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| 124 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory here | OnlineProfile69 | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 04:27 PM |
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| 1 | Question for all, what requirements do you have in a partner and do you think they are unrealistic?Marriage - maybe. I would like to start a family someday. I don't see myself lowering those standards. I'd rather be single and have my fun if I had to settle for a woman less than. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Question for all, what requirements do you have in a partner and do you think they are unrealistic?Im 25 and on my way to a well earning career. I'm 5'11 and I've been rated as a 6.5 on that truerateme sub. I'm well built and athletic. I'm looking for a woman that is "slim thick" (lol) with at least an average face whom I'm attracted to. Ideally with a college degree, no liberal commie types, no drug habits, not an alcoholic, hasn't slept around a ton in the past (the odd hookup here and there is whatever), honest, loyal, doesn't require a bunch of attention from other men. Someone I can have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 02:26 AM |
| 8 | Non redpill individuals what advice would you give to an average dude having trouble with womenI can't think of any friends or peers I have that don't shower or brush their teeth. I really question where you ladies are finding these men that don't do the absolute bare minimum. Are you picking up homeless men in the side alley? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Non redpill individuals what advice would you give to an average dude having trouble with womenLook as good as you can. Gym, fashion, grooming Approach women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadrip Sonny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 06:34 PM |
| 13 | A man has no value in today's worldMasculinity and good dick will never go out of style | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 12:47 PM |
| – | If most couples are “ looksmatched “then doesn’t that mean beauty is objective ?Understood that it doesn't just happen. I have a gym routine that has helped me build a substantial amount of muscle over the years. Same goes for many of my peers, so I understand what it tales. That being said, 2-3 times a week doing squats, hip thrusts, and some lunges for an hour is all it would take. 2-3 hours a week on lower body. That's extremely doable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 03:08 AM |
| 5 | If most couples are “ looksmatched “then doesn’t that mean beauty is objective ?Dude fr. A nice ass will get a girl far. Most of the girls need to get in the gym and get they booty up. They can bag a nice dude even if they're less than lucky in other departments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 11:40 PM |
| 0 | Adult Entertainment Industry Mega ThreadNeither a Christian conservative nor a feminist. I’m a man that likes to have a lot of sex outside of marriage (gasp). I could show you plenty of research to support my claims, but you don’t care about any of that. Porn withdrawal is extremely common. Go look at all of the guys trying to get off of it on subs like pornfree and nofap and see how they’re feeling. Neurochemistry is absolutely affected when watching super normal stimuli. Research shows that regular porn users literally have a shrunk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 02:09 PM |
| -2 | Adult Entertainment Industry Mega ThreadI don’t think that super stimuli is good in even small doses. And in my experience people don’t just watch porn “occasionally” I think getting the job done without porn is a much better alternative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 02:02 PM |
| 12 | Attractive people, unattractive people and "breaking dating rules"It always makes me laugh when I see these super “woke” girls on social media dating/hooking up with hardcore trumpers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 05:38 AM |
| -2 | Adult Entertainment Industry Mega ThreadA lot of good research to back my claims actually. It saddens me how far in denial people on this site are when it comes to this particular topic. You're only poisoning your mind and body when you indulge. It's like drinking salt water when you're thirsty. Don't shoot the messenger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 04:46 AM |
| -2 | Adult Entertainment Industry Mega Threadhttps://www.yourbrainonporn.com/research/ If your serious, this page has all you need to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Adult Entertainment Industry Mega ThreadPorn addiction is rampant. Causing limp dick, mental illness, and brain damage. Don't at me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 01:06 AM |
| 1 | The only men getting consistent action are men with no/ loose standardsGenetics are a big part, for sure. But there are plenty of ways we can actively max them out. Lifting weights and fashion being the two biggest imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 11:42 PM |
| 3 | The only men getting consistent action are men with no/ loose standardsYeah. It's not that novel of an idea that Hot girls want to have sex with Hot guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 11:41 PM |
| 2 | The only men getting consistent action are men with no/ loose standardsI think you just have to be realistic about your own SMV. All men are sexually attracted to Hot girls but not all men are Hot guys. If you're a Hot guy you're gonna be able to get laid with those Hot girls pretty regularly, being that you have some form of "game" as they call it. If you're not a Hot guy you need to be more realistic and "lower" your standards. Maybe shoot for an LTR. In my experience pretty girls are more likely to have sex with a guy not quite on her looks level in a committed … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Men - would you be satisfied with a lifetime N=1 if she was N=1 as well?Yeah, my girl is N=1 and she’s fantastic in almost all regards including in bed. But my N=9 and I just wouldn’t be satisfied without more variety eventually in my life. Honestly I wish I wasn’t this way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 03:36 AM |
