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| 1 | A girl invited me to her house for a movie nightAre you not attracted to her? Think she’s too old for you? | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 06:59 AM |
| 1 | TONIGHT I WILL APPROACH 100 WOMEN ON THE STREET I PROMISE. I WILL KEEP YOU GUYS UPDATEDOP how do you get them to remove their burqas? | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Is it common that fwb girls will be monogamous with a guy even though you're seeing others?It’s called hoflation | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 03:11 AM |
| 1 | How can I increase my libido and overall desire?Do you take any meds or substances? | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Tried to avoid becoming a "gym bro" but may have over-corrected with hobbies -- How much time do you put into hobbies?All good friend. And not everyone at the gym is a gym bro. There are nice people at the gym also and you can be who you want to be. That’s good that you have other hobbies too and keep yourself and life interesting. Like you said not everyone does | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Tried to avoid becoming a "gym bro" but may have over-corrected with hobbies -- How much time do you put into hobbies?You can do both. It sounds like you’re giving yourself excuses not to go to the gym, be fit, and improve your health. It’s self sabotage and seems like you’re afraid of failure. Sour grapes | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Why are the girls who like me on tinder 95% blackTinder makes more money if you stay single | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 04:27 AM |
| 2 | For girls: how would you react if you smelled another girl’s perfume on a guy you’re meeting for the first time for a date?Could have been his sister or friend in his car? Maybe someone he went on a first date with last night? If you think it went well then continue seeing him if you feel he’s genuine. Make yourself be the one that other girl should be afraid of | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 07:00 PM |
| 1 | After a hookup I always get blocked. What am I doing wrong?We need more info OP. Can you tell us what happened with the last one? Your post is extremely low effort. If this is the amount of effort you put into the girls and critical thinking, then this explains it Are you good at sex? Consider reading some tips online, learn good oral, or buy some toys Are you attractive but your personality is a brick wall? Get some more hobbies, interests, and goals. How do you treat them in the morning? Ever make breakfast or take them out for coffee or brunch? Are y… | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 06:40 AM |
| 5 | Quick Visits to Bars, Does Staff Notice?As postbody said, work on building your confidence. You have a right to be there and do your thing. Use it to your advantage. Befriend the bartenders and bouncers and say hi. Ask how their night is. Slip them a 10 or 20 every once in a while. You might be surprised of the access you begin to get. It’s work for them and I’m sure they begin to get happy to see a friendly and familiar face. | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Anyone tried 2 girls on 1st dateIf you’re young and they’re fun girls and you’re all there just to have fun, nothing serious, it could potentially work out. Might make them like you in a toxic sort of way | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 10:43 PM |
| 19 | Anyone tried 2 girls on 1st dateDo it and report back OP. For science | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 04:21 PM |
| 2 | “There’s a lot of girls in ur area, why don’t u have a gf?”Trauma dumping means talking all about past trauma. People who aren’t over their trauma want to talk about it and overshare. They are focusing on themselves and not you or the relationship. Many of them are asking you this question partly because they want you to ask them the same in return and unload their history on you. This is what projection means. It’s a bad start to a relationship. When you meet someone it needs to be fun and start off positively. The girl asking you this is her way of ex… | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 04:07 PM |
| 1 | “There’s a lot of girls in ur area, why don’t u have a gf?”“Because I haven’t met you yet” “I need to pray more next time” “better alone than in bad company” Don’t answer seriously. Some of these girls love trauma dumping. They ask that because they have their own failures and are projecting them onto you. The question is a form of self sabotage for themselves and any relationship with you so make sure to lighten up the conversation | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 02:23 PM |
| 15 | What happens to those guys who can easily get sex, but not a relationship?Beautiful people disease You may think these people have good personalities, but they aren’t working on the finer things in their life to better themselves. They get what they want - instant gratification - and thus don’t try hard otherwise. They may be fun in the moment but eventually their personality reveals itself as a brick wall | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Secret tip for dating appsRussia was super easy when I was there | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Girls being selfish with sex?Did you smoke? Sounds like they’re high | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do women always change their demeanor after i give them the plan b pill?I would suggest asking them if they are on birth control when you’re in the act. If they are not, tell them you have a plan B pill if they want it | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 11:59 AM |
