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Am I psyching myself out , are there women understanding of situations like this? Yes, because they have their own money, but they're a double-edged sword. Case in point: one of my exes. She locked in a great mortgage, finds men for free services (e.g. one's a mechanic, another's a locksmith...), and rents out spare rooms. She'd never expect a man to pay, but she's also turned down multi-millionaires for disturbing her peace.
/r/seduction28/07/26 03:59 PM
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Because they don't want to miss out. Because life is short. Because there's always another day. Because you wore a Jack Daniels T-shirt. Because you remind them of Amélie. Because 7ft billionaire werewolves aren't answering their calls. Who cares? Your aim is to look good, take risks, and be interesting regardless of how anyone else responds. Because that's life.
/r/seduction28/07/26 02:11 AM
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Have you considered that beautiful women want sex (often with Redditors)?
/r/seduction28/07/26 01:37 AM
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But it's true I would never let my desires come to the surface But why? This really does seem to be the executive problem (i.e. the reason you can't get what you want done).
/r/seduction28/07/26 12:26 AM
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Your core issue is that you see your sexual interest as a bad thing or an affront. I've seen this in friends with overbearing mothers or intense-but-mundane religious backgrounds. One had the notion he'd be slapped for every faux pas. Another was raised to believe women only have sex if bought, cajoled, or frog-boiled (a common 'seduction' belief, e.g. 'ASDs'), which gave him too many complexes to function. There is no external fix. A dating coach can't help you. Routines, methods, techniques et…
/r/seduction28/07/26 12:18 AM
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I’ve seen that for naturals it comes from a place not taking on other people’s frames As a 'natural' I'm honestly just doing and saying stuff because it's harmless and I can. The Irish say 'for the craic.' If you're thinking of frame (or much at all really), you've messed it up.
/r/seduction27/07/26 10:00 PM
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where do you get a pen from you just carry it? Oh yeah. This happens weekly. I also carry a lighter and menthol cigarillos so I can commune with smokers in their natural habitat. Bro that took her home is a demon 100%. People don't know how strong alcohol is or how it really works. They think it's a disinhibitor, when it actually completely changes a person's decisions. I've taken my fair share of substances, and the behavioural impact of alcohol is easily greater than weed, psychedelics, and co…
/r/seduction27/07/26 12:41 AM
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I realized she was drunk af like too far gone and I couldn’t take advantage of her If they're this far gone I grab their numbers or write mine on their arm. Was once pretty drunk and wrote the Talk To Frank drug helpline on a woman's arm thinking it'd be really funny. Had no way of contacting her when I woke up.
/r/seduction27/07/26 12:01 AM
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That's a sound analogy, but it wasn't supposed to represent the full spectrum of life. It's supposed to counter blackpill cope. "She'd still be with you if you were richer, bro." "The problem's not you, women are just shallow." Plenty of women are, but even if you married a gold-digger that's no way to live.
/r/seduction26/07/26 07:10 PM
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Hot take: money and status are not innately attractive to women. Money and status put you at the top of the male totem pole, and that's attractive, but if there is no totem pole - i.e. a social setting where flexing is faux pas and every man in the room equally capable of retiring her (for instance, a country club) - women gravitate to the funniest, wittiest, least compromising, and most facially attractive (roughly in that order).
/r/seduction26/07/26 03:59 PM
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I'm always in a mixed-sex group because I go out to drink with friends. It's very easy to meet new people because no-one has their guard up, everyone's having a good time, and most of the leg-work (i.e. saying hi to a huge horde) is done for you. And women make the best wingmen. I don't know why your female friends would 'cock block' you (jealous lesbians?), but guys who fear the friendzone are living life on legendary difficulty.
/r/seduction26/07/26 01:55 PM
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He specified a Euro truck driver. Much more stable employment, much higher up the social ladder, and much better trucks.
/r/seduction26/07/26 12:24 AM
3

