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| 1 | For a lot of lonely guys, they’re incapable of being good boyfriends….because they choose not to be.The husband you're claiming resents her is a he. He knows who he married. It's funny redpill guys claim they understand women's nature, but then they hear a woman saying she thinks it's easy for her husband to understand her needs even if she can't clearly explain them to her husband and you're raging about it. Her husband understands that's how she is and knows how to get what he needs to out of her to know how to make her happy whether or not she clearly states it and she's happy. No regular m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 01:49 PM |
| 2 | For a lot of lonely guys, they’re incapable of being good boyfriends….because they choose not to be.I contributed to the argument. Ended it too. Calling you a weirdo, for being a weirdo, doesn't change my point. He's a married man, he knows who he married. You assuming all men resent women for being women is why you're redpill and most men aren't. We came to terms with what we were getting into and accept it. You didn't which is why you're arguing on the internet single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 01:42 PM |
| 2 | For a lot of lonely guys, they’re incapable of being good boyfriends….because they choose not to be.He's a grown ass married man and he's where you weirdos differentiate from regular men, we don't resent women for being women. Cool she wants a mind reader and doesn't communicate well and? You think he didn't know that already and calculate whether or not he can deal with it? Chances are at this point he knows her better than she knows herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 01:23 PM |
| 7 | Treating Most Women Good will end up being a failed relationshipSo we're to believe you been in exactly 10 relationships, treated exactly 5 well and 5 horribly, and all the 5 you treated well left you, and all the 5 you treated like shit you left because you couldn't take treating them like shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 10:21 PM |
| 6 | People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people.And now we've gotten to the meat of the issue, it's too many grown ass children running around and wanting to be respected as full adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 09:29 PM |
| 3 | People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people.The "work" it takes is not being selfish lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people.It is a valid concept, the issue is you guys misuse the term. Emotional labor is, according to Wikipedia, "the act of managing one's own emotions and the emotions of others to meet job or relationship expectations. It requires the capacity to manage and produce a feeling to fulfill the emotional requirements of a job." For example a waiter pretending to be in a good mood and like the people they're serving is emotional labor. Emotional labor is just a two word term to explain “youre exhausting t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Our understanding of traditional gender roles is entirely based off 50s nostalgiaNo you just can't do math a 30 year mortgage on a 200k house with a minimum down payment on a FHA loan is $1800 a month that's like 2/3rd the income of someone making 50k you're just wrong here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Our understanding of traditional gender roles is entirely based off 50s nostalgiaI paid $1300 a month for a 3% interest rate on a 178k home you're delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Our understanding of traditional gender roles is entirely based off 50s nostalgiaA 900 square foot house, some basic electronics, frugal spending habits (i.e. only eating out a few times a month, used stuff) is probably sustainable for a 50k single earner household. Please go to Zillow and look up the price of a 900-1000 sqft home near you. I'm willing to bet it's around $200k which is way more than you can afford on $50k. It's not 2016 anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 09:33 PM |
| – | Women do not refuse the red pill arguments, they detest the label and who is declaring themMen largely take steroids to be stronger or for sports. I didn't know any men that does it for women besides one man I know who was a male stripper. No one is denying the effects, I'm saying it takes prolonged nonstop use to have those effects and none of the dozen or so men I know that have cycled before have done that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Women do not refuse the red pill arguments, they detest the label and who is declaring themAI isn't a real answer. This is from the study you used AI to give you an overview of instead of reading: Not surprisingly, increasing use of T was associated with higher rates of preserved erectile function in men currently using the therapy. However, surprisingly, a high percentage of men reported de novo sexual dysfunctions, including ED (27%) and decreased libido (57%) when not taking AAS. Additionally, longer durations of use and higher frequency of use per year were associated with experie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 09:46 PM |
| 0 | Women do not refuse the red pill arguments, they detest the label and who is declaring thembecome a roided out freak whose dick doesn't work and has low libido from gear Roids do the exact opposite of this. Every man I know that's done a cycle says the nonstop horniness is one of the biggest downsides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Being hookup material is much better than being husband material.you're seeking a dream that just does not exist Purple don't have sex with everyone they find attractive. Maybe you do, but you're a whore if that's how you operate. I've slept with women that were abstinent over a year before I got with them. It's 2025, like 1/3 of unmarried 18-30 year old women didn't have sex in the last 12 months, and over 50% of them haven't had more than one sexual partner in the last 12 months. It is not hard to find a chaste woman, it's hard to find a woman that's not ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 02:07 PM |
| 3 | What do men mean when they say they love deeper than women?No I started by saying women aren't known for checking out they're known for leaving, and you said they check out then leave like that's unique to women or something. And it's not a bad thing to leave relationships get off of your brain is fucked in no way is it an insult that women leave more I advocate for men to stop eating shit and leave women all the time. Hell I'm a man and I've never been broken up with before I leave the second I realize someone isn't right for me unlike most men that tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 01:53 PM |
