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Get her out for more 1 on 1s, implement kino, and let the girl bring up anything to do with a relationship. In the meantime, keep yourself busy with things that you want to do and accomplish. Worrying about girls will only make it worse lol
/r/seduction14/03/20 02:23 AM
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Good example. Why do you think supreme does so well?
/r/seduction22/01/20 02:16 AM
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The best advice here, given you have a solid internal state.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 04:08 AM
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Personally, took about 6 months. Everyone will be different. It’s all perspective.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 09:18 AM
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Bleached/colored hair
/r/askTRP04/10/19 12:35 PM
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That second sentence is spot on hahah
/r/askTRP02/10/19 09:06 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP30/09/19 10:03 AM
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Seconded
/r/askTRP30/09/19 09:59 AM
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Exactly this.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 03:42 AM
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Spot fuckin on. This is the most important advice people who are trying to become a “natural” can get.
/r/seduction29/08/19 06:56 PM
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While I do agree with the post, I don’t agree with the title. Faking it in the beginning was the thing that got me started, paired with a bad heartbreak to truly become comfortable and confident in who I am. The title works to get people’s shit goin, I’ll give you that.
/r/seduction28/08/19 12:21 AM
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Rejection is part of the game dawg
/r/seduction23/08/19 12:21 AM
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You’re overthinking it. Friends with benefits is exactly as it says. FRIENDS with benefit. What she’s telling you is basic friend talk on top of you already asking her to tell you how it went. If it bothers you that much, set boundaries and simply tell her to stop talking about the other person and find something else to talk about.
/r/seduction08/08/19 01:48 AM
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Hell yeah, you can do it
/r/seduction26/06/19 07:00 PM
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Well... Dawg your first problem isn’t any girl in the world. It’s yourself. The moment you start putting effort in yourself is the moment girls will take interest. First things first, get a job that will further yourself in this world. A job that will allow you to pay for things, including a car. A car is essential mostly for yourself(depending on the area), but also any girl you’re trying to get for that matter. Take trips, have hobbies, make use of time actually doing something YOU’D want to d…
/r/seduction26/06/19 06:19 PM
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Well said
/r/seduction22/06/19 09:42 PM
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Can attest. Girls are usually the ones to make the first move on the dance floor if it looks like you’re having fun. You generally never have to make the first move in the club unless you have your eye specifically on one girl(diff story). Your first intention is always to have fun yourself, never to only have the sole goal of picking up chicks.
/r/seduction25/05/19 10:26 AM
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Yup. As he said you live and you learn. Do it. Don’t think too much about it either. Overthinking will kill any confidence.
/r/seduction02/05/19 08:55 AM
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Dive bars around the weekend are nice. It’s easy to spark conversation while you’re in line for drinks. Doing your research on the bar helps as far as finding the general vibe of the place. I’ve found all of my go-to spots through yelp.
/r/seduction02/05/19 08:48 AM
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Nah, in my experience it works wonders. Keep in mind that you’re not doing this to every woman. Just the ones that show disrespect. If they continue to do so, remember that you’ll be fine, continue on with your own, “busy” life.
/r/seduction05/04/19 08:36 PM
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Good guy friends come far and thin. If you’re trying to save your morals and a friendship, I’d recommend to lay off her and find someone on your own.
/r/seduction03/04/19 08:19 AM
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Good advice. One thing you realize is that you think you may have all it takes to hook anyone, but executing it in real life is a whole different story. Get out there and do it. You will get better over time.
/r/seduction03/04/19 05:58 AM
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If anything this site https://www.spanishdict.com had helped me out a ton through my 4 years of taking Spanish as I regret to inform my own Spanish isn’t up par anymore. Good luck.
/r/seduction03/04/19 05:35 AM
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I disagree. Confirming creates this obligation to where you’re reminded of these pre planned dates. What happens in real life when it comes to chemistry and your ability to demonstrate your game/who you are is what matters.
