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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:33 PM
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You realize that every year there’s more men turning 18 right? Most women would rather date a hot guy whose a year younger than settle for an average guy their age
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:35 AM
-1

The state cannot force ANY woman to give birth. It’s a violation of human rights
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:45 AM
-1

I’m pro choice because womens rights are under attack
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:43 AM
0

No it isn’t. In that solution all men lose out on is money, which is used to support the child and make sure that he or she doesn’t grow up in poverty. Meanwhile forcing a women to give birth is cruel and immoral
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:03 PM
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If remove an alternative option it’s coercion. If I unplug someone’s ventilator according to you that’s not murder
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:59 PM
0

There is no more equivalent to abortion because they don’t give birth!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:54 PM
1

It’s removing an option to avoid pregnancy, therefore it’s coercion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:53 PM
1

There are still more anti choice men than women, both in relative and absolute terms
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:52 PM
1

Well as long as your not opposing abortion that’s a start I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:51 PM
1

Sooo your answer is to have children grow up in poverty? Great job, you sound like a nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:51 PM
1

That’s how women die, what’s wrong wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:50 PM
1

Most women are compassionate, just not the creepy men who view us as sex objects or baby makers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:50 PM
1

No again what the father wants is irrelevant. A woman can her mind at any time. If she doesn’t want to pregnant she does not have to give birth and no man or state should ever force her into it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:49 PM
0

That’s disturbing, no wonder you’re single
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:48 PM
1

You mean forced birth? Permanent changes to your body? Handicapped earning potential? Yeah sounds great
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:47 PM
0

This is good to know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:46 PM
1

Like everything in life it depends. Sure someone conservative men are traditional and religious but a lot of them are just openly misogynistic as well. These are the type of men who sleep around but don’t want women to do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:46 PM
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I do care about equality, men don’t. They don’t realize that they are bigger and stronger then women and earn more on average. Having them support their child is equality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:44 PM
1

Virtually every guy I know has picked up a woman in a bar at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:42 PM
2

Well then people should elect better politicians
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:41 PM
0

It’s still family, it just don’t comply with the patriarchy’s version of one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:11 PM
1

No shame in admitting you were wrong, we’re all friends here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:10 PM
0

No all the child support money goes directly to helping the child. If the mother spend it on herself that’s called fraud and she can go to jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:09 PM
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This people are wrong. Healthcare is a human right
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:08 PM
1

Someone else left a comment from PEW which shows that roughly 50% of men are pro life whereas it’s only roughly 1/3 of women. So no there are more pro life men than women. Both in absolute and relative terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:07 PM
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This has to be the biggest cope I’ve ever seen. You can’t pull anyone of the street and have them pass medical school. It is the most academically challenging program there is. They only take the top students, and even then a good chunk fail. Sure people back them were a lot more ignorant, it time moves forward and so does progress. At one point philosophers thought the world was flat, does that make them dumb? No you judge people within the context of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:06 PM
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No men should pay child support because making it optional hurts the child, an innocent 3rd party.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:33 AM
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Well at least you’re logically consistent. But why not give other people the freedom to make their own decisions. It changes nothin your life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:31 AM
1

See maybe this is why women don’t want to fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:31 AM
1

You’re part of the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:21 AM
1

Well it’s a good thing people like you won’t be having sec then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:13 AM
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Everyone is entitled to healthcare it’s a human right. Also women getting access to abortion is net positive for society
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:12 AM
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Both tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:11 AM
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Yup, but it’s still sad that more men who haven’t lost their minds don’t speak up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:10 AM
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Sorr I meant pro choice. If most doctors and lawyers (who are objectively some of the most intelligent people in society) agree that abortion is healthcare chances are they’re right and society would be better off if people listened to them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:10 AM
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How can women get child support if the baby isn’t born? Go on explain that one genius
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:08 AM
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Men are capable of having their own desires….he’ll they sometimes even pressure women into sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:08 AM
1

How was single defined in that study? A single guy could go to bar and have a one night stand
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:07 AM
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To me that sounds like women would be even more picky not less
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:06 AM
0

It’s not a baby so long as the umbilical cord hasn’t been cut
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:04 AM
-2