| 14 | Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what?I use to think in the way that you're describing. That she should sleep with me 2-3 dates in etc. I now understand why it would take longer for a woman, and honestly it's better when it's a little more prolonged than that. However, when a woman uses withholding sex to secure commitment from a man, it does feel manipulating. But I have gotten better at being able to determine whether we are building a friendship and emotional intimacy up to a point that she's comfortable and we can enjoy each o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ?The difference between 20% and 12% is pretty huge for most people. Me included. There are also a lot of accounts of this online. Jaw gets sharper, cheeks thin out some revealing more cheek bone, and under chin gets tighter. But I'm lazy asf right now and can't be assed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ?Yea I'm around 18-20 and I still have defined facial features. Although I know I know I would look better/more chiseled at 10-12% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ?HAve I? I just while heartedly disagree that women put less emphasis on appearance. And most men make the mistake of thinking this and wonder why they aren't having much success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 07:47 PM |
| 9 | Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ?Because you massively underestimate the importance of your physical appearance in your dating and sex life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 07:19 PM |
| 7 | Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ?And this is why men fail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 06:28 PM |
| 18 | Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ?Hard to have a great face when its covered in blubber | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | is it me or are people these days more afraid of aging than before?Im mostly referring to women after college 22+ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 10:14 PM |
| 3 | is it me or are people these days more afraid of aging than before?If you have wrinkles and ailments have 30 you're doing something very wrong lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 09:32 PM |
| 1 | is it me or are people these days more afraid of aging than before?They really don't care about how old you are. It's more so about, do you look hot or not? Obviously it can be more difficult to look hot as you age. But handsome men can pull it off. OTher factors come in to play as a man gets older too of course (Lifestyle/status/gravitas). The women here have a strong emotional reaction when they hear girls like older men etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 09:29 PM |
| 9 | My LTRs either die in the first 2-3 months or live long enough to have no sexual attraction in them (not even long, 8 months). How do you keep sexual attraction alive when the relationship is good?Listen. I find my girlfriend to be very hot. She turns me on. But if she's not acting the way I want her to in bed and fucking me a certain way, I too lose interest and get a little turned off. So what did I do? I had a conversation with her about what I like and what I want from her. Now I've coached her some and I reinforce when she does what I like. It's getting to a point now that it's just natural for her and we're both having a great time. We're fucking more and the sex is way better now a… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 06:22 PM |
| 3 | How Important Is Sex In A Relationship, Actually?This lady speaking facts. I've had that "her role is passive" sex and that is nothing compared to a girl who is engaged, creative, and knows how to fuck you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 09:23 PM |
| 6 | How Important Is Sex In A Relationship, Actually?How about sex and service + good company? Just as men have to bring good sex and provisioning and make her laugh and be charming and well liked and | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Only Having Major Body Composition Changes Has An Effect On Dating/RelationshipsNot to mention almost impossible to maintain. 12-13% seems doable though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Only Having Major Body Composition Changes Has An Effect On Dating/RelationshipsOh I see lol! Someone in this sub once said “life starts at 10% bodyfat” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Only Having Major Body Composition Changes Has An Effect On Dating/RelationshipsOPs argument was that it is only effective when obese. My counter argument is that even at “healthy” BF levels you’re not optimizing your aesthetics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 11:20 PM |
| 6 | Only Having Major Body Composition Changes Has An Effect On Dating/RelationshipsWrong. Going from 18 to 12% body fat will change your face dramatically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 10:08 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Being the object of visceral lust is the only way to have a truly satisfying sexual relationshipI feel this. Ugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 10:04 PM |
| 1 | The redpill is not accurately portrayed in this subThat is not how averages work, Einstein | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 10:19 PM |
| 2 | The redpill is not accurately portrayed in this subWhy do people here obsessed over height? After an average height is reached facial handsomeness takes over ten fold in terms of attractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 04:21 AM |