If they're willing to contribute something, I don't care who pays for what. If they're not willing to contribute anything, they're getting chocolate dust from a petrol station coffee machine and a reheated water to-go.
/r/seduction24/07/26 02:32 PM
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You feel guilty because you're acting shady for no reason. Last time I had a 'rotation' (2023-24), they all knew of and eventually met each other. A 'rotation' should know things are casual and that you're sleeping around. There is no good reason to hide that. The normal reason people do is because they know the person they're sleeping with wouldn't consent if they told the truth, and that's predatory scumbag behaviour.
/r/seduction23/07/26 08:28 PM
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Mao's undescended testicle couldn't beat this out of me.
/r/seduction22/07/26 09:11 PM
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Username checks out.
/r/seduction22/07/26 09:10 PM
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Could be tons of things really (we know less than you), but I'm sure she'll appreciate clarity and you sticking your neck out to address it - even if it turns out to be nothing.
/r/seduction22/07/26 08:25 PM
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This one's a bit too sensitive for the "we have sex tourism at home" sub because she's a childhood friend. I'd personally resolve it head-on: "Noticed you're not having as much fun on the phone. Might be because of work but if it's because of the blowjob, I'm still a pal" (or however you'd phrase that). You're probably better off not calling every day but it's possible she doesn't call because she knows you will. Don't overthink that. Just establish clarity about where you stand.
/r/seduction22/07/26 08:07 PM
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Because if there was no tension there'd be no entertainment value. Plenty of people operate this way in real life, but they're not conventionally genuine.
/r/seduction22/07/26 03:41 PM
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That is Patellarific. Literally Neanderthal. In an actual cave.
/r/seduction21/07/26 10:40 PM
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I don't think your job's in danger but next time a lady asks for specifics, give her them. It might be too risky to correct their absence in person. Her: “Ok,.. BIG DAWG 😭
/r/seduction21/07/26 10:39 PM
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That's when societies started forming The earliest extant evidence of 'social care' (at least in-group social care) is from 45,000 - 35,000 BC. (I'd be way less invested in proving you wrong if you hadn't called me an American.)
/r/seduction21/07/26 10:30 PM
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Those things didn't exist in caveman times Yes they did. So did the majority of women have the same privliges as Pu-Abi or is it just an outlier? (which it is) The vast majority of men didn't have the privileges of Pu-Abi, because she was a queen or high priestess (functionally the same thing). My point was that your impression of 'caveman times' when women had no rights and every man was a king is historically untrue. It comes from 'the state of nature' (a theory of 18th-century conservatism), …
/r/seduction21/07/26 10:11 PM
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Women had no rights in the time of civilizations OP's understanding of historic is cartoonish, but this is equally wrong. There are great differences one society to another but, generally, unmarried women could own property and conduct business in their own right. There were medieval female moguls and bankers like Lucrezia Galletta and Annabell Furner. Life circumstances made them rare, but they weren't disallowed.
/r/seduction21/07/26 10:03 PM
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Also cavemen did not shave They did. Because it's basic anti-lice hygiene, hominids have probably shaved for millions of years.
/r/seduction21/07/26 09:58 PM
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Right.. so what was status back then? It was the strongest man No it wasn't. Artisans, poets, priests, and warrior-kings are frequently of identical status in pre-industrial societies (e.g. the Irish aes dana). And if we judge status by who owns the most precious metal or worked goods, female artisans, poets or rulers could be very high up the status ladder. Pu-Abi, for example.
/r/seduction21/07/26 09:52 PM
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Young guys apply this 'asshole - nice guy' dichotomy to situations that absolutely do not need it. You weren't a gentleman because you talked to casual acquaintances about yourself in-depth and at length (that's a general faux pas, actually; communication coaches recommend the opposite). You aren't treating anybody like shit by not going out of your way for casual flings. You're just finding an appropriate balance. That's what relationships in your early twenties are for.
/r/seduction18/07/26 10:54 PM
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Yes, actually. The specifics were sarcastic but if you're not local and they're in their element things flow more freely. I suspect it's the same anywhere.
/r/seduction18/07/26 08:58 PM
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If she's not responding there's nothing to damage.
/r/seduction17/07/26 08:05 PM
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i was trying to appear dominant and unphased by her advance, but i basically punished her heat/advance Dating coaches are lying to you bro. You should be phased in the presence of a stunner. Accepting their advance or acknowledging they're attractive doesn't mean you're undone or knocked off your stride; it just means you're an honest man with eyes. leave it alone or stack another message on top of it? I'd leave it alone but a "Yeah that was kinda weird but I'm not blocked so pre-drinks at 7?" c…
/r/seduction17/07/26 07:53 PM
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Where did you meet the women involved? Always at the pub / bar. One time a woman and her friend realised they'd both made a pass and split the difference; another time they were operating as a pack; sometimes your group accumulates familiar faces as it drifts between venues, and the cookie crumbles in strange ways. I've tried to arrange threesomes in daylight (through the fabled bi goth gf) but they either didn't happen or turned out badly. What social scenes, venues, hobbies, parties, or commun…
/r/seduction17/07/26 02:31 PM
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I'd say wait for a warm, but I don't do daygame. It sounds like cutting against the grain.
/r/seduction16/07/26 07:32 PM
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Fair cop. The answer is that you don't expect strangers to be automatically enthused by your presence. They're out for their own reasons, and you aren't one of them. The onus in on OP to make the experience rewarding.
/r/seduction16/07/26 07:16 PM
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Oh, ffs, you mean OP was just hiring a hooker this whole time? Sometimes I really can't with this sub. Mostly it's like a low-speed car crash; you can't look away but you don't feel too bad not stopping it. This is something else.
/r/seduction16/07/26 07:07 PM
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Strangers don't have to clap at your (uninvited) presence. You're not Kim Jong-un.
/r/seduction16/07/26 07:05 PM
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Cardiff, Manchester, Newcastle, and Glasgow - in that order. Everything nocturnal is fantastic in any one of them, people are out to have a good time, and you can do them on back-to-back nights whilst still sight-seeing. Central London's like a foreign country to me. I go there often (it's an hour away) but there's no honest reckoning what the social make-up of a pub or bar will be like one night to the next. Haven't been to Liverpool; only driven through Bristol. Not heard amazing things about …
/r/seduction16/07/26 06:47 PM
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Oh, she gets commission. That's sneaky.
/r/seduction16/07/26 06:32 PM
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And she mentioned that between the first trip and the second which was 3 months gap you never talked to me or texted me It's pretty clear what's going on: you ignored her for three months after a holiday romance and the world moved on. The only solution is to apologise for that (and/or giving her the wrong impression), buy a parting or a reconciliation round to ease hard feelings, and move on with it. I really thought I have been taken advantage of financially and she and her friend are actually…
/r/seduction16/07/26 04:56 PM
1