I’d say that 27% of men is 27% too much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:03 AM
2

When every major company in the world with some of the smartest people in the world, does things the same way it’s for a very good reason. Especially given that insurance is essentially free money (more people pay in than receive so it’s guaranteed to result in profits)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:02 AM
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Sorry that we live in a democracy and women can vote on fiscal policy. It’s also not womens job to reproduce. If the state is so concerned about a low birth rate, then they should offer financial incentives to young families.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:01 AM
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If that’s true those men shouldn’t even be having sex to begin with. They are a plague to society
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:58 AM
1

The point being the significant more women support pro choice than pro life whereas men are evenly split
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:56 AM
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The point is that we should minimize the number of women dying. If providing them with a safe space for abortion all the better
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:55 AM
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And there’s a reason why the pro-choice doctors and lawyers recognize it as healthcare
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:53 AM
2

Well that’s wrong and archaic ways of thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:46 AM
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In the most important of ways
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:45 AM
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This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:45 AM
2

Conservative men are more likely to be incels though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:33 AM
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Because humans have free will and shouldn’t be subjected to nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:33 AM
2

Yes it does you’re forcing them to give birth when they don’t want to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:32 AM
1

Well if men are so family oriented and hate abortions so much why don’t they offer state funded programs to better help single moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:32 AM
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There are more pro choice than anti choice women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:31 AM
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Well why not support abortion access so women can make that choice for themselves rather than sit on the sidelines and do nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:30 AM
2

You realize that no contraceptive is 100% effective right
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:29 AM
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Doesn’t matter if it’s 0.01% the point is no rape victim should ever be forced to give birth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:28 AM
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If women are asked to bear the costs, they should be the only ones deciding the abortion debate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:27 AM
0

Disagree. Most young men are having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:25 AM
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When men give birth they can have an equal say
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:25 AM
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Sooothey think that abortion was illegal women would lower their standards and settle? That has to be the worst logic I’ve ever seen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:24 AM
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But sleeping around and wanting to marry virgins is hypocritical. In fact it’s a perfect example
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:22 AM
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Well considering roughly half of the US vote republican I’d say at least 50% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:19 AM
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Doctors and law makers recognize it as healthcare
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:18 AM
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There are pro-abortion women than anti-abortion women. If all men didn’t care this would be a non issue
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:18 AM
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That’s disturbing, go back to the 1950s. Women have their own bodily autonomy now. No man should ever force a women to be pregnant if she doesn’t want to be. If she doesn’t want to give birth there’s absolutely no reason why men should feel like they should guilt her or force her into doing so. Giving birth is one of the most stressful experiences a women can experience.not to mention that it can lead to permanent physical changed to a woman’s body and also keep her out of the work force and slo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:16 AM
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If they’re so anti-abortion they should have no problem providing children with financial aid
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:13 AM
0

Thank you for being one of the good guys out there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:12 AM
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The fact that it’s not born yet….there’s a reason why you can’t buy life insurance for a fetus
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:10 AM
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But limiting the options just makes everyone rose off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 01:40 AM
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No because it’s not a person yet
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:23 AM
-2

Good glad to see not all men have lost their minds
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:50 PM
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The stress of providing for the mother and kid does not equal the harm women face if forced to give birth. Not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:17 PM
6

You still didn’t answer the question, should rape victims be forced to give birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:02 PM
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I’ve given birth and I’ve had abortions. There’s nothing wrong with deciding when to become a parent
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:01 PM
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Only when it suits them, and they never support or ally with women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:00 PM
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You’d be surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:00 PM
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Because reproduction should not be forced
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:59 PM
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Disagree. The states cannot and should not force women to get an abortion if the mother wants to raise it. That’s the whole point of bodily autonomy. Women are disadvantaged in so many other ways that they had to fight for this right to be recognized. If men don’t want to be fathers, don’t have sex with women you don’t trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:58 PM
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No the state cannot force a man to look after his kid. He can waive his parental rights at any time. Also he’s not providing financial support to wife, he’s raising HIS kid! Are courts supposed to just let a child starve to death because daddy dumb dumb doesn’t want to pay child support? Of course not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:56 PM
-1

