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You shared you opinion. As far as backing up your opinion with statistics... be honest, did you examine them properly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:58 PM
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Damn, I missed it!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:52 PM
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I'm always right when it comes to your ilk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:51 PM
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Please learn how to draw conclusions from data properly and done mske it obvious you needed to backpedal once with your edit. Make the title more accurate by either adding "I believe" at the start or "in my opinion" at the end. It is evident it's just a rant, with you glancing at the data, then adding some points from the glance. Large age gaps (especially 30+ vs <25) carry real trade-offs and modestly elevated risks. Nobody disputes that. But the post turns those into “always a bad deal for wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:00 PM
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Then you're under no obligation to respect the person who won't respect your boundary, sir doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 02:26 PM
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So, you're a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 02:25 PM
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You also said that "women get to react to boundaries in any way that serves their wants." I really gotta ask: do you genuinely believe women are going to fall for you by saying this? As a guy, you know men are just going to laugh if you admit to seriously believing the double standard re boundaries. But if it's because you think it will attract women en masses, that laughter will be deafing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:23 AM
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Women won't fall for you because you're implying they can react like emotionally stunted people when a man lays his boundaries down. React to a person's boundary with respect as you expect them to react to yours, regardless if they are men or women. People here act like they are decoding complex social issues when its clear the issue is the lack of simple decorum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:15 AM
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Stop going emotionally stunted women. The "they are allowed to react to your boundary" lot are just as comical.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:00 AM
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Why would you want to be in a relationship with these types of women? Everyone knows the 2XC and a lot of women on reddit like this are walking Dunning-Krugers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:28 AM
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This may very well be the OP's reference point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:07 AM
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Wtf do they think will happen, total abortion bans? 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:46 AM
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The women and anyone really blaming people are out of touch that don't even represent most of the country. They're as fruity as the extreme right with their conspiracy theories about what they think will happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:44 AM
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Female friends tend to catch feedings in my experience, or assume feelings by conflating common decency, kindness or normalcy for signs of attraction... like most in this sub that could be a sign of being a mong, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:06 PM
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The woe is me posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:56 PM
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Nah, these mods are slacking. They've let incel posts in as of late despite them clearly being against the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:56 PM
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I feel sorry for a lot of you guys... you either never interacted with people enough or have only met pretty crappy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:54 PM
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Honestly, I'm going to assert that for some of you to meet more people... and for others, meet quality people. For the first lot, you probably haven't met enough people to render a definitive judgement on an entire gender. For the second lot, despite what you may think, you likely get shite people and either need to start meeting more quality people or look at yourselves more honestly and do better... doing the latter may result in the former. Think of it like this, do you genuinely want to spen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:27 PM
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Forgive me for being sceptical that the subset of women you've met in life, especially here, will not be unrepresentative, let alone tainted by your own biases. IE you have not met enough or interacted with a wide range of women to avvount for 95% of women... 5% if we're being extremely generous. Does that mean women generally like unwanted attention, ofc not. But 95% of women sharing your 'interesting' perception on it? That's cappin
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:04 AM
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That's what came to mind... so why is the average height the average height if the tall men are getting all the women. These guys don't know how to think... these incels...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:38 PM
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The P.S. suggests you think one of these women will see what a good guy you are. XD You know what you should have done... made a sexist joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:34 PM
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🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:32 PM
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Imma say its damaged the perceptions of a subset of people, a lot of whom congregated here to express their lamentations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:30 PM
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Explain, because if you think I'm female, then you're more cracked than the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:26 PM
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Sorry to burst your bubble, but if you find a small number of women (women in this sub and your social circle) agree with that. Then that speaks volumes about the company you used to have and the usual things we know about this sub... nothing earth shattering. I'm happy to hear that you've overcome those morbid feelings, though. Is your philosophical solution one I'd prescribe to many? Probably not. However, you have had prior issues, and as you note, battle with existential dread, which indicat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:26 PM
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Stop watching sitcoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:23 PM
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You sound like you've been on the waiting list for touching grass therapy for way too long. Jump the queue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:20 PM
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Someone needs to make a bingo card for how often these things come up, and gamify the ramblings of the crazies of both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:17 PM
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Why not do both? Say the secret bank account, or bank accounts was not to escape your partner- but rather Mister Taxman, and Mister Taxman can get to anyone... ANYONE!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:14 PM
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I swear some of you guys just look at sensational headlines and the telly to get your worldviews. I'm convinced most of you don't realise these posts reveal that you don't interact with actual human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:13 PM
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How can you not think he is, given the context of this sub: the first 2 sentences are cringe AF, the third gives it away then the rest makes you want to lobby to the UN to enforce court mandated counselling until a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:07 PM
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I doubt so, especially if the user's own post is quite telling. If you resonate a lot with what they say then its probably a you issue too. Not everything is a societal issue. Can societal dynamics induce individual issues, sure. If you feel lonely in relationships or with men specifically while specifically admit you're not normal... yeah, that's a poster highlighting their issues stem within their psyche.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:05 PM
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A redditor in a gender politics thread talking about "conventionally" attractive, then feels the need to edit the post presupposing it triggers me then needs to reassure me its true while providing vague descriptors doesn't exactly inspire confidence. Some will care hence I said the hottest "don't *tend* to care" rather than speak in absolute terms. I also said "the hottest", not "conventionally" attractive. So your reply seems rather pointless you really wanted to make a point and thought layin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:02 PM
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Read what I said properly, I didn't disagree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:53 PM
