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| 1 | If men really want a relationship as bad as they say they do, then they should lower their standards.It's on them. if they want high quality then they better be high quality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | If men really want a relationship as bad as they say they do, then they should lower their standards.Gotta go outside. Online dating sucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 05:48 AM |
| 2 | If men really want a relationship as bad as they say they do, then they should lower their standards.Try the crazy one. I heard they're fun....somewhat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 03:40 AM |
| 2 | If men really want a relationship as bad as they say they do, then they should lower their standards.True some people are delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 03:16 AM |
| 2 | If men really want a relationship as bad as they say they do, then they should lower their standards.I also said you can increase your value | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | If you haven't been with an attractive woman by your mid twenties, it probably will never happen and it's most likely your fault.That's not what I said. Nice try to twist words though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 02:54 PM |
| 0 | If you haven't been with an attractive woman by your mid twenties, it probably will never happen and it's most likely your fault.Sorry. I meant fat and poor there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 03:06 PM |
| 2 | If you haven't been with an attractive woman by your mid twenties, it probably will never happen and it's most likely your fault.You can if you're rich but most men won't ever be rich in their life time so it's not worth stating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 01:59 PM |
| -2 | If you haven't been with an attractive woman by your mid twenties, it probably will never happen and it's most likely your fault.Being a terrorist is always a dumbass decision. But it's especially dumb when you become murderer just because you couldn't get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 01:44 PM |
| -3 | If you haven't been with an attractive woman by your mid twenties, it probably will never happen and it's most likely your fault.I feel like that's a dumbass reason to become a terrorist. It's most likely due to a bunch of mental factors that kept them from attracting women in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.I don't. Just because I have an opinion doesn't mean I have a horrific past lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.The point of this post is everyone needs to stop lying to each other about how much personality matters. If you are fat and ugly. Your chances of fucking a hot girl is low. I've seen fat girls fuck dudes who lift and look decent. Probably not that much, but it happens. Men however......ah that shit ain't happening unless he's daddy Warbucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.I wasn't. I just gave my opinion. Didn't expect this thread to play up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.Ah ya. That was mainly for guys who do and I don't hang around any women anymore. I've focused more on my career but I have friends who still have issues all the time with dating and I'm glad I don't have to go through any of that bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.I don't know what redpill is except for what I hear people talk about on this subreddit so idk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.Nobody likes redpill people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.Yes I have seen relationships where the woman is less attractive. I had a female friend who was 300lbs and still getting gymrat boyfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.I don't do online dating. I find it weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.Oh yah this is true so it's even worse lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.Financial stability is more important as you get older. When your both in college she won't care that you're in a 1 bedroom apartment. But at age 28. Nah she dipping. Especially if she's even semi attractive she can do better and she knows it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.What research | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.We get these ideas mostly from looking around and seeing how people interact with each other. I've been on both ends. Ive had girls make fun of me and immediately do a 180 once they found out I was an athlete in college. Same for my friend who became rich. Same girls that trashed him are now in his DMs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.Idk what LMS is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 08:54 PM |
| 4 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.Idk bruh. I can imagine the best tongue in the world won't save a dude with the 2 incher | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 06:10 PM |
| 4 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.I've said this many times. Personality is important but only once she finds you attractive. If you're ugly then it's game over for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 05:01 PM |
| 56 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.Yup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 04:57 PM |
| 8 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.Yes there are average looking guys. They're just stuck in the middle. Really a coin toss. But that's where the money comes in to help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 04:37 PM |
| 11 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.I feel like those post have to be faked and Photoshop | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 04:36 PM |
| 5 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.I never said rich. I just said not poor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 04:29 PM |
| 8 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.I agree but my point is that keeps you in the door. Which makes it the last thing. If you're ugly and poor you aren't getting in the door in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 04:26 PM |
| 8 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.That comes last. You can't know how smart someone is before you talk to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 04:22 PM |
