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It's bizzare. I remember four years ago this was one of the funniest subs to visit. Now there are so many people shitting on each other and assuming the worst. Sad, because it's the positivity on this sub which gave me the 'positive self talk' to go out and date.
/r/seduction11/10/18 12:09 PM
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"Your circumstances will never be ideal." You get it.
/r/seduction11/10/18 05:02 AM
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You can't change the past. Focus on doing something right now that would earn your own respect. Ultimately, you won't need to 'respect' yourself because you'll accept yourself. But that takes time.
/r/seduction11/10/18 04:57 AM
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You're in luck - all my field reports about about experiencing love and finding mutual pleasure with women. Check out my other posts.
/r/seduction11/10/18 04:56 AM
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I think that's a fine attitude to have. I think my mindset could be reshapen to fit your beliefs - "I'll give her the chance to earn my respect."
/r/seduction11/10/18 04:54 AM
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People stopped trying and started becoming bitter.
/r/seduction11/10/18 04:53 AM
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The negativity about approaching on this sub is unusually high. Do you think it's because most people posting here don't actually approach?
/r/seduction11/10/18 04:52 AM
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Because it's important that the people giving advice around here have actually implemented it successfully in real life. Otherwise it's just a fantasy.
/r/seduction11/10/18 03:51 AM
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Action isn’t just the effect of motivation, but also the cause of it. - Mark Manson You have to keep a habit of approaching or it'll wear off. Do it whether you like it or not the first time.
/r/seduction30/09/18 12:14 AM
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Thanks for the critique. Would you post some of your own texts so we can see what kind of style you go for?
/r/seduction28/09/18 02:27 AM
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Ok well... Don't have fun then. It's your choice.
/r/seduction28/09/18 12:05 AM
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Thank you for posting this. I thought this was common sense. I can't believe people are arguing over whether great dates are good or bad for seduction.
/r/seduction28/09/18 12:03 AM
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It's suspicious because I'm revealing potentially embarrassing details about my sex life? If I could last three hours and cum three times without it...I would. But I'm not built like that. Viagra's just like any other drug. Use in moderation, don't become dependent.
/r/seduction27/09/18 11:58 PM
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I'm a little confused but... have fun!
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:32 PM
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It's good to be skeptical. There are some things I wouldn't believe unless I saw them myself. Like this in field https://youtu.be/6XZVRnNlHmU
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:30 PM
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It's good to hear about your mindset. It must be flattering for a girl to know that the connection with her is the most important thing to you. "Otherwise why just not go alone or with a friend if it is about the activity." I suppose I'm going with a girl for the same reason I'd go with a friend. To have someone there to make everything more fun. "only a life similar to the life of those around us,merging with it without a ripple, is genuine life, and that an unshared happiness is not happiness"…
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:21 PM
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"I'm going to make love to you." I'm feeling it.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:16 PM
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Thanks! If you're really pushing yourself to be great at seduction then all your dates should sound exaggerated.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:11 PM
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for every upvote u/khante's comment gets I'll remove one link from my next post
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:09 PM
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That's true. Travel my dudes! Depending on where you're at with your attitude towards women, you might be looking for someone who is just DTF. OR you might want to do create something special. I like the idea that a girl is still reminiscing about me years later. I'm a bit Taylor Swift at heart. Maybe u/wont_give_no_kreddit lays such good pipe, he gets that by default.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:06 PM
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I knew that line would go down badly on r/seduction. In my experience girls love it. It must have some resonance with them. If anyone else tries this let me know how it went for you.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:01 PM
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Would you fuck a girl any sooner if she took you on a fun date? I feel like we have different goals. I don't just want to fuck girls. I want to create awesome experiences and feel love. The sex is just an expression of the underlying desire - and so is standing in the ocean at night, riding a motorcycle together, singing in the sauna etc. I think Al Pacio said it here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gU-HGi-BLGs&t=1m10s
/r/seduction27/09/18 02:53 PM
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20s.
/r/seduction27/09/18 01:25 PM
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Just trying to keep it 100% real. It's a time thing. If I only have one night with a girl, I want to make it last hours.
/r/seduction27/09/18 01:16 PM
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Great post. - empirical survey of your social circle - Tony's success story - respectful to Indian dudes What qualities does Tony have that make him attractive to Lisa? In my own experience, white girls will date an Indian guy if he's a Doctor.
/r/seduction27/09/18 12:28 PM
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Cheers. Here's how the date went.
/r/seduction27/09/18 12:05 PM
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It's as u/iceviking described, except the bed was extra-wide. I try to spend as little time as possible in the bungalow - just go back there for the convenience.
/r/seduction27/09/18 12:04 PM
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Here's the follow up, you can see there's an abundance of awesome things to do when you're on a date there.