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I'm unsure someone who thinks from the antagonistic prism that comes with this sub would know what they thing... most hot women don't spend time lamenting about the deep, deep, deep, deep gender chasms that this sub imagines. (Hint: same with the guys.)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:51 PM
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Common sense dictates if you're going to be in a LTR with someone, whether it includes marriage or not, you would expect them to (as you say) "step up" to help with raising children who inevitably will be part of the relationship. Having said that, single mothers tend to be blasted because the ones we'll hear about expect a man new in their lives to "step up" when he really shouldn't. Secondly, they probably aren't the sort of people who should be dating if parenthood is tough enough to handle, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:49 PM
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Ofc if you're the sort who'll look for malevolent intent in every male interaction, you probably should find the nearest therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:09 PM
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Usually the girls not getting the attention from the men they want aren't getting them because they're aware of what they see in the mirror? I've been told by women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:08 PM
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Hottest don't tend to care ;D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:06 PM
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Sounds like a you problem more than a its a men issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:06 PM
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I bet a bunch of you made inferences that would make most scratch our heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:01 PM
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Incels...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:05 AM
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Did you read or react to parts that irked you about it? You can make more impactful critiques of it if you read rather than demonstratably show you haven't... Which TRP would use to strengthen their narrative of undermining women's comprehension and competencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:11 AM
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BTW, regurgitating "carnal desire" stops being quirky after some time. All you effectively did was provide your commrntary like some tea mag/channel using OKC data of all things. Is there anything material from your claim? Or making one of those rudimentary academic wall of texts that no-one cares for except a small amount of people who debate nothing? I admire the effort to take the mick, but at least make it accurate eg the slave revolt reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:08 AM
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Ah yes, because both sexes respond to carnal desire the same way; no gender differences. That's not even going by your sus data source.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:02 PM
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2XC stands out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:00 PM
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Threads like this make me believe counselling up to a certain age should be mandatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:42 AM
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:|
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:40 AM
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Gosh, you're an academic. That explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:38 AM
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We got a gal in research using 1 OKC study from TEN YEARS AGO.... and this sub has never had people knowing wtf they're talking about. Lower expectations, love.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:37 AM
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I'm more curious if you two have the same premise in mind... or whose study has more interrater reliability... bloody used OKC for a point. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:34 AM
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Despite working in research, you misrepresented the premise. You used OKC data of all places, a random BI article published a decade ago from a book published a decade ago, too... I expect too much rigour from this place 😅 Re your point, all you've done is suggest women think younger people look attractive... okay. So, guess no gender differences. Female attraction is like male attraction? I suppose I'm being unfair if I were going to take the mick out of the TRP's core belief, I'd try to be acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:37 AM
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If you want more effort, OP... firstly, you did the usual misunderstanding what TRP means by older guys do better... either deliberately or nor, who knows. So your premise is based on a misrepresentation. Second, you do what just about every woman and bloop here does: assume male and female attraction, sorry the preferred description for some is "mate selection", is LFL. Oh, how much men would love it if female desire was THAT simple. Outside weirdos here, most gents will mostly have visible con…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:25 AM
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What the genuine fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:12 AM
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My guy literally brings in arranged marriages... I don't even...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:11 AM
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Either you get women who get funny about it for some reason (ironically, women who will never be desirable enough to be in the position), or the paranoid wackos who believe in some grand conspiracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:59 AM
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They seem to take accountability when you laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:56 AM
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Your reference point is the sub where criminally insane, hysterical, mentally disturbed, and paranoid women who are starved for validation congregate... bro...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:39 AM
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There's judging, then making full ass essays like some posts touched them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:58 AM
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Evidently, its the women of this sub's turn to react to comments that triggered them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:19 AM
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That's enough Internet for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:15 AM
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Who triggered you this time, lillth?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:47 PM
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Recheck your diagnosis or get a coach. It helps to stop consuming blackpill content.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:55 PM
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You are a weirdo... like a lot of these guys who make these odd threads... your calibre of content is virtually LFL...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:22 PM
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Then, laugh at them for their silliness. But people can and will infer you want a 2XC style safe space when you make posts like this over a select group of incels because the mods can't be bothered to ban them. As to why? Who knows. Maybe TRP quarantine led to less TRP activity here, so to drive up activity, they permitted the incels who are significantly worse than TRP. They went with the devils they didn't know as well, resulting in a higher amount of comments you're objecting to now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:44 PM
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In both cases, you can avoid it by not being dense morons. As I commented in the male version where I said they obviously overlooked a litany of red flags. In this instance, to be in such a situation, you'd obviously have had to be emotionally unintelligent and consciously ignored red flags for inane reasons you'd felt were insignificant for whatever reasons. Not making smart decisions, like in the male version of this thread that you obviously based this on. Unless the man is a total nut job or…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:26 PM
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Instead of getting triggered like you did, laugh at them. If you want a safe space where you're believed no matter what horseshit you're spewing, even if you're evidently lying, then visit 2XC (catch is be a woman).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:18 PM
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:|
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:08 PM
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What attack? I'm just noting that if groupies wad your takeaway, then you didn't adequstely grasp the OP's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:56 AM
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Yet your take away was "tehehe dey only get groupies tehee"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:10 PM
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Let me guess, unprotected sex all over the place bc APFAAAAA DOMEEEENONCEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:09 PM
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I'm laughing at the sheer stupidity of this fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:34 PM
