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If you are accusing someone, it is up to you to bring proof. Besides one side wants the other to go to jail whilst the other side just wants to be left alone. The one who wants consequences have to prove tbe consequences are earned
/r/MensRights31/07/26 05:36 AM
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And somehow women class that as patriarchy and misogyny.
/r/MensRights29/07/26 05:09 AM
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It is a harsh reality but when it comes to war and more gritty things, men are just considered disposable or it is their job to do something. Same with titanic, a 16 year old boy was threatened to step out of a boat which had a space. Because to people a 16 year old boy is an adult. A 16 year old girl however is a child who can never be held accountable. Take America for example. Can't drink until they are 21 but if a draft happens, an 18 year old is fair game.
/r/MensRights27/07/26 11:43 PM
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Dadvocate I like. Assuming her youtube posts are truthful she helped pass a 50/50 bill in michigan and talks to congressman and women for more dad rights. Also does videos where she is quite friendly but still calls out entitlement. Also does her womansplain videos where she explains why women act the way they do to men and the reverse explaining to women why men do certain things. She is very equal.
/r/MensRights27/07/26 11:37 PM
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Dadvocate actually walks the walk. From my understanding she tries to work with actual officials and passed a 50/50 bill in michigan. So even if there is a one or 2 videos I disagree with she is putting in the work and does give helpful advice from both sides. I like her womansplain videos where she helps men see it from women's perspective but she still calls out womens entitlement. Emily King and Roma Army, I don't mind. They are also useful in pointing out double standards and womens delusion…
/r/MensRights27/07/26 11:34 PM
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And this is why most men know gender equality is really just looking out for women. Somehow both conservatives and liberals seem to come to the same conclusion that men need to be useful/canon fodder.
/r/MensRights27/07/26 11:28 PM
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Women today despite all their whining about the 'patriarchy' still don't want to do men's roles.
/r/MensRights26/07/26 01:00 AM
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Not sure if its apart of mens rights movement or the misandry has got so bad that they can no longer ignore it now. But I have seen a difference in attitude. More people call out double standards. Finally more men are having self respect and not being simp wallets. Men are standing up for men. People are no longer quick to believe someone is a rapist just because a girl said so. For example youtube comments. Comments from years ago were very much gynocentric. Newer comments are more egalitarian …
/r/MensRights23/07/26 12:17 AM
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Reddit, Tiktok, instagram. Frankly, where isn't it the norm?
/r/MensRights23/07/26 12:09 AM
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Toxic femininity needs to be called out more. Fed up of the million of documentaries on the manosphere or redpill. Talk about the rising misandry.
/r/MensRights23/07/26 12:05 AM
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I had the exact same reaction. Generally talking, when have women ever been the more emotionally intelligent gender? Individuals sure but as a group? No
/r/MensRights23/07/26 12:04 AM
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Whole heartedly agree with the cotton wool. Not even from the argument it is better for men if other men stop acting like cavemen over women and as if they are fragile angels. Women need to be treated like actual adults for their own benefit. The amount of women that have unrealistic expectations over stuff like job salaries, how to work in the workplace (I have actually spoken to 3 different women bosses who have told me they don't hire women for exactly that reason) or even just to pull a comp…
/r/MensRights17/07/26 07:37 AM
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Honestly the gender of who is ruling is irrelevant and I don't get why people can't see that. It is the ideology that is mainstream that is popular. Currently the pendalum has swung very far. Women have got their rights and the benefits of tradition. Men get the consequences of tradition yet are shamed for wanting the benefits of it. Women are treated like passive angels who deserve the world whilst men are expected to care for, maintain and protect them whilst expecting nothing back but also to…
/r/MensRights10/07/26 10:57 AM
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Well I had the joy of seeing it I mentioned the worlds youngest father who was raped by some 30 year old...she said the woman is the victim because pregnancy is oh so bad and she has been punished enough. If someone doesn't feel protective or even pity for a kid then there is no hope. Then said its different because men have more power in society but how does that correlates to sleeping with someone? Then she got defensive saying why do I care when so many other women actually get raped and that…
/r/MensRights07/07/26 10:23 AM
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I noticed recently there has been a surge of women who think pregnancy is the biggest sacrifice and they should be forever compensated for it even though they also want children. I see it for every excuse. Why men should pay, why women deserve custody. Every double standard they now justify by pregnancy. Even saying the baby deserves the woman's name because she gets pregnant, saying they should be saved because of pregnancy, they get to decide clothing/activities etc Like they think they found …
/r/MensRights02/07/26 04:26 PM
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Why I will never entertain the ridiculous idea that the patriarchy is even a thing. Even in today's age where everyone cares about being liked or seen as equal, men are still expected to be discriminated against. Yet it will be women saying they are the victims
/r/MensRights01/07/26 02:22 PM
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This has always been my main issue Women talk about loss of autonomy because they can't kill their children This is the biggest loss of autonomy possible. You are literally forced to either go to prison or go die in a war, if you survive the government that gave you away on a silver platter won't care about you. You will also recieve severe PTSD. But I'm supposed to believe women have it worse? Even in countries that don't have it, can easily just reinstate it if it comes down to it. And wheneve…
/r/MensRights01/07/26 05:22 AM
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Talking about western society Less focus. Men objectively are more oppressed. Higher homeless rates, higher rates of being victims of violent crimes, sexism is so normalised that its literally legal (Countries that have drafts/mandatory service or other countries like the UK where a woman can't be a rapist), longer prison sentences, extreme bias in court to the point female criminals get away with even extreme acts whilst men get treated worse for far less. Despite all this people go around with…
/r/MensRights27/06/26 03:19 PM
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So if women aren't held to it, why should men?
/r/MensRights22/06/26 07:21 PM
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I feel the same way. Women and children is just saying everyone but a man. There is no other way to go about it, it only excludes one group. I also despise it too but you genuinely can't get someone to see your value. Before there used to be hope that when they become mothers they gain a bit of empathy. Now its a trend for women to talk about how badly they are going to beat their son if he doesn't treat a girl right so currently even mothers have turned against their son. But what can we do? Th…
/r/MensRights22/06/26 04:03 PM
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And somehow women don't need to sacrifice. Why can women have it both ways? And this is a boundary then, I am not going to go die for a country that isn't putting me first. Why would I leave my family for that?
/r/MensRights22/06/26 03:55 PM
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Absolutely not. It is not my duty to die for a country that clearly does not care about me. That isn't being a man its having no self respect.
/r/MensRights19/06/26 12:21 PM
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Same country where women can't be rapists and they have classes for boys to not be bad. They also wanted women not to go to prison as in give them different options. Not that surprising, I would say move out but move out to where? Feminism is spreading everywhere and we can't keep running to different countries. Men don't get married so they try to find another way to get their money
/r/MensRights18/06/26 11:39 PM
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You do realise divorce can still happen for other reasons. Most people don't marry then divorce for fun
/r/MensRights18/05/26 10:57 AM
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So what do you want? The man putting up with a woman he doesn't like and providing for her for no reason other than she would be worse off?
/r/MensRights16/05/26 02:25 AM
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Not really, I was never raised to view women special or pedastalise them. And then I never did. It's not that hard, just have both parents remind the boy girls are nothing special.
/r/MensRights14/05/26 11:41 PM
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Sort of makes sense tbh In Islam men have to provide for women. So makes sense women can't object because if she is objecting that means she is still his wife so he has to still provide for her which he shouldn't have to do if he doesn't want to. Besides why should someone get to object to divorce? Especially in this case if he though about it 3x so clearly its not some reckless decision. I don't agree but within Islam makes sense especially if you consider marriage between 2 people rather than …
/r/MensRights14/05/26 05:01 PM
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Who set the system up is just a deflection. Like genuinely what is the good they expect to happen when they say it? It's just used to shut men up. I think it comes from different ideologies. Feminists see oppression as one group oppressing the other. Very black and white. Hence why feminists think all men are secretly wanting to hurt them because in their mind it's men vs women. Even baby boys are still part of the men group so get different treatment. Men see oppression as the system/law oppres…
/r/MensRights14/05/26 04:18 PM
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That's when they say a cop out answer "no one should be drafted" rather than admit that is one of the most blatant sexist laws and somehow the group saying they want gender equality doesn't fight against it.
/r/MensRights08/05/26 05:39 PM
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Yeah that is how I responded. Men and women dress codes are different, that doesn't mean its misogynistic. Just gender enforcing on both sides. They seem to think men and women being treated differently is inherently misogyny. Like misogyny is just synonymous with sexism. The same person told me the draft was an example of misogyny not misandry like I thought. It's definitely sexist and hateful to women to not force them to die in a war if they don't want to. Nothing stopping them from willingly…
/r/MensRights06/05/26 04:28 AM
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Just like women can be misogynists, men can be misandrists or working against themselves.