| 3 | What do men mean when they say they love deeper than women?Everyone checks out before they leave that's just the first step to breaking up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 06:10 PM |
| 4 | Why are men so much harsher on weight than women?The majority of the major beauty magazines and runway shows are owned by men. Men in charge of fashion houses and runway shows are notoriously attracted to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 11:37 PM |
| -1 | Women that are 25+ who are looking for long term commitment from men but do not want children. For what purpose or goal are you looking for a LTR? Why not just hook up forever?Here's the definition of the word family: noun 1. a group of one or more parents and their children living together as a unit. As he said what you're describing is a couple not a family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Women that are 25+ who are looking for long term commitment from men but do not want children. For what purpose or goal are you looking for a LTR? Why not just hook up forever?OP the goal is to have a friend because their other friends are moving on with life with their partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 11:29 PM |
| 3 | What do men mean when they say they love deeper than women?You're just changing your wording as if that changes anything. Now you're claiming women check out and leave, which means they didn't check out they left. And men have icks, we use the whole courting period to sus them out and usually beyond that most men ignore unsightly things which is why as I said before women initiate way more break ups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 11:28 PM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they say they love deeper than women?My bad then someone else posted this link: https://www.bls.gov/news.release/atus2.t01.htm But here's the data you're looking for and it shows the work division is equitable. Women do about a half hour more a day of work/housework. No big deal at all. Also if you know any parents you'd know, it's common sense duh Yes because everyone grows up in the same household totally. I got a mom that doesn't cook and mostly made us do the chores and a father that was getting home from work late at night so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 10:50 PM |
| 0 | What do men mean when they say they love deeper than women?I saw your link in another post, it showed married mothers (not wives or girlfriends but mothers) do 10 hours of work a day and married fathers (not husbands or boyfriends) do 10 hours of work. You disproved your own point. What's up with people sending links and not checking to see if the link disproves their point first? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 10:07 PM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they say they love deeper than women?According to your (20 year outdated) link married fathers and married mothers do the same amount of work. Mothers do 2.05 hours of house maintenance activities, 5.14 hours of work related activities, 0.6 hours of household shopping, 1.19 hours of watching the kids, and 1.39 hours of travel. Fathers do 1.24 hours of house maintenance, 6.12 hours of work, 0.38 hours of household shopping, 0.81 hours of watching the children, 1.47 hours of watching the kids. That's 10.37 hours a day for the mothers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 09:58 PM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they say they love deeper than women?Documented by who exactly? Time use surveys show women and men do equitable amounts of work when coupled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 09:42 PM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they say they love deeper than women?Hey now they also ignore the tons of short men like their fathers that got women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 09:37 PM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they say they love deeper than women?Just look up divorce rates or who initiates breakups more. Women aren't known to check out and stick around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Madonna whore complex is the equivalent to alpha fucks beta bucksI feel if anything low libido when have higher body counts. They're much less likely to be in long term relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 08:09 PM |
| 0 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?Women who oppose abortion are likely to identify as conservative. Women who support pro-choice are likely to identify as liberal. Men who oppose abortion are likely to identify as conservative. Men who support pro-choice may identify as either conservative or liberal. Do the numbers you posted support this? No? Then what are we doing? That's what I just said? No because nowhere did I say liberal men and conservative women have nothing in common. All groups mentioned have something in common beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughNo they don't. I'm black for example and only 48% of black women think feminism helped women. You're on reddit too much if you think most people identify as feminist or think of feminism as a good thing or think gender equality= feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 07:59 PM |
| 0 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughThis is a more accurate definition than your other one, and the reason people don't agree with feminism and feminists is men and men aren't seen as equal historically either, and women and women aren't seen as equal historically. Like OP said what defines men and women according to the doctrine of feminism is inconsistent. The only way to have a consistent definition of women and men is to buy into the physical inferiority of women and a collective mental deficiency in men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 03:04 PM |
