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Not in most cases. Outside of California and large cities, home ownership is a lot more affordable. You don't have to make crazy money and mortgages can often cost less than rent would
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:39 PM
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I know how it is, I have a house and also do yardwork. My partner and I have a pretty equal split in chores. We both do yardwork (alternating weeks) and we take care of our own dishes/laundry/meals. Cleaning chores are pretty quick and the place stays tidy but not showroom ready. There are definitely neurotic women who want incredibly clean houses, but on the flip side there are gross men who can't bother to clean the bathroom after they've dripped urine everywhere. The key is to find someone wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:47 PM
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How often do those chores need to be done? Women tend to do the daily, time sensitive tasks while men tend to do the intermittent ones such as yardwork. With how many people rent their house or apartments these days, there's not as much yardwork or home repair to fall on men. But the daily tasks are always there
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:38 PM
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I don't think there's many, if any SAHMs on this sub. The women complaining are more likely ones who have jobs while also doing the majority of the housework
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:22 PM
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What exactly do you do for a living to make that assumption while also spending so much time posting cringe shit here?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:40 PM
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I don't see anyone triggered. Everyone is saying if it's not for you, don't do it. Doesn't seem like the response of someone whose upset
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:58 AM
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Where's that post? Because PPD women wouldn't give a shit if you want to marry or no, it's a personal choice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:14 AM
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why, for example, are there so many videos online of women in the gym trying to catch “creeps” looking at them? It gets attention, that's why. You have to be at least unashamed of yourself when recording in the gym, and 'carching creeps' (whether real or imagined) gets easy views as outrage bait. I don't think there's a lot of women making those videos. Think about it--there are thousands of women who go to the gym every day without posting videos online. You don't know they're at the gym bc the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:04 AM
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Confucianism has been a guiding principle in China for more than two millennia, and considers women either the property of their fathers or husbands. There were also practices such as foot binding, widow suicide, and widow chastity. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women_in_ancient_and_imperial_China Communism (then capitalism) gave women more equal rights, but only because both systems want to put every able bodied person to work
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:55 AM
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And yet common women still had less rights than common men. Privileged women were few and far between compared to privileged men. And yes, that's throughout history
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:42 AM
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Is that why women have had equal standing with men throughout history? Oh wait, they haven't
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:31 PM
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Even if you're related to me I don't want to have anything to do with you if you're a doctor. At least not until your health starts failing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:43 PM
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Glad she's your ex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:35 PM
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If it was all about confidence and not about baldness itself (women's choice of men), we definitely would expect the first woman-made film aimed at female audience to earn a billion, which had HUGE emphasis on diversity and representation, to maybe consider not excluding 40% of male population I'm sorry, but this is just stupid. Hollywood is not under any obligation to cast a bald man in a movie just because 40% of the male population is bald/balding. It's also weird to be hung up specifically o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:47 PM
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how many bald actors proudly and without wigs starred in the recent Barbie movie? Remember, the one that women paid more than a billion dollars to see in cinemas? I'm not understanding the connection here. Should women not have seen it since there aren't (to my memory) any bald actors in the movie?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:34 AM
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Got it, that makes more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:40 AM
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There probably won't also be a prevalence of female homosexuality, comprised of frustrated women. Why would this happen? I don't think an apocalypse will wipe out the homosexuals
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:01 AM
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That's the kind of engagement OP was probably looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:21 PM
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True, but what a world that would be!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:20 PM
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I don't think the OP is imagining genocide, just an alternate universe where the gender ratios are different. Calm your tits
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:02 PM
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Long Shot (2019) is my favorite romcom and has a very wholesome romance. Charlize Theron as the Secretary of State with her eye on POTUS, and Seth Rogan as a journalist/childhood friend of Theron. It shouldn't work but it's a great watch
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:17 AM
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Riley's family is nowhere near as wealthy as Musk. Her income bracket is much closer to anyone in this forum than it is to billionaires
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:44 PM
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So you don't believe either data about women or personal anecdotes saying they are happy? Are you basically just saying it doesn't exist even when women themselves are telling you they don't mind being childless and single?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:37 PM
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If relationships with men suck so much, why are most single mothers in such a hurry to find a stepdad? What does that have to do with childless women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:34 PM
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try to figure out how the world works and like clean out the grinder in a waste water lift station or something. Do you think men just know how to do that coming out of the womb? If people working in important infrastructure leave, everyone is screwed not just women. Men might be handier in some areas but that doesn't mean they don't also rely on the same people women rely on to keep the lights burning
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:00 PM
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Okay, then take a break from talking about women on social media and obsessing over their scores and their hypergamy and their general shittiness. Do something that's actually beneficial for you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:29 AM
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Women think they've settled because the billionaire they're blowing isn't also a GQ model. Can you come up with a more realistic scenario? Average women are not blowing billionaires and scoring GQ models for casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:21 AM
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It's less about attracting women and more about working on your own physical and mental health, away from women. If you already think you can't be a top 20% man and most women are beneath you, why not take a break from trying to date? Do something positive for yourself instead of being bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:18 AM
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Why bother? This 'debate' is based off couples you've seen in real life. How are people with different experiences supposed to debate that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:17 AM
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Lol if that's too much work no wonder you're so pessimistic about finding someone. That shit's hard!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:08 AM
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"I don't see it with my own eyes and therefore it doesn't happen." Weak argument even by PPD standards. Out of curiosity how many couples do you know, and how would you rank their attractiveness out of ten?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:55 AM
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I mean OP has been a victim and knows others who have been victims. People can be afraid of men or spiders or airplanes without ever having negative experiences with those things. Does that answer your question?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:38 AM
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Go ahead and be afraid of women if you want, that's within your rights. And go ahead and dredge up 'meanwhile these same women...' comments with receipts if you want to toss that in there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:05 AM
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The conversation has gotten so far off the rails from the OP. I don't know the racial makeup of the men harassing OP nor did she mention any specific race so it seems like a time waster to go off on a tangent about race at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:47 AM
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Not sure what you're asking. It's understandable given OPs experiences along with those of her friends that she would be anxious around men she doesn't know. Hell, even an Uber driver assaulted her friend and that's supposed to be the responsible way to get home safe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:36 AM
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Sounds more like anxiety driven by bad experiences which lead to some prejudice. Which OP admitted and seems to want to work on. There's enough nuance that this isn't in the same discussion as 'woman fears black men because of their crime rate'. This woman is anxious of men because of actual experiences, not statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:20 AM
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Is it rational to stick to the actual point and instead of making a whataboutism?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:43 AM
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Maybe you have a different definition of banned books in Canada. Banned in the US means the books are not allowed to be in public libraries (including school libraries). An outright ban on a book would be against the 1st amendment. Sure, you can argue that they might be the start of something bigger, and you have the right to do so, but I think overall there is high acceptance of LGBTQ. There is a high acceptance of LGBTQ except in states that are controlled by conservatives. Their decisions to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:44 AM
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Once again, I work with a lot of women (probably a rotating group of 50ish, and a handful of guys). I have not seen evidence of periods interacting with moods to such an extent that I thought something like 'Ahh she must be ovulating this week'. Women can be closed off/have mood changes for a variety of reasons that involve things other than their cycle
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:24 AM
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I don't see how it's different than having a story time in different costumes. Not sure if you've been to libraries during story time, but the more dedicated readers come dressed up. It's a nothingburger
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:20 AM
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Ban certain books (from being taught to children in schools) Look at the lists of banned books. Most recent ones include queerness in some capacity, which is not inherently sexual in nature. You can have a book about a hetero main characters and elements and no one blinks an eye, but books about queer characters get banned. Also, 1984 is currently the most banned book and it's literally about how evil totalitarianism is. Why ban that? and ban drag shows (from having a child audience). The conser…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:18 AM
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Any examples of sexually inexplicit innuendos being taught to kids? Because being homosexual in and of itself isn't sexually inexplicit any more than being heterosexual is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:02 AM
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Dude I'm on PPD, I clearly don't think that highly of myself. I am genuinely wondering what 'merit' and critical thinking is being displayed on 4chanc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:00 AM
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But what exactly is there merit? Is there any kind of critical thinking going on or is the merit just that something was witty?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:58 AM
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You can, but talking about looks is especially repetitive. I'm sure there's plenty of posts about it in redpill/blackpill spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:56 AM
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Idk the women at my job are about as easygoing as you can find. We joke that our workplace is the female equivalent of construction workers. That being said, men and women have different senses of humor, especially when it comes to sexual humor. I don't think it would've been appropriate for a woman to joke about what the new hire joked about, but it probably wouldn't cross a woman's mind to say that in the first place. Maybe most women just aren't as into shock value 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:55 AM
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Maybe you just have 4chan brainrot if you think controversial posts are where critical thinking takes place. And are you accusing 4chan of having critical thinking? I thought it was just trolling for the lolz
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:40 AM
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Ironic to say that the left likes to censor when it's the right whose currently trying to ban things like books and drag shows, and 'don't say gay' bills are censoring the existence of homosexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:38 AM
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Nah, sometimes shit is actually inappropriate. In my example the new hire thought he would joke around with this older woman by using the words 'snorting coke off your titties'. Give me one work venue where that would be acceptable to say, especially considering the guy didn't know her well
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:37 AM
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What kind of woke games are you playing? Sorry you have to look at ugly females :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:33 AM
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What is there to say about looks that needs more than one thread? If you're hot you're more likely to get laid. Boom. End of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:32 AM
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Gen-z is going to be a headache to work with. I respect wanting to stand your ground and not be steamrolled by your job, but a lot use that as an excuse to be lazy instead of actually believing that. I have a couple friends who are high school teachers and they say it's only going to get worse from here on out. I'm sure there are good female programmers out there, but the field is inundated with people who think it's easy work for a bigh paycheck. I hope you guys get some better hires in the fut…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:23 AM
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To quote a 4chan post: there are no girls on the internet. Unless someone on 4chan explicitly stated their gender, it is assumed any poster is male and probably young to college aged. 4chan probably has more guys than women, but you'd be surprised at the amount of women who can also be politically incorrect trolls
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:16 AM
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I'm not as familiar with these subreddits as you are. I honestly can't say if redpill subs are prone to groupthink more or less than women-dominated subs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:51 AM
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I can't speak for an office environment like yours (programming I assume?), I work at a veterinary ER/ICU where we run a pretty lax ship since everyone knows what theyre doing and can be trusted to not be too inappropriate. I don't think more office-oriented women would do well here. It sounds like some of the women on your team are just bad hires. Honestly I would hate to be in tech nowadays because it seems flooded with bad hires who either can't code and/or have shitty attitudes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:48 AM
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Twox is a bad subreddit. They are really bad about dogpiling and a lot of the posts come off as the OP being unintelligent and needing to validate her feelings. There's probably better women-centric subs that are more laid back, twox is just a massive echo chamber. The obsession with men in that sub over any other topic was just too much for me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:37 AM
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The vast majority of people are rule followers. That's how society functions. To say that women would be pushing for national socialism and racial purity in Nazi Germany is conveniently forgetting that the most citizens were supporting it, men and women both. The Karen phenomena you mention is also about women being able to lord over minimum wage workers, not to enforce rules. Their only rule is that they're right. And once again, men are also pricks to people in customer facing roles. I know th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:32 AM
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I can kind of see where you're coming from. My workplace is 90% women and most everyone is easy going and gets along (at least in my unit). But we did have two new male hires who disrupted the balance and ended up getting fired (not for harassment, but bc they sucked at their jobs): one was hired during covid and refused to wear his mask, and kept hitting on one of his coworkers (who was a lesbian). The other tried to be jokey like the rest of us but came across as very inappropriate. Much simil…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:23 AM
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That's fair, at least at the time she published The Manipulated Man. Her being called a fascist was going way overboard. I think if that was published today there wouldn't be as much of a stir. People would still be upset, but there's been a flood of books with 'scandalous' theses that stir up debate upon release and are then never heard of again
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:14 AM
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So are you talking about just reddit spaces? Who gives a fuck. I agree that the twox sub is eyerollingly insular, but it is supposed to be a space for women. It's also a default sub, which are mostly all pretty bad to begin with. I'm not familiar with the askwomen sub but I'm sure it's easy af for a single troll to submit a million dumb questions about sex, so it makes sense that they're more rigid in their format. Any irl examples? Hell, any non-reddit examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:56 AM
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What's beneficial for women in this dynamic? They'll know that if they do something to anger men, the men will just 'overpower them' and take control. That doesn't sound like a good deal for women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:26 AM
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So are women actually leading if men can just take back power whenever they want? Because it sounds like you want women to do the boring parts of leading while men indulge in the fun parts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:05 AM
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With the repeal of Roe v Wade, millions of women don't have the option of abortion unless they travel out of state (and some antiabortion states are saying even doing that is illegal). Even in some states where abortion is still technically legal, it may only be legal when the pregnancy is less than 6 weeks along or in cases where the mother's life is at risk. Abortion is not a given anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:32 PM
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If she is always the one initiating the breakups while still wanting you to keep in contact, that is incredibly unhealthy. I know she sounds like the only woman for you, but you deserve better. From the sound of it, there is a lot of unhealthy codependency coming from both of you, and she has the extra demands of you such as being a 24/7 personal assistant and financially securing her jobless self. I'm sure the highs of the relationship are great, but they are not worth the lows. Having a mental…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:13 PM
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I'll make an exception for whichever religion you worship, Christpilled Man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:40 AM
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Nobody else tells anybody to be cruel to their girlfriends Uhh, not every major religion? Not abusive or toxic upbringings? Not a hundred million other things? You may be too online if you think only the redpill community is promoting cruel behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:22 PM
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Let's be honest, how many women are actually getting flown out to Dubai and shat on? Somehow I don't think it's nearly as many. Infinitely more men would stick their dicks in just about anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:08 AM
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Another lesbian here. I think it would be better if women chased more. It doesn't even have to be anything big, just making the first move in most cases will probably be successful. Even bisexual and lesbian women have problems/anxieties about pursing women, and many are (similar to straight women) waiting for someone to pursue them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:03 AM
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If only we had the technology to make this happen. I don't necessarily think the state should have a right to determine who can have kids (that would get abused in 0.5 seconds), but I truly wish we could separate sex and reproduction. That way the only people who have children are the ones who really want them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:49 PM
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Tbf men are notoriously bad at taking photos of themselves for OLD. A perfectly good looking guy can take bathroom selfies or 'sitting in his car selfie' and look unattractive. I'd be more interested in seeing what percentage of men/women are deemed unattractive in person, rather than on OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:39 PM
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You mean the person who made an account just to post in your thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:09 AM
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It's fine to not know things. OP is claiming bullshit as facts as if he has rock solid sources
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:24 AM
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No, the shaming is because his facts are absolute bullshit and he's a virgin so he can't even confirm his facts for himself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:23 AM
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Women orgasm more from clitoral stimulation than solely PIV sex. If you just want to rut like an animal, then you're right that a clit isn't necessary. But we're a bit more evolved than that, aren't we? For God's sake please read this article and educate yourself on anatomy https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/322235#_noHeaderPrefixedContent
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:35 AM
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You stated elsewhere that you've never had sex. Your 'facts' about women not enjoying sex is just a couple reddit threads, and combined with the 'fact' that you think rubbing a clit feels like scratching your nose shows that you have no idea what you're talking about. You have mansplained women's own anatomy at them without even having the experience of being with a woman irl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:28 AM
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OP, is this a creative writing exercise?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:17 PM
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Everyone in that situation sounds like a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:33 PM
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It's more than one thing. Covid fucked up a lot of young people's social skills and now they are 'adults' with fewer years of prime socialization and more social media brainrot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:31 PM
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That's gen-z age range who had some development disruption from covid when they were still in school. I think there's a good amount of women this age who are online a lot and get used to seeing women talking about feminism all the time. Then they bring those views on dates and other irl spaces, which is very tone deaf
