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Thanks for the explanation. I just noticed she's surprised she can't pay for the home she wants while she has two kids and nobody to share expenses with. I don't understand why someone with that background would try to buy instead of rent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 07:50 PM
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If $30K is 20%, then it's a $150K home. On the 3% mortgage, I got nothing, I don't know USA financials. I know I didn't nearly pay 20% in added costs next to the mortgage though. I think I paid like 5% for everything besides what was covered in the actual mortgage. Is 20% a common thing in the US, or are those money sharks and can you find better for less?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 07:34 PM
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20 Press X to doubt
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/20 03:44 PM
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It says 40 there but in her bio she says it is a lie and she asks you to guess. In other words she typed in the wrong age on purpose. If I had to guess, it's probably because she hopes people will tell her she's younger than she looks when they find out her true age.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/20 02:05 PM
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You and I have very different views on what Jesus would do.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/20 01:47 PM
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writes at roughly a 4th grade level "Guess how old I'm? 😋"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/20 01:43 PM
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Thanks for the help, fixed! I thought lied could mean both things as you also say "to lie down in bed". Confusing stuff.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/20 09:59 PM
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Either lower her standards, or get back in shape and become better at sex. I think both are impossible for her without some deep soul searching. Her entire post screams "I've always been hot and deserve someone hot", especially that line about him deserving someone gorgeous because he is too. With some effort she might get back into shape but the idea doesn't even come to her mind. As for being good at sex, I think she's been spoiled by being pretty in her twenties. Guys liked to fuck her becaus…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/20 06:34 PM
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Yes on the first, but unless she uses a fake name he can just Google her name (which you should really do with any date you go on regardless of gender).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/20 06:22 PM
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"How can I be bad? I just laid there and let him do whatever he wanted!" Edit: a word.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/20 06:12 PM
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What do I do about the problem of men being super into me as a human, but not into me sexually (like most women, I spent the entirety of my 20s battling the opposite). Yeah, somehow I doubt that you were "battling" all that hard. It says enough that you say "like most women", while this really is mainly true for super hot but dumb women. If you have a good personality, it should be super easy to find someone who likes you for your personality. That you say that the guy is gorgeous and you "get" …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/20 06:09 PM
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Wait... He's posting the profile and then delivers the expected burn himself? Is that legal, can he do that? We're looking at the referee... Yes, it's allowed! KO right at the start of the match!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/20 06:01 PM
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She's just a big fan of the Walking Dead character.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/20 03:15 PM
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Hyperdelusional?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/20 01:59 PM
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Counterproductive
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/20 07:26 AM
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I mean, not all men want dem big tiddies. Personally I'd take "easy on the eyes" to mean healthy, perhaps even athletic body, and a nice looking face. As for boobs... Eh. The bigger they are, the harder they fall, especially at that age. That being said, someone who says in their own bio that they're "easy on the eyes" for me means that they couldn't think of enough personality to talk about (they got their pictures, so you already know how she looks). All that text and there's zero about who sh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/20 12:55 PM
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"where has all the good free spirited happiness gone"... This is almost SelfawareWolves material. She wants to find someone who is desirable, who wants a relationship, but who has never had a long relationship before because even just being divorced makes someone "undateable" to her. So now she is 45 and she is looking for someone who: has never been married is financially stable has never had an ex who scarred him (note that the first quote in her bio all but explicitly states she's been scarre…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/20 09:37 AM
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Third down means you're ready for your fourth beer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/20 11:24 AM
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Yeah I'd call those useful degrees too, and of course stuff like dentistry and general practitioners can be added as well (more women are starting to appear in those fields in our country). Nursing is still female dominated here but teaching is kind of fifty fifty, with some fields having more male teachers and others female. I mean, there's a pretty long list of useful degrees and there's a pretty long list of useful jobs. I think we all agree here that there's a very specific set of "useless" …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/20 03:14 PM
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True, I am European (Dutch). The only brownie I know is the cake type dish. I didn't know about any of the contexts mentioned on that wiki page, I mean I know of the Girl Scouts but I've never heard them being called brownies. Some figures of speech go over fine (like saying something "is fire" is clear enough) but for a recent example, people saying something is "based" confused me as I thought it was a memetic misspelling of "biased" or something.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/20 01:05 PM
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Joking aside, I actually did not know why it was called "brownie points" even though thanks to media I knew it was like "going the extra mile" or something (which I also don't know the etymology behind but at least that one's clearer), so thanks for the link, interesting read.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/20 12:50 PM
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I studied mathematics myself, which I'd consider pretty useful, and there were a lot of female students both in mathematics and in physics. I'd consider all BSc degrees pretty useful (my wife has one too, actually). I'm in Europe though, I don't know how it is in the USA (feel free to tell me), but over here the ratio seems less tilted.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/20 12:42 PM
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What's "brownie points"? Is that an anal thing?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/20 12:10 PM
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So either she has a very nice asshole, or she has very useless degrees. Maybe a bit of both. Say what you will about "entrepreneur", the tattoos or that she asks you to take her on holidays (she doesn't flat-out state she won't chip in for the vacation, just an educated guess on my part), but to me the biggest turn-off here is having a profile picture with a big hat and sunglasses on and then sticking out her tongue. If you're so insecure about what you really look like, just do a landscape pict…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/20 12:07 PM
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Couple of things I get from this: Just after her first was born she was joking about daddy possibly not being the father. Classy. So either she already cheated on him, or her own joke gave her the idea. Did Kyle leave her once the second child turned out to definitely not be his? It baffles me how a woman can be dumb enough to have unprotected sex while cheating with a man whose offspring would definitely not look like her partner. So she's not faithful enough to not cheat, okay, but then at lea…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/20 08:27 PM