Tarot cards work in the same way a Rorschach test is supposed to: you interpret the cards in a way you already know is true but otherwise struggle to tell yourself.
/r/seduction16/07/26 03:01 PM
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Social grace is far more important to me than peace, purity, or model looks. Because my money comes from development, rentals, and bonds. There is no corporate stress. I know her embarrassing flings aren't in my social circle (unless they somehow are, in which case they aren't embarrassing; that's the magic of upper middle class social standards...). But if she can only talk about herself, lacks the self-possessedness that elevates risky topics, mistakes quality of communication for quantity, an…
/r/seduction16/07/26 02:57 PM
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Negging is stupid. At best, it's just a rebrand of 'banter.' At worst, it's insulting strangers. It's what you do if you've got no charm, which nine times out of ten is because you've got no genuine warmth towards others.
/r/seduction15/07/26 11:48 PM
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Fake alpha bullshit can also create this 'performed reluctance,' as women use it as an excuse to not do risky things with men who seem insecure and volatile (source: they've told me).
/r/seduction15/07/26 01:05 PM
4

Had a 30' Bayliner in uni. It didn't make things easier or harder, because it's basically a money tell and people either care about money or don't.
/r/seduction11/07/26 10:56 PM
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You're being a fanny.
/r/seduction11/07/26 12:27 AM
3

Dinner?
/r/seduction08/07/26 11:53 PM
3

Looks and adventures. I'm well under 6'0, have never been a gym-goer, and don't flash money.
/r/seduction27/06/26 11:36 PM
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Maybe two-thirds. If I'm out with friends I won't cut it short for a woman who isn't odd in some way (e.g. alt fashion, ASBO bait, a tourist). Attractive men who'll pick anyone who hits on them can take someone home 100% of the time. I knew a deeply insecure guy who also happened to be stunning and in amazing shape. He wasn't fussy at all. It was functionally impossible for him to sleep in the same bed twice.
/r/seduction27/06/26 08:47 PM
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Personal anecdotes from so called “chads” would be helpful too (also incl. your age pls) I don't call myself a chad because I'm not a knob, but was very attractive from 18-30. Women came up multiple times a night. Now I'm fatter, some still do but it's usually on a Friday and Saturday and they expect to be bought drinks.
/r/seduction27/06/26 07:54 PM
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Financial freedom always comes first, followed by personal virtue and character. Enjoyment of every other good depends on these. All your relationships should add to one or the other. If they don't, they're not worth your time. At twenty, play around with a compound gain calculator to see how easy it will be to retire a multi-millionaire if you consistently park money in high-yield savings accounts and ETFs (assuming a yearly 5% gain, which is typical for major stock indices).
/r/seduction25/06/26 09:11 PM
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I'm saying the women are arrogant and entitled Perhaps you're advertising a ritzy, vibrant lifestyle and that's what they expect to see. I put a thimble and burnt toast on my profile so they know exactly what they're getting.
/r/seduction25/06/26 08:47 PM
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you can't help but think the market is absolutely fucked This is the problem.
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:09 PM
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women almost never seem to notice me when I’m out shopping or walking through pedestrian zones. Most of the time it’s like I’m completely invisible It's because they've got shit to do. And daygame is a bit creepy. "Hello women 37, I've stopped you on the street to run some robotic scripts so I can test your compliance and write about your tits in my diary." Absolute dingbat behaviour. Just have normal conversations with people you find attractive like a functional adult.
/r/seduction23/06/26 06:16 PM
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where can i find a rich millionare woman? who's ideally chilling in her thirties A retired, rich young woman who's single despite actively looking for a man to spoil? Yeah, that doesn't exist brother.
/r/seduction22/06/26 01:53 AM
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They're not. I grew up in a rich family surrounded by other (frequently richer) families, and 99% of the time millionaires are doing normal everyday stuff in normal everyday clothes with a normal everyday car.
/r/seduction22/06/26 01:52 AM
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How do I know how hard to hit/choke exactly? There is no safe way to choke someone. 90% of people who want to be choked don't know what they're talking about, and would settle for a light hand holding the neck. If that's not enough, squeeze the jaw. But never put pressure on the front or sides of the neck. What if I overdo it and she gets offended? Ask first, start light, and don't escalate unless she tells you she's into it. Also, teach her both verbal and physical signals for Continue, Change,…
/r/seduction19/06/26 01:11 PM
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I am starting to wonder is the main appeal for pick up artists is selling that image of success to just make money Lmao yes. They teach you to trawl for sex everywhere but places specifically designed to cater to that (e.g. bars and clubs). Of course it's inefficient. It's like lobster-fishing in your toilet. The only real 'Game' is making yourself as attractive as possible by taking care of yourself, devoting yourself to your life's mission, and having fun.
/r/seduction15/06/26 05:51 PM
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That's not what alcohol does. It actually diminishes foresight and narrows focus to the immediate environment.
/r/seduction15/06/26 03:37 PM
1