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:08 AM
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I'd like to see the level of delusion it would take a woman to ask her date in-person to pick up the tab because she wore makeup. It's easy to say bs like that in your room, on tiktok. But I doubt she'd do that irl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:13 AM
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Wow you really don't think kindly of your own gender
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:16 PM
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So would you say the majority of people, men and women, would be fucked if integral infrastructure goes dark?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:33 PM
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You said to show you numbers for women in STEM. Women have now overtaken men in medical schools which is a large shift. Don't know why you're having a hard time understanding that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:28 PM
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In 2017, women made up a majority of the entering classes at U.S. medical schools for the first time.The number of women first-year students at U.S. medical schools in 2023 increased slightly, to 12,724. Women made up 55.4 percent of all first-year students in U.S. medical schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:58 PM
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I didn't know that opinion pieces had sources on the bottom and a bibliography lol. Interesting, the 'opinion piece' I gave you was littered with sources and yet you disregarded it completely How can a male even be an intimate partner in a lesbian relationship? Let me break it down for you since your hetero brain doesn't understand. Many, many gay and bi people have heterosexual relationships at some point in their lives, usually when they're young. It's actually uncommon to have had only have h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:08 PM
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Do you by chance have one of those super important infrastructure jobs, or would you also be fucked when the lights go out?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:39 PM
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I can tell you don't even care to read your own sources, which isn't surprising. I gave you cut and dry quotes from the CDC that broke down which gender instigated domestic violence. And yes, bi- and lesbian women have had violent experiences with IPV coming from men, which many sources don't discern. Your first link is literally an opinion piece referencing orange is the new black and basically saying 'lesbians, do better!'. That's not a source. Your second link is an actual source, good job. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:30 PM
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Especially this subreddit. I've been here for 2ish years and there is almost always ~200 active users on at a time. That is such a tiny amount of people to have the same debates with over and over again
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:15 PM
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Oh look, another baseless claim. Lemme guess, no sources this time either?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:53 AM
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I was wondering if you had any evidence for the statement "lesbians beat the crap out of each other at a much higher rate than straight or gay couples do". I gave you a source and you got real quiet all of the sudden.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:14 PM
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The piece sources all of its claims if you bothered to check. One such source is (PDF warning) https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/nisvs_sofindings.pdf Right in the executive summary it states Most bisexual and heterosexual women (89.5% and 98.7%, respectively) reported having only male perpetrators of intimate partner violence. Two-thirds of lesbian women (67.4%) reported having only female perpetrators of intimate partner violence. The majority of lesbian, bisexual, and heterosexual wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:45 PM
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Lesbian relationships have much more domestic violence than gay relationships do. You sure its the man's fault? Ironically, this actually is mens fault. The question for lesbian DV is: have you been abused by an 'intimate partner'. When the intimate partner is broken down by male and female partners, the male partners were responsible for a good portion of DV. https://www.hrc.org/resources/understanding-intimate-partner-violence-in-the-lgbtq-community
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:26 PM
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It's not hypothetical, this is actually OP's life situation. He posted the same question on askwomenover30 and said it was about him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:24 AM
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How do you have 300 female friends and still don't have a girlfriend? I thought pre-selection was a strong way to get your foot in the door when meeting women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:40 PM
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Care to explain how calling you out on the lamest gotcha ('lol you use reddit, you must not be busy') is ingroup bias? It's a stupid comment no matter who said it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:58 AM
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Bringing up reddit stats does nothing to detract from her point, and it's stupid to use that as a gotcha I come here for a good time. Plus I'm a woman who has dated bisexuals before and have female friends, which means I'm more familiar with women than many of the pill guys here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:51 AM
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Bruh you post poor content here every single day. You're one to talk 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:44 AM
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What do you do for a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:19 PM
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Women : we are strong and independent and we so a lot of hard work . Men : bitch please 😂😂😂 , have you seen the hard work men actually do . Yeah, both men and women work hard, this is not a hard concept to understand. What 'logic' is OP talking about, when women also do hard labor such as personal care and nursing jobs, and cleaning/laundry jobs. Women are disproportionately represented in less obviously but still physical jobs such as garment making, food preparation and skilled manufacturing? …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:38 PM
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Lol the amount of 'by your logic' you managed to fit into your comment is amusing. Stick to what's relevant rather than creating a false equivalency. So people who see that someone is struggling or being oppressed shouldn't hold others ( women ) accountable until he is in a similar position. Whose being oppressed and struggling? Blue collar workers aren't the ones being oppressed. It's the office soyboys who always use blue collar work as a proud sign of 'being manly' when they have never done a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:25 PM
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Because 99% of the time the guys complaining about women working indoors also work indoors. I don't see blue collar guys complaining, just tech bros who are either in an office or working at home. So what are they angry about if they're also indoors?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:09 PM
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Do you work in the physical trades?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:19 PM
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Here's what you said about SK men: In South Korea, where historically men were often short (on par with North Korea), parents recognized the importance of physical attractiveness and focused on height. Plastic surgeries and growth hormone injections were common birthday gifts, resulting in a populace widely regarded as attractive by women worldwide. Ask any women including Asian women around the world, which Asian country has the modt attractive men, the answer would be SK 99% of the times & not…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:11 PM
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No, soft because you are complaining that your parents didn't try to optimize your physical Attraction, as if that's a thing most parents do. And teaching others with respect is a basic, kindergarten-level lesson, not abything 'feminist'. That's because of capitalism & shit economy in SK. In the US, SK does the best among all Asian men. The best at what? Dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:55 PM
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Honestly, you are too fucking soft if your biggest childhood issues are that your parents didnt maximize your attractiveness. No parent knows wtf mewing is, and no parent is trying to optimize their kid's sexual attraction. You can talk about how great the South Korean parents are for buying their kids plastics surgery (yay?), but that's clearly not helping the dating scene or birthrate in their country (see 4B movement)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:19 PM
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What kind of feminist teachings are you talking about specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:06 PM
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Braces and proper dental care for jaw development were also overlooked, along with the concept of mewing for jawline improvement. Omg his parents didn't tell him about mewing, someone needs to call CPS
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:00 PM
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Women only work in air conditioned offices. They have no labour outside of pristine conditions. Maybe you need to stick your head out of your air conditioned office and see how the other half lives. Globally women do almost half of farming (but up to 80% in South East Asia) and many other physical jobs are overwhelmingly carried out by women, such as personal care and nursing jobs, and cleaning/laundry jobs. Women are disproportionately represented in less obviously but still physical jobs such …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:58 PM
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So you're bitching about women working in an air conditioned office and not outside doing manual labor or dangerous jobs...while you also work in an air conditioned office? The hypocrisy 😂 What kind of law do you practice, because it certainly isn't family law
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:47 PM
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What do you do for a job OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:43 PM
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That's a lame whataboutism. Just say you were misinformed and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:40 PM
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Wow, a helpful comment instead of just saying 'lol you're ableist and psychotic'. Thank you, I appreciate the sources. I had assumed that humans, like all living creatures, don't self terminate unless something is wrong with them mentally. It's not in our programming to end our lives. But humans being humans, we tend to complicate things to where getting divorced or widowed is a predictor of suicide risk. And another user pointed out that men are more impulsive than women which could also accoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:33 PM
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Not meant to be a checkmate. I had this discussion with another redditor and it wasn't nearly as engaging. Could you explain how it's 'abelist and psychotic' to believe suicide is not a mentally healthy response? Though there are exceptions for those with terminal illnesses/old age. Fwiw my mom killed herself a few years ago, so you could say I have some personal interest in the subject
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:12 PM
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Imo it can be rational if you are facing imminent death (terminal illness, old age), which account for a percentage of suicides. But otherwise it's the opposite of rational--the human brain wants to live
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:44 AM
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I'm not doubting the official definition of mental illness. I'm doubting that mentally healthy people kill themselves *outside of elderly folks who take that decision into their own hands
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:31 AM
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I could see impulsivity being a cause. But at the same time, your head is not right if you think suicide is the answer to your problems
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:21 AM
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If they are less prone to mental health issues, why do they have much higher risks of suicide compared to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:10 AM
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There's always a third choice. But my comment is about the people who complain nonstop about the opposite sex, with the only positive maybe being fucking them. In that case it's not incorrect to try new avenues. After all, two guys would be able to match libidos better than most hetero couples, and guys are apparently easier to deal with than women. So why not try it if women arent doing it for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:30 AM
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More of them should do that then, only 17% of single parents are fathers. It's good when men are there for their children
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:20 AM
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Because if they hate everything about women except their holes, then perhaps they don't actually like women. I'd say the same thing to women who claim to hate men and see no value in being with them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:12 AM
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You remind me of the movie Booksmart, where the hardworking main characters get a rude awakening when they learn their more relaxed schoolmates got into the same great universities as them. Molly: You guys don’t even care about school! Triple-A: No, we just don’t only care about school. Why couldn't you both study and party?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:13 PM
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Go on thinking that then. But also keep in mind that you can have a loving family without having children. The opposite of not having kids is not rotting in bed and being mentally unwell
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:59 PM
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Most people would live in a trailer park with a loving husband/wife and 4 kids. Then live alone and miserable alone in some mansion. Again with the extemes. I'm not sure if 'most people' is accurate, I and the vast majority of my female coworkers (vet med) have no interest in children and that doesn't seem to be uncommon. Children are extremely hard work and cost more money than the average person can afford, even with two paychecks. Hell, the a stage day Sure, if you want to have a baby no matt…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:47 PM
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It's career first because unless you marry a tradcon man or come from a wealthy family, there is no way to afford starting your own family without money. Money comes from a career. And if a divorce ever happens, the woman who started a family over a career is screwed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:20 PM
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Oh right, because in this sub we only ever talk about our own gender 🙄 Where am I incorrect? The op even added cops and firemen, as if they don't pull women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:18 PM
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I can assure you that there's plenty of average Joe's who are plumbers, truck drivers, line cooks, security guards, policemen, firemen, construction workers, accountants, car salesman, etc. Blue collar guys fuck. Most of the guys complaining are techbros/office drones who make money but can't pull women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:48 AM
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Having a family. Your very own family. That is what makes life worth living. Not doing TPS reports or doing some bullshit for some clients who barely know anything about you. Why are those the only two options? Sure there are career driven women who are too busy to have kids, but others simply don't feel any motherly yearnings or can't afford to have them. Making this just 'family vs job' is a weak take
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:45 AM
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Cool, but chatgpt isn't a reliable source even if it gets things right occasionally. It's a bad way to get information
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:50 PM
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Then why not confirm that with the original source? People are going to be even more braindead if they use and believe whatever chatgpt tells them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:38 PM
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I have never said lesbian relationships are perfect. Correcting a factual error isn't me closing my eyes to reality. Lesbians, like any other humans, can be abusive. But when the stats like OP's "lesbians have the highest rates of domestic violence" are blatantly wrong, it should be corrected
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:56 PM
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No, the point is you can't be bothered to be accurate with your own sources. I would rather trust a national survey than one that chose the bare minimum sample size that you can't even interpret correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:42 PM
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From the very first sentence of the abstract A sample of 162 gay males and 111 lesbians (N = 273) completed a survey Come on man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:33 PM
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That sample size was of 111 lesbians, hardly a significant number. Here's some stats from from The CDC's National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey: Sex of Perpetrator of Intimate Partner Violence: Most bisexual and heterosexual women (89.5% and 98.7%, respectively) reported having only male perpetrators of intimate partner violence. Two-thirds of lesbian women (67.4%) reported having only female perpetrators of intimate partner violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:23 PM
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Dude all you do here is bitch about women including, most recently, bemoaning that marital rape is now illegal. Do you even like women? Maybe a man would suit you better, I haven't heard you say a single bad thing about guys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:11 PM
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Not really. The company went public in '97, do you really think she didn't buy any stock when that happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:15 PM
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I don't really care, once again I was just correcting your statement
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:45 PM
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Your original comment said she didn't have anything to do with his business, I was correcting that statement. Stocks were probably dirt cheap to buy then and between that and the lack of prenup, she made bank. But I don't feel bad for Bezos, he's still unfathomably rich and Scott has donated literal billions of dollars to charities
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:59 PM
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From wiki: In 1993, Scott and Bezos married. The following year, they left D. E. Shaw, moved to Seattle, and Bezos founded Amazon with Scott's support. Scott was one of Amazon's early key contributors, and was heavily involved in Amazon's early days, working on the company's name, business plan, accounts, and shipping early orders.[16][7] She also negotiated the company's first freight contract.[7] After 1996, Scott took a less involved role in the business, focusing on her family and literary c…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:40 PM
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I wouldn't have thought that. Stoners in nature I understand, but alcoholics don't seem like they'd do well out there
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:26 PM
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Damn that's actually pretty dope
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:17 PM
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What do you do for work?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:14 PM
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The person you were responding to was literally talking about stay at home boyfriends. Those are not the same guys, period
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:13 PM
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How are 'manly' jobs relevant to this discussion? The guys on the fishing trawlers aren't the same as the stay at home boyfriends who can't do basic chores
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 03:44 PM
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Brooklyn is a good one and was probably realistic for it's time period (takes place in the 1950s)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:18 PM
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Then read my second paragraph. I'm kinda worried about your reading comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:50 PM
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You are not rich enough to have gold diggers after you. Software engineering and sales are common jobs. Sure they bring in good money, but unless you're a millionaire, you're just wasting time worrying about gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:43 PM
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Not right away. But unless a jobless person has a large amount of savings, they are dependent on others (family, government, etc) to help them out. How long will it be before they start wanting you to finance their livelihood? Plus, even if they don't pressure you, they are limited in the activities and experiences they can partake in if they aren't bringing in an income
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:23 PM
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Because, as women have been telling you all over this thread, it's not always about money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:16 PM
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It's a basic ass question. If you don't answer it they'll assume you're jobless which is not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:27 PM
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Because you said: Many wealthy and successful men engage in prostitution, more than the average man. Yet these men are still desired by women. Were you implying that you are one of these men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:40 AM
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Are you wealthy and successful? Or just riding off the high of getting cheap sex in Asia?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:25 PM
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Look up her castmate in that movie, Katy O'brien
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:20 AM
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Have you seen todays news article about a man, after being rejected by a woman, killing her and stabbing her sister in public? This was just a random guy that couldn't handle rejection https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/one-dead-one-seriously-injured-twin-sisters-stabbed-new-york-deli-rcna143822
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:22 PM
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I agree. I personally wouldn't want to have one on me as I would feel even jumpier with a gun than without one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:13 AM
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Guns are great equalizers if there's some distance between you and your attacker. But if a woman is being physically assaulted, how easy would it be for a man to take a gun away from her? The difference in strength between the average man and average woman is quite vast
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 01:03 AM
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That's what I thought 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:26 AM
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What kind of uber important job do you do that women have no idea how to handle? Btw most of your rhetoric about how 'bad shit will be' if men stop doing their jobs is not said by blue collar workers. They usually don't have issues getting women and they have integral jobs. It's techbros who do 2 hours of actual work per day saying how much women 'need them'
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:07 PM
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There are already countries where prostitution is legal, including Germany, New Zealand, Canada, Mexico. It doesn't seem to have changed much in the way of sexual relations
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:10 AM
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Lol please tell me you're going to head this revolution up. I'd love to see how that goes for you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:05 AM
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That's a lot of talk for someone whose highlight of the week involved pretty girls sitting next to them 😂 Please feel free to comment on my appearance, because you're obviously lashing out and hurt. Go gargle your own balls, it's the most action you'll ever get
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:35 AM
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Most men take terrible photos (bad angles, poor lighting etc), especially older ones. I'm talking bathroom selfies with dirty mirrors or in-the-car selfies where the dude is clearly being blinded by the sun. Those kinds of pics are not attractive even if the person themselves are attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:49 AM
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There are always going to be friendless or lonely people, and most likely an increasing number of shut-ins/chronically online people. Those are the ones who will be using AI, at least until it becomes more mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:09 PM
