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Red Pill ExampleOppsItHappened/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 03:59 PM
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Key Parts: It was one thing to think these things, it was another to live them. Really, what it came down to was that I wanted male attention more than I wanted to live by my intellectual principles. Yes. If you're going to have an ideology you need to make actual sacrifice. If you want to say you're a feminist, you better live by those principles. I have more respect for the strident feminist who follows through with her convictions than the one who simply claims to be a feminist. Nor is it bec…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 04:03 PM
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But he knows her game so he's still the clear winner in this shitty game she's playing. Until the condom "breaks", she forgets to take the pill, etc. Let's not underestimate her, here. She's already proven to be a gold-digger. She already knows he's willing ot break up with her considering he just did. She only wants the money, and the only way to secure the money... I'm not saying she will do it. I'm saying OP is taking a ridiculous risk for sex. This isn't a one night stand, this is a girl del…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 08:40 PM
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So I can continue to have sex with her, shes a legit 9/10 I guess a gold-digging woman is the best you can do, eh OP? Because if it wasn't, you wouldn't be staying with her. Even in a friends with benefits situation. I wouldn't waste my piss on a girl who was only into me for money, no matter how attractive she was.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 04:49 PM
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Any girl who's not extremely shy can be stolen if she's with a boring guy. Agreed. Being high status and having a masculine personality isn't enough in itself if you're completely gameless. I think we're arguing definitions. I agree with you, my argument would be that you're not high status if you're gameless.
/r/askTRP12/09/13 07:31 PM
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I'll still steal your girlfriend Any girl who can be stolen isn't worth the title. really should be worrying about is charming players who's fun to be around They shouldn't be worried about that person. They should be that person. With the high social status.
/r/askTRP12/09/13 06:47 PM
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A man cannot force his wife to be faithful, but he can force her to make a clear choice; he can refuse to allow her the opportunity of having both a mar­riage and an affair, of continuing in a “limbo” of indecisiveness. Langley even reports that some unfaithful wives themselves “wanted their husband to give them an ultimatum—a kick in the ass, so to speak.” Ta-da! It all comes down to boundaries. If she knows cheating is an option and there's limited consequences, she'll do it. Edit to add: One …
/r/TheRedPill12/09/13 03:02 PM
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The idea that all women are the same is as idiotic as the idea that all men are the same. There's an incredible variation among both genders. In terms of relationships, other than my high school relationship, all of mine have been positive. Each has lasted for a handful of years. One is still going, in the others we out grew each other or wanted different things. In a relationship, there is no bad behavior, only allowed behavior. If you allow someone to walk all over you, they're going to do so.…
/r/askTRP12/09/13 04:27 AM
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Hated men like the Boston Bomber, Aaron Hernandez and Chris Brown are all alphas. Their ability to sexually attract women... They're not exactly attracting quality women. The Boston Bomber attracts nut jobs on league with the Joker, Hernandez is attracting school brats and psychos, and Rihanna is all kinds of fucked up. So, yeah, they're attracting women... but they're not the women I'd want to attract.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/13 02:10 PM
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Yeah, but no alpha would want a psycho like that. If my girlfriend talked to me like that I'd drop her in a heartbeat, and she knows it. It all comes down to boundaries. Set them and hold them. Do not tolerate disrespect.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/13 06:31 PM
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Truth. There's definitely a growing phase where you'll be called out on it. But eventually, you'll be the alpha everyone wants.
/r/askTRP04/09/13 03:18 PM
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got married at 21, separated a few months ago at 26, divorce incoming Next. What's her end game? Who cares? The question that matters: what's your end game, OP? I'd advise heavily against a relationship. Date her, fuck her, then let it fizzle out as one of you loses interest. Your end game > her end game. Does she deserve a place in your life as anything more than a plate? What has she earned?