and after a quick heart to heart she tells me that she likes my vibe as well They discussed it and agreed not to see you to preserve their friendship. For a community of premium gold standard shaggers, not much thought is given to mixed social dynamics around here.
/r/seduction10/06/26 12:24 AM
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Showing a barmaid an antique gun and pretending to hold her up after a bit of banter about historic weapons on the wall. Didn't even intend to flirt. My thoughts are always two seconds ahead of me. Banter about historic insurgency methods with a Ugandan Pakistani and some Irish blokes we met in the pub. We eventually concurred that phoning up several minutes before an incident is gentlemanly behaviour. "I mean, I want to f*** you halfway into a body bag, c***." I was not sober. At all. In fact I…
/r/seduction03/06/26 09:28 PM
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I (24M) am the lead guitarist This is the problem. Ladies all want bassists.
/r/seduction02/06/26 05:34 PM
25

If your friend is like this when she isn't around, he's not doing anything wrong; he's just better at being the fulcrum of a group ('holding court') than you.
/r/seduction01/06/26 11:21 PM
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it's a serious relationship we are mid 30s , friend is 30 Fucking Hell man, we've all been there but you're miles too old for this. Whatever your friend is or isn't doing (probably nothing), it's irrelevant if you can trust your girlfriend. Your reaction was driven purely by your own insecurity ('alpha,' 'beta'). The best thing to do is the one that requires the most balls: do some soul-searching and give your friend a thorough apology. If he's surprised to hear details, you should give your gir…
/r/seduction01/06/26 11:18 PM
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In your shoes I'd pretend to be something more popular with women, like a cop or big game hunter.
/r/seduction29/05/26 12:14 PM
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It's not about the job, but the conversation. "I'm an accountant" is a closed statement (about which people form judgements, for good or ill). A description can be tailored to whomever you're talking to, evades prior conceptions, and creates branching topics.
/r/seduction29/05/26 12:15 AM
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Explain what you do instead of a job title. E.g., "I straighten the books for venture capital start-ups" instead of "I'm an accountant."
/r/seduction28/05/26 10:45 PM
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*They. Weren't non-binary, there were just a lot of them. I blew through my life savings. One wanted me to sell some homes (am a real estate developer), and that was the "nah, screw this" point.
/r/seduction25/05/26 04:57 PM
0

I'm writing a post about it (figured somebody has to...).
/r/seduction25/05/26 04:57 PM
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What do you mean by 'bad girl,' exactly? Because if you mean alt aesthetics, drugs, and minor criminal lifestyles I can give you tips. If you mean Cluster B personality disorders, cease.
/r/seduction24/05/26 09:21 PM
20

I wouldn't joke about swerving a Greek emo, pal. The good news is I haven't been anywhere near that clueless in years. They're just funny stories.
/r/seduction22/05/26 03:33 PM
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My dumbest "maybe she was hitting on me..." story is a girl I'd been partying with literally asking me to get into bed with her. I thought I was being a gentleman by letting her have the bed to herself. I uno-reversed this a couple years later by telling another girl who asked to get into bed with me (we'd watched a horror film together in my room) that it it "wasn't that scary" and she'd be fine sleeping on the floor. The best was when a Greek emo stoner gave me such a thunderously obvious come…
/r/seduction22/05/26 02:45 PM
2

Health is beauty, so your ideal body fat percentage is a combination of what's best for your body's nutrition and what suits your bone structure. Usually it's between 14-22%. Too high for a low-effort six-pack, but not so lean you look gaunt, old, or ill.
/r/seduction21/05/26 05:58 PM
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'You can't without getting too voodoo' is my contribution. Normative interpretation of major religions are all unambiguously anti-being promiscuous, so you need to be non-normative.
/r/seduction18/05/26 09:06 PM
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without getting too voodoo Without getting too voodoo? You can't. However much people want to redefine them, most major religions are unambiguously opposed to non-committal promiscuity. I'd rather be judged for getting my combination of Christian anarchism, sex magic, and psychedelics wrong than say Christianity itself teaches something it doesn't.
/r/seduction18/05/26 07:59 PM
2

'Better than this is childlessness with virtue, for in the memory of virtue is immortality' - Wisdom of Solomon 4:1
/r/seduction18/05/26 07:58 PM
3