/r/seduction02/04/19 09:48 PM
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That’s how it works man. Especially on dating apps. Think about it, these girls get hundreds of matches a week, what makes you so special? Unless you’re extremely attractive, that’s how these interactions will go. I’d recommend going out in real life where you’re able to level the playing field. If you’re stern on staying on these dating apps, think of yourself as a comedian, in the sense that you have to sell yourself in order to make YOU the “catch.”
/r/seduction02/04/19 09:44 PM
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In the end you’ll help yourself by setting the frame from the start. Be straight up if you’re only looking for hookups/fwb situation or that you actually want a relationship. It’s also important to be casual about it and to keep the pressure low. Girls want to have fun, remember that.
/r/seduction02/04/19 08:42 PM
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Text her only to confirm. Continue on with your own life and don’t think too much of this date as it will mess with your emotional stability with her. Make plans with other friends and keep your life busy. Have fun!
/r/seduction02/04/19 07:54 PM
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Dawg if anything that’s a good thing. No girl wants a guy that’s an open book. Her question to you was a shit test and the easiest way to pass any shit test is to agree and amplify in a sarcastic way. Best of luck, practice makes perfect.
/r/seduction01/04/19 11:12 PM
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Ah I see. I was in the same boat with my current girlfriend where her friends had straight up hated me in the past. You’re right with this thing being a fat shit test lol. What works is to have your own life. You never want to allow the opinions of these girls to affect who you truly are, cause we both know that you’re good enough. In these types of situations having 1 on 1’s with her will be able to mend things, but having her friends there will always make a barrier. If her friends were angry …
/r/seduction01/04/19 10:00 PM
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Dawg the last thing you want in a club is high tension. Everyone there, especially the girls, are there to have a good time. In my experience, acting aloof while having my OWN fun has proven best results in any club. Also realize that any girls’ friends are their immediate bodyguards. It seems to me that either she was doing something that she shouldn’t have been doing or you were giving off creepy enough vibes that turned off her friends. Keep things low pressure and have fun.
/r/seduction01/04/19 09:36 PM
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Time will heal my guy. If anything take that as a compliment because she was definitely attracted to you. The fact that she kept her boyfriend a secret for that long is a huge IOI. Keep doing you and you’ll be able to get back out there getting better results with someone who is available.
/r/seduction01/04/19 09:28 PM
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You’ve basically answered your own question in the first sentence. Attractiveness in today’s society is more important than people would like to admit especially at a speed dating event. In more of a day to day sense of life, accomplishments can help you out if it raises your perceived value.
/r/seduction01/04/19 10:36 AM
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The thing with most (not all) women is that they do not build a strong emotional connection for you until you two have sex. They love it when guys take initiative and can lead interactions. You’ll learn eventually, but the fact that you two were in the same bed together is a very big sign as girls do not just do that with everyone. (Always remember to take cues for consent, rape is not cool) As for the oneitis thing, remember that you’re on this earth for yourself first, everyone else second. Th…
/r/seduction01/04/19 10:19 AM
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First step is to continue on with your own life, as time will only tell with her decision. The rule with women is that if they wanted to, they would. Realize what you want with her whether than means friend/fwb/girlfriend. Having a general frame for what you want with someone will help you out in the end, as well as communicating it with them.
/r/seduction01/04/19 09:42 AM
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The problem with your question, while I do see where you’re coming from, is that these visualizations and practice go hand in hand, not against each other. The visualization techniques will put yourself in a mindset that can help you out while you’re practicing. There’s no reason to rush yourself into being the “best” when the journey is half the process. Self reflection on where you are when you “made” it is extremely satisfying. Best of luck.
/r/seduction01/04/19 09:32 AM
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Getting your eyebrows threaded Actually working out your forearms Wearing a watch that doesn’t go over the top/fits your skin tone confident body language (straight back/chin up/strong eye contact) be a social chameleon (including being nice to your server/cashier/waiter) highly recommend this podcast to improve yourself as a conversationalist https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/become-more-compelling-radio/id1015059657?mt=2&i=1000376212958 be genuine (meaning you don’t overreact to every little…
/r/seduction27/03/19 11:48 PM
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