men and women automatically segregate themselves into different jobs. This isn't a bad thing, the point of freedom is to pursue what is most fulfilling in your life. But instead of saying "it sure is good we're free enough to pursue our personal interests", feminists and many left-leaning individuals point at t…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 03:56 PM
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Of course this is "geared towards the younger more bushy-tailed TRP audience", these are the ones most susceptible to wavering in their RP mindset. Honestly, though, if they feel like wavering I encourage them to go pursue BP interests and see where that gets them; just don't get married to her and after a few years I guarantee her true colors will show. This will cement the RP truths in their minds stronger than ever. But how ignorant of the situation you must be to think that men here haven't …
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 03:46 PM
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In college, I would constantly babysit 4 girls: my GF and three of her friends. I remember one time I was talking about honesty and how important it was to me (my BP was out of control), and how you need to always tell the truth. Her friend, one of the most hippy, pro-feminist (she was from Portland, OR) types flat out said "that doesn't work for women, you can't always be honest". This is just one personal example, but as it came straight from the horse's mouth, I'm inclined to believe it. Wome…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 03:23 PM
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I think everyone near them has failed to imbue these kids with common fucking sense. I can tell because the one thing he has real control over is his ability to stop smoking weed, which will drastically reduce his chance of jail time, yet he thinks he's above being caught. I feel no need to detail any further to him why this is stupid if he's not willing to take common sense advice at face value. It's his life he wants to fuck up, so be it. Also, the "letting her impact your life" above your pos…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 02:36 PM
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The best part of his post: and she was right, it was a bad marriage. She just had the courage to call it. God, there are so many courageous women these days; how do they find the time? It's crazy how their courage seems to multiply the further the decimal point moves to the right. BP guys who remain BP after getting divorce raped must be suffering some form of Stockholm Syndrome.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 02:28 PM
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First: ditch the reefer until this shit blows over. If you can't, you're addicted. Second: See if you have old text messages from her that you can save. They may help exonerate claims based on their dates/times. Not much else at this point, until you can see what the exact claim is and work a defense from there. This is a little taste of the reality of why there's TRP and growing Men's Rights movements. The definition of rape is slowly being changed to include more innocuous interactions, data i…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 03:19 PM
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So much this. When you look at the results of pre-op and post-op suicide, you see that these people have serious body image issues that originate in the brain. They're just not happy with the body they have, regardless of what's between their legs. What else use to be a body image issue in the past? Anorexia, bulimia, but no one encouraged people to starve themselves because we had to accept who they were. We recognized these disorders as serious mental health concerns; but in the current feel-g…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 02:38 PM
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That's bullshit women are just as horny if not hornier! No, that's bullshit. "in terms of natural female hormonal / biochemical response there is no unaltered way a woman could ever make an accurate comparison to what a man’s baseline libido is" T makes you feel like fucking bitches, E makes bitches feel like getting fucked by you No, T is what makes men want to fuck bitches and bitches fuck men. E has nothing to do with women's sexual desire, that's all from androgens like T. Men have 12 - 17 t…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 06:38 PM
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I'm not sure why this is getting so many upvotes when this is literally the JBY mentality that have lead so many men to awful BP experiences and depression, and which Rollo warns about in The Rational Male. This is literally the mentality that lead all of us to TRP in the first place; our weird, quirky selves were failing hard at relationships with women. This is some empty, feel-good BP rhetoric. Every RP man is here because this type of mentality utterly failed them in the past. This is what M…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 05:53 PM
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My last relationship -- the one that jolted me out of my BP world -- was exactly this scenario. And I think this manifests in both sexes in the BP world -- it becomes this sort of victim/savior complex. Plenty of BP men are willing to play the victim until their unicorn shows up to make all the bad in the world go away -- just like mommy use to do. In my case, her ex-fiancee wasn't abusive, but he was big into cocaine and would ditch her in some real shady places when they'd go out. He and his b…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 04:15 PM
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After reading your post, I immediately thought of this book. While not everyone will gain from this book, for me this book was like looking into a mirror. If you have a high preponderance to do many of the following, read this book now: "Nice Guys" tend to be: Givers (state it makes them feel good), generosity is sign of being good Fix and care-take; if a person has a problem or need, nice guys will attempt to solve or fix Seek approval from others; seeking validation of others. Either to gain a…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 03:43 PM