| 17 | Why do women always change their demeanor after i give them the plan b pill?Is this post real? Did you talk about birth control beforehand? They may already be on birth control Also from what I’ve heard plan B can cause horrible cramps. The girl then associates that bad experience with the person Why don’t you add more amenities and give them a free latte and bottled water with the plan B? | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Is my Tinder profile that bad or is my algorithm just completely dead?You can for sure be so low in the algorithm that you aren’t being seen at all, even by bots. For those that are older, Tinder is pay to play. Tinder doesn’t want older people on their app. When you first sign up for Tinder it shows you to everyone. Then after that you can gradually fall through the ranking. Depends on your looks, age, profile, and what ages your profile is set to see. From your post here we at least know you aren’t a “really good looking” guy. Impossible to know without seeing y… | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 02:52 PM |
| 1 | I've gotten over 30 womens numbers in the past 6 months and they have all flaked. Many by the time I text "Hi/Hola". What am I doing wrong?Ask them if they want to do a quick video call within 24 hours. This helps them remember you and get familiar with you. Or at least send a voice note | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Is it weird that one of my best friend’s girlfriend won’t set me up with any of her friends and she’s ok with her friends slightly bashing me?It seems here like you’re blaming society on your own problems. And that you feel entitled to these girls. So what if they don’t like you? Move on Take some responsibility. Use it as an opportunity to improve yourself. Your looks, status, or game. Talk to other girls | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 02:22 AM |
| 6 | Do women chase guys who "ignore" them?If you’re not texting your girl, someone else is | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 01:24 PM |
| 34 | Instagram is the new DATING APPGood post OP and very true. It doesn’t work for all, but it’s another great way to meet people. It’s basically a social resume. It’s the MySpace of our times Much easier than dating apps for some, which are pay to play, and sometimes hide attractive people from you Some people get upset when a girl gives out her Instagram. They shouldn’t. If she follows you back it means she’s keeping in touch with you and their is potential opportunity there | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Do women like to hear the sound of their own name?I’ve always thought the opposite. Calling someone by their name makes you feel like you’re in trouble. And you should rarely call someone by their name, because they are already right in front of you. This is why couples come up with nicknames for each other | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Lied to a girl about my ageAre you trying to date this girl seriously or just bang? If she finds out just tell her age is just a number. Or tell her you’re both the same age, you’re both today years old Then be honest and say you were afraid she wouldn’t give you a chance if you said 17 There was a time when people used to care about these things a lot less. She can she exactly how much you’ve aged. Youre right in front of her | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 04:11 AM |
| 184 | I have had a higher success rate approaching women in malls than in nightclubs.How do you approach them? | /r/seduction | 03/07/23 11:27 PM |
| 40 | How do you keep the relationship going past the initial excitement?Great tips already especially top comment. Keep surprising her. Give her surprise gifts or notes. Small things. Sneak a candy bar into her purse before she leaves. Write her sexy notes or snaps Keep pushing boundaries. Doing new things, meeting friends and family, having new events | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | How is cold approaching NOT needy behavior?There’s something you need to know. Women want to get laid and be in relationships too | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 08:28 PM |
| 1 | When someone says there is "lack of connection" what exactly is that?To start, someone has to see you of at least 6-7 in attractiveness level in their eyes before they even begin to entertain an interest in you. You have to be her type. Then after that, you must generate an attraction. You have to open her up. You can do this through humor, confidence, just being extremely good looking, and giving some sexual tension, like talking about or mentioning sex, to get her mind starting on it. If a girl decides there is a lack of connection and actually says this to you… | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Things I've learned about hooking up as an Indian guy in the US.No, that’s how Indians grow up, for real. Tons of family and social pressure | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 02:28 PM |
| 82 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2)I like the tip about energy and bringing on the fun. Can you tell us how tall you are? Are you built from going to the gym? | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 09:42 PM |
