Oogamy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	women dont think about men This is something I often talk about, the way a man's arousal or lack thereof is obvious, and a woman's is not. We can't easily tell if a woman is physically aroused or not, and this seems to often result in people thinking it doesn't actually matter that much. I think that what your comment is missing is a statement along the lines of "Physical arousal is not sexual consent, just because a man has an erection doesn't mean he is consenting to sex, and just because a woman is wet doesn't mean she…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 12:53 PM
5	women dont think about men Could you please provide a citation for the study you reference. I'm actually interested in it for real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 12:30 PM
6	Women control the grey area You cannot pre-arrange consent. Consent is an in-the-moment thing, and anyone who's actually had sex should understand this if they care about not raping their partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 05:56 PM
6	Why are western women so hateful toward men? Please do!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 03:27 PM
3	Q4W: What fraction of men do you think experience genuine sexual desire from a woman at least once during his life? What fraction of men do you think are capable of experiencing it? Seeing a hot guy and getting horny for him and then fucking him does not mean the sex will necessarily be enjoyable. Sexually desiring someone does not guarantee the sex will be enjoyable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 03:18 PM
4	Men are not a monolith, but women are (according to the Greater Male Variability Hypothesis). 🔵BP constantly conflates the experiences and capabilities of High value vs. Low value men Manstrology	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 12:13 AM
-1	Paternal Surrender/Financial Abortion would look a lot different in practice if it ever came to fruition than how it's talked about No, it is a barely thought through attempt at a gotcha. You prefer to frame it as though women have refused to register for selective service when the reality is that women are NOT ALLOWED to register. Real slimy stuff actually to deny this reality. Slimy step 1: disallow women from registering for selective service. Slimy step 2: claim that women not registering means they shouldn’t be allowed to vote. Do you think people are so stupid that they can’t see the slimy disingenuousness here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 05:46 AM
2	Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual Sex Obviously, no source provided for this nonsense cause you pulled it out of your ass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 12:55 AM
4	Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective? Sounds like it good then that women aren't mating with these men who are only here because their grandmothers weren't free. Sounds like a needed correction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/26 07:37 AM
9	Would you change your views and behaviour? Rape has caused far more health problems, suicidality, infertility etc., it has ruined far far more lives than failure to get laid ever has, and yet rapist men continue to rape. They have continued to rape even being able to see actual real world non-hypothetical damage it does. Heck, that’s the reason for a lot of the raping to begin with - to cause that damage. Yet here you are getting all worked up because women here immediately reject your hypothetical proposal of offering themselves up for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/26 11:49 PM
–	Glorification of step dads is harmful to society It's fine for the stepdad and is evolutionarily advantageous actually. At least you're not using the 'step dads are more likely to abuse and murder kids who aren't their own' argument that so many evopsychos like to use. Time is a resource, no need to say "resources AND time". Humans are naturally polygnandrous, it is by far the most evolutionarily sound "strategy", and all you addlepates need to find a way to accept this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 08:27 PM
3	women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectification The judgement IS the "consent exchange" though it's not an exchange, it's just her deciding. The part where your argument fails is when you keep insisting that if she decides "no" she necessarily labels that guy a creep and objectifier and you don't know that unless.you're a mind reader. You assume they think "creep" because you have low self esteem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 11:10 PM
2	women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectification Of all the restaurants men could go to, they choose the one where women are using their bodies to manipulate men into giving them money. I thought men hated women who use them for money with no intention of getting physical with him? Hmm, or maybe the men customers and women workers in that scenario are grown up enough to understand that nearly everyone with a job wouldn't put up with having to do the work for free.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 10:55 PM
2	Women don't like when men have healthy boundaries > But only one of those gets called a boundary. The other gets called cheap. Lol pretending that a woman with such a boundary wouldn't be derided as a "gold digger" is laughable. 🤪	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 09:17 PM
–	If you are fine with having casual sex, then claiming “I feel love through sex” is a lie. You just want sex and wont admit it. I think that, thanks to the internet, the single guys have started using the lines that married/partnered guys have always used. Like, they read a bunch of threads where married men were talking about how they totally need sex to feel love, and they didn't realize this line really only works for men who have an already committed sex partner. "I feel love through sex" is what you say to the woman you already committed to in order to try to get her to put out. Usually single guys trying to get in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/26 01:22 AM
4	Does reasonable expectation of sex exist? I think the expectation would fluctuate depending on the answer to: How much sex would you be having relative to financial outlay if you were single?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/26 06:55 PM
