Operator_Axiom Archive

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5	Kill Your Ego I like the sentiment about not letting your ego get in the way. You do need a healthy ego but you can't let it rule your actions. Problem I have is with the example. Regardless of the chemistry or whatever there was a reason she turned you down. In a woman's eyes it isn't going to matter if it is a week or two or two minutes later. After she has turned you down twice if you keep persisting she is going to view you as desperate. She will talk shit to friends or people you know about how you can't…	/r/TheRedPill	10/11/18 06:40 PM
1	LTR lied about attending a part while I was out-of-town. Need advice. You can treat it like any other shit test and see what happens. Just don't play it for to long or she will know you got nothing or very little. Continue to soft next her and see her reactions and trust your gut. Honestly you won't ever know if you got the whole truth and nothing but the truth. You just need to decide if you can live with what you've gotten. If you can then drop it and don't drive yourself crazy. If you can't then drop it and her in status. If you push and push then you are going…	/r/askTRP	08/11/18 04:16 AM
2	LTR lied about attending a part while I was out-of-town. Need advice. When you soft next her without the confrontation her hamster will begin going wild. At first she might think you're having a bad day or being a little bitch but that shouldn't matter to you because she is a 'next' so let her think what she wants. When it's apparent to her that you are withdrawing from her she is going to wonder what she did wrong or how much you know. If she knows you at all, and if you are in a LTR she SHOULD know you well enough, she is going to wonder what and how much you kn…	/r/askTRP	08/11/18 02:52 AM
1	How to deal with aggressive men? Understand fear is something you may feel but never let it rule you or dictate your actions. Be confident, stand tall, and be authoritative. Project strength. As far as boxing goes I think it is good for learning how to strike and hit fast/hard. If you stay on your feet then it's great. The con is if it goes to the ground. Getting the kind of power into a hit when you are striking from the bottom of rolling around is hard. That's where something like BJJ comes in. It gets shit on a lot because i…	/r/askTRP	30/09/18 07:41 PM
6	How to deal with aggressive men? You did the right thing. It's something I've done before. I'm 44 and things are different now than they use to be. You rarely had to worry about someone having a weapon but nowadays you just don't know. Generally all it takes is holding frame and appearing tough but never count on it. Be prepared to fight and fight like your life depends on it because it just might. I've noticed if people are around once one person steps in it breaks the ice and others will back you. Don't count on that either t…	/r/askTRP	30/09/18 06:32 PM
1	Field Report: Beginner Moves - this works! Thanks. I don't have either of those. Don't think I need the first but the second couldn't hurt to have and read.	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/09/18 06:51 PM
12	Field Report: Beginner Moves - this works! This FR isn't about anything that "works" because there is nothing here but fail. Didn't start off bad because you recognized what were issues to you and you acted accordingly. She said come here, you stated you were busy, she acted predictably. Here's where you fuck up. You "knew I needed to text her". Why? Why did you KNOW YOU NEEDED to send her a text? Simply put it was out of fear of your wife and/or her reaction. You were so afraid of what 'might' happen when you both got home. What 'might'…	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/09/18 06:48 PM
3	Field Report: Beginner Moves - this works! Drawing blanks on these: WISNIFG, MMSLP. Not sure if I'm missing books or not finding in my library.	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/09/18 05:56 PM
2	Shit test trivial Most of these 'answers' here aren't going to do much of anything for your cause. At best they may keep the conversation going but if she has any skill what so ever then all they will do is get you an eye roll and a dismissal. The best here fail shit tests. They fail them less than the worst here because they've practiced. They've gone out, approached and either succeed or they failed and learned from it. And that's the only way to learn to pass shit tests. One thing to think about when giving yo…	/r/askTRP	24/08/18 01:27 AM
0	How to handle a friend of a friend you don't get along with. I hate damn near everyone I have to interact with but some times you have to. And in the case of your friend group, nope, don't have to like him. You also don't need to be nice or kiss his ass or be a complete douche. What you should do is just be civil. Interact as you need to but do it civilly. This also doesn't mean you have to put up with his shit. Treat any shit he gives you as you would any other shit test. Stand your ground as you need to and don't back down.	/r/askTRP	19/08/18 10:15 PM
2	Soon to be plate who has fucked a freak. How do I top this? Don't ever try to top or replicate. All you will end up doing is making for a shitty experience for the both of you and likely be the last time you'll fuck her. Do what you want and like. She is already trying to fuck you and you know she's into kinky shit so she is probably with you for the fun and experience and wants to be used by you in the way you want to use her. The second you make it about them then you're done. Doesn't mean you don't get them off and make it good for her but don't ever …	/r/askTRP	19/08/18 07:51 PM