/r/askTRP03/09/13 08:34 PM
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I agree, with one major caveat: He shouldn't be playing anything. He shouldn't have to pretend to be a douche (his words). When someone plays at something, that means they're giving the superficial appearance of being quality, when they are in fact, not. OP's relationship is already over. Because he's running game this whole time, as soon as he stops, she stops. And because he's not being authentic, he's going to stop eventually -- it's impossible to keep up a facade. He's already said he's tire…
/r/askTRP03/09/13 08:27 PM
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I suspect it's because she doesn't want to feel that she did something intentionally. She doesn't want the responsibility of knowing that she took the ring off to help attract you. If she took it off for an innocent reason, then it's not her fault, it just sort of -- opps -- happened.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/13 09:43 PM
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I imagine everyone is more likely to cheat while on vacation. You have a sense of freedom, there's usually alcohol, you're looking for new experiences. It's also why hooking up with girls while on vacation is a gold mine, single or not.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/13 09:42 PM
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Pretty much. I mean, she might be able to get a guy in his late 40s, or even one the same age. Maybe. Here's what I don't get: From age 15 onward, girls tend to prefer guys their age or older. The girl in grade 10 dates the guy in grade 12. It basically never happens the other way. When you're 25, it's the same thing. All of my female friends who are 25 are dating someone 25 to 30. Does this woman expect it to suddenly reverse when she hits 45? Nope. Her age range is 45-60. That's the market tha…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/13 03:24 AM
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Once again, it all comes down to boundaries. In this case, the boundary should be if you hurt me, you're out of my life. However, that was clearly not established and there's no consequences on her end (as she left him 3 years ago or whatever). No wonder she doesn't respect him. Get back together if you must, but there still has to be consequences to the initial break up. If one of those consequences is that you go out and sleep with someone else, so be it. Who gives a fuck if it hurts her? She'…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/13 02:49 PM
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Trying to appear non-needy, is, in fact, needy. The conversation is over. You don't need to send another text. If she initiates again, then you'll know she probably wants to see you. If she doesn't, then you know she doesn't care enough and you can safely next her. You're qualifying her. In theory, you could remind her of brunch on Saturday, but I personally wouldn't bother. I'm a lot harsher than most, though.
/r/askTRP24/08/13 04:26 AM
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Don't seek feedback right after sex. One of the girls I slept with told me she thought it was hot that I wasn't constantly asking her if she came, or if she enjoyed herself. You need to get good enough at sex and at reading her that you know. Eh, as long as you're not saying "I love you" you're in the clear (if you're not in an LTR). Or promising extravagant things. I either go to sleep or just ask questions, I don't really think about whether it's beta or alpha. Plus, if you're thinking about w…
/r/askTRP24/08/13 04:19 AM
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Can everyone be alpha? Yes, in the same way everyone can run a marathon. But just because everyone can do it doesn't mean that everyone will do it. The potential is always there, but for the vast majority of people it remains untapped. As for the stutter thing, one of my buddies has a stutter and he had a threesome in a hot tub last spring, so it is possible. But he has a lot of other things going for him. He's freakishly athletic. Funny. Crazy adventurous. Girls respond to the things he does, n…
/r/askTRP24/08/13 04:13 AM
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Fingers crossed that he's not the father. It sucks enough to be in a relationship and be cheated on... but if he's the dad... yikes. Good on him for dropping her ass though. And, just to brag a little -- called it in the last thread. If you have to ask, something happened. 9 times out of 10.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/13 04:03 AM
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The best part of this is the comments, where people are basically trying to argue with MATH. It's a pretty simple formula. Let's say you want to have kids. To make this easy, we'll say it takes 1 year to have a kid (3 months of trying to get pregnant, then a 9 month pregnancy). You want to avoid the cliff that happens at 35... yes, you can have kids after 35, but it's not a great idea and you want to avoid it if at all possible. This means the latest you can conceive is 34. Now let's say you wan…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/13 08:02 PM