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This right here. TRP is meant to understand the reality of women's sexual tendencies and how we can overcome that in the sexual playing field. That doesn't mean our entire lives should be centered around the pussy; the pussy is a side-quest for a meaningful life.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 03:20 PM
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Read the Rational Male. Never move in with someone unless you're married or are going to be married within 6 months. Also, in this day and age don't get married. I've been through my fair share of live-in relationships as a BP, and Rollo is 100% on point here. You lose so much of your power in the relationship when they know they're the one and only one you're coming home to every night. The sex will go down, the fights will increase, the excitement of seeing each other will diminish, and your p…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 03:10 PM
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TRP is truly freeing. As BP I would read this and get yet another level of anxiety when dealing with women. How to please them, am I doing it wrong, how can I be better, am I bad for wanting to please; unadulterated BP thought vomit. The hamster is a great gymnast, especially when you consider: "women feeling pressured to fake orgasms in order to appease a male partner, or in their words, 'to protect men's feelings.'" The notion of protecting a man's feelings, in the sexual arena, is a direct re…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 02:56 PM
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antiques shopping. The number one contributor to husbands dying before their wives; it's the preferred choice when considering the alternative. In honesty, this is an interesting read but to attribute this to "crazy bitches" seems ill-advised. Just call it like it is: this is normal women behavior. Most of what I'm reading here is par the course for average women. It's just a natural behavior for them, and not just the "crazy bitches".
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 03:46 PM
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This is not only a low effort post, but reads like a spiteful purple pill wet dream. This has very little Red Pill to it; after all, the whole story is "someone annoyed me so I took a shit on them". Why would you even answer her questions and smile; all that does is signal that you're interested in fielding more questions from her. None of this was necessary. The way a normal RPer would handle this: I am going to the bar to drink some cold brews and read/listen to this book. If anyone gets in th…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 09:18 PM
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So you started actually hanging out with her on the 18th and you think she's starting to seem like someone I could see myself rolling with. Bro, today is the 20th. You haven't even known her for two whole days. Slow your roll. I know the dry spells can be tough, but pump the breaks. Of course she seems like she's interested in everything you are interested in; that's because she's hit the wall: is comfortable jumping right into dating me She starts probing me for my views on relationships She hi…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 09:35 PM
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will love us the way we want to be loved. Read the Rational Male sooner rather than later. The answer is no. And it doesn't have to be a huge ordeal and we don't need deep soul searching about this fact. There's no need to lament the death of something that never existed in reality. That is literally an exercise in futility. You're young, both to TRP and in age, but you might want to consider that if something begins to feel unfulfilling, then it's probably just that. It's simple, really. But th…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 07:05 PM
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While I'm sure her want for comfort is an aspect of this, I believe there are other motivations as well. First, realize her definition of dad-bod is probably not the same as what the "average man" has. It's probably the difference between old wolverine and new wolverine. I would bet the picture on the left is her concept of dad bod. Second, I know I linked this the other day for a chuckle, but it has RP truths. What do women want: love, trust, a relationship of mutual trust? Fuck no, they want t…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 03:40 PM
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Ah, the old Dad bod movement. People who love the path of least resistance would eat this shit up, but here's some wisdom from the Brophessor on the reality of the situation. Yeah, his humor is pretty silly, but he drops some RP truths and it makes me laugh.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 03:13 PM
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Most bimbos don't even know how to cook Fact. I had a hookup back in December who couldn't properly cook mac n cheese from a box. She then laughed about how she was "playing such a good housewife" -- bitch, you can't even follow 4 simple steps. Her dream job: being the editor of a feminist magazine. Yeah, she was hot. No, I don't play with that kind of fire anymore. Those kinds of feminists are dangerous territory, since they're so keen on spotting men as rapists.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 03:58 PM
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The act of killing one's children is known as filicide. You can look up the statistics online, but here's one from Brown: Analysis: 32 Years of Filicide Arrests A father killing a son was the most likely (29.5 percent of cases), a mother killing a son (22.1 percent) follows. A mother was slightly more likely to kill a daughter (19.7 percent of cases) than a father was (18.1 percent). The rarest instances were stepmothers killing either a stepson (0.5 percent) or a stepdaughter (0.3 percent). Aga…
/r/MensRights10/03/17 07:04 PM