| 0 | I have been wearing height inserts for 5 months and I am afraid I will get exposed.It’s the girls problem, not his | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 09:26 PM |
| 11 | You’re on a date and having a good time but you can feel things getting a bit too platonic - what’s the best way to sexualise things?Ask her age lost virginity and then share yours Play the game Buzzed. Lots of sexual questions in the game. You don’t have to get drunk playing it | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 09:20 PM |
| 16 | Good recommendations to increase my texting gameDepends on the age of the girl. Younger girls need constant attention. Time moves slower for them. You must text them every day to every other day. Most of them will quickly forget about you and think you aren’t interested if you don’t text Use texting for flirting. Not for getting to know a person. Send funny memes, a random dad joke, a new song you just found, a snap with a funny filter, a snap of you doing something fun or funny. Don’t send an article that requires reading. It’s ok to ask how… | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Short men 5'7 and below, how well do you do and what's your story? How did you get good with women?Those 6’3” skinny guys. Life is just so hard for these poor souls | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 09:34 PM |
| 4 | Anyone else notice how when you ignore some women and they see you level up they become interested in you..“That goes both ways” doesn’t require a response All is going well. She may have needed to see more to have the attraction toward you. Women are social, and them seeing you perform well socially can give a huge boost If you like her, start the conversation and ask her to do something with you | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Finding a boyfriendMeet people through friends, hobbies, clubs, or events. If you do things you enjoy doing, you’ll meet people similar to yourself. Make your personality match your body. Hot body, amazing person. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 02:52 PM |
| 9 | do girls know they're being approached?They do. Has a gay dude ever hit on you? It’s obvious. It’s obvious to girls too | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:46 PM |
| 4 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameSometimes it depends on the girls age. I would say that as people age, you can do less texting. Mark Manson says to only text to set up a date then nothing else. This is because he’s dating older women and the intention and attraction is already there. Buts it’s not always this way. It’s ok to text girls more. Flirt. Have fun! Get to know each other. Send memes, ask questions, or just make statements, be funny. It’s especially important if you’re talking to a younger girl and can’t meet right aw… | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 08:09 AM |
| 1 | How do some guys make girls obsessed with them?Talk to your friend and ask him and report back to us OP. | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | how to attract girls if you don't use social media?That’s cool bro. How old are you? Some girls in their teens to early 20s literally do not use their phone number at all for communication. And have an aversion to giving out their number. But those types may not for be you so you may be alright | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 04:51 AM |
| 1 | how to attract girls if you don't use social media?In some ways social media can be considered like a “resume” of sorts people can view. And sometimes stories and likes help open up communication. But you don’t need it. There is no substitute for meeting someone in real life and having a real life social sphere. Having no social media in many ways adds some confidence and mystery to you. I notice many girls these days are having a low social media footprint. Social media is good and bad You might want to keep a snap account just because some gir… | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than meIf you want to see that girls can be manipulated at any age go watch tinder swindler and bad vegan Guys can get manipulated by these girls too | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 11:01 PM |
| 6 | thanks rseductionGet it bro | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 04:14 AM |
| 2 | approaching two girls and a guy went mehDo you think the guy cock blocked you or genuinely wants to be friends? If it’s the former, drop it. If you think it’s the second, invite the bro to hang with you but don’t have too many expectations. You’re meeting people, having fun, and expanding your circle. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 04:07 PM |
| 7 | I sometimes feel like dating women is like playing a video game. I have to do certain things in a certain order at the right time to keep them interestedI definitely partially agree with this. However be careful taking it too far or else it becomes confirmation bias. "It didn't work because it wasn't supposed to." It's true to a degree, sometimes not. It's like saying "Everything happens for a reason" or "It was God's will" Taken too far it also goes along with the cult of confidence that floats around social media to believe in yourself and ignore your problems and development ("all bodies are beautiful" "believe you yourself" Taylor Swift sayi… | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 05:06 PM |