Nine-tenths of this sub hasn't got a clue, man. I learnt about it from a GeorgeM video and visit because the occasional genuine guy needs help, but so many just don't talk to women (outside of 'approach') and repeat whatever they hear from absolute dorks like Nick Krauser.
/r/seduction18/05/26 06:35 PM
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You seem like a good man, so remember retail and hospitality staff in the US can't walk away, can't enforce boundaries with customers, and aren't paid overtime. So unless you're clearly just yapping for banter, it's easy to turn their workplace into a hellhole. Hence that last lady. She ignored your question (obviously not about the shop...) because in her position there is no safe answer. She didn't make eye contact because plenty of actual sex-pests take that as encouragement. If I were in you…
/r/seduction14/05/26 06:49 PM
2

I like the gammy metrics. Getting a phone number? Massive win! The £3,000 course must be working! But she doesn't offer nigh-simultaneous, all-weather full spectrum in the rectum after you drop £5 on coffee and brush her arm? Clearly something's wrong with your game bro, that'll be another £3,000. Because God forbid you date a woman who doesn't dislocate her jaw in the presence of an AMEX card.
/r/seduction14/05/26 02:03 AM
2

Savage.
/r/seduction13/05/26 11:32 PM
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'Trying to save her from you' is your read, because you have obvious perception anxiety which stems from self-absorption ('Is it a value issue? Am I too ugly?') and causes you to be reactive ('pisses me off,' 'sometimes I feel like telling her...'), which makes you seem less safe. In all likelihood, her friends came over because of nothing to do with you. They wanted a girl's night. They are going on somewhere. One is drunk-texting her estranged mum. The woman is in a relationship and friends ar…
/r/seduction13/05/26 12:19 AM
2

Yeah, but like what if you hooked up and then you talk about it and they don’t wanna be friends anymore? This is why you do talk about it first. You don't have to make an event out of 'needing to talk.' You can keep it light-hearted. A friend once said, as a woman was climbing into bed, "don't call the drug squad if you regret this in the morning." The point is to make people think twice (however briefly).
/r/seduction09/05/26 05:56 PM
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Yes: asking. For politeness's sake you're supposed to bake in plausible deniability (a la "Netflix and chill"), but fundamentally you just ask. It's clear from context what is wanted, like a modern language of flowers (e.g. don't take a one-night stand to see The Notebook or invite FWBs to a family wedding). If you break those norms (e.g. you want to take a FWB on holiday), then you need to clarify. You also need to clarify - ASAP - if one person wants more than the other. I've noticed a lot of …
/r/seduction09/05/26 05:49 PM
1

'Cold approach' (PUA-style) is dumb at any age, because it doesn't allow enough time to no longer be strangers. Phone numbers are used as a cope (people hand those out like sweets). Start open-ended conversations and, if they go well, make your invites there and then.
/r/seduction09/05/26 05:35 PM
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We’re not living in the Stone Age Just to segue in here; Stone Age humans - like almost all humans before the middle of the 20th century - lived in collaborative, co-operative communities which were horizontally organised. Dental anatomy of our earliest ancestors (e.g. Sahelanthropus chadensis) indicates humanity has always been a team sport. This is why the red pill clusters around the bitter, angry, and under-socialised. It can help you act like some gangster playboy or big-shot entrepreneur, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 04:31 PM
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Her:Mmm sadly he’s not mine. But I’ll try to find one where ever you take me I love this sub. A million steps on what to say and when, $3,000 dating courses, AMAs from supposedly top-tier shaggers - but a woman quite literally says "I'll find a cock wherever we go teehee" and no-one has any idea what's gone on. "Maybe it's because you said you'd drive carefully?" No, it's because she directed messaged you for an appointment with the eighteenth hole and you suggested the meerkat enclosure.
/r/seduction03/05/26 11:35 PM
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As a historian, no: that's not true. The last time Europe saw the same distribution it sees in online dating (e.g. '80.20') was the Bronze Age population bottleneck, and the cause, both then and now, is extreme income inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:14 PM
10

Low-ball single mums on Facebook Marketplace.
/r/seduction27/04/26 02:07 AM
2

Nah, she shouldn't ever be drunk. Alcohol is a hard drug. Much harder (in behavioural impairment) than psilocybin and cocaine.
/r/seduction18/04/26 11:08 PM
2

I did and, er... Drunk women can be fickle when it comes to walking long distances Wine walks are great because you have a bunch of drunk women This situation will vary depending on the woman, her level of drunkenness Keep in mind she’s going to be intoxicated...Just be sure not to get too drunk. If there's a girl in a group you want to approach try to comment near her then after you've introduced you can try to isolate her away from her friends by saying "I'm gonna steal her for two seconds, tw…
/r/seduction18/04/26 10:56 PM
10