| 11 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.Hotter. But the dude already has to be attractive for this to work. If he's that ugly dude who knows how to have a good time or fat, I doubt it'll make a huge difference for him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.Well it depends on what you consider highest quality of men. I mean most women don't even have access to millionaires so I'm guessing that you at least need to earn a middle class salary by yourself to really be considered. Most attractive women (not super hot, but just your average attractive girl) beyond college age isn't going to want a dude living in a broke down one room apartment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill Extremism Will Get You No WhereRedpill is filled with a bunch of weird dudes trying to tell incels how to get laid in the worst way possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 02:12 AM |
| 175 | Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In DatingBeing attractive is not just a privilege in dating, its one in life in general. People tend to treat attractive people better than a fat man who looks like a League of Legends player. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.Duh no shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do people care about male virginity?Go touch grass and you'll be in the 20%. Watching red pill youtube gurus won't help you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 07:04 PM |
| 5 | Why do people care about male virginity?I just don't understand why sexlessness would make them kill themselves. But i guess something to do with loneliness but i would figure your brain could adjust to it. But i dont know if they're at the point of suicide if getting a gf would help them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do people care about male virginity?Lmao why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Why do people care about male virginity?Im a guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 10:49 PM |
| 10 | Why do people care about male virginity?Meh I'm 25 never kissed, date or have had sex. Its just one of those things to me are stressful and provide no real benefit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Fat/overweight women have ruined the American dating marketplace for menThen what is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 04:43 AM |
| 10 | Fat/overweight women have ruined the American dating marketplace for menLiterally un true. I knew a fat girl in college and even after she graduated she still end up hooking up with buff dudes all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 04:14 AM |
| 10 | Fat/overweight women have ruined the American dating marketplace for menLmao women could say the same about fatass men walking around. Atleast I know I’m fat so I know to avoid flirting with women. I’m not going to waste my time and theirs. At least have the decency to stay out of the way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)Well if you don’t want an average girl then I don’t know what to tell you. Most of my friends have already accepted and either married or engaged to women who aren’t that attractive but probably have decent personalities. Now I’m not doing that, but I also realized that’s why I’ll always be single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 05:43 PM |
| 13 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)Sex for the most part is overrated. But for most dudes if you’re not smashing hot girls in your 20s it’s never going to happen unless you get rich or something and she’ll only be around for status and money. So most dudes better accept the fact they’re never smashing any hot girls. At best they’ll land an average one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.Well fixing wealth inequality is a net benefit for men dating. They have more money which means they can dress better and get a nicer haircut. Let’s add to that and get some universal healthcare so men are now healthier and let’s add some workers rights programs so now they aren’t working 60-80 hour work weeks and they have time to talk to women now. Wouldn’t that help? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.So you think we should not fix income inequality? And what’s women’s true nature? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 07:44 AM |
| 3 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.Uh no. Women are just like guys lol. How many guys you know are going to date down to a fat sloppy girl when they can go grab a Mila Kunis or Beyoncé | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.If they can’t get women “in their league” then maybe she’s not actually in his league or maybe she is and she can still date up. Still not really her fault. I mean you wouldn’t be happy anyways if she’s just “settling” for you when she knows and actually has proven to herself to that she can do better in either looks, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.Because racist are obviously not going to want to date whatever race that hate. While that is the case having a preference towards something doesn’t automatically makes something racist. But there can be and is overlap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 07:08 AM |
| 3 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.It’s your standards..I say so whatever you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 06:17 AM |
| 5 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.Dating is not the same as socioeconomic factors and broken systems that keep people in place. If anything fixing that system would fix or atleast help all these dudes complaining get laid by a woman eventually. But the US population have decided to not do that so here we are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.Well sure. Her standards are whack. But that’s her problem. Unless she can make it work she’ll be sitting there lonely drinking Dunkin Donuts shit coffee while her cats run around the apartment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 05:54 AM |