/r/MensRights06/05/26 04:20 AM
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I've asked so many feminists online and real life for this supposed misogyny. Women getting murdered isn't misogyny unless specifically for being a woman. I have asked for how misogyny is systemic, not getting answers by multiple people and even educators (on a side note, its crazy a teacher was talking about misogyny when teaching us about WW2 aka the draft) just made me believe it really is just them being parrots. Like surely in 4 years of asking I would have got an actual answer that wasn't …
/r/MensRights06/05/26 04:17 AM
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I think you are thinking of the 1975 strikes. I am referring to the 2023 strikes. Well people from Iceland said there was no real economic effect and clearly it wasn't effective as they been having similar protests for over four decades. Did the power turn off? Did crime rise because there was no police or were fires left unattended because there were no firemen? Stores remained open. Even if you don't have anyone from Iceland to speak to, you can check online peoples experience. Saying they fou…
/r/MensRights05/05/26 04:44 PM
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Not really, those belonging to a hateful ideology are often bad. And they are a hateful ideology shown by radical feminism, 4B feminism, KAM, videos of feminists. Go into any feminist area on any social media app and I assure you, you will find some form of misandry.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 04:20 AM
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As you said some Christians. It is majority of feminists. Just like every guy who is into redpill isn't some angry, misogynistic incel but redpill still gets a bad name. I agree lots of groups will have bad apples. The problem is feminism doesn't acknowledge that instead will justify it or try to even it out. They defended KAM and grew angry at men saying not all men. Yes groups will have bad apples but it is up to the group to correct those bad apples, feminism instead defends them. I truly do …
/r/MensRights01/05/26 03:24 AM
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I didn't say anything bad about you. Do not take it so personally. The point is feminists have thrown hate multiple times. If you choose to identify yourself as one then that is your choice. You can't join a hateful group then want to be individualistic after when someone generally talks about that group.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 02:12 AM
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How are women oppressed? There is a difference between good fathers and paranoid fathers. Crime statistics, because women are given more leeway and men under report crime. Also search up child abuse statistics then which group has the highest divorce and abuse rates (Lesbians, straights or gays)
/r/MensRights01/05/26 02:07 AM
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Equality doesn't become subjective when we are talking about the law, double standards in society etc There are very few times that biological differences actually mean one gender is supposed to be treated as inferior. And that is being tradroles anyway. That is not what this sub is for.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 08:57 AM
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I am not joking when a grown woman told me that in the case of one of the world's youngest fathers, he was 12 and the woman 30 something...the woman was the victim. They are so deep in the victim mentality they see a 30 something old woman as the victim more than a 12 year old child. Saying she shouldn't go to jail because pregnancy is punishment enough on her body which is another thing I am getting fed up of. Women trying to weaponise pregnancy to get leeway, sympathy or privileges. Even among…
/r/MensRights30/04/26 07:21 AM
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Our creation? No, the men of the past creation? Definitely, they screwed everyone over. They didn't enforce equality instead they just gave women more privileges. They brewed hate/caution in women such as fathers being so overprotective they tell their daughters men are pigs and never to trust one which multiple women use to justify hating men saying even their own fathers told them to do it. Fathers often treated their daughters differently to their sons, 'daddy's little princess' and didn't di…
/r/MensRights30/04/26 07:13 AM
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I don't think people mean for it to be hateful but it is a way of showing how gynocentrism is often so inbaked that most people don't second guess it. The phrase women and children only leaves out one group. Then when that group complains they will gaslight that group and say they are the privileged ones even though their lives are disposable. It's especially egregious during war. I am not talking about the draft because that doesn't include children. But regular things like civilians getting bo…
/r/MensRights30/04/26 07:07 AM
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As to be expected comments are defending her or not treating it like the horrific crime it is. According to the comments she also was racist talking down about his Asian wife and calling him an Arab boy toy.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 07:05 AM
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Yes we do want to be equal. This is what the sub is for, this isn't a tradroles sub where we are against feminism because it doesn't conform to gender roles. We are against feminism because it doesn't actually promote equality.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 07:01 AM
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I see religion differently. Most people aren't hardcore in their religious beliefs and often it just amounts to being raised that way by their family. Believing in a higher power, doing some holidays and praying isn't all that bad. Feminism is something you have to choose and actively participate in. The average person does believe in equality so the label of feminist often devolves to manhating or thinking women have it worst. Just like if I said I believe in redpill ideology you would assume I…
/r/MensRights30/04/26 06:56 AM
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I make them uncomfortable. I bring up the facts women abuse children at a far higher rate, lesbians have a much higher rate of domestic violence and abortion. The crime statistics are incredibly skewed. Male rape/sexual assault is often unreported, the person isn't brought to justice or its reported and not taken seriously. "Sean Stewart became the youngest father in Britain yesterday when his girlfriend gave birth to a healthy son. Sean, 12 last month, was allowed to miss school to be at the be…
/r/MensRights29/04/26 06:11 PM
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Feminism is an ideology that heavily favours hating/talking down onto men. One of their hastags was literally KillAllMen which they defended. Men are half the planet and can't change how they were born. Not comparable.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 05:58 PM
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Mens biggest mistake was being pushovers. Women didn't want to vote because they thought they had to sign up for the draft. They should have stuck to that. Either abolish the draft or make it you can only vote if you are putting something on the line. Men didn't actually enforce the equality and began squabbling with other men for the benefit of women. And now its blown up in their faces. Its the same with false accusations, HR etc no actual enforcing equality just bending the knee to women.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 05:56 PM
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I am getting so fed up of the manosphere talk. It's been the same fear mongering for years whilst women's misandry gets worse and worse to the point of wishing death on a baby for being a boy. Yet no documentary tackling how toxic and bitter women have become in online spaces.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 05:49 PM
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Because despite people acting like women are angels they can be toxic. Mothers go onto father online spaces because they themselves say other mothers are toxic. Women hang around men subreddits and don't get ripped to shreds compared to men who get blocked or told to go away. Even other women have said that they don't go to women only subs because they are quite toxic there.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 05:47 PM
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As for the first point they believe women need to be compensated for time loss in a relationship. Even if he was paying for everything she deserves a payout for putting up with him. So they think marriage makes it less likely for them to leave and if he does leave at least you get paid.
/r/MensRights26/04/26 01:40 AM
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Especially if the person says they were raped a lot time ago and the guy just became famous. Like why are you speaking up now? Why not when it actually happened?
/r/MensRights26/04/26 01:39 AM
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I'm glad I'm not the only one noticing they treat it like a tit for tat game/competition.
/r/MensRights24/04/26 12:45 AM
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I also heard that excuse and it's so frustrating. The one I heard is "Women are mirrors, if you don't like the way she is treating you then you need to look at how your treating her" which absolves them of accountability and victim blames men. It genuinely hurts my head trying to reason with those people, they stick to this ideology so much that you just can't pull them out. Still astounds me people truly believe we are in a patriarchy when it feels like pulling teeth to get people to acknowledg…
/r/MensRights24/04/26 12:40 AM
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And people still wonder why men are so against the "lock them in prison and throw away the keys" mentality anytime a woman says she was raped. Especially if the guy is a celebrity it becomes a bit too convenient. Rape is awful but that doesn't mean delve into black and white mentality, I have even seen people say they rather believe a liar than a rapist which is horrible. People go on instant witch hunts as if her word is law and there is no way she can lie about it. An actor who was getting dec…
/r/MensRights24/04/26 12:36 AM
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Feminism is very short sighted They did all the KAM, 4B feminism, double standards to the point men don't want to be associated with them anymore. They lost potential followers because they couldn't let go of their hate and I have seen first hand boys as young as 11 resent girls because of online misandry. In fact their misandry and double standards have convinced other women to turn against them as well because anyone can see it's clearly now just a hate ideology. Also 4B feminism was dumb anyw…
/r/MensRights22/04/26 05:00 PM
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People don't count men as humans lots of times. During war/emergencies they scream women and children are getting hurt to make people feel sympathy, that only isolates one group During abortion/children talks, it is almost solely about the mother. They don't want men to be able to not be financially liable for a child they don't want because it might affect women's decisions, they try to guilt men into treating their ex right because "that's the mother of your children" but somehow father of you…
/r/MensRights22/04/26 12:04 AM
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Men are being told they can't do something for other people's comfort. Doesn't matter how short it is. Some men may only have that time to workout, prefer to workout at that time etc. 3 days a week is basically half the week and women can still workout whenever they want compared to men who have to look a the time and day. Not very equal is it?
/r/MensRights21/04/26 11:54 PM
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I have asked countless women how misogyny is systemic. I have extended the olive branch to see their point of view. They either tell me to do my own research (so they don't actually know themselves and are just being parrots), say I am being too aggressive and misogynistic (so just tone policing) or they change the topic/if online just don't answer. I can list thousands of ways I think men are systemically oppressed. I could be wrong but at least I can actually point and show why I feel some way…
/r/MensRights21/04/26 03:42 PM
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I got called gay and misogynistic for saying there is no excuse for a woman to throw a chair at her husband. Que tons of comments telling me I have no idea what reactive abuse is, I am a misogynist, I must have a boyfriend, I am victim blaming, I don't know what her husband did to make her do that. Some weird comments that I must be feminine because I said throwing chairs at a man is abuse and unhinged behaviour Even in the video the chair hits her child and the comments still defending her or s…
/r/MensRights19/04/26 05:26 AM
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Exactly and whenever you bring it up in feminism groups you either get kicked out or they try to blame men for supposedly setting the system up. Or they try to make it not male specific such as saying "no one should be drafted" like they just can't acknowledge it is a form of male oppression. Way bigger violation of autonomy compared to not being able to get an abortion. I can't take feminism in countries like Ukraine seriously. The men have it far worse but I am supposed to feel pity for the wo…
/r/MensRights19/04/26 05:18 AM
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This is my main issue. I know women will be jerks and men will be jerks. Bad apples will always exist in every group. The problem is society (the media, law, general society) only focuses on one group and stubbornly sticks to 'women are wonderful' effect and that women are inherently victims. Men are supposed to care about women's issues whilst women centric media constantly spews hatred against men. And men are the bad guys if they object to it. Even during wartimes people scream about women an…
/r/MensRights16/04/26 02:53 PM
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But in those countries it will be women calling themselves marginalised and oppressed. The draft/wartime is one of the biggest reasons I drifted away from feminism especially because when you try to discuss it with feminists they always try to downplay it or take the focus off men saying no one should be drafted. It's like pulling teeth to get them to admit men are disadvantaged and not valued.
/r/MensRights12/04/26 06:23 AM
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Because a man knows how life is for other men. Even the most boot licking feminist man knows if a woman hits him, he isn't allowed to fight back for example. It's different to not be apart of the group and simply not know how life is like for the other side. Feminist men however do know what life is like yet they still follow feminism. Women I can understand. The media and everything is telling them they are oppressed and male issues don't get much coverage. So for them not to understand how men…
/r/MensRights12/04/26 06:18 AM
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There was a similar day for women. In Iceland women went on a mass strike. They didn't come to work. They wanted higher pay because they thought they did so much work. I am not joking when I say people legit didn't notice that the women were on strike. Nothing changed. If men did it however, it would be vastly different. Society would literally collapse. That must have been a very humbling experience, same thing with 4B they have so much arrogance that they think being deprived of their presence…
/r/MensRights11/04/26 06:52 AM
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Yeah equality goes out the window when its time for them to suffer. Very consistent pattern even outside of war/military thing. Such as women complaining they now have to pay alimony and saying how horrible it is to give money to your ex even when he cheated yet they defended men giving their money over by saying she stayed home so deserves compensation because she was looked after. Or they still want men to pay for dates, then say its romantic or whatnot when in reality they just want a free me…
/r/MensRights11/04/26 06:44 AM
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Yeah I'm arguing with another one saying Pakistani's protect pedos and rapists whilst the british will kill their own family if they rape or go after kids. I had to remind them of history books, the British did go after multiple nations children and have raped. Yet they were not killed by their famoly. The British in particular cannot have a holier than thou attitude towards other races when history books exist. Bad apples exist in every race and are inescapable but all of a sudden if the person…
/r/MensRights05/04/26 01:09 AM
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Poverty is no excuse but it is an understanding. Pakistani families don't support rapists or pedophiles that is an egregious accusation. You have no way of knowing if billions do that. And again with the generalisation, British dads and mothers have sexually abused, murdered etc to their children and their families didnt come after them. These things happen in every race because unfortunately bad people will do stuff no matter their skin colour. Not to mention what the British did to other natio…
/r/MensRights05/04/26 01:03 AM
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So you are hating on an entire group because of the prison population they make up 16.1%? Are we being fr? Besides there are million other factors such as poor areas producing more crime which tend to be more POC dominated, gang cultures being formed due to POC not trusting police to come to their aid hence trying to find alliances with themselves which just snowballs etc. And in the statistics you gave me white men have 12,000 rape and asians have 300...yet you are hating south asian off on tha…
/r/MensRights04/04/26 02:27 AM
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And that judge was wrong for that however hating a whole ethnicity is not the way to go. I assume you are a man. Do you like it when women group you up with other evil men even though you didn't do those bad men's deeds? If you don't like to be generalised on stuff you can't control then don't generalise others.
/r/MensRights03/04/26 09:31 PM
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Genuinely have no idea what you are talking about, but if you want to talk about police...police brutality is majority white so should POC hate white people based off that?
/r/MensRights03/04/26 09:22 PM
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Not all rapists are in prison either, so what's your point? Should they hate white people because of what the british empire did? Or school shootings? Or racist attacks? Should women do the same, hate men for all the murderers, rapists etc? Should Jews hate Germans because of the Holocaust? If you don't like to be generalised or put under an umbrella then don't do it to others.
/r/MensRights03/04/26 09:16 PM
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Yeah its putting me off this sub and I have been using this sub for a long time. I really hate that alt right people have drifted here. We aren't anti-feminist because we hate women but because the current system hates men. And its a bad look for anyone who might come here for even a momentary glance. We already aren't a popular group we don't need bigots to come here and bring the reputation down even more. Also this is just classic divide and conquer. Make the oppressed class hate eachother so…
/r/MensRights03/04/26 09:12 PM
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And this is why things won't change in the UK. A post about the government making laws that give women extra power instead of being angry all you can think of is Muslims.
/r/MensRights03/04/26 12:46 AM
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Yeah because everyone knows Pakistanis and Muslims don't go to prison. They magically just have all charges waived/s
/r/MensRights03/04/26 12:45 AM
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And who are the actual degenerates? Instead of being bigoted and racist perhaps try hating the people actually making the laws.
/r/MensRights03/04/26 12:44 AM
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My sister has been told those by white men 10x more. Don't get the Muslim hate, a Muslim actually stood up for her and walked her home. Instead of focusing on skin colour maybe focus on the government working against you.