Glad that some reason can see reason. It literally benefits both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:54 PM
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Abortion rights make no difference to women in that situation. If a woman really wants to baby trap you she won’t need the state to criminalize abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:53 PM
1

So then don’t complain about not getting casual sex then
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:52 PM
-1

It’s not a child it’s a clump of cells. Women deserve to have the right to control their own body
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:52 PM
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Well then if men want to keep having sex and hooking up they should advocate for abortions sot hey don’t go bankrupt
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:51 PM
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This is stereotype and not true. Tons of non-religious men are still against abortion. Probably because they hate women and want to punish them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:50 PM
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So women who are raped and not on contraceptives should just be forced to birth a baby they didn’t want?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:49 PM
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Personhood not sentience is the basis of my argument. Once you’re born you’re a perosn
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:48 PM
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This people are dumb. Abortion is recognized as healthcare
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:38 PM
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No because he also neglects to realize that personhood is only probably for a fetus whereas it’s a certain for those already born
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:36 PM
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It’s not a baby! It’s a clump of cells!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:35 PM
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Good luck with that bro
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:33 PM
4

That’s incredibly dumb. Women get abortions even when they have sex with attractive men, especially if they’re young
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:32 PM
0

Maybe those men should learn that sex sometimes results in child birth and that it’s wrong for women to bear the costs when both parties engaged in sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:31 PM
5

You realize that miscarriages said are very common right? Not all pregnancies result in babies being born
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:30 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:30 PM
1

So your answer is to force women to give birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:29 PM
-4

Maybe you should wish for more self control instead
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:27 PM
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You know that contraception is never 100% effective right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:27 PM
2

Abortion is healthcare though. Are you saying all health insurance should be abolished?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:26 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:43 AM
1

My bf and I have been sleeping together before husband and I even started dating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:29 AM
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We have a child together
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:39 AM
1

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:39 AM
1

Attractiveness can be part of real love,
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:38 AM
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No because when we decided to have kids I stopped seeing my boyfriend for a few months
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:37 AM
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Well we already have a child together so it’s important to have a long term partner. A long term partner is someone you spend the rest of your life with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:37 AM
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Your last paragraph can also be applied to children then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:36 AM
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No we still have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:01 PM
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It’s not using we both agreed to it. Hes “using me” as well then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:51 PM
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To be clear he wouldn’t be a good fit for a relationship with ME….that doesn’t mean other girls think the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:07 PM
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Saying I don’t view a relationship with him doesn’t mean he’s meant “for the streets”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:54 PM
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If youre that insecure you don’t deserve to date any woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:09 PM
0

My husband also has sex with me + a relationship + family. My bf only gets sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:09 PM
0

You missed the entire point of the post
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:08 PM
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You’re shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:26 PM
0

Relationships are not transactions. Human beings deserved to be loved no matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:26 PM
1

Plates?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:24 PM
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We also have a child together
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:24 PM
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So women can’t change their minds?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:24 PM
1

LL?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:23 PM
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Because he has other great qualities. He’s kind, smart, funny…etc. all the traits you want in a long term partner. I’m just not attracted to him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:23 PM
-1

Because he has other great qualities. He’s kind, smart, funny…etc. all the traits you want in a long term partner. I’m just not attracted to him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:22 PM
-1

Would you entertain non-monogamy if she asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:26 AM
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I only said that for context
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:09 AM
-1

The exception doesn’t disprove the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:41 PM
1

It’s more of an exclusive friends with benefits situation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:24 PM
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Yes I was in a FWB situation ship with my current boyfriend when my husband first asked me out. I told him that I wasn’t willing to break it off and he insisted that he didn’t csre
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:23 PM
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Yes exactly. Our relationship is primarily sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:51 PM
-7

I can’t help how I feel but others can choose what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:50 PM
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That’s incredibly depressing if you think the world works that way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:47 PM
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That’s fine, but women should have the right to CHOOSE
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:46 PM
1

Or all relationships are monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:45 PM
0

We’re in an open relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:45 PM
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I’m happy for you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:41 PM
0

