Orangeminers915 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
111	Attention Male Lurkers: You need to SHUT THE FUCK up about your online dating problems One of the bums followed me and his profile just talks about needing a girlfriend lol. This is the only dating thread I follow so idk where else he would’ve come from.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/08/21 11:15 PM
150	Being a people pleaser is a major tenant of being a pickme. Men will only love the 50/50, sex supply, and maid service, not you as a person. “Community public utility” really drove your point home. So glad you were able to find your true worth in yourself. Proud of you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/21 02:18 PM
46	Being a people pleaser is a major tenant of being a pickme. Men will only love the 50/50, sex supply, and maid service, not you as a person. I felt this. It’s so empowering to read that YOU have felt sooooo similarly to how I felt and acted. I was the same way when I was trying to have more friends.. You being strong in yourself inspires me to continue and not going back to those ways! I need to keep high value people around me. It’s a lonely road at times.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/21 02:16 PM
13	I have NEVER regretted dropping a man the moment he waves his first red flag. I have ALWAYS regretted giving them a second chance because it’s never just one red flag. Just saw your sweet reply, sorry for the late response!! That was literally the first one, it only got worse from there. He pawned a dog off on me and I literally had to buy it’s food all the time. He’d say “it’s only $20 bucks..?” When I asked for help...When I only had a weekend job and was going to school. Eventually I asked him to pick up the dogs huge turds littered throughout my backyard and he told me just to get a shovel and bucket... I had to pay someone to do it in the end, and I’m sur…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/21 08:45 PM
64	I have NEVER regretted dropping a man the moment he waves his first red flag. I have ALWAYS regretted giving them a second chance because it’s never just one red flag. Someone above me said friendships have red flags and it’s so true. I’d rather be alone that in a friendship that secretly has bad intentions. I sadly spent 3, almost 4 years, in a relationship with a LVM. I was a pick me and settled for a relationship where the guy only saw me every other week and on the weekend. It sucked and I wasn’t treated good... FDS has shown me that it’s okay to have boundaries and I can live my best life loving me!! I wish I would’ve left at the first red flag, he took m…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/21 05:47 PM
11	I have NEVER regretted dropping a man the moment he waves his first red flag. I have ALWAYS regretted giving them a second chance because it’s never just one red flag. Proud of you. It’s never too late to start living a better life. You’re growing and changing for the best!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/21 05:32 PM
76	I have NEVER regretted dropping a man the moment he waves his first red flag. I have ALWAYS regretted giving them a second chance because it’s never just one red flag. I agree with this. Lol, after wasting 3, almost 4, I had enough of time wasting. I regret not valuing myself enough. I wish I would’ve walked away at the first red flag:,(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/21 05:30 PM
4	Welcome to FDS! Helllooo, New here! Love you guys. Just started listening to the podcast and encouraging my mom to tune in. I am slowly reading the handbook, website, and all the resources. Looking forward to growing with y'all and hopefully getting to join the discord at one point!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/21 07:14 PM