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I actually completely agree and have a similar theory about dating apps. Them being better the more money you have to pay for subs every month, the longer youre on there, the more people youre seen by. Its a feature not a bug. That Its not a coincidence that dating apps really started ramping up in the 2010s, just after the 2008 movement threatened the wealthiest. So the wealthiest decided to "traffick" as much women to the top with promises of wealth, success, and reputation gain to traffick th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:40 PM
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I agree with your point, but it wasn't the point I was attempting to make. Nevertheless, I certainly do agree that a lot of media and people treat and paint women horrifically with not enough nuance at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:28 PM
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Oh no doubt they're not missing out. They're the haves who can afford to buy women's time and images. Whereas the men who desire relationships either never chose to spend money on women in that way or they're just amongst the have nots who could not or who would never consider it an option. Of course the men who have money to pay for sex with women, despite them having a partner or another similar factor, would still do so. Humans generally exercise the options, privileges, and wealth afforded t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:27 PM
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So if we know that a lot of men always "miss out" on a lot of experiences that women get to more easily have, then why are we framing men who have always been missing out as the pathetic ones and women who give into capitalistic greed like that a pass? Why aren't headlines being written about the issue im describing? Shouldn't there be articles coming out that also target the large demographic of women prostituting/escorting/selling images of their body online, that frame those women as being mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:08 PM
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Some men did and still do. A lot of women did and still do. And yeah I mean, I understand equitability in relationships. What I dont understand is why the media is portraying one gender as bad or sad or pathetic. Whereas the media doesnt really portray the women that sell themselves and their body the same way. Its just the kind of eerie quiet commentary of it and the "it is what it is" mentality that gets put on top of a lot of women's actions. Which has been consistent with how I observed girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:56 PM
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I tried doing all that a while ago about the same topic and got the same run around about rules. When I followed them I was then told I didn't have enough karma and age of my account. It shouldn't be this exhausting just to post to talk to people about things you're interested in. At the end of the day, debate and discuss end up two sides of the same coin on this and many other subs. At some point its not about organization, its about trying to find ways around preventing someone from chatting a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:31 PM
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I really dont understand why everyone is so much more focused on a "loneliness" epidemic than they are of an epidemic of women prostituting, escorting, and generally viewing relationships transactionally. Feels like moderators dont want discussions or posts about it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:12 PM
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I mean, if you can dismiss someone as crazy, you can dismiss their entire argument can't you? It's so easy to dismiss people that way. I've had to do it to a lot of racist and sexist people in my lifetime but here I am being called crazy, which is crazy lolgʻ
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:47 PM
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Yeah I figured as much. All character attacks and platitudes. Zero actual argumentative substance, nor any advocating for men, from women on here. Not too dissimilar from the men on here, despite how women perceive themselves as, they're still not very dissimilar from men. Just as selfish, just as egotistical, just as gimme gimme, all give and no take, "fuck you got mine" attitude, fun for me but not for thee, type attitudes. I've met as many women like you as I've met men. And you're all as tox…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:29 PM
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And I mean, I still haven't heard any advocating, agreeing, or counter arguments to my points. I'd love to hear, but I suspect I'm just too "unhinged" to respond to. It's almost like calling a woman hysterical on her period. If you can't come up with an argument, insult them, belittle them, belittle their feelings, belittle their experiences, tell them how they should feel and think. Not ask, not suggest, not offer a different viewpoint. Just character insult and belittle them by telling them th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 07:20 PM
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Cool beans
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 07:14 PM
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Yup more insecurity buttons. Any women out there looking to advocate for more men to have more sex or is it just women like this one? Any women not plugged into the "always choose women" women category who can recognize that men are people like women are people... or... no? Just men advocating for men to have more fun and more casual sex? Or are there only women like this who want to represent me as the bad guy who's unhinged? Oh right, I forgot the haves wouldn't advocate for themselves to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 07:09 PM
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You sound like you forgot to log into your other account?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 06:57 PM
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I am serious. You're the only one using insults and belittling language here. You're the one trying to press men's insecurities buttons to get them to quiet down about how "oppressed" they are compared to average women. Next you're going to tell me about how oppressed women are and have been and claim men have nothing to complain about. Are you going to acknowledge that I am just as entitled to the same body count, the same variety, as entitled to hot women as women are entitled to hot men? Or a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 06:42 PM
