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| 17 | What subtle signs of jealousy have you observed from other guys?For me it's most definitely when someone tries to embarass you or throw backhand compliments in a group. I have a "friend" that is often like this and it's really annoying. I don't consider him a good friend, but if it's just me and him then things are fine, but once we are in a group he becomes a self-obsessed insufferable douche. And he doesn't do this just with me, he embarrasses people all the time, and i actually don't think he realises it, which is the most amazing part. A few weeks ago i … | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 12:55 PM |
| 3 | What kind of guys do you avoid being friends with?A lot of good traits people are mentioning here. I've always thought that i'm pretty good at choosing my friends as i rarely have any drama or conflicts with any of them, and those i sense fail to meet my expectations i slowly weed out. - Socially inept. Like, i can't deal with people that say the dumbest shit and doesn't know how to behave socially. You know the type. - People that are full of themselves. Does nothing else other than brag about themselves and their achievements. Most of them do… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Plate trying to make me jealous. What should i do?No not really. Like i said, we don't really talk a lot, and i mostly just talk to her when she sends me a snapchat or something like that. So i wouldn't say i'm possessive. When we first started talking i had the opportunity to lock her down easily, but i wasn't interested in anything serious. What i'm asking is, is it possible to keep seeing her on a casual note as of now, or is it too deep for me to keep doing that? For example, i'm considering sending her a message to sleep here, but i'm a bi… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/21 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Overcoming LMR/ASD. What did i do wrong?Yeah i'm planning on texting her and inviting her over for drinks after a few days have passed. I do think i really need to make some solid moves though, i agree on that. What do you do exactly when you push, but then get set back? I read that the best thing is to just "continue like nothing happened". It sounds simple, but when you're actually in the situation, it's difficult to avoid it being awkward. Like, if i went in for a kiss and she refused, it's difficult to be smooth and act like it do… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/19 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Overcoming LMR/ASD. What did i do wrong?An update, if you're interested. She added me on facebook the next day. I was a bit surprised by that, seeing as i figured her to not be that interested since she didn't go all the way. We talked a bit, and i then invited her over to watch a movie next day (today). So i figured that maybe she is actually interested, and therefore didn't want to go all the way in case it screwed things up. Well she came over tonight. We found a movie on netflix to watch, and after a little bit we started cuddling… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/19 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Overcoming LMR/ASD. What did i do wrong?Curiously enough, at the bar one of the convos in the group was about LTR's, and about "when it's too late to get kids" and stuff like that. Many of the people there were well in their 40's, and they kept telling the girl she still had a long time to find a good man. They even tried to guide her towards me, saying "you have one right next to you" or something like that. I guess it's a possibility that she could have the "bf zone" intention. I didn't get her number or anything like that, i forgot… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Girls are often all over me at the bar, but then seem completely uninterested after. What can i do to change this?I strongly suspect you're texting WAY more than you should and it's coming across as clingy or needy. That's the thing, i used to be this way, but i've made a lot of steps towards changing this. I have a plate currently, my only one, who snapchats me like all the fucking time. I mostly don't send anything back unless she specifically asks about something. I firmly believe in the aspect of not texting too much, as i think it has only made her more into me, as she can see i have other priorities. … | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 10:03 PM |