Jesus: 'the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.' If you've built your self-perception and emotional investment around a certain outcome, your locus of control will be beyond yourself. Conversations in this headspace will reflect your inner turmoil, and you can't trust what's coming out of your mouth. If you're at ease with your will because you know you want the best for others, and act in pure love for the moment, everything you say will reflect that - and you'll seldom need to second-guess…
/r/seduction18/04/26 10:06 PM
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Red pill is just Machiavellianism pretending to be evolutionary psychology. It seems true because the then-new phenomenon Machiavelli assessed - centralised state capital - now structures our sexual 'marketplace.' Everything is an aesthetic to be consumed. If it doesn't offer endless growth, it is worthless. If we organised society differently, we wouldn't take these defunct priorities into romantic partnerships. So men who want less materially-driven dating habits (which should be all of us, as…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:06 PM
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Historically, children would be raised by an extended family (a bare minimum of in-laws, godsiblings, grandparents, and cousins). This belonged to a community of families that were interdependent, mutually accountable, and horizontally organised. People worked principally for their own sustenance and that of their neighbours. This is what made large families possible. Now, industrialisation and consumer capitalism gave us the two-worker 'nuclear family.' Women who have a child are expected to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:10 PM
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Guys who make PUA a lifestyle really overthink this stuff. If you see people you want to talk to in public, talk to them (as long as they aren't busy and you don't plan to be an oaf). If you aren't an overt sex pest, you can talk to groups just as well as individuals. Just don't interrupt anyone mid-sentence and don't hit on anyone's wife or girlfriend.
/r/seduction11/04/26 11:07 PM
5

Northern Turkey is very popular with young Russians. A kebab guy I worked with invited me over there once; they're like Brits in Benidorm.
/r/seduction10/04/26 11:29 PM
4

It's insinuation and subtext rather than overt. For example (purely illustrative because this is highly situational), saying "Warn me if you get cold" instead of "Nice tits." Absurd over-compliments can be fun as well. Recently I called a woman 'exotic' because she's Cornish.
/r/seduction08/04/26 02:25 PM
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Oh hell no. One, you aren't an 8-foot-tall fae shadow daddy with a dark past and ten billion dollars. Two, many kinks and personalities are only sexy in a fictional universe. People who watch 365 Days, love masked men, or have CNC fetishes (like two of my exes) do not actually want to be kidnapped or assaulted by burglars.
/r/seduction03/04/26 08:38 PM
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Hardly a guru, but in my experience this is 100% correct. Warmth, humour, and banter annihilate mopey bastards every time - at everything, including business, crime, and politics (intensely social fields which drill killjoys out early).
/r/seduction25/03/26 01:23 AM
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She went “yes yes yes,” and then I said “wanna show me yours?” She screenshot it, and I was like “shit, This is why I lurk here. How Tf do you flirt bruh without being weird af Subtext. Think of it like a spotlight. The right amount of brightness is situational and tone-dependent, but never shine it right in someone's face ("hi wench show me ya nips"); keep it light and to the side ("warn me if you get cold").
/r/seduction19/03/26 02:18 AM
1

There's only one line you need.
/r/seduction16/03/26 10:38 PM
3

I admire your dedication to whatever the hell you're trying to do.
/r/seduction15/03/26 06:29 PM
1

The emotional equivalent.
/r/seduction15/03/26 04:01 PM
1

It's from a really popular TV series over here.
/r/seduction14/03/26 08:18 PM
1

But seriously, "Great to chat, I can take you out on [insert day] at [insert time]" is fine. Just make it sound a bit more like you. The Inbetweeners also has a great crash course in dirty talk should you get that far.
/r/seduction14/03/26 06:58 PM
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Inbetweenersmax until you make it, OP.
/r/seduction14/03/26 06:54 PM
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Alcohol isn't a disinhibitor; it induces myopia (narrow focus on what's in front of you). So the trick to drunk confidence is to think less of anything that isn't immediately happening. The future? Doesn't exist. Potential outcomes? Don't worry. Did you leave the gas on? Who cares? Focus intently on the feeling in your toes for a couple seconds and your mind will be 100% present.
/r/seduction14/03/26 05:26 PM
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Alcohol isn't a disinhibitor. A 1950s experiment with the Peruvian Camba (described in Malcolm Gladwell's Talking With Strangers) proved, by cultural comparison, that it actually induces myopia. People who are drunk think less of whatever isn't currently in front of them. They aren't revealing their real thoughts or secret intentions. It's a totally different state of mind that does not exist when sober.
/r/seduction14/03/26 05:22 PM
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Okay, let's do an honest recap without the protective ego: 1) You open implying something greater than sexual interest. 2) She uses a deeper conversation as a segue to explain why she's upset (you asked) and perhaps also emotionally unavailable, in a way that isn't presumptuous. 3) You bail because you are in fact just looking for action and failed to make that clear, exposing that your initial concern was also fake. 4) She tries to redefine things on her terms, but you visibly seethe over the e…
/r/seduction13/03/26 08:04 PM
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is it really that bad to dedicate a few hours out of the day to go cold approach at the nearest target? "Hi doll, you're cute; may I get your at?" "Sure!" "Great! You look pretty sophisticated, too." "Thanks. I'm a nuclear physicist. Just picking up some bits for a carbonara after Spanish class then it's back to the gym. What about you?" "I dredge for sluts in the bread aisle."
/r/seduction13/03/26 02:41 AM
3