People should love their lives however they see fit. They have no obligation to reproduce if they don’t want to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:35 PM
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No because he’s not relationship material
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:34 PM
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She’s incredibly lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:32 PM
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Just because my boyfriend is good in bed doesn’t mean that he’s relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:28 PM
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If people don’t unconditionally love each other than they shouldn’t be in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:25 PM
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Relationships aren’t transactions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:23 PM
0

No friends can sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:22 PM
2

You’re a gem! Your SO is lucky to have you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:19 PM
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We’re in an open relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:19 PM
0

No the person you are is not tied to what you do. Just because someone couldn’t afford to go to college and works as a mechanic doesn’t mean he isn’t smart
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:19 PM
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I don’t NEED him to make me feel special, but I want him to show me that the romance between us isn’t dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:17 PM
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Your lack of empathy is disturbing. Also there’s more to love snd relationships than sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:16 PM
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I’m sorry but your flair alone invalidates anything you have to say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:11 PM
2

See I wish I had this type of relationship with my husband. He just doesn’t make me feel special anymore. Meanwhile my boyfriend is able to make me feel young and care free again
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:10 PM
-1

It’s not that I can’t stand it, I just have a hard time enjoying it. There’s more to relationships than sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:04 PM
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Well as someone currently in a poly relationship, I think monogamous relationships confine peoples freedom
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:04 PM
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Okay but if child birth wasn’t the reason, what she just emotionally needed a break?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:03 PM
1

That’s refreshing to hear!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:02 PM
0

Your misogyny is showing. Women have bodily autonomy now thanks to advances in science so there’s no need to uphold tradition anymore. Also society is far more individualistic so we don’t need to encourage monogamy if it makes people unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:33 PM
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No woman walks around with a tape measure. I guarantee you most women can’t tell the difference between 5’11 or 6ft. If a woman is that shallow you probably don’t want to date her anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:17 PM
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I’m the wife and I would never disrespect my husband like that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:31 AM
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Because men would rather blame other people than look inwards
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:04 AM
0

That’s depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:57 AM
0

People don’t buy access to a woman’s body in a relationship. It’s consensual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:42 AM
0

No he’s single and doesn’t want a long term commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:25 AM
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How is it prostitution?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:22 AM
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Because those aren’t the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:22 AM
0

Well I respectfully disagree. Open relationships give men experience with they otherwise wouldn’t get and could use to one day be in a monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:30 PM
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I disagree. I friend sex zoned my FWB so I could marry and have a relationship with my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:33 PM
1

Right that’s why my boyfriend and I only have sex whereas my husband and I have an actual relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:12 PM
0

Or he’s busy with other things. Cuckolding involves humiliation, my husband wants a don’t ask don’t tell relationship. Hardly the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:00 PM
1

People said the same thing about gay love in the 50s and 60s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:58 PM
0

Yes because they chose to. They can always panhandle for change or live off welfare
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:57 PM
1

That’s nowhere near the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:56 PM
1

I never said boyfriend is ugly. He’s a bit pudgy and it’s kinda cute, but definitely not conventionally attractive to most women. Also I never said he’s rich. We’re both middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:55 PM
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Maybe I made a new account because I dont want to use my main account to post this. Maybe after lurking on this forum you see the same terms used over and over again and pickup some of the vocabulary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:53 PM
1

You realize that it could because their male ancestors cheated right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:08 PM
1

My boyfriend and I are not in relationship. We sometimes go out for drinks/dinner but it’s primarily about sex. That’s not a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:07 PM
1

Why? He’s getting a loving relationship, a wife, and a family
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:06 PM
1

Well again men should choose truthworthy women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:05 PM
1

Because the law says minors can’t consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:04 PM
1

You realize that women get abortions right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:31 PM
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My husband also gets a relationship whereas my boyfriend is purely about sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:31 PM
1

Nice flair
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:30 PM
2

Source that women cheat more then men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:30 PM
1

If my husband wants to he can.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:13 PM
1

It would depend why he stopped. If he lost his job or got sick it’s not his fault. If he just decided to quit on a whim and place on the financial burden on me than yes I’d be pissed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:13 PM
1

I would, but I’d probably resent him for it. We were no mobs ours ever seance we started dating so he shouldn’t change the rules now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:12 PM
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This is different. Sex is something you can control. You can control what opens to your car or house.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:11 PM
1

