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| 1 | Worried about being a fatherI have no problem with DNA testing. However, applying it here is an issue. The OP didn't express any doubts about their partner, yet the commenter still advised, saying, "Make sure to get a DNA test no matter how confident you are it is yours. Let her be mad about it if she wants, you do what you need to do... Let her get mad. You do it." I would like to specifically highlight "no matter how confident you are." This is personal advice framed as general wisdom, it can be misleading. In a healthy … | /r/MensRights | 12/04/26 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Worried about being a fatherYeah, my reply had some assumptions but they were based on things that'd been said. It is his choice, though. Away from OP, if you don't mind me asking, what are the "other purposes" to a dna test in a relationship other than "is this kid mine"? Just curious since you said "She's either faithful or she's not," the way you framed that implies the dna test recommendation was was regarding infidelity. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/26 01:14 PM |
| 0 | Worried about being a fatherOP's post doesn't express any feelings of insecurity/suspicion regarding whether his wife is unfaithful. When you said, "Let her get mad. You do it." That sounded very dismissive towards the wife's feelings. If you're going to marry someone you won't cherish, it's best not to marry them at all. If there aren't any red flags and you chose to do the dna test "just because" this can easily ruin a happy and healthy relationship, because doing so would have "I think you're cheating on me," written al… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/26 10:49 PM |
| 0 | Worried about being a fatherDoing so would imply that you don't trust your partner, and that you believe they're being promiscuous. OP hasn't expressed distrust in his wife within this post. If there are no red flags, and you push, and get a dna test done and the child is yours, you'd have cut off your nose to spite your face. On top of that, you'd just look insecure. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/26 07:13 PM |
| -1 | Worried about being a fatherWhy get a dna test? If there are red flags, doing so would be justifiable, and he'd be able to explain himself. On the contrary, if there isn't a reason and it's, "just because," that'll likely create some avoidable problems. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/26 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Normal book titles nowadaysThey also don't make killing their significant other their entire personality. Doesn't make it alright, though. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/26 12:52 PM |
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