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By writing this letter, it has helped me feel better about my own situation. One thing that consistently helps me during the toughest of times is to write it all down. It's like drawing out the poison, while simultaneously searching for the deeper meaning and cause of the problem. I'm about to try Jordan Peterson's Self Authoring program to see if I can improve my path of success. He espouses a lot of great RP truths, so I figure I should give back as well as see what it's all about.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 06:58 PM
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Guys, lets be honest here: there's no statistical proof of women killing boys over girls. There's plenty of cases for both, and in this case she said she did it to be a better mother for her eldest child; who is a boy. Lets leave the baseless accusations to the feminists and try to operate with hard facts around here, please. For the integrity of Men's Rights, if nothing else. This was a crazy, shitty person doing a crazy, shitty thing. The real travesty is how these kids were never separated fr…
/r/MensRights10/03/17 06:50 PM
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A great reminder, yet not at all surprising when you consider Donna Hylton. Of course a paranoid schizophrenic who attempted murder would be acceptable; they already praise a woman who is known to have committed murder and was in jail for it. But we live in a time of blind forgiveness. There's always an excuse, and the excuse for every bad woman is the tyrannical patriarchy. When you hold the system accountable for people's actions instead of the people themselves, then you can always find excus…
/r/MensRights10/03/17 06:23 PM
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I have a couple female friends who aren't that attractive. Make no mistake, one of the two parties is interested in fucking. If it's not you, it's them. If she's friendzoned you, then you're operating in a way to suit her. If you're always available at a moments notice, there to pick her up when she's too drunk, and a shoulder to cry on then you're simply being used for both convenience and validation. If you find no interest in fucking them, this is great because they'll talk in ways that suits…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 05:58 PM
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My brother and I grew up without our fathers. Separate fathers, same mother. Not too long ago he equated their relationship to "emotional incest" in regards to the relationship he had with our mother. I don't think she was particularly abusive, but he does make a good point that he was expected to take the father-type role in the family; since he was the older child. The more I look back and consider it, the more I recognize that as kids we were required to act like men and "do our jobs" to help…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 07:24 PM
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I think you have already realized the bullet you dodged, but make sure you take this lesson and always use it in future interactions: never stay with a near blackout drunk chick. Tell her to call someone else next time. Some people are saying you need to upgrade your friends, which is probably true. But blaming all your issues on external factors is the way of children and women. I'm more concerned with you upgrading yourself. You should really spend some time ruminating on why you felt lonely; …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 04:00 PM
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Gold digging whores are the wife beaters for men Bill Burr always makes me laugh and slowly instills RP truths out there for those with a sense of humor to pick up on.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 03:21 PM
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Save history of the shit she says (the stuff you notice, don't go out of your way to find this shit). Don't give a fuck. "But why the fuck would I save her shit if I am not supposed to give a fuck" you might ask. Sure, in reality, the shit she says has zero impact on your life; none, nada, zero, zip. It should have no sway on your frame and definition of who you are as a person; it literally has no real world repercussions. She is a drop in a sea of 7 billion people; she's a nobody. HOWEVER, if …
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 05:54 PM
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Well, notice that she states it in a way that blame was not placed on either party. Most likely because it was probably a huge part due to her being too tired all the time or other excuses because she just saw him as weak. While it certainly takes two to tango, we can only hold ourselves accountable, and he certainly was too beta to start controlling the relationship for his benefit or move on with life. I've read stories here on TRP about men salvaging their marriage by hitting the gym, increas…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 09:15 PM
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Why did you leave out the first sentence of the one you cited? It says "My husband and I hadn't slept together in two years". That's some mega beta shit right there. If your marriage is in this state you need to start focusing on increasing your SMV hard, spending less time at home, and instilling the dread game to make her realize you have options outside the marriage if things don't get back on track. I think the more damning one is: “You don’t know what you are missing when the only guy you’v…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 05:11 PM
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You can still game her, but the game has changed from PUA style gaming to doubt and dread game. Despite the swirling vortex of irrational anger that her hamster has created by the sock incident, there's still a large part of her that doubts her thoughts; this is why women constantly require external validation from friends and often ask: am I crazy? So you play off the doubt. I guarantee every time a woman has some thought that something is going wrong, they still have plenty of doubt about thei…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:39 PM