| 3 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.Dude you are an incel. You aren’t beating anyone. You definitely aren’t beating up pussy. Because if you were, then you wouldn’t be crying about how those mean ol women don’t like you. I may be broke asf, but I atleast I don’t cry because women won’t show boobs to me Oh and what a cop out “Ya bro I totally have real arguments but ya you know I’m so smart that my god tier arguments would go over your head, ya totally bro” Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.Hahahahaha. It all comes back to being woke eh? Zero real arguments. Stay watching sigma male wanna be tough guy bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.Stature isn’t skin color. It’s normally referred to either your height or how you’re built. While you can’t change your height for the most part you can change your built. If you don’t wanna be skinny add some muscle. If fat lose weight. Etc you can do it. You’re trying so hard to cope. I have you have enough copium And if a girl doesn’t wanna date you because you’re broke, who cares. She’s probably bitch anyways that drains money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.Lol you’re really low IQ to think you’re being discriminated because women don’t find you attractive because of some feature they don’t find as attractive in dating/sex as others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.In a way yes people can change their stature and to a small degree socio economic status’s those things can change and aren’t apart of your person. And not being attracted to and discrimination against something is completely different lmao. Imagine thinking women must be attracted to you or else it’s discriminatory. You probably think Taco Bell severs real Mexican food. Jajajaa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 05:21 AM |
| 5 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.Except I talked about girls who aren’t as attractive and can date up as well with fat girls and all. So no try again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.The Redpill is trash | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 04:53 AM |
| 3 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.If you don’t find black men attractive in general = not racist. If you don’t find black men attractive because you think theyre all gangbanging thugs = racist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 04:12 AM |
| 0 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.Using soy unironically lol. You’re an actual incel if you think someone not being attracted to you is a form of discrimination | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 03:44 AM |
| 9 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.Yup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 03:10 AM |
| 0 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.No it’s not. You are stretching so much you might as well join The Incredibles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 03:10 AM |
| 5 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.But should we be surprised. We value people in society based off looks and wealth. If you don’t have either, well you’re kind of fucked But the good news is you can always improve with money. Money can make you dress better, better haircut which in turn may get you more women if you desire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 03:09 AM |
| 7 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.Welp sucks for them I guess. They get the uglies or go watch porn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.You have to work for it. Or just get a small loan of a million dollars | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 02:50 AM |
| 8 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.Lol not being attracted to black people isn’t racist. Treating them differently is. So my point still remains. Interacting and dating is different. You thought you were clever. HA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 02:50 AM |
| 4 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.If you give on life because you can’t get laid you’re an idiot or need therapy. People who do this are the type of people that think Burger King taste good unironically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 02:48 AM |
| 4 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.Just work on yourself then. Complaining online about how women want attractive men is like complaining about Lebron wanting to win another ring | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.I don’t care about getting pussy but so many dudes on here complain about the 80/20 rule these days though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Non redpill individuals what advice would you give to an average dude having trouble with womenBe decently attractive. Don’t be a creep. Don’t be a fat. Be able to hold a conversation. Bonus for being funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 07:09 PM |
| 8 | Will obesity collapse the dating market? - in the year 2030, 60% of American women will be obese.I don’t care. My genes are absolute shit and I never want kids anyways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 10:18 PM |
| 9 | Will obesity collapse the dating market? - in the year 2030, 60% of American women will be obese.Maybe so, I’m probably in the minority but I would never lower my standards and date a girl who’s obese. That shit ain’t ever happening. I’d rather fap to porn. And I’m ugly myself I know damn well what my options are and Im not lowering my standards. I rather do without | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Will obesity collapse the dating market? - in the year 2030, 60% of American women will be obese.Nah I’d rather watch porn than smash an ugly beach whale | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 09:49 PM |
| 6 | Will obesity collapse the dating market? - in the year 2030, 60% of American women will be obese.Not just women but also men. Tons of overweight people in this country who find partners. It’s a major health risk for sure but people will still end up with each other. As one man said before “fat girls need love too, just not from me!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 09:32 PM |
| 59 | The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners.If men aren’t having sex it’s not the end of the world. I’m a guy myself. There’s other things in life besides sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 07:59 PM |
| -2 | Male Sexlessness Problem: Is It Still Personality That's The Problem?Probably. Most women can smell this loathing bullshit a mile away. And I’m someone who’s a in their 20s who’s a kissless virgin. Who gives a fuck if guys aren’t getting laid. It’s not a that big of a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 09:54 PM |
