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I compared, not equated. I know how a vasectomy works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:24 PM
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How do you think that I think a vasectomy works?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:57 PM
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I'm not dismissive of the effort it takes for you to shave, exfoliate etc. I appreciate it. I just don't buy into the narrative that men are so unfair because they expect women to shave. It's a slight inconvenience at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:59 PM
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Because being attractive as a woman is so comparatively easy that something as straightforward and simple as removing body hair is already seen as too much effort
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:00 PM
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Just because men want to fuck her, doesn't mean she will fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:26 PM
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Of course not, and I would treat it with the sincerity that it deserves if it were to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:17 PM
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Have you ever met people with pet birds who take certain feathers out of their wings so they can't fly? Do you ever feel a bit sorry for those birds because even though they are content and live a comfortable life, the very essence of being a bird has been taken away from them? If I had a vasectomy, I'd feel like the way I see those birds.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:47 AM
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As I said, it's more visceral than logical. It's not a walk in the park, no. But life is not a walk in the park. I'll take reasonable precaution to make sure she doesn't get pregnant and if she still does, I'll be there every step of the way to help her in whatever way is needed to make it into a beautiful outcome. Men and women are different and have different risks and sacrifices that we need to make in life. For women, childbirth is one of those. And with great risk comes great reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:42 AM
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I wouldn't let my wife to take birth control or get her tubes tied either for similar reasons. I'd pull out when we have sex. If she still gets pregnant, so be it. She's my wife and we were having sex. It's not the end of the world to have a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:25 AM
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Yeah, living with my partner is actually one of the most annoying things about having a partner for me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:12 AM
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I wouldn't get it. I wouldn't leave them either, I'd just firmly refuse. It just takes away your very essence of being a man. It's hard to describe to a woman. It's more visceral than logical though. It's the same reason I won't let my dog's balls be chopped off. As a fellow male, I just couldn't let that happen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:00 AM
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Nah. I wouldn't leave them either, I'd just firmly refuse. It just takes away your very essence of being a man. It's hard to describe to a woman. It's more visceral than logical though. It's the same reason I won't let my dog's balls be chopped off. As a fellow male, I just couldn't let that happen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:59 AM
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Most women do not cheat and many attractive women are single. You are partly right though that they will often mentally check out of the relationship months before ending it whilst being open to potential replacements and not end it until they are sure they have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:58 AM
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Yeah, there are a fair few. They are a small minority but they often run through a lot of women so lots of women have experience with them. I think most of the cases of "manipulative" men that you hear about though are actually obviously "toxic" men, who women think they can manipulate into not having those toxic traits, then when they inevitably fail to do so, label those men as "manipulative". "Manipulative" also seems to be a buzzword women read on social media and will throw it at men very l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:55 AM
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I live in the Philippines and I'm pretty sure I encounter some guys doing this here. I don't think it's a non-extradition country though, it's just that the government can't be bothered to go through the process to extradite that kind of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:49 AM
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Removing body hair is very easy and not at all "unrealistic".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:45 AM
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Not really. There are some local nuances but the underlying issues are the same, especially in the Western world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:37 PM
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A serious recession or war would do it. If life got super tough, men and women would go back to their traditional gender roles because that's what they'd do best and we'd need to be operating at our absolute best for survival. That would create more polarity and attraction between men and women, and more need too. A man's duty would be much more attractive and necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:35 PM
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What you seem to be telling me is that you changed your behaviour because you had money, i bet this is the reason and not the money itself. Yes, that's what I'm telling you. But that behavior can't come without the money, unless I'm delusional and irresponsible. I'm still the same person, still appear to be around the same wealth, but am less attractive to women now that I don't have the money because of the changed behaviours. Every single rich guy with hot girlfriend that i knew was a cuck ALL…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:26 PM
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You're not getting my point. Being rich can make you more attractive. It's not just the riches they are attracted to. It's genuinely you. I've been middle class, poor, rich then poor again in my life. I was never flashy when I was rich but had a nice lifestyle and still have all the same possessions and on the surface, my lifestyle is still the same. However, girls were magnetized towards me when I was rich compared to now and before I was rich, even though 99% of them had no idea how much money…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:48 PM
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Tinder I guess, I'd rather get my head around her being just a metaphorical whore than a literal whore too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:31 PM
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Yes, which is easy if you have lots of money. Therefore TRP's advice to get money is helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:29 PM
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Money is still big and strong because he can hunt and bring food and resources back to shelter, paper means little. We've never been lone wolves. We have always traded and bartered with other people. Money is just a modern reflection of resources. And status is much more about social power than literal power, like a thug is often more socially powerful than a random banker. A thug has status - social power and literal power. The thug is attractive because he has status. That doesn't disprove any…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:00 AM
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Women do have a primal attraction to money and status though. They don't just put up with a man with those things to get those things, they genuinely make a man attractive. If we go back to the caveman days and see why these things are biological: - Big boobs - lots of milk to rear healthy baby - Nice ass - wide hips to easily have child - Muscles - good for going out hunting and fight off animals and enemies - Money - resources, can provide plenty of food and adequate shelter for the family - S…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:03 PM
