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So you want to divorce or are you in the “hope she comes around camp”? What do you want your life to look like in another 12 months? Figure out what you’re aiming for. I want divorce, previous OYS, she's admitted Adult child of alcoholics, she has her own issues to deal with. I'm not any use to my kids until I can fix myself. I'm having the lawyers finish the financial transfers. Then I get to set timeline for divorce filing. Thank you ​ ​ ​ It's no longer diagnosed a concussion… I see in your h…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/24 12:57 PM
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You're probably right, and can you offer any advice, besides put downs?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/24 12:52 PM
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I stepped away to get my situation settled, I assumed I had to start over numbering. I can resume at 9 next week. I was pressing both until the shoulder issue. Working with a physical therapist to correct. I wanted space to to deal with me, medically and self improvement work here. I wasn't dealing well with the relationship distraction and drama being in the house. I am angry and resentful presently, it's work for me to do. I'm still working, and my employer loves me and is accommodating. Conte…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/24 01:00 AM
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Right, spouses pastor/counseling, not mine. I've distanced myself from this church.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/24 12:33 AM
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Not seeking a divorce, church only allows divorce for infidelity. Courts say otherwise. I left for 3 days in 2020 to cool off, everyone acted like I abandoned the family. I had no tools to deal with anger at that time.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/24 12:32 AM
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She's been telling to me to go find someone that makes me happy, for a year now. I asked what does that look like? I go find a mistress, she wants divorce, and me to remarry, open up the marriage. She stated, if I had an affair, that would be the end of the marriage. She goes to the pastor, no idea what she says, but he show's up at my apartment asking if I'm looking for a concubine. Submitting to the shaming that he is so fond of doing to get compliance. He shamed me at one point when the concu…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/24 05:52 PM
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OYS#8 47, separated, 26y, 7 kids (24, 22, 20, 18, twins 10, 8) Mission: I am looking to make my life work for me, do what I want to do. I want to be healthy and work to extend my life as long as possible in the best quality of health. Be financially independent, knowledgeable and means that permit travel, hobbies or new business opportunities. Why am I here? Working on what I want out of life, moving past a covert contract to save my marriage instead of doing it for me. Reading: SIDE BAR, Finish…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/24 01:10 AM
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Got home and she signed the mid-nup the next day. No fight from her. I have an apartment now and moving out once the lease is signed.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/23 10:10 PM
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Got home and she signed the mid-nup the next day. No fight from her. I have an apartment now and moving out once the lease is signed.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/23 10:08 PM
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Thank you, I took a minute to reflect. My honest answer at this moment, is that I'm really not sure what I want. I'm moving to exit my current dysfunctional/toxic relationship, and I need to gain distance and perspective. I really need to figure myself out first. Thank you again.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/23 02:48 PM
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OYS#7 46, married 26y, 7 kids (24, 22, 20, 18, twins 10, 8) Mission: I am looking to make my life work for me, do what I want to do. Discover and pursue my mission, be open to a relationship, but not seeking one. I want more desire, frequent sex, intimacy, some companionship, way less drama. I want to be more social. Why am I here? I am delusional, I read signals that are not there, I’m manipulated, I do not understand womaneese I’m a career beta working to make a change. I am just a dancing mon…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/23 02:16 PM
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You could be right, but it's what I want.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/23 02:33 PM
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It's what I want.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/23 02:32 PM
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Thank you, that post is spot on. I want the genuine desire behaviors RP_Savage001 details in his post. I want that, but don't have today. My wording wasn't in the post wasn't how I wanted to say it. Obsession would be the one word answer in a partner or a plate that I'm looking for. I've been looking in the wrong spot with my current marriage. Last OYS I mentioned covert contract trying to save the marriage, stage 5 of the betaization phase of the relationship, pulling away, etc. I cannot save t…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/23 02:54 PM