Being a relaxed yapper does not improve your social skills. (Source: cocaine)
/r/seduction11/03/26 05:10 AM
3

Have any of you considered knowing women?
/r/seduction03/03/26 11:32 PM
2

Not any more; I'm currently a top 5% keto diet procrastinator. But before taking the kebabpill, I was what chinmogged incelmaxxers call a 'chad.' Never downloaded Tinder. Never downloaded Bumble. Never had a one-night stand. Because it's dull. It did meet two very attractive men who made it their mission to sleep with as many women as possible (including one who's a personal trainer - basically a married man's worst nightmare), and they were both shallow and disgusting. Funny, but cringe.
/r/seduction03/03/26 07:24 PM
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Top 5% of guys are fucking more than ever I absolutely am not.
/r/seduction03/03/26 07:04 PM
1

For early to mid 20’s what’s a respectable body count for a girl? If you’re considering dating them Divorce-proof your assets and maintain your own social life and you won't have to care.
/r/seduction03/03/26 07:03 PM
1

Bunch of consumer products yapping in here. Changing who you are is fine if you do it for yourself, or as a sacrifice for a loyal loved one who isn't getting what they need, but for strangers? No. You'll end up designed by a committee - a committee of imaginary inconstancies derived from (and creating) your own insecurity, emotionally detached from any success you might find because a fictional character is living your life. To the extent we must all 'sell' ourselves (through fashion, attitude, …
/r/seduction01/03/26 05:25 AM
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It is similar wanting to ride a horse, you don’t just jump on it right away, it doesn’t know you, and there’s a high chance it will throw you off. Instead, you feed it, you touch it, you pet it, you put your hands on it for a longer time. The horse gets used to you, and accepts you. Are these actions manipulative? That's a bait-and-switch. An introduction closer to "You're pretty. Care for a coffee / drink?" is all bait, no switch, allowing subtext to be fun instead of deceitful.
/r/seduction01/03/26 04:17 AM
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Yes, PUA becomes manipulative when people mask their real intentions. But there is nothing not 'nice' (materially) about only wanting sex. Shaming healthy inclinations is a big part of how gender relations got to where they are, and someone who profits from them via OnlyFans - arguably the least ethical form of sex work, in light of what the owner does with his money and how he keeps creators' image rights forever - has no room to talk.
/r/seduction27/02/26 11:39 PM
1

Stealing toxic children's food from sale probably gets you sent to Heaven.
/r/seduction27/02/26 11:18 PM
1

Women aren't mentioned in that passage at all.
/r/seduction27/02/26 08:59 PM
1

'Whoever looks at a woman with lust...commits adultery' is a mistranslation. In Hebrew, Aramaic, Latin, Old English, Koine Greek, Scottish Gaelic (and most languages around the world) the words for 'woman' and 'wife' are the same - context is needed to tell them apart. And the context here (a holistic approach to the seventh commandment) makes it clear that Christ is discussing married people. The sentence should be 'whoever looks at a wife with lust...' If porneia includes sex before marriage, …
/r/seduction27/02/26 07:10 PM
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They are, but I've known hardliners who'd make US pastors cry (e.g. my priests from Opus Dei and the Missionary Society of Saint Paul) who also talk about chastity far less. Partly we just didn't fall for Nygren as hard. Mostly, we didn't exile Catholic mysticism or social teaching from conservative culture. So a hardliner who might talk about chastity can also talk about ending war, workers' rights, access to healthcare, opposing racism, eschatological union, etc. A conservative US pastor has t…
/r/seduction27/02/26 07:01 PM
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I practice it poorly, which is to say I have sex with various women then avoid communion until I'm sure I feel sorry enough to confess. Finding 'the balance' (as an ex-FWB put it) has never gone well. Stigma from other Christians isn't much of an issue here in the UK. Several girlfriends have accompanied me into very conservative circles, one being an extreme goth, and no-one ever made a comment. Occult / paranormal interests spark conversations, but most of my practice / knowledge comes from Ch…
/r/seduction27/02/26 03:18 AM
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Currently Catholic and into mysticism, including sex magic (as a theorist...), and there is one individual to blame for your predicament: Anders Nygren. Around the turn of last century, Bishop Nygren decided it would be a swell idea to revolutionise two thousand years of Christian teaching by removing eros (yearning love) from our understanding of the nature of God (agape-eros) in favour of agape (sacrificial love) alone. While his idea didn't catch on theologically - in fact it's been rejected …
/r/seduction27/02/26 03:04 AM
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Well, let me know how King's Cross Station goes.
/r/seduction15/02/26 04:09 PM
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Why not keep the 'game' to places that are actually built for it, i.e. bars, pubs, clubs? Half the reason you guys get knocked back so often is you're trying to talk to women who are clearly busy, or doing something else.
/r/seduction15/02/26 03:24 PM
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How does an introvert get the attention of others quicker? Look relatively powerful (i.e. dress up a bit too good for the place you're in; take the most visible seat) and listen. No matter who you are, people are far more interested in talking about themselves than strangers - especially if they're reaching up the social hierarchy to do it. One tip - bear in mind I've done it in business settings, but the principle is the same: only wear comfortable clothes. Don't drink much and rarely eat (for …
/r/seduction14/02/26 09:29 PM
1