I would, but I’d probably resent him for it. We were no mobs ours ever seance we started dating so he shouldn’t change the rules now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:10 PM
1

It works for us. Also he’s lower in terms of looks but a great husband
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:09 PM
1

And men can also do the same. Also, better is subjective. I may find my boyfriend to be more attractive and a joy sex with him more, but that doesn’t make him better than my husband. My husband is smart, kind, funny, sensitive, and has a bunch of other qualities that make him a better overall partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:09 PM
1

He hasn’t gotten a girlfriend yet but he’s 100% allowed to
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:07 PM
1

Agreed, but I already have a husband and a kid so I also want balance
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:07 PM
1

Look I can’t help who I’m attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:06 PM
1

No it’s just sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:06 PM
1

Okay, and isn’t what you described still better than be a lifelong virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:05 PM
1

Okay, it if these men aren’t getting any dates wouldn’t they be better off considering it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:04 PM
1

No that’s compeletky different because those situations involve a lack of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:04 PM
0

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:03 PM
2

Serves all the men who think they’re hot shit right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:03 PM
2

I’m not saying that they are, just that it could be beneficially to some people and that society should be less judgmental
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:02 PM
0

I’m not judging men who see prostitutes. All I’m saying that nonmonogamy is a better alternative, but feel free to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:01 PM
1

Most men don’t cheat. If that’s your mentality you have serious issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:00 PM
1

That’s not true, I love my husband and have a home and child with him. He will always be primary partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:59 PM
1

To play devils advocate here what’s wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:59 PM
1

I did not convince him of anything. When we first started dating I told him I had a FWB and was not willing to break it off to date him. He agreed and actively pursued me!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:58 PM
1

Well then what’s the problem? It’s not for everyone, but people should be free to make their own choice without being judged. Also working as an unpaid intern does provide value because it gives you the necessary experience to succeed in future jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:57 PM
1

We own a home together and both work full time. We pool all our money together and try afford the best life we can.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:56 PM
0

Well then don’t marry someone you can’t trust
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:55 PM
1

You realize that there’s a difference betweeen sex and relationships right? My husband is not paying me for sex, we’re building a life together and emotionally and spiritually connect to each other. That’s worth way more than sex. If sex is the only thing men are after they should seek out prostituttes. That point about Stacy is blatant hypocrisy and misogyny. Both parties have the right to date the hottest person they can. Men are just insecure,
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:54 PM
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You’re free to have that opinion, but im saying that others shouldn’t be judged for it if they decide it works for them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:51 PM
1

Nonmonogamy is not anti-family. My bf will never be part of our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:45 PM
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No because he’s free to date other women too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:44 PM
1

I’m sorry about your friend. And you don’t have to give this a try. All I’m saying is that it might be beneficial to some people if done correctly (understanding from the start that the relationship is non-monogamous) and that other people should be less judgemental.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:44 PM
1

How can they find out if you just said that they won’t learn the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:41 PM
2

Why do you feel the need to judge people who are happy? You realize that none of this affects you right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:40 PM
1

My husband actively pursued ME. He could’ve dated someone else but he chose to date me because of the connection we had.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:39 PM
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No he isn’t. He can date other women and we operate on a don’t ask don’t tell basis
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:38 PM
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No because that would be a betrayal. I LOVE him, I MARRIED him, sex and and relationships are two completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:38 PM
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Who hurt you? All emotions are useless when you consider the fact that we’re all going to die someday, the beauty of life is to try to enjoy it as much as possible while you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:37 PM
1

So instead of having relationships and possibly a wife and children the solution is to be lifelong virgin? You sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:36 PM
0

No he doesn’t. We operate on a don’t ask don’t tell basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:35 PM
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Women have more options because men are the are more thirty for sex. A woman can take her time to choose the best one and will always have more men interested in her than the reverse. A man at the bottom of the totem pole can only aim so low
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:34 PM
0

So these men would be better off living the rest of their lives as virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:31 PM
2

Because adults can handle certain things better than children
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:39 AM
1

