Ooph_10 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	You might not be as appreciated as you think you are by your kids Same, absolutely. If I knew any of this stuff was even possible from the day she asked for separation til now, I would not have married her. If I still did because I do believe in it as a beautiful thing (not religious) then I would have def lived and parented different. Had it as a possibility in the back of my mind instead of being oblivious and unendingly loyal. Not so much ‘all of us together’ but instead cultivated more of me and the kids, with the caveat that I could lose any of them (incl…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/02/25 07:25 PM
1	Just miss her. Me too. Still very stuck. 3-4 days a month I might feel okay. Not improving though is the toughest. Just come home ffs. I know she’s not the person I married or think I remember. Doesn’t help.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/02/25 07:11 PM
1	This Marcus Aurelius quote is helping me- maybe it will help you Thanks for sharing. I bounce back n forth terribly. Would kill to have her here. Also, she was checked out a lot no matter how hard I tried. I also missed good chances. So… not real. But I forget easily. I feel like all the present moments I looked forward to with her were taken away. Sorry, sad sack reply, but I’m still ‘there’.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/02/25 06:47 PM