| 9 | Is sex even that great a thing or are we “conditioned” to think it is?In my opinion sex is not worth the consequences. Having sex is a high risk/low rewards activity that can potentially fuck your life up forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Obsession with sexual historyEh maybe. I think having sex a few times mean you’re okay with your gf fucking every dude in dorm a few months before you met her and had to do all the bullshit just to get with her while she was just knocking on other dudes door ready to bang | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 03:31 PM |
| 7 | Obsession with sexual historyI agree being fat doesn’t help. But my point here is that it only really affects you in you’re a man lol. Being a women and trying to get sex is basically easy mode. But it is what it is because dudes out here are desperate with low standards and it’ll never change | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 03:14 PM |
| 20 | Obsession with sexual historyMost women are dishonest about a lot of things lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 03:12 PM |
| 9 | Obsession with sexual historyMost people don’t though and it’s incredibly easy for an overweight, borderline whale to sleep with multiple attractive men. A fat dude like that isn’t getting anything remotely attractive. There are extreme outliers I’m sure but I would bet against him every time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 03:09 PM |
| – | CMV: Most ugly couples don’t find each other attractive. They’re together because they settled for one another.He didn’t say everyone who’s not a 9 or 10 should die lol. While some ugly people can get laid, he does have a point. I will never understand why guys fuck these huge 350lb whales who are so fat that you can see their rolls through their shirts. It’s literally disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW and Red Pill should only be followed by men who have totally failed at the dating market.Some do. Some don’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 09:07 PM |
| -5 | MGTOW and Red Pill should only be followed by men who have totally failed at the dating market.MGTOW and Red Pill just sounds more and more like incel bullshit. Ya some dudes don’t have the social skills, physically looks, and money to ever bang a half decent looking woman. Oh well, life isn’t fair. Having sex isn’t a need and you’ll live without it. Go watch porn or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 05:08 PM |
| 6 | What to do about low status/unattractive men? Has our society done enough to supplement them with alternatives?Their alternative is porn, video games, and beer. When they aren’t doing that they can attempt to try to climb the ladder and hope they don’t fall down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 11:18 PM |
| 6 | Most men don’t really become marriageable until after 25.Most women aren’t marriageable either. Their careers are also not fully developed and having kids before you have a full blown career and atleast in a upper middle class bracket is dumb and irresponsible. Yeah they have their looks but most of them atleast in my experience are a pain in the ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Some men, no matter what they do, will never find love and they will just have to accept that it is what it isI agree. Not everyone is going to be able to live a life full of sex. Some just need to come to grips that they are undesirable to women and move on. Go watch pornhub or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?Because I wanted to see why people talk about it often on this sub. And I don’t think it’s a big problem. If a group of women don’t wanna date men, oh well move on to the ones that do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?Lol I’m an unattractive dude. Life punishes unattractive people in general. Yeah it sucks but unless there’s some political policy you can suggest to stop people from viewing attractive people more favorably, then there’s no point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?This is basically a very fancy way of saying “stay in the kitchen” lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 07:32 PM |
| 0 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?If she leaves for the first millionaire then she wasn’t happy with you. It would be like a guy leaving/cheating his wife time he sees another woman with a nicer ass that is also willing to bang him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?What do you want men to do about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?I’m exaggerating on the last point. Obviously everyone is not banging Kate Upton lol. The point is that some guys will never ever attract a woman that’s even remotely attractive. Some guys will only have beach whales attracted to them. And if they don’t like that. They can either not date (which is what I would) do or settle for and have to look at someone they’re not physically attracted to for the rest of their lives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 08:13 PM |
| 0 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?I do, but I don’t understand why you would want to date a girl who’s just trying to have casual sex with a bunch of dudes she think is hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?Don’t date women with nothing to offer. And yes, if you turn crazy just because you didn’t get laid, you need a therapist, not sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 01:59 PM |
| 0 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?Not sure why you would want to be with a girl with that mindset anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?The dating market is just rapidly changing due to the internet and social apps. Things will always change. Not much you can do about bedsides adapt. And there’s nothing hypocritical about saying that mot everyone in life is going to bang models. Some people will only see that on porn sites. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?It’s always been like that. Now just more so with social media and dating apps. The only way to avoid it is to not date at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 12:44 AM |
| -1 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?Well I know I’m a loser lol but I also understand why women ghost me and treat me like I’m invisible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 12:38 AM |
