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They don’t need to justify their preferences. Why do you default to bigotry when someone’s views don’t line up with yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 11:38 PM
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Is your friend’s name Jay Cartwright? If so I think I know him. He once did 4 girls at the same time in his parent’s caravan!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:03 AM
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I think you must be right!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 01:12 PM
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What’s with all the fishing analogies? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 11:57 PM
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I just mean that I can talk to a woman and empathize with her. I don't expend energy trying to help her a great deal though as that energy is for my wife. To be clear I'm talking more about what I'd call acquantencies or colleagues than actual friends. I would literally do anything at moment's notice for my male best friend. He's like family to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 09:32 PM
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I think the male equivalent is wanting to rescue the damsel in distress. If I meet a woman who I think has been wronged or mistreated sometimes I feel like I want to save her, I don't though, I direct that energy to my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:25 PM
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I agree with you on this. Just because someone is upset about being rejected doesn’t automatically mean they feel entitled to a woman’s attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:11 PM
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I respectfully disagree with that opinion. Women's lives can be just as difficult and more so than men's. I will agree it's easier for them to find a partner but there are an infinite number of factors that could make their lives difficult aside from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 10:37 AM
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I was skeptical about how many men you state don't pass on their genes but a very quick Google search appears to show that it could be as a high as 60% of men in Western societies. I'd want to check a few different sources but I'm staggered by that statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 10:34 AM
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How do you know OP has it easy in most aspects of life? Not trying to argue with you, it’s a genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:06 AM
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The OP doesn’t claim women don’t have standards they are simply saying men do as well. As a man I confirm that I have standards, I wouldn’t date someone I’m not attracted to for a start (honestly puzzles me why anyone would).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:03 AM
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Very well said. You've put it better than I did
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:13 AM
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Good post. I always thought the ‘nice guys’ the meme is aimed at are the self proclaimed ‘nice guys’. A genuinely kind person realises it isn’t for them to say whether they are ‘nice’ or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:46 PM
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...so we arrive back at the conclusion we usually reach on this sub. If a man or a woman is very attractive partners are willing to overlook or rationalize negative traits. I don't think this is a surprising conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:47 PM
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Paradox. If he's hot and attractive then he's unlikely to be a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:33 PM
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I think the definition of a 'slut' is fundamentally flawed. If a woman is free and everyone is a consenting adult then I can't see an issue with her having many sexual partners. I suspect the men who hate sluts are the ones who aren't having sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:07 PM
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They will almost ask you to ask them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 10:32 PM
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Whilst I tend to agree with your post I don’t think the friend zone has much at all to do with sex. Most guys who define themselves as being in the friend zone are hoping for a serious relationship with the girl in question.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:55 PM
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Nobel Prize coming your way!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:35 PM
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You know, I think you’re on to something there…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:50 PM
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🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:03 PM
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You've really got me thinking here! My wife and I are the same age although I was born in April and her in July. I'm starting to wonder if this 3 month age gap is just too much to overcome in the long run...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:44 PM
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Geez yeah she's hideous 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:24 AM
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I actually think you're on to something here. I have sometimes thought that a person will treat you as badly as you allow them to. If the woman is highly attracted to the man it follows that she'll put up with more bad behaviour before ending the relationship. Of course it's likely that the same is true for women who treat men badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:16 PM
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Agreed. Once they have been told you aren’t interested then it’s time to move on. If they hang around giving the woman a hard time then that is unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:19 PM
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Fair enough. I’m open to having my view changed. When you told them you weren’t interested did they still push you for a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:58 PM
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I don't think it's a scheme as you put it. I think the guys lack experience and genuinely think the girl also harbours feelings for them. If they are pretending to be her friend with the end goal being sex then yes that is manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:55 PM
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Respectfully I don't think this is typically how it plays out. I think the guy is interested in a romantic relationship from the start but mistakenly thinks gaining trust and friendship first is the way to make this happen. In the girl's case she sees the guy acting like a friend and so accepts the friendship and in turn offers her friendship. I don't think anything malicious or dishonest is happening on either side. If the guy becomes resentful or malicious after being rejected then that's anot…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:00 PM
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In that case I would suggest they (mistakenly) interpreted some of your actions as you being romantically interested in them. Not suggesting you intentionally miss lead them, far from it. I'm just trying to add perspective whereas you where caught off guard in their case they had been building things up in their heads for weeks/months and thought they had a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:54 PM
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I don’t think they do. I don’t think a man would expect a relationship with a woman who doesn’t reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:53 PM
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Simply because men have less options.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:04 PM
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If everything in your post remained true but you did not find the girl in question attractive would you still want to date her?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:17 PM
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Yes you’re right but is there not a double standard here. Attractive men/women can look or gaze all they want but unattractive men/women avert your eyes and know your place. Not looking for an argument by the way. Maybe I’m missing understanding the term ‘male gaze’.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:55 PM
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It depends how attractive the men doing the gazing are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:15 PM
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Agreed. I hate the way insecurities are labelled as 'boundaries' and then used as a form of control. It's disrespectful 'my girl' to go to a club. Jesus wept!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:04 PM