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Nah, as with all other kinds of stupid, social media just brought it to the surface.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/20 08:13 PM
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If I'm correctly interpreting the smiley that follows it, it means "get blackout drunk and have unprotected sex".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/20 08:06 PM
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All posts in this sub automatically get the NSFW flag.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/20 04:35 PM
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And she'll claim it's because you're not worthy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/20 07:42 AM
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Third one was great, it had Samuel L Jackson! Only Die Hard co-star worth remembering after Alan Rickman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/20 07:41 AM
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Don't forget to add more suicides and a less healthy diet (both partially tied to the more straining jobs) to that list. There's definitely an imbalance, but it's important to see that it has nothing to do with genetics and everything with the demanding jobs that men do.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/20 07:37 AM
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Two years from now, she'll claim to be a lesbian. No, really. This is not a dis against actual lesbians. In my early college days, there were four girls (17-19 years old) who proudly claimed that they were lesbians together "because guys have no idea where the clitoris is". And they were absolutely serious. Craziest shit I ever heard people say about their own sexuality, right up there with a woman online proclaiming that "after my third boyfriend also cheated on me, I decided I was asexual". Th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/20 05:28 PM
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Yes, there are decent guys left in this world. No, you won't find them, especially with a profile picture like that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/20 01:09 PM
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... Holy shit. I am literally at a loss for words, the only way I can react to this is saying that I don't know how to react to this. Except for with a shudder through my spine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/20 01:07 PM
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Thanks, noted.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/20 06:48 AM
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I'm not versed in those abbreviations. SMV is a sexual attraction value, MMV is a relationship value? I'd say that having an education/career that would help a woman provide would raise her relationship value for many men these days. I guess law is more insane in the USA. In my country, eh. I guess I would've had doubts about a woman who practices divorce law, but I wouldn't have an issue with other fields as long as it felt morally right (so no lawyers who manage to get rapists back on the stre…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/20 06:44 AM
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Interesting. On the app I mentioned, you could use the data sets and you could see any and all matches (I think they top you off at 100 matches a day but you can manually search afterwards), you just can't message them until you've paid. Which is the good way around. I mean, the app here basically says "we know you'll find him/her with us, let us know once you found someone you want to chat with", while the apps who block data sets behind premium say "most of the people on our site are crap, if …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/20 05:41 AM
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Didn't expect to be bombarded with so many shit profiles... The day's just begun and I'm depressed again. Why again do people think that members of this sub (and MGTOW) post fake stories in other subs to have things to complain about? The profiles from your vid could keep this sub going for a month... Related, is there any dating app in the USA that allows you to be matched on a data set? In the main app in my country, we fill in things like education, height, how many kids we have (if any), how…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/20 05:35 AM
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Todd is talking about the general man. I'm sure most men on this sub that want/have a relationship would agree with you that they don't want to be the main breadwinner. I know I never wanted a housewife. And indeed like you, I really didn't care much what my future partner's profession was as long as it wouldn't be an indecent one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/20 05:17 AM
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Todd in the comments knows where it's at. A woman quoting a woman quoting a woman to tell us what men supposedly think-that women are just so swell that men are scared. Here’s the truth: men simply don’t care one way or the other about a woman’ education, career or income.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 11:12 PM
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I'm from The Netherlands, and I do indeed feel like things are not as crazy here as in the USA or even London. Actually when I found this sub I made a fake profile on the dating app I met my wife on, to see if things had exacerbated - I even filtered on 30+ with kids - but they were definitely not as looney as the ones that are made fun of on this sub. One for one all profiles that had bios just about who THEY were in detail and not just with "loves to laugh/travel" empty words, and not a laundr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 11:04 PM
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She does, she does. By the way, let me being complacent not be confused with me unjustly thinking I found a life hack or something. Don't think that I am "bluepilled", as you guys call it, when it comes to my own wife. I'm well aware that I had my life much more in order when we met, with a nice apartment and a steady paycheck - I'm just of the opinion that I can play this game too. Before I met my wife I walked away from a few women were shittesting me, and from women that I realised were not h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 09:19 PM
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I'll drink to that! Also hilarious that it immediately became my flair here. Cheers!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 06:59 PM
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Interesting. I actually read an article a few years ago that claimed the exact opposite - that even with all current day technological improvements to get chores in and around the house done, a housewife isn't actually done with her chores quicker than before. Though the implication may just have been that they became lazier, or that the standard for a house being clean has become higher. My point about the decoration was I don't feel like I really had to compromise. Yeah, my consoles and LEGO a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 06:58 PM
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That's the way I've been dealing with my alcoholism. Sober for the last five hours!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 06:12 PM
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Maybe she was insulting them ironically. Maybe she was also eating cheese ironically. I get ignoring bullshit from a fling. The one night stand on a holiday in a hostel who took my virginity (she 26, me 17) said before she shoved her tongue down my throat "you know, I normally don't do this". I really didn't care to correct her, either during or afterwards. I never figured out if she meant a one night stand in general, or doing someone much younger than her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 06:10 PM
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Yeah that's a thing too, but it was just a "sushi mix" box from a supermarket. I said it like that because I expected that if I didn't, someone would go "you know, sushi can be vegetarian" but what she was eating definitely was fish sushi.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 06:02 PM
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If it helps, I only use the word mancave when talking in English. The literal translation of the word we use in our native language would be the more neutral "playroom". Not that I'm against the idea of "a man's home is his castle", but back in the day wasn't it the woman's job to decorate, while the man did more important stuff? In the nineteenth century, the man had a smoke room where he could retreat to, and women definitely didn't have as much of a say as they do now. Either way, I personall…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 05:57 PM