2	Many women mostly want children so they have a way of justifying being provided for by a man. who is "our"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 07:30 AM
–	Why so many men suddenly became undesirable? It's the internet, social media, the ability to hear what every idiot is saying and thinking all the time. Women been hearing what y'all been saying. It's like when your favorite celebrity started a podcast and you realized they were stupid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 02:02 AM
–	Why do so many women say their low sex drive in marriage was due to lack of emotional attunement & burden of household chores, yet immediately start enjoying CASUAL SEX after divorce with men they share no emotional connection or household chores with? Women generally can't get horny for people they resent. The new guy hasn't been around long enough to do shit that makes her resent him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 12:37 AM
3	Why high body count in male is less to talk about than girls? jerkoff hand motion, zerbert noise	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/25 03:28 AM
15	No, 80% of women are not sleeping with 20% of men F'ing Baumeister. I'd say that he is in large part responsible for the spread of redpill ideology. He was lead author of the highly influential "Sexual Economics" paper (pdf full text), published in 2004. From the wiki page: Sexual economics theory (SET) is a highly controversial hypothesis found in the field of evolutionary psychology. The theory purports to relate to how male and female participants think, feel, behave and give feedback during sex or relevant sexual events. ... Baumeister's pr…	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/25 03:17 AM
–	Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it) It's more just a sexist double standard that these men have, and which they think is fully justified, than it is plain old hypocrisy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 11:22 PM
2	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. Or is it because No, it's because of the thing Perfect-Resist said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 08:04 AM
1	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. The irony of you thinking the "if" makes a difference, while lecturing others to be sure to 'communicate clearly'. I think the problem is that women don't speak weasel, but you seem fluent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 08:00 AM
3	Extremely fearful of relationships because of views instilled in me on the internet I refuse to believe you're an editor if you can't even get your subject/verb agreement correct in this sentence.	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/24 05:31 AM
1	Share some good books for me to read, i've left redpill space about 10 months ago, and this subreddit + Models by Mark Manson has been life changing. Some Sarah Blaffer Hrdy: Mothers and Others: The Evolutionary Origins of Mutual Understanding Father Time: A Natural History of Men and Babies This one isn't out yet, so I haven't read it but it sounds interesting: In Father Time, Hrdy brings her expansive curiosity, humility, and deep expertise to bear on one of the questions that drive culture wars: What does it mean to be a man today? She takes readers along on a journey of discovery that challenges even her own understanding of gender and ca…	/r/ExRedPill	15/04/24 04:29 AM
19	Why is all red pill/anti incel advice geared towards the lowest level when many incels are normal people who are just ugly? You're going to pull a muscle with this ridiculous stretching you're doing here. "So I should feign interest in blahblahblah" Obnoxious. I didn't say shit about what you should do. I said you have to lead with personality. If literally everything that would let you show personality and allow for audible verbal exchanges is something you'd have to fake interest in then.... well then nothing, you're just obviously full of shit. You're bragging about taking COOKING CLASSES for fucks sake. That's ex…	/r/ExRedPill	09/04/24 08:11 PM
13	Why is all red pill/anti incel advice geared towards the lowest level when many incels are normal people who are just ugly? If you're ugly, people advise book club wine tasting type shit because you'll have to lead with personality. You showing up at the club being ugly and trying to yell over loud music at women you find hot to "get to know them" will never work. I'm old and have banged tons of ugly guys over my years. They're often the best lays. You're not even trying to share that with the world by going ugly to clubs.	/r/ExRedPill	09/04/24 02:19 PM
8	The use and misuse of evolutionary psychology in online manosphere communities: The case of female mating strategies Oh thank you for the early Christmas gift! 15 or so years ago I would google around looking for feminists who were talking about the MRAs and evo psych. Was anybody pushing back on what was being said? Were there any feminists countering Baumeister with Blaffer-Hrdy was basically what I was looking for. Didn't find anything like that happening. Closest thing was Amanda Marcotte complaining about evo psych being terrible because "it says women are just whores" and how very dare they insult women …	/r/ExRedPill	24/11/23 11:17 PM
2	I'm 28F, and have really internalised the idea of "The Wall" to the point it's making me unable to enjoy life or do day-to-day tasks or feel motivated. Any support or similar experiences? The "wall" is actually the wall of a prison, when you "hit it" you'll scale it and launch yourself over it to freedom. Your sense of self will grow newer stronger roots on the other side. I'm 51, your 30s will be the best time of your life. So far.	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/23 11:48 PM
2	Men leveraging anything for dating/sex is bad I was getting at the idea of children inheriting the property of parents, and how certainty of paternity is very important in that regard, and how that may have effected human's natural strategies. There are some theories that say paternity uncertainty is actually way more evolutionarily advantageous, and they don't sound crazy to me. Sarah Blaffer Hrdy has written some about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 09:29 AM
5	Men leveraging anything for dating/sex is bad Gosh, what if it turns out we're wrong about one or the other sexes' strategy and the design was far more compatible but humans just muddled it all up with their insecurities and assumptions and inheritable property laws?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 09:04 AM