| 0 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughThat is what you'll find in the dictionary, it's not the academic or realistic definition of the word which is why a ton of former feminists are anti feminists. Feminism basically tries to have a monopoly on thinking women deserve rights when historically feminism fought against the rights of plenty of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughTrust Hillary Clinton is much less effected by these issues than 99% of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughIt's actually impressive how quickly you proved their point lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughReal issues that affect women, like sexual violence, must be addressed through a gendered lens, because they are gendered issues. Something like 97% of male rape victims are victims of sexual assault and not rape according to official US law because penetrating someone is required to rape them by law. This is the issue when you gender sexual violence, you're contributing to the silencing of victims of sexual violence. Black men have a higher chance of being a victim of sexual violence than white… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 01:42 PM |
| -2 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughFeminism isn't when you believe men and women are equal, actually the ideology of feminism kind of requires you to believe women are inherently inferior to men it's the basis of all their political ideology if you read actual feminist scholars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 01:37 PM |
| -1 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughIf you believe woman and men should have the same rights, choices and freedoms as each other then you are a feminist. This isn't even remotely true but it's how feminism has gotten so widespread and rewritten the history of their own movement. Feminism is a whole political ideology based around the belief that the primary antagonism is gender and the world is controlled by a patriarchy where patriarchy is defined as "men" and not an actual patriarchal (familial) structure including women and chi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughWhere you went wrong is you thought they were feminists on this sub for reasons outside of their sexual frustrations and you thought you'd get some thought provoking comments not MFs that can't find love bitching and moaning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughI'll contest your point that we shouldn't do away with feminism. Feminism exists to strengthen the patriarchy, and has mostly only been used politically to strengthen the patriarchy. The women we now call first wave feminists were open about thinking they deserved to vote because their men were failing patriarchs and women voting would restore the natural order. Feminism exists to make sure people fundamentally misunderstand the patriarchy and push a political agenda that further marginalizes pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 01:18 PM |
| 0 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?The post is about how people choose to self define based on their views, and why people who self identify differently can actually be compatible on values. And the only view you care about it abortion seemingly lol. Now put the two together. Aka imagine there's data that connects two points that don't connect. 41% of conservatives support abortion and it doesn't say what percentage of conservative men vs conservative women support it. Not to mention you're basically boiling down political identi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?My point is just that it's a bad measure if we're going state to state. I'm in TX and the gyms are absolutely packed in a way they aren't in other states. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?How some feminists are not man-hating psychos you see on the internet They date the men that will accept them and a left wing man that'll accept them has no spine so he's not a good candidate. A right wing man on the other hand most likely has the exact same views on gender so they can get along swimmingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 09:28 PM |
| 0 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?More women are likely to identify as "left" or "left leaning" on the basis of reproductive arguments alone. There's a 2% gender gap in Roe v Wade support. Your post falls apart early on your assumptions are all wrong.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?High obesity rates don't mean fat. The NFL has damn near a 100% obesity rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?I feel like you aren't an exception to the rule and kinda highlight the thought I almost made when I read the thread title which is that for the most part those super liberal women have more in common ideologically with right wing men (fit example ask them both about how dangerous men are to women or how women have more emotional intelligence). Left wing men usually have more in common with apolitical women. There's exceptions but it's rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 09:04 PM |
| -2 | Why do so many women on here say they have lower physical standards for casual sex despite pretty much every study and most people's lived experiences saying otherwise?Well this isn't true you guys don't know women. You don't have to be tall, you don't have to be in shape, and being tall and in shape won't help you. It's about being handsome. If you're short and in bad shape and handsome you'll still do well if you're not a weirdo. And there's a lot of ugly tall and in shape gymcels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 01:19 PM |
| 3 | 'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my lifeI got a question, would you assume he was sleeping because you know him, or would you have that assumption with anyone? And also the most understated part of all those tactics is that they're only meant to attract toxic women. Now toxic women are a majority nowadays (just as toxic men are) but true lover types will be driven away by all those tactics and that's seems to be what you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 11:11 PM |
| 4 | 'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my lifeAlso imma be real I know young guys that have never consumed redpill content in their lives and self proclaimed male feminists that do that shit. That's just a new age thing. Idk who taught all these young men that telling women they have other women talking to them unprovoked was a good strategy but they need to stop. There's a 22 year old I know that did the same thing and fumbled with a woman, like why would you ever explicitly tell a woman you're pursuing that you're talking to other women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 10:29 PM |
