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| 1 | Pregnancy positivity - where to find it?I hate to be the one to deliver this news but your friend group is probably going to change a lot after you have your baby. I’m not trying to be negative…it’s just kind of how it is for most women. And I say this to you because if you realize this now, it might take the sting out of it when/if it happens, and also you can stop expecting these friends to be supportive of you right now - because the reality is they’re probably not capable of doing that and the farther along you are/after you have … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/22 06:09 AM |
| 3 | I feel like not being rewarded for all the effort I put inMen, even 22 year old men, aren’t stupid. They do the things that they do in the beginning because they are trying to secure you. You can’t expect courting-level effort all of the time but even so, your expectations aren’t excessive given you’re in a LDR and words are sort of all you’ve got. Stop telling him to read books. Stop trying to change him. Do not tell him what to do. Do not tell him how to meet your needs. He already knows how to give you what you need, he has done it before. Once agai… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/22 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Grandma In Law Comes Over When Husband and I are Having Kid-Free Time🤣🤣🤣 | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/22 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Being from a toxic family as a RPWI’m from a very dysfunctional home and have a lot of abandonment issues and trauma. Long story short I had to become hyper vigilant and independent from an early age, and now I fear being dependent on anyone. Including my own husband. I dislike asking for help, I dislike being vulnerable with him. It has been an ongoing challenge in our thirteen year relationship but has improved with time. My advice - once you’ve found the right person, do not be afraid to open up and to trust. Vulnerability is… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | By God’s good grace, I have ADHD and a clean house.Lol! I am reading this during a break between ADHD cleaning sessions right now. So funny. Today I tried something new, sticky note cleaning. Went around the house with a pad of sticky notes and stuck notes on the wall, doors, surfaces with what needs to be done there. Then I tackled one room at a time and made a game out of how many sticky notes I could complete. Now I’ve got a stack of completed sticky notes on my desk, and a clean(er) house. Will this work long term, idk, but today I tricked m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/22 10:17 PM |
| 3 | Grandma In Law Comes Over When Husband and I are Having Kid-Free TimeIt sounds like she stops by unannounced - is ignoring the door not an option? Is leaving the house while having kid free time an option? No you’re not out of line for wanting to approach boundaries during kid free time with your husband. There’s no godly reason that the woman can’t come by at literally any other time, and nobody is entitled to stop in on two young parents unannounced and expect to be welcomed in and served coffee. You’re not a bad hostess for wanting to be able to use your preci… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/22 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Needing AdvicePersonally I wouldn’t waste another minute of my life with a low value man like this when he hasn’t married me and there are no children between us. Couples counseling with a man who hasn’t proposed to me after 3 years, and the cherry on top being infidelity? No thanks, I don’t do charity. Neither should you. You deserve better. You are not a rehab facility for broken men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/22 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Helping Husband through stress?My husband lost his grandmother this year. He is very quiet when he goes through things like these. One thing that is often the case with men, is that they need longer to process emotions. They can’t sort it out as quickly as we can. And often they don’t even need to talk much about it, even if they could. I gave my husband a lot of space, lots of quiet with some physical affection just to show him I was present and had time for him. I also picked up his responsibilities around the house for a w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/22 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Is it over for me?Your mother is a complete trash bag of a human being, and nothing she says can be relied on as truth. Who she chooses to be has nothing, and I mean absolutely nothing, to do with your worth as a person or the dating standards you are entitled to have. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/22 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Is he giving me the silent treatment?Ok. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/02/22 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Is he giving me the silent treatment?Yeah I knew someone would reply like this. Agree to disagree. OP knows him better than any of us, so they can take in the sum total of everyone’s advice and make their own choice. It’s just an internet board, chill. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/02/22 08:43 PM |
| 32 | Is he giving me the silent treatment?If you decide to continue seeing him, my rec would be to put him back at “dating square one” - aka don’t get mad or have a big long talk about all of this. Just put some distance and make him earn back any intimacy and closeness that he gained in those first 2 dates. He’s not stupid, his text to cuddle was 100% a test to see what you’d do. So no need to have a conversation about it, you already communicated a clear boundary when you told him no initially. Additional talking and analyzing just be… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/02/22 07:13 PM |
| 73 | Is he giving me the silent treatment?So a man was super nice (a little too nice imo) to you in the beginning, texting you all day and being very sweet, then ghosted you when you declined a short notice request to come over to HIS place to “cuddle”? Nope nope nope. Don’t text him some kind of novel, don’t get upset, just give him some distance. Others are saying you’re overthinking this but I disagree. I also don’t think you hurt his feelings. I think he’s a middle aged man trying to get a 25 year old woman into bed. Now, maybe he t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/02/22 06:50 PM |
| 31 | Supporting bf through unemployment - how long to wait for balance?More manipulation. There’s a difference between a man who is working his ass off and has fallen on hard times through no fault of his own, and a man who is voluntarily giving up on responsibilities and being codependent on a woman. How he can even say he is red pill is hilarious to me. He is red pill when it benefits him. Not when it requires him to assume responsibility and man the fuck up. He quit his job and hasn’t found a new one during an unprecedented worker shortage. In my area local fast… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/22 09:49 PM |
| 32 | Supporting bf through unemployment - how long to wait for balance?This guy is a co-dependent manipulative abusive bum. He’s not a high value man, he’s a guy who has abandoned his responsibilities and claims to be “red pill” when in reality he’s treating you like an ATM and on-demand sex doll. Men like this don’t return the favor and restore “balance”. They either take advantage of you indefinitely, or they leave you when they’re doing better for someone else that they consider “better” than you. The longer you stay, the more he will lower his standard of behav… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/22 09:14 PM |
| 2 | is lip filler aging?Lip filler is one of those things people get addicted to, much like tanning in the 00s you get used to your new look and then the next time you go in, you ask for even more so you can feel like you’re doing something - so you can see a difference basically, because you became accustomed to your previous only slightly modified look. So women will get more and more and more filler, not realizing how ridiculous they look (especially from the side profile). The filler migrates, causing the whole are… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/22 11:01 AM |
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