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So do whatever it takes to get that surgery ASAP and make sure you tell yourself there are no excuses after that. This is your excuse, and you will fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:51 AM
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Turkey is an option. Stop spending any money on your life in anything and reduce your expenses. Aggressively save for it. Go there and do it. If that's genuinely what is holding you back and going to make you confident. You're 27, you should be in your prime, make the most of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:28 AM
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I'm not arguing that looks can't be improved. I'm arguing that these guys are just looking for an excuse not to improve and be the victim and so blaming their looks is more plausible for this than blaming other traits that are not genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:27 AM
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If you're serious, make the money a priority. Go to Colombia or Thailand or Turkey. If you have a nice body then I doubt you are that unnattractive anyway... something like 60% of American women are overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:22 AM
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Then he starts telling me how much HETEROSEXUAL dudes like trans dudes and I'm like "yah, bullshit" and he opens his Tinder account and dude... Just DUDE! Because he tricked them into thinking he's a woman like he did with you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:16 AM
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By that logic, how is a 6 pack or big biceps beneficial to a woman? It's even less beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:02 AM
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How shall desire and respect be spontaneously generated? It can't be, that's the problem. But I do think attraction is relative. Most 20something year old women will be attracted to most 20something year old men (and vice versa) if we think we are on their level and can't realistically do much better. Biology didn't design us to be so attractive to attract a mate into our 30s and beyond. Also, if you weren’t originally desired and respected, it’s okay and no big deal? It's not ideal but I guess …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:59 AM
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They will find him more attractive than the same guy without the money but less attractive than the same guy who made the money himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:31 AM
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I'm not saying those guys are actually beneath them. I'm saying the women view them as beneath them. The OP was essentially asking why do guys want women to settle for less than they currently do when if they do, they will just view the guy as beneath them and treat them badly. I was saying guys want women to settle for less but not see them as less.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:26 AM
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They're not arguing that women should settle with someone they see as beneath them. They are saying they should admire the guys that they currently see as beneath them and settle with them because they have a genuine desire and respect for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:20 AM
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That's just men in general, nothing to do with the attractiveness of your face or lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:11 AM
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What makes you say you're unattractive? Why don't you change it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:10 AM
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I don't think they really believe it. They just want an excuse to blame women and/or more attractive men for their lack of attractiveness and looks seems the most out of their control. Money, charisma, status etc can all obviously be improved and worked on whereas looks, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:07 AM
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I disagree. There's plenty of naturally good looking dudes working at gas stations etc who have a striking face and maybe even body but no quality girl is going to take seriously. And there's plenty of well groomed, styled, in good shape guys who don't have any natural handsomness but are very attractive to women. Your friend who is 6'5 is a massive outlier - that's like 0.1% of the population or something - that doesn't prove anything and you shouldn't expect to be able to compete with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:05 AM
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What did she tweet? His current GF?
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 08:40 AM
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No. That's one of the biggest lies of the manosphere. We naturally deteriorate looks wise almost as fast as women. By our early 30s, most men are "hitting the wall" too. We do have some advantages though: - Some subtle signs of ageing can make us look more rugged, manly and experienced which are attractive traits for a man and can compensate for our loss of beauty - Muscles are one of the main aspects of being good looking for a man and we can get bigger muscles than most 20something year olds i…
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 08:31 AM
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Reply to my chat
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:55 PM
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No idea
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:38 PM
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I assume 90% of those dead bedrooms are wives not wanting to fuck their husbands though, rather than vice versa. I'm sure the husbands would be more than happy to "take care of their wife in bed" if they were given a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:30 PM
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I don't think it takes a huge amount of sex to learn to be good at sex. I've been fucking most days for 8 years and 90% of the skill I have was probably gained in the first month of regular sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:29 PM
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How can a man be good or mind blowing in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:25 PM
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I think "taking care of a woman in the bedroom" being a standalone action/quality is a bit of a misconception. 99% of men want to please their woman sexually, probably more so than their woman wants to be pleased. That's not something that is generally lacking. Women's sexual satisfaction is 90% derived from how much they want to be fucked by you, which is 90% based on what happens out of the bedroom. So sure, sexual intimacy is very important, but what happens in the bedroom is just the final l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:24 PM
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What was her answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:51 PM
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Not really. That's just a bonus. The same way that these types of women can be irrationally destructive and horrible, they are also irrationally loving and obsessive. As a man, that feeling is intoxicating. A more mentally stable girl isn't going to give you that extreme kind of affection. Then, when it's suddenly took away, you'll do anything to get it back. Then when you get it back, you feel like you achieved something, overcome some adversity together and that creates a deeper bond. Plus you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:54 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:02 PM
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That's nice and logical in theory but doesn't work in reality. Confidence comes from success. Success comes from experience and usually lots of failure. Being successful in other areas of life does not make a man confident with women. Having experience and success with women makes a man confident with women. And that will take a lot of failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:00 PM
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