| 3 | 'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my lifeButting in here, not redpill but that guy completely missed the point in redpill using the tactics on a woman he already has an established relationship with lol..those tactics are supposed to be used to have as much no strings attached sex with as many women as possible, not to built a healthy long term relationship of course they didn't work lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 10:15 PM |
| 3 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.The men on Reddit saying they have short lists aren't looking for LTRs. Certainly not healthy ones. I know blackpill dudes too they're not looking for healthy family dynamics which is the main reason they have no luck with most women and are blackpill to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 02:29 AM |
| 1 | What issues that men experience should we focus on?The most important one to me, because everyone experiences it and it informs how we see and function in society on all levels, is school discrimination against boys. School is usually where socialization begins and a lot of the "issues" present with modern men has been taught to them through apathy experienced in schooling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 11:09 PM |
| 1 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.This sub only talks about dating as a casual activity, rarely as a thing people do as step one to building a family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 11:01 PM |
| 6 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.Nah ignore him he's weird lol. The guys that aren't picky are 9/10 times dating women they don't see a future with. Anyone looking for a serious long term relationship will be picky and personality will matter a lot more than looks (both are important still). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Rarely have women meet men that are truly unlucky with women. Its usually something he’s doing wrong.but why I do need women to tell me why they dont like certain men Because they're not the certain man your describing and the certain man you're describing is a loser and most likely knows it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 01:39 PM |
| 3 | Rarely have women meet men that are truly unlucky with women. Its usually something he’s doing wrong.The thing that's wrong most men I know in this situation do is they don't center their lives around women. That's it. They'll have good jobs, be social, have friends, but unless you're actively looking for women they just won't come. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Women Don’t See Themselves as Abusers—Physically or Sexually.That’s why the civil rights movement, women’s suffrage, and even feminist policies gained traction over time. Women's sufferage and feminist politics gained power because it helped the system. We now have twice as many workers and workers have half as much. There's less families and more profits. Suffragettes quite literally used to argue they should be allowed to vote because white women were the true backbone of the patriarchy/white families and the men were failing them. Feminism's biggest wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Q4A: "If men did more [of women's thing] they would get more of [women's results]" - why do you think they don't?You don't get it because it's not true lol. Every NFL player is technically obese, and some men build muscle more it's more obese but fit men (I'd guess it's about 5-6% of all men) when you look at severe obesity rates women double men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Women Don’t See Themselves as Abusers—Physically or Sexually.But that doesn’t mean individual accountability is meaningless. Individuals are informed by the system. Women choose to ignore male victims just like men do, is it due to the personal accountability of men or because we are all taught to believe they don't exist and where they do exist it's not as big a deal? If every woman suddenly believed male victims tomorrow, the legal system wouldn’t change overnight—but public pressure would. The only reason laws ever change is because people demand it. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 11:12 PM |
| 0 | Women Don’t See Themselves as Abusers—Physically or Sexually.And they can’t have that, because it weakens their stance and forces them to take accountability. Here's where you lost it. The real reason why is because of the patriarchy and that women as a gender are largely classified by being victims of men. That's why when gendered violence is a topic and someone mentions more men are killed than women the response is that they're killed by men. And ultimately the purpose it serves is simple, it adds to social isolation so the elite families ruling over u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 11:09 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: How differently do you treat a guy who is a boyfriend/husband material from a guy who is a hookup/FWB material?No husband material guys aren't dating women they don't enjoy spending time with in the first place. Sex isn't some difficult thing they never have so it's not enough of a motivating factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How differently do you treat a guy who is a boyfriend/husband material from a guy who is a hookup/FWB material?Women with healthy attitudes towards sex don't do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 01:27 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: How differently do you treat a guy who is a boyfriend/husband material from a guy who is a hookup/FWB material?If the best a woman has to offer is sex that's a bad woman. Most people with options need more than that in their woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Why men shouldn’t take women’s fear of men she doesn’t know personallyEven then, it’s not like men face worse treatment because of this Please go look up sentencing disparities and arrest disparities. You think 80% of homeless are men for no reason too? You think there's a massive schooling disparity between men and women for no reason? Like this is absurd, even racism is highly gendered (look up what black people are unemployed, killed young, and removed from society most often). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men?According to time use surveys men and women do equal amounts of work in and outside the house. Even in couples where both spouses work the husband is more likely to work full time or multiple jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men?Unmarried/childless women are a threat to the economic and social order that prevails. Lmfao. Yes extra low wage workers spending more money on rent and gathering obscene amounts of debt are totally a threat to the current economic order. If you think men or women as a while are disrupting the economic and social order by staying single when the economic and social order has been specifically trying to isolate men and women then you're just not paying attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Why is it shallow for a woman to have income standards in a partner if she wants children/ a familyIf I, with no degree, could go from being completely broke to a 6 figure income in less than three years, then anybody can. Delusional. If you think I’m going to feel insulted by you telling me I flunked out, you’re just wrong. I don't care if you feel insulted, I'm just laughing at a dropout underachiever telling someone that finished their degree at 20 and most definitely makes way more than them that hard work alone will get you to 100k. Sure it sounds good to you, someone who had everything … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Why is it shallow for a woman to have income standards in a partner if she wants children/ a familyI graduated college at 20, you flunked out. I just understand people poured into me both in my life and in my career so I can get to where I am because hard work alone isn't all it takes. Plenty of people work hard and never make it to where I am based off nothing less than having worse luck than me. You're barely at 6 figures and think it makes you better than other people because you're an empty human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Why is it shallow for a woman to have income standards in a partner if she wants children/ a familyAgain privileged mindset. You fucked up and got lucky you could afford to do so, so of course to you it's about decisions because you got everything easy and could fuck up and get a second chance. You didn't have excuses to make, I know people that work hard and make more average incomes because (obviously) most people earn average incomes. It's hilariously always people barely out the mud having that elitist mindset too. I'd be a fool to attribute my success to a personal decision devoid of luc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 10:16 PM |
| – | Why is it shallow for a woman to have income standards in a partner if she wants children/ a familyYou need to log off and go to the real world. Like lot of men correlate a woman’s attractiveness with her children’s provision Ok and they're dumb and wrong now what? All women aren't golddiggers and wealthy men with happy families aren't ditching them for supermodels. Your whole post is based off believing nonsense. This sub is full of people speaking on a class of people they don't interact with ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Why is it shallow for a woman to have income standards in a partner if she wants children/ a familyHere's the most populated metro areas and their median HOUSEHOLD incomes: NYC/Newark metro - 95220 Los Angeles metro - 91960 Chicago metro - 87071 DFW metro - 86860 Houston metro - 79463 Atlanta metro - 86505 DC metro - 121469 Philly metro - 86867 Miami metro - 76271 Phoenix metro - 85700 So I was incorrect, there's 2 places where 100k isn't doing better than the median family - DC and San Fran. Outside of those places 100k is enough for a single income household. $150k is enough for a family of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Why is it shallow for a woman to have income standards in a partner if she wants children/ a familyThis is dumb as hell you realize almost all men here are most likely raised by men making under 100k right? Most men had 2 working parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Why is it shallow for a woman to have income standards in a partner if she wants children/ a familyThere's literally 1 area in the country where 100k isn't at least 20% over what the average FAMILY makes. If you're not in the Bay Area you should have good savings and a retirement fund at 100k. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 02:47 PM |
| 9 | Why is it shallow for a woman to have income standards in a partner if she wants children/ a familyThis is completely wrong and most people don't get a degree anyway. It's easy for you because your privileged enough to be able to afford college, be thankful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Gen Z males are not dating as much, but what about gen Z women?You're telling me you know what the stats say and you're telling me to prove it? You already know the numbers so what would I be proving? You aren't correcting a mistake, you're just lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 04:46 PM |
| 5 | You Can Never Trust a Woman Who Doesn't Have Intense Lust for You Nearly ImmediatelyReal life isn't porn sex even for people that take a while is only an hour. If they were going 3 times a day its probably shorter than that (because genitals get sore). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Gen Z males are not dating as much, but what about gen Z women?Lesbians face more abuse because they still coupled with men before being in lesbian relationships. If you account for that lesbians have the second lowest abuse rate after gay men. Provide a source. This is nonsense made up by people attempting to deflect from the actual causes of domestic violence to ignore male victims and push misogynist ideals of the purity of womenhood. Like your narrative didn't even make sense, if saying men is why their ipv rates are high women that date only men will h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 11:39 PM |
| 7 | Gen Z males are not dating as much, but what about gen Z women?Statistically speaking lesbian couples face more abuse and divorce than heterosexual couples, and gay couples form way less than heterosexual couples (when they do form they have the lowest abuse and divorce rates though). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 10:48 PM |
| 0 | Q4Men: what does a society that prioritizes men do?It ain't standard bullshit then. Or maybe I just can't speak on the UK. In the US nursing is lucrative. Unless you're in tech you're not outearning that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: what does a society that prioritizes men do?There's no such thing as a standard bullshit job that's more lucrative than nursing. Nursing is the 5th highest paying bachelor's degree and one of the best when it comes to job security. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 10:28 PM |