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You dont seem pleasent to engage with anyway, especially when you can't even compromise, but in my experience thats at least half of my exes so it tracks. Nor do you see anything but your own agenda. And I thought there was nothing wrong with my agenda being getting a chance to be as promiscuous as average women get to be. I thought there wasn't anything wrong with that? Isn't there something wrong with women who have the mentality that she can be promiscuous, sleep with dozens and dozens of men…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 06:39 PM
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I'm sure those men are the haves just as I am amongst the have nots. And I'm already of the opinion we should cull the wealthy. I'm a bit softer on this subject than I am about the wealthy. Either women can choose to give average men a lot more casual sexual access or women who choose to be promiscuous can be lead on, pumped and dumped, and relegated to casual sexual relationships. As always, it has always been your choice honey. Except when men who aren't at all like me oppressed you. You and o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 06:30 PM
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Predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 06:20 PM
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It's toxic feminism at late stage. No judging. But also no access to casual sex. No boundaries, because you're an insecure manlet if you do, but don't judge my past of only choosing men over 6'. "No, you're not entitled to women's bodies, but I am entitled to demand that I can do whatever I want, whenever I want with zero consequences... and remember! No judging me or any women!" Really what it comes down to is that there is a huge swath, a huge majority of men AND women who are dumb enough to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 06:19 PM
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This is late stage toxic feminism at its absolute worst. It doesn't matter. None of that matters. If I as an average man can't have all that in equal or at least comparable amounts and abudance of choice, in the exact same ways as hot men do, I'm simply not going to choose women who chose those men and who got to choose to be promiscuous. That's equality and equity. Either bring equality and equity to LTRs with average men or you don't get to have access to LTRs with average men. Or women can st…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:57 PM
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Shell just be constantly comparing you to someone else, even if she pretends she doesn't. And then she'll just find someone else eventually who is more like this guy or that guy and leave you for him anyway. Why would I choose a LTR with a woman that presents so much risk to end up being treated like shit when I'm already other'd and relegated to LTRs and have zero choice, or at least, not at all anything close to the choice that average women get to have in dating in casual sex. I just wouldn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:48 PM
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It matters because I didn't get to have casual sex. You ladies can ignore this all you like, but it's not going away. You don't get to have your cake, and eat it too. Though I am confident you will absolutely find men who are desperate enough to be chosen to ignore that you and other women are demanding you have your cake and eat it too. The only way it's going away is how you ladies have always made it go away, by ignoring it and being the ones with the exclusive power to be the choosers. Or yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:39 PM
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I just straight up ask those women who they've dated in the past and how men she's slept with. I ask of she used protection. I ask if most of the men she dated were 6' or above. In order for me to see if you're worthy of a long term relationship, I need to see you have a history that tells me you're deserving of a relationship with a man who's at least as average as I am. I need to know you're not likely to cheat with and oggle tall men, for just one example of undesirable behavior. Why would I …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:26 PM
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Because that's literally not 80% of men's experiences. You ladies act like men have the exact same options as women do but we don't because you ladies are absolutely hyper focused on all the same things in men and the tent pole holding up the rest of that shallowness is height. Men simply do not have the options you're describing. But obese women do. Ugly women do. Broke women do. Dumb women do. Bad women, greedy women, women of all manner of shittiness still get to have access to sex and dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:16 PM
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I mean, there's taking risk and there's choosing risky people. And this idea is thrown around a lot, "if you don't try and risk getting hurt, you'll never have anything." As if that's an answer to men who are like, "I'm not interested in dating women who present too much risk because of her past choices, especially when I don't get the plethora and variety and itself the choice to be sleeping or dating around like she does. I'm already burnt out of the cheating, lying, and demanding of way more …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:59 PM
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Women will just throw out some anecdotal evidence too like men will but it's worse. She'll just say she sees women with ugly men all the time. Ignoring the fact that women often date archetypically, while men in general point out that their archetype tends to be the very men who are being given huge amount of options in women because women are ultimately collectively gunning for all the same men. Then comes all the denial and more anecdotal evidence. "I dated two short men (men tall as her or ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:39 PM
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That's not how everyone views it. This sub is basically just: Men want to advocate for having promiscuous phases, but get blocked by the fact that women are mostly only choosing men out of their league. Women trying to convince men that then having access to casual sex to such an extreme degree is no big deal while the average guy finds it literally impossible to have a promiscuous phase. Men point out that if they don't get to have a promiscuous phase, they won't choose women who do. Women pret…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:39 PM
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