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Any RedPiller who willingly dates an average woman gets what the deserve. This is supposed to be the forum for men who know better than to get involved with anything average, whether women, men, careers, vacations... The list may be accurate. Then again, none of the women in my life are average, so I wouldn't know. If you settle for average -- men or women -- you're getting what you deserve. Aim for quality and you'll get quality.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/13 07:41 PM
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Honestly, for me it depends on timing. If I find out, at birth or within the first six months, that the baby isn't mine, I'm jetting. If I find out when the kid turns ten, that's a completely different issue. Don't get me wrong -- I'm still leaving the woman (obviously), but I'd still be involved in the kid's life. I don't like the idea of paying child support, but I imagine in this court system, by that time it's too late anyway. If I got involved with a woman who already had childhahahahahaha …
/r/TheRedPill23/08/13 04:32 AM
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Maybe it's just me, but I've always followed the "if you have to ask..." idea. If he has to ask if the kid is his, it doesn't really matter if the kid is or not. I mean, the trust is gone, the relationship is over regardless. The kid is relevant in the sense of whether he's on the hook for the $ or not. Personally, when I'm dating a girl, if she ever does something that makes me doubt her, it's over. Sucks that there's a kid involved.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/13 04:27 AM
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Absolutely. To take it one step further -- they're attracted to bad boys because bad boys have boundaries. They're going to do what they want, when they want to do it. That's the thing that a lot of people don't get. It's not about treating her poorly, it's about treating yourself well and demanding she does as well. That's the mentality you want. "I'm going to do what I want to do, if you're down, cool, if you're not, you're replaceable."
/r/TheRedPill20/08/13 07:42 PM
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Yeah... nursing is one of the more difficult majors. I've seen a TON of girls drop out of it once they realized the work involved. Nursing assistants, on the other hand... my idiot friend who could barely pass high school is getting through the program with above average marks.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/13 07:40 PM
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I can think of a few girls I know who, if I were to be dating them right now, I would establish that rule. And that's really what it comes down to. I think a lot of boundaries come into play before the relationship is established. For example, rather than getting into a relationship with someone who calls you 10 times a day and demands you answer and then trying to change them by setting the boundary, if you have that boundary in place before the relationship starts, you wouldn't get in a relati…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 07:36 PM
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disagree that boundaries necessarily suggest insecurity I agree with you. I think boundaries are a sign of security. I didn't mean to imply otherwise. My issue is the type of boundary. I think it's ridiculous to tell someone who they can and can't hang out with, and I'd leave any girl who tried to do that to me -- which is in itself, a boundary. But it's important to establish rules and make it clear that there are consequences to actions. Agreed. For me the boundary is not hanging out with guys…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 07:09 PM
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Yes, yes, we get that for you, being alpha means having no particular attachment to any one girl and being ready to drop her without any hesitation at a moment's notice. That's not true of me. I'm actually in a 1 year+ relationship at the moment. I've had my endless montage of sex a few years back. And I'm fine with her going out with her guy friends whenever she wants, one on one or not. I do the same thing with my girl friends. My point still stands -- if she slept with them, I'd leave her. I …
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 05:20 PM
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If she thinks you're out of her league, you're definitely out of her league. I'd laugh and walk away. Who wants to waste their time on women who suck? Sure, she can "reject" me all she wants the same way the whale "rejects" the hot, skinny girls because they're all bitches, when we both know she dreams of the day they'll notice her presence.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 02:19 AM
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guys don't want their gfs meeting guys 1:1 Betas don't want their gfs meeting guys 1:1. Men with actual confidence don't give a crap, because they know they're the best she's going to do. And if she does fuck the guy? So what? That just shows she's not worth the time and effort. The underlying point is that you can't stop anyone from making a "bad choice" if they have already decided to do it. However, you can decrease the likelihood of that person making that bad choice in the first place. Who …
/r/TheRedPill11/08/13 07:20 PM
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