/r/MensRights03/04/26 12:43 AM
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Yeah I don't get their Muslim hate. Even in conversations not mentioning them somehow they find a way to hate on them. Like you cannot be this obsessed. Feels like recently a bunch of alt right people came here thinking because this sub is anti-feminist it is for alt right spaces.
/r/MensRights03/04/26 12:42 AM
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Racism and anti-immigration how? People might use misandry to try and convince others to hate but racists will generally hate women of colour same for anti-immigrants, they will also hate women immigrants.
/r/MensRights29/03/26 07:09 AM
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And its going to blow up in their faces big time. The reason so much boys get fed into the alt right pipeline is because everywhere else is so hostile or so gynocentric. Why can't males just live life without everyone thinking how it affects females. Deny men justice because women might not come forward with crime (false accusations), tell men not to hit back because women are weaker, make a man give alimony because heaven forbid women have to work for themselves, draft men so women can be safe,…
/r/MensRights27/03/26 02:06 PM
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I have also asked this when someone told me misogyny is institutional. I have yet to get an answer. I notice that a lot with feminist arguments. When you dig deeper and ask for more context, examples or even to explain the thought process beyond a catchy phrase they genuinely can't. It's like they just see it online and parrot it not even knowing if its true or giving it any critical thought. For example they genuinely believe that false accusations are 2%. Anyone with common sense can see why t…
/r/MensRights27/03/26 01:57 PM
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I swear its like feminists are stuck in the past. Even when arguing with them they always bring up "Women couldn't vote" like how is that relevant to present topics of gender equality. Women can now vote. It's been dealt with. Or saying men are feeling what women felt for centuries...how is that helping or even relevant to today's topic. The past is in the past I don't get how hating on men of today for something the women of today never experienced makes sense.
/r/MensRights27/03/26 01:51 PM
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That reminds me of a conspiracy I saw that the reason education is centering women and being bias towards them is because they need manual workers. Most men if they have an education are going to try to get a desk job but society needs manual labour. I agree, despite their hatred and utter apathy towards men the truth is they need men's labour. Whether it's their taxes, using what men built or in times of conflict using men's strength. A man who starts to prioritise himself means everyone else n…
/r/MensRights23/03/26 12:38 PM
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I never understood it either. I have my own family to get home to why would I sacrifice my life for a random woman especially if she is being difficult. Like when getting robbed, just hand the things over your life isn't worth whatever material possessions you have in your bag especially nowadays where you can often deactivate your bank account online so it's not like they can leave you penniless if they take your card. Just go home and deactivate it and order a new one.
/r/MensRights22/03/26 02:15 AM
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It's not a gendered activity yet people still expect it from men
/r/MensRights22/03/26 02:13 AM
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What are you trying to get at?
/r/MensRights19/03/26 03:48 PM
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Not read any solid studies kind of seems like one of those things everyone just knows. Like a universal truth. No one blinks an eye at the draft. Titanic, the mens sacrifice is hardly acknowledged Even now if they want you to care about something they will specify women and children are getting hurt, nevermind if a man gets hurt. Even when talking hypothetically about giving false accusations a punishment people argue against it because women might not report. So deny men justice so future women…
/r/MensRights19/03/26 03:37 AM
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I have the exact same thought. Every time its brought up it always just seems like they are parroting this stuff from other places they heard. This belief only gets stronger when you ask them to explain and all of a sudden they just can't. Rape culture is not a thing. Women think its gay for a man to be approached and complain men aren't chasing. Also if rapists are so adored and accepted like they think...why do most rapists hide it? They act like rapists go around telling men they are rapists …
/r/MensRights16/03/26 10:13 AM
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Often times they are misandrist because no man approaches them. Why most men don't approach them is because they dress masculine and most men don't want a masculine girl. They feel rejected, then told online how everything is mens fault and it becomes a cycle. From what I noticed most misandrists are just bitter women.
/r/MensRights16/03/26 10:05 AM
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That is not at all what insectionality is nor should it be ended because it is reality. For example intersectionality pokes holes in women's victim mentality as well as disproves stuff such as women claiming they were the most oppressed when a rich, white woman was the top of society compared to a poc or working class man. Or how early feminists only wanted the rights for white women. Intersectionality isn't reverse racism, it doesn't even have to be race specific. Removing intersectionality wou…
/r/MensRights16/03/26 10:01 AM
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I only ever hear of the male loneliness epidemic when people want to weaponise it. Frankly like most things it just seems projection. Women are the ones saying men aren't willing to get married anymore, they are going to single events and seeing no man there, they aren't getting approached anymore. Seems clear to me women are getting lonely and missing chivalry/men. Men are retreating because the way society is set up having a relationship is not worth the squeeze anymore.
/r/MensRights15/03/26 03:26 AM
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Misandry absolutely is systemic tho. It's in legal systems, family court and societal norms. I never understood this concept that it isn't systemic. Even in education men are falling behind and in the media there is such a rise in women empowerment/women centrism that even women are making videos of how fed up they are of girlboss characters. Marvel is currently trying to get back male viewers because they catered to women so much that their main target audience have lost interest. Other series …
/r/MensRights12/03/26 01:57 AM
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Weapons exist. Continous hits to the same area will bruise/cause damage. Women aren't that weak that men magically don't feel their attacks. They act like women hit with the force of feathers. Strength hardly matters if finances are held hostage which is backed by divorce aka you leave and were stupid enough to not get a prenup now you lost 50% of everything and if you have children might lose access to them and have to pay child support. Not to mention emotional abuse might keep someone in an a…
/r/MensRights12/03/26 01:52 AM
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No they are not. Feminists don't hold the monopoly of equality nor are they the only ideology to push for equality. Opposing feminist ideology isn't hating women.
/r/MensRights12/03/26 01:47 AM
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Literally what inspired part of my reason to not believe in the whole men are privileged class. And what made me despise the victim mentality, truly is a disease because it warps everything in their head. I once had a 30 minute argument with my cousin that women not being apart of the draft is not misogyny. In what world is women not being forced to fight against their will hatred towards women? No one is stopping them from fighting, they just have a choice unlike men.
/r/MensRights12/03/26 01:46 AM
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Number 1 reason why I will never believe the whole men are privileged ideology. Whenever something goes wrong, its men to the woodchippers then when they come home it will be women who act like they were the victims online. Hate and neglect them but still use them when you need them.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 03:36 AM
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I'm all for being sensitive and that humans should naturally be empathetic and kind, unafraid to show emotions. But at a certain point you have to just stop being soft. Someone is being violent to you online...turn the phone/computer/tablet off. Go onto a different page. Watch YouTube and don't comment. That's if you can't handle it, I can handle it so I comment, disagree with mainstream thoughts etc because even if someone tells me to go die or says something rude I can just ignore it and write…
/r/MensRights11/03/26 03:32 AM
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Victim mentality. I do not agree with their explanation but it is an explanation. They view themselves as underprivileged and oppressed. Very much tribalistic as in "their group hurt my group" type mentality even when you point out gender is the last thing to be tribalistic about. Because everyone is born from a woman and everyone is born from a man so usual oppression talks are rarely effective because it affects everyone's and ignores nuance. Rich women outclassed men. White women outclassed P…
/r/MensRights10/03/26 10:19 AM
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Depends, its so common that sometimes its near impossible to avoid especially for shows that have 20ish episodes. If its a one off comment I put that in general misandry category. A bit horrible, will skip when I rewatch. But if its consistent then I will drop. I also don't see a misandrist character to mean the show is misandrist. I consider it misandry if they try to do the whole lecture men, men are dumb and prop women up at mens expense thing. You can usually tell when its a joke vs somethin…
/r/MensRights09/03/26 04:34 PM
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Using a term that is popular doesn't indicate being an awful person. What is your thought process? What would you prefer it to be called?
/r/MensRights09/03/26 04:26 PM
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Even if you disagree with paper abortion, how is that misogynistic?
/r/MensRights07/03/26 08:25 PM
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People won't take male issues seriously because...they point out blatant favouritism and double standards?
/r/MensRights07/03/26 08:24 PM
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Not surprised its the UK. Same place that wanted to make it so women don't go to prison so offer more rehabilitative options despite men clearly needing it more since they are in prison more. Women can't be rapists by law there. They want misogyny to be treated the same as terrorism.
/r/MensRights07/03/26 08:23 PM
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Diminishing it's effect. Not knowing it exists is very believable and less cruel/unempathetic. I can't blame people because for the past 20 years all that books, TV shows, movies and school has been screaming is that women are oppressed, men are privileged and men oppress women. Hearing this as a kid then growing up under it to believe it as an adult is perfectly understandable. That also means there is room for growth and making the other person see it was never that black and white. But believ…
/r/MensRights07/03/26 07:21 AM
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Same way people forget there were female nazis who were said to be even more vicious, female rulers who started wars 27% more, female slave owners one of the most brutal examples being Delphine LaLaurie who did experiments so horrific and tortured them so horrifically that other racist people were disgusted and chased her away. And this was in the past when whipping was considered acceptable, she was so bad a slave girl accidentally brushed her hair too tightly and jumped off the roof because he…
/r/MensRights06/03/26 11:11 AM
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When I was in school, I really liked science club. Stayed after school and went. Every Wednesday. Randomly they started doing a women science Wednesday every other week. So my science time got cut short by literally half. That was very unencouraging so I left and so did a lot of other boys, magically they didn't have a lot of students anymore so science club all together was disbanded. I also left because we went from doing experiments/extra science work to talking about periods The most annoyin…
/r/MensRights06/03/26 10:48 AM
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Same with homelessness. People started saying homelessness is a problem and its proof of the patriarchy that 1 in 4 homeless people are women...but ignore that means 3 in 4 homeless people are men. Or people talking about how safe it is to walk at night, more men are murdered yet the focus remains on women. Hillary even said that women are the main victims of war, not the men being forced to fight in the wars. For some reason the focus is always overwhelmingly on women.
/r/MensRights05/03/26 08:51 PM
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I think its fair to give them whatever sentence they were going to give the falsely accused. The person was willing an innocent person spend that much time in prison so its only fair they get that sentence.
/r/MensRights03/03/26 01:26 PM
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Who mentioned Shariah?