| -2 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?So basically insecurity. Which I understand at some point but if that’s the case than why bother dating in the first place? Seems like a lot of bullshit to worry about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?Well that could be said for the guy too if they choose a hot girl just so he could get the pleasure of banging a very hot girl every night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?Nope and it sounds pretty dumb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 12:15 AM |
| 5 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?So basically insecurities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?Women are objectifying men to take advantage of them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 12:07 AM |
| 7 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?Oh well that’s life. Women will have sex with guys probably hotter than you. If it’s that worrying don’t date. That’s what I do. Dating isn’t worth my time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 12:00 AM |
| 4 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?I genuinely don’t know of that thing “you can’t speak about” so I’m lost | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?It does. Money helps you take care of your looks better. Allows you to have to have better clothes, better car, smell better, pay for gym memberships, better and healthier foods so you are in better shape. This means you’ll be able to attract a woman more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 11:21 PM |
| 1 | How do you see the "friend zone"?The friend zone just means she thinks you’re ugly. She doesn’t want to bang a dude she thinks is ugly that is all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Exactly how much should you bend over backwards sacrificing your hobbies and likes just to appeal to women?Absolutely none. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 11:15 PM |
| 0 | Female Hypergamy is the most taboo phenomenon in American society, despite being empirically provenWhy does this matter so much anyways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 03:56 PM |
| 2 | How much work does it take for the average man to get laid?Well that’s the sad truth. No point in worrying about it. You aren’t just going to get some beautiful woman who with a great career for no reason. There’s a reason celebrities tend to date celebrities or people with money. Nobody wants to devalue themselves. If you’re a guy flipping burgers at the local Burger King, chances are you aren’t getting girls that look like Kate Upton in her prime. You’re more likely to date the girl that wears tight clothes that shows a few fat rolls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 08:02 PM |
| 6 | How much work does it take for the average man to get laid?Who cares? If it happens it happens. If it doesn’t oh well. Use that money to go back a hooker or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Men like younger women but do many actually attract one?Just like everything else. It depends on how they look and how much money they have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.Lmao no its not. You being rejected isn't abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 08:38 PM |
| 2 | What means SMV to you personallyI'm ugly asf. 3/10 on a good day. But i am used to it so I just move on. I know my place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.Uhhh. Because abusing people is not the same as them just not wanting to bang you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.So I'm actually seeing this comment for the first time for whatever reason and yeah if a woman sets her standards so high that she can't find anyone then it is her fault. Women like that should not be surprised when they end up in a situation where they only person that wants to touch them is their pet cat. But as I have said many times there is not much you can do about these women. You can't really control their standards. Even if they majority of them are like this there is nothing you can re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.What I was trying to say is unlike women's work place, you can at least make regulation for it. But im not sure if you can do anything to make a man more attractive to women. You can write legislation for it or anything. I mean im in that group that knows I'm not getting a woman any time soon. But there's really nothing I can do or advocate for to make it different. There's no policy i can be in favor for to make an 8/10 girl want to date and/or sleep with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 02:42 AM |
| 5 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.I have testosterone lol. And i played college football so I lifted a lot of weights. And i ate my female friend out before during a dorm game in college. Just never kissed a girl as weird as that sounds. But yeah. I used to care but then I figured that if i wanted a girl then i would need to change everything about myself and since I'm not willing to do that , then I should accept that I will never get a girl i find attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 10:59 PM |
| 4 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.I know they do and it applies to them. But for me personally I acknowledge that for me to get any, it would require so much effort and work that there's really no point. Rather just watch porn and go about my day. If it happens it happens. If it doesn't then it really doesn't matter. I never have been the type to actively pursue women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.So if your statement about how the US has the most single people ever right now is true, another question would be is it actually a problem? Because I don't think the US is suffering from a population issue. And I think women's standards have risen over the years due to society and how we value thinks over time. Plus women are independent now so they do not need a man to provide for them. This leads for this to probably seek those who they are sexually attracted to more often. So it's a mess bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.Why do you think I need more testosterone lol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.I never said it was equally as hard. I said both have challenges. I think men have it harder in terms of what they need to overcome to pull an 8/10. But that's just how it is. What policy are you suggesting that could change basic attraction? I mean there's things you can do as far as mental health and wealth inequality but this will just end up shifting women's desires again back to the point that we are at now where they are still attracted to the new 8/10's of that society. Do you have any id… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.Is dating women and sex a human need though? I know there are some studies beyond the psychology of it but you would not die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.Ooof. Unlooky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 08:29 PM |