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No such thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:58 PM
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No disagreement there
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:49 PM
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You may be in the minority there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:40 PM
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Pretty talented too, give Saltburn a watch on Prime. He can pull off the 'I'm rich and better than you' attitude in a charismatic way, similar to Jude Law in The Talented Mr. Ripley
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:39 PM
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Lol I'm not even into guys and can say that Jacob Elordi is fine as hell. I don't know what you mean by him having a weird doll face. Add in the accent and physique and he's literally Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:43 PM
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I would wonder about the authenticity of the comments and likes, as insta has around 95 million bots on it as od last year. Social media is so easy to manipulate and make things appear more popular than it actually is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:18 PM
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Interesting response. Though tbh it sounds like my 'foreplay' is better than whatever your poor partners end up getting. Have you had any repeat sexual partners or do they just fade away after the few disappointing thrusts you offer up?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:46 AM
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I'm fascinated by your responses in this thread. How much sex have you had to come to these conclusions?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:44 AM
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Decades of communism can't break a millennia of Confucianism, and Confucianism clearly states that men are preferable to women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 11:41 PM
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India and China created their own gender disparity and are now paying the price for it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:16 PM
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Hormones
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:07 AM
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I'm a vet tech in an emergency hospital, so I get to actually help save lives every day. I love it most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:56 PM
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Would you say that your remote is essential work needed for society to function?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:52 AM
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Why do you give a shit what subreddits say about dating when you clearly think you're being successful in the real world? Do you need virtual high fives to help you feel less alone and more valued?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:29 AM
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What, do you want his dad's receipts?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:02 PM
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Lol what a time to bring up a Hitler comparison. Jenny only ever really hurt herself, and Forrest could at least understand what consent and love was. Do I really need to explain that a guy responsible for the Holocaust is different than a woman who felt bad about sleeping with a mentally disabled person?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:07 PM
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I hate to break it to you, but you are an average American. Calling Americans 'yanks' to distance yourself from that isn't fooling anyone. And you're not pessimistic for seeing the world is a shithole, it is. But the only options you have are to: Make enough money for it not to matter Opt out of the system (be as self reliant as you can) accept that the world sucks but try to make your small slice of it worth living in. You think Americans like being corporate wage slaves based on what? No one l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:07 PM
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Lol tell me you're a recent grad without telling me you're a recent grad. Welcome to real life, it won't get much better even if you move to somewhere else. And the self hating is doing nothing for your mental health, I'm kinda worried that you're a teacher tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:45 PM
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I'll have to read that! I never really liked the Charles Dickens stories I've read, but he seems like an author that grows on you as you age
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:29 PM
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It may not be doable, but getting a job that forces social interaction really helps social anxiety. My job as a veterinary ICU/ER tech involves lots of interaction with my team as well as talking with clients. As much as I still don't like talking to clients, it boosts my confidence when I have a good interaction with them--which tbh is most of the time, my anxiety just has me thinking I'll always mess up interactions when in reality I rarely do. As you said, social groups like dancing and marti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:29 PM
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There's a lot of assumptions coming up, but I think I'm onto something. The downsides of the so-called American Dream are not talked about enough. There are so many miserable people who, by all means look like they have it good: coming from an ordinary background, they've ended up with a good degree from a good school, a good salary, a good job, and are living in a bustling city. But especially those who have come from more humble origins realize they are still unhappy. Sure, they have a high sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:36 PM
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In that case I guess I can't understand where you are getting these ideas about 'modern women' if you aren't even dating any of them, or even interact with them much (as you said in a previous post). Are you getting this info from social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:39 PM
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Would you prefer a woman to your current partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:30 PM
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What are your examples of 'femininity'?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:19 PM
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These are all the things that men also offer. The only thing men don't have is the body. Why is that an issue? What additional things do you want women to offer, besides sex, that you can't get from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:23 PM
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Wait, so if they give you no stats you won't talk to them, but when they do you say you can't 'wade through random Google searches'?? How are you doing your due diligence if you refuse to read sources opposing your views?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:09 AM
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Basically, she wants me to go far and above in comparison to previous lovers. Instead of being satisfied going to Dennys and driving a clapped out Civic like she did with her ex and then back to the crib for sex, she wants a Michelin star restaurant and for me to drive a G wagon to entertain the thought of going out with me, let alone sex. That and stringing me along for more than 3-5 dates without escalation into sex. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/175c1g8/comment/k4ews1l/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:25 AM
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The "date" was him bringing a little Caesars hot and ready and a blunt. So is that the quality of date you want from a future partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:42 PM
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Look it up yourself, a box spring still has more airflow towards the bottom of the mattress than placing the mattress on the floor
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:53 AM
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The mattress needs air to circulate underneath (by being on a bedframe), otherwise it traps moisture and can get moldy and smelly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:47 AM
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We make split judgements all the time. Of course, the more time you spend with someone, the more you should be able to see their personality. However if you only have a short interaction with them, you only have so much to go off
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 07:08 PM
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I think it's just as shallow (as looks) to judge someone based on their "confidence" (arrogance) in a certain situation. It's just one situation. It doesn't tell you how that person is in other respects. I respectfully disagree. Confidence is what gets you noticed, it is you stepping up to the microphone or raising your hand to answer a question. You may be the smartest or kindest person in the world, but if you're just sitting silently or unable to communicate well, they won't be able to see th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:15 PM
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What else is there to judge a potential partner on besides looks and personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:43 PM
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And you're sure of these assumptions because...?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:46 PM
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Anyway my bigger point is, most people are going to make mistakes with new partners, “I don’t want to have to tell them twice” is pretty draconian It's not a mistake when someone refuses to listen to you. An error in technique is one thing, violating consent is another
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:40 PM
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Imagining a dude reading this comment aloud is a treat. Sounds like you're thinking about Chads and cock carousels more than the women here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:05 AM
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Whats really preying on male loneliness is, ironically, dating apps. The male-to-female ratios are always screwed up, which the company uses to its advantage by encouraging men to spend money to get seen. At least onlyfans and what have you are decent for individuals rather than companies (I would assume, I've never watched OF)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:12 AM
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Your link is busted, so no one can see the anecdotes you collected
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:05 PM
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All I have informing my view is the thread I posted. This needs to be an addendum to most of the CMV posts here 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:12 AM
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From that link: . All (Men and Women) Men Women Overweight 30.7 34.1 27.5 Obesity (including severe obesity) 42.4 43.0 41.9 Severe Obesity 9.2 6.9 11.5 What is misleading about this to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:32 PM
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Lay off the weed bro. If you're anxious it's just going to make you feel worse and start overthinking things (which you're clearly doing)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:38 AM
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What script is that? And you still haven't mentioned what right allows you act like an asshole with no consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:16 AM
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What right is that? If you're in the US, the first amendment protects your freedom of speech, but not the potential consequences of acting like an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:11 AM
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Men have every right to be angry at whomever they want and express that anger in whatever way they want, shy of physical assault. The only people who have a right to act like that are newborn babies and toddlers. If you as an adult man are acting out every base emotion you have, something has gone wrong in your development
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:51 AM
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More sex is almost always going to be had at the beginning of a relationship (part of the 'new relationship energy'). Sex in a long-term relationship is different since the newness has worn off and you actually have to make an effort to keep wooing your partner
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:04 PM
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I have no idea what you're trying to say with this wall of gibberish. Good luck to you and this hypothetical wife
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:17 PM
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What exactly is your relationship history to make you feel this way? There are so many negative stereotypes in one place that it's making my head spin
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:35 PM
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Such a lame list. Oh no, hot women can get into clubs for free so women must not be oppressed. Let's try a fun list for men: naturally way stronger and usually taller than women, so physically dominant. Hold the most positions of power and the majority of billionaires, millionaires, and government leaders are men. There hasn't a single female president in the history of the US. The percentage of women murdered by an intimate partner was 5 times higher than for men. We also know men harass, assau…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:10 AM
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You're trying to compare cheating to just having more previous partners, those scenarios are not even remotely similar It's better than a woman you have to teach for all of two months right? Even if you've had sexual experiences prior to your current partner, there may still be an adjustment period while you get familiar with each others bodies and likes/dislikes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:10 AM
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If a couple has agreed to be monogamous, then it's an issue for anyone to cheat. It has nothing to do with being insecure and more to do with a violation of trust. It's your logic that's flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:37 PM
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If you’re willing to sleep with them you won’t get raped, because you’re willing to sleep with them. So if you're interested in sleeping with them, you're not allowed to revoke consent if they end up being too rough, aggressive, or otherwise unpleasant?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:34 PM
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Most guys I know irl would be happy with any women (the single ones) Would they really, though? Everyone should have standards that are higher than someone just existing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:47 PM
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No matter what gender and sexual orientation a person is, it's validating to have a person you find attractive reciprocate that attraction. Not sure why this would be a revelation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:43 PM
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But you don't have to take my word for it. Just go to r/AskMen and search for threads about female promiscuity There are 5.5 million users subscribed to that sub. Taking away things like bots, throwaway/duplicate accounts, and the most common one-abandoned accounts--how many people does that leave? As of writing this, there are currently 7,200 people browsing the sub. I wouldn't be surprised if peak hours/weekends only have a few thousand more than that. That's a very small number of individuals…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:11 PM
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I think they tend to help the more dysfunctionally depressed/anxious people. If you are functional but just feel like garbage all the time, SSRIs are more hit or miss. I agree that they can be overprescribed but that doesn't make me think any less the demographics that are more likely to use them (which is what OP is implying)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:52 PM
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I appreciate that. Suicide in general is a silent epidemic since it's a tough topic to talk about and can be difficult to seek treatment for. The fact that men are so much more likely to end their lives is a tragedy. Antidepressants can really turn things around for individuals, so I get annoyed when people gloat about the percentage of women who are on them, as if it's a bad thing to use them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:48 PM
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It's not supposed to be a gotcha. My mom committed suicide a few years ago after multiple prior attempts. She refused to take meds that may have helped her, and I'm sure there are many suicidal men who could benefit from antidepressants
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:42 PM
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Doesn't let men what? Seek medical help? Men are fully capable of getting doctor's appointments and seeking help for mental issues
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:31 PM
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Anti-depressants have many uses besides treating depression, including anxiety and panic disorders, eating disorders, insomnia, chronic pain, migraines. In older women it can also help with menopausal symptosm such as hot flashes, skin flushing, and night sweats (which around 80% of menopausal women experience). Source And seeing as men commit suicide around 4 times more than women, perhaps more men could use some antidepressants.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:11 PM
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Most people are expected to contribute money in a relationship. If one party refuses to do that, and refuses to even help around the house, they should be cut loose. Would you put up with a relationship where you were put in u/Cethlinnstooth's position?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:58 PM
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It's a very important job and they should be paid more. They're not, however, because most people cannot afford them even at the relatively cheap cost point they're currently at
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:35 AM
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So since you're jealous of women who have homes, you don't want anyone to own property?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:04 PM
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Where do you live where the law of the land doesn't believe in private property? Being a communist (lol) doesn't keep you from being kicked out of capitalist establishments
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:56 PM
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These businesses aren't owned in their name. How do you know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:45 PM
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these businesses do not turn profits most of the time and are just toys for rich women to own supported greatly by their rich husbands lol. You are seeing this often because you live in one of the most expensive places in the world. Pretty much everything you experience in San Francisco is not going to be indicative of anywhere except other expensive cities
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:42 PM
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Welcome to adulthood
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:55 PM
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What kind of advice are they pushing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:09 PM
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The people in dumpster fire marriages might lie to save face in real life, but I don't think married people have a reason to lie on a PPD forum like this. What do they have to gain from lying, and what do you think they are lying about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:32 PM
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You're right, it's not an advice sub. But the OP certainly thinks it is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:30 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean then. I asked how many married users on here counts as 'a lot' for you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:29 PM
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Did you mean to respond to a different comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:24 PM
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Do you think the married people on this sub are the ones you mentioned in your first paragraph?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:20 PM
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I’ve had way more sexual experience with way more women than most married men. Guaranteed. My longest relationship was a little over a year and I’ve never been married, engaged, or even lived with a woman. What is that supposed to prove? It sounds to me like that means you probably have decent advice to give on how to have sex with women, but probably poor-to-no advice when it comes to getting a ltr
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:16 PM
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Women don't understand this perspective and they seem to really struggle putting themselves in mens shoes. I completely get where you're coming from when you say this. Men and women approach dating differently and have different expectations on how they are supposed to act and react to things. But even then, I think men in ltr probably still offer good advice for other men who are struggling with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:09 PM
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How many do you consider to be 'a lot' of users being married for decades? Maybe you're on here more than me, but it seems like dateless men far outnumber the users who have been married for decades. But we should really get a demographic survey up in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:04 PM
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Once again, how do you know what is good or bad advice? Give them just the good stuff from people actively doing the thing they want to be doing. There are no cheat codes on how to be successful. That's why advice tends to vary--because people are different and react differently to different things
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:02 PM
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Specially if the advise is coming from a man. I want the man who had been on a 100 dates and had sex with many women. FUCK the guy who went on 4 dates and got married for the last 50 years. That guy is worthless for understanding dating. Maybe this is where our disconnect is. For most people, dating is a period that concludes when you find someone you want to be exclusive with. A successful dater is one who found a partner and is no longer dating. However to you, it seems like a successful dater…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:56 PM
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How do you know if advice is good or not without trying it out? Or are you just biased against trying any advice coming from someone in a long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:51 PM
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You'd think they'd rather take advice from people who have dated successfully rather than fellow dateless virgins who get warped ideas on gender/sexual dynamics from social media
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:44 PM
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People can have multiple long term relationships, therefore having advice about dating in modern times and getting a ltr from it. Not every happily married person is a crone who has been with their partner for decades
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:41 PM
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So are you taking advice only from people who have been dating unsuccessfully? Dating successfully for most people means getting into a long term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:36 PM
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That's true. I'd also be more interested in hearing advice from people who have been in more than one long term relationship, because they might have recent dating experience that ended up being successful
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:18 PM
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You seem to be projecting a lot. What is your definition of someone 'wearing their marriage as a title'? If someone is in a fulfilling, long term relationship it does give them more credentials in my eyes. At least compared to virgins who are claiming to know how the opposite gender operates based on nothing but social media
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:11 PM
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How many people here will actually try to follow actionable advice? Instead you see replies saying "Pssh that will never work because x, y, z," and immediately dismiss advice without trying it themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:07 PM
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There were other sources of feminists studying domestic violence committed by athletes, that was just the first I pulled up. Feel free to look for others. However, I have never seen any wide spread boycott of sports or marches against athletes committing domestic violence. Who is supposed to be boycotting sports? I would be interested to see how many feminists actually watch the sports that violent athletes compete in. 'Sports' is a billion dollar industry and successful athletes, similar to pol…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:04 PM
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How is that a good example? How about the people involved in the sports hold athletes accountable? And here's a source on feminists studying violence among athletes. It took two seconds to find: https://www.brookings.edu/articles/ineffective-policies-for-gender-based-violence-in-sports-result-in-lack-of-accountability/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:55 PM