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Hey, I am right there with you. The only person I ever heard use the word unironically was a woman who said so much stupid stuff I could fill a whole thread with it. I'll grant you one for free: During a group conversation, me and a few of the other men were talking about mancaves, and I said I loved my wife but I need some alone time every so often and I'm glad I got my mancave for that, and that my wife understood if I said I just want to be alone and play Nintendo for a night (she'll take the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 03:50 PM
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Eh. I always thought "love" was a strange and vaguely defined concept anyway. I believe women can love in the sense that I understand love, I just think that for most of them the decision of whom to emotionally open up to is a lot more cold and calculated than they prefer to admit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 02:05 PM
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... not rush in too early with you. We broke up after we had been together for over two years but I still wasn't even allowed to talk about the possibility of living together at some later point because that was too serious for her, how did you know?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 01:54 PM
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Sorry to disappoint you. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Semi-vegetarianism Not only is it a word, it's been around for almost two decades. And yeah it's a really dumb word. It's right up there with "heteroflexible".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 01:45 PM
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As a side note, if you have a partner who writes in a diary, it can be very informative to flip through it at some point. I remember skimming the one my Big Ex wrote in while we were dating and she was out. Very interesting to read how before we went exclusive she was weighing me and two other guys who showed interest in her. Especially since her choosing me seemed to have less to do in the end with her affection for me or lack of affection for the others, and more with how I was very popular in…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 11:59 AM
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Right, that's just bisexuality with a preference. And while many people might not know the word flexitarian (or refuse to use it - personally I say "I try to eat less meat" because I think the word flexitarian is silly and stupid), bisexual is a very common word that many people seem to completely forget the existence of. And this woman shows she knows the word flexitarian exists but still chooses to use the word vegetarian in the first place even though that means never ever eating meat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 11:45 AM
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I'm willing to give it the benefit of the doubt, but when she says "but flexitarian if necessary" it sounds to me like she orders meat herself if the restaurant doesn't have good vegetarian options, or stuff like that. It sounds like she's talking about herself in that bit, is what I mean.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 10:54 AM
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"I'm vegetarian but flexitarian when necessary" THEN YOU'RE NOT A VEGETARIAN, YOU LOON! I knew someone like this in college. She said high and low that she was a vegetarian, but at one point I saw her eating sushi during lunch (the dead fish kind, not the cucumber kind). Over the course of the following conversation she also admitted to eating steak every few weeks. I'm not even a vegetarian/vegan myself but I hate it when people go high and mighty about being one themselves when they actually b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 10:23 AM
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Well, nothing wrong with being upfront. My wife told me on our second date that if I should know that she'd never want kids, and if I somehow managed to persuade her then I'd have to do the parenting. Which was fine by me as I didn't want kids either (and if I did, I would've appreciated the clarity and her not wasting my time). P.S. we were both mid 20's. A woman mid 30's who wants kids doesn't have the luxury to mess around any more (that is, if she wants the father for more than just sperm an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 09:17 AM
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I'm tempted to say "at least she's honest", but on the other hand I have this nagging feeling that what she right now accepts as her own flaws will all result into me being gaslighted into thinking everything's my fault. I've been burned before.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/20 06:06 PM
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Yeah, what the fuck was that about. I don't think "soy-boy" means what she thinks it means.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/20 05:06 PM
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We're out here, but we met so many pieces of shit, jerks, hit-em-and-leave-em, misogynistic assholes we went home, deleted our dating apps, and baked some brownies while watching "Lucifer". So, for a decade or two now you've ignored nice guys and gone for assholes. Then you complain about the assholes. And to show you don't understand that YOU are the problem, your go-to fantasy man is the literal devil being a suave dude. Also, nice use of royal plural. Who are you, Queen Elizabeth? Well we are…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/20 01:47 PM
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Ugh, those are the worst. At least the slutbag from the main post has the decency to act like the slutbag she is. Now, that is. Ten years from now she'll no doubt act like a nice girl to snag a man who deserves better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/20 08:09 AM
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You should be a nice guy (and I mean just a nice guy, not a Nice Guy) if you want a nice girl. I treat my wife like my queen, but she treats me like her king too, it goes both ways. And such treatment should not be unconditional; if my wife is being a bitch I will call her out, and I expect her to do the same to me. The problem here is being a nice guy to a girl who wants a bad boy - she will not respect you for it, she'll say she "sees you as a brother" while she chases the guy who doesn't give…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 06:33 PM
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Nice. I have a similar story about a fuck buddy from my "I don't even care any more" phase in my early twenties, in between my Big Ex and my wife. I'm pretty sure things only happened between us because I honestly completely didn't care. I actually did things like text her "be at my place in an hour, wear nothing underneath your coat", something I never texted to anybody before or since. I can really only describe us as dom and sub. But that's just it, it was a phase for me, I needed to wind dow…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 05:29 PM
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I don't feel disgusted. I feel sorry for them. And I feel vicarious shame. Nice guys finish last for these girls. And they know it. You've found a prime example of a girl that will be online in her late thirties going "where are all the good men?" - well, honey, they found the good girl and got married a decade ago.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 04:05 PM
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So it's like a lose-lose situation. Care about your appearance and you're gay (or too much into yourself), don't care and you're an incel. I'm guessing the middle ground is a very tiny sliver. Personally I managed to lose a lot of weight, but I met my wife when I was fat. I've first hand experienced that many women definitely care about looks, no matter what they say in public.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 02:49 PM
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I'm a simple man. I smile, I upvote.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 07:45 AM
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I told the feminist in my high school class during physical education when we did the Cooper test that since she always said women should be treated the same as men, she should set an example now and be graded as a guy. She hated me even more after that. Total equality is a joke. We're built differently, jobs that require heavy lifting are just better suited to guys (I won't say no women will be suited, just like not all guys are suited, but there's definitely a natural imbalance). Related, we h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 07:41 AM