/r/MensRights03/03/26 01:24 PM
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They tried to do the same crap with cavemen. Instead they didn't say cavewomen hunted too, but that cave women would have been more successful and better hunters. Do I believe women were solely gatherers? No. In no point in history has no individual not done both gender roles. But being better hunters than the men? Yeah no, I do not believe that. https://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/archaeology/women-hunted-often-prehistory-men-b2451528.html https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2023/11/27/preh…
/r/MensRights03/03/26 01:12 PM
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Feminists have consistently denied or deflected mens issues. Feminists sent so much threats to a woman who opened up male abuse shelters she had to close them for her safety and the men's. When people bring up the draft, they deflect it by saying no one should be drafted. When people bring up the double standard of women hitting back and men expected not to, they just say no one should hit eachother. When men bring up unfair divorce laws they just say choose better. Technically correct but alway…
/r/MensRights02/03/26 09:34 PM
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Men are on average stronger, this is proved by endless data and history. From denser bones, more testosterone etc But the strength is exaggerated. For example the chivalry rule of walking on the side closest to the car is so if a car does crash it hits you, but men are still likely to die from that. Or the idea that men are on so strong so on buses should give their seats up, men can get tired. Women hits even if they can't do damage (which I disagree, being strong doesn't suddenly mean you are …
/r/MensRights01/03/26 09:40 AM
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Yeah I hate it that even when its so obvious the woman is 100% in the wrong they still try to somehow even the blame. It all of a sudden is a misunderstanding and tragic. The man shouldn't have let her think he was yelling when they are ignoring that stabbing someone over yelling is literally never OK. I also agree whenever a man so much breathes too much near women, its a sign of patriarchy and systemic oppression. Yet violence of women getting brushed under the rug consistently isn't counted a…
/r/MensRights25/02/26 06:02 PM
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"hospitalized after being stabbed by his wife in what authorities described as a tragic misunderstanding" Ah yes stabbing someone is simply a misunderstanding. Don't like how they keep skirting around it and not trying to establish it as firmly her fault. It wasn't a misunderstanding nor is it justified even if he was yelling at her. "the woman accusing her husband of personally insulting her. When he refused to leave the room, she threatened him and then attacked. Initially, she threw a pair of…
/r/MensRights24/02/26 09:50 PM
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I learned a long time ago most feminists simply don't want facts. It feels good to have something to blame for all your shortcomings. People reacted the same when I told them feminists didn't fight like women seem to think they did as if they were martyrs getting beaten up bloody for daring to wanting to vote. The reality is they didn't want to be able to vote until after they heard that they can't get drafted for it. Men were never given that option. Or when I told them early feminism fought mo…
/r/MensRights24/02/26 09:41 PM
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Multiple reasons. A stranger comes in, might sound sexist but men often handle it better or at he very least will be better equipped to handle the intruder. Emergency situation they will know what to do instead of panicking. This is all very stereotypical though and very broad and wide generalisation. Just off my own personal experience. Also men know they will without a doubt be punished with full harshness so will tiptoe around it more whilst women often get away with it. That sort of not bein…
/r/MensRights24/02/26 09:28 PM
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Purely anecdotal from other mens stories. Therapy for men seems to still center women. Even marriage counselling which is why most guys don't trust it. The gist of it is telling men to fix something about themselves for the benefit of women whilst women therapy is actual therapy as in walking her through her emotions, helping her deal with stuff etc. I never went to therapy. But from what others tell me, men essentially get told to 'man up' or see things from another side that coincidentally ben…
/r/MensRights24/02/26 02:56 PM
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I don't feel comfortable with any babysitter, gender be damned. But if I ever trusted someone who is not family to look after my child, I would prefer a man.
/r/MensRights24/02/26 02:52 PM
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Because in the west (which ironically seems to be where most women complain) what advantage do men have that women don't.
/r/MensRights24/02/26 12:43 PM
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Why is this comment section devolving to islamaphobia?
/r/MensRights24/02/26 12:38 PM
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Your son is your kid. A woman is an adult who is treated like a kid by law. Morally I say its worse to expect someone else to show protection towards someone who clearly doesn't care about him.
/r/MensRights21/02/26 10:07 PM
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Sometimes father's are even forced not to be present enough such as mothers interfering with fathers parenting to the point I don't even blame some dads for walking out. It's impossible to deal with. Pushback too much and she will divorce and your kids taken from you. Especially when they keep throwing the fact they were pregnant in the father's face to override his decisions. From demanding push presents, trying to limit how much his family sees their kids, coddling the kids when dad discipline…
/r/MensRights21/02/26 10:05 PM
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If your his dad shouldn't you be stronger than him anyway?
/r/MensRights21/02/26 05:59 PM
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To be honest, I have seen a lot of people blame dads. When daughters are promiscuous or dress near naked people say daddy issues or her father never loved her. Or he wasn't a strong father. When boys are a bit more feminine or rather nervous/softer people also blame the dad saying he isn't doing his job.
/r/MensRights20/02/26 08:38 AM
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Why specifically when your teenage son moves out?
/r/MensRights20/02/26 08:36 AM
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That is also manipulative as hell. Forcing women to have sex with you to get basic upkeep whilst not working because she's looking after children is a horrible thing to do to someone dependant on you.
/r/MensRights20/02/26 08:33 AM
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What is your point? Genuinely your whole argument is all over the place. I said you can't hold the men accountable for the men of the past actions then you start talking about parenting and children copying parents then abuse which isn't about incels. Incels can't get sex, so they won't have children so why even mention the parent? As for your earlier analogy, an incel won't have a wife since their defining characteristics is not having a relationship. Do you know what an incel is? ", why do inc…
/r/MensRights16/02/26 04:44 AM
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What does that have to do with the post? You asked why incels think women owe men then tried to put decades of not being seen as a person onto said incels when they weren't even born at the time. Yeah children copy parents. Hate to break it to you, but not every single man was abusive back then. Not to mention children also follow school, media etc and a lot of that has changed. So really its a moot point. I'm struggling to see the relevance.
/r/MensRights16/02/26 02:39 AM
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Exactly, no one wants to mistrust the police. But the police themselves had built this reputation. Sure, every group will always have bad apples. You just can't escape it, if something is available to the public such as a job then you will get bad apples. However when the police do murder someone or misuse their power, they are hardly punished unless that specific case goes viral or some other reason. If the police had arrested their own and showed even they aren't above the law, that if one of …
/r/MensRights14/02/26 07:58 AM
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It kind of gets exhausting that no one cares until it affects women. It's the same with boys falling behind in education. No one cares and people praise the girls for getting higher. But other way around and its supposedly misogyny holding girls back.
/r/MensRights14/02/26 07:51 AM
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That was 100 years ago, unless you are one of the oldest people you was not alive so how can you use something you never been through to hate on someone who never did it? By that logic I could say men were drafted in world war 2 so women owe them a debt and I want to cash it in. See how crazy that sounds? Trying to use the past to justify the present?
/r/MensRights14/02/26 07:48 AM
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Surprisingly no. My mother loves her father and grew up with 7 brothers. In fact she is part of the reason why I never strayed that close to feminism. She defends men, realises mens problems in society such as telling me to always get a prenup if I think about marriage, tells me and my brother to never defend a country with our lives because the country doesn't look after you when you come back with PTSD or whatever, never let our future wives dictate us or isolate us. Though we don't agree on e…
/r/MensRights12/02/26 06:42 PM
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Then women get offended when men ask if they are on their period.
/r/MensRights12/02/26 06:33 PM
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Yeah unfortunately due to the way society is women have been taught they are victims. The only way to wake them up is to actually treat them the way they ask. Same way the women online are freaking out about the lack of chivalry and men not paying anymore ignoring that is equality. All of a sudden women want to be stay at home mums to the point they are trying to shame men who can't make their wife a stay at home mum. So many women are told they are victims and have never experienced the other s…
/r/MensRights12/02/26 06:29 PM
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Perfect representation of what it's like being a man. Your issues are dismissed as patriarchy or women for some reason get really competitive as if the victimhood status is finite and only one group can have it at a time. Remember when feminists used a statistic saying 1 in 4 homeless people were women? apparently this is clearly the patriarchy at work and women are oh so oppressed by society...but conveniently ignore that means the other 3 homeless people are men. Same way they complain about w…
/r/MensRights12/02/26 06:21 PM
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Also if I get a girl pregnant, why would I want an unequal power dynamic? Make her angry and she can abort your baby out of spite. Only one of us gets to opt out of being a parent. What if I don't want kids? I'm told to man up and start providing for my future kid, she gets a way out.
/r/MensRights11/02/26 08:41 AM
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Yeah a lot of men know the whole equality nonsense is mostly just performative. People still expect traditional gender roles from men. When it comes time for feminists to walk the walk all of a sudden they think traditional gender roles are best.
/r/MensRights11/02/26 08:27 AM
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Would it be a joke if men said the same thing? Or is it coincidentally different because of some random excuse?
/r/MensRights07/02/26 11:05 PM
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The reason people are against ICE is because they are being given police power but acting like out of control bullies even more than the usual police. And we can't ignore their racism. Even police (and everyone especially men know how crummy and dismissive police can be) point out the brutality saying they arrest gang leaders, rapists, murderers but never had to resort to such brutality of using illegal holds. If the police are speaking out against ICE, you know it has to be extremely bad. Wheth…
/r/MensRights06/02/26 05:00 AM
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Not to mention ICE acting like power hungry bullies. Whether it's videos of them saying "you raise your voice, I erase your voice" Or 6 ICE officers pepper spraying, attacking them shooting a man on the floor because he, a nurse tried to attend to a woman that ICE pushed onto the floor. They did all that because he tried to help their victim. He was an American citizen. Illegal immigration is bad but the answer isn't power hungry bullies who are so brutal they would shoot a man who was already p…
/r/MensRights06/02/26 04:46 AM
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Surely you can see that scientist 'study' was just pandering to feminists. Do you seriously think we started off everyone equal then somewhere along the line the genders just became segregated by gender roles? If women used to hunt just as much as men, who was looking after the children? When women were pregnant? Post partum? On their periods? Not to mention their lesser strength. Not to mention you can still see in tribes today men do hunting and women stay home.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 04:38 AM
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Same way people are determined to believe you need to for some reason be harsher on sons. Why a son having a strong relationship with his mother is ridiculed or treated as something bad whereas having a strong relationship with your daughter is being a real man.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 04:31 AM
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I'm glad I'm not the only one noticing how often feminists/misandrists try to weaponise being able to get pregnant. Even in situations where it has no sway such as first dates, choosing baby names, house decor and anything else family related people always try to make the woman front and center just because she can be pregnant.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 04:30 AM
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Exactly, you see the exact same arguments from people who think false allegations shouldn't be punished. They say it might make future women not come forward. So in essence deny the man justice in the present because future women might be affected. They don't know for sure but the mere possibility is what makes them think men don't deserve justice.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 04:20 AM
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I have seen a concerning amount of people online just justifying women murdering their children, isolating them from fathers etc. Even some saying the dad can't see the kid because of the way he treated her, even admitting he never did anything to the child. Or she had a fight with her mother in-law so now she doesn't get access to her grandkids. They can't seem to seperate the children from themselves and just weaponise the children
/r/MensRights04/02/26 03:20 AM
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Different context. If someone said racism against white people didn't exist, they would be wrong. Some people are racist against white people. White lives matter however is just trying to combat Black Lives Matter which is trying to show and bring attention to the way POC are treated by law enforcement. White people just don't have that context. It would be like women saying family courts need to consider the mothers, it already does and they are just saying it to combat men who say family court…
/r/MensRights04/02/26 03:14 AM
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No because then people would whine and make a big deal. What normally happens is they expect the men around the woman to pick up the slack
/r/MensRights31/01/26 08:55 PM
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That is so bizarre to me as if they are the only group who believe in equality. Besides it is wrong. Feminists believe women are disadvantaged and men advantaged, their version of equality is bringing men down and women up to meet in the middle. They stay delusional to the actual reality that women have plenty of advantages and it isn't all sunshines and rainbows for men. This logic stays consistent on why they hate men, view any male centric actions/help as a hit against women and are so obsess…
/r/MensRights31/01/26 08:49 PM
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There is a reason the accountability memes exist. They will either deflect the topic or try to find some way to justify it
/r/MensRights31/01/26 08:27 PM
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You still haven't managed to say how. I gave multiple reasons why I believe it. Draft, divorce laws, double standards, education systems. In what meaningful way are women disadvantaged caused by misogyny and how does it outweigh men? i was using feminist logic where they think society and it's structure are patriarchy even in modern day, I don't believe it is a patriarchy. I was quoting the comment and remarking on that. As I said in my original comment, I have never got a straight forward answe…
/r/MensRights31/01/26 08:20 PM
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Misandry only offends? The draft and titanic, even today modern day wars the main victims are men. I don't get how men don't bring it up more often, men were targeted by their gender then used as a weapon and most died. The few who came back have such severe PTSD that no human should have to face. Weeks in trenches watching your brother in arms get blown up, die from infected wounds all whilst your sister and mother are at home. The titanic, so many men's lives were taken. There was free space o…
/r/MensRights30/01/26 05:52 PM
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Then people wonder why men often don't help with elderly parents or go to the wife's side more often. No shade to you but dads and mums in general. They openly say they prefer their princess more, try to make brothers act like gentlemen to their sisters, make boys do men tasks like taking out the trash but also make them do women roles like dishes, actively put less effort into them then saying it's because girls are easier. They don't even make it a flaw that the dad has a special bond with his…
/r/MensRights29/01/26 09:29 PM
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Feminists are very power hungry. This is the reason why they do mental gymnastics on why a father shouldn't be able to do financial abortion. because otherwise the money might threaten their power and their actions actually have consequences. It only works as long as she is guaranteed a cheque if she so chooses to raise the child.