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As a man I tend to agree with this. If the woman is extremely attracted to the man and he was her 1st choice to begin with then she will be far less likely to lose interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:39 AM
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Would the same not be true for women though? I'm sure alot/most women know their partner had a past but would prefer not to know every detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:58 PM
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Simple jealousy I would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:12 AM
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I'd be thrilled to bits. What's not to like?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:50 AM
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I hear you. I remember feeling like this. It's incredibly frustrating not knowing why things aren't progressing or what to do to get them do progress. The 'nice guy' stereotype is unfair IMO. Usually the guys being 'nice' to the girls they are interested in are looking for a romantic relationship and not just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:18 PM
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That's because all these women married the wrong men. My wife certainly did not become a mother to me. I support her in every way possible and she is my best friend. There are good men out there some women make poor choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:31 AM
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I tend to agree. I had alot of friends when I was younger but never felt like I could depend on any of them. I usually didn't find that friends were willing to put themselves out for you. When the feelings of loneliness were there and I would go through my phone book looking for someone to handg out with it would usually be met with 'sorry I've got plans/too tired/don't want to'. However, since meeting my wife I have never felt lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:20 PM
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This is very true. I don't know how it is in other countries but in UK men are ridiculed if they haven't had sex by 17-18.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:29 AM
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Whilst of course I'd prefer a partner who is 'bright' and can challenge me intellectually it would not be an automatic deal breaker if they weren't bright.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:40 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:38 PM
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I think most people would definitely consider the hypothetical person. It's clear that you are asking people to envision a scenario where a person male or female ticks every box but isn't very bright. A lot of people seem keen to side step the question. I've answered above and yes I'd marry them if they had a good heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:14 AM
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I don't think that video means she's not 'very bright'. It's designed to catch people out and works on most. Anyhoo, yes I would marry someone who wasn't very bright if they had a good heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:11 AM
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The 'pretty face' is the prerequisite for being interested in her. I'm sure women need to find a man attractive to be interested in him as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:21 AM
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I think there is a lot of truth to this. My advice to teenagers would be to date the first girl who shows an interest in you (providing you are at least marginally attracted to her). Use the experience to learn to talk to girls without being awkward. I agree if you get to your 20s, maybe even 18 with no experience as a guy it's very hard to catch up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:09 PM
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I always think of the episode of Friends where Rachel wants Bruce Willis to open up and show some emotion. When he does he's a figure of ridicule and she ends the relationship. I know it's only a TV show but what message does this send to young men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:30 AM
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I try to be as balanced as possible with these things but I think you are right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:12 AM
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Women dating the guy who's slept with 50+ Women, do they think 'he can have anyone he wants and now he wants me'?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:17 PM
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Do you think the guys in question wanted a relationship with the girls? If so do you think the girls were aware of the 'friend-zone' dynamic at play?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:18 PM
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I will say this. I found I got a lot more attention from women once I was in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:21 AM
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I do yes. I know what you mean and I do sympathise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:10 PM
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Men generally have a minimum threshold of which women they find attractive and will therefore consider dating. The minimum threshold is certainly not 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:58 PM
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Single 100% Why anyone would choose a bad relationship over being single is a mystery to me. The point of being in a relationship is that it is supposed to make you happy. If said relationship is regularly making you miserable, why on earth would you stay?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:06 PM
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Out of interest why can't we use 7?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:06 PM
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Could easily be that women casually seeing someone don't define themselves as single whereas men define themselves as single until they are in a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:48 PM
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A more interesting question for this sub would be; Would you rather have the body and looks of a model or incredibly high intelligence and knowledge of every possible subject matter in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:46 AM
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Of course not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:43 AM
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50 Shades of grey was a good example of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:59 AM
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Yes! Exactly! Why would you date someone you weren't physically attracted to in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:05 PM
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Surely the first paragraph is describing the difference between someone you want to be friends with and someone you want to date. I can't imagine wanting to date someone I wasn't physically attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:03 PM
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I agree with this. When I was a student I had alot of male and friends (and female friends for that matter) who were looking for a relationship, they didn't seem interested in casual sex. These were decent guys with good social skills, well dressed, good prospects for the future and most of them had very little success in searching for a girlfriend. I'll add that this was a University environment where you were surrounded by people your own age and there was roughly a 50/50 split of men and wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 12:01 PM
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What's the saying...? 'behind every successful man there is a strong woman'. Something along those lines. My mum was the strong one growing up. She worked and looked after me, my brother and my dad. My dad was the main bread winner but due to my mum he always had everything he needed to hand. She knew exactly when he'd be in from work and would have coffee and toast waiting for him. I'd say this is female chivalry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:40 AM
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Yep. It appears it's not acceptable for a man to cry despite it being a normal and somewhat healthy response to trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 12:07 AM
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Have to agree with this. I regularly see women cry in my work place due to personal issues. They receive masses of support from their colleagues. I witnessed a conversation between some of these same women all saying it made them uncomfortable when men cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:55 PM
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Over the years I have learned to take the lead in my relationship and my wife seems to much happier that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:37 PM
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