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Good to know, thanks for the explanation. That's slightly less retarded than putting metal through your teeth (or through a gap between your teeth, which is what it looked like a bit). I try to let people make their own choices for their bodies, but personally I think most ways to pierce your body other than for earrings look super weird to me. While I don't really like tattoos, I have to admit I can appreciate some of them (like last year I saw a guy with the triforce tattooed, that's cool I th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 06:08 AM
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--that guy looks gay Can you explain this one to a non-American? Is this an insult women over there use for men taking care of their bodies, or something? I understand the rest of the lines you mention but not this one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/20 11:06 PM
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I want to know what this is too. I'm too scared to Google "teeth piercing" now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/20 11:00 PM
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She yells at people buying steaks at the butcher's that meat is murder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/20 10:59 PM
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JEASUS FUCKING CHRIST
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/20 04:15 PM
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M'ep'his'top'hel'e's
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/20 10:37 AM
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Names have to be made unreadable on this subreddit, and pictures are allowed but many people don't post those just to be safe. Anyway, name and picture are easily changed so I don't know why you would think that including a name and pic in the screenshot makes it less likely to be fake.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/20 06:21 AM
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She says "in the nursing field" instead of "nurse". Wanna bet she's not a nurse? Possibly an orderly, and not a good one. She wants a guy with zero drama because she and her kids provide enough of that themselves. She asks for 6 feet plus, which again I think is not an issue if you're tall yourself but I'm betting she's a shortie. And I'm guessing "plus size" is not saying the half of it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/20 04:52 AM
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If that's the most decent picture that you have of yourself, you've got issues. Also, "failed recovering alcoholic". Here's the thing: I'm betting that she's not, and she just thinks this is a funny joke. Though she probably will be later in life, and I'm sure she already has a drinking problem she doesn't see as a problem. Even though she's not even the legal drinking age in the USA, where I assume she is (for my country the legal drinking age is 16, and 18 for buying the strong stuff).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/20 04:41 AM
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People would be tempted to say "Chad" but you just know this girl's baby daddy is a Kyle.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/20 02:11 PM
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Please tell me that this site is called Titstarter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/20 07:54 PM
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He traveled pretty quickly out of her life though. On to the next conquest.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/20 07:40 PM
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I find it weird how many young single moms you guys find on Tinder. I gather sex ed is still not that good in the USA? In my country (The Netherlands) teen pregnancies are extremely rare, and sex ed is taught early. How are you going to travel the world if you're working at 18 instead of going for a degree? I doubt you're making much, this screams bailout to me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/20 07:36 PM
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Yeah, as long as you call it "seeing them", they can "see" others.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/20 06:25 PM
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or had a former wife hovering in the background You have a former husband, you hypocrite. and looks ten years younger than her age. ... Nope, she does not. You would expect her to be pursued by a string of eligible men. How many men are interested in a sixty year old divorcée, you think? ‘Why not be picky?’, she asks. ‘I found there were too few decent ones to pick from, that was the trouble.’ That's literally why you either have to lower your standards or prepare to end up alone. You're vastly …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/20 05:34 PM
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Now, assuming what she's said is true, it is pretty shitty of him to mooch off her like that. In the comments she mentions him having a house of his own, so I am confused by why she would find it noteworthy to say he lives at her place rent free. Evidently they both have their own place and likely never stay at his place because she has her daughter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/20 10:42 PM
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The issue I have is that she didn't say what he was doing in the den. If it was gaming, or reading a magazine, surely she would've said so because that gives her the high ground. No, I'm guessing he was trying to work from home, and this kid was distracting him instead of her mom because, as you said, her mom doesn't give her enough attention either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/20 10:18 PM
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That bio is trying too hard to make me laugh, and not trying hard enough, at the same time. At least being tall herself, she has a good reason for asking for a 6'+ guy (being over 6'1'' myself, I like a woman who's not much shorter than me), and she doesn't have kids, which is a plus unless she still wants them because then she probably doesn't want to wait three years while you'd get to know each other well enough. So overall I'd say the bio on its own is not that bad, except for the aforementi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/20 09:48 PM
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The car that I own is actually an I4, and it's the only car I've ever owned (as opposed to leased cars from work, which I've done most of my working life). Believe it or not, but it's the only "everyday" car that I've ever been excited about as an adult. From the moment I first saw one I loved it, and I was very annoyed to hear its distribution in my country was halted just a few short years later. When I switched jobs and didn't get a leasing option, I told my wife that this was the one car tha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/20 02:27 PM
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Yeah, I would say that too if I owned a V8.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/20 01:59 PM
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Tattoos on floppy tits are so unattractive. Fixed it for you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/20 01:54 PM
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Not for one second do I believe that that face belongs to a 36-year-old.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/20 01:49 PM
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Gotta say, yes she's a post-wall single mom, but she realises this (weird several people missed the sarcasm, read the line after "winning", people), she keeps in shape even though she loves food, and she only talks about what she's like instead of demanding unrealistic stuff from potential partners (she's 6'0'' herself so she would've been actually justified in looking for men who are at least 6'2''). This is not a crash and burn like seen so often on this sub. The only two red flags I can spot …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/20 05:57 AM
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Yeah, biologically speaking we can get just as old as women, it's just that our gender has the majority share in unhealthy and/or dangerous and/or physically demanding jobs like coalminers, logging workers and soldiers, we have more stressful lives and thus are more prone to commit suicide, and we tend to eat less healthy. So there definitely is an unequal life expectancy, but it's not due to our genes but due to our different roles in society.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/20 05:27 PM
6