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False equivalence. To use simple terms: the guys paranoid are dummies when choosing partners and probably miss all the red flags akin to the women they say that miss the red flags when going for "Chad".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:33 PM
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Look at these posts, and you'll see these guys operating on what to them is a mixture of higher level mental gymnastics, quantum mathematical models on poonslayologymetrics which ironically makes them feel inclined to feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:31 PM
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Clearly, you didn't get his point if guys like Tate only get groupies was your takeaway point from his post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:29 PM
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It's doubtful you understood either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:30 PM
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Better than you mentally fractured guys fretting about fabricated moral panics over the Internet. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:29 PM
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Jesus bloody Christ, you're basically the female version of the pissy male posters we've been getting as of late.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:25 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ... either you get incels/women haters/paranoid guys or pop psy guys with no chill...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:17 AM
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Did you get the OP's point? This sub... both sides... I don't even know anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:45 AM
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What men post here these days... paranoid bros... incel bros... woe is me bros...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:38 AM
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If there is an influx of women making paranoid threads like this, I'd question why they expect every mam to be an abuser. In fact, I did call out the same paranoia you paranoid androids have in 2XC, including how they believed 3 redditors who contradicted themselves simply because they were women.... guess how that turned out. 😌 I laugh at the asinine comments of both men and women. Ludicrous comments are gender neutral. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:55 AM
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Indeed, they all meet to lament about this in the Watch Tower... or was it the Amazon Island?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:50 AM
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Most of you paranoid guys do not know how to read statistics, let alone apply them. Method 1... and this is key... ready... consider mental help if you're thinking this much about paternity fraud and how it connects to n-count or whatever arbitrary measures you've decided to tag on or intend to tag on. This sub never fails to deliver. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:48 AM
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Maybe, just maybe, a lot of you chaps that tend to be very fearful of this stuff that post in subs like this aren't as perceptive as you believe when choosing life partners. Ofc, maybe all dem evil broads are constantly scheming to screw a man over!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:44 AM
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Ah yes, dem evil broads!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:17 PM
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Sure... because you're prone to choosing women who are likely to cheat/cuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:17 PM
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I'm going to go ahead and assert that anyone frequenting subs like this while being passionate about women these days doesn't know much... also, if Miami and LA are really like that, then for research purposes, I'll check them out... if they're not imma give you an earful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:10 PM
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You guys overthink... which is why 9/10 times the guys who actually approach do well because they'll be approaching while you guys will be conducting thought experiments on reddit about approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:33 PM
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What sort of women do you guys want to have children with?! Those poor children...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:31 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:30 PM
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Don't be silly, you know full well what that implies. To make it clear: you're basically saying you don't trust the mother. Granted, these cases can be avoided by not having relationships with women you can not trust. But, let's play along for these incel/mgtow style threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:30 PM
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The guys who post in this sub about what women like are special in a special way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:45 AM
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To be honest, it sounds like you're moaning because your ignorance was highlighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:47 AM
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Which women are bothered by it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:46 AM
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You sound like a cheerful person to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:45 AM
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I think the guys here are more self-conscious about not having sex yet than the prospective women in their lives. For some reason, I don't think it's the sexlessness... maybe the way the individuals who are self-conscious about it conduct themselves in a way that result in their sexlessness state.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:34 AM
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Tbh, I don't think they believe women are naturally promiscuous. Rather, they express the notion that women have easier access to sex. Reviewing the majority of blokes that tend to frequent this sub, you're likely to encounter ones that feel compelled to share their grievances about this and their sophmoric insights about why society or a subset of society is worse for it... which then causes certain ladies to create reactionary posts of equal sophmoric quality, providing their commentary. The o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:31 AM
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Apparently, nowadays, women have some inner turmoil about going for younger men that they vent about it on the Internet, trying to post something that is meant to present as a logical argument. These incel lot started venting via presenting "logical social issues". 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:28 PM
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Did some redditors hit a nerve?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:22 PM
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Work smarter... which would include examining the underlying notions behind your own thinking systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:18 PM
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All the time. One study/post bases where a redditor makes a post on that topic, which so happened allign with their preexisting biases Insert their own personal grievances and mix it with bits from the link/s they cite The actual link's tone and findings indicate something very different, especially if you look into the subject matter as a whole Are you really looking to get your mind changed, or are you already committed to one side of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:17 PM
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Someone, likely skinny, felt insecure about their lack of ass and felt compelled to post it anywhere in hopes that it would be relevant somewhere, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:22 AM
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With the way they men can end so and so, you'd think we're mythological beings of lore capable of great feats... but we just need to believe to awaken that inner privilege power.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:05 PM
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A lot of people here will post about experiences they have; similarly, some of you will be reluctant to believe experiences that don't align with your perceptions. Some will even come up with asinine likes like "you are what you attract". Tbh, people will probably post the experiences they see (whether it actually happened or not who knows, or happened to them or someone else who knows). But we'd be remiss to dismiss them because we don't like how it makes one gender look. For example, in 2XC, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:37 PM
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I thought this would be one of the core themes? Both sides tend to engage in bad faith discussions of the other, including non-proper critiques, that I dunno if the OP legit did their due diligence or made a reactionary post.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:27 PM
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I think both sides who argue for this passionately can benefit from expanding their social horizons as if you're this invested in people's misery and how you fit in some manner (via your actions/knowledge), then imo, something is lacking your life be it quality time with endeavours you enjoy or you're unknowingly spending time with low quality people for your personal development*. *Which you may overlook if you assign arbitrary qualities for why the people you're with are high quality. A quick …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:25 PM