Everyone is free to make that choice for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:38 AM
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No because I love him. Also cheating involves lyin and deceit. My husband knows about my boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:37 AM
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Every rule has its exceptions and poly can workout in some instances. All I’m saying is that men should give it a try and stop shaming others. Obviously you don’t have children with someone until you’re sure you love them. Also my son is clearly my husbands. The resemblance (ears and nose) is uncanny
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:37 AM
1

My whole point is that people shouldn’t be judgemental at all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:34 AM
1

That’s a gross generalization
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:50 AM
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Yes the fact that I love my husband, have a family with him, own a house with him, and have become close friends with his sister. I would never hurt him and throw away the life we built together
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:49 AM
1

Well saying that something is detrimental to others can be subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:46 AM
0

Well again, we live in a free and tolerant society. Not everyone has to participate in this lifestyle, but we should stop judging those who do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:43 AM
1

Well we’ve gotten married since then and have a child together so clearly not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:42 AM
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I’m not reinforcing it, I’m saying that women can play by the same rules as men. My boyfriend is more conventionally attractive than my husband, but I would never divorce him because attraction doesn’t equate to love. Just because I like eating cookies occasionally doesn’t mean I want them all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:41 AM
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I completely agree. I would even say if one partner really wants it but the other hesitates the moral thing to do is to just break up right then and there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:39 AM
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And if he comes to that realization he’s free to end the relationship. Very one has the right to change their minds. I’m just saying more could potentially be for from this if they gave it a shot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:38 AM
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Let’s suppose a below average man is faced with only prospects; being a poly relationship or dying a virgin (except for prostitution). Are you seriously suggesting that the former is always better than the latter?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:37 AM
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If a person consents its no longer exploitation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:34 AM
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Like everything in life it depends. When my husband and I first started dating I informed him that I had a FWB and that I wasn’t willing to break things off just to date him. He said he didn’t care and wanted to date me anyways. In your opinion, I should have told him no? Wouldn’t preventing him from making his own decisions be even more emasculating?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:33 AM
1

Open relationship is not the same thing as cuckolding.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:30 AM
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That’s not always the case. My boyfriend is significantly more attractive than my husband, yet the only child I have is with my husband. Why? Because I love him and want to raise a family with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:30 AM
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No you just you’re just a hypocrite contradicting themselves whenever it suits you. Gee I wonder why you’re single
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:29 AM
0

An open relationship is different though. If you’re the primary partner, like my husband, you get all the intimacy and love and personal connection. Yes she might sleep with other men, but it’s just sex - you can separate the physical act from the emotional intimacy that comes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:28 AM
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I think that’s a bit of an overstatement. Worst case they try it out and it’s not for them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:26 AM
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He doesn’t have to watch. My husband and I operate on a don’t ask don’t tell basis
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:02 AM
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Because you may love your partner for other reasons (personality, shared interests, values) but find other people more attractive or sexually compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:02 AM
1

Lmao where are you getting this? There’s no way the average man would go out with a very unattractive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:00 AM
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All relationship provide people with “utility”. My husband is a caring, supportive, and honest man. Just because I don’t think he’s attractive doesn’t mean I don’t love him
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:59 AM
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I’m not saying that it’s a perfect system, but it worked for us and more people should CONSIDER giving it a try
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:57 AM
1

That’s not taking advantage though. He’s his own person with the freedom to make his own decisions. He also pursued me…while I was sleeping with someone else. Who I am to say he can’t date me if he wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:56 AM
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My husband and I are in one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:53 AM
1

So do men. Looks is very thing in online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:51 AM
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Says the one calling people narcissist a-holes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:50 AM
1

Yes that’s where I met my boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:25 AM
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He 100% allowed to, but he never has
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:24 AM
2

Right, but this advice was for the below average men. If they can’t get into relationships at all they might as well try this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:24 AM
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You’re entitled to your opinion. My marriage and relationship with my boyfriend works just fine. My point is that while I’m settling when it comes to my husbands looks, he makes up for it with his personality and caring nature. If men are having a hard time because of their looks, they might want to consider this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:23 AM
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Sure some men can get into healthy monogamous relationships, but this post was aimed at lower tier men who don’t have that luxury
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:17 AM
0

Your misogyny is showing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:17 AM
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Maybe you wouldn’t, but most men would think that they are even more shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:16 AM
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Ethical nonmonogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:58 AM
1