/r/MensRights29/01/26 09:22 PM
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Not to mention the reality that society depends on men way more than women. A man shortage means a lot less physical labour (because women aren't going to be lining up to be oil rig workers, construction workers etc), more men pay tax whilst more women get benefits aka take from tax. Heck even female only bars got closed down because women would go in there and not buy any drinks. Society needs men a lot more.
/r/MensRights29/01/26 09:20 PM
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I hate the term emotional labour because half the time it's just being a decent person. If your friend had a bad day, hearing them out and even letting them vent is being a good friend. To label it as emotional labour is just being a transactional person that views themself so highly that giving their time to their friend is labour to them. Also realistically men do much more emotional labour. Whether it's dealing with women complaining or when women get periods when men go to get them chocolate…
/r/MensRights29/01/26 09:17 PM
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When your country is at war, your husband/father/brother most likely facing conditions no human should have to but you still got to find time for racism. Racism truly is a disease.
/r/MensRights29/01/26 09:13 PM
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100% the men who come back won't be respected or they will dodge giving men respect instead saying to give soldiers respect because heaven forbid they admit it was men who saved them.
/r/MensRights29/01/26 09:11 PM
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Scientists also said that everyone else is wrong and women were better suited for hunting during caveman times and probably hunted more than men. It coincidentally happened to align with when feminism was at it peak and everyone was determined to make women seem more powerful and did more male roles to prove how useful they are. This is why a lot of people don't trust scientists anymore. They aren't anti-vax weirdos. For stuff like medicine, physics etc where the answer is concrete yes I trust t…
/r/MensRights29/01/26 09:08 PM
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Of course it's the UK, seems like they want to make it female utopia over there
/r/MensRights29/01/26 09:02 PM
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Their entitlement never ceases to amaze me especially because they don't even act like a Disney princess. They act more like the Evil Queen/villains. Entitled, superficial, marry for rank, wants to put all the work onto someone else then claim the benefits. Then they get angry that men don't want to be with a woman who says 'thats the bare minimum' and 'as you should' when you do something nice for her. It's becoming close to valentine's day and women are saying they aren't going to do anything …
/r/MensRights29/01/26 08:58 PM
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I never understood why a child you created, somehow the government has more control over than you. Seems absolutely crazy to me that they can just block you from your child.
/r/MensRights27/01/26 02:54 PM
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I also just tend to watch older movies. I don't get how older movies (relatively speaking) are more progressive than the slop that comes out nowadays. Women were allowed to be evil without some excuse being made, they were allowed to be dumb or the butt of a joke, a man is allowed to show some assertiveness towards women without the narrative making it a joke such as him falling the next second etc. Nowadays in movies its like women are untouchable gods who are always better than men and men sho…
/r/MensRights27/01/26 02:45 AM
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This is just anecdotal but I have seen a certain selfishness in mothers. Same way they divorce the father then keep father and child separate. No care if that's what the child wants, its all just about her. Using child support on themselves and justifying it saying it's their compensation for being a parent. Tear up families because they can't put aside their beef with their in-laws even weaponising their children. I haven't seen many men boasting about the fact he doesn't let his wife's parents…
/r/MensRights26/01/26 10:10 PM
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She can't, she just always sees men as the villains. Look at her history she blames all men for rape and says all men feel entitled because....reasons.
/r/MensRights26/01/26 10:00 PM
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This is factually wrong, women abuse children way more
/r/MensRights26/01/26 09:59 PM
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I have noticed this, even on YouTube. The older comments would justify women's, act overly chivalrous and random men talking about how much a man needs a woman and always treat women with respect. Newer comments people are a lot more egalitarian. Now if a man hits back, a lot more comments don't care. Men fight back against expectations of chivalry/traditional male roles by asking women what they bring to the table, more men are hating feminism and more men have stopped buying the whole women ha…
/r/MensRights26/01/26 09:54 PM
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Which one of my statements about abortion made you reconsider your thoughts? What were your thoughts before it?
/r/MensRights26/01/26 10:58 AM
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Yep, if you start something with someone then you are accepting that they will treat you like an enemy. No one holds back on enemies.
/r/MensRights26/01/26 03:24 AM
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And why should men care? Why do women deserve this special little protection that men have to hold back even if she is starting it?
/r/MensRights26/01/26 03:22 AM
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They want the privileges they just don't want anyone acknowledging those privileges and why they are there because it shatters their world view. It's like playing pretend superheroes with a kid, you have to play along or they throw a tantrum
/r/MensRights26/01/26 03:21 AM
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People just need to consider men human again. It's genuinely shocking once you talk to people and realise how much men just aren't people to them. Even other men. In their mind a man is supposed to be ok with everything a woman does and want to do stuff for her...but reverse that and suddenly it's abusive and controlling, she has standards etc Even outside of relationship talk they don't seem to comprehend why men aren't lining up to be feminists after feminists defended/started KAM, #MeToo, 4B …
/r/MensRights26/01/26 03:17 AM
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I just had an argument with someone over this saying young boys are misogynists and horrible people. I tried explaining, the internet is a massive part of the youth of today. You simply can't meet a single kid over even the age of 5 who hasn't touched YouTube or even just been online. So the whole it's just online thing doesn't help because the Internet is a massive part of Gen Z's life. Online young boys are hit with KAM, #MeToo, 4B feminism, I choose the bear question, women celebrating male s…
/r/MensRights26/01/26 03:07 AM
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The education system whilst telling me women have it worse somehow lead me to the opposite belief. Girls in class allowed to talk, yet a boy talks and it's detention Automatically labeled me a troublemaker for being a boy...I have never once got detention and even other teachers defended me against the teacher saying I must have threw a pen at her because the direction it came from was me and some girls behind me. They had science club days for girls only randomly every 2 weeks Then in history s…
/r/MensRights25/01/26 04:20 AM
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There was a video about a woman burning her friend alive for supposedly misogynistic comments. I thought everyone would be on board that words should never translate to setting someone on fire, but nope people were celebrating her and being on her side.
/r/MensRights25/01/26 04:08 AM
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So far gender war is just women hating on men and men no longer sitting down and accepting it without saying something back. Look at every gender war trend that starts. Consistently it is women who start it and go overboard. KAM, 4B, I choose the bear etc And normally it goes on for a few months before men finally start snapping back. They expec you to just lay down and let them hate you.
/r/MensRights25/01/26 04:06 AM
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Ok, answer the question then. How? In what category? In education men are disadvantaged. In legal systems men are disadvantaged. Societally the double standards are against men a lot more. Crime wise, men are the main victims. I literally said this in my comment, I have never got a straightforward answer about how women supposedly suffer more in western countries?
/r/MensRights24/01/26 09:42 PM
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So men's issues are violence, shorter lifespans, education + legal inequalities, homelessness and suicide. Womens are being weaker, reproductive rights, economic power, unpaid labour and having a shorter lifespan. Weapons cancel out any being weaker argument and that isn't an inequality unless we are going to say nature is sexist. Reproductive rights, men also don't have so it's not something unique that only women don't have. Economic power, this just applies to everyone who isn't at the top, a…
/r/MensRights24/01/26 06:08 AM
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This is one of the main reasons feminism got soured for me. People telling me somehow it is just that a woman can decide to kill my child but heaven forbid I decide I don't want a child then all of a sudden I'm less of a man, deadbeat, horrible man etc Feminism claims to be for equality, yet consistently they have shown they are far more pro-women. Women should have all the leveraging power and men have no choice because parental responsibility is one of the few powers that women were able to la…
/r/MensRights24/01/26 01:10 AM
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When I said the tiny thing that was more just relating to my experience, my cousin is ridiculously tiny at that point in time and skinny as a bone. Like not even 5 foot so anyone can see why she resorted to bolting when 2 grown men started chasing her and yelling slurs because she wanted to get a cold drink on a hot summer day. She just about got to 5'2 now and is 16. Even if she was a boy, him being 5'0 and very skinny would still have me looking at the grown racists as cowards especially since…
/r/MensRights23/01/26 03:26 AM
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One of the reasons I stopped believing feminist rheteroic is because I simply looked around me and saw nothing backs up their claims other than their words. When looking racially. Police brutality, 9/11, COVID and Ice raids that is a very consistent pattern of POC being targeted and hated. All of which are modern and not me trying to dig up the past. Then you look at how POC criminals are described compared to white criminals, people's fake outrage when a white girl is attacked (They resort to a…
/r/MensRights22/01/26 01:27 AM
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Yeah feminism is built off emotion so inherently irrational. They believe for centuries that the evil men have oppressed them so are angry and see them as their enemies. They are trying to do an eye for an eye situation only difference is in this case they never lost an eye and they are trying to take an eye from someone who never took another's eye. They cannot moan about past oppression they never faced and use it to justify hatred to people who never partook in it. Anger truly does blind. The…
/r/MensRights20/01/26 09:12 PM
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Funnily enough they did open a women's only bar...and it got closed down pretty quick because almost no drinks were sold.
/r/MensRights20/01/26 09:08 PM
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Yeah neither do I, recently on this sub we got some people who think white people are victimised same way men are and this is frankly not true beyond maybe some undeserved hate online and jokes. Everyone knows about police brutality so I will skip that. After 9/11, it was POC hated mostly brown people/Arabs/Muslims, during covid people once again targeted poc and now in America Ice raids are attacking people of colour who are actually citizens. Very consistent pattern of POC getting discriminate…
/r/MensRights20/01/26 09:04 PM
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A lot of their claims are baseless and not thought out. Men suffer less under a patriarchy. How? Women are advantaged in education, the law and society. How are they more disadvantaged than men? I have literally never got a straightforward answer for this. I asked so many times in real life and online yet no one seems to know yet they parrot it all the time. I could be wrong but when is the last time men said the future is male, boy power, KAW, I choose the bear. Seems like one side is infinitel…
/r/MensRights18/01/26 03:52 PM
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Women's violence and sheer unhingedness has largely been ignored. How many women have slapped their husbands and their husband just ignores it or laughs it off? It's so prevalent that people ask what did he do to deserve it rather than seeing it for the lack of control it is. And then they don't document it as abuse so the statistics are lopsided since one sides abuse isn't considered abuse. Their unhingedness is also ignored or given excuses. Saying KAM, celebrating male suicide, crying misogyn…
/r/MensRights17/01/26 01:54 AM
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False accusations should come with a punishment. Divorce laws need to be heavily looked at and rewritten. We no longer live in times when women can't support themselves. There is absolutely no reason for default 50/50 asset split, default no fault divorce, paying her money to maintain her lifestyle she only got through marrying you. For places like America, the draft and other legal discrimination such as ladies getting free drinks at clubs, insurance companies charging men more, police automati…
/r/MensRights15/01/26 03:23 AM
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So both do the deed but only one can back out?