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I genuinely feel sorry for people in this sub who have dating anxieties and woes that affect them so much that they are unable to watch films such as Forrest Gump without their mind going to dating. Perhaps this could be a sign that there could be a need to consider speaking to someone if dating/relationship matters consume one's mind that much?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:17 AM
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IMO, "treat women like human beings" suffices when frequent lamentations about women are peddled by those heavily using arbitrary qualifiers and metrics using a rudimentary understanding of evolutionary psychology, statistics, in conjuction with socio-economic and demographic trends which they belief are sound justifications behind their assumptions and anxieties.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:13 AM
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Pick me girls will get guys, though the guys they will get may not be the ones they want. Simps will have it harder, generally. That's if getting a partner that someone is happy with constitutes as success. However, if getting a partner in general counts (as many of the thirsty men here believe), the pick me clearly wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:53 PM
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IMO, there is significantly less social pressure for these things than their used to be. If you walked into a doctor's office and said these things before, you'd be told you're worried about normal things. Nowadays, society is more clued up on mental health, you'd be told to stress less, and if required be put on a treatment plan if it had a debilitated effect on your life. A lot of people, particularly online, more so in this sub, seem to have their heads in college age politics where they expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:58 PM
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First, the dude says people should get off dating apps because they are designed to keep you single. Then, he proceeds to make a long argument, justifying this assertion loaded with assumptions. Upon having these points being called out and highlighted, it's likely an issue with the individual, notably him... suddenly, he's was doing great in dating apps, which are supposedly designed to keep you single and has a relationship, but he's going by observations he's noticed from friends... But doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:47 PM
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Ikr, like a hell loop from the Lucifer series.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:40 PM
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A big reason is a man today, based on the thought patterns purported by your post*, is due to the chap's ignorance of how human interaction works and has overcomplicated their outlook with notions they discovered online that were ironically meant to oversimplify dating psychology (like you likely did).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:32 AM
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Try again, and try not yo miss the part about frequent posters... which is likely why you felt called out, hence the reaction equivalent to the usual rantings of the incels here complaining about why women won't touch their pp. 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:37 PM
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One of these days imma make a bingo card for this sub; you guys need to go out and touch grass. Literally, the same themes over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:30 PM
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Reread what I said slowly, maybe what I said will register.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:22 PM
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Easy cmv: no one outside the special groups you've found yourself, no one really cares about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:06 PM
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Not as frequently as you lot. Translation: my social intelligence deficit like you and the lot here who are heavily invested in gender politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:02 PM
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For something that doesn't matter, some women really think about it a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:09 AM
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The fact this is something you think about and something that bothers you is quite telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:03 AM
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I finally encountered a title like this in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:01 AM
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You also post here, which indicates there are a litany of factors you're unaware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:01 AM
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Dunno why the women here* pretend it's the same. Generally speaking, if you tell a guy a verifiable number, it's going to matter a lot more to him. More times than not, the guy will be pandering, and you'll be able to tell. *I know they don't tend to live in the real world in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:00 AM
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Do any of you know what you are on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:05 PM
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What things I've learnt? People are dumb. People are not as smart as they think they are. People aren't as important or as high priority as they think they are. But that's no reason to be mean. Always be respectful and strive to be the better person. You can always better yourself do better for yourself, and THAT is the priority. With all that in mind, its easy for every thing else to fall into place, looking after your image, heath, having things to do, leaving a shitty date, looking beyond a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:37 AM
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I sincerely wonder what world some of you live in some times. I thought the dummies in 2XC were delusional...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:30 PM
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Imma say many of you are the kind of people who have very generous criteria for what makes an abusive/manipulative man and sus ideas of what's a normal and better relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:25 PM
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Citations would be helpful. Either some of you heard/read part of something and run with incorrect assertions, outright fabricate things, or simply got confused about a point someone said. If someone said something screengrab and/or provide the link. I bet we'll be astounded at how often we'll see redditors here making counterarguments to points they made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:33 PM
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Because reddit is where all sane people post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:28 PM
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A lot of you should admit you're not the people reading experts you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:25 PM
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Women are often insecure to be a pain in the ass. Jokes aside, women are always insecure... you act like you've never interacted much with women... which given some of the demographics of this sub could legitimately be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:24 PM
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You guys are all overly anxious, and it shows. Trying to predict how things will be like post 20s based on random variables that no one but a special subset of you place a disproportionate amount of weight on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:22 PM
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I wanna know where some of you get these societal models that you're so confident in. With that much confidence, OP included, you should play the stock markets... nah... all the capital markets. Then go gambling too. With all that certainly!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:11 AM
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Or maybe some redpill working class types should reassess how high value they really are... depending on who they are aiming for. Also, if you genuinely think women's arguments HERE hold water... as in women in this sub are representative of women in society. Then maybe they're onto something re their intellectual compatibility points...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:04 AM
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Why do you guys ask the same questions over and over again?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:00 AM
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Depends, like all things in life. Interestingly, more times than not, you'll find women's advice to men is heavily influenced by some happenstance in their lives. Either they got with someone, got dumped, saw some other couple they may or may not know, reflected on how what could have made past relationship worked etc... the sort of small print you need to keep in mind prior to fully taking it on board. ESPECIALLY, if they're adamant about said advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:07 AM