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So do you have a source for thinking this: They rather fucked the guys that killed their husband and sun 24 hours ago. No need for forced sex, they opened legs the instant the enemies came to the city. Other than your feelings? Because it sounds like you're comparing raping and pillaging to modern women not caring about male issues, which is a completely different thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:46 AM
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The so-called party of ‘family values’ has just contributed to erosion of the institution of marriage in Florida,” You would think divorce would erode the institution of marriage 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:08 AM
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Do you have a source for this, you seem pretty confident about women consensually having sex with those who murdered their family members
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:49 AM
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There's a more recent Pew survey showing that between 12-28% of relationships began online (with younger people more likely to meet online). That's still a lot of room to meet people offline. Plus with the current ratios on dating apps, most men probably won't find a partner on them. Though I do agree that the pandemic pushed a lot of things online, and that we need more third places for people to hang out at
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:03 AM
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None of that is at odds with what I've said. You're missing the point, WHY do OLD apps have the ratios that they do? Because it's far easier for women to find a relationship or casual sex, so they're not stuck on apps. It's also more likely for women to meet and date irl. OLD is usually a back up plan for women since they tend to have more social groups to fall back on. And if you have a problem with how selective women are on OLD, don't use it. The odds are not in most men's favor because of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:20 AM
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I think people in general are getting less socialized, especially those who have WFH jobs, went to school during Covid, and/or have introvert hobbies (things like reading, gaming, social media). That and relying on OLD, which has terrible ratios of men-to-women, gets people to have less social interaction than in the past. I think dating will continue to be difficult for those types of people unless they can find social groups outside of their houses
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:59 PM
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Lol how about you ask your gf about this hypothetical situation and see what she thinks. I'm sure she'd be fascinated that you think her friends only invite her to things because of her gender
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 08:55 PM
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Do you have any sources other than anecdotal evidence that this scales up to the entire planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 08:11 PM
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it actually been shown in studies that men have a harder time making, developing, and maintaining social group because of how much is expected out of men What kind of things are expected out of them? It absolutely could be, but you haven't provided any evidence or even and argument as to why this would be a case over the other. You literally just said "nope, your wrong and just because you experienced it means your the only one, and you wrong just because I say so". Did you have any evidence tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 08:08 PM
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He used himself as an example of what he thinks is fact and what I think is conjecture. There are a million reasons why mutual acquaintances would be more accepting of one partner going to parties than the other (though the conceit is weird to begin with, as I'd assume you'd be going to parties with your partner). Men on this sub tend to think women get handed things on platters just for being women. In the guy's example about his gf getting invited to more parties, it could be because she has s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:54 PM
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Maybe those people just like your gf more than you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:31 PM
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Not talking about the other people you're casually dating is different from denying people 'straightforward honesty'. The originally poster was saying that 'you just need to be honest about polygamy with your partners' and the next replied that women aren't owed honesty. I don't see how that's the same as your scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 07:40 PM
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Who do they owe honesty to? Do you think you lose human decency if you level up to a Gigachad?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 07:02 PM
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Tinder is a sausage fest--about 76% of users are men. With those kinds of odds it's no wonder men are struggling. Maybe try a different app where the ratios are a bit better
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:30 PM
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Thanks for the article link, it was a great read. I didn't realize domestic violence rates were so high. I wonder how much (if any) of the domestic violence in those countries act as a pressure valve on the issues people have in society. Instead of commiting violent, public crimes people go home and release their anger on their families
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:18 AM
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Lol keeping filling up the trashcan then. Just don't get surprised if that kind of training yield little to no results
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:00 AM
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Sounds incredibly unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:55 AM
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He looks like a wax figurine that escaped from Madame Tussauds
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:54 AM
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I don't think divorce is as insufferable as most men here think it is (the ones calling it 'divorce rape'), unless you live in California and/or there's a large wealth gap between the couple. However this user seems to have a lot of issues with divorce so it's probably best he doesn't get married if the idea of it stresses him out so much
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:52 AM
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While they are behind on gender equality, I don't see how they have one of the highest female homicide rates given that there are barely any reported murders
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:17 PM
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Then don't get married. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 03:28 PM
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If there's no authority, then both sides have to simply "get along" on everything. What if they disagree on something? then what, roll the dice? If this happens, you communicate and compromise. Treating a relationship like a match where one person needs to be declared the winner will never work out. You're supposed to be a team In order for a certain unit to function long term, hierarchy is usually neccesary. Would you expect a company to work if there were no CEO's or managers. Everybody just "…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:45 PM
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Ehh I work at a hospital and we have rotating interns and residents that all follow each other and the staff on social media. That alone adds quite a lot of people to a person's 'followed by' list. Add in bots and it's pretty easy to get a few hundred followers without really trying
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 03:33 AM
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In your opinion what are the red flag indicator for women over a certain number of followers? And do you make an exception for those who are in very social jobs/settings or posting creative content (art, photography, personal projects etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 01:55 AM
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It's a shame when your partner gets lazy when you've moved in together. I'm not a perfectly clean partner but I do my own cooking, dishes, laundry, and tidying of the house. Living with a slob would be a deal breaker for me too. Glad you got out of that relationship!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:55 PM
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What made you think she was worth dating? She sounds pretty unappealing tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:27 PM
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I don't think I will post under PurplePill ever again. Probably for the best, this place is a dumpster fire. I'll be done with it myself in a few days when Reddit is Fun goes dark
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:51 AM
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But I dont think women were that willing at being useful in any time in history. Not because they couldnt. But because they do not want to work. As long as women got a choice. Women will work as little as possible and men will let them work little if it is not too much of a burden. Any source on that? Any at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:45 AM
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A rare sight in this sub--an insightful post. I agree with your OP and wanted to add that it was men who traditionally documented history and published scholarly works. They were busy documenting men's experiences and had little to no interest in women's place in history. Women themselves, at least in the US, were not recognized as or legally allowed to become publishing professionals until the late nineteenth century. This gap in knowledge makes it appear as if women 'did nothing' throughout hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:44 AM
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Is your solution to make your SO sell their house then? And most regular bills don't cover half of a mortgage payment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:30 AM
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So what would you be contributing to financially if you move into a house someone else is paying for?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:21 PM
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Honestly it's not. And if it's such a deal breaker for you, make it known early on. The women who want to be paid for will filter themselves out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:23 PM
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You really can't find it feasible in any reality where young girls college aged are just using guys for a fun time and enjoy being asked out? I 100% believe that some women manipulate guys and use them for free food or validation. However I still don't understand how the specific date you described was manipulative, unless you're leaving out other details It's been the bulk of my experience you neglect the male dating experience but stand by and play devil's advocate when you don't have a dog in…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:59 PM
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So does that mean you believe chemistry to be important early on or not? And "I'm not feeling it" is just a shorthand way of saying there wasn't enough chemistry to keep them engaged. Do you want them to write a paragraph instead to expand on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:33 PM
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Be the change you want to see. There are straight women out there who have zero qualms about splitting the bill, hash it out with them before going on a date so there isn't any pressure on you to pay for the date
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:13 PM
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Chemistry isn't that vague, it means that you can click easily with the other person. Early on in dating, the thing you're relying on most might be chemistry--does this person match my texting energy, do we have a similar sense of humor or interest, is it easy to talk to them? Those kind of questions early on can determine how many repeat dates you get with one person. Otherwise if you don't like each other, what's the point of going on more dates dates with a person who doesn't interest you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:09 PM
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You don't find it weird that someone you have enough common ground with on a date can't even play along with the idea of there being a friendship instead? I still don't understand how you came to this conclusion. If I had to guess, your intensity early on may have made her feel pressured. Staring someone dead in the eyes on the first date and being 'very serious with your tone' is a bit of an intense way to communicate romantic interest, and might not be taken well depending on the woman Her ton…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:05 PM
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I would consider it more successful if a girl just straight out told me that I would make a good friend but not a boyfriend the honesty is what I respect. Not this take me out on a date pursue me romantically but I can't extend the same respect for you bs The things with OLD is that the first date is to see how compatible you are in person. There is only so much chemistry you can discern through a phone screen and there's a chance that the woman was interested in you in-app, but the chemistry ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:58 PM
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It seems like male-female dates can have so much drama around how the bill is paid and it's so unnecessary to me. Just split the bill and all of the issues go away
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:54 PM
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I read the OP and I'm not trolling. From what I see: You ask a girl if this is a date, she says 'yes, you asked me out' You think she's at least companionable--"she was smart and we had similar interest and natural conversation flow" She was vulnerable with you and told you about some personal struggles of hers--girls bullying her and guys ignoring her You are asked to pay for the date, which you find upsetting but you don't ask to split the bill And while it's not in your OP, should I assume sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:52 PM
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How do you know she lied about it being a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:38 PM
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She probably sensed his disdain of her and didn't want to go on another date with him because of that. His story doesn't really seem like an unsuccessful date otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:23 PM
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Interesting paper. Now we just need to combine the two studies and see what the results are. Though at the end of the day I believe male and female rulers would be equally violent, and that violence is not based on what gender the leader is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:50 PM
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And maybe when we have more female leaders we can better see who is the 'more violent' leader. But you can only conduct research with the information you have at hand
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:40 PM
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Authors of the book Why Leaders Fight analyzed every world leader from 1875 to 2004 and statistically examined gender differences in military aggression. They found that 36% of the female leaders initiated at least one militarized dispute, while only 30% of male leaders did the same. The authors say, “This does not mean that women are generally more aggressive, however. Men were responsible for 694 acts of aggression and 86 wars while women were responsible for just 13 acts of aggression and onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:07 PM
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Different women have different ways of expressing their sexual attraction. This isn't rocket science
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:26 AM
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Not sure why their professions are important. Though I wouldn't be surprised those same thoughts are shared by businessmen, lawyers, astronauts, police officers, the PM etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:13 PM
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No one is admiring your spouse. They are probably thinking "Why is that child going off with that old guy? I hope that's her father"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:53 PM
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His child-sized wife 😂 that detail always cracks me up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:43 AM
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Do you think you're in a good geographical location for dating? Your personal hygiene alone puts you above a lot of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:26 AM
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Nothing is stopping men from using things like moisturizer, concealer, and other basic grooming staples
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:51 AM
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Are you a woman? This post really makes me doubt that you are
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:36 PM
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People who are more attractive get everything easier in life. It's called pretty privilege and yeah it's inherently unfair. But I don't think being attractive is manipulating to customers unless they are chumps
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:52 PM
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How does that influence others in an artful or unfair way? Do people go, "Wow, I can see cleavage! She gets a great tip now"? What is the thinking of people who are 'influenced' to give these women more money?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:22 PM
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If you're influenced by revealing clothing you're a chump
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:35 PM
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How is that manipulative??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:07 PM
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Because, speaking as a homo, homosexual adults can consent to sex. Children cannot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:56 AM
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Maybe you and I might differ here, but taking selfies, trying on clothes, spying on what other women are wearing/doing on social media, and walking around in public seeing what attention they can grab, aren’t hobbies in my opinion - at least not in the conventional sense. You have a laughably limited view on what you consider women typically do during their spare time. Women dominate in the arts, reading, and some exercises such as dancing and yoga. And one pew research study says men and women …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:15 PM
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Please quote where I said you stated 'women don't have hobbies'. Each time I put the 'typically' in there as well. As for the difference, you're saying in most cases women don't have hobbies. Which I once again don't believe is the case
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:44 PM
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You: Women typically don’t have hobbies because their survival and reproductive opportunities are all-but-guaranteed at birth. We can disagree on leisure time, but I did not mischaracterise the above quote from you. Perhaps you were the one who left out an operative word
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:13 PM
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I'm not in disagreement that men have more active hobbies on average (though in my circle a lot of the women are physically active). I was disagreeing that a hobby wasn't a privilege. By definition a hobby is something that fills your leisure time, and leisure time is itself a privilege. He also said women typically don't have hobbies so he seems to have a very narrow definition of the word
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:05 PM
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I think you have a fundamental misunderstanding of what hobbies are. They are definitely a privilege, even the ones that revolve around 'survival'. There are also endless hobbies that don't involve things like 'running, jumping, climbing, lifting etc', which is probably why you think women don't typically have hobbies if they don't participate in those
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:00 PM
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Thank you for letting me, specifically, know this about you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:55 AM
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Sure, Jan. My point still stands
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:43 AM
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I doubt many men would consider a few causal partners here and there "whore" behavior. New here? Men on this sub call that being run through and not relationship material
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:16 AM
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Who gives a shit about what some random low view YouTube user thinks about it? Whenever this question is asked on this sub, the general consensus is usually 'go, we don't care. Just stop talking about it and go ffs'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:45 PM
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Nah, riled up is posting multiple paragraphs and comments about the use of a single word. Ironically you're the one policing speech even though there was nothing wrong with the sentence used. But sure, keep typing away. I find your comments amusing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 01:39 PM
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I highly doubt the op put as much thought into typing the word 'people' as you did typing your woke libruls manifesto. Maybe you'd be onto something if they said 'womxn', but 'people' is not a woke word, nor was it used in a woke context. If the use of the word people gets you so riled up that you have to make a 1984 reference, you have bigger issues going on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:52 AM
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The person said 'incel broad sweeping generalization'. They didn't call the person an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 01:42 AM
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Both excuses fucking suck
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 01:41 AM
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'People' is a gender neutral term that doesn't necessarily mean 'men and women'...this is basic grammar shit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:32 PM
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Weird, in previous comments you said people didn't know since 'normies can't handle it'. It's almost like your European Chad image is complete bullshit. Hope you're having fun with your playacting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:21 PM
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Then tell your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:14 PM
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Dude you cheat on your wife and pay for sex. That's no one's definition of a gentleman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:09 PM
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So they take for granted the fact that a dad bod or a fit healthy guy HAS to put loads of work into that physique. To them it just seems like getting that way is fairly low effort and breezy. It’s not lol. "I don’t like gym guys” - yes, you actually do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:03 PM
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You're literally the only one who keeps bringing up the second paragraph, which was brought up to contrast against the first and more important paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:01 PM
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Anyone can leave a relationship (including friendship) whenever they want. I think men shouldn't be shamed for staying or leaving if their female friend turned them down. Both are normal responses. Really the only negative response would be to constantly push your feelings on your friend when they've already said no
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:50 PM
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I agree. I use RIF for 95% of my redditing, so I'll probably be out when the app goes dark. I wanted to have some more fun while it lasted
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:49 AM
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In her case she's buffeted by her wealth and talent. Ed Sheeran is famously meh looking and you can bet he's drowning in women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:40 AM
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Because the guys in question believe they are nice guys. The term is used ironically
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:24 AM
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Too short! I want more troll content
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:15 AM
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Fuccboi is triggered by mean words, so sad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:34 PM
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Nah, hetero nonsense like the OP doesn't effect me. Just think it's cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:04 PM
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You do you broski. Getting validation on this sub for that is kinda pathetic though. Just imagining you typing that up and posting is giving me secondhand embarrassment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:57 PM
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I’ve been serving women up a taste of their own medicine. From sending mixed signals, being flaky, playing games and then denying it and ghosting. Isn't that what RP men do when they attempt to get women? And you're not doing anything groundbreaking by ghosting after sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:46 PM