When her first argument for the rejection was to view it as "an invitation to authenticity", I moved my finger to close that stupid shit. I was slow enough to hear her say "an invitation to freedom", which is almost equally dumb but accidentally true as it's an invitation to GTFO and don't worry about her ever again. I wonder when women will learn that "the women I pursue" and "the women I want to have as friends" are usually drastically different profiles for a guy. I'd joke that that Venn diag…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/20 01:56 PM
3

Is the "say something they don't like" something akin to "my child is my world and you need to understand you'll come in second place, also I have been fired from three jobs in two years and I'm about to get kicked out of my apartment so you better step up!"?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/20 12:12 PM
13

She'd call it "regurgitate" and she'd want you to do it right into the mouth of her kid. Nature!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/20 09:54 AM
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Well.. I guess... At least she knows she has to look at the mediocre fucks, implying she has the self-awareness to realise that the good fucks are out of her league? Ah, who am I kidding. She's calling all men mediocre fucks. Ironic, seeing as she is clearly is putting zero effort in herself, from her clothes to her weight to her hair. u/Wiffo83, seeing as she's only 4 kilometers away from you, I'd consider moving, you're in the blast zone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/20 07:47 AM
1

You mean the cows from Gary Larson's Far Side comics, surely.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/20 05:23 AM
4

Holy shit the delusion is strong in this one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/20 05:04 AM
1

The females may be dull looking, but they're very picky.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/20 04:58 AM
18

What a catch. Can I sign up twice?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/20 04:53 AM
4

I think I have DMs blocked, some idiots/bots kept DMing me The Last Of Us 2 spoilers even though I'm not even interested in playing the game. Chat should work though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/20 08:54 PM
7

There's a good chance she's the one who started the fire in the first place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/20 05:29 PM
8

You're too kind about married women. There's no way they'll think to invite their sad single friend over for their couples evenings. This divorcée is going to fast track herself from a dozen friends that joke about her lack of a relationship, to zero friends.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/20 04:12 PM
30

To be honest, I was more pissed when my wife's friends got in the having babies phase. We ourselves got married when only one or two of the group had already been married, but all of the others did go for one or two kids, and then started to get snooty about it. As in, when we would come over for a birthday or whatever, my wife would immediately get one of those little turds pushed in her arms, while those other women were literally saying "Give her the baby, we'll crack her yet!" Thanks, bitche…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/20 04:08 PM
19

I'm pretty sure this is how black widows start. This woman is going to have a hard time when she finds out the divorced aren't exactly invited to dinner parties either. Of course, she won't have as hard a time as the man she's thinking about ruining for the sake of her own fragile ego.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/20 03:46 PM
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I don't know why this needs so much repeating. Pursuing your career and finding a partner to settle down with are not mutually exclusive concepts, stop treating them as such. This seems to be a mostly female construction, as the times a man said "I stayed single so I could focus on my career" are few and far between. You don't have to "focus on your career" for a decade, if you're really that into your career you can track it out and after a couple of years you can easily find the time to date. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/20 07:38 AM
3

Yeah it did, I'm just flabbergasted by the randomness and lack of quality of it all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 01:57 PM
7

What kind of weird shit is on that website? The next article starts with "When I first started dating after my second divorce, I had no idea what I was in for", and further down are some "riddles" (and I use the term loosely) someone has no doubt found through two minutes of Googling. And then there are articles like "You Deserve More Than A Reckless Love" and "This Is The Kind Of Breakup You Deserve"...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 08:01 AM
3

Yeah, that's what you're drawn to. I'm not saying people people are drawn to a chin like this on a woman, I'm saying it earns her a couple of subconscious points because those are good genes to pass on, even if you might find it unattractive on the woman in question.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 06:51 AM
2

Oh definitely, a single mom at 25 has a much better chance of finding a new partner than a single mom at 35.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 05:39 AM
2

True, but also for fetal loss, this is not that extreme of a risk at 35 (just over 20%, which is less than double the risk at 20, it's just a risk that'salways there and doesn't really get talked about a lot) and only keeps on climbing. Yes, all risks increase, this I agree with you, I'm just saying 35 is not that old to have a successful pregnancy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 05:13 AM
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On one hand I'm thinking this has to be a joke, on the other I'm thinking this is just stupid enough to be real.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 05:04 AM
4

A lot of couples these days, at least in my country, only start on their first kid at 30. A healthy kid at 35 is not super surprising, that kind of additional risks only really come into view at 40+.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 04:48 AM
8