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OYS#6 46, married 26y, 7 kids (24, 22, 20, 18, twins 10, 8) Mission: I am looking to make my life work for me, do what I want to do. Discover and pursue my mission, be open to a relationship, but not seeking one. I want more desire, frequent sex, intimacy, some companionship, way less drama. I want to be more social. Why am I here? I am delusional, I read signals that are not there, I’m manipulated, I do not understand womaneese I’m a career beta working to make a change. I am just a dancing mon…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/23 02:21 PM
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OYS#5 46, married 26y, 7 kids (24, 22, 20, 18, twins 10, 8) Mission: I am looking to make my life work for me, do what I want to do. Discover and pursue my mission, be open to a relationship, but not seeking one. I want more desire, frequent sex, intimacy, some companionship, way less drama. I want to be more social. Why am I here? I am delusional, I read signals that are not there, I’m manipulated, I do not understand womaneese I’m a career beta working to make a change. I am just a dancing mon…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/23 09:56 PM
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OYS#4 46, married 26y, 7 kids (24, 22, 20, 18, twins 10, 8) Mission: I am looking to make my life work for me, do what I want to do. Discover and pursue my mission, Be open to a relationship, but not seeking one. I want more desire, frequent sex, intimacy, some companionship, way less drama. I want to be more social. Why am I here? I am delusional, I read signals that are not there, I’m manipulated I do not understand womaneese I’m a career beta working to make a change. I am just a dancing monk…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/23 02:46 PM
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OYS#3 46, married 26y, 7 kids (24, 22, 20, 18, twins 10, 8) Mission: I am looking to make my life work for me, do what I want to do. Discover and pursue my mission, Be open to a relationship, but not seeking one. I want more desire, frequent sex, intimacy, some companionship, way less drama. I want to be more social. Why am I here? I am delusional, I read signals that are not there, I’m manipulated I do not understand womaneese I’m a career beta working to make a change. I am just a dancing monk…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/23 02:12 PM
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Thank you
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/23 08:21 PM
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Injury was 11/2020. Diagnosed by ER visit, CT scan, I've had approx 15 concussions over my life. This one was bad, skull pounding pain for days. I ignored it, the post-concussion persisted for 18 months, until 2nd diagnosis with a specialist. Referred to therapy, counseling, putting my mind back together since. Thank you for the weakness tip, it's why I'm lifting.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/23 08:20 PM
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Thank you, right I'm not angry here. I have a covert contract that I'm doing this to save the marriage, I need to work on this. I have my shit together, stopped drinking, been sober 2 years, working on my health, running a household w/o being a nice guy, saying no at times, getting other things down on my MAP and to-do list that have sat. Doing my thing, going out being social. I admit my tow rope is 500 feet shorter, she's pulling further away. Her actions say "I want to do my things."
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/23 07:03 PM
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Meeting with the lawyer is the 27th. I already have a started folder from May I'm dusting off and moving forward. I stopped when she caught wind of what was going on, and asked me not to divorce her. It's been a year of her disengaging.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/23 06:53 PM
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I added a bunch of comments below. Thank you for the tip on slowing down, again, detailed below, I feel I'm on borrowed time. My intent is not mind games, It's like I mentioned, she's pulling away even with the application of these tools. I'm more attractive than I was, sober 2 years, I handle shit in the house, farm and with the kids. I display competence in solving problems. I own my unattractive moments when frustrated.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/23 06:51 PM
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Thank you, I try to weigh how much information is too much or too little. It's not validation seeking, It's absolute frustration at my situation. It's like every period cycle, presents me with the window to use the sparring partner. The other 25 days, slim to non engagement.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/23 06:42 PM
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I am on borrowed time. Traumatic brain injury 4 years ago. I'm better, but not the same guy I was. My pace of life is slower, and focused on health. I feel there's resentment, because the appearance is I don't carry my weight anymore. My focus is on the energy and time efficiency.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/23 06:38 PM