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Thanks for the info, I looked up the tag too and don't really see what men would find that appealing unless they were gym bros who want someone to workout with
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:10 PM
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Do you have any examples of muscle mommies, because I'm really not buying that guys are into super muscle women who are just as tall/taller than them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:06 PM
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Your burns aren't as sick as you think Mr. Vapelord
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:53 PM
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Lol what do you have against 'muscle mommies'? Are they stronger than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:26 PM
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Tbf most people expect to have sex in their lifetime. It's a basic human experience that the majority of people have at least once Feeling like you're owed sex is a different mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:15 PM
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Literally no one has said that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:47 AM
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Comparing children and women that way is questionable. Though it was true men had more obvious power over women before things like women's voting rights, property rights, and access to higher education was a thing. Those things level the playing field quite a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:58 AM
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As a woman, I feel the same way about TwoX. Another sad sub just on a larger scale
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:01 AM
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That could be said about a good amount of famous people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 09:16 PM
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I can call you wrong but you won't believe you are, so why waste time? So instead it's a lost cause to talk sense into someone who sees an entire gender for nothing other than the wet hole they possess. As for the domestic violence, if you’re referencing the source(s) that I think you are, then that study is referring to both lesbian and bisexual women who have been previously abused. I think bisexual women have a higher chance of being in a domestic abuse situation overall, which bumps up the n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 07:01 PM
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Going by your posts, you're a lost cause. At least you make me appreciate that I've never heard lesbians say that the only thing women offer are warm holes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:12 PM
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Companionship, someone to share activities with. Men here are always saying how awful male loneliness is. Seems like a partner would alleviate that somewhat
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:42 PM
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Idk if I'd classify myself as a doomer but yeah I am worried about how the future will end up, especially as tech illiterate as the young generations are. They know how to click and swipe on things, but many don't know how to type properly or even use things like Microsoft Word. Advertisers will eat them alive. And the American school system is passing kids through even if they're failing, and putting kids with learning issues in normal classes where the teachers are forced to teach to the lowes…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:06 PM
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I agree with what you're saying, it's the OP I was disagreeing with. I am worried about the future generation being raised by millennials. If you have any friend who are teachers, or even visit the teacher subreddits, you'll see that the youth is not okay. Zero attention span, behind in their education, lots of behavioral issues etc. I think older Gen Z will be okay, but the under-18s are going to struggle a lot in life due to internet overload and poor parenting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:48 PM
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Women have been the ones raising children since the beginning of time. If anything, we are living when men are taking a much more active part in their children's lives
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:58 PM
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Siding with Amber Heard is not a feminist win. She fucking sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:56 PM
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If you don't give a shit about women, just say so. Making posts like this is just extra steps to validate your opinion. And why, in addition to everything in your OP, is it also women's responsibility to care about men's issues? Women created feminism to advocate for their gender, men are more than welcome to do that for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:26 PM
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I hope so, but lack of access to abortion is actively impacting families right now and will continue to do so. Personally I'm very glad I don't have much chance of becoming pregnant, as my state is one that became stricter after Roe v Wade was overturned
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:05 PM
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Yikes. So a grown ass man believes women shouldn't have abortions unless men have paper abortions? How do you think that will help the problem of single moms if even more women are forced to give birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:00 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:53 PM
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Do you live in the US? Abortion rights are getting chiseled away and are not as accessible as they once were
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:41 PM
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That statement applies to the majority of CMVs in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:00 AM
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Sounds like he was a better parent than 90% of the ones I've encountered (including my own)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:57 AM
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Historically, haven't women always been the primary caregivers of children? If anything more fathers are raising their children than in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:06 AM
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That in addition to the same talking points recycled again and again make this sub very unhelpful for anyone actually trying to understand the opposite gender. If you view PPD as a trainwreck it's entertaining, but I do worry about people confirming their biases/getting more spiteful towards others if they take anything here seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:56 AM
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And he's still paunchy in the middle. Do you want a picture of Danny Devito or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:12 AM
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If you say so. I've seen people with that body type my whole life and they are usually paired up with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:18 PM
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Those are all good examples, just pretend you don't know they're celebrities
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:17 PM
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In RPO, he got buff, shaved his head, and started gaming more obsessively after his fallout with Artemis an assassination attempt on his life. Good call on the Six of Crows book character. Really wish tv shows/movies weren't so afraid of casting people over 15% body fat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:18 PM
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Romance books are almost cheating since the whole point of them is wish fulfillment. There are almost no books outside of that genre that just happen to have a main lead who is overweight/unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:53 PM
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In Ready Player One, the protagonist eventually gets ripped and the love interest is beautiful (nearly looking like her avatar) except for a port wine stain. The film version has them both played by conventionally attractive actors. I haven't read Six of Crows but the Netflix show also has conventionally attractive actors and no one is overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:39 PM
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All of them, it's part of the main plot. It's the Celeste/Perry storyline
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:55 PM
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Do you have any book examples you could name, especially ones with chubby female protagonists? I can't say I've seen any un-attractive leading women in any recent film or tv shows outside of something like Ugly Betty or Pen15
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:54 PM
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Lol you can't even be happy to be proven wrong, you'd rather be spiteful to a random person on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:45 PM
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Just about everyone is conventionally attractive in media, not just men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:43 PM
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Love bombing is the trigger to look out for. Some abusive relationships have cycles of high-highs (love bombing) and low-lows (physical and or emotional abuse). The show Big Little Lies actually has a great example of this kind of relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:37 PM
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Deliberately hurting your partner by strategically withholding sex could qualify as abuse. But if someone isn't feeling like having sex for other reasons, I don't believe it to be abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:24 PM
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It's a study about rating profile pics. Have you seen the average profile pictures men use? Even a handsome guy can be made to look unattractive if he has a poor picture
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:21 AM
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If OP wanted to say that it's irrelevant, that's one thing. It's another to say that they don't exist or if they do, it means they are 'average women who can't land Chads'. That's disingenuous and meant to put it in stark contrast with invisible men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:53 PM
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If you really want to play oppression olympics (the saddest of sports imo), yeah, invisible men have it worse specially if they have no male camaraderie to fall back on. But invisible women who don't get matches, dates, sex even when trying do exist even if in a smaller number. Talking in extremes about the opposite gender is the main weakness of this sub. So much nuance gets missed which is needed to get a holistic picture of different situations/experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:51 PM
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Good talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:33 PM
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A post about invisible women ,women who have had relationships or are in relationships or above 50 and married counted themselves as invisible which is ridiculous as we all know invisible man means he has gone years without getting any interest from women or never had relationship or a women who is very avg in looks not remarkable and still was in a relationship and had relationships in past.For women being invisible for Chad or having a small period of not getting interest from men she wants is…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:12 PM
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I know what I'm talking about. I have no way to evaluate this claim
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:28 AM
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Most women wouldn't respond to the description of "big titty waifu" even if you put other qualifiers in there. It reads as being terminally online/immature/not serious
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:37 AM
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Women want to be seen as more than just a pair of tits, and the phrase "big titty waifu" is also incredibly immature sounding
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:46 PM
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The reason the sex rate in Japan is so low is not because men have higher standards there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:39 PM
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emotional constipation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:25 PM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:02 PM
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Is that supposed to be a gotcha? People of both genders are attracted to power and wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 10:56 PM
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What's your relationship history like?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:34 PM
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Fetishists
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:01 PM
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Pretending that women couldn't open a bank account in the 1970s is ridiculous. Before the 20th century, women owned banks and women could open bank accounts. This is historical fact. How many women owned banks pre-20th century? I'd be surprised if the number was more than 5. And with such a small number it's not really telling of equality, is it? Some banks wouldn't let women open an account. Some is still too many if the only reason they refused to open an account was their gender. If the only …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 10:13 PM
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It's self reported so who the hell knows what the averages are actually like. Though I'd be interested in knowing why women sleep more--are there biological differences that make them require more sleep or are there other factors at play?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:28 PM
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From your own source: But women even that out because they spend about six hours more than men doing household work, plus they spend about three additional hours taking care of the children, bringing the total work time to 45.6 hours per week for men and 45.2 hours for women. The difference is negligible, and men somehow also spend more time doing leisure activities
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:48 PM
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A lot of these rights such as banks or voting were retricted to men or families because men were required for military service and therefore they were regarded as essential for the nation. Any source on those rights being tied to military service? Seems kinda bullshit to me Most jobs in the past were manual too, and men were made better for intensive high paying manual jobs. It seems the benefits men had were just attached to their contribution to society. It's untrue that women in ye olde times…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:39 PM
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From the CDC: From 1999 –2000 through 2017 –March 2020, US obesity prevalence increased from 30.5% to 41.9%. During the same time, the prevalence of severe obesity increased from 4.7% to 9.2%.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:32 PM
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Cool, which is why I asked the question in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:15 PM
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What kind of things do women expect men to do to fill the role of protector?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:06 PM
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What does a protector look like in 2023? Do you shake your club at any threatening males as they pass by?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:44 PM
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Seems like pretty low standards for an LTR. Lots of room for unpleasant personalities to slip in
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:20 AM
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I feel so bad for hetero women 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:33 PM
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lol talk about hyberbole. The vast majority of women aren't asking to cum 9 times per sexual encounter. Once would be awesome. Otherwise what exactly is she getting out of being used as a fleshlight with no thought to her pleasure?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 03:24 PM
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And yet, despite their orgasm rate is higher than the one of het women, they still have fewer orgasm than men🥱 Lol men will always have the most orgasms. That's what their dicks are designed to do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:56 AM
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And this right here is why women don't enjoy ONS as often as men do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:50 AM
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Maybe a social experiment of some kind. Dumb either way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:25 AM
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That's all good for you and sounds impressive, which is why I find it surprising that you have to stoop low enough to use women that you find boring for some social credit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:41 PM
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What do you provide? Seems like you're more of a user than they are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:11 PM
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So who decided the treatment could wait until Monday if he was already admitted?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:04 PM
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That doesn't answer my original question. A nurse doesn't have the authority to check patients into the hospital and start treatments. If a doctor said the procedure could wait until Monday, that seems to be the problem. Of course there are lazy nurses but in general it's a pretty exhausting job even if a few can find time for TikTok dances
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:00 PM
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Did a nurse tell your dad that or did a doctor?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:37 PM
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So what are you using?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:51 PM
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So instead you keep telling others how they supposedly feel, even though I think just about every commenter has disagreed with your assessments. I wouldn't be surprised if you are aromantic given your responses
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:46 PM
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It's a massive echo chamber full of women venting/bitching about men. As a lesbian I had assumed that sub would've been cool to participate in since I'm also a woman, but that wasn't the case at all. Definitely a hive mind to stay away from
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:26 AM
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I have you tagged as 'fat fetishist' now, your posts are ridiculous 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:55 PM
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They said this in another comment, so don't expect any actual engagement with this user but i DONT want to find examples. i want someone to give me an example. that's what i asked in the first place. i dont know why you bothered responding to my question if you didnt want to answer it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:24 PM
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Please learn how to differentiate between usernames. I said none of that, I just linked tv tropes to show how widespread skimpy armor is in games. You are thinking of another user
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:46 PM
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You're the one who had the criteria, I was giving you a list of possible examples. No shit all of them aren't going to adhere to your specific need to have only women be scantily clad. But lemme throw you a bone--Soul Caliber, Scarlet Blade Beyond that, it's not my responsibility to baby-bird you answers. I have better ways to waste my time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:39 PM
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The list is pretty exhaustive so I doubt you were unable to find anything to fit your 'specific example'. A lot of games also have armor you can switch between, so while a female character might be able to have standard armor, she also has far more revealing options than her male counterpart
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:20 PM
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https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/ChainmailBikini Check under the video game tab
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:53 PM
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I have yet to hear the scientists address other known causes such as obesity among women and the clamoring epidemic. Not sure why this would be an issue in regards to casual sex. According to this very sub all a woman has to do is exist if they want casual sex, even the obese ones. I personally think it's because people are finding out casual sex is not as fun as they thought it'd be, along with people being less social in general
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:35 PM
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What is false about their statement? The only thing that's a bit of a caricature is the last quote about the insta model
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:19 PM
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You yourself said what he does to people is 'straight evil'. This is how you sound: "I have a friend who likes to kick dogs, but he said he won't kick my dog so he's cool with me. I also had to tell him not to kick my friends' dogs once or twice but generally I just let him do his thing." He purposefully hurts multiple people for the sake of getting his dick wet. That will backfire on him violently one day and he will fully deserve it. Maybe you'll be holding his hand when he's in the hospital (…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:51 PM
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Do you think he'd ever fuck your girlfriend if he thought he could get away with it? Would you ever feel comfortable introducing partnered people to him knowing he loves to implode relationships for fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:54 PM
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It says a lot about your character that even though you were fully aware of what a piece of shit your friend is, you still were with him because he was 'loyal' to you. I'm sure it's not hard to find bros to be friends with who aren't assholes. I wonder where you would draw the line personally
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:40 PM
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Exactly! People will say things like 'females will simp for bad boys, just look at all the love letters Ted Bundy got' as if it's something all women would do, when in actuality you have to be mentally unhealthy to fall in love with a murderer. If a woman is with willingly partnered with a piece of shit person, you dodged a bullet
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:26 AM
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I see you're a man with discerning taste
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:20 AM
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Name your top three anime women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:10 AM
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Then why did god put the male G-spot up there 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:58 AM
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Are you one of those people that just has a bare mattress in the corner of his room and calls it furnished? It's always crazy to me that some guys will claim they only furnish their living spaces because of sex/women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:31 PM
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Did you not read my second paragraph? You can learn if you're sexually compatible by building up to sex (makeouts, above the waist, oral sex, etc). In my opinion a virgin is better off ramping up those activities with someone to see if they gel, before they have sex for the first time. Going all-or-nothing on an early date with a stranger will lend itself to less sexual compatibility because there's less shared experiences leading up to the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:25 AM
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What am I lying about? We're disagreeing with each other but that doesn't mean I'm lying about anything. There are a good amount of experienced a virgin can share with a person before sex happens. Those experiences are a good indicator of sexual compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:09 AM
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Idc if you, specifically, are a virgin or not. The point still stands
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:04 AM
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You can still be sexually compatible with someone if you're a virgin. No need to count yourself out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:20 PM
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This literally just means she likes talking with you. She's a lesbian which means she has no romantic interest in you, so I'm not sure what this example has to do with anything Sure, but it is odd that if women find interactions with men so annoying (as men here claim) they often initiate them, and weirder when good looking girls do it, which should be less likely if they are bothered more by men. It's honestly not rocket science. Women are people, and people are not a hive mind. Some attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:54 PM
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You might honestly be onto some with with being trans widowed. If you can accept the fact that trans women are women (enough with the 'he' corrections), maybe you can get the best of both worlds. I'm not honestly sure how sex would work but you were really close to finding out! Too bad you didn't take the plunge, I imagine you were just shy of having a lightbulb moment