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You've got way too much ego investment in women if it stings. Don't invest your pride and ego into women, it will never end well. You had a before her, you'll have an after her; enjoy the journey but understand AWALT is more than just girls fucking around. The glass is already broken, so when she turns out to be a slut/cheater just think "of course" and move on. Her actions have no effect on your frame, and if it does that means your ego is still tied to women. That means external validation. Sa…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:00 PM
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Whether or not you want to pursue women who are in any type of relationship is a personal choice. My only concern with your reasoning is that you don't want to be a backup plan. What this says to me is you're still investing far too much ego and pride into women, and you actually don't fully understand AWALT. AWALT isn't simply about understanding that women like to fuck around: "Women, amirite? AWALT". It goes deeper than that; AWALT is about understanding that at some point the shit will go so…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 05:53 PM
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That's easy, coming from someone who clearly doesn't suffer from depression. I can barely get out of bed in the morning, I'm so crippled by my depression. What's the point of life: wake up, work, eat, sleep, repeat. I literally have no control over my emotions and you're telling me to just be happy. No one loves me. The only people who understand me are my 12 cats. /s Thank god for TRP. Above would be the atypical response in LPT or any other subreddit. I've seen it time and again in LPT; someon…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 05:50 PM
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An instant classic, and a great reminder. If a woman ever brings up this type of topic, it's always better to listen instead of immediately shutting down the conversation with a hard line opinion. They'll openly admit to red flags, then you can make your move based on what they say. Maintaining a playful, nonchalant demeanor while probing further into the topic will result in a lot of free information about who this person really is. Whatever type of relationships you pursue with women, whether …
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 03:41 PM
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Agreed. I'm seeing some people projecting their own weak frames who have no understanding of where confidence comes from, and think that confidence and delusion are mutually exclusive. A lot of confidence can be borne from some form of delusion, but that doesn't mean it won't work. Where you run into problems is when you outwardly project arrogance; otherwise, you should believe your cock is a god given gift to all women. There is no real objective rating for who "the best" is. I see people here…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 07:30 PM
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I can tell it's a hit piece when she equated TRP to Incels. Incels is a cesspit of pity and defeatist mentalities; TRP is a place where you come to learn how to improve yourself. And while quite a bit of TRP is aimed at sexual strategy, what you end up finding is a lot of truths beyond that which leads to your growth as a man. The real growth comes from not only understanding better sexual strategy, but from understanding that your measurement of manhood comes from more than just the ability to …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 05:53 PM
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Not fucked at all, since all you need to learn from this story is to maintain your frame. The dude tried way too hard once he sensed some interest. Just stop trying to be "a perfect gentleman", and you're ahead of the game compared to most men. Another lesson: be the man and make the decisions. She's looking for him to take the lead, but all he can do is be the follower. She's not interested in a follower.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 05:06 PM
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There's a difference between things getting tough and her throwing childish tantrums that you allow to escalate. I don't think you'll honestly start to grasp any of what there is to learn here until she completely wrecks you. And yes, you do need to have the mentality that at any moment you can and will find another girl. Otherwise, you're always afraid of what you might do wrong, what's the magic code to get things right, on and on with all the blue pill vomit and anxiety. You had a life before…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 06:46 PM
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Everyone loses their virginity, she is not your special life partner because of this. Read the sidebar a few times. You need abundance mentality NOW. Here's your biggest problem: But when I'm acting as a man "should" we clash more This is because acting as a man and being a man are two very different things. Holding frame when she's trying to throw a fit is being a man, arguments spiraling out of control is not being a man. You're failing every single one of her shit tests, this is not being a m…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 06:35 PM
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The rationalization a Blue Pill will make never ceases to amaze. I liked the part about how he understands her insecurities about another women, as he use to be the insecure one. But in regards to her being "selfish" by not wanting a FFM, another person says: It's not "selfish". It's an emotional reaction she has absolutely no control over. So he was able to overcome his insecurities, but she's incapable of doing so. Also, clearly he is insecure since he doesn't have the confidence to please his…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 05:58 PM
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A good book about giving less fucks is "The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck" by Mark Manson. I'm seeing now a post about a year ago here in TRP about it, but I think it's worth reminding people of it. It's about giving less fucks about things that don't matter and reallocating your fucks properly to things that do matter. The fact is, as men we need some sort of fucks to give; what's tricky is learning where to place our fucks. Learn to place your fucks in things that stay within the realm of in…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 03:33 PM
