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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Conflicted		Opsec8	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/19 03:19 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Conflicted I think my fairness and nobility is what she is used to. Obviously everyone has two sides to them I’ve just never shown her that other side of me. When I first met my wife I had been in the Army for 3 years and remained in the Army 4 years after. It just blows my mind she wouldn’t do anything like this when she had the chance while I was on deployments or training events. After I left the Army (for her) I got a very well paying job that made me work out of state 5 days per week. I never once che…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/19 02:34 PM
2	Conflicted I appreciate the insight. At this moment what she is telling me is very believable and I don’t fee she would contest the divorce at all as long as I try to remain fair. I don’t Want to take everything from her. She just recently got her first job in the last year which doesn’t pay well so I worry about what she’ll do after the divorce. She has no HS diploma or GED either. I worry for my kids and also because I do care about her well being. Living with her parents is probably the worst place she …	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/19 05:10 AM
1	Conflicted I have mentioned marriage counseling and even went as far as to try to get her to do counseling that focuses on infidelity to no avail. Her outlook is that she doesn’t want someone else telling her how she should feel. She buried her emotions for I’d say 7 months now and they have started resurfacing gradually but she just shuts down and gets distant.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/19 03:35 AM

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