/r/MensRights15/01/26 03:19 AM
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Or...women can just work themselves. Why are the only 2 options rely on the government or rely on a man? And if you can't do it alone maybe they finally learn some respect and consideration rather than the government always bailing them out of learning natural consequences.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 03:17 AM
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To be fair as you said you are an older woman. This new age misandry is mostly a younger woman thing, in my experience older women seem to not be so bitter and paranoid. That's why men complain about modern women because its the younger generation of women who seem so apathetic, entitled and hateful.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 03:15 AM
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What's disgusting is feminists will defend this behaviour. They have done it in the past I forgot the names but a mother killed her adult child and people just randomly accused him of doing something to his granddaughter because why else would she kill him? She simply can't have been a bad person, clearly he did something. Or another mother killed her actual children and feminists saying to feel sympathy because its post partum depression or something like that. They literally defend and make up…
/r/MensRights15/01/26 03:12 AM
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Yeah I try not to generalise but in my experience its very prevalent in women whether its because they lean more left which cares about being politically correct or because they care more about social appearances. It can get a bit exhausting especially when everyone knows they are just saying what they are told to say and it isn't their actual opinion or how they would react. Since it takes a village to raise a child, I would just tell her if I ever get my ex pregnant let's raise the child toget…
/r/MensRights15/01/26 03:09 AM
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Yeah that's the problem with women and some men. They choose the more PC answer as in the answer they think they should say. Most women online said the same, that they love children and it doesn't need to be their child for them to love it yet they still went into hospitals with markers or told their husbands to follow the doctors to make sure no switch happens. It's the same way they say online that they don't care about a man's money and they are fine with paying for the first date yet when it…
/r/MensRights13/01/26 05:13 PM
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Tale as old as time. It's why they often say if a woman didn't have double standards then she would have no standards. Some examples off the top of my head is telling men all children are a blessing and they are oh so cruel leaving their pregnant wife when they find out the baby isnt theirs or leaving a 1 month old because for some reason leniency and kindness are demanded from men. Told men DNA doesnt matter even saying stuff like paternity tests are unethical because it takes away the mothers …
/r/MensRights13/01/26 10:53 AM
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Why do they think they are the only ones scared of the night? Fear of the dark and unknown is one of the most common fears to the point even children and babies express it. If you aren't slightly on edge when outside at night, you are lacking brain cells. Also Misandry does kill. The draft for one, cases like the Titanic etc. Systemic Misandry kills a lot more than misogyny.
/r/MensRights13/01/26 03:52 AM
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I remember reading an article published by some feminist say women feel left out during mens mental health month and there should be space for women during this month completely ignoring women already have a month. Also women talking about how paternity tests being normalised is taking away one of women's only power to determine who raises their child as before the mother can choose who the father of her baby is and which one would get her a more advantageous position but paternity testing remov…
/r/MensRights10/01/26 05:03 AM
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Ironically from what I have seen using phrases like "as he should" "bare minimum" has made men not want to do those gestures. I have noticed a change online, in the past other commenters would just tell younger men to deal with it and that's how life is whilst now men are fighting back, not instantly bending backwards for it and pointing out double standards. Gender dynamics have definitely changed on men's side whether it's men not participating in dating anymore (which lots of women have done …
/r/MensRights10/01/26 04:52 AM
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A pattern I notice is they either make it a competition when literally no one was trying to do that, try to somehow find someone to blame (who set that system up?) Or try to downplay it not that bad. I had similar experiences to you, lovely generic women not even hard-core feminists but somehow still obliviously gynocentric. I'm also fed up of them always trying to deflect. Talk about the draft and they say its been so long since someone's been drafted and that no one should get drafted. Thanks,…
/r/MensRights05/01/26 01:39 AM
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True, I don't hate women. That would be ridiculous what I hate is the inherent trust and authority as well as protection girls get. I wouldn't mind it as much if they weren't constantly whining about being oppressed when everywhere I look they are getting handouts and being helped by nearly every corner of society yet they still complain. Social setting, legal settings, in education. What area of society do they not have a leg up in? It is like listening to a spoilt rich teen saying his life is …
/r/MensRights25/12/25 12:09 AM
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The point is they say they feel oh so unsafe yet do activities that clearly show they don't feel as unsafe as they claim. Wouldn't be an issue if they didn't keep bringing up not feeling safe. The night has never been safe. Yet they whine and complain when they aren't even the biggest victims
/r/MensRights25/12/25 12:04 AM
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You see, men aren't going online and complaining about it. The night will always be an inherently dangerous time. Men understand this and act accordingly. Women sit around and whine as if whining is suddenly going to change the inherent truth that the night will always be dangerous.
/r/MensRights25/12/25 12:00 AM
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My point was the difference in how it is treated A woman does it, suddenly it's the hardest job in the world where they exaggerate every step to make it seem bigger. When a man does it, people call him a leech, living a soft life and people feel sorry for the woman. The role didn't change, only the gender did yet the reactions are very different. Which leads to my second point, people say the sahd should have food ready yet when a male breadwinner expects that they call it oppressive and patriar…
/r/MensRights21/12/25 02:00 PM
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I said to one, that the draft during wars is unforgivable and is men paying a much larger debt than women can ever hope to repay they hit me with "we haven't had a draft in __" (forgot the years) but are the first to say "women couldn't vote until _" but somehow that's ok and is just respecting the past.
/r/MensRights20/12/25 09:24 PM
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What they often forget is the kid will eventually go school for 5-6 hours and after 10, being a parent goes a lot easier as you dont have to dress them, they can do their own homework etc They have 5-6 hours to clean the house and cook a meal. And its not like they are cleaning every room every day or that the husband is going to come with a magnifying glass and check to make sure its dust free. Most guys aren't going to throw a fit if the house isnt sparkly clean. As well as if you clean the da…
/r/MensRights20/12/25 09:12 PM
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I'm definitely getting out the UK. When I have a son, I don't want him in this country.
/r/MensRights15/12/25 09:37 PM
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Even if hypothetically the patriarchy exists despite all evidence showing men are often at a disadvantage by most areas of life as in the law, education, society etc Men paying more tax yet women reaping more benefits, men getting drafted, men in some countries can't be raped by a woman by law etc We ignore all that and pretend patriarchy is a thing. How is this targeted training towards boys going to change anything? If you want an equal society, then you got to target both genders.
/r/MensRights15/12/25 09:00 PM
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Targeting boys to treat women respectfully in a time where women are more misandrist than ever? They got their priorities wack.
/r/MensRights15/12/25 08:57 PM
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What existing imbalance?
/r/MensRights15/12/25 08:55 PM
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I don't get why it's so hard for them to comprehend. Want to make someone hate something, constantly shove it down their throat. Works for everything, no one likes something constantly pushed onto them. Especially something like this telling boys they need to be taught to treat women special yet girls are just as vicious and nasty as boys. The boys aren't blind, they will see the constant double standards and how they are pushing it forward yet women will complain they are the oppressed ones. Th…
/r/MensRights15/12/25 08:54 PM
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It's always hilarious they try to take credit for mother's actual work when needing to prove how useful they are and men need them but will then also say to men "I ain't your mother" and put down motherhood as oppressive and 'patriarchal'. They hate it yet it's their only claim to fame and special privilege. I once asked one of the feminists who said women deserve chivalry because men need to pay it forward since a woman gave him life he needs to treat all women special and be a gentleman to rep…
/r/MensRights13/12/25 02:56 AM
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As bad as the UK is with misandry (they literally want to make it possible for women not to go to prison because they get sad in prison whereas everyone knows men love prison/s) even they don't have a draft.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 02:49 AM
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I don't know why they all seem to have come to the conclusion that getting pregnant or even having the ability to get pregnant means other have to bend over backwards for them and they deserve special credit for it.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 02:44 AM
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It's so the kid doesn't prefer dads house aka save women from consequences yet again. Heaven forbid the kid likes dad more.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 09:09 AM
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Another case of how the hell does anyone still claim misandry isn't real. It's the only group that the law can single out (draft), that can be excluded (women only clubs, hours etc) and so on.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 09:06 AM
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The idea of police isn't bad. And corrupt officers don't change that however the fact they so rarely face consequences for it is what turns people away from them. I know every group will have rotten apples. But if a group is given power over the other group and not punished if they abused that power you can't blame society for not trusting them.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 09:04 AM
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Feminism can mean gender equality that doesn't mean it can't be wrong or it's the only one believing in gender equality. Feminism believes women start off already behind thus any extra privilege is just evening out the difference. That's why they don't object to women privileges or try to diminish them because in their eyes a little privilege in certain areas is ok because they are so oppressed by society. That is their version of equality. Their worldview has it as women are oppressed and behin…
/r/MensRights12/12/25 09:02 AM
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This is why I find it hilarious when women try to use abuse statistics to their advantage. A lot of male abuse goes under the radar or is brushed off as just wife things which is very alarming. A husband slaps his wife once and suddenly he deserves death, beating, take his kids away for some reason even if he never touched any of his kids like that. But a woman hitting a man and people just think it's women being women. I don't know if the women citing statistics are being purposefully dense or …
/r/MensRights10/12/25 06:11 AM
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I cannot exaggerate how much their victim mentality warps everything that it would be fascinating if it wasn't disturbing when you remember these people have voting power, are mothers/future mothers and apart of society. Heaven forbid they get into law enforcement or become a judge etc On a post about the world's youngest father (he was 12) people were saying the 36 year old was the real victim because...she got pregnant and that's the worst pain anyone could experience. On a video about a mothe…
/r/MensRights10/12/25 06:01 AM
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As a kid I always hated that phrasing because I like my dad and constantly being told to treat both genders the same yet also being told women get to go first is one of the few things that made me not a feminist. If society constantly pushes the narrative that group As life is less valuable than group Bs life and if a war comes out they will sacrifice group A, then how in the world is group B the oppressed one? I agree with your second part people act like women are made of glass and men have su…
/r/MensRights10/12/25 05:46 AM
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Well yeah how many times have women divorced because they were missing 'something' or they needed something else. Whilst a man will put up with a narcissistic woman for the sake of the kids and wait until they are grown up. It's also why I say the woman needs to love the man more rather than the man love women more as that's another online discussion. Lesbians and straight couples have the highest rate of divorce. In straight couples it's women doing majority of the divorcing. Clearly they are m…
/r/MensRights08/12/25 02:48 PM
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Same experience somehow the empathetic gender who supposedly has more emotional intelligence have been anything but empathetic. They are also the one who say listening to their husbands problems is emotional labour yet when the shoe is on the other foot they tell men to just listen to her vent because that's what good partners do. For them it's emotional labour, for men it's just the bare minimum. I agree it is bare minimum, decent humans will hear out a fellow humans pain/problem then offer a s…
/r/MensRights07/12/25 09:30 PM
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If your son is old enough get him to say who the true primary parent is. Also record all her threats
/r/MensRights07/12/25 04:04 PM
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So many men predicted it. It's an ugly truth but no one loves gender roles more than women. And why wouldn't they? It largely benefits them. Everyone can be a practice feminist in theory but women have it way too good to give it up. They claim stay at home mothers have the hardest job in the world yet when there is a video of a stay at home dad women get jealous and tell the woman her husband doesn't love her since he is living the soft life. When a woman proposes to her husband...its women in t…
/r/MensRights07/12/25 04:02 PM
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Let me guess Germany in the same breath will also say women are oppressed. What law is there that is gender specific against women? Abortion doesn't count, men also can't go around killing unborn babies or trying to abandon being a father.
/r/MensRights06/12/25 08:40 AM
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Same way women (in general) are also becoming alarmingly more homophobic on apps such as calling men gay for abusing women, cheating, expecting love and reciprocation, not wanting to pay for everything, not showing chivalry etc I don't know why the sudden switch up. I thought women in general were more tolerant of the lgbt same for the left. I want to find out why women seemed to all suddenly start switching up and turning against lgbt. Like why now?