| 3 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereMaybe 3-5 broken frames. I understand her desire for me is contingent on still being able to produce tingles | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 12:53 AM |
| 5 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereEh, I’ve also broken a lot of rules that guys around here advocate for 🤷🏻 | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereNo, she doesn’t think she’s beautiful. She thinks she’s cute. Admittedly I’m probably a bit above average in appearance. She says she thought I was a model when I walked in to the gym ( she worked at the front desk). I don’t know about all that though. No, I’m broke as shit, I’m a student | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 12:43 AM |
| 2 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory here"Loving voluntarily and not compulsorily" That's it right there. The most important part of my RP journey, has been learning how to control and harness my emotions for my own benefit. That's why I laugh at these guys coming on here telling me "You'll be back in a few years" "The oneitis is strong." I'm choosing to love her, and I make sure she loves me just a little bit more than I do her. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 12:35 AM |
| 3 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereThat’s a fact. I’ve seen that take place within my own family | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 10:52 PM |
| 1 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereOkay, my bad. I agree this relationship of course would change in ways if we were to stay together and had to make real life decisions together. I have a lot of shit birds commenting on this post | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 10:49 PM |
| 2 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereI’m not 23, and I don’t plan on being with her forever. People here either need to work on their reading comprehension, or they need to read the post before offering their half assed feedback. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 10:39 PM |
| 2 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory here3 and a half years since I read the rationale male editions 1 and 2 actually | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 10:32 PM |
| 0 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory here100%. Very Red pilled Neo | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 10:20 PM |
| 2 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereIs this satire? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 10:07 PM |
| 0 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereIt’s more likely she’s been exposed to what a committed relationship looks like, and it’s more likely she’s been exposed to a father figure who has taught her respect. How is that relevant? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 10:05 PM |
| 3 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereNo it’s not lol. We’re hardwired to spread our seed far and wide | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 10:01 PM |
| 2 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereFor sure. While she’s a great girl and we have fun, the relationship isn’t a main priority for me. My career, body, and mind are my constant focus. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 09:12 PM |
| 5 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereYep, she knew a month in. Has decided to stay for now | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 09:09 PM |
| 4 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereI graduate in a year and a half, and I’m sure I’ll relocate for a job. Also, she wants marriage and kids. I want neither of those things, so we will have to part ways eventually | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 08:59 PM |
| 2 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereI’ve kept a certain amount of emotional distance. I won’t be with this girl in about a year or two | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 07:56 PM |
| 19 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereThat’s fine, I don’t plan on seeing them in the afterlife | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 07:54 PM |
| 2 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereOf course. I won’t be with her in 10 or 20 years | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 07:52 PM |
| 2 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereHaha hardly. She could leave me tomorrow and I’d be cool in a week | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereCute face, hour glass figure. Piercing blue eyes | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 07:51 PM |
| 5 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereIf you read my post all the way through you would know I don’t plan to ‘put a ring on it.’ I don’t believe in marriage | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 07:50 PM |
| 1 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereI did. She knows | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 07:49 PM |
| 16 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereNever did I say it was all wrong | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 07:29 PM |
| 9 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereI don’t want to get married or have children | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 07:27 PM |
| 0 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereBelieve what you will. I’m giving you the situation as I see it, through red eyes. I know for a fact there was one guy before me. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 07:26 PM |