| 1 | «I’m on my period.» is she blowing me off?Yeah i know it was kinda bad from my side. Thing is, i’m visiting my parents on my holiday. So i live with them, and even though i can have a girl sleeping over, i knew that Alex’s parents were away, so that’s why i kinda wanted her to give a signal as to what she wanted. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/19 02:59 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond when a plate sends naughty pictures on snapchat to you?Like, she obviously wants the attention. She wants me to ask her for pics and tell her how hot she is. Isn't that like usually a "how not to treat a girl 101" in here? | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Found Valtrex tablet under couch after fun night with ltr...how to proceed?Who are these people you are calling "fucking psychos", if you don't mind me asking? "Call a lawyer"? Give me a break. In most countries there are no laws saying you need to disclose herpes, so going to a lawyer is pointless. Think a lot of women are going to be super chill with sleeping with you when you let them know you have it? Don't count on it bud. This is exactly why she didn't disclose it. Do you have herpes yourself btw? | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Found Valtrex tablet under couch after fun night with ltr...how to proceed?She most likely has herpes and decided not to tell you. You take that medication to stop you from having outbreaks. Before you talk to her about it, go online and read up on the HSV virus. You will find that it really isn't dangerous at all, and it's more like a skin infection. I think the statistics are that like 80% of all people will eventually get herpes before they reach 50 or something, and most people have no idea that they have it, because a lot of people get no symptoms at all. There ar… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 08:53 PM |
| 1 | I most likely have my first STD. I have a current plate and girl i’ve arranged to meet. How do i solve this while remaining frame?I don't disagree with you, but surely not everyone uses a condom 100% of the time? I always use condoms on ONS's and similar. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | I most likely have my first STD. I have a current plate and girl i’ve arranged to meet. How do i solve this while remaining frame?After i posted this i seached this sub for similar threads, and i agree with you, there seems to be a lot of disagreement on how to handle an STD in terms of TRP. Like, in my opinion, aren't you a big fucking douche if you know you have an STD and you're not telling the girl you're fucking? I know it's a chore, but to me it just seems like it has to be done. I know herpes is one of the most common STD's that like 80% have through their life, but it's still an STD. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 06:22 PM |
| 1 | I most likely have my first STD. I have a current plate and girl i’ve arranged to meet. How do i solve this while remaining frame?The girl who gave you herpes I dont think would spread that around as its her that it came from. I guess that makes sense, but i've read that you could have herpes without even knowing, so it's difficult to know who got it lol? The Tinder girl you can text with and maintain being too busy to meet. That could push up your value in her eyes, it could lead to you texting too much about non logtistics (which honestly seems to be the only way to initiate a tinder match anyway). Yeah i've thought abou… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Best way to treat a plate when you meet her at a night-out?Hmm yeah i guess that makes sense. What do you do if the girl gets all clingy and wants to kiss you and stuff though? I think it went okay last night, but there were times where i wasn't sure how to react. I was just talking to people i knew, many of them girls. She came to the bar, she talked to me and stuff, and she gave me a kiss and then told me to let her know when i was going home. After that, she mingled with some of her friends, and i continued with my own thing. Later we met again and w… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Being paranoid about girls and sex after reading the sub..?I've never had an STD before, yet i keep worrying. Pregnancy is usually what worries me the most though. Well i would definitely use my own condoms, but i didn't have any left, and i didn't want to miss out on sex due to being overly cautious about her condoms you know.. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Got wasted last night and fucked up badly with a female friend. Need advice.Yeah i definitely have nice-guy tendencies and i need to work on that. I texted her «way too much alcohol last night! It’s fine if you don’t wanna talk about it, hopefully we can just forget what happened..» She replied with «ok». Just that. We play this quiz-thing on messenger and she now ended her turn after she said «ok». So i think i’m somewhat in the clear now i guess? Should i try to regain normal conversation with her or give her some time? | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Got wasted last night and fucked up badly with a female friend. Need advice.Really appreciate your replies, it helps calming me down. I will text her one last time saying «I don’t remember what happened but if you don’t wanna tell me that’s okay. I just want you to know i was a complete idiot last night and you know that’s not how i really am. I hope we can move on from this.» Do you think this is okay to text her? | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Got wasted last night and fucked up badly with a female friend. Need advice.Thanks for the reply. Well i have kinda apologized to her but she just replied with «ok» or similar. I don’t want to fuck this girl, but i feel terrible about how i acted. Not knowing what i did is freaking me out. We have onced before had something similar, where she was at my place watching a movie, and i told her i was going to bed so she left. In reality i was going to some plate and didn’t want to hurt her feelings, but she saw me when i was walking so she found out. After that she was kind… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Got wasted last night and fucked up badly with a female friend. Need advice.I used to, but i don't really chase her anymore. Drunken me did last night though. I know she won't bang so it doesn't really matter. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Is it fine to ask if she wants to sleep with me in this case or do i seem needy?I texted her "wanna sleep here?". She didn't open the snap and time went by so i just went to sleep. I woke pretty early and she had then opened the snap but no reply. Got a reply a few hours later (still early morning) with a "didn't see the snap until this morning, i went home early". If i didn't hesitate to send her an invite she might have been down for all i know, sucks lol, but lesson learned. She didn't turn the offer down, nor did she claim she would have wanted to, so hard to say if she… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Is it fine to ask if she wants to sleep with me in this case or do i seem needy?Thanks.. It's just i feel like i read so much about "being the prize", "idgaf attitude" and all that stuff. It just feels like i'm being thirsty af when i ask her something like that i guess. But you're absolutely right, if i don't shoot my shot then nothing happens. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Is it fine to ask if she wants to sleep with me in this case or do i seem needy?Idk lol, i think i'm getting paranoid from reading stuff on this sub about how to act. I've asked her to come over now. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 11:37 PM |
| 1 | If a girl who previously rejected you starts talking to you again, is she ALWAYS just looking for attention/validation?Yeah i'm not gonna ask her to meet or something since she clearly knows already where i stand. It's up to her. I don't agree with me being her "beta simp" or whatever that means though. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 02:48 AM |
| 1 | If a girl who previously rejected you starts talking to you again, is she ALWAYS just looking for attention/validation?Well i did push for meeting her when we were just fucking on the weekends, but she always made up excuses. Just seems a bit silly to try to push again just because we snapchat from time to time now. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Girl who rejected me starts snapchatting me again. After this weekend i started to ignore her snaps. How do i react if she confronts me about ignoring her?Thanks for your reply, but why do you have to be so condescending? I know i have a lot to work on, but why do you need to tell me i’m tragic? I agree with what you say, and i should keep ignoring her. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Girl is coming over in an hour to pick up a jacket she forgot here after coming home with me one night. She came home with me twice, bailed on sex twice, and forgot the jacket twice. Is it worth doing a last attempt not that we're sober?She came over, saw from my window she had a guy driving her to outside my block and waiting. So i knew it wasn't happening. Brought the jacket down, opened up, said hi, gave it to her then went inside again. Whole thing seems so silly now that i know she had zero intentions of even entering the building in the first place lol. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Girl is coming over in an hour to pick up a jacket she forgot here after coming home with me one night. She came home with me twice, bailed on sex twice, and forgot the jacket twice. Is it worth doing a last attempt not that we're sober?Yeah i figured she maybe left it on purpose, but i did attempt to escalate things with her, but she seems incredibly insecure. I asked her to meet up sober once, but she didn't answer, yet another time she calls me out on "not being a man and asking her out" instead of "hitting her up late at night". | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Why am I struggling so hard to seal the deal with girls? (especially ONS's)Should i not even bother to tell her that i have her gloves lol? Yeah it’s definitely up to her at this point if she wants to meet. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Why am I struggling so hard to seal the deal with girls? (especially ONS's)I got an update lol. So i went out to see this other girl, she works at the local bar. Pretty average girl really, not much my type but she's kinda fun to talk to. She was working last night when i met the girl in my post. She told me that one of the guys that works with her at the bar was "seeing" this girl. She said that he was in love with her, but she didn't love him back. They were FWB only. This guy is then just basically telling the bargirl that i'm a douchebag and that she should stop ta… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Why am I struggling so hard to seal the deal with girls? (especially ONS's)Yeah i agree. I'm not reaching out to her unless she replies. The ball is in her court. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Why am I struggling so hard to seal the deal with girls? (especially ONS's)I texted her earlier just asking "how are you". She saw the text like two hours ago but hasn't replied. I find it very weird. Like, she was the one initiating everything last night, she got me to add her number, she added me on fb, she suggested we go to my place etc. Maybe she was really drunk and regrets it or something. I can see in the chat-log that she had called me, and i answered but i have no memory of what we talked about. I guess it was after she left lol. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Why am I struggling so hard to seal the deal with girls? (especially ONS's)Yeah i was thinking of hitting her up today, but i have a feeling she's gonna ask if i want to go rock-climbing or whatever, and i'm not sure if i want to put in that much effort to sleep with her. She did talk about sunday-sex, afterall.. I have this other girl i've been talking to, and we had talked about meeting today. She's pretty average. She asked me if i still wanted to meet, and i've just so far said "yeah, but i'm not sure if i have the time today yet. I will let you know". This one i a… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Not sure if this girl gave IOI's, and i'm hesitating to risk it because we work in the same building(not colleagues technically). Could use some advice!Does it make you feel good when you call someone asking for help a retard? Why are you so angry? There's literally no point to a "asktrp" subreddit, if you can't ask questions regarding things that are already talked about in the sidebar. If that's the case, then what the fuck is the point of this sub? Just shut it down and tell people to read the sidebar. If you look at all the posts in here, 90% are questions that are talked about in the sidebar. I have read the "working with women" post in th… | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Not sure if this girl gave IOI's, and i'm hesitating to risk it because we work in the same building(not colleagues technically). Could use some advice!Very helpful | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 07:17 AM |
| 1 | When she shit-tests you about talking/sleeping with other girls.. Honesty vs. Lying?> She wanted to meet up again right? I suggested to her that we meet again. We madeout that night too. She was open to it, however she is being difficult. She has told me that the fact i had slept with other girls while "being with her" made her uneasy, and i suspect that's why she is semi-flaking me. After we met again, we've been texting, and i've been trying to initiate a meetup, but she's being kinda difficult. First she couldn't meet because she was hungover af, then she was sick for a few … | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 04:59 PM |
| 1 | First time dating for a while, felt like i got loads of shit-tests. Possible red flags? Next step..If i go for the kiss without having any serious IOI's, how should i react if she pulls away from the kiss? I've read it's best to just smooth it over and laugh or something, but i think i would just look very stupid and awkward doing that. Anyways, thanks for the advice, she's agreed to pizza and movies at my place tomorrow, gonna buy some wine and go for it. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 02:30 PM |
| 1 | First time dating for a while, felt like i got loads of shit-tests. Possible red flags? Next step..Well, she only had like 4 people she had a convo with on her tinder(me being one of them), and she told me she was usually very picky on what guys she swiped. She then said one of the guys that she had a convo with was a childhood friend or something. It wasn't like she had a plethora of guys in her tinder just waiting for her to call them over. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Am i just not meant for a «TRP lifestyle»? ONS’s/flings just gives me nothing and makes me feel empty. What’s wrong with me?Hehe, yeah its a very cliché story, i know. My first big challenge in my «lovelife» is to try to not GAF and actually reject girls. I have this thing were i keep thinking there’s something there and she is just being difficult, and i also cant get myself to blow off girls that doesn’t seem that interested because i get a bad conscience easily. Like, this girl i mentioned. It’s pretty obvious she isn’t interested anymore and i should just drop her completely, but i also keep thinking that when we… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Am i just not meant for a «TRP lifestyle»? ONS’s/flings just gives me nothing and makes me feel empty. What’s wrong with me?The fact that you fail to get a girl into bed quickly doesn't mean she wouldn't go to bed quickly with other girls...so 'taking things slow' is just sticking your head in the sand and missing your window to find out her true nature. Reminds me of a girl i was seeing before summer break. Didn’t know shit about TRP then. We met in a bar and i’m telling you she was all over me and we met loads of times after that initial meeting. Every time she wanted to kiss and hold hands all that. But no sex, no… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Am i just not meant for a «TRP lifestyle»? ONS’s/flings just gives me nothing and makes me feel empty. What’s wrong with me?I’ve been thinking thats probably a good idea, to stop focusing on girls and sex all the time. I watch way too much porn aswell. It’s just really difficult to get into that mindset, when i got frienda and a job and all that. Consistent sex seems to be the only thing lacking, but like i said im notngetting much enjoyment out of ONS’s, and my attempts at dating girls seriously ends with them ghosting me ornlosing interest. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Say whatever the F you wantIt really is. I mean, i haven't lifted for long and i'm not at the point where i'm getting attention from girls, but man, i feel so much BETTER. Noticing some gains from lifting just works wonders on my confidence. I walk around feeling more manly. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/18 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Just read up on everything about TRP, and it’s made me realise everything i’ve failed to do with a girl i’ve been seeing. Should i drop her completely or put her on the backburner?Thanks for putting it straight, i like that. When we had a talk before vacations where she bailed on me, she did specifcally say that one of her reasonings was that she "didn't feel like she knew me that well". But i guess it was probably a defensive move. It's just difficult for me to grasp the whole "sleeping with me" thing, because i don't understand what i could have done differently to make sex happen. I feel like i did all the steps, i made sure to preheat the oven, kissing her neck all th… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Just read up on everything about TRP, and it’s made me realise everything i’ve failed to do with a girl i’ve been seeing. Should i drop her completely or put her on the backburner?What do you mean with "considering the fact its just my turn?" My reasoning for picking her up was that since she had been gone for a month or so, it would be a nice way to spend some time together and lay foundations gor the next days when she was staying in the city. She was looking to buy plane tickets and needed someone to pick her up, if not she couldn't book the tickets. So i felt like i did her a huge favor that would benefit me in some way. I think my main mistake was that since she neit… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Just read up on everything about TRP, and it’s made me realise everything i’ve failed to do with a girl i’ve been seeing. Should i drop her completely or put her on the backburner?How would you react if that girl asked you to do that? Not trying to be sarcastic or anything, i'm genuinly looking for advice. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Just read up on everything about TRP, and it’s made me realise everything i’ve failed to do with a girl i’ve been seeing. Should i drop her completely or put her on the backburner?Can't seem to find that post, would have been a good read i suppose. I'm very new to the whole TRP mentality, and i'm trying to learn as fast as possible. Judging from your reply, aswell as others it seems like going to pick her up at the airport 2 hours away was a terrible choice. I remember thinking after she kinda blew me off the days after i did that, that i thought "did i just get used as an uber-driver for her convenience?". So i definitely have debated my choice. It's just that in MY mind… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Just read up on everything about TRP, and it’s made me realise everything i’ve failed to do with a girl i’ve been seeing. Should i drop her completely or put her on the backburner?Well we met quite often when we first started seeing eachother but yeah. She specifically asked me what i was looking for and i guess that's where i fucked up by what i said. I thought her asking me to pick her up was a good sign she wanted to spend time with me. I think i felt that if i said no she would think i wasn't interested/ she lost interest. That's where i need to learn. To not be controlled | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Just read up on everything about TRP, and it’s made me realise everything i’ve failed to do with a girl i’ve been seeing. Should i drop her completely or put her on the backburner?She did have a place to stay originally, her best friend lived close to the bar. I suggested we got some food and headed to my place to eat. So we watched tv and ate and fooled around a bit. Then i said we should go to bed. She borrowed a shirt from me and slept in a shirt and panties. She didn't seem to have a problem with me spooning her, and taking my hand under her shirt to grab her tits, but she seemed a bit weary of me going more than that. At an earlier "date" when i started to escalate t… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Just read up on everything about TRP, and it’s made me realise everything i’ve failed to do with a girl i’ve been seeing. Should i drop her completely or put her on the backburner?Yeah i'm trying to learn. I did kinda try to "seal the deal", but she made it pretty clear she didn't want to have sex. What could i have done differently? | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 04:45 PM |
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