| 4 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.Never said it did. But as I said before, there's a lot of guys who ain't getting any woman any time soon so they better settle for the pr0n. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 06:27 PM |
| 5 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.Well I think the resentment is misguided. And in terms of women being oppressed there's still a few ways to go when we are talking about basic autonomy rights being largely debated. At least in my country. And far as everything else I think that these issues should be talked about when we talk about the basic lack of support for men because it is missing. This is not fault of the women however,because they aren't the ones collaborating together to bring down men. A lot of feminist (not the super… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.Yeah that's true in that scenario. I was thinking more of the preppy party girl who actively chases after the D. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 06:06 PM |
| 11 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.Yes. There's multiple studies so I'm not sure which one you're referring to but it is the women's fault? Because if they set standards high and are successful then why would they set it lower. It would be like rejecting a job that pays 6 figures to take another one that's only slightly different for 40k a year. I think another aspect is what can men really do? And has it always been like this? Maybe we are seeing for the first time that most women don't really find that many men attractive. Beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.I think it might have been just a little bit easier due not lack of options but the even for the 5 woman, the 5 man would he her literal last option. Even then she would've still go back to her home to use a toy instead or and wait for a better dude to get in a relationship instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.Lmao. Well yeah..when you phrase it that way I am complaining about other people complaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 05:49 PM |
| 7 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.I think in the case of single mothers its very easy to just not talk to her. Its not her fault if men talk to her still. A men working for low quality women is the dudes fault. Maybe they have low standards and know that's all they will ever be able to get? The harsh truth is that some people will never be attractive to the opposite sex. Just like the large majority of us will never be rich and work a job we hate until we die. It's sad. It sucks. But its the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 05:46 PM |
| 37 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.Both are subjected to harsh standards. But they work in different ways. The women who becoming millionaires off their sexy photos (Belle Delphine, etc) are a super super minority. Most girls aren't doing this to the extent that its a real issue. Its funny to meme about how its super easy to just take nudes and make millions but it doesn't work that way. Most situations it just leads to them killing off any good career prospects potentially or being fired from their current job. While women are e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.True porn varies a lot from actual sex. But its better than nothing. Plus there's always the amateur section which is imo better most of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?Its not so much as career oriented but i feel like if i do not then i will just be a dissapointment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 05:14 AM |
| 2 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?I would say so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?I have. But i feel like I'm not financially stable enough to have a gf right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 01:02 AM |
| 0 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?Yeah i thought about it. And yeah i want to avoid ever having kids. Ive had a few girls who wanted sex which I declined each time. Mainly because i try to avoid relationships too because I just don't like the idea of being committed. Yeah its a mess of a situation overall. I got used to being single and it doesn't bother me because I have grown use to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?Mainly whenever i have my career going well and I have enough money to get a vasectomy. And enough money to not be considered poor or lower middle class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?I mean is it stupid to stay on the safe side and not do something that could ruin your life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?Well smart people can still do dumb things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?Its very appealing. But i just think the emotionally scared of the threat of her getting pregnant potentially is not worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 11:39 PM |
| 5 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?I just feel like some people shouldn't have sex. Eating is a human need. You will literally die if you do not eat. You can survive without sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?I can enjoy it after I'm successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 11:26 PM |
| 0 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?You could invest time trying to escape corporate slavery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?I have a very high sex drive, but I try hard to suppress it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 11:14 PM |
| 9 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?Not sure but I'm a guy so I don't like the idea of hoping a girl does the right thing, essentially having control of my entire life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 11:13 PM |
