Onikiri Archive

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3	Talking to girls- i feel like im doing all the work. That's the whole point of a date, to get to know her. You cannot get to know someone through text/social media. If she's waiting for you to ask her out, you might be losing your chance. Just ask her out.	/r/seduction	20/05/15 08:45 PM
5	I keep realizing too late she was interested I've noticed it a lot also. Girls will talk with me when I'm randomly out, but I'm so focused on doing something else I'll just give your "canned" response and continue. Then later I'll realize I should've opened the conversation. Doh! Like I mentioned, it happens a lot when I'm focusing on getting something done. But when I'm "in the moment" I notice I'm more open to having conversation with people. So, experience helps. And also, stop thinking about what you have to do later, where you're goin…	/r/seduction	27/03/15 01:44 PM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/15 This is assuming that they are honest. But not all women are, which I've learned the hard way.	/r/seduction	18/03/15 09:03 PM
2	Rejection after rejection takes its toll. You approached 3 girls, which means you had 3 interactions with them. What could you have said / not said in those interactions? How could you have acted better? What could you have done to look better? Those are the things you need to focus on. Not whether or not you got a number.	/r/seduction	18/03/15 08:10 PM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/15 What are some common red flags that you should notice in women before you invest more into them? By this I mean identifying if they're emotionally unstable, have past baggage, playing multiple guys, etc.	/r/seduction	18/03/15 07:36 PM
1	Rejected friendzone request This is what's happening to me right now. Girl I was interested in failed to mention she had a BF until I found out myself recently. Called her out on it and she said "guess we can't just be friends." My reply? Nope. She blocked me on all social media and said she won't contact me again. What did I get this morning? A friendly text from her about some show we talked about before. I deleted it immediately. You got the right attitude IMO. Just ignore her, unless she offers something that you think…	/r/seduction	16/03/15 07:39 PM
4	How to approach waitresses/shopkeepers working at the counter? I'd say to start some small talk. "How's your day?" "That's a stunning necklace." etc. If they're receptive to that and return the small talk, just ask her out.	/r/seduction	12/03/15 07:54 PM
1	How to stop investing in girls more than they invest in me? Same here man, don't think. Just do! All about your attitude. I'll be honest I do think about this one girl a lot. But after I made a new approach and got a new number, it gave me an amazing confidence boost, and even though I knew in my head that the girl I was stuck on wasn't "the only one", getting out and having a successful approach reinforced that thought. The new number led to nowhere, but remembering how I felt after doing more approaches gives me more motivation.	/r/seduction	12/03/15 07:47 PM
1	How to stop investing in girls more than they invest in me? Hey man I feel the exact same way about this one girl. Because her and I have so much in common, it's hard to just "throw her away". But like you, she lives far and slightly different mentally. What has helped me was to simply try to focus on other women. I've been out and approached other girls, gotten other numbers, and it has helped take my mind off "that" girl. Yes, she still lingers in my mind because of our strong connection, but you need to focus on progress.	/r/seduction	12/03/15 01:29 PM
1	Unfortunately, the More I Like Them, the More Thought I Put Into it. I'm the same way. I lost a very attractive girl because I was over doing it. I had this attitude that "everyone else is trying to get her because she's hot". So I tried harder, even though it went against what I was supposed to do. I learned a lot from it though. Don't treat her any differently. You might want her more because she's attractive, but it's all in your mindset.	/r/seduction	09/03/15 09:08 PM
1	At 26, is it too late for me to build a new network of friends? No, it's not. Like others have said. Focus on your interests (hopefully one that involves other people). Join a group that focuses on that interest. For me, it is cars. I'm currently living in a rural town (compared to my hometown, Houston). I knew nobody here, but I found out about some local car meets via online forums. I went to one car meet, met some people, found out about more meets, met some more people. Now there's a group of guys that I hang out with most weekends, and we enjoy what we …	/r/seduction	09/03/15 01:36 PM