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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
48	If you still live your life around the mindset "But what would my future HVM think about this?" - you are still stuck in that Pickme mode. This mindset of “what would HVM think about…” is rampant in the leveling up community, you totally nailed it. I don’t think women realize this is actually pick me behavior! Soo glad I broke free of this thinking recently.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/03/22 12:50 PM
114	Yes, you are. 💋 The fact that he went out of his way to NOT compliment you (when you actually did dress up). I find this behavior from men appalling.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/22 10:04 AM
24	Why do dating apps bring out the worst in men? \| the guardian article RIGHT?! It’s hard to explain this to people who are not actively in the dating pool. Partnered/married people just assume I have a plethora of quality options because of dating apps. But this author perfectly distilled all the problems with OLD into this single paragraph. Wow.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/22 09:36 PM
465	Why do dating apps bring out the worst in men? \| the guardian article “Honestly, women should boycott these apps,” said Breanna, 30. “I don’t know what benefit they bring – other than make us more accessible to trash men with bad intentions. I’m telling everyone I know to delete the apps. They’re not worth it and no one I know has met anyone worth a damn on them anyway.” I’ve deleted all the apps	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/22 06:14 PM
5	NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work. This is an excellent point, that’s more or less how my parents did it, but I can’t see it happening for me in todays world. I use to fantasize about the trad wife lifestyle because I had toxic unfulfilling office job, but now I’m starting a small business hoping to gain some flexibility back. I’ll have this nest egg with or without a man.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/22 01:10 PM
1	Just broke up with a sweet, funny, kind and attentive guy, because he works a minimum wage job THIS! I remind myself of this all the time! Men want to level up too lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/21 03:23 AM
1	This is why I’m okay with not getting married or having children. I’d much rather be out experiencing life and enjoying myself than have to deal with this Is anyone here married with kids ... BUT also have a cook/maid/nanny to assist with household management? I want kids but need this assistance for balance 😬	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/05/21 06:50 PM

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