I say all the time that women don’t care about sex and don’t have sex drives like men, and each time women lose their shit. Honestly, the older I get, the more I start to think that with my wife, I accidentally caught a unicorn without knowing it. A few years before I met my wife, my Big Ex had used the sex snare technique on me (feel free to correct me if you're using a different term for this). She pretended to be interested in sex much more than she actually was (and pretended to be intereste…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/20 08:56 PM
12

Hey, that chin is something she's actually got going for her. It's something that a lot of guys unconsciously award her points for, because even though many people think it doesn't look good on a woman, she will pass on those genes to her kids and most people think such a chin looks damn good on a guy. It's too bad she doesn't actually have a cleft chin, that would've been even better to pass on, but a sharp jawline is still pretty good. Source: I stayed awake during biology.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/20 08:00 PM
8

At that point in the game, you take what you can get. The guys that are actually attracted to chubby women tend not to linger on the market, so if you're in your thirties, a single mom to two and fat then you're going to be really scraping the bottom of the barrel for the most desperate guys. Or, that is, they should be doing that, but nah. "6'3'' minimum, six figure income, needs to treat me like the queen that I am! I like cruises, jewelry and a big house, but don't expect me to bring anything…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/20 07:55 PM
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PUNCTUATION, GODDAMNIT! At least this woman lists some of her hobbies and beats a bit around the bush about looking for a bailout. She's still ashamed about needing a bailout or at least pretends she is, the final step before just screaming "6'3'' and six figure income!" in her bio. Or maybe she's not doing that screaming for demands because she actually understands where she's at on the market.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/20 06:20 PM
2

Yeah we've invited him for a bunch of stuff. He knows he'll take her back if she shows up on his doorstep tomorrow so we'll try to get him to move on before she crawls back. I definitely think it's not a coincidence that she dumped him right before a booze week with the younger people.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre18/08/20 06:20 AM
3

Which actually proves my point, the girls here in The Netherlands (which I was talking about with the line you quoted) didn't make those crazy demands, even though finding a 6'3''+ man here in The Netherlands would be easier than in the USA because of our higher average length. Sorry girls, when you're tall and not a supermodel, you're going to have to make compromises. Actually, scratch that. All of us are going to have to make compromises. It's just that men that are looking to settle down hav…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/20 06:09 AM
2

Hiking on an island is cool too, but we wouldn't want a holiday filled with swimming boating, jetskis etc, we usually go to the beach for at most two short mornings in a whole holiday. Next to that, cruises go for the big docks, so you start out at an area of the island that is filled with buildings and such, not the actual nature of the inner island. Add to that that you have to be back at the boat in a few hours and we tend to go for hikes that take all day, and add how crowded cruise ships ar…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/20 05:44 AM
5

Yeah, that shows exactly how fucked up things are getting in the UK/US. A shorter guy hitting on a taller girl might be laughed at by some surrounding folks, but the girl won't immediately blow him off unless there's something else with him. And a girl in our country definitely won't feel comfortable insulting a guy for daring to chat her up, that's a bitch move. You say "sorry, you're not my type" or some other lame line and move on. To wit, my wife said she was happy she could wear her highest…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/20 10:55 PM
7

Must be even weirder in the USA, I've read your average male height is 5'9''. In our country it's 5'11'' (and female average height is higher too). Don't get me wrong, I'm happy I'm just over 6'1'' (taller than average but not so tall it becomes a burden), but over here height seems to matter much less. Short men are still ridiculed, but most women seem to just appreciate a man that's higher than them, doesn't need to be a giant. It's so weird that height became so much of an issue in the USA da…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/20 09:52 PM
7

I thought 6 foot was too short and that it had to be at least two or three inches more? Either way, the point stands, they care way too much about height. Ask for someone taller than you, sure, but I can't understand why all those 5'1'' shorty girls have a 6'6'' fetish. Isn't 5'8'' enough of a size difference for them? What makes them think they can land a basketball player?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/20 09:04 PM
6

There's stuff to do, but it's not really active stuff you mention, is it? Some of that stuff might be fun for an evening, but to make a whole holiday out of it... And we wouldn't really do those things but on one location like St Thomas either. My wife and I love more active holidays. Hiking in the mountains, mostly, as we can bring the dogs along for that and we can enjoy the amazing views. Generally we pick a location with a lot of stuff to do, and we'll see at the vacation what we'll do exact…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/20 08:37 PM
23

Adding a healthy dose of ignoring the men who would've gone steady because she wouldn't look at bespectacled 6 foot shorties...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/20 05:11 PM
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I don't know why some of these women have suddenly started talking about "forever love", but in the world of pets "forever home" is what you talk about when an animal down on its luck needs an adoptive family, and as an owner of two rescued dogs I can't help but be reminded of that every time they talk about "forever love". I don't take in basket cases though, the dogs we took in had potential to become well adjusted family members. Also, putting my foot down: who honestly likes cruises and isn'…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/20 04:35 PM
12

And said friend of course knows himself and realises that if she stands in front of his door tomorrow, he'll cave. To us the task to get him to move on before it happens.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre17/08/20 03:57 PM
5

Don't know how to feel about the graphic analogy but she definitely feels the wall closing in and decides to put her ride into a higher gear.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre17/08/20 03:51 PM
43