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I'm going to hazard a guess and assert you seldom see the average man, let alone the average human, because you tend to spend your time indoors ruminating about this conceptual average man and posting about it on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:57 AM
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You can attribute it to being a woman if you'd like. I'd attribute it to you being a certain type of redditor, however. That's the reason I'd be cautious of how accurately you'd perceive things. Exactly like the gents who see misandry everywhere. To be blunt, I don't care for your life story. It isn't relevant to the discussion, nor was it necessary for you to trauma dump. All you did was confirm that you're predisposed to seek out misogyny with the notion that past interactions guarantee you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:54 AM
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Going by a select few that have a tendency to exasperate the levels of actual misogyny in society based on their perceived levels of misogyny (or if you believe your perceived levels of misogyny is representative as it alligns with groups that also tend to exaggerate e.g. just purporting misogyny and getting defensive when questioned as you did. Be able to justify why certain things that seem like double standards when asked. Read your post. It's plausible to assume you naturally assume there's …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:06 AM
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No one faults them for it. The idea is these men are highlighting the double standards where, for simply caring about looks, men will get shit and sob stories about women's insecurities caused by societies standards and whatever else comes up. In contrast to women who won't. The problem is... most men here can't express the point well, and most women or bloops feel emotionally hurt when something blemishes the "women are wonderful" narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:20 PM
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On one hand, you have what the fellas think nice guys mean. On the other hand, you have woo-woo pseudo-intellectual babble with gender studies-therapy spreak who took some good stuff and went to a totally different direction.....man tossed on "woman's consent", y'know. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:28 AM
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Evidently, you all need to touch grass and inhale fresh oxygen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:23 AM
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That user just quoted a soundbite that sounds nice to them and clearly didn't look at this in a balanced view e.g. the classroom setting in academia tends to be better suited for women's learning styles over men's. But part of that means acknowledging inherent gender differences i.e. the fight for inequality and representation isn't as black and white as they present. The OP, while the points they cite have some merit, also oversimplified the phenomena they described
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:52 PM
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I don't know. Imo if you fully own those emotions, i.e... share what you'd tell anyone, or wouldn't mind sharing or are comfortable with/come to terms with, then even of its used against you there's no way it'll be effective and you can question their character and morality for what they attempted to do while making it clear you're judging them. If you're paranoid, then take thar truly stoic and war like approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:51 PM
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I like their bodies as a guy. Re gf material depends on the person, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:41 PM
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Yeahhhhh, lots of you gals look like her. Suuuuure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:31 PM
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Cause most women here are like Lauren Sanchez. 🤣🤣🤣 Ofc, if anyone is going to go by TRP or FDS, then or try to overfit examples like the OP did, then you have other things to address.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:44 AM
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What you feel is probably to console yourself. A lot of women probably don't care about this crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 04:19 AM
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Sure? You felt the need to insert yourself when no one cared for your personal circumstances. I'm not bored enough to help you find what you're missing... but I am bored enough to laugh at you for needlessly inserting yourself. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:51 AM
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The funniest replies are always "not me because [insert qualifier/s] and [random Dharman-esque anecdotes that coincidentally invalidate the point put forward while coming across the opposite]". I'm sure some will totally believe you, no questions. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:52 PM
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I'll let you figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:36 PM
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You guys, geez. The guys and gals are equally inept. At least, it should bring the guys some hope, the idea of the massive amounts of work you need to do to get women... isn't as much as you think. Especially as much as many men and women, notably on the Internet and notoriously on subs like this would have you believe. The OPs of these sort threads usually missed the point insofar that many normal people would wonder if they heard/read the same thing they did, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:06 PM
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So much so you feel the urge to say you "met the criteria" yet "still think its a bunch if bullshit". 🎭 This sub never fails to deliver.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:01 PM
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Ironically the guys who say confidence and overthink write essays about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:11 PM
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It's funny bc you'll either get women who will never meet the tradwife criteria hating on it and women who can only meet it praising it. Then, the men who pander to each latching to side.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:09 PM
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Anyone who seriously thinks life without a partner is boring, pointless, etc, is probably damaged in a way they require some close bond to validate their existence and/or aren't genuinely comfortable with their own company. You'll find their thoughts, what they'll eventually have to face/question fears them, and the partner is a distraction. A counterpoint, you could argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:28 PM
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The worst thing is voluntarily being a mental prisoner of arbitrary belief systems. Many of you exemplify this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:21 PM
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Female OP has some issues with men, probably reckons men dislike her bc of alleged earning power and believes that their opinions are gospel. How accurate you reckon this is, gents?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:25 AM
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Good policy. Know who is worth convincing and whose likely to stick to their views. I do that, personally. It's easier when discussing fiction, then you can see who has blatantly ignored clear things for their own biases. As your example shows, people will prefer their own comfort zone on the Internet. You never know what dummy is on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 07:51 PM
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On the one hand, guys in this section believe random things. On the other hand, when women are really into a guy, they are capable of believing the dumbest things that it makes you question their intellect*, especially if they have issues. *anyone remember mister "send me money, my enemies are after me" 👀 So whether someone agrees or disagrees would without knowing you apart from what you've said will depend on their preexisting biases. In this sub, I'd hazard a guess and assert gender plays a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 07:32 PM
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Depends on the guy. Though, if they're socially maladjusted like a lot of the men here, likely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 07:25 PM
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Everyone ITT believes their lived experience actually amounts to some semblance of compelling data or meaningful experience in lieu of their poor comprehension abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 07:22 PM
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None of you here know much about what most men would think about n-count (various by social circles and varies by individual factors). There's also some exogenous factors to be mindful of. It also depends on how influenced women are by some of the media targeted at them. Assuming they have urban myths indicating how they ought to act akin to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:12 AM
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Incel = anyone in this sub who demonstrates they don't interact with society and moan about life being unfair
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:59 AM