| – | How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners?Gotta remember anyone asking this question is likely to have no relationship experience, so in their hypothetical life with a hypothetical girlfriend they're imagining mistreatment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 04:45 PM |
| – | How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners?This is dumb lmao. If you can pull one woman there's a second that'll go for it somewhere. Have a spine and look for what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 04:34 PM |
| – | Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry areHe's given a solution (seek out positive dude related content and comment sections, remove toxic content creators from your feed until it's populated with the wholesome and supportive content you're seeking) Please go watch an old Sneako video, then watch him now, and you'll realize immediately there's no creators that fit this mold that don't end up going the Andrew Tate route (mainly because the algorithm boosts engagement and controversy increases engagement). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".I'd agree there but for the purpose of discussion I'm speaking on the self proclaimed leftists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 11:13 PM |
| 1 | When single... Did/Do you care about what the opposite sex finds attractive?It might, but I don't care about that. Like I'm in a relationship now, doing things because my woman likes it doesn't mean other women will. I went bald earlier than I could've because my ex wanted me to, the women that like bald men appreciate it, the women that don't, don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 04:01 PM |
| -3 | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".Identity politics on the left that has pandered to every identity. EXCEPT ONE. This is absurd and shows you just don't pay attention. I'm sure Muslims and black men and undocumented people felt so pandered to when they were told genocide, police killings, and building a wall was on Kamala's campaign promises list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".Women, until recently couldn't get a credit card, own property, vote, were relegated to low status jobs... Neither could anyone that wasn't white. Are non white men not men to you? Juxtaposing it with class privilege doesn't make it disappear. That's because you don't know your history and assume women weren't a part of history, which is why you're talking about cultural and important stories and not actual history. For example I'm sure you learned about prohibition, I'm sure you didn't learn is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".The rush is people want multiple kids and there's a biological clock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 03:20 PM |
| 1 | When single... Did/Do you care about what the opposite sex finds attractive?All women aren't attracted to the same thing, so what I do to attract the women I want won't attract all women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".There is no political left in the US. Liberals are as far as it gets. The DSA is the largest self proclaimed leftist organization and they're undeniably neoliberal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 03:19 PM |
| 1 | When single... Did/Do you care about what the opposite sex finds attractive?Only what the women I want find attractive. I don't care at all about when I don't want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 11:58 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".I was specifically referring to her plan to give 20,000 in forgivable loans specifically to black men. Oh nah if you read the fine print it's black men *and others lol. Literally just already existing business loans, she's just marketing them to black men, it was so fucking lazy. Like what if I don't want to be a crypto CEO? A MF that pack trucks don't care about that at all lol. Hell, half of this very sub utterly rejects that there is any fundamental difference in what motivates men and women.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".I said that men are upset about losing privilege. You replied by saying a sizeable percentage of black men can't vote. That response doesn't make sense at all. What privileges? This is why the privilege conversation is nonsense, you don't even have evidence of systemic privileges men have, but I can name examples of how men aren't privileged easily because men aren't even a political class or group, it's just a gender. First of all, the left is much more supportive of voting rights and of restor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 11:41 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".Literally can't even argue with people who are so politically far gone. An investigation was literally done by unbiased sources and they found zero evidence it was a thing. It was literally just used as justification for genocide. It's usually one of the first things people use as justification for genocide. Meanwhile in the real world Israel was openly raping their prisoners while they made these allegations and there's actual evidence of that. and then want to run and hide behind "white suprem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".Men don't feel validated or heard by the left You should've kept reading, I literally said right after that they don't even validate men, so what's the point if that's all you get from it? They're annoyed that their privilege in society has massively shrunk. 1/3 black men can't vote in America. This is dumb as fuck. They're coddled Yes the notoriously coddled American man, only the most incarcerated demographic on the planet earth, so coddled! Go to school, the ROI, is incredibly high. It isn't.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 10:18 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".Black and Muslim women do exist, and a lot of them are white supremacists. Same as black men that hate black women and support their systemic oppression. Being black isn't a defense for assuming black men are dangerous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 10:14 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".You're equating misogyny (interpersonal relationship issues) with patriarchy and oppression (systemic issues). If a man calls you a whore who TF cares about that any more than a man that calls you a queen? On the other hand the idea that men are dangerous has been used as justification for genocide and violence, especially of non white men in western society. There's a reason Israel lied and said Hamas was mass raping people, because they knew "these men is savage and dangerous" is always going … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 10:13 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".