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| 289 | Why on earth to pickmeishas/libfems think porn, casual hookups, and kinks are "empowering"? | LibFem Logic | OnlySpirit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 12:45 AM |
| 85 | This sub and others like it made me realize I'm not actually crazy. Thank you. | LEVEL UP | OnlySpirit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 05:31 AM |
| 25 | When did it become normalized to conflate violence with sex? | DISCUSSION | OnlySpirit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 07:20 AM |
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| 33 | Loving mother trying to help her teenage son recover from porn addiction that cause COCSA...filthy reddit men think porn is normal for kidsMy older sibling sexually abused me when I was 9-14 and now as an adult I've realized it's because he was most likely addicted to porn. It turned him into a complete sex addict from the age of 12 and there were no other females around for him to try out his pornsick fantasies on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:11 AM |
| 112 | My friends and I love this one: this LVM told me he didn’t believe in condoms on a first date and when I ended the date he unraveled.sad little man boy* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 09:04 PM |
| 7 | Remembering my costumer service days likeOh god, I would rather scoop dog shit for a living than have to go back to that. I swear I have PTSD from years of working customer service jobs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 05:16 PM |
| 12 | Why are some men with respectable jobs such assholes? Wish those in their field new what assholes they wereIt's hard for me to trust female doctors at this point too, because medical school still teaches that women are basically incubators/sex objects and it's okay to sexually assault us "for our own good" and many female doctors are brainwashed into believing it's fine or are bullied/coerced/incentivized into treating patients that way. And people who say male doctors can be trusted and there's nothing sexual about it simply because they're a "professional" and took an oath can fuck off. They're sti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:32 AM |
| 29 | Why are some men with respectable jobs such assholes? Wish those in their field new what assholes they wereI can't tell you how many times I've been sexually assaulted by male doctors simply because they got me, a young female, in a room alone with the door closed. Suddenly "exams" that simulated rape (groping/genital exams) or other things like taking my clothes off for no reason and had nothing to do with what I was there for became "standard procedure". And it's not just GPs and the like. I once went to a chiropractor who was very highly recommended in my area to help with a shoulder injury and al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:13 AM |
| 76 | I bet he’s fun at partiesFunny how men always say they don't "need" women yet their number one priority seems to be constantly chasing pussy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 08:41 PM |
| 8 | From "The Gift of Fear" - FDS advice is bitchy and RIGHTI always ask myself "would this guy be smiling at me so much/treating me this 'nicely' if I was a man?" If the answer is no (which it usually is), I stop engaging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 08:32 PM |
| 6 | Men are more violent when there are more women aroundYes, exactly. I can't tell you how much this rhetoric was rammed down my throat as a teenager and in my early 20s. I'm queer and I've seen a lot of psychologists due to chronic depression and PTSD and instead of trying to help me with what I was there for, they all pulled this Freudian "evolutionary psychology" on me and tried to convince me I couldn't possibly have no interest in fucking men because it was my biological destiny to "MaKe BaBiEs". A lot of brainwashed female psychs tried to pull … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 08:28 PM |
| 42 | Men are more violent when there are more women aroundI really don't buy this "evolutionary psychology" explanation. More women = more targets of violence. Regardless of how many men there are "competing for mates". Sounds like they're low key trying to normalize violent male behavior because of some sort of genetic link to the animal kingdom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 04:43 PM |
| 51 | This POS thinks his argument over whether or not his GF should have to serve him is light hearted.Assuming this douche canoe doesn't have hooks for hands, he's perfectly capable of making himself a grilled cheese sandwich if he's hungry. Sounds like this guy was born in 1865. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:09 AM |
| 59 | From "The Gift of Fear" - FDS advice is bitchy and RIGHTI'm beginning to perceive the word bitch as a compliment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 01:35 AM |
| 87 | From "The Gift of Fear" - FDS advice is bitchy and RIGHTI've found that the most respectful men I've ever met never smiled at me. They were polite, but in the same way they would be to a strange man. Men typically do not smile at other men. A man who approaches me with a big smile plastered on his face immediately sets off my creep alarm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 01:33 AM |
| 8 | Yikes! Predator exposed 😐"I'm successful I drive a Mercedes." Yeah? I drive a Mustang. Checkmate, motherfucker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 08:18 PM |
| 24 | Old pervs have no shame 🤮This reminded me of something that happened at my first job. I was a hostess at a restaurant and I often had to go back and forth to the kitchen to help the servers run food during the dinner rush. There was one guy at a table who dropped his fork (quite obviously on purpose) under the table and then very conspicuously looked up my skirt when he ducked down to pick it up. He was like 40. I was 16. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 08:18 PM |
| 9 | How to reject a guy?The best suggestion that I have is to just not be nice to men at all. Smile as little as possible, keep a straight face, don't ever indulge any of their bullshit, don't make friendly chit-chat. This is honestly the only thing I've found which has helped in any way. I never smile or make eye contact with men anymore so they can't intentionally misconstrue my behavior as interest. I act as disinterested and indifferent to them as possible, barely even acknowledging their existence. I've had to dea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:15 PM |
| 20 | The classy way to deal with uninvited attention from a stranger you don't knowHonestly, I've found that the most effective way to shut them down is to ignore. Don't even look at them. These creeps want attention from women, regardless of whether it's good or bad. They see it as a victory if they can get your attention and garner a response of some kind, even if it's glaring at them or flipping them off or telling them to f*ck off. But ignoring them? They can't stand that. I don't think there's anything they hate more than not existing to a woman they find attractive. So f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | When did it become normalized to conflate violence with sex?I despise dating apps and I will never use them. It's the stupidest thing ever. Like an online meat market. I remember when Tinder first came out and everyone had it, I thought it was pretty lame. The whole concept of trying to find a partner based on a picture and a short bio and discarding someone with the swipe of a finger seems so shallow to me. It's like dating with an extremely capitalist mindset. Like you're shopping for some other disposable item and whatever relationship *might* form is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 01:31 AM |
| 4 | When did it become normalized to conflate violence with sex?Yeah I agree with you. Social media has greatly cheapened human relationships while also increasing instant gratification, so I can definitely see the disconnect. I remember Limewire too, and Windows 94. I specifically remember people behaving differently in their relationships and interactions with others around 2005 when social media got really big. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 11:54 PM |
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