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:58 PM
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I don't see any hatred in the OP. She also said women can be the same way, including her past self
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:52 PM
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Honestly, dudes are SO MUCH MORE INTRESTING, yeah I thought about it, and even a female friend suggested it a while ago, but I'm like 110% heterosexual. How do you know for sure? Even I had sex with a guy to confirm that I am indeed a lesbian. If you genuinely think guys are cooler and more interesting, then maybe you're at least bisexual. It's worth exploring and gay sex seems pretty cool ngl I don't think I'm an exception to the rule thou. But why is that? A lot of this sounds like projecting …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:23 PM
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Serious question, have you ever considered men as a romantic option? To be so completely disinterested in the opposite sex is not normal heterosexual behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:56 PM
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Someone to hang out with, be affectionate with, experience life with. Sounds like you're the boring one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:53 PM
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If you had a great first relationship and ended things on good terms, would you have believed the majority of relationships are awesome and casual sex is for losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:49 PM
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Why do you think men are so worried about ending up in a sexless relationship? It’s because it’s the only thing we can’t do ourselves. And for men, sex is like air. When you have it it’s no big deal. When you don’t it’s all you can think about getting. Sounds like a sex addict's way of thinking. Sex is cool and all, but the vast majority of time you and your partner will just be hanging out with each other outside of the bedroom. It's a whole lot easier to do that if you actually like the person…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:23 PM
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I never claimed anything about those men having a chance. Except you did in the line I quoted from you: 'The guy usually has to put all effort after this, but it is refreshing they at least have a chance.' For example, I have a partnered lesbian neighbor that is hot and she tries to talk and initiate conversations with me for anything. If beautiful women don't want to be approached, why would beautiful women do this if they know that exposes themselves more to men? This literally just means she …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:16 PM
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It's definitely projection. Case in point: Besides that, when you are in a relationship with a woman that did not want casual sex with you, you will know that her FWB's were far more physically attractive to her than you will ever be. That sounds like what you went through, but you expanded it to everyone else whose in a relationship. Truly sorry you were in a shitty relationship, but that doesn't mean your opinion is a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 02:58 PM
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Most beautiful and cute women don't treat men bad at all. At worse they ignore men they are not interested in, most of the time they just keep a neutral conversation and only feed it if they feel interested. The guy usually has to put all effort after this, but it is refreshing they at least have a chance. This is the halo effect and nothing more. You don't have a chance with this girl just because she might be being polite towards you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 02:45 PM
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You know how I could tell you hadn't done drugs or understand addiction? Just about every point of yours is stated in ignorance and assumptions. The way "addiction" is dealt with as a "disease" is nonsensical. "Addiction" is not an actual problem in itself. No, it is an actual problem. Addiction can be genetic--alcohol addiction is about 50 percent heritable, while addiction to other drugs is as much as 70 percent heritable (source). Fentanyl is the most addictive drug ever. Detox is 5 days. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:10 PM
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Have you actually done drugs to come to these conclusions?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:59 PM
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Did you visit any other countries recently? Is so, was the atmosphere like there compared to the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:09 AM
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To me it's obviously a boundary. Once you get into a relationship you can't just do whatever you want when you want and should respect your partners wishes if they're reasonable. In this hypothetical relationship, was the woman wearing revealing clothing before/during you dating her? Would it be reasonable for her to want you to change your appearance once you've entered a relationship together? To me calling this controlling behavior is just a gaslight to suggest you're problematic for having b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:02 AM
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They might when the child is young and helpless. But that love can get more conditional as the child grows up. And still that's something different than romantically loving someone unconditionally
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:12 AM
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No one should love anyone unconditionally. If you want unconditional love, get a dog
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:17 PM
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Lol I knew this was posted by Jax without even looking. Jax, what is your experience like with women to come to all of your interesting conclusions? Have you been in any LTRs before?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:11 PM
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It's not necessarily "trapping" Then why use the words 'trapping' and 'entrapment'? If you don't want to get married, don't. Calling marriage before kids premediated entrapment is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:00 PM
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When's your audition for Naked and Afraid?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:32 AM
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Women: here's a study showing average/median number of sexual partners in a woman's lifetime Men: obviously the women lied in that study so they wouldn't look used up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:56 PM
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They could have made their own coalition of women who according to you, all shared the common idea of being these poor oppressed damsels who hated being married to their husbands and were RAPED and BEATEN daily. Are you blind? I literally said the opposite of this--'I also never said all women were unhappily married, I don't speak in absolutes because they are almost always incorrect.' If your reading comprehension is poor enough for you to make complete strawman arguments, I'm not sure why you …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:42 AM
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How exactly were women supposed to infiltrate politics if they couldn't even vote until 1920? And you are purposefully ignoring all the activism they conducted to get to that point.? I also never said all women were unhappily married, I don't speak in absolutes because they are almost always incorrect. It wasn't until the 1970s that marital rape was illegalized and divorce was less difficult to obtain--do you think it was just a coincidence that there was a rise in divorces initiated by women af…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:13 AM
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Who the hell would they complain to? Before the Married Women’s Property Acts were passed in 1848, married women had virtually no legal rights—to own property, acquire financial assets, or even form binding contracts. Such severe consequences made the practice of divorce utterly unfeasible for women. It wasn't until the 1970s that no fault divorces came around, before that a spouse had to be at fault in order for a divorce to be granted. By this, I mean that the filing spouse needed a legitimate…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:42 AM
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Modern people are more vocally miserable. We have tech that keeps us more interconnected than ever before along with a society that doesn't shame mental health as heavily as in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:05 PM
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And I don't think your original statement was factual. Did you have a source for most joint custodies being every other weekend for the father?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:13 AM
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Of those 2,100, 92 percent either received full or joint custody, with mothers receiving full custody only 7 percent of the time. You're moving the goalposts quite a bit from 'men stand very little chance in custody battles unless the women is a complete heroin addict or in jail'
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:00 AM
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Myth: Fathers Almost Never Get Custody: It depends on the applicable definition of “never,” but generally, this is untrue. The most recent available Census statistics show that fathers represent around one in five custodial parents—an improvement over the 16 percent of custodial parents reported in 1994. However, studies indicate that dads simply do not ask for custody as often as mothers do, and courts generally do not award what is not asked for in that regard. A Massachusetts study examined 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:33 AM
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Because guys will use terms like 'used up' and 'ran through' if the n-count is higher than they want it to be
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:29 AM
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Have you ever thought that the vast majority of women don't care what passport bros do? You're seeing negative videos since the women bothered by passport bros are the only ones who care enough to make content on the topic. The angriest people are usually the most vocal, but they don't speak for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:31 AM
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How are you coming to this conclusion on how women feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:52 AM
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Are we really doing the oppression olympics on this topic? Cheating sucks for the person who was cheated on regardless of their gender
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:44 AM
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Convenient that you think statistics are lying. Any proof or are you just talking out of your ass? It's also been established that Gen Z is less interested in sex than previous generations, so I won't be surprised if average n-counts eventually lessens as well. The hoes of both genders are the most visible, but for every person engaging in casual sex there are many more who aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:11 PM
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It will counteract modernity, women will adjust and make better choices about who they let hit Unwanted pregnancies will still occur, and you can bet that in the extremely pro life states, contraception and sex-ed will be in short supply, causing even more unwanted pregnancies. And abortions will keep happening. Even in Ceaucescu-era Romania which had some of the strictest laws on abortion, women sought them out despite the danger. culture will re-establish "shotgun" marriages Why is this a good…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:24 PM
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Will you be going abroad then, or do you literally believe AWALT? And are you saying you're in support of women not being able to seek abortions? I'm not really seeing how that will change society for the better. Women will either still get (more dangerous) abortions or raise kids they don't want and probably can't afford. How does that improve upon anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:08 PM
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Will you be going abroad then, or do you literally believe AWALT?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:05 PM
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Enough for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:40 PM
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Go look at the average amount of sexual partners people have over their lifetime (usually it's between 4-8 partners). This fantasy of Chads and women have sex with different people every weekend is a fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:28 PM
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How is the mindset the same for women with conventional mindsets? OP is talking out of his ass
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:22 PM
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Sure but Chad isn't a sex worker so they're two different situations
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:10 AM
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Sounds like an awesome itinerary! Though I will say Vietnam, Phillippines, and Thailand have a lot of beautiful and relaxing places. There are tourist/nightlife strips but the vast majority of the country isn't like that. Have fun and hope it all works out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:21 PM
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Yeah, I have no idea what to expect. I'm not expecting it to be all roses and adventures, and I figure it will be especially challenging to maintain focus on work for 5-8 hours a day while yards away from a beautiful sunset, but I'm willing to try. What other countries would you want to visit? And yeah, I definitely wouldn't have the discipline for the digital nomad lifestyle. The good thing is most jobs are less than 8 hours of real work so you'll have lots of time to do fun things
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:49 PM
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You focus on the 1 video and ignore the other 2 showing a clearly insane nonstop block party. I watched the other videos and did not see any insane nonstop block parties. It looked like the same stretch of road that's known for its nightlife and tourism. Maybe I'm just used to living in big cities but it didn't seem like it was popping off imo Apparently, a woman using easy pussy to fuck a drunk guy out of her league is totally A-OK and beyond judgment but a man using his money and status to fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:05 PM
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Lol nobody said it was gonna be all pretty. You're the one who linked a video of bored prostitutes milling around and said that it's what western men are missing out on. Maybe sell the experience better And I fail how this differs from some drunk Chad lingering at the bar at 1:50am waiting for that deluded 4 out of 10 to come up and offer to go home with him. I fail to see how those situations are the same at all. One involves sex workers and the other does not Do you have any plans to visit Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:53 PM
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My favorite is the third video that shows a bunch of bored prostitutes standing around. Wow, looks like a great time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:53 PM
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Fascinating. Maybe it takes more than a few decades of equality to make up for literally the entirety of human history. And it will probably never be a 50/50 male-female split in STEM fields, but at least now the women who want to go into those fields can
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:56 PM
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So again, were you a blank slate before you discovered what sex was?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:09 AM
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Women do not need to develop interesting or charming personalities in order to attract men. Yeah, they tend to develop them independently of that because they are people. Are you telling me that you were a blank slate before puberty hit you? That asexual people are the most boring people in the world? That, if you didn't have to court women, you wouldn't be capable of developing an interesting and charming personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:20 AM
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Do you want to make a woman's head explode? Ask her how she could keep her boyfriend if her vital sexual organ was broken for 6 months? Women already know the punchline for this--A woman is six times more likely to be separated or divorced soon after a diagnosis of cancer or multiple sclerosis than if a man in the relationship is the patient (source)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:16 AM
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Example, Infrastructure buildings, Engineering, Mathematics, Technological innovations. Weird how those are all fields that women were barred from learning about/working in until relatively recent in human history. Must be a coincidence
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:13 AM
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It must be tough to be simultaneously revolted and attracted to women. And sexuality isn't a choice per se, but most people are probably more fluid than they realize
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:56 AM
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points to flair yeah I am actually gay which is why I asked. Never said you were gay, but being disgusted by women is a pretty good indicator that you're not attracted to them. And if it's only the sex that's keeping you hooked, gay/bi men apparently have better sex than heteros, and it doesn't seem like you are revolted by men like you are with women. But have fun doing...whatever it is you're doing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:09 AM
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Serious question--would you ever have sex with a man? If you're using the word 'revolting' to describe the opposite sex, maybe that's something you should look into
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:40 AM
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Those men get in shitty relationships because their only standard is someone who'll have sex with them. And then they complain that all women are bitches, gold diggers, etc 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:39 AM
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Cool fictional anecdote
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:48 PM
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You say that as if women can control when they get hit on. Sometimes the 'situations' they put themselves in include walking down the street, taking public transport, minding their own business etc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:23 PM
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Women want relationships after they’re ran through. Complains that he can't find dates. Calls women 'ran through'. Huh, weird coincidence Most women in their 20’s sleep around and don’t think it’s bad. Literally watch all the red pill podcasts. The women they bring on all sleep around Yeah no shit, that's confirmation bias. Why would they bring other women onto their podcasts if it would challenge their worldview? If you think women on those podcasts speak for all women, you are sorely mistaken
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:05 PM
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Do you think your ancestors had easier access to casual sex than you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:46 AM
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Can you elaborate on the 'known feminist hellhole' bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:11 AM
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No one should take this sub too seriously, it is not a microcosm of western dating/relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:11 AM
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https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/statistics/bipolar-disorder#:~:text=An%20estimated%204.4%25%20of%20U.S.,some%20time%20in%20their%20lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:50 PM
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Because it's easier to oppress those beneath you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:25 PM
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All throughout human history, every major religion has sought to control female sexuality. Now, if women disliked fucking why would men feel the need to go through so much trouble to control their sexuality? Wouldn't they just control themselves and not fuck? Because men were in a position to oppress women, so that's what they did. Historically men have blamed women for their dicks getting hard and have sought to punish women because of it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:07 PM
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Are people forgetting that COVID locked most people in their houses for two years? Of course there would be an increase in OLD during that time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:02 PM
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'countless men' 'many women'. Do you have any kind of proof to backup your claims that there is an epidemic of these women in the dating scene? How did you come to that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:48 AM
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True, though I'll say her path isn't unusual outside of being on onlyfans
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:40 AM
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The article says she wasn't interested in law and only doing it because her parents wanted that. So I don't think she'll be going back
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:36 AM
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Go back to what? It sounds like she isn't interested in being a lawyer and since she's using a fake name for her OF, it's statistically unlikely she would be barred from other jobs because of her OF experience. Plus if she's making $75k per month for even a few more months, all she has to do is invest it responsibly and continue to make bank. Hell, she can take a part time job at McDonalds and still be comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:00 PM
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Did you approach her and then not leave when she asked (if she did ask)?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:39 PM
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If nothing else, she's taking a break from the typical 9-5 jobs and enjoying it while it lasts. Nothing lasts forever so you might as well make bank in an easy way while you can
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:25 PM
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I mean sure. What point are you trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:15 PM
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And she seems smart enough to know that she can make more money for less effort while she's hot. I don't see any issues
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:56 PM
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Lawyers are a statistically unhappy group, and you can bet she's making more money with less stress
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:46 PM
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It's up to the victim if they want to forgive their attacker. Anyone else can think that person's a piece of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 10:18 PM
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Why would I want your level of insecurity in a long term partner? What else do you force your women to give up or change?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:42 AM
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The vast majority of women are not using social media as thirst traps or as influencers/models. The vice grip of control you want over another person is worrying
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:32 AM
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Depends on what you mean by "consequences, I linked this thread in a different post. There are of course women who love to play the victim but from what I've seen online and heard from women irl thats usually not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:13 AM
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I mean that story sucks and she should've gotten more punishment, but I was talking about stories of men getting rejected by women and retaliating. That sounds like it was a couples argument that went bad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:26 PM
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I never said the quote about nice guys, someone else in this thread did. But I'm done talking with you, clearly you have a lot of issues with rejection and are getting too emotional to discuss the topic *Here's a thread on women's experiences with turning guys down and them not taking it well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:24 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:45 AM
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Claims I'm taking something out on an entire gender. Uses isolated cases of criminal "men raping and murdering" as a result of rejection a because from stories on the internet and true crime shows as a reason to treat all men with suspicion. That's what I'm telling you, these cases aren't isolated. Ask any woman you know if they ever experienced consequences for turning a man down. If you don't know any women, post that question in r/AskReddit and see what you get. The 'isolated cases of crimina…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:38 AM
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I'll be interested in around what iPad kids are like when they grow up. At the very least I'm sure their attention spans will be wrecked
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:31 AM
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I'm interested to find out more info on this study, I'd be curious to see what their methodology was. Do you have a title or link?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:58 AM