| 16 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereCouldn’t have said it better. Most of the concepts are sound, but real world girls behave and make decisions on a WIDE spectrum within the concepts. The values the girl was raised with, her personality, and your SMV will determine her placement. Overdosing on red and painting women in the worst light possible is a big problem here. Cheers brother | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 07:24 PM |
| 9 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereQuite mistaken on that. I’m observing her qualities and how she moves in the world, that’s all. I’ve thought about cutting her loose several times so she can go find her husband but she wants to stay with me despite me not wanting traditiona wife/picket fence | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 06:55 PM |
| 3 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereDope analogy 🤜🏻 | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 06:54 PM |
| 2 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereI hear you, it’s something to keep in mind. While she is great, especially right now while I’m in school, I don’t plan on being with her in the long run. Which I’ve been honest with her about. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 06:53 PM |
| 8 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereI know, it’s sad, but she already knows and has chosen to stay | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 06:42 PM |
| 55 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory herePerhaps you’re right. I wish there was more of a focus on vetting for good women in this space, I mostly just see doom and gloom she’s going to cheat on you with Chad rhetoric | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 05:38 PM |
| 2 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereOh I agree, just giving you an example of how she values me | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 05:04 PM |
| 2 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereThat first sentence makes sense to me. I tease her constantly in a fun way, I’m non needy, and I have a lot of shit going for me. I’m either passing her ‘tests’ already or she doesn’t feel the need to. Thanks bro | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 04:57 PM |
| 1 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereI think it is a combination of the two. She has told me she’s worried she will never date another guy “as hot as me” | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 04:57 PM |
| 2 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereThat first sentence makes sense to me. I tease her constantly in a fun way, I’m non needy, and I have a lot of shit going for me. I’m either passing her ‘tests’ already or she doesn’t feel the need to. Thanks bro | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 04:56 PM |
| 67 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereWow, yes, this is spot on man. I think I knew all of this already, but it’s great to see my thoughts and my theory confirmed by like minded guys. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 04:54 PM |
| 2 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereA way of testing a mans frame. Is he really a man or a mouse? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Do some girls actually enjoy giving BJs?If you don't think she's hot why are you fucking w her my guy :/ | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Should HVM be allowed to Cheat since they have "options"He said verbatim last night that he has never cheated. Also, I think in the bible it talks about not comitting adultry with a man's wife. But I could be wrong, as I personally am not a Christian | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 05:37 PM |
| 6 | Why are so many young men acting asexual?Just wrong dude. Porn fucks your brain up and will make you impotent. Gtfo | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Insecure about being baldHonestly dude, this happened to me at 21. I've been shaving since 21 and I fucking hate it. Yeah I can get laid, get girls, and live my life. But the top notch girls don't look at me the way they did when I had hair. I good head of hair is a major SMV boost. Losing your hair can knock you down 2 points. Just facts. Good news is, you don't have to listen to the "just shave it" bros like I did. If it's just starting for you, get on finasteride and apply minoxidil once a day for at least a year to … | /r/askTRP | 28/03/21 11:53 AM |
| 7 | Do you agree with arguments this man makes?I disagree with this. The highest value men that the girls fawn over are usually in there 30s, with it then tapering off late 30s. Go look at the sexiest men alive, they're all in their 30s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 04:14 PM |
| 1 | People lower their looks standards to get what they actually want.https://digital.com/how-to-become-an-entrepreneur/maslows-hierarchy/ Sex is very clearly a need. I keep seeing this denied on here. Again sex is a need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Time from cold approach to sexDo you sneak the lunch date in 2nd then generally? | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 07:49 AM |
| 5 | There is no separate casual sex and relationship market.Most people know they should eat healthy, in fact a lot of people do eat healthy, but will have a couple of cheat meals throughout the month. I think this is analogous to the girls that want to date Nice Billy but every so often Chad is irresistible thus they have a "cheat" meal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 12:40 PM |
| 2 | What the hypergamous groups teach women about dating does NOT work.You're not wrong. If we really dig a girl we're gonna pay for her at the start | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 03:22 PM |
| 3 | What is your end-goal, exactly? Are you doing anything to reach that goal, and are you successful?And what is that? if you don't mind me asking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 04:15 PM |
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