Ok sure np, hope it’s not too personal. Does it ever bother you when men objectify you online? Thinking of doing something similar but just curious how bad the hate comments can be
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:54 AM
1

Okay but alone is 100% proven to not succeed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:49 AM
1

Well some men realize that it’s either ENM or die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:48 AM
1

Checked out your profile. Can you PM. Have some questions about streaming
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:46 AM
1

Read the comments lol. Every man here is obsessed with hating on them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:38 AM
1

Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:36 AM
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Well I wouldn’t say sexless. But I get your point. Relationships are about compromise, if a woman wants to cut off her man from sex she shouldn’t be surprised if he cheats. That’s why even I though I enjoy sex with my boyfriend more, I will never turn my husband down. It’s not just about my enjoyment, it’s about making him happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:35 AM
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What makes you think he was desperate? We bonded over mutual interests and there was a connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:33 AM
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Why wouldn’t it be? I’m not going to risk the man I love divorcing me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:13 AM
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What are you talking about, this was before we were married! His options were either be cool with the fact I have an FWB or don’t go out with me (1st date). He chose to date me and that’s what led to marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:12 AM
1

Or maybe people should consider each other points of view and make up their own minds
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:11 AM
0

You say women engage in hypergamy I’m saying not all of them can
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:10 AM
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You completely missed the point. I love my husband and have a child and family with him. My boyfriend is the side piece in this scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:08 AM
2

No because I love husband
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:59 AM
-1

What never began?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:57 AM
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How is this abuse? He consented. FWIW I was already in a FWB relationship when my husband first asked me out. I told him to his face that I wasn’t willing to give it up to date him and he was cool with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:57 AM
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Not true. While I agree that looks is the primary barrier most men face, it’s not say that they cant compensate. Ex: is the sex with my husband great? No not particularly. Frankly I don’t even find him that physically attractive. The reason I love him though is because how gentle and caring he is. If I saw his profile on tinder I probably would have swiped left. When my husband first asked me out, I told him that I was in a FWB relationship and that I wasn’t prepared to give it up if he wanted t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:56 AM
1

I can only speak to my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:53 AM
-1

You realize that not all women can just fuck a 10/10 even if they throw themselves at him right? Some women just aren’t attractive enough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:53 AM
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No it’s more of primal lust I feel for my boyfriend that comes and goes, whereas the love I have for my husband is steady and constant
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:23 AM
1

Sorry husband and boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:22 AM
2

Because she has the right to know about STI risks so it does concern her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:20 AM
2

Well my boyfriend is seeing other women. I don’t think they should cheat, I think they should be honest and inform the women their sleeping with about having other partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:00 AM
0

My husband is the primary partner. He’s the man I come home to every day, the one I share my thoughts, hopes, and dreams with, the man I have a child with. He knows I love him. My boyfriend is good looking and great in bed. That’s it - purely physical and superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:59 AM
2

My child will never know. Did your parents ever talk to you about their sex life? Also I’m not intimate with everyone, just my husband and my boyfriend. That’s a grand total of 2 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:57 AM
0

That’s fair, this lifestyle isn’t for everyone, but the least men could do is try and be a bit more open minded. I honestly think more men would be willing to give this a shot if toxic YouTubers didn’t shame for participating in this lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:55 AM
2

What are you talking about? I did compromise, I married my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:53 AM
0

Okay fine, stick your head in the sand and pretend like people only want monogamous relationships. You don’t have to agree or approve, but the least you can do is not judge others who are open to alternative lifestyles and are happy as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:52 AM
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Maybe you should respect him for allowing his wife to be happy. We only live once so why coerce people and take away their freedom unnecessarily?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:50 AM
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I’m not disrespecting him, I LOVE him. How is it disrespectful when both of us were upfront and honest with each other. He’s free to see other women too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:49 AM
1

Our relationship is no one else’s business. It works for us so there’s no point attracting attention from shallow and judgement people. Also, attraction comes in different forms. My boyfriend is more physically attractive and better in bed, but husband is the one who makes me feel safe and I’m more attracted to his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:48 AM
0