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I'm going to wager the ones that post here have something in common, and they probably differ vastly from the ones that do well. And don't kid yourself, the other races post too. Instead of ethnicity, they focus on random things since they don't have that card to hyper focus on. Random factors include underbites, maxila, face, height, income, female expectations, and so on. When you see the light, then these things become clear: most people who take pill topics seriously aren't particularly brig…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:31 AM
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It doesn't take much to be a "sage" compared to some of you incel/borderline incel types. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:55 PM
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Interacting with the community would hell you answer these questions than talk to fellow social recluses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:53 PM
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Bro, reading comprehension failed you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:52 PM
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But you added the top 20% spin to it while the poster in your link attributed it to preferences. Where did you get with x, y and z men will slay pussy? That's never been reality unless you have fame or high status. You'll also find a lot of those men lack basic social skills interacting with women. Improve for yourself all you want, but you've definitely not improved as you thought if you can't connect with at least one woman. Defo the case with the dude in that post. In your example, lord knows…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:13 PM
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Sounds more like you're trying to pretend men and women aren't different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:02 PM
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Some of you guys really need therapy, I swear. This sort of thinking is dumb incel logic. Goinhg by it even if you do compete with the top 20%, you'll feel there's diminishing returns bc you're still competing with the top 10%... You can see how the pattern repeats. Basically looking for a reason to tarnish the ambition to improve yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:54 PM
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What will be the reason apart from some people's paranoia? If more than 50% of men in a nation were victims of parental fraud, like 51%-70%, a conversation could be had. 80% or more then legislation should be seriously considered. 50% or less, probably not. Perhaps at 45%-50% there could be legal compensation like an alimony equivalent or so if its discovered. IMO no point in disrupting the child's life, the state would have to provide compensation since they ordered payments.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:49 PM
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Another PPD post that's demonstrated they don't understand research methods, critical thinking, statistics and studies into human behavior and interactions. I'd wager someone got triggered directly or vicariously, by some posts insofar they had to make a long post. Your opinion as a young women, honey, doesn't matter. You're also a poster in this sub which makes you a certain type of personality. You also can't say for certain how much you represent other women. Maybe men going for younger women…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:42 PM
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Some of you people need to actually read more, or educate yourselves more generally, instead of acting the gender politics you read om your selective boards have suddenly enlightened you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:29 PM
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Why is there a compulsion to deflect by forcing a like-for-like comparison that doesn't even hold?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:27 PM
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Depends on the person. As much as people here think, their personal experiences don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:19 PM
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I wouldn't say redpilled even, just sensible men. Toxic women are toxic women. You don't need to be red pilled to acknowledge that. You need to be blue pilled, or obscenely delusional to think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:18 PM
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The proverbial royal flush is this alongside a requirement to always be right, victimhood to circumvent accountability, issues will include the father in some way, and of course the absolute must... Validation is a must lest you see (comical) withdrawal symptoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:52 PM
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"It depends" as the answer always is. If they're acting sus and you really want to know if there's a reason for it, it could be a difference between staying and leaving. But if someone is so paranoid about their partner's past or if you're so paranoid about your past insofar you'd ask of the past matters then that's indicative of you requiring therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:44 PM
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Questions reveal many of you haven't actually emotionally matured into adulthood... One would think you've been emotionally stunted at adolescence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:36 PM
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Not always. You'll be surprised at the blind spots people have. Though, one consistent sign of poor judges of character will be the ones who have double standards. Alas the OP is right is right about the ones with harder stances more times than not the ones that are that harder stances, provided they have those standards with consistent and uniform standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:30 PM
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Its almost like these people focus on connecting with other people as individuals and not ruminating asinine factors like certain subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:05 PM
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Weird based on? Tbh when we scrutinize the knowledge base and perspectives of the people calling weird its telling. For instance, the women who feel its weird may, for arguments sake, feel they're intelligent but could have very basic high school girl social intelligence at best but receive exorbitant amounts of validation from gents who see them as nothing more than meat. The result: walking cases of the Dunning-Kruger effect who feel qualified to comment on what is or isn't weird which likely …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:03 PM
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Posts like this make me laugh as it reminds me how many of you from all sides need to go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:52 PM
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Someone cite stats... Properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:49 PM
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My guess, whether they're pretty or not, they feel insecure because they aren't valued options as they waited too long yo do the best they could i.e. feel they'll lose out to the new meat in the market. Mind you this most likely applies to the women who are well aware that deep down that have nothing of value to society aside from conventional beauty. Especially those with some chip on their shoulder about it and feel they need to prove they aren't behind the men in their lives. If you really lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:47 PM
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Women here, like the men here, that ruminate on this topic are beyond help no matter how you try to police their language.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:42 PM
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If you wanna DM insta hottest, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:12 AM
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If that's what you got out of what I said then Jesus fucking Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:07 AM
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People here tend to be socially inept. You can still approach irl if you act normal. You won't be a social pariah if you get one dumbass, especially if you handle the situation with the decorum they lack.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:05 AM
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What in the blue hell...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:32 PM
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If you're like me, you'll know no one is particularly special and take measures to acquire a more balanced perspective. But you're not. You're entitled to your opinion, which ultimately doesn't matter despite what you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:32 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:39 PM
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I'm going to say this... YOUR EXPERIENCE DOES NOT MATTER. Men and women here seem to think their experiences provide some unique insights into things, especially if they think it disproves some perceived majority while failing to apply a modicum of critical thinking and consider other factors. However, to the manosphere's credit, women tend to be significantly worse when it comes to this, though incel men come close.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:35 PM
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They have a lot less hang ups than older women to be brutally honest. That's the notion. Of course, because the vast majority of you barely go outside and see these things for yourself, this idea is based on the premise that women look like shit in their 30s. Nowadays, you find quite a number of women still look sexy in their 30s, even 40s, some more so when they were younger. Basically, if you're hot, you'll get dick from men. And the hotter they are... you run the risk if them being more crazy…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:12 AM