/r/seduction27/09/18 12:02 PM
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I guess I made the move offering to take her home. She accepted because she didn't feel pressured to make anything happen with me. But then with a bit of splashing around, floating each other through the water, that's a bit "kino" isn't it. Then crying was the move that 'moved the stone' of her heart. Here is the Roman Poet Ovid (The art of Love) on how crying will help you get the girl. "And tears help: tears will move a stone: let her see your damp cheeks if you can. ... What wise man doesn’t …
/r/seduction27/09/18 09:46 AM
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"how about we get to know each other a lil more” Could work but it puts a bit of pressure on her. She had to decide if she wants to know you more and that might be a no. Try just telling her you wanted to meet her.
/r/seduction27/09/18 04:51 AM
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Three levels of attitude Low: I want her to date me Medium: I want to find out if she wants to date me High: I want to find out if I want to date her If you are that high level, you won't ask for her number too quickly because your time is valuable and you are trying to figure out if she's worth it. Women subconsciously recognize that high level. You might be stuck on on low-medium.
/r/seduction27/09/18 04:50 AM
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Ok, but it won't make sense. She held my head under the water (consensually) until I felt like I was going to die. Then I came up for air and cried for about three minutes straight. I almost drowned when I was very young and it gave me some trauma that I never really worked through. The crying might have shown her that I wasn't some PUA; I'm just a person. I might do a post on this in more detail later on but because it was so unusual I thought I'd leave it out.
/r/seduction27/09/18 04:01 AM
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Sounds like you're in a place of abundance. Very happy for you. What do you think of taking the Jordan B Peterson direction from here? " Be Attractive to Many Women But Only Choose One" Or will you go more the RSD route and become the "River" of good vibes that girls will drink from, even if they know other girls will also be drinking from it.
/r/seduction26/09/18 11:08 AM
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How did I escalate? There's my version and then there's her version. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ODOj2jBUKW0&t=0m42s
/r/seduction26/09/18 08:37 AM
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"In other places where the odds of running into the same girl at an event are quite slim this all wouldn't have happened." That's right, and many times I would have NOT run into the same girl. However, if you are flirting with lots of girls, your odds of running into any one of them again significantly increases.
/r/seduction26/09/18 07:59 AM
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25ish
/r/seduction26/09/18 07:58 AM
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I'll post tonight
/r/seduction26/09/18 01:02 AM
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Sure, that's a pretty simple one. 20F hardbody Asian Californian girl dancing alone in the club at 3AM. Just went over and said hi, fortunately right before my two (very hot 30M, 24F) friends arrived. That gave her a new group to hang with since all her friends had gone home. So when my friends wanted to go I told her to come with us and she was in. She probably liked me because I can really break it down on the dance floor. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nv644ipg2Ss
/r/seduction25/09/18 02:47 PM
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Koh Phangan Airbnb $20/night private bungalow Food... $5-10 mains. Highly recommend going there. Join a yoga studio and gym and develop yourself for a month.
/r/seduction25/09/18 02:43 PM
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I see what you mean: getting physical then knocking back sex is a bit paradoxical for her. The culture there was that it's great to do all the tantric non-penetrative exercises but you should be careful and conservative who you have sex with. No indications that she wanted me to come inside that night, but those examples you posted are spot on.
/r/seduction25/09/18 02:10 PM
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"It's really difficult to change your personality". That's right, it's also why you're going to feel great when you get where you want to be. Necessity is the mother of innovation: put yourself in situations where you have to adapt and it WILL happen.
/r/seduction25/09/18 01:30 PM
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"For more context - my theory as to why I turn it "on" is because I feel if I don't make a good impression people aren't going to like me. Or that they'll think I'm not a fun and confident guy. Obviously I still have some validation seeking tendencies in me." Great reflection mate, you've probably hit the nail on the head. I think one of two things is happening. 1. You're going through a rough patch and starting to lose confidence in who you have become (that's bad) or 2. You're still looking fo…
/r/seduction25/09/18 12:56 PM
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Look at it from her perspective. You are asking for her number without knowing anything about her. If you were a man of influence and abundance you'd want to get to know her first to make sure you have a connection. By asking for the number too early you're demonstrating desperation. Next time post an accurate account of what you said.
/r/seduction25/09/18 12:51 PM
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I think that Models contains the very answers you are looking for. From memory, did Mark talk about watching more stand-up comedy? That's a low-risk strategy. Beyond that, I encourage you to go out (You should make as many plans are possible - fill up that calendar) and practice your conversational skills. I'd suggest that once you have the core concepts down pat, through practice you will develop your own "skills" which will be far more satisfying than any you read in a guide.
/r/seduction25/09/18 11:55 AM
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They're great. The sex ratio on that particular island was also heavily in my favour. In the town I stayed in there must have been two girls for every one guy. That's a very powerful influence on both men and women's mate selection.
/r/seduction25/09/18 11:51 AM
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