Can you pick a number of punctuation marks and stick with it? I feel like I'm getting seasick. Same with a space before a comma. On to the real shitshow. Of course she says nothing about what she brings to the table except for a few token buzzwords like "integrity", and then it's a laundry list of expectations for the "real straight up man". Girl, I have a sense of direction: hard the other way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/20 03:35 PM
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And now, if you will, an old joke... Three prostitutes sit on barstools in a pub. The first prostitute says, "My pussy is so big, I can fit three billiards balls in there." The second prostitute says, "Well my pussy is so big, I can fit a bowling ball in there." The third prostitute starts laughing and falls around her barstool.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 10:48 PM
1

Thanks for the explanation, and ugh. Even if that urban legend is true, I'm sure the people that used dog paw tattoos for a companion or "just because" would outnumber the people who use it for a different meaning.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 10:14 PM
27

I count seven spelling/grammar errors in less than twenty-five words (eight if you feel like it should've started in the past tense). These people know they can just go back and correct their bio at any time, right? I mean, back when I was on a dating site, I've literally ignored profiles with less errors in their bio than this. It's the first thing a potential date reads about you, the least you can do is check what you wrote instead of worrying what emoticon to put at the end.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 09:53 PM
10

What's the legend? I Googled for a few minutes and found nothing except these two: It could signify a deceased animal companion (in which case, good Lord do I hope it stands for one animal and that it's not that each paw is a poor thing dying in her care). It could be as identifying as a bear gay, which she is definitely not. If you don't know what a bear gay is (and odds are decent as it's not that well-known and I'm guessing people on this sub are straight or at most bi): bear gay is a gay sub…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 09:39 PM
6

Say what you must, but Anjelica Huston never looked prettier than when she played Morticia.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 07:57 PM
20

I'll go a step further and say her daughter is undisciplined, and needs a stern talk.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 06:39 PM
73

Well, to be fair someone who doesn't like kids wouldn't want to date a single mother anyways. She also does not look her age. And those tattoos... Damn. Did she want "friendship first" when she got pregnant at 16? I'm unfamiliar with Tinder, can someone tell me if it's possible to filter matches on what they fill in? I dated on an app for my country a decade ago but I filled in "must not have kids yet" so I didn't see any profiles from people who already had a kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 06:36 PM
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I get the feeling that she was told she was funny, back when she was hot and not actually that funny. She only talks about the men from her friends, or in general, nothing about her own husband. I find it very weird that such a long post doesn't have any room for any partners she has or has had herself. Am I to assume she remained single "by choice"?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 01:29 PM
3

If we're going to compare stuff to poker, she's the "beer hand".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/08/20 06:26 AM
2

Can cook: I can guarantee you I can cook better. Single mom, loves naps: not pros but cons. Tall: what the fuck do I care. Guarantee your parents will love me: I can guarantee you they'll chase you away from me with pitchforks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/08/20 06:09 AM
6

she was questioned about what love means to her, basically her response was: "To give something without expecting something back." That's a super sweet response, and I bet you that the witches that are made fun of on here have never thought of it that way. And if they have, they didn't see that as a two way street.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/20 12:30 PM
11

Last girlfriend I had before my wife told me in the cinema to "stop laughing so hard". That was about a week or two before we broke up for the last time, and the last time I went to the cinema with her. For the record, it was a comedy movie we went to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/20 09:57 AM
4

It's a relic from past times. Women became housewives, pretty women became arm candy. As much as we're taught to objectify women, women are taught to objectify men, it's just not in completely the same way. Objectification of women is usually only about appearance, objectification of men is about appearance and/or social status. The only way out of this is be the change we want to see. Are you a man who is romantically attracted to women, and are you ready to settle down? Maybe stop chasing that…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/20 09:05 AM
6

Many people these days also want to wait with kids until they are 30 or older, to first get their jobs on the best tracks. I'd definitely had married by then (but of course some people just don't want marriage). My last previous relationship ended partly because we were together for two years and she still couldn't even talk about living together because that felt "too serious". The other part of why it ended is because she was a crazy bitch. I had to apologise to my friends afterwards. Yes, yes…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/20 06:52 AM
0

for a woman on YouTube, yes. in general, no. Fixed. I know some pretty funny women, there are the professional comedians who don't put up stuff on YouTube themselves (though they might get clips on there from their shows), and there are funny women in regular life who don't think of putting something on YouTube. In between them is a whole group of women who think they're funny enough for others to laugh at their videos, but actually they're less funny than the women who don't even bother with Yo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/20 06:25 AM
20

I don't think she's r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen herself, but her video does make a good point for women in their twenties who hold out for perfect and then suddenly find nobody's interested any more. The women that are usually made fun of in this sub should take her message to heart: dating in your thirties is neither fun nor easy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/20 06:19 AM
8

I agree with some others on here that this woman herself isn't really r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen. Her video makes for a good cautionary tale though: dating in your thirties is neither fun nor easy, girls. Take note. Make sure you find a good partner early on because you'll have fewer and fewer interested men, and we know you girls hate settling for less. I want to single out this comment: My sister is 35 and she is single after 5 year relationship with her ex. Shes running a business whilst working…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/20 06:16 AM
4

Definitely not a 4/10 in her age bracket. If that is her age bracket. Not with her looks, her kids, and from what I'm assuming from what I can see of her home, her home and her job.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/20 05:39 AM
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I had it the other way around, my wife got bothered with having to depend on me financially. Personally I was fine with it, though I'm glad she makes more now and I can work a bit less than I had to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/20 05:34 AM
5