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The only guys I've known to be into fat women are those with fetishes or those who couldn't get/be bothered to acquire attractive women. Oddly enough, you find the more work you do on yourself, the easier it is. Especially if you work on your body, the less of the rest you gotta do. Women are a lot more influenced by looks than you'd think. The other attributes tend to have an exponential effect. Based on my observations, you'd need to be a serious dimbo to fuck up in that scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:08 AM
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I agree. Usually, when I think a woman is stupid ill ghost. Except if she's attractive, then only after I'm bored with the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:01 AM
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It's almost like people are more complicated than what gender politicians on the Internet would have you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:58 PM
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Stop consuming the vast amount of incel material you're obviously willingly exposing yourself to and letting your curious mind get inoculated by the rhetoric. Accept you could be wrong... like we tell the wokies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:56 PM
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Don't pussify yourself by being awkward; you totally kill that sexy vibe about you that attracted her, esp when she has a ton of others dudes hitting her up and you make it clear you're not exactly a hot commodity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:54 PM
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Average height, similar profile, outearn you, but when I was in a lower, similar snd higher income bracket... even fitness bracket I quite literally NEVER had issues dating. Fitness, age, height, income... rando variables people here use to justify obvious inadequacies they don't really want to acknowledge. As demonstrated by the fact you'll still makes excuses if you acknowledged luck if you meet criteria like fitness or income.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:46 AM
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No one gives a toss about friendships; read the proverbial room.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:51 AM
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The confusion comes from the fact that being friends with them overlaps with being romantically/sexually successful with them. That's untrue. Otherwise, all women's friends would be romantically/sexually successful with them and women's voiced preferences in theory and practice would 100% be like-for-like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:09 AM
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A man's success with women depends on how attractive he is to women. Objectively speaking, being friends with women is absolutely worthless when viewed through the prism of attracting women as sexual and/or romantic partners. Women are USUALLY the worst people to ask, the old adage of not asking a fish how to get caught. And also many people (men too) like to feel they're unique and special when they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:26 AM
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Literally a thread full of "trust me bro" right down to how these guys interpret data.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:48 AM
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People here likely have pretty privilege in mind where only the sexiest, prettiest, and most beautiful women exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:46 AM
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:|
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:44 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:43 AM
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In your situation, just get better looking, lol. Maybe develop some interests to overshadow the desperate need for female approval. Ideally, anything that helps with personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:42 AM
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Read properly, and people wouldn't patronise you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 02:36 AM
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Read what I said... slowly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:42 PM
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They don't represent normal women, however. Akin to how incels don't represent normal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:49 AM
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The rest of true love comes after the honeymoon phase imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:11 PM
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I agree that they're extremely similar, but it's just the first time I've ever seen that as an opener. You caught me extremely off-guard. I tend to view the overthinking they both do as unholy bastardisations to meaningful intellectual discourse, so I wasn't expecting that description. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:10 PM
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The amount of overthink jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:07 PM
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The litany of anecdotes of women talking about their encounters with toxic relationships, especially the ones they can't let go of must be a collective dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:07 PM
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My man starts his pitch with "God's creations". I'm ded
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:04 PM
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Wat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:03 PM
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It didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:03 PM
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-_-
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:02 PM
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Stop visiting r/TwoXChromosomes and assuming women who act like the..."special"... ladies in there represent "a growing number of actual incels." I promise you, they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:00 PM
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Did you visit r/TwoXChromosomes and assume they represent all women rather than a subset of women with very deep, profound psychological issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:58 PM
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Read what I said again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:34 PM
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How did you counter their counterpoint with even shitter points? You could've been more creative. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:16 PM
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Your top 3 easily demonstrate the OP's point. I'll happily provide reddit exemplars, which will make everyone laugh... except anyone's jimies were rustled. Now, the OP's point has flaws, but your attempt at a counterpoint was so darn comical because rather than point out anything proper, you just inadvertently demonstrate the point he wanted to prove. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:14 PM
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If you'll use them, use them properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:03 AM
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How do both sides manage to come up with such cringey essays?!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:36 PM
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It just said no race baiting or inflammatory. You're effectively saying it's impossible to have the chat in this sub without it turning sour. I wouldn't blame you after that muck up. :X
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:14 PM
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-_-
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:40 PM
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Being a mod doesn't grant you special insight, I'm afraid, as demonstrated by you perceiving passive aggressiveness when there wasnone.. Your comment indicates that any race talk can not be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:39 PM
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If you needed more convincing that those who really post and take discussions seriously in men and women's spaces on reddit lack meaningful connections outside reddit....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:10 PM
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Yet some how... height is the most significant factor in your head. XD Also I just had a quick check at the rules (if you didn't adequately look at the study in context, you may not look at the rules properly either). Race is allowed, just nothing racially charged or race baiting in a manner that is used to troll or anger others-- keep it non-inflammatory. Going by the hyperfocus of height, I could see how you would feel veering into race in this instance would translate you not being allowed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:08 PM
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Not all women, just the ones with chips on their shoulders that don't think society thinks outside their bubbles that post on some corners on the internet... that seem to validate their beliefs (read: conspiracy theories) with likeminded conspiracy theorists and other fellas that actually believe the content you posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:59 PM
