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I understand hang in there
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/24 01:51 AM
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What’s your story? You alright?
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/24 12:32 AM
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Idk man, I do have a lawyer, ready to go upon retainer payment
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/24 12:15 AM
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Yes funny you ask we had a brawl yesterday and I literally want to pee in her drink
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 06:45 PM
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Hey that’s good information. I also live in New Jersey married for eight years two kids four and one we both make a total of 340,000. Pretty much split down the middle. Married to the devil of a woman, and really need to know my options I’m 38 now but I don’t see myself putting up with her in my 40s that’s for sure
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/23 04:59 PM
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It has allowed me to appreciate the Love I have for my SO, sex is way better bc I actually love her. When sleeping around, I would almost never kiss the girl. Now its the opposite and I really appreciate it so much.
/r/seduction11/06/23 12:19 PM
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Don’t lie to your friends, if they can’t hang then they can’t hang. Call them out on this behavior and say wtf ? Guys are usually wanting to hear you succeed and get some pointers from you if you are more successful with ladies than them
/r/seduction16/04/22 06:47 PM
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Look your best, never show interest, they are attracted if they are not chased
/r/seduction30/09/21 11:34 PM
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I blame the real housewives shows, it’s getting out of hand now
/r/askTRP16/05/21 11:47 AM
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Pm me, I was the same way now married with a kid
/r/askTRP19/03/21 11:25 AM
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Tell her to file your taxes
/r/askTRP17/02/21 10:38 PM
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When arguing, sometimes they throw in comments or lies to throw off the conversation.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 11:45 AM
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Starbucks! They love that stuff
/r/askTRP28/05/20 08:31 AM
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Thissss!!! You said she was a control freak!!! Dead bedroom etc Get out get drunk lift be happy !
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/20 10:09 PM
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hit the eject button you dont have a lot of time invested in her, she treats you like complete crap get rid of her now...
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/19 09:37 PM
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Hate to say it but I am kind of in this situation. Together for 8 years 2 married years, and since ive given her the ring she has been a fucking pain in the balls , the first year of marriage we had a blow out every single month Im doing no fap since January and its helping me with IDGAf attitude and its separating us mentally because I have checked out. I hope things get better with us so that we become happy one day but its been a rough tough ride. But she is super stubborn and only does what …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 11:11 AM
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How where when
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/18 09:10 PM
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Please just bang her and stop worrying so much
/r/askTRP13/05/18 07:16 PM
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Id like to share my experience too. Married for 2.5 years the first two years she was some princess from another planet. I told her every single month for 12 months that I will leave her ass if she doesnt calm down with that bullshit. Went to therapy, left several times bc I told her that That is not acceptable. Its working for now and she understands that she is the crazy one and is working On herself. I live her but i will leave her ass if it continues!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/18 11:01 PM
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Question do you still not masterbate? How has that improved your life ?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/18 10:56 PM
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Goalsaf!
/r/askTRP09/05/18 11:39 PM
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So you can be so red pilled that you can get your girl to accept you banging other women.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 11:33 PM
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So basically thats is the married red pill goal am I right ?
/r/askTRP09/05/18 11:26 PM
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Sweetness thanks for sharing
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:37 PM
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Nice thanks for sharing !
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:40 PM
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I was in college 10 years ago and did prettying good for myself in college. Never texted these girls about bullshit . Just “come over” or “what you doing tonight” no bullshit. “When are we hanging out” it was to the point. Or don’t text them at all let them think you dont want them. Sometimes they will text you out of the blue. Different strategies worked on different chicks.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 11:13 PM
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Damn youre right smh
/r/askMRP04/05/18 06:06 PM
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Im no expert but ive had a rocky marriage for 2.5 years. Once I put the ring on it, it was a whole new ball game. You better be sure you want to be with her for ever!!! Anytime you look at another women and think she is hot just take some mental pictures because you wont be getting new ass ever! This pains me every time!
/r/askMRP04/05/18 11:47 AM
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I never delete anything Theres a reason she is doing it buddy
/r/askTRP04/05/18 11:43 AM
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Its tough bc families are close and married for 2.5 years...
/r/askTRP12/04/18 06:02 PM
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Thank you I have some thinking to do. What happened in your situation? Do you mind sharing ?
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:50 PM
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Tell me I can just start now with this one and if she wants to leave she can leave ? Fuckin painful man weekends are the worst when they should be awesome
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:36 PM
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THats how Ive been my entire life. Grew up with controlling mother so after that never gave anyone any bit if control. After i met my wife i knew she was the one to marry so I slowly gave her some lee way. But always keep the control in my court and if she doesnt like it then oh well.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 01:37 PM
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Leave her at once! Friends with benefits? Someone else is going to bang your wife? Dont lose this one Dude there are so many hotties out there 22-28 sluts you can bang a different one each week if you live in NyC.
/r/askMRP05/04/18 03:31 PM
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Reach into your old contacts list and send out the feelers, go out with friends esp on friday and Saturday nights and get to work brother!
/r/askMRP17/02/18 12:49 PM
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I would have started to laugh at her for saying that. Looked at my wife and say is she serious ? And moved on
/r/askMRP17/02/18 12:42 PM
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Good to know and thanks for sharing.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/18 02:24 PM
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Great insight I appreciate it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/18 12:51 PM
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Sorry new to this will read sidebar
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/18 12:50 PM
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Thank you will do
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/18 12:42 PM
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Not sure what to even say. You cant expect her to blow you everyday. Shes not a sex slave man. Sex a couple times a week would be more likely. If you treat her like a slave she wont like you. But if you are not happy for whatever reason then if it feels right then leave her. Good luck
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/18 11:59 AM
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