| 3 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?That's kind of my point. Why would you take a risk like that with very low payout? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?It can be. Especially if you're young, have no career, or poor. Its not the smartest thing to do is it puts you at great risk to ruin your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 11:02 PM |
| 12 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?Yes its worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?Well its too late for me anyways. I'm 24. By my age most girls have been ran through. Not saying its wrong. But its just the reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?I don't think so. Career is way more important than sex. Only way sex will help you in life is if you're a pornstar. Sex has probably ruined way more lives than it has helped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 10:33 PM |
| -1 | Are people who subscribe to social dominance theories more likely to be low status? And if so is this a result of them being low status and therefore finding them, or finding them and becoming lower status?Almost anyone who uses the term alpha male unironically is a meat head idiot and should not be taken seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Why do ugly men flirt with attractive women?Time and energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do ugly men flirt with attractive women?Most people lie to themselves. I should've explained this better. I never asked her out but messaged me about the threesome because she said felt bad. And the other girl randomly messaged me pics. I am just as confused about that now as I was back then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Why do ugly men flirt with attractive women?I never said men are entitled to women lol. They aren't. And people created business because it's success can gain huge benefits. In my opinion getting laid or a gf is a very small benefit with very damaging side effects if shit goes wrong. At least business is high risk high reward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 10:48 PM |
| 2 | If men stopped fucking fat/chubby chicks would they lose weight?Nope. They would just keep being fat. Most of them start to except that being fat means they'll never get laid and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Does the phenomenon that shows: ‘Too many past sex partners makes you worse at future monogamy’ apply to Men & Women equally? If so,how could Men who have slept around in the past now only look for Virgins for marriage knowing they’d be a bad match and probably cheat on her or divorce?Looking to marry virgins is dumb in the first place because by age 21 99.99% of women are not virgins. Yes. I'm exaggerating but it's extremely hard to find a female whos even remotely attractive who is still a virgin. And even if they say they are chances are they are lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/20 06:41 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Encouraging women to not pursue education/careers is TERRIBLE advice if they want to lock down a high value manThis is dumb. Women shouldn't have to settle for less personally so they can maybe kind of sorta have a chance with a dude with a good career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/20 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Why don't high value men marry virginal women?Lol. Its because if a girl is slightly atrractive, she's not going to be a virgin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/20 07:34 PM |
| 3 | What are these “high standards” that women have?The issue imo is that even the meh girls are behaving like they're models because they are juiced up all day every day by simps and thirsty idiots on social media so they think they're something theyre not. Thus making them feel like they can demand so this stupid stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Do men have lower expectations of women's personalities now than in the past?Much lower. Most women today are assholes. It is hard to find a woman who's ego hasn't been over inflated by likes on social media. If they don't use social media they will still probably use apps like tinder where even a 350lb whale can feel like they're the next Beyonce because hordes of dudes will surround them still. Not as much as the hot girl but check their inbox and i bet its atleast near half full if not more. This have women thinking theyre something theyre not and that they can demand… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 05:46 AM |
| 5 | What are these “high standards” that women have?Lol this is the point i made earlier. Women always expect men to grow or some bullshit. You will almost never see a woman take any responsibility and say that they need to grow as a person. Its always they men that need to tend to their needs. No wonder why alot of women get pumped and dumped by the attractive dudes girls chase. Most of them have sense enough to not wanna deal with that over inflated ego brought about by twitter and Instagram likes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/20 06:25 PM |
| 11 | What are these “high standards” that women have?Meh. Guys can't control their height. As far as romance most women expect you to perfectly balance it in the way they want you to without ever telling you. They essentially expect you to mind read. Being clean is the obvious one. Most people expect that beyond dating. Face deformations is something a person cannot control but i see. Masculine is just code for "take lead and do absolute everything except when I don't want you to but never tell you, but if you take the lead too much then you're co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/20 06:15 PM |
| 6 | What are these “high standards” that women have?Its basically the fact that women and even some men will always blame men for men being single. You will almost never hear a girl telling other girls they need to improve but tell men they need to improve. Women basically never have to do anything other than exist. Men are expected to carry conversations etc. Men need to be charismatic, attractive which includes being tall most of the time. Not have any issues such as speech issues or anything else. Also you have to be a complete mind reader unl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/20 05:41 PM |
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