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Cold approaches were already a risky bet for guys, but I think COVID made them even less successful. We had about two years of wearing masks and/or limiting social contact. Things like striking up conversations with random people while out and about became extinct overnight
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:49 AM
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It's absolutely laughable to say modern women in the US are "nice" with their rejections. They are more brutal and often gratuitously cruel now than they've ever been. They aren't "scared" of shit, unless the guy appears incredibly aggro or unhinged. Women have shared enough of their own experiences and news stories of women who rejected men getting injured/raped/killed/stalked by the man in question. Aren't men always talking about how they're so much stronger than women? Women are consciously …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:32 AM
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Would you accept US Treasury bonds?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:17 AM
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Go ahead and do a tally of the responses, the vast majority of them are saying that women do/should put in effort. A few of the comments that say 'nothing' or 'look pretty' are also from men's accounts. There are some women saying they don't need to put in effort, but claiming that most of the comments are saying that is blatantly false
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:47 PM
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Sounds very "general" Yeah, so was the phrase 'your choices lead to your situations'. I answered with another generality ... I'm beginning to think you post in bad faith. I don't post in bad faith, you're just not giving me a lot to discuss with you. Clearly this dialogue is going nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:36 AM
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Sure, but not always. Random and unfair shit happens to everyone, with differing levels of severity
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:18 AM
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Those are some fun scenarios you've concocted there, but most rapes happen between the victim and someone they know, not random bikers or thugs. It's a bit more complicated than simply 'making better choices'
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:07 AM
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I didn't "move the goalposts", you didn't read what was said. I asked what social activities young adult women are doing in mixed gendered settings. Given the context that this is a dating subreddit, the question being asked is incredibly clear. This whole discussion started when you responded to my comment: Me: Women do a whole lot of things other than going clubbing. You: Yeah, when they turn 50 they go to knitting classes and book clubs, good point. Since then we have branched off in differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:24 AM
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Gen-Z is notoriously risk averse compared to previous generations, as well as being more plugged into technology. That combinations is making people scared to interact with others irl. COVID also set back a good chunk of their socialization skills
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:41 AM
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It's always the Madonna-Whore complex with these guys 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:38 AM
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You were the one who asked: What social activities or hobbies do you honestly think young adult women are doing in mixed gender settings besides clubbing or related things? You come on now. And then when I answered you moved the goalposts to say: ALMOST NONE OF THOSE ACTIVITIES ARE CONDUCTIVE FOR NEW PEOPLE TO APPROACH YOU. Well boo-fucking-hoo! How exactly did your parents meet? How do you think men and women were meeting before OLD? Because it will be exclusively with other women where there i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:26 AM
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Maybe with other women. Or it's in their own homes, not public spaces. Not sure why you said with other women. People tend to do social activities with friends after all What social activities or hobbies do you honestly think young adult women are doing in mixed gender settings besides clubbing or related things? You come on now. They might be hiking, playing in rec leagues, exercising, hanging out in parks, shopping, getting food, watching movies, going to concerts, museums, art galleries, dog …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:00 AM
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How is a guy supposed to prove to you that he's serious? And sometimes even if a man jumps through all the hoops and promises he's sincere, he'll still pump and dump
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:50 PM
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That's not reality. Have you really not seen young women partaking in any kind of hobby or activity in a non-club environment? Come on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:49 PM
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What is your definition of a bad boy here? And don't pretend like the average, socially awkward nice guys are all saints
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:29 PM
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How does one pick better if the men are lying to them about wanting a serious relationship just to get them in bed? Are you supposed to make them do a lie detector test before going out with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:27 PM
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For someone who claims to have no interest in women, you've sure made a lot of discussion threads on them 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:26 PM
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Women do a whole lot of things other than going clubbing. Are you in college by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:38 PM
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Many women on OLD tend to be more demanding and entitled than women irl. They're that way because the apps are majority men (Tinder is around 78% men), so someone out there will do whatever the woman wants. OLD is a shitty way for men to date unless they're attractive and/or very lucky. OLD is not real life. It's a way to put in the minimal amount of effort (a few pics, a few swipes), usually with a minimum amount of success in return
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:19 PM
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Women can't really convey a good reason for giving it up for free while making others wait -- they just can't. Why do they need to have a good reason? Sometimes you just don't want to have sex with someone. Not sure why guys think a promiscuous woman has to fuck every guy she goes on a date with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:03 PM
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For the third time, how do you know the women on here are not practicing what they preach? Do you happen to know these women irl and can confirm that they are indeed lying? Seems a lot more likely that you are projecting your simplistic view of women onto other people to better confirm your own biases
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:05 PM
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In his OP he said that most answers are 'nothing, be pretty, have sex (maybe)' when that is not what most answers are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:02 PM
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I wouldn't say OP is wrong overall as there are women who don't pull their weight in the courting process. But his assumption that it's the vast majority of women is incorrect. There are some women here saying that they think showing up is enough, which is all the OP is focuses on since it confirms his bias
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:11 PM
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In your myopic view of women, those are the only two options. You are starting from a biased perspective. Why is it so hard to believe that women are not being dishonest? You still have no proof of that other than your own feelings. Aren't you supposed to be the more rational gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:52 PM
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It's not a bad analogy since you said 'why should someone support something that only costs them'. Things like taxes do just that and yet you aren't complaining about that. The 80-20 rule is from one OkCupid survey and is not an accurate representation of what's going on in hookup culture. I also asked how hookup culture costs you personally
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:48 PM
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What is hookup culture costing you personally? Are you also the type of person who doesn't think their taxes should go towards schools they don't attend or roads they don't use?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:15 PM
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You're right, it's not just bitter virgins. It's also bitter non-virgins who think they should be able to get easy sex since hookup culture is a thing. Of course people have other reasons for not liking hookup culture, but in this discussion it's mainly people who only hate it because they are denied access to it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:04 PM
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Not trying to invalidate your experience, but how does that correlate with what I said? Yeah of course there are shitty judgmental women out there, idk what you want me to say to that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:46 PM
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They are two disparate things, I truly don't understand how you're trying to connect them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:44 PM
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How exactly do you know women are 'repackaging their feelings'? What proof do you have of that? And anyone can be shamed for their opinions if they make them public. No one said all opinions should be cheered and celebrated
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:43 PM
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You don't think rape is a sensitive topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:28 PM
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meanwhile on the day to day the message is "men can't be raped, if a man gets SA'd he should thankful he got some action yada yada" Men are usually the ones saying that, not women. Go look at any thread on reddit about a teacher sexually assaulting/raping a male student. Most of the guys in the comments say shit like 'oh I wish my teacher wanted to have sex with me' or 'lucky guy'
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:28 PM
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You can be a virgin man and not agree with the OP's post (which reads as very bitter). I understand that being a virgin past a certain age can cause insecurity, I lost it late myself. However saying that you don't support sex positivity or hookup culture simply because you can't get sex is a turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:11 PM
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Right, because being allowed to vote is the exact same thing as getting sex when you want it 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:06 PM
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Kinda sad that the main thing you took away from her insightful post was 'See fellas, we have to lie or else we'll be called out on our shit'
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:47 PM
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Are you reading the comments? Plenty of women here are saying how they put effort into dates. Sure, not all of them but that's life. It seems we're talking over each other which isn't helping anything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:26 PM
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Literally the majority of women in this post are saying that effort shouldn't be 100% on the men, and even then the men are scoffing at them. If a woman disproves one of their biases, they instantly assume the woman is lying rather than have their worldview challenged
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:42 AM
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It helps if you don't refer to them as females
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:48 AM
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I love how women on this subreddit think if they did something different then that must mean all women do it, right? The women here are sharing their perspective on sex and dating, and it sounds like more of them are having sex/dating success compared to the male posters here. Just about all the women here are saying that men shouldn't be putting in 100% of the time/money/effort while women just sit there and look pretty. They are saying that effort should come from both sides, and to dump the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:47 AM
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There's no context to the video so all we can do is speculate. Maybe the thinner woman asked her friend to stop her from talking with anyone. Maybe it's a skit. Maybe the friend is drunk af. Who knows. And really, who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:46 PM
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Everyone has a different opinion on what a 'low value' person is, but I think some women get argumentative because of the terminology used. It's one thing to have a preference but it's another to call someone run through or used up, which is clearly supposed to be an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:43 PM
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They aren't on PPD, all of the women here seem to be run through So which is it? Are there no trad women in 2023, or just none on PPD? Because those are two very different comments
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:11 PM
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You're right, out of billions of women on the planet, not a single one is traditional /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 10:59 PM
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Sounds like a trad woman's view of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 10:37 PM
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For you, cooking alone wouldn't equal reciprocation. Hell, I'd be excited af if I was dating a good cook and she was making things for me. You just have a different criteria for what you consider reciprocation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:39 PM
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The poster specifically said that the cooking-as-reciprocation worked for her and her partner. Obviously it wouldn't work for you so I hope no one ever cooks you food since it's not something you would care about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:12 PM
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I think both sexes should raise their standards to what they want and compromise in a healthy mannner. Women can bitch about it if they want, but if men hold firm they'll probably end up happier than their pre-standard selves
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:14 AM
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Men are welcome to raise their standards if they don't want to be with deadbeat girl. Maybe they can learn that being single is better than being with a scumbag
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:08 PM
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You're saying most girls are deadbeats? You've lost me there
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:02 PM
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Cool? There's tons of deadbeat guys in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:25 PM
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Roman culture during wartime? Greek and Minoan culture(they worshipped women exclusively)? Abraham and his descendants? The Babylonians and Assyrians? ? Just handwaving thousands of years of history and saying, "See!" is not a source. What sources do you have that have information on the actual labor done by the poor-to-averagw women? The responsibilities of your average princess(none)? Yeah no shit, royalty was different. Yet both 'weak' princes and princesses were treated the same (either put …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:41 AM
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And weak/disabled/diseased women were able to carry out tasks in the home, because tasks in the home are easier to carry out physically? That is my evidence. What actual evidence do you have for this? Any links to the history books or research papers on this subject?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:19 AM
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Women vote more than men so the abortion thing is their responsibility. This is one of the dumbest things I've heard in this sub, which is really saying something. Women by and large are voting for pro-choice representatives, but are powerless against gerrymandering and supreme court decisions. And according to your logic, maybe men should vote more since abortion (and the lack thereof) effects them almost as much as women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:46 AM
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Probably true to a degree. Being really, really ridiculously good looking has advantages
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:10 AM
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I’ve literally never seen or heard of an upper class woman date or marry a lower middle class or working class man. We're in the middle of a paradigm shift, because until pretty recently in history women are now earning just as much or more than men. Just as stay at home dads are rare but increasing, so might the rate of men marrying wealthier women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:54 AM
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Have you seen the average male dating profile? Their pics are usually trash--selfies in their messy rooms or in their car, and/or poor lighting, meh clothing etc. It not necessarily that the guys are unattractive irl, but they don't know how to advertise themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:27 AM
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I'm just responding to the twisted assertion that I'm seeing throughout this thread that since men propose, they're the ones that want marriage, as if most marriages don't happen purely to placate a woman's feverish desire for it. Where's your proof that most marriages happen to placate women? And that 'twisted assertation' is how marriage should be. A man should only propose to someone if he wants it for himself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:44 PM
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If a man doesn't want to marry a woman, he doesn't have to. There is no 'forcing' someone. If marriage is such a fissure between you and the woman, then maybe you shouldn't be together instead of feeling like you're being forced into it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:41 PM
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Lol if the woman is that annoying to you, why marry her in the first place? Seems a bit weak willed to give into that nagging and complaining and badgering
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:36 PM
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That just isn't the case, outrage bait is all the rage nowadays. Which is why subreddits like AmItheAsshole and TwoX thrive on negativity. Whatever is most audacious rises to the top
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:09 AM
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At this point it's pure tradition that men have to do all the chasing. There's an accurate meme in the lesbian community that gay women never approach each other because everyone hates making the first move. Women, even gay ones, are not conditioned to put themselves out there and take charge of the courting process
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:07 AM
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I think it causes men to feel insecure unless they can consider themselves an alpha/Chad. In their minds, literally any woman who gets with them is settling and just waiting to hop to a better guy. Of course that's unhealthy!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:51 PM
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It's an incredibly hateful sub. I wandered over there thinking it'd be a nice place to see what other women are up to, and all I see are women being vitriolic towards men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:31 PM
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But is that behavior looked upon favourably by women post-graduation?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:53 AM
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I think an important factor is the sobriety of your partner. If you were a 9/10 drunk and they were something like a 2/10, they should be able to see that you're too drunk to know what you're doing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:12 PM
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There are also a lot of posts not saying that and implicitly agreeing that hypergamy applies to all women. If you require an exact phrase, here's a random comment from a different thread Correction, every woman IS hypergamous. But that doesn’t mean she’ll cheat on her guy every time she sees a more attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:39 PM
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Honestly haven't met any that I know of, so I couldn't tell you. Maybe it's just my demographics and some luck, but the queer women I know are pretty chill and nature/science loving individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:57 AM
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Here's a thread, go nuts. For more, just search the sub using the word hypergamy or hypergamous. It's not hard
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:42 AM
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And I don't take anything you say personally. Points at flair I'm just here for a good time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:18 AM
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Lol of course it's you making this claim. About 99% of your comments is bitching about women. Here's a couple recent highlights: Because women are fundamentally broken. Their singular ability to produce progeny means they are privileged from birth and thus have not evolved, because they’ve never needed to, from year 1. ... Emotional volatility. Is there anything more emotionally volatile than a person who becomes unhinged a few days each month like clockwork? Controlling nature. Is there anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:01 AM
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The broad consensus among men here is that since hypergamy is allegedly tied back to biology, 'all women' are hypergamous. Feel free to look at posts/comments about it and see for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:55 AM
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Wow, something men in this sub also do all the time 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:54 AM
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Can you give a singular example of a man on PPD claiming that literally all women think or act a certain way? Hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:42 AM
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The average woman has about 4 sexual partners in her lifetime, you're making up a complete fantasy to resent women even more
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:08 PM
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Why would I take an advice from people who are completely different from me? Would you take advice from straight men on how to dress? I'm sure you'll be triggered by the thought of it There's really not as many differences between straight and gay men as you seem to think. And no, I wouldn't be triggered (lol) by anyone giving me advice on how to dress We know about well fitting and decent grooming lol. Ffs, Does this sub assume every straight guy is an incel Or only gays wear decent clothes and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:09 AM
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Taking fashion advice from a gay man doesn't mean you'll 'look gay', which is what you said. I don't have an interest in the show, but Queer Eye for the Straight Guy offers good advice on how straight men can dress better. Well fitting clothes and decent grooming can make a huge difference in appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:26 AM
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Does gay = well-groomed with nice fitting clothes? Come on, there's a difference between a drag queen and a decently put together man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:19 AM
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I agree with you, both genders are definitely cherry picking which modern and traditional values they want in their dating/married life. Traditions are hard to break and 'modern' dating has only been around for the past few decades, so just about everyone has a different idea of what dating should look like and which values to live by
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:58 PM
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The vast majority of women do not have dozens of partners. If that's something you're worried about, avoid promiscuous women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:12 AM
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What stopped him from getting a vasectomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:19 AM
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So would you appreciate seeing your girl in new sexy underwear or not?? Men are visual, seeing a woman they're attracted to look sexier than usual is a turn on. If you want to be constipated about that, your loss
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:09 PM
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It can be a special event when it's on Valentine's day, your birthday, an anniversary etc. Hence putting a little more effort into it. Still confused as to why this is an issue. If your girl got some special panties to wear for you on your birthday, would you be telling her that she should be at the gym instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:04 PM
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So you never put any extra effort into looking good for special events? This is the first time I've heard someone be upset that a woman tried to look good for her man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:36 PM