Quote the Enchiridion in moments like this: "If they knew enough to speak of me, they could have said worse." I use that line all the time when there's rumours or gossip. It denies the allegation without JADE, kills the topic stone-dead, and sounds harder than a coffin nail.
/r/seduction14/02/26 01:26 AM
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Speaking the language was mostly a safety tip. It's polite (and impressive), but you don't want to be in an unfamiliar environment and not know what's being said.
/r/seduction12/02/26 11:05 PM
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tell me if the reputation for them being promiscuous and easy is true? Lol no. It's like Colombia or the Philippines. People go there because they can't score in the West and imagine poor brown chicks throw arse for G7 money, only to find hook-up culture works exactly the same (looks and clout rule) and women who aren't into it will expect you to meet their cousins, repair a washing machine, and retire their dad before a second date. My advice for getting laid abroad - which I have done not once…
/r/seduction12/02/26 08:59 PM
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Brother, either have an after-party or ask for a shag. I'm going to be banned from so many subs for commenting here, but you have all got to start being open about your intentions.
/r/seduction06/02/26 10:12 PM
5

Attraction mattered in the past. Poetry, letters, and diaries by men and women get just as inappropriately horny as they do now. It's marriage that has changed. Then it was primarily about securing provisions, counsel, and legal support; physical attraction was a bonus. Now it's a celebration of romantic love, and physical attraction is almost a necessity.
/r/seduction05/02/26 04:24 PM
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My mindset is the same whoever I'm socialising with: unless you're a total clown you can in fact just say things and do things. No-one writes things down. They generally don't care because they're too wrapped up in their own expression to spare an extra thought on your antics. For example, business meetings. Last month I met a guy to talk investment in his home country (nothing major, just village-level football). He's super Catholic. Basically a much cooler Matt Walsh. We were looking for somew…
/r/seduction03/02/26 05:16 AM
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Sure, that's my personality in real life. Thing is, it has to be obvious you're playing. The disconnect between what you are (someone who can easily get laid) and what you're pretending to be (a dork) is the joke; it's endearing when others are in on it. One of my favourite bits in new company - when drinking and things turn sexual, like Truth or Drink - is to pretend to have a solid four-incher. Deadpan. Genuine horror and surprise to find it is not, in fact, average, and my whole life has been…
/r/seduction03/02/26 04:36 AM
6

Armchair. I'm not into pick-up stuff; I kind of just know women who sometimes like Stag's Breath, and that's enough. The problem here is that it expects you to say a paragraph in one of the most time-challenged, visual-only settings (a club). Like bullshido demos where the reactor gets three moves to their opponent's one, Ciaran gives himself endless conversational beats to be playfully dramatic while she's waiting for a drink, playing look-out for her friend, or heading to the exit.
/r/seduction03/02/26 04:01 AM
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"Excuse me, but WHAT? What do you WANT? Do you want me to just walk on BY? I mean, you're absolutely STUNNING. Do you want me to just PRETEND like that doesn't effect me? I mean, HOW? I'm just some GUY. I can't turn it off. What are you trying to DO to me, woman?" Yeah, this dude has never left his house. Being upfront about intentions is obviously better than concealing them (no-brainer), but what the actual Hell is this?
/r/seduction03/02/26 03:27 AM
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Hello! Would you like to walk around town with me? I'm a local. Honestly, yes - you just say that. I horror-read this sub and 80% of it is guys finding tortured ways to avoid upfront communication.
/r/seduction03/02/26 03:06 AM
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be an interesting person Stop focusing on impressing other people. You'll automatically be ten times more interesting to everyone around you and, much more importantly, have a soul.
/r/seduction24/01/26 03:49 AM
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'Cold approaching' is so f***ing dumb, man. People don't appreciate being stopped in the street for the kind of soul-crushing inanity a conversation with a stranger is likely to provide, and the very fact you've done it proves you are desperate and un-busy. There's a reason all the rich, good-looking guys doing this are influencers, pick-up-artists, or some other non-profession, because the process of building yourself up to your estate or maintaining status among peers just does not let you pul…
/r/seduction24/01/26 03:40 AM
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I just discovered this subreddit from a GeorgeM video and wow it's actually a normal place where people ask for regular advice and aren't crazy. Massive disappointment. what can I do to make her comfortable and escalate further? You don't. How attractive she finds you (physically and emotionally) does that. The only things you can do are not seem too needy and be prepared to cut things off if it devolves into you paying for a bunch of dates with no clarity on where things are headed.
/r/seduction24/01/26 03:03 AM
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