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| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Spend wholesome fun quality time with her with NO MAKE OUT or anything physical, but treat her like you're a true gent. Walk her to her home, dont go up to her house, basically make it clear you are into her and want to take it slow. That should make her consider you again as someone to take seriously. Make her want you. When you act like a great guy (confident, charming, caring etc.) and you DONT initiate anything physical and you are disinterested in sex, that is really captivating to a woman.… | /r/seduction | 02/11/22 09:52 AM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Perceived intention? Your other comments on this thread, which I have read, is clear in your intention to lead her to sex. Even if you consider her long term gf material, the moment she felt that sex is what you were after, that already changed her perception of you... if she is indeed the traditional/non casual girl you describe her as. Think of it this way - the moment you get a vibe from a girl that your money is what excites her/ she likes you because you can provide, that changes how you se… | /r/seduction | 02/11/22 04:05 AM |
| 2 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Thank you. Finally one dude talking some sense. | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 03:18 AM |
| 5 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Yea i know. Reading the comments on here, i am genuinely surprised to read what guys think. They think no means "yes but try harder". My vagina wants to pack up and leave for another planet | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 03:14 AM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Maybe she picked up on your intention, which is to lead her to sex, and which is what she said she didnt want to do (yet). I've always ghosted guys who made me feel that they wanted to have sex, even if I wanted them at the start. All girls are different of course. Just, if you're more interested in getting laid than getting to know her - learning what she likes and makes her happy (which, btw, is the REAL seduction) thats an instant turn off, no wonder girl is avoiding you OP. | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 03:08 AM |
| 3 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?As a woman.. I agree. Spot on. | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 02:48 AM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?What you should take from that is you're not having sex. If there is intense kissing then she's interested, she's into you. That doesnt mean she's ready for more. She's aware the intense kissing has picked up the pace and wants you to know early that she's not ready for more. If you're the one who initiated the intense kissing, then her saying "we're not having sex" more likely than not means she thinks sex is what YOU want for acting so fast. How would you like her to see you? Intensely making … | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 02:41 AM |
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