/r/MensRights06/12/25 08:26 AM
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Genuinely as I like discussions so it's not passive aggressive or anything. How can MRA look hateful to women? Feminists have phrases like KillAllMen, MeToo movements, celebrating male suicide, choosing the bear, extreme double standards, blaming men and the patriarchy for almost everything and just general disdain for men such as posting articles saying having a boyfriend is embarrassing. It is easy to see why men can step into feminist spaces and feel uncomfortable. MRA however doesn't even ha…
/r/MensRights03/12/25 07:17 PM
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You said same could be said for women. I said that is why male feminists or men who pander to women also get more recognition and are hyped up more than women who do the same. When the other side also agrees with you people tend to give them more attention and praise because you dont expect them to understand
/r/MensRights03/12/25 10:10 AM
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Which is why it's easy for men online to pander to women by just repeating what they say. When it comes from the other side it's much more shocking and gets more attention.
/r/MensRights03/12/25 07:52 AM
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What do you mean you can switch it for women?
/r/MensRights01/12/25 01:18 PM
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I wasn't trying to be negative just pointing out as you also said that a lot of women don't really understand a man's pov. You yourself admitted it's something that never occurred to you but almost every man knows these basic rules so it's just shocking and gets more attention when women like the dadvocate point it out. Like I said I'm for true gender equality so I dont really care who gets the message out because frankly their gender shouldn't matter. If someone is batting for my team, I'm not …
/r/MensRights01/12/25 01:16 PM
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Feminism is an ideology. Being a man you can't control. Very different things
/r/MensRights30/11/25 01:36 PM
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The double standard make sense. With men you can imply write it off as them having a victim mentality especially if all media (can't stress how important the media is in shaping young minds) constantly goes on and on about how oppressed women are and we live in a patriarchy. They result to emasculation, homophobia or just outright dismissing it. With women you can't say it's a victim mentality. With women you can't say they are gay for advocating for men. With women it's more shocking. In my exp…
/r/MensRights30/11/25 01:26 PM
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Doesn't sound like you care about him if you are ok with him paying more long-term.
/r/MensRights30/11/25 01:16 PM
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Yeah, the whole point of family is to love and care for eachother. You shouldn't want to be paid to love and care for your own children. I cant wrap my head around how transactional it is at its core.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 07:21 PM
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They can do it for their friends. Hour long phone calls giving advice and listening to their friends vent. It's only a problem when it comes to their husbands. Because when it comes to men they always expect compensation for any little activity. They see men as ATMs so doing something as basic as being a normal human is seen as unpaid labour.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 07:20 PM
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If you are both using the same thing equally, why should he pay more just because u have less money?
/r/MensRights29/11/25 07:11 PM
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I would leave my partner too if they wanted me to pay more so they can have more money left over. Just pay your fair share or if you can't afford where you are now sit down and discuss it.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 02:09 PM
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Anyone else find it so off putting they call it unpaid labour. Like it's actually the bare minimum to look after your children. In fact it's illegal not to. They love to throw around the word bare minimum but it quite literally is bare minimum to look after your child. Listening to your partners worry/emotions isn't a mental load. It's being a decent human being. Planning the holidays isn't some exhaustive, unfair thing forced onto women. It genuinely isn't that hard and women end up being the o…
/r/MensRights29/11/25 01:51 PM
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Their financial freedom isn't really your concern. Unless its something like they are left with pennies but being left with less money is to be expected when you earn less.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 01:42 PM
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Men are often their own worst enemies. People often confuse misandry with people placing the blame on women. For me it's placing the blame on men for being gynocentric. Women tend to have solidarity with other women. Men don't have this solidarity. Just like women uphold misogyny so do men uphold misandry.
/r/MensRights28/11/25 10:13 PM
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5I will now give my opinion. White woman held more power than black men. Rich women held more power than a poor man. It was never a straightforward as men > women. Other factors were always at play. And what you described is systemic as it bleeds into family courts, the law and other areas even education. How is that not systemic? It's not a side effect from women's oppression either. It is it's own form of oppression. As for your misandry comment, no. Sometimes it's just because people got radi…
/r/MensRights28/11/25 09:54 PM
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I don't get how it being a romantic partnership translates to you need to pay for my share.
/r/MensRights28/11/25 09:45 PM
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Depends what you mean by bare minimum, some women online seem to think everything is bare minimum.
/r/MensRights28/11/25 09:43 PM
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Exactly I can't take them seriously when it comes to dating matters. Especially when they call men broke for not paying for the woman's meal. How are you going to be angry someone isn't paying for your meal then call him broke? Reminds me a phrase I saw someone online say. Majority of women if they woke up tomorrow as men would be seen as losers. Begging for people to pay for their dates, just sitting back, patting themselves on the back for being an adult and being independent etc.
/r/MensRights28/11/25 09:41 PM
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No, someone earning less doesn't mean you have to pay more. What sense does that make? I have extra money so instead of using it on myself I need to use it to make sure she can keep up?
/r/MensRights28/11/25 09:33 PM
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Because if both people are going to equally use it, why should one person pay more? It's different if it's like some vacation or something the richer person chose. But if it's rent for an apartment both people chose then why should one pay more for it?
/r/MensRights28/11/25 09:31 PM
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Everyone's ignoring the only reason she is getting any time is because the thing went viral or close to it. If it only gotten something like 30 views then he showed it to the court he probably get dismissed or she gets close to no punishmen.
/r/MensRights24/11/25 07:30 AM
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Also in Barbieland Ken's can't even buy a house and are homeless just living on the beach. In the so called evil patriarchy, women own more houses than men. The fact the movie was even allowed to be made shows the evil patriarchy isn't at all how they describe it. The Barbieland is what feminists think a matirarchy would be like and treats Kens like they think women are treated like. That's why so many of these role reversal stories never make any sense. There is another series that I forgot but…
/r/MensRights24/11/25 07:25 AM
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Which proves my point which was if men were the big, bad and evil guys feminists envision then a lot of society wouldn't make sense. They group together, defend the weaker ones. Besides nothing stopping a stronger man from also buying pepper spray.
/r/MensRights22/11/25 12:11 AM
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The ones who don't either call people who defend men pick me's or try to defend misandry like you just did. I do listen, all I ever hear is victim complexes, double standards or outright hate. The few that do speak up always get backlash from the group that supposedly wants equality. I see people defend women who do false allegations and don't want them punished because it may prevent future victims from speaking out. I see women by a large chunk celebrating male suicide online on mens mental he…
/r/MensRights22/11/25 12:08 AM
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I straight up asked them if they thought the only people for equality are feminists. They still haven't responded yet. Despite what people say you can believe in equality and not be a feminist. Feminism is a very specific belief as in women are oppressed and society is set up to benefit men. Feminism version of equality is bringing women up to mens level. I don't believe in that hence calling me a feminist just wouldn't make sense. I don't believe women in the west at least are inherently oppres…
/r/MensRights21/11/25 07:53 PM
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I will say this, the way I know most men are not bad is because the world is still running. I'm not saying it in a women don't work way but rather of 90% of men were truly bad society would be pure chaos even for men. Think about it. Men on average are stronger and it's not by a small amount. Often in their household a man is the strongest one there until his son outgrows him. He could literally kill all of them or make them do what he wants behind closed doors but often he rather just go to wor…
/r/MensRights21/11/25 07:47 PM
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I didn't cherry pick it. I'm pointing out the type of stuff feminists say and even those who don't say it still defend saying it like you just did now. I'm not going to assume you are here in bad faith but surely you can see why men aren't running to an ideology that says they are the problem whilst also saying outrageous things then saying its not that serious when men question it.
/r/MensRights21/11/25 07:40 PM
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I noticed this too. In fact to show the shift I will use same characters that have been adapted recently. Prince Philip in sleeping beauty. He was a sword wielding hero saving the princess. Stephan was a father who had to make a terrible sacrifice. In Maleficent Philip doesn't save Aurora or even give true loves kiss. Stephan is villainised. Little Mermaid. Eric was a handsome prince who killed Ursula the main hero. In the new one, Ariel kills Ursula taking over Eric's role. I haven't watched th…
/r/MensRights21/11/25 07:37 PM
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Nah this isn't it. We are for equality we aren't stooping down to their level.
/r/MensRights21/11/25 07:25 PM
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That's when i realised most of them are just parrots. Their answers always be copy and paste, some catchy slogan they heard online and gave no thought to. Same for when they cite a random statistic thinking it won the discussion then ignore context of said statistic
/r/MensRights21/11/25 07:24 PM
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Equal rights movement...what have they done to progress men? How about their hashtags? KillAllMen?
/r/MensRights21/11/25 07:21 PM
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Now they moved onto equity. Which is just special privileges and double standards but sounds clever now.
/r/MensRights21/11/25 07:20 PM
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I really hate reddit censorship problem. I got banned on another account for also pointing out society does care about women and the draft isn't misogyny.
/r/MensRights21/11/25 07:18 PM
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Because men rarely hate the entire gender like women do. Very confusing they have so much vitriol and hate towards men for like no reason. Hating men today for oppression they have never been victims of. Like genuinely off putting and concerning the amount of hate women seem to have for men where women who don't hate men are attacked by other women.
/r/MensRights20/11/25 11:35 AM
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I saw one saying the woman was punished enough because she got pregnant and that's the hardest thing any human can do. She was 36 and the boy 11. I'm so fed up of them weaponising pregnancy. They use it as an excuse for everything.
/r/MensRights20/11/25 11:29 AM
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I remember seeing a quote saying the reason why women are so entitled this generation is because the governments basically become their daddy. They hit someone, he can't hit back otherwise police take him away. She had a child with the wrong man? never fear the court will just rinse him dry She is being obnoxious and ruining her marriage and good life? don't worry she will get half of everything and he pays her so she can maintain the lifestyle she has been accustomed too. They are never actuall…
/r/MensRights18/11/25 02:41 PM
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Especially when they are so loud about it. Has everyone forgotten #KillAllMen ? or the bear or man question? They tell men over and over again they hate men.
/r/MensRights18/11/25 02:20 PM
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It isn't misogyny that causes men to stop interacting and what a dismissive way of thinking. The fact is when women enter a space everyone bends over backwards to accommodate them which naturally means giving men less focus, being harsher on men. Obviously women should still go to universities and get an education but it's so much more nuanced than "on they are just misogynists" rather it's more of women slowly become prioritised in those areas. Women only scholarships/clubs, teachers have a pro…
/r/MensRights18/11/25 02:17 PM
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I notice it too. Remember the 4B movement, they were so narcissistic they genuinely thought not being in their presence was a punishment. I can't imagine the sheer delusionment needed for that. How high do you have to prioritise yourself to think your very presence is a gift. Same way they say they are the table when asked what they bring to the table. Even when doing videos they have such a condescending look on their face and an unhinged craze in their eyes you can always tell what the video i…
/r/MensRights18/11/25 02:11 PM
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Yep every side has some sort of gynocentrism. The left is just flat out all for women, female empowerment and basically always center women. The right focuses on traditional gynocentrism aka protecting and providing. In my mind the more traditionalists are better because at least they also expect the woman to adhere to her traditional gender roles unlike feminism which wants to pick and choose.
/r/MensRights18/11/25 02:00 PM
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I used to think they were unaware. Kind of like so deep in their own victim complex and carrying about trauma so just lashing out. So wrapped up in themselves that they couldn't see how horrid they were being. Until someone was celebrating male suicide, people sent her death threats back she deleted her video and the comments were saying everyone is being too harsh and it's always been cool to bash on men. That changed my whole perspective. All the gaslighting about men not being hated then admi…
/r/MensRights18/11/25 01:56 PM
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Even as a kid I was annoyed at the amount of times the male characters had to be humbled or his love interest would slap him/treat him like she hates him and he never could do anything back. Always felt so demeaning and horrible also made me look at the characters as wimps. Obviously I was a kid so my mind has changed but it was so annoying each time.
/r/MensRights18/11/25 01:52 PM
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I feel the exact same way. Like when they say to teach your son. Newsflash everyone knows rape is bad. Men don't secretly encourage it or that give one motivational speech and the rapist is going to change like a Disney villain. They are already going against the law, you can't teach someone who is inherently not listening. They are already breaking the law what makes them think one speech is going to fix them?