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How about you try planting your own crops and see how you fare
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:25 AM
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People get corrupted by power, even if they were communist in origin
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:23 AM
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The USSR and communist China were responsible for some of the largest famines in modern history...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:22 AM
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Maybe those women are happy because they're taking antidepressants. With things like a higher suicide rate and the 'epidemic of lonely men', more guys should probably be taking them too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:00 PM
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Shamed by who? And it's not like anyone is forced to disclose that they're on them. I'm supportive of anyone who is trying to heal from their depression, because it can be a very hard thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:13 PM
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I don't understand why the antidepressant statistic is always brought up as a negative. Doesn't that mean women are trying to be less depressed? Just because men don't take as many antidepressants doesn't mean they're happier in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:56 PM
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No one's been triggered, only confused as to why your fictional account of a stranger's life warranted this post
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:43 AM
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The way that she is secretive about her sex life, she hides this guy away, tries to keep the relationship illegitimate, and loses interest when the relationship becomes legitimate. All of these are massive assumptions. OP doesn't even speak with this woman so literally the entire post is worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:00 AM
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So you saw two people speaking with each other and immediately assumed they were having a secret FWB relationship? Why, because she didn't disclose her relationships with you personally? And it doesn't matter what's on her insta--social media is only part of someone's life, there's no reason to put every single thing you do on it, sounds like she's using it in a reasonable manner. I fail to see what about this situation was so fascinating that you had to make a post about it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:58 AM
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If you're in it for you, then I repeat: go live on your own away from society. That way you don't have to contribute anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:42 AM
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Uh, because you live and participate in a society? Go live by yourself without assistance and see how far you get
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:29 AM
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Do you have any kind of historical precedence for the society you envision? Because from what I can tell it would look like a cesspool
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:21 AM
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You do realize that most children grow up to be useful members of society, right? It's incredibly short sighted to say 'nah let them starve' just because their parents are struggling to afford them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:06 AM
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Who is celebrating those women irl? I haven't seen that at all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:43 AM
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They also wake up every 2-3 hours to eat. New parents are chronically sleep deprived for at least the first year or two
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:12 PM
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Also, women can get together with some rich new partner and she will still be collecting a ton of money from the other man. Oh please, this sub is always saying that single mothers make for the most undesirable dating prospects. Only a tiny fraction would be fortunate enough to get a rich partner after their divorce, and those women are probably already better off than most single moms
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:44 AM
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What a shock, guys who are successful broadcast that success. Of course no one that failed at getting laid overseas is going to make a video about it, why would they?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:51 AM
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TikTok and YouTube are what you make of it. I don't have a single video of what you mentioned because I'm not searching that content out. Once you do that, those sites keep giving you more of that same content. How many views do these videos tend to have?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:53 AM
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Why would they be bitter or jealous? Those women don't want them in any romantic capacity. There is nothing to be jealous or bitter about. Wake me up when Chads go abroad in mass and maybe then you'll actually be into something
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:36 AM
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What am I not practicing? I'm not judging passport bros, I'm not giving a shit. Which is what I'm sharing in your discussion post because you assume western women are bitter or jealous if they disapprove. I'm here to say they don't give a shit unless you're harming someone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:34 AM
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Why do you give a shit about what other people think about it, especially women who you're not even interested in? Stop acting so defensive, truly no one cares what you do unless you're actually harming people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:09 AM
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What experience do you have with passport bros who actually go overseas rather than just talk about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:58 AM
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Then why title your post about how women think passport bros are creepy only because those women are jealous or bitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:57 AM
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I didn't say she was being supportive, I said she was sarcastic and exasperated. Unless you only see things in black and white, there is a gulf between 'attacked' and 'supported'
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:47 AM
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I'm still not seeing an 'attack'. That's sarcasm and exasperation, telling someone to 'go' isn't an attack or insult
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:54 AM
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How is any of that a personal attack?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:44 AM
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Lol and what do you contribute to society besides your PPD comments? Come on, tell me about how you volunteer at soup kitchens and homeless shelters during your free time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:42 AM
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Yeah, how dare she enjoy her life! What are you doing that's so important in your off time, saving humanity?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:52 PM
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Men do their part of the social contract but don't get anything for it What kind of things should men get for doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:16 AM
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I would imagine a good portion of those cases are ones where the man didn't want the kid from the start, so I'd put the responsibility of the kid entirely on the woman. Ehh that could be conjecture either way, there are probably a myriad of situations that results in single mothers. I think the best idea would be to be for men, if they don't want anything to do with the child, to sign away their parental rights while a woman is pregnant. Otherwise children must be cared for once they are born, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:26 PM
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Women should abort if they know they can't afford a child and the man is not really committed ti raising it. Obvious exceptions include if the man said he would support the child and backed out or passed away or something. The 'obvious exception' is the main reason single mothers exist, not women refusing to have abortions. Nearly half of the children in the US will see their parents divorce, with mothers usually taking custody of the children
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:14 PM
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Comparing paying taxes to slavery is outright laughable. I'm sorry you think it's so unfair, but that is how society functions. And also, it is possible to live off the grid. Just because you don't have the balls or aptitude to do it doesn't make it impossible. Americans also pay less in taxes than just about any other developed country, so it's not like you'll suddenly be light in taxes if you revoke your citizenship and move away. Maybe just accept that life sucks and taxes are inevitable if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:42 PM
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You can renounce your citizenship but then you'll become stateless. And it's still possible to be off the grid if you want to, but I'm sure you'd come crawling back the moment you are mildly inconvenienced. There are only two things certain in life, death and taxes. Get used to it because they exist in every country
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:27 PM
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BTW, this happened in the Soviet Union. People stopped working because they got food anyway, so then no one had food because no one worked and finally slave labor was reintroduced Do you have any sources on that? The Soviet union was constantly plagued with food shortages and famine, and I haven't heard of any people not working because they had free food
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:00 PM
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Go live in a cave if you don't want to contribute to society. The vast majority of people who pay taxes will never benefit from all of them, but bitching about it is so grade school libertarian
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:13 PM
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No one would call Joseph a stepdummy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:11 PM
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Some 44% of non-parents ages 18 to 49 say it is not too or not at all likely that they will have children someday, an increase of 7 percentage points from the 37% who said the same in a 2018 survey A majority (56%) of non-parents younger than 50 who say it’s unlikely they will have children someday say they just don’t want to have kids. Childless adults younger than 40 are more likely to say this than those ages 40 to 49 (60% vs. 46%, respectively). There are no differences by gender. Source
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:00 PM
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It's a quote from Conan. Educate yourself with some good cinema
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:46 PM
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What facts and logic are you talking about? What both of us are doing is called conjecture. If this Heidi story is even real, all we're doing is theorizing about this woman's life based on a couple encounter OP had with her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:45 PM
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OP has literally no way of knowing what her life was like outside of the snippets he saw
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:26 PM
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What stats are you looking at, the ones I've seen say they do. Example: Heterosexual men were most likely to say they usually-always orgasmed when sexually intimate (95%), followed by gay men (89%), bisexual men (88%), lesbian women (86%), bisexual women (66%), and heterosexual women (65%). I'm less familiar with lesbian bed death, but it seems like the sex is at least good when it's being had
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:14 AM
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What pleasure is better than great sex? To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and to hear the lamentations of their women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:17 AM
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What were guys like who proposed to her? Would you say that they would've been a good match for her? I think if you are such a bombshell that you're getting proposed to by anyone with a pair of eyes and balls, you would be holding out for someone special
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:08 AM
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It doesn't take much effort to sit there and rub and lick Apparently it does, otherwise men would be doing it to women more often. Most women probably just don't like penetration and their sexuality is very loose So many assumptions. Not sure what 'loose sexuality' has to do with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:49 AM
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When women say prefer lesbian sex, it basically means they want to get masturbated No, it means they want to have orgasms. The vast majority of people want to orgasm when they have sex, that's a big part of the attraction to it. The fact that lesbians have the most orgasms means they seem to be doing that part successfully
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:52 AM
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mutual masturbation ≠ masturbation. Unless you think sex is the same as masturbation?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:39 AM
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Lesbians get the most orgasms though so it doesn't really matter what you call it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:16 AM
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Women have done hard labor though out history. Yes, lower class women have, which is what I said in my original post. Pale skin used to be seen as a sign of social status and class, as upper class people didn't need to perform menial labor that would take them outside into the sun
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:25 PM
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Young women are just somewhat more spoiled more often because of men’s standards just being “an attractive girl” with no actual accomplishments or personality. Let’s talk about that. Sounds like the patriarchy at work. Men have told women for centuries that their place is at home, with the children, and to not worry themselves with strenuous labor (unless they were lower class women, who had to both work and take care of children)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:11 PM
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Right, which is the point I was trying to make in my first comment. Glad we agree
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:35 PM
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I don't think anyone was calling anyone else hypocritical. I was responding to the first comment that said: Institutional gender equality has been achieved in the US. There is no need to be a feminist in the US. Go to Saudi Arabia or the Congo if you feel the need to fight for gender equality. This ladies need your help. When we just had the biggest rollback on a woman's issue in recent history (Roe vs Wade)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:00 PM
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I mean yeah, I agree with that. If a father wants to sign away his rights, he legally shouldn't have to care for his child. My issue is with women being forced to keep a baby because they don't have access to abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:58 PM
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Reproductive rights is perhaps the one area where things will be inherently unequal as only women can get pregnant and give birth. Until men can do that, it doesn't make much sense for men to complain about rights that don't effect their bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:17 PM
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Were you sleeping when Roe vs Wade was overturned?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:03 AM
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There are no such thing as subjugation of men happening when it comes to 'dating, socially, income'. Nor do I see any laws that protect women from homelessness or difficult labor jobs. Child support is a necessary evil--the money is meant to go to the child, who you helped bring into the world. Of all you listed, only alimony is debatable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 08:41 PM
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So are they trying to codify these into laws? The above questions I asked were all what happened when men placed women in roles of subservience. I don't see the same thing happening to modern men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 08:36 PM
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What does subservience look like to you? Are men barred from voting? Barred from holding certain jobs? Barred from having certain medical procedures or owning a business unless they have a women permitting them to do so? Barred from receiving an education?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 08:22 PM
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No woman is barred from any of these positions. Answering from an American perspective: Reagan signed the Women's Business Ownership Act into law in 1988, creating government support for women business owners and eliminating the requirement of male co-signers on loans for female entrepreneurs. That means that until 1988 women were not trusted to run a business unless they had support from men. Historically, women were considered inferior to many men and considered good for carrying out chores an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 08:16 PM
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When did they say that line? You are the only one without nuance whenever your views are challenged
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:51 PM
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Idk kid, it sounds like a pipe dream to me. All I can hope for is that you finish quickly if you ever manage to get another person to sleep with you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:47 AM
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So you want to fly overseas and spend around 4k just to pump and dump? Masturbation is free my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:18 AM
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Can this please be a new copypasta 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:56 AM
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You choose to live there despite there being places with larger lgbt populations My state is on the high side when it comes to their LGBT population so unless I move to California or DC I can't get much better than that (the national average is 3.5%) You still have more leeway with height, salary, and you don't need any genital size This is true, and a large reason why I'm in this sub. It's been enlightening to see how people here view dating and the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:19 AM
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Lol not really. In my state only 4 percent of the population is LGBT, and an even smaller percentage are queer women. Does that sound easy to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:56 PM
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I think people in general are exhausted and dating in itself is draining. This makes OLD seem tempting since you can swipe on people from the comfort of your bed, however that's the only thing that's 'better' about OLD--the rest of it has women filtering aggressively by things like height and men sending desperate messages/dick pics to all the women they manage to match with. Real life is vastly different than all the Chads and Stacies online would have you believe, and I think that's a good per…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:57 PM
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I'm not surprised. The more time people spend on social media/dating apps, the more warped their sense of reality is when it comes to male-female relationships. I think a lot of guys here would have more success if they stayed off the apps and met people through work, hobbies, friends etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:42 PM
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Not sure if this counts as monkey branching, but a woman is six times more likely to be separated or divorced soon after a diagnosis of cancer or multiple sclerosis than if a man in the relationship is the patient (source)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:38 PM
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So are these women you're interacting with in real life, or what you're seeing on social media/dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:29 PM
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Ahh classic, blaming women for the state of the sub when you're the one whose resorting to trolling when people try to have discussions with you. Good luck in life, seems like you need all the help you can get 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:29 PM
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Cool, so you can't debate in good faith then. So why are you in a debate sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:14 PM
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Why do I need to source this, do you just not interact with enough women to make this obvious? What would your source be if I said all men had the same beliefs, values, and interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:57 PM
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Your first point is completely wrong, women are not some hivemind. They are fully formed people with different beliefs, interests, values etc, just as men are
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:53 PM
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Lol I'm a lesbian, which means my dating pool of queer women is tiny. LGBT people make up about 4% of my state's population, and a percentage of those people are not dateable to me (such as gay or bi men). So the 'woe is me' of guys who say they either have to be with shitty people or incels doesn't really resonate with me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:29 PM
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Another reason, why I don't date people from shitty homes and fucked-up families. Lol I'm sure women are just throwing themselves at you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:17 AM
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Hmm what's worse, being with a shitty person or being single?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:08 AM
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Just want to add though, the above things are very surface level standards. Maturity, integrity, loyalty, kindness, sexual compatibility, etc. all matter a LOT when choosing a partner and if these are lacking the things listed above won't matter much. Lol not in this sub they don't. It's all about money and looks to the guys here, which is why they think women are lying whenever they share their preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:07 AM
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It's gotten to the point where 45% almost half of all American women are obese. Where are you getting this number? Looks like men are more likely to be overweight or obese compared to women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:20 AM
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Shocking! OLD and real life operate differently, and in real life looks aren't the end-all-be-all unless you're in a shallow hookup environment like a club
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:41 PM
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I agree completely! Online dating is nothing like real life, but many people (especially men in this sub) conflate OLD with real life, where things are not nearly as shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:43 AM
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I wonder how much of the 'guys need to be jacked' mentality comes from men themselves. Gay men also have an immense amount of pressure to look exactly like OP described, and it not because they want female attention
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:37 PM
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You give up a lot of personal independence and autonomy when you raise a child, at least for the first 18 years
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:13 AM
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Block her ass
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:53 PM
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Just because you find something arousing in porn doesn't mean you're eager to try it out irl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:29 PM
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85% of dating app users in the UK are male. This alone proves OP's point that a huge group of men is competing for a small group of women. and that men would therefore have to be more obsessively using Tinder. As opposed to women who have a smorgasbord of men to choose from, even if it means they have to wade through all the thirsty guys in their DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 11:09 PM
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Did you miss the part where women make plenty of money these days too? They don't need to rely on men like the 1950s anymore man. True, they don't need to. However some traditional views on dating haven't moved past the 1950s for certain individuals. How many women today expect the men to foot the bill on things? Probably less than in the 1950s, but a lot of modern women still expect men to pay more than they themselves do. If not in life, then at the very least on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:20 PM
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OP is a short king
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:06 AM
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