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Reading all these comments, I appreciate the feed back. I want to give more information. She's pulled here time and interest for almost a year now. She's leveraging her interests and activities as focus and zero effort on the relationship. I'm not needy, talking about a daily 15 minutes for coffees and catch-up. I was diagnosed with a traumatic brain injury 4 years ago's, and she's just not supportive, and she's just not seeming to dealing with the personality and behavior changes. I do have my …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/23 06:35 PM
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Thank you
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/23 04:14 PM
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OYS#2 46, married, 26y, 7 kids (24, 22, 20, 18, twins 10, 8) Mission: I am looking to make my life work for me, do what I want to do. Find and pursue me mission, Be open to a relationship, but not seeking one. I want more desire, frequent sex, intimacy, some companionship, way less drama. I want to be more social. Why am I here? I am delusional, I read signals that are not there, I’m manipulated I do not understand womaneese I’m a career beta working to make a change. I am just a dancing monkey,…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/23 01:09 PM
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OYS#1 46, married, 26y, 7 kids (24, 22, 20, 18, twins 10, 8) Mission: I am looking to make my life work for me, do what I want to do. Be open to a relationship, but not seeking one. I want more desire, frequent sex, intimacy, some companionship, way less drama. I want to be more social. Why am I here? I am delusional, I read signals that are not there. I do not understand womaneese and then speaking in Mangles. I am just a dancing monkey, trying to be better and move towards what I want out of l…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 02:04 PM
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I need to do this, because I don't want to die. I need to live for something, I need to see how far I can go, I need to build. If she leaves the marriage, I have to keep going. I'm not done yet. I want the money I have to work and benefit me, my kids, my grand kids. I want to learn make decisions like "old money" not like "new money." my mission is to surpass the bull shit lies, I was fed (church, family, parents, family handlers) and make my life work for me now.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/23 06:30 PM
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At this time, no I'm not sure. Not a failed monkey branch, she became a workaholic 120 hr. work weeks, we have a farm, she's a bit of a control freak. Think horse chick w/ cows. Maybe? I'm not looking for reactions, I don't have time to play games.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/23 05:01 PM
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OYS #1 (restart) I’m restarting my OYS reports, las posted May. 46, 5’8” 140 lbs, married 26 years 7 kids. Lifting: 3x/week. Squats: 200x10, BP 100x10, OHP 100x10, Every effort to max reps, I’ll drop weight to finish the sets. Leaned out lost 10 lbs. (4 weeks) Eating better. Debating going 5 days a week of lifting, craving to the gym Mission: I want to be better, work on my flaws, to learn. Reading: Re-reading WISNIFG (34%) Read: MMSLP, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rational Male, 40 rules of power. Relations…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/23 01:45 PM
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TRM, Yes. MMSLP, Yes It takes me several readings of each book to get it. Repetition for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/23 03:10 PM
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First questions, Yes, I am attracted to her, and yes I do like fucking her. I asking here because in the relationship there is a noticeable elevated a push/pull on her side. Part of me thinks, she's not attracted, but she should be or she can't deal, and wants me removed until she can figure out if we have a good or bad relationship. I'm not good at womaneese, at this time. For the manipulation, I'm most defiantly in her frame and working to leave it and form my own. I not folding on the at the …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/23 02:54 PM
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Right, she offers starfish, but telling her "I'm good, no thanks" gets a tantrum response and hysterics. I'm still trying to figure out, and at this time, I think it's either manipulation to keep me in the relationship or her using sex as her agency to keep me walking out the door? I'm not sure. You're right, I'm needing to work on no meaning no. If it's manipulation, I need to work on that and not allow myself to be manipulated in that way. But if it's agency to keep me, it's not enough of a re…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/23 01:34 PM
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OYS 1 46 yo Married 26y, 7 kids (24,22,20,17,Twins 9, 7) 5'8" 150lbs Physical - Lifting for 3 weeks now, 3x a week. Really enjoying it, needing to eat better and get a handle on my diet, too much with carbs and sugars. Getting enough water daily. I want to build my foundation, and then start pushing weights from there. Reading - I've been reading WISNIFG, (completed NMMNG 3x now) 48 Laws of power, I’m a beta, always have been, and it’s not working out for me now. Medical – I’m 16 months into Pos…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/23 05:45 PM
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