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Need SupportOrdinary-Physics5350/r/Divorce_Men20/08/24 03:09 PM
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Happy birthday pal. I'm a step behind you, there are guys on here steps ahead. Overall message I'm getting is keep going, stay fit if you can, eat healthy, it'll get better.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 08:21 PM
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I'd love to split it now but the legal advice I've had states she will likely take more than half if we do. That leaves me on my arse. Yes I earn more but I might take a decade to recover from that hit. If we sell she then takes my money and goes. If she hooks up with another fella , they benefit from my money greater than they should! If the original house is still half mine don't I at least get a say who lives there?
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 07:40 PM
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Thanks, I really appreciate the advice.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 07:33 PM
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As i earn more than her, the legal advice I've had so far states that if she invokes Section 1 of the Childrens Act (uk legislation) she will likely take greater than 50% of the sale of the home and a higher maintenance payment than we've agreed at this point.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 07:32 PM
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As i ern more than her, the legal advice I've had so far states that if she invokes Section 1 of the Childrens Act (uk legislation) she will likely take greater than 50% of the sale of the home and a higher maintenance payment than we've agreed at this point.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 07:31 PM
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We're not actually married. We've been together for 12 years, the house/mortgage is 50/50 on the deeds (even though I pay 70%). It would be a pretty drastic u-turn for me to go against what we've so far agreed. Can you be more specific in what happened to you? Me staying is unbearable mentally. She's making the place toxic. It's affecting our kids. It's continuous micro aggressions and silence, plus she's now had a 1 night stand. I don't want be around this anymore. What do I do!? Remember, the …
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 07:24 PM
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That must have been so painful yet validating to hear. Kids are so switched on. It's why it can't continue with my ex and myself anymore. Everyone is hurting.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/24 11:19 PM
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Thanks all. Just hearing others out there have ridden this wave and come out wiser and stronger helps.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/24 11:12 PM
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Thanks, I completely agree. I've been in therapy for 6 years. Mostly unpacking my dad leaving and then being raised by a narc mum (I roll my eyes at myself at this self wallowing!). I suspect I'd be a lot worse without it. All that you are saying makes complete logical sense. I suspect I'm just going through the emotional part and flailing a bit as crunch time approaches. I will do better.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/24 11:09 PM
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Thanks. Solid advice there. I'm wallowing in it bit and I need to straighten up for them.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/24 10:57 PM
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Thank you 🙏.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/24 09:15 PM
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Thanks for all the support and advice guys. Genuinely appreciated. Forgive me, below might sound a bit disjointed. My mind is up in the air at the moment. With regards to custody... I do believe separating the boys from their mum would be harder on them than me moving a few streets away. She wouldn't go anyway. So fighting is opening the messy can that is a custody battle. And I've got to pick my battles. Unless there's a real derailing reason not to, they generally always favour the mum. With r…
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/24 09:14 PM
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