/r/MensRights18/11/25 01:49 PM
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Notice how the so called patriarchy makes women safer, makes men be the ones to work or lay down their lives, laws in women's favour etc. The true difference between a patriarchy and matriarchy. In the patriarchy men are the ones expected to work, sacrifice and provide. Matriarchy still expects that of men but for the authority to be given to women.
/r/MensRights18/11/25 01:43 PM
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Harsh reality but something a lot of these matriarchal and misandrist fantasies forget. If it truly came a fist for fist fight men Vs women, men are winning.
/r/MensRights18/11/25 01:39 PM
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Yeah but I would take that over misandrist any day. A well meaning but sometimes makes mistakes is better than pure hatred.
/r/MensRights17/11/25 05:45 AM
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Those type of people just weaponise the trauma to show their bigotry. Same thing happened in Britain. Some online alt right group comes out and says a Muslim supposedly raped a white girl. White men decided to throw bricks, be racist, chase women and children, attacked and vandalised a mosque. People online saying to deport Muslims, white Muslims being hated on for switching sides etc Turns out the rapist was a Christian. But magically no Christians weren't chased, no church was attacked, no bri…
/r/MensRights17/11/25 05:40 AM
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They do, other women admit it and say stuff like they fake to be someone's friend just because it's more beneficial. Same reason they throw a fit if another woman wears the same dress as them whilst men would think it's a cool coincidence. Obviously not all women but it's a large chunk and ignoring it isn't going to do anyone favours.
/r/MensRights17/11/25 05:35 AM
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Yet anytime you ask them to point out when they experienced misogyny they just can't. Or they will tell you an ordinary situation where the other person was a jerk but they assumed he was a jerk because she was a woman rather than he was just a jerk.
/r/MensRights17/11/25 05:33 AM
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I never understood the idea that you can get revenge for something you never experienced against someone who never did it.
/r/MensRights17/11/25 05:31 AM
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Yet they will claim misandry isn't real
/r/MensRights17/11/25 05:30 AM
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Lol what? Are you ok?
/r/MensRights17/11/25 05:24 AM
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Ans still you will see feminists act like the world is made for men. When the going gets tough it's men who are expected to bleed out.
/r/MensRights17/11/25 05:23 AM
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What those women are describing is equality. Yes it is a special privilege if you are only giving it to one gender. History has no sway on if its special privilege or not. As one of those comments said she was treated better sometimes for being a woman. Wanting to keep all the privileges given to women then have extra privileges is special privileges. Either want to be equal or you don't. Tackling systemic and ingrained bias is tackling equality. Equity would be something like purposefully tryin…
/r/MensRights17/11/25 05:19 AM
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That is what I said giving special privileges that the other person doesn't get. In some cases this makes sense as you mentioned a disabled person or expecting a tall person to stand in the back at photos for obvious reasons. However none of this really applies to women which is what the conversation is about.
/r/MensRights16/11/25 01:17 AM
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Nearly everyone desires masculinity. This is an unequivocable truth. They either want to be masculine, respect it or desire it romantically. Men even those less traditional would jump at the chance to become more masculine as in taller, stronger etc I can't think of a single man if offered a super soldier serum without any bad effects wouldn't take it. Want to be more respected, a leader, to become a protector. Lots of men I know have had some sort of hero fantasy where they just save the day th…
/r/MensRights15/11/25 04:55 AM
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They did a list of the top 20 (might be 100 or something) richest women. A large majority were rich just from divorcing their mega rich husbands.
/r/MensRights15/11/25 04:46 AM
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I've seen all of these been done by women. However that isn't the issue. I am a firm believer on any group will always undoubtedly have some rotten eggs. It is inescapable. The issue however is how normalised it is and sometimes even defended because that stops being just the bad ones doing it and turns into the normal people are defending the bad ones. Men also have bad eggs, this is undeniable but other men don't bend over backwards to justify them nor does mainstream media. That is the main d…
/r/MensRights15/11/25 04:41 AM
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Lowkey the same for my family. I have lots of cousins and uncles/aunts. But no one is actually close and it's all the mothers fault. Each mother of each household would compete, fight or just get catty with eachother than hold onto the grudge and make the brothers stop talking to their brothers and cousins stop being close with their cousins. All the father's of each household can sit in a room and nothing will happen. The mothers would be all smiles then go home and complain and make issues big…
/r/MensRights15/11/25 01:19 AM
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They only want men to be emotional and vulnerable in ways that benefit them. A man going on and on about how much he loves her, buying her everything under the sun etc is their version of emotional and vulnerable. A man having a bad day and just venting is apparently emotional labour for them. Despite the fact they be 10x more emotional and chaotic yet men never call it emotional labour.
/r/MensRights15/11/25 01:14 AM
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I also hate certain fathers especially ones that boasts they treat their daughters better or more gentle and they get encouraged and supported. I understand why men are less likely to look after their elderly parents because half the time the parents showed the daughter the preferential treatment.
/r/MensRights15/11/25 12:52 AM
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Number 1 reason I can't get behind feminism When it comes time to walk the walk everyone resorts to traditional gender roles. Doesn't even have to be as something as big as war something as simple as paying for dinner, caring about his emotions, proposing, valentines day, self defense etc When it's time for them to treat men the way women are treated all of a sudden they shrivel up and look elsewhere. It's fine if spread equally however the current set up is women never have to do their traditio…
/r/MensRights15/11/25 12:46 AM
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Equity is just another word for special privileges
/r/MensRights15/11/25 12:40 AM
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I deleted tiktok but just search up men talking to high value women (as that's what they call themselves) or even gym interactions or just videos of women staring at the camera saying their ego took a hit because an ugly man thought he had a chance with her. It isn't really a trend so not much you can type to get it. But once you get one video a ton start flowing in
/r/MensRights11/11/25 06:48 AM
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Exactly, people are confusing bitter women online for reality. And even that has calmed down. POC are still monitored even through media, have too much POC and you will have people complaining it's too woke. Consistently when a POC actor is hated people resort to racism even towards literal children. White actors are never attacked off their race. White sounding names get more job applications than ethnic sounding names When a POC does a crime people generalise the entire group off that one pers…
/r/MensRights11/11/25 06:38 AM
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Right, like please be fr. I'm mixed race with a very white passing brother we are treated so differently. People confuse some bitter people online as in actual society treatment. Even in social experiments with children getting abused. People only got involved when the white dad was beating his kid. It's one of the aspects I don't like about this sub, seems to have attracted some conservatives who genuinely believe white people are hated or oppressed.
/r/MensRights11/11/25 06:27 AM
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Judaism is widely hated or criticised because of israel Islam has entire groups just attacking them especially in the UK where they have attacked Sikh girls mistaking them for Muslim women. When a Muslim hero was cast in the MCU comment sections were filled with Islamaphobia, terrorist jokes and general south Asian disdain. Islam and Judaism actually fight back, Christians don't. They casted a black lesbian woman as Jesus and what did Christians do? Stood there. Made a few comments. They tried t…
/r/MensRights11/11/25 06:24 AM
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The 2 often mix. Would the low life white knight have hit him if he was a girl?
/r/MensRights11/11/25 06:19 AM
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Raised on feminist indoctrination or feminist mothers
/r/MensRights11/11/25 06:18 AM
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Yep, things often mix together.
/r/MensRights11/11/25 06:17 AM
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I saw a disgusting comment section talking about one of the worlds youngest father, he was 11. It was on tiktok It wasn't the usual "he's lucky" comments. It was "he got to finish and she had to deal with pregnancy. She was punished enough" trying to paint the woman who slept with an 11 year old as a victim because apparently pregnancy is the end all, be all. She was 36. Apparently the comment section thought she didn't deserve prison because pregnancy pain was enough. Genuinely scary to think s…
/r/MensRights05/11/25 03:33 AM
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I agree on the part where she is complaining no one is doing things the way she wants. There was a video of a guy making a bed and he didn't put like a dozen decorative pillows on top. She called it a mental strain and weaponised incompetence. But the bed was made, he just didn't make it pretty enough for her. And the comments were all agreeing with her. The task was done but she was still complaining.
/r/MensRights05/11/25 03:24 AM
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Yes You can easily see this in real life or even online. A woman does something atrocious, other women will try to downplay it or justify it. There's even phrases like girls girl, believe all women and call you a pick me if you side with men. There is clearly a bias that they encourage. Oh also phrases like "I support women's rights and wrongs".
/r/MensRights05/11/25 03:19 AM
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They make them strip naked then fondle their genitals, tell them to bend over etc. It's basically just humiliation disguised behind trying to make sure they are healthy. I bet women soldiers would be given more privacy or respect.
/r/MensRights02/11/25 07:43 AM
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The world continuously telling me it's a patriarchy and women are oppressed yet every time I looked around everywhere I didn't see any sign instead I saw the opposite. Admittedly I shouldn't have been watching most of the shows I was watching as a kid. What I did see was men opening car doors for women, being told men and boys were sent to war whilst women stayed behind, heard women and children first constantly which made me sad because I was worried for my dad, women constantly slap men then i…
/r/MensRights02/11/25 07:41 AM
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I'm also heavily confused. Paternity tests aren't that big of a deal.
/r/MensRights27/10/25 11:10 PM
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So? Who cares? Paternity fraud isn't the only thing holding bigotry back. I'm genuinely trying to understand. Very few people's dad's are well known enough for this to be a problem. And even then no one discriminates against celebrity kids.
/r/MensRights27/10/25 11:07 PM
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Not it just ensures fathers are looking after their own kids and mothers can't lie and manipulate them. The world doesn't ask who your father is before offering you a job.
/r/MensRights27/10/25 08:12 PM
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The fact she has time to monitor and hover over him means she could have cooked it herself. And claiming its her kitchen when he's likely the one who paid for it. This is why I don't and never will agree with marriage. No way should something I buy with money I earn working at my job be considered ours. Doesn't mean I'm going to be stingy and say she can't use it or borrow it but because of marriage somehow stuff I paid for is split in half. Worse part is if they divorce the court would have ass…
/r/MensRights26/10/25 11:45 PM
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No not really. Paternity tests don't physically mutilate a child and it ensures the father isn't being lied to. No downside that isn't a natural consequence. At worst cheaters will just be revealed and have to deal with the consequences
/r/MensRights26/10/25 11:33 PM
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Is this a joke response?
/r/MensRights26/10/25 08:17 PM
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Because the goal post for women isn't as far as it is for men.
/r/MensRights26/10/25 08:13 PM
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Especially since other married men mention that the more physical parts of a relationship deteriorates after getting married. And they can't divorce because then they are separated from their kids and can lost half their stuff + alimony. They don't get anything out of it. I felt the same when I heard Ronaldo proposed, like he was an example that you can be together and not need to be married. And your other point is correct too. Men put up with a lot so for most of them or at least a sizeable ch…
/r/MensRights26/10/25 08:10 PM
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Men aren't given thought or grace. A woman can say a man is being creepy and people will decide he is and sometimes even try to contact his workplace if she puts it online. They don't give any grace as to whether it's his first time trying to initiate a relationship, they don't give any grace that maybe he is nervous so acting a bit weird or he didn't even know he was creepy. It's just straight to he's a creep and deserves any disproportionate punishment they decide. Whilst dating everything is …
/r/MensRights26/10/25 04:28 AM
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Unfortunately it is and has to be a contest. If you are saying one group is treated differently and far worse then you are comparing and saying you have it worse in one area. If men were treated the same this sub wouldn't exist. The problems you said women face are not really gender problems men talk about. Everyone knows bad people exist so of course bad stuff will happen. The difference is how you are treated and supported after. Men are also victims of violent crimes a lot more than women, I …
/r/MensRights22/10/25 09:52 PM
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