1	Creating A Sense of Urgency? You can't really ever duplicate it at home unless you create different personas and only frequent certain places in that persona. And that will only work for a little while. Being a traveler you are only there for so long so their window of opportunity is slim. Also they are pressed to learn about you and are forced to make a decision about what they can and can't live with. There is no tomorrow or next weekend. Also it's freeing to them. They can blame it on the alcohol, they can cheat and the …	/r/askTRP	19/08/18 07:43 PM
5	Do tattoos increase smv for men? Someone below mentioned David Beckham so I'm going to go with him as an example. David Beckham now? Probably not because he is very, very established at this point as is his 'look'. But on him 20 years ago when he was gaining relevance? Absolutely they enhanced his smv. He was seen as a rebel and he was perceived to be a dick with an IDGAF mentality. None of what people assumed about him came from what they've heard or read but because of his look. 20 years ago no one outside of heavy metal band…	/r/askTRP	19/08/18 07:33 PM
3	Did my dancing cost me a shot with this girl? Oh boy. You really need to read the side bar. You say "speculatory worry" but you are making assumptions yourself. Look at your last two sentences. They both start with the word "If" and the word "if" is simply an assumption or a speculation about what ever follows it. And you can't ever make an assumption about another person when you livelihood is on the line. More often than not the woman isn't mature enough to handle a relationship gone bad in the work place. She could claim sexual harassmen…	/r/askTRP	19/08/18 07:04 PM
2	Did my dancing cost me a shot with this girl? Buying the drink was a part of it. Not escalating IoI's was a part of it. Asking about the guy she brought showed insecurity and lack of abundance mentality. The final nail was asking and then being pushy about the cold shoulder. Made him look desperate regardless of what he was trying to do. The dancing or attempt of dancing had zero to do with this failure.	/r/askTRP	19/08/18 06:53 PM
2	Did my dancing cost me a shot with this girl? Buying her a drink was definitely part of it. Her bringing another guy and you asking about the dude showed insecurity and lack of abundance mentality as well. My guess is you never acted on the IoI's you said you were getting or didn't act fast enough. And then when she showed you the cold shoulder, because she felt you weren't interested, you chased her and pushed about the whole cold shoulder thing. You made yourself look desperate in her eyes by being interested once she wasn't. Best play wo…	/r/askTRP	19/08/18 06:49 PM
7	Did my dancing cost me a shot with this girl? Like I said, I wasn’t TRYING to date this girl, just take things slow, because I agree dating a coworker CAN be risky And this is a mistake. You don't took to long once you noticed she was giving IoI's. You don't close right away because that shows desperation and immaturity but you should escalate. Imo you probably took things to slow and didn't escalate when you should have. Wtf is this “Alpha” bullshit people hold in such high regard? If you don't know then you really need the side bar. You k…	/r/askTRP	19/08/18 06:41 PM
2	Ditched by all childhood friends This is pretty simple. You've improved and done better. Changed your life and are doing well. Your friends haven't. So having you around is a constant reminder that they suck because they've done nothing with their lives. No one wants to be reminded that they suck. With you not around it's easy to live in their shitastical bubble that they've created for themselves and feel comfortable, safe, with knowledge that they did the best they could. You come around and they see ho good you are doing and…	/r/askTRP	12/08/18 05:45 PM
3	What is “never explain yourself”? You don't owe anyone an explanation of things you do. When someone wants an explanation what they are saying is they want YOU to justify YOUR actions to THEM. It's a power move. The second you start explaining/justifying your actions then that person has power over you. As a man you don't give other people power over you. You do what you do and when you do it for you and only you (if you are married then your actions should be for the benefit of you and your spouse and she shouldn't need or feel…	/r/askTRP	11/08/18 04:44 PM
1	She says im confusing. Good or bad? "I don't know what to make of you," "I don't understand you and I find you to be very interesting." Let me make this clear -- all three of those statements can be very bad, or very good. "I don't know what to make of you" means I want to make it with you. "I don't understand you" is 30% bad and 70% good. When bad, it is a prelude to a break-up. What she means is 'you aren't trying to understand me', thus the end of the relationship. On the beneficial side it means "I've totally bought into your …	/r/askTRP	11/08/18 05:54 AM
1	How do you have abundance mentality about girls when you have no girls? Abundance mentality doesn't have to be about having a harem or even having a girl you can go bang at will. It has more to do with making yourself so valuable, interesting, desirable, whatever that you can live your life happily whether you have a girl or not. You let the world know that you don't need anyone else because you already have everything you need.	/r/askTRP	11/08/18 05:09 AM
54	I walked away. She'd be a hard next for me. She took a beer that was yours and gave it to another guy. She didn't even ask if she could. Now I know it was just a beer but what it was doesn't matter. What she did is what matters and that was disrespect you in front of her friends and in front of another guy. She showed the world that you were second rate in her eyes. The other dude even felt awkward as fuck because he couldn't meet your eyes and assumed a defensive posture by crossing his arms. When she sat dow…	/r/askTRP	11/08/18 04:44 AM