| 4 | If you ask someone out , they say yes, but….This makes sense logically, but not all girls and people operate on a logical basis. There are plenty of girls that would answer no to that question if they are busy at that time with no added info, but would give a different answer to “when are you free?” If they have time Ask the open ended question first, “when are you free” or “what’s your schedule like” | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 08:49 PM |
| 4 | What can we learn from Pete Davidson?Dude is 6’3”. Also funny, smiles a lot, unique style, and is open about his issues, probably good at emotionally connecting with women | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 02:14 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]-eye contact -the first date must always be at night -interactive activities or games help -on first date, always ask age lost virginity and share. This get people thinking about sex. Don’t be nervous just ask it -try to introduce her to a friend of yours somehow on the first date if you like her. This shows your social status and helps confirm to her you are normal -touch her arm, back -ask her full name and middle name, and about family -after the date, text/snap daily. Otherwise she may lose … | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 08:52 PM |
| 2 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexI partially agree with this. But ask yourself, how many LTRs or returns have you had when you had sex on the first date? I would say that it is important to progress physically, spiritually, and socially with the girl each date. If you don’t have sex it’s ok as long as you’re progressing somehow with her. There are other reasons to not have sex right away besides “preserving honor.” Waiting can build tension, which can lead to a stronger bond. Sex also has a way of your brain “defining” your vie… | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 04:45 AM |
| 4 | FLAKING (Short experience)The main issue I see is that you waited a week to text. But even then, tbh it could have gone the same way anyway if it was a day after. I can tell by this story that this girl is young. They are easily distracted and can lose interest quickly. At this point in their life, for many of them, flirting and dating are a type of “practice” for them to learn what it means and to have fun. That canceling is called the slow fade. These girls don’t have enough confidence to be upfront and tell you they a… | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 10:00 PM |
| 0 | An Approach Doesn’t Have to be an ApproachDon’t know why this guy is being downvoted, it’s true | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 08:42 PM |
| 28 | Women can be extremely fickle with their emotions when you first get to know them. They can be attracted to you one day, and then lose interest the next. Understand and accept this before you develop feelings for someone you barely knowI just can’t believe this. There has to be something to the quality of the interaction | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | TextingYour reply was a little immature, but she gave you a smiley which means she is probably still often. Now that New Years has passed, open with something simple like “good morning beautiful.” Ask how is her 2022 so far. Then ask when she is free for coffee or drink or dinner or whatever. Direct and simple | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 11:14 PM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]Always keep ‘em guessing and maintain some mystery. There should be push and pull. Use words like “perhaps” and “possibly”. If you want to transition from friend to more, be a little vague and say “Hey do you want to do something - just you and me this time” with a confident tone. She should get the picture. Look her in the eye. Maybe add “possibly with romantic intentions” to the end of your statement. Don’t ask a girl to be your girlfriend unless you know she’s already there or very close. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 08:31 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Thank you for this post OP | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 04:36 AM |
| 10 | Instagram - How to market yourselfInstagram is another form of needing validation. I see it as an indirect way of keeping in touch with people and a social CV. Sometimes acquaintances will come back around and comment on your stories. Do you think people who are truly confident in themselves spend a lot of time making posts? If you were in heaven sitting on a cloud, would you take a pic of it and post it for likes? It may depend on what age you are. But girls get so many messages on Instagram that the are accustomed to leaving t… | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 11:03 AM |
| 2 | GangEvolutionary biology programming. Height is a surrogate marker of fitness, good genes, health, and adequate nutrition growing up Weight is same, also is a marker of good health and genes No one has to be a dick about either one, but if girls demand to know height, asking their weight is the equivalent thing Sure you can “change” weight, but people aren’t good at that and tend to gain back. And they aren’t going to change it next week before your date either | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/04/21 12:33 PM |
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