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I agree and want to second this. I understand where you are OP but having something to help with the anxiety make actually help you to be a better wife because you will be a happier person. A person who doesn’t ruminate and brood in a negative headspace. It’s hard to imagine not having the anxiety monster chasing you all day but please try to give medication a chance.
/r/RedPillWives25/09/24 12:36 AM
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I understand. He’s still your safe place, he just shook the table a bit and now you’re nervous. I understand perfectly. Tell him though, show him your heat. You need reassurance but this is totally a good thing - he’s making plans and you’re part of his plans. He is putting you in his vision. This is always good. He is serious about you. Hugs!!
/r/RedPillWives20/08/24 03:38 AM
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Try to focus on what he said more than the things you can read online. There is a lot of stuff and not all of it is reasonable, healthy or appropriate for your relationship. I think it’s a great sign that he shared this with you. He cares for you deeply and wants to know that you share values which is very important. Also he cared enough to give you reassurance. I think you should share some of your concerns and anxieties with him. Communication is very important and it seems like y’all are off …
/r/RedPillWives19/08/24 11:52 PM
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The Surrendered Wife Proper Care & Feeding of Husbands
/r/RedPillWives01/08/24 12:11 AM
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OP I think it’s worthwhile to give your marriage your best effort even if it seems dismal. Please don’t be discouraged. He wants to be with you and it seems you want to be with him. Give it your best shot and then reasses in a year or so. Best wishes! I hope things improve and heal. It is possible. Not to be crass, and I hope I do not offend you but how often are y’all having sex? Are you offering regular bj’s? Sex is very healing and it’s an obvious form of submission and surrender on our part.…
/r/RedPillWives31/07/24 11:08 PM
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I understand completely and I’ve been there. Hubby might say I’m still there LOL. Maybe you could also ask him for help with this (not during the heat of the moment) but just let him know you want to fix it and you are open to his ideas on small steps you could take to improve. Hugs!
/r/RedPillWives12/07/24 01:45 PM
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If the relationship is truly traditional then he gets the final word. Embracing that idea will control your tongue. There’s a saying, Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy. I’m sure you want your relationship to last so this is something that must be conquered. I recommend looking into books/podcasts about submission and femininity. Being combative is one of the death knells of good marriages. For men, love equals respect and if you’re loose with your words when you’re angry that pr…
/r/RedPillWives12/07/24 10:13 AM
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I can understand that you’re overwhelmed you’re doing a lot. I think you should sit hubby down and ask him for help. He’s your leader and your head this is one of his primary roles - to solve your problems. Hugs!
/r/RedPillWives19/04/24 10:52 PM
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Much love and good health!!!
/r/RedPillWives06/09/23 11:04 PM
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I love nature ambience as well though I never tried listening to it while cleaning. Thanks for sharing!
/r/RedPillWives23/08/23 08:17 PM
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You don’t have to do it! Find a new profession and if you want to be a wife and mother- consider that these are your prime years and don’t throw that away. You can find a short program with a profession you’re more interested in or just get a job. It’s okay. You have the right to change paths and do something that is aligned with your values. Hugs!
/r/RedPillWives03/08/23 11:54 AM
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My son is 19 and if I had it to do over again I would have loved to have had more years at home with him. We got some bonus time with the pandemic - and even as a teenager he loved it! So I will always vote for staying home with children - it’s our primary role as mothers - and we can never get those years back once they are gone. A bigger house is always possible (all things being positive and equal) but years with children are limited.
/r/RedPillWives02/08/23 03:20 PM
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I believe Amazon has inexpensive ones under the label (house dress). Also you check out local thrift shops for everyday dresses to wear around the house. I’m also a skirts and dresses only woman but I generally work outside the house. During the lockdown (pandemic) I wore simple dresses I got from Amazon.
/r/RedPillWives17/07/23 09:36 PM
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They’re not the same but they’re related. I recommend reading a few books to help you, The Rationale Male (I think that’s the correct title) and The Way of Men are two I think would be helpful. They’re written for men but they’re helpful to understand men.
/r/RedPillWives18/06/23 11:58 PM
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I think your question is pretty wide open. Are you ask what are the traits of a Red Pill man or a traditional man regarding his wife?
/r/RedPillWives18/06/23 01:46 AM
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Fabulous! I’m doing the same thing - been working on it since early this month. I wish you and support your effort!
/r/RedPillWives22/01/23 09:55 AM
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I love this!!!! I might borrow it.
/r/RedPillWives23/09/22 08:29 PM
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I’m going to work on the second bullet without putting out money for new items.
/r/RedPillWives26/08/22 07:24 PM
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