You’re wrong. I love my husband, he’s my primary nesting partner. I also have a boyfriend whose more attractive. Sure sex with my boyfriend is great, but I choose to spend more time with my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:46 AM
2

Okay yeah I guess so
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:44 AM
-1

My boyfriend is more attractive than my husband, and he probably knows this. That being said, he also knows that as my primary partner the only children I want to have or his. Why? Because I love him. That’s the difference between being with him and sleeping with a hot guy that I don’t love.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:44 AM
-5

You realize that if both consent it’s not exploitation right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:42 AM
0

How is that an L compared to no sex at all. Men can use this experience to build confidence and help them get into monogamous relationships later
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:41 AM
0

It’s not like my children will ever meet my boyfriend. What’s wrong with you? I call him my boyfriend for the sake of simplicity, it’s just about sex when we’re together. No emotions or feelings, my children won’t even know about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:40 AM
1

Well I mean if men don’t want to be incels, they should give it a shot. There’s a difference between sex and love. At least this way below average men will have a shot at being in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:39 AM
1

I’m married and my husband lets me have boyfriend. Lol what are you talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:37 AM
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I’m not talking about polyamory. An open relationship is one where both Jen and Brad are each other’s primary partners, but both are free to see other people for NSA sex. They are committed (emotionally, spiritually, and financially) only to each other even though they have sex with other people. Sure the woman will probably have more sex, especially if the guy is having a hard time dating, but even that has to be better than being an incel. My husband knows that there are men I’m more attracted…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:36 AM
1

I don’t follow
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:32 AM
2

It’s not cheating if both parties consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:31 AM
0

You misunderstand. My point is that men should look into the hot wife lifestyle or allow their wives and girlfriends to see other people. Below average man who is caring and emotionally invested in a woman can get into a physical relationship with her, meanwhile the woman is in stuck permanently lowering her standards. Best of both worlds for all parties involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:31 AM
2

But isn’t that better than men having no sex at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:28 AM
1

No it isn’t. They still get to have sex with her, but the woman is also able to fulfilled. It’s a win - win but men just let their stupid pride get in the way and then complain they can’t get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:27 AM
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Because relationships - caring for a woman, emotionally supporting her, taking an interest in her, can give below average guys a fighting chance as opposed to no sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:26 AM
0

You’re misogyny is showing. Entanglement is the whole point. You’re not FWBs you have emotional, personal, and some times financial commitments towards each other, but can see other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:25 AM
0

That’s different, because you have options. Someone may have desires, but they’re not attractive enough to realize them they should set aside their pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:22 AM
1

That’s not even close to same thing. You are not in a relationship if you’re not emotionally and financially invested in the woman. That’s not a relationship, you’re just using her (which is fine if she consents).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:21 AM
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That’s ridiculous. 1-men can get vasectomies or date women who specifically don’t want children 2-there’s a difference between a nesting/primary partner and a boyfriend My boyfriend is more attractive than my husband, and he probably knows this. That being said, he also knows that as my primary partner the only children I want to have or his. To ensure this, my boyfriend and I never go on dates while I’m ovulating and always use condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:20 AM
1

That’s ridiculous. 1-men can get vasectomies or date women who specifically don’t want children 2-there’s a difference between a nesting/primary partner and a boyfriend My boyfriend is more attractive than my husband, and he probably knows this. That being said, he also knows that as my primary partner the only children I want to have or his. To ensure this, my boyfriend and I never go on dates while I’m ovulating and always use condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:19 AM
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But they should put their pride aside and learn to be happy. Most men need to realize that they will never be a woman’s first choice when they hav so many more attractive options. These men are effectively trying to force women to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:15 AM
-4

That’s fine. But someone like myself have a “nesting partner” with whom we share our lives as well other boyfriends we date for fun. My nesting partner is the man I want to settle down with, but I find myself more attracted to other men so this the compromise we worked out. If it works for us other men might want to give it a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:11 AM
2

Right, this advice for the below average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:08 AM
-5

Well maybe they should take a look in the mirror and realize that sometimes they are not enough for a woman to be monogamous with because they themselves are not unique or special.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:07 AM
-1

Well if they really want to have sex maybe they they should start compromising their standards a bit. They themselves admit that women have all the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:00 AM
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