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With my ex husband i found myself fantasizing about my high school boyfriend. I realized that this was because my husband at the time was not treating me well at all, and my brain filled in my high school ex as an example of someone who would treat me better, so i started fantasizing about what it would be like to see or talk to him again. I never did while married, but i thought about him nonstop. Once i was divorced, bc my ex hus was abusive and cruel, i actually did reach out to him but reali…
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 04:01 PM
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That's my whole point, I'm so glad you agree 🙂
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 08:57 PM
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How have insulted anyone?
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 08:39 PM
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Manbaby is the word i use for beta that's all.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 08:39 PM
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Also, please keep in mind I'm responding directly towards negativity i see aimed at the smaller demographic of this sub of which i am part. It's rough seeing post after post decrying liberal men when i can speak from experience that many liberal men are awesome!!!
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 08:25 PM
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I'm merely providing a POV i don't often see here, that a man does not have to be conservative or the breadwinner to be a leader in a relationship. There are several leadership fronts to a healthy relationship, and men can lead in many ways!
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 08:24 PM
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I replied to you bc you mentioned the manbaby syndrome, and my experience is that man babies do exist in both sides. It seems we agree more than we disagree! I'm just here to provide the liberal POV for "red pill"- i submit to my husband in many ways, and in return he provides unparalleled stability and peace in our lives. My lifestyle would NOT be possible if he didn't lead our home life. Yes i make the money and have the more traditionally "manly" money providing role, but in my mind all relat…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 08:21 PM
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I do submit to my husband at home though, willingly, in many ways. There are ways to submit that don't involve money or chores.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 08:15 PM
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I think really my point can be boiled down to: don't eliminate half your dating pool just bc you have a preconception that one side of the political spectrum has better men to offer. There are shit men on both sides, and incredible men on both... my personal experience speaks to there being more good ones on the liberal side, but I'm aware that is availability bias. I do live in the south so I'm exposed to tons of conservative males constantly, many of whom treat the women in their lives poorly,…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 07:51 PM
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That's just the extremists. True leftists and true liberals want women to have the freedom of choice for their lifestyle. If you want to be ultra femme submissive SAHM or housewife, awesome. If you want to go to work, awesome. If you want to dress girly, cool. If your want to wear sweats, also cool. Try to stay away from extremism on both sides.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 07:44 PM
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I'll agree with that to some extent. I value traditionalism in the sense that i think a man you marry should be faithful, treat you well, and provide for you. I just happen to believe he doesn't have to be breadwinner alpha conservative in order to do so. Providing in my mind is simply putting in work to attain the lifestyle you want, and to me money is only a small part of that equation. Time effort and care are more important imo.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 07:40 PM
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I'm a liberal woman with liberal views living in the south, married to a man who was raised very conservative small town and is now very liberal. Ask the conservative men i know treat women the same down here. I'm merely pointing out that the OP seems to think that liberal men won't treat her well, but that isn't true. Lots of high value liberal men out there no matter what region you're from.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 07:36 PM
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I do tend to agree with this. I just think it's interesting how red pilled women assume the only hvm are conservative, whereas my experience with men has largely shown me the exact oppposite. All the conservative men I've ever dated become abusive controlling manbabies once they think I'm locked in, whereas liberal men always have treated me extremely well. Imo is because to conservative men women are baby and home makers, but liberal men see the whole person.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 05:51 PM
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Funny, i left my more conservative husband who was the breadwinner and i was a stay at home mom bc my marriage was like this with him and i hated being a SAHM. Now I'm the breadwinner and have a very liberal stay at home husband who does most of the chores, childcare and errands while i work a corporate gig and I've never been happier! This isn't a liberal or conservative divide, it's a manchild who can't wipe his own butt vs men who care about their partner and home divide. Manchildren exist on…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 03:51 PM
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The energy you put into a relationship should always match what you receive. Don't give more than you receive, and if you find yourself giving less than you receive just break up with them.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/20 07:35 PM
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He is the one that gives you peace? I get the sense that he creates problems, and since he creates them only he can give you peace from them. Maybe your life would be better if you didn't need to seek peace for the problems he creates.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/20 05:07 PM
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Exactly! I would never be this way with a man who does not treat me well and know me well.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 05:00 AM
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I never turn him down, ever. Even if I'm in pain (I have immune disorders). It really helps that sex is the only thing that relieves my pain, so I'm all for it! The flip side of that is that he never requests when it's clear I'm not in the mood (not often) so I don't have to turn him down. I initiate sometimes, but not as often as he does. I would say it's about 75% him and 25% me. He is respectful of me and treats me like a queen, and in return we have a very healthy sex life.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 03:12 PM
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