Well... I get not wanting to live with someone below your socio-economic status. I financially supported my wife while she went for a bachelor's degree to try to get a better job afterwards and it was not a chill time, I wouldn't want that all my life. Then again, for ages women have married men who made more than them, and most of the time this was not because they had the same job but men got paid more. It feels ridiculous that in times of equality, there aren't be more women not having an iss…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/20 05:28 AM
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Bold to assume anyone would but ok I'd assume she's trying to repel chubby chasers with that line, but from what little I know of that scene, chubby chasers are actually pretty monogamous. I also bet there's some nonsense though, or she wouldn't be a single mom with purple hair. People in this sub will focus on her weight or her text, so let me be the one to say that every single bit I can see from her home is an assault on my senses. Edit: FUCK ME. I just remember who she reminds me of. That's …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 10:06 PM
25

I bet your ass has a nicer smile though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 10:00 PM
17

Sorry, "thot"? The article was written by a dude... Truth be told, I am not sure how the article should be read. He calls someone a "female journo", and the end of the article is "heheheh, you'll have to lower your standards if you want equality, can't have everything!" so it's tempting to say "victim" should be read as having big quotation marks around it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 08:01 PM
3

Interesting, I didn't know it was that complicated. Thanks for the explanation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 06:50 PM
4

Maybe her parole officer is 420friendly too. Isn't marijuana legal in a couple of states now, by the way? I'm from The Netherlands so here weed has never been much of an issue, not like hard drugs. I haven't kept up with how it is in the USA right now but I thought at least California had legalised it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 06:32 PM
43

It’s those women at the higher end of the socioeconomic spectrum – tertiary educated, professional – that are the victims of equality, and their situation will only keep getting worse, unless there is a major value readjustment on the cards (what a female “New York Post” journo describes as “dating down”). Women in the great middle of the bell curve can always aspire to find a more economically successful mate; those at the higher end of the distribution face increasingly fewer and fewer men lik…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 06:10 PM
18

Guy needs be v talkative bcause she cant red v goed
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 05:02 PM
11

And if it was distance, then it would be a distance he would have to cross, surely. Because her daughter's school and friends are in a fixed location and mommy's daughter is her treasure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 04:04 PM
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I know this is a nitpick, but how does this 40+ woman manage to have at least three different nail colours on one hand that don't match her outfit? I'm pretty sure that "different colour for each nail" was popularised by preteens around five years ago, I've never seen this on a woman my own age ever and I'm halfway through thirty. I'm hoping right now that her daughter did those nails and that it wasn't a conscious choice by mommy herself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 03:29 PM
33

Maybe you need to find a job first so you can take care of your kids and don't need to write "ex-felon" as your job on a dating site. On second review, she doesn't even list what she likes as qualities in a guy. I'm guessing you need to be "420friendly" like her. At least she knows what Netflix is so she hasn't been in jail for too long. Silver lining!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 01:44 PM
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Yeah, agreed. At this point I'm wondering in what capacity her parents ever sat her down for "the talk". I can't help but feel sorry for this girl, 15 and pregnant is a shitshow and it's only downhill from there. Teen years are that annoying period where you think your parents are stupid and you know better, while you don't know shit and your parents might be the only thing keeping you from the abyss (and that abyss is darker and deeper for little girls). I checked her posting history to see if …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 01:09 PM
5

Was going to say the same thing. What kind of father kicks out his own underage daughter and her baby? We're either looking at a future "dick of the year" winner, or missy is leaving out a lot of shit she did to get her father to that point. Maybe a bit of both, I don't know the specifics but my guess is the best course of action would be to take over parenting duties for the baby, and check your daughter into a clinic where she can work on her issues.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 12:53 PM
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Note that in the about you it doesn't say he needs to have a sense of humour too, he just needs to tolerate hers. I think "healthy debate" in the about you is slang for "if you don't agree with me, prepare for a looooooong argument", and "doesn't take himself too seriously"(I can't even force myself to write it with her grammar error) is slang for "prepare to lose those arguments gracefully even if you're right, and also I will bitch about your looks and your hobbies".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 12:44 PM
6

I had to check because we use the metric system here, but apparently I measure just over 6 feet, 1 inch. Which, I don't know where you and u/Mundane_Worldliness7 come from, is about 2 inches above average in my country, so not really noteworthy, but pretty nice nonetheless in a society that ridicules short men. Seems that in the USA, people are shorter at 5''9' average for men, so I guess 6''3' would sooner be seen as tall there. Specifics of what counts as "tall" are unrelated to my question th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 12:31 PM
4

"Stable income" means you must be a horse wrangler to date her, right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 05:01 AM
2

I know I'm late to this party, but... In a purely sex based market(causal sex) most men are useless and unnecessary. It's just simple fact some men are superior... taller, more handsome, more charismatic, deeper voice... Does anyone find it weird that this woman thinks that the men who are superior sex partners are the ones who are tall and handsome, and not THE MEN WHO ARE GOOD AT THE SEX? Apparently she prefers mediocre sex with someone who is handsome over good sex with someone who looks medi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/20 09:02 PM
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Okay, so, I only lurk in this sub usually. Long story short, I like having a laugh at the unrealistic dating profiles and think a lot of people on both sides have a skewed view of the dating scene, even if I don't necessarily agree with the more extreme picture painted in the comments here (maybe because I don't live in the USA? Or maybe I've been out of the dating scene for too long?) HOWEVER, someone needs to help me decipher the first comment to that post, specifically the first half. I feel …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/20 07:34 PM
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