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Bill Burr says it best: There are no feminists in a house fire. Granted, that stand-up is about him defending the gender pay gap instead of acknowledging it for what it is: a myth. Still, he's one of the most red pill comedians out there.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 06:07 PM
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Definitely going to agree with the original source being PIED. I've researched a lot of this as my porn addiction started when I was about 11 or 12, so a 16 year battle. Some are recommending 3 months of monk mode for a reset, but I've heard up to 6+ months is necessary depending on how young of an age you start, and how long you've been addicted to it. You could probably use some of the resources at NoFap and PornFree to get a better understanding of the serious psychological ramifications that…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 04:58 PM
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Definitely LMR. Your response is spot on. I'm confused why we're even analyzing this as moral dilemma. Her actions are all that matter; after all, no one expects a healthy LTR from a random ONS bar hookup. That's no basis for a "real" relationship. This is ASD -- she wants to know that this time it's going to be special; it's going to mean something. An alternative response: "I don't go home with just any girl I see; lets see where this goes". You're still not making promises and you're also sig…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 05:23 PM
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wonder That's a weird way to spell "stronger".
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 04:08 PM
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It sounds like you still have some apprehension about the Red Pill. What I found during my switch from Blue Pill to Red Pill is this: while the application of the Red Pill is personal, all of the basic concepts are true. If you find the way someone applies TRP doesn't resonate with you, then you apply it a different way. But the fundamental understandings of how women operate, the male-female dynamics, stoicism, etc. are all true. The more you read, the more you'll see new understandings of past…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 03:48 PM
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It was only a couple months ago where they stated that male birth control was having some side effects that showed it wasn't quite ready to go to market just yet. It was funny, as most women ran with the notion that these men were giving up, that it was too hard for them, and they were too weak to handle birth control; of course, always looking to pat themselves on the back even if it ended with two broken arms. The reality: you'd be hard-pressed to find a single man who wouldn't be using male b…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 06:26 PM
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Great advice. I was a deep introvert in high school, and not much better in college. After college I immediately had to take a sales job. Learning how to take 100 "no's" to get 1 "yes" is invaluable to learning how to become more extroverted. You learn not to care about responses until you get the response you desire. So many people get caught up in their current identity, they don't realize they can change it.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 07:48 PM
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Mistake number 3 would be listening to randoms on the internet. Not to go all Tsun Tzu here, but knowing the enemy is key. Not that she's necessarily "the enemy", but you maintaining a friendship for the sake of growing your knowledge of the other sex is not a mistake. A mistake would be if you tied your worth into ever getting back together with her again. It's the same reason why I stay subscribed to TwoX -- you can learn a lot about the hamstering that's going on, and see the bizarre reality …
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 06:19 PM
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I can't read all of this shit, it's just a personal circle-jerk. But what I gathered from reading bits and pieces of this is that you have so much fucking work to do on yourself it's really hard to even say where you need to begin, but I'll try. Read the sidebars. Re-read the sidebars. "I had an idealized notion of romance" -- your notion of romance is 100% wrong. Say this every morning when you wake up and each night before bed, then also 100 times throughout the day; because this notion has ma…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 05:37 PM
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It could be a little of column A, a little of column B. Column A: Teacher-bias. Like the previously BP teacher said below, teachers are possibly more prone to leniency for grading for women. This could be for a myriad of reasons, from the ingrained belief that women are perceived as more studious in class, the fear of the emotional ramifications -- I've not seen a man cry to his professor about grades, but have seen women do this -- or simply they follow the feminine narrative that women are bei…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 06:46 PM
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Seems like a lot of the counter-points to this post seem to be missing some of the key points as to why this is such a staple of TRP. If you're lifting simply to score babes, you're missing the point. If you think that lifting should somehow become easier, you're missing the point. You should always be pushing yourself to be stronger. To quote Thomas Paine: "What we obtain too cheap, we esteem too lightly: it is dearness only that gives every thing its value." By "dearness", he means that for wh…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 11:07 PM
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