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The main question I have: did you only focus on the part you felt was relevant to what you were interested in i.e. exclude it from the rest of the study in context?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:02 PM
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To make it funnier, the men should add a comical element to their reviews.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:56 AM
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What reality do you live in, my guy? I'm going to wait for you to realise what's wrong with the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:33 AM
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From the entire study, you decided to focus on one table. Hyper focusing on miniscule details from trains of thought from the concepts/people you cited is a recurring theme here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:30 AM
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Attention to detail. I didn't lecture you on how to read studies. I indicated you didn't. At best, I assumed you read summaries from sites; at worst, you heard some rando lines mentioning "studies" and thought they must be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:26 AM
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I know what the actual socioeconomic trends and demographic trends suggest. I'm sceptical if you actually do, or if you quoted some one-liners you saw from certain sources, or were inadvertently subject to the woozle effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:13 AM
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Wat
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:20 PM
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What studies did you skim read on Google to base that off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:20 PM
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Bro thinks he's watching animal planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:19 PM
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Stop reading exaggerations, fanatasy and outright made up stories from r/TRP and r/TwoXChromosomes please. Go touch grass, interact with lots of real people and get more of a real life representation. What you say has some merit, but not to the -- almost comical extent -- these sort of places would have you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:24 PM
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It really is Dunning-Krugger, I'm afraid. Rather than accept they weren't as apt as they believe they are, it is more comforting to isolate a stocastic variable and deceieve oneself into believing they've unearthed a recurring to filter out "bad partners". When in reality the only recurring factor is their incompetence which is a very uncomfortable truth to face, especially if they regard themselves as more intelligent than they are. Re the Dunning-Kruger example I cited, if you told a women who…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:21 PM
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This isn't a widespread phenomena, it just exists in the minds of special people on certain boards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:24 PM
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I wouldn't trust them either way, it may take them. But there'd always be some part of me that wouldn't trust them until some time has passed. This is assuming some random case with the comical profile this place has in mind. In reality, which is very far removed from these sort of subs, its a case by case basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:21 PM
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If you went by that, you'll get lots of false positives. Occam's Razror doesn't always apply, my dude. Nowadays "abuser", "narcissist", and "aggressive" are starting to lose their meaning outside the clinical/legal and formal settings due to how readily many will freely use them as a knee-jerk reaction, or spam them like a nervous tic to slap them on behavours because they feel it'll have some impact. Maybe we should consider them the "pop" variation of the terms, whereby they have little meanin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:19 PM
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Man took "confidence" and turned it into a philosophy lecture, then moulded it into a preach... Could just be a simple case of a Dunning-Kruger effect. Some people just make dumb choices and will rationalise it all their decisions based on the premise that they're more intelligent than they actually are... like many on the internet. Hence you get some who flip when you challenge their solmenly held belief systems on these matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:14 PM
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Please touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:11 PM
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There's more in relationships that what the socially maladjusted on the internet (I reference both male and female spaces that somehow feel they represent an entire gender) believe there is. There are still individuals regardless of age. Going by the post, akin to many , many 2XC posts I've seen and some manosphere ones, I can tell you've probably not done enough research apart from rumination based on limitated data and discussions with others who have limited data. And no, overthinking and not…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:07 PM
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I'm more impressed with the dedication hurt men and women can have when they really put their minds to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:03 PM
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What the... no, no my guy. This is no one outsides certain corners of the internet (like the ones you probably visit and certain extreme female ones you visit to get a female perspective to get the opposite view) actually believes this. Body positivity is just meant to mean be happy with your body. Its just obese women who took it too far and were the most comical ones for the mass media to report on. The certain corners of the internet I cited just happen to be gulliable enough to believe it ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:02 PM
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Ahh, thought you suggested..ahem I think we know what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:56 PM
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"Woman who has a n count of 1... but HE was an amazing sex partner"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:53 PM
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Slowly again... Notice the spelling error that changes the context
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:36 PM
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Read your title SLOWLY.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:20 PM
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Yeah, my guy. Liberal women totally go around with a checklist and a clipboard assessing men for so-called alpha qualities. Let me guess, they use laser pointers to highlight these attributes on these fine specimens! The light will create a club effect and play his iconic theme song. "Romantically awkward"... "perform their masculinity proper"... jfc I'm not even sure if you're srs or fucking with us. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:11 PM
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I thought women's rationalisations could reach paranoia and tinfoil hat levels. But gentlemen... you have succeeded in surpassing them. I don't even know what to say with what I've read. The only comment/reaction that comes to mind is John Kreese's "Jesus Christ" remark when he saw some dude's shirt. One guy really read the OP and said "all you get is ran through women". The drugs some of y'all take... naw, some of y'all probably would need drugs to take the edge off. 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:05 PM
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Reading this will make you trip without drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:38 PM
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My guy says studies then proceeds not to cite any studies. And you're absolutely certain everything you've said can be attributed to oxytocin?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:35 AM
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For some reason imma gonna say its not the video games, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:33 PM
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Weed and something so, so strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:32 PM
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Bruh, I thought I was so stoned and so waved I clicked into another dimension when I read this. My guy sincerely adapted a joke system into his life philosophy... in another thread in this sub, another gentleman basically said he didn't realise scarcity made things more desirable until he examined modern dating (not gonna go into the rabbit hole of the implications that has).... I'm beginning to understand why you need to at least be stoned to enter this sub. Nawww, they gave it away for us. We …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:32 PM
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"The rarer something becomes, the more it will be treated as a luxury and thus be sought more after".... you seriously needed modern dating to learn about this phenomenon... I don't even know how to start... where to start... That's just the title...the post itself... I've seen some questionable things on this site. But, I'm so baffed that I'm speechless
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:38 PM
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