“Hey black men, here’s some free money” This wasn't even her message. Her message was "here's crypto now shut the hell up". It's telling her policy towards black men really was directed at things most black people wouldn't benefit from, and you can compare it to her platform for latino men which centered family and see one of her biggest issues was she didn't realize what was important to men. They want to provide for their loved ones, not get into crypto schemes and risk it all for a small chan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".So you can't use women not on the left to try to prove your point. Go reread my post because you flat out didn't even attempt to understand what I was saying. My point is there's women NOT on the left that are the strongest people against abortion in the country, but this has been framed as a man vs woman issue by the left. If you have to go to the 3rd definition then I think you should probably use a different word You just clearly don't know how the English language works if you think this mak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".I’ve been married for a decade have 2 kids Take back what I said then because what you're looking for it totally different from someone without that experience. You're looking for a second wife, totally different thing lol. If you have the opportunity, 4 years before marriage and kids is a solid move, far better than less than 1 year. Agreed which is why I decided to start young so I have that time and I still can have time to have more than 1 kid without putting my current girlfriend and hopefu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".Over 50% of women have sons and husbands and brothers and fathers I'm sure they feel safe with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".It doesn't take 4 years to love somebody. If it takes you 4 years to love somebody that puts you in a rare category and it makes sense why you are where you are in the dating market currently (just based off your comments it seems you can't find women on your timeline). Learn to open up. Women in their 30s don’t want to hear that and take that risk. Its not the risk that's the issue. It's the lack of upside. If a woman is 33 and childless your best case scenario for her is that she starts trying… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".I'm asking if the women who are against abortion are on the left. Some are. Some aren't. Idk what relevance that'll hold when the point was abortion, which is widely supported by both men and women, was somehow turned into a wedge issue to cover for the fact they had no plans to codify abortion (mainly because the head Democrats like Pelosi - if you want a woman from the "left" as an example - only support abortion publicly for political gain). Yes. Which one? My fault I checked Webster it's the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 04:10 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".All on the left? What are you even asking here? Which academy? Look up the definition of academy. It'll be the second one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".Men have kids in their 80s, but it's a bad idea and women have kids in their 40s, but it's a bad idea. Most people do not want to be 98 or 58 at their kids graduation, not to mention from 35-39 a woman has a 50/50 shot at getting pregnant in a given year, combined with less of a chance to conceive healthy, combined with a much harder time getting back to normal post pregnancy. Like you can believe what you want, but it's foolish and it's hilarious a man claiming to be redpill is ignoring the eff… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 03:56 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".What campaign promises did he abandon? He abandoned his stance on the border, police brutality, student loans, voting rights, promised $2000 checks and only gave $600, abandoned the child tax credits, dreamers, and had absolutely no plan to attempt to protect abortion rights. He had no tangible quality of life wins, and no social wins. On top of that Americans are funding wars they don't care and a whole ass genocide, so Democrats can't even make moral arguments for themselves (because nothing i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 03:49 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".But the left AT LEAST panders to women and pretends to understand their issues. For example there's a 4% gender gap in support for abortion (61% of men and 65% of women support abortion) but it's framed as an issue of men controlling women's bodies. As if women aren't a majority of voters and white women (the group 2nd least supportive of abortions after the men they birth and raise). To cover for their lack of actual support of women's issues they decide to scapegoat men to cover for it. Issue … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 03:39 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".It is rational and smart which is why most men pair up and get hitched in their late 20s. You didn't do that so you're behind the curve. Geriatric pregnancy kicks in at 35 then pregnancy becomes risky. You're old as hell you're basically telling women to invest their last fertile years in you with no guarantee of anything. Your love can't change biology. they just don’t have the options to consider an alternative of just having a loving girlfriend first Neither do you. Idk how you spent your 20s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 03:34 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".You're making his point lol. This is literally KKK rhetoric is it surprising Democrats are doing worse among non white people and the poor while doing better among white people and the wealthy as of late? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 03:24 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".The left hasn't treated men badly The left treats everyone badly, as does the right because our current political Overton window rests between "more female CEOs to bleed the people dry" and "less female CEOs to bleed the people dry" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:55 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".Joe Biden was polling wise than Kamala among all groups including black women. Maybe the issue is Joe Biden abandoned all his campaign promises? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:52 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".Issue is politically liberals are the left and they're so pervasive a majority of "leftists" are actually just liberals in disguise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:47 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".You quite literally are though. Assuming you're not in your 20s why the hell would you want to drag things out if you're serious about pairing up? People gotta be more honest with themselves man... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:44 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".It's a function of the new politically inept left. It's an issue that's two fold, basically the left has one thing to offer right now - validation and the feeling of "being heard". There's no actual solutions of any systemic problems coming from the left. Just infighting. So they're undeniably not hearing Young men'a issues or pretending to care about them so what else is there to go for? In the BLM era they at least got tons of young men with the promise of limiting the scope of police violence… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:40 PM |
| 1 | RP men, would you be more embarrassed of dating someone who’s openly a feminist or someone who used to sleep around?Tons of people that aren't marxists have done a lot for women and the working class. It didn't make them marxists. I'm not seeing anything bad about them as people just that they are liberals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 10:03 PM |
| 1 | RP men, would you be more embarrassed of dating someone who’s openly a feminist or someone who used to sleep around?Marxist feminism is held up by strings. Claudia Jones (a leading Marxist "feminist") for example never considered herself a feminist. Feminism rewrites history to call anyone that spoke on the oppression of women as feminist regardless of whether or not they worked off the same definition of feminism that feminists do. Claudia Jones spent most of her career critiquing feminism only to have feminists claim her in the grave. It's actually insulting. Angela Davis is another example but she's anothe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Accountability Crisis: Why Feminism Needs to Rethink the Blame GameFeminism 101 is that feminism is an ideology that allows white women to redefine the patriarchy as not fundamentally being about keeping white families safe which includes white women. The patriarchy is the lynching of Emmett Till. The patriarchy is 53% of white women voting Trump. According to voting data and polls every group of men other than white men are less patriarchal and further removed from the power structure of the patriarchy than white women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Accountability Crisis: Why Feminism Needs to Rethink the Blame GameCool, let's ignore elections for a second then, name one group as protected by society as white women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Accountability Crisis: Why Feminism Needs to Rethink the Blame GameName one election where the second most Republican voting bloc wasn't white women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 12:08 AM |
| 10 | RP men, would you be more embarrassed of dating someone who’s openly a feminist or someone who used to sleep around?Feminism is a liberal ideology. You'd be hard pressed to name a major mainstream feminist that isn't. Kimberle Crenshaw was bumping elbows with Hillary Clinton for example. Feminism and socialism/Marxism are diametrically opposed because feminism sees gender as a primary contradiction. Source: I'm a former feminist that dropped feminism for this reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 11:48 PM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menThey wheeled out Barack to shit talk black men as if they weren't going to - for the 8 millionth time - be the group that votes for Kamala the second most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 12:47 AM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menRan to the right of Biden who was hated for being too far to the right. She was bragging about a Dick Cheney endorsement idk how anyone expected her to survive that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 12:37 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: Do you think it's understandable if a guy is celibate simply because he doesn't like his gender role in dating?because they'd started much earlier and because they have a whole movement dedicated to their rights. Yeah this is absurd. Women have progressed further because their movement assigned with the interests of capital. More workers, more single people with more expenses, a further divide between the genders. If true egalitarianism was reached by men absolving themselves of their gender role there'd be more couples and a less materialistic splintered and antisocial populace. Can't have that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 09:54 PM |
| – | If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be?So it’s a diversion. But it really isn't. It's a great point to make because it brings you to one of two conclusions: either admit man and women are inadequate categories, or say you don't think black men are men. It’d be similarly disingenuous if I started pivoting to black and indiginous women’s specifically higher risks of facing SA. Raising the stakes doesn’t change the central point It doesn't change his central argument either, you just don't want to acknowledge this because you think man … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Guys don't have to worry about being judged for having strong sexual desires.men get paranoid about being made fun of You can say this 80 more times and it won't become any more true you know this right? Only someone that knows nothing about men can believe this. Men at 85% of murder victims and for some reason you think we don't fear death just as much as you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 12:31 AM |
| – | If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be?First off, men have not been lynched specifically because they are men. Please go look up the gender of lynching victims. This is insanely wrong. As usually these conversations always serve to dehumanize non white men. Apparently black men aren't men. The idea that men are savage rapists almost never affects men in power in any real way, just the underprivileged. No presidents were seen as potential rapists, but 12 year old boys were lynched and sexually assaulted because of their potential to r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 12:24 AM |
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