OrdinaryYoghurt Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	My sister thinks all men want in a relationship is to be carried and babied by women. the true breadwinner	/r/MensRights	28/02/22 05:43 PM
2	41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats? just because you find someone attractive enough does not make them an option	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 10:18 PM
2	Ex gf ruining my mental health but I can’t let her go Hey man, self respect is a muscle that just needs to be practiced. Like going to the gym, the motivation doesnt just come one day, you make yourself go, and then one morning you wake up, and you dont want to go, but your a person who goes to the gym, so you go. Im 24 like yourself, and have had a few toxic girlfriends in my short time. Luckily I've never been on again off again, although those girlfriends certainly tried to get me to come back. I remember the guilt and anxiety at that time, beca…	/r/MenSupportMen	05/11/21 03:55 PM
6	Wife made an Onlyfans account behind my back. Already some great responses here. Just wanted to add my own validation for you and say you are absolutely not in the wrong. It's her responsibility to communicate her feelings about a lack of validation and intimacy, and going behind your back and beyond your boundaries is not a mature way to circumvent that. You shouldn't of had to second guess her in the first place. This is a messy situation, made even messier by your work schedule. I imagine your finances aren't in the best situation to let…	/r/MenSupportMen	02/11/21 03:58 PM
1	Reddit hates gender roles... until a woman advocates for male gender roles Rules for thee and not for me. Common consensus on reddit. Sounds like she's projecting her bad dating experience and poor dating filter onto OP, I agree she's an asshole. But he would've been better off if he didn't call her a bitch, no matter how much she might have deserved it. I don't know, I split the bill. If after a few hours of conversation, the deciding factor of a second date is my perceived monetary commitment, then clearly they aren't going to value me for my core values. I'm cheap. …	/r/MensRights	05/10/21 02:06 PM
6	Asked my wide to leave Friday morning. Good for you for finally standing up for yourself! do you have family or friends to help with the dog?	/r/MenSupportMen	27/09/21 01:46 AM
0	Why is it illegal in the U.S. to circumcise a women before 18 but perfectly legal to do it to a man when he is a baby? why are people downvoting this?	/r/MensRights	12/08/21 02:26 PM
1	Married mothers spend more time on housework and children and less time on leisure and sleep than other mothers. does this control at all for the type / quality of the domestic labour though? maybe married women are more likely to spend extra time cooking needlessly complicated meals, or sweep every day, when once a week is fine?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/21 07:51 PM
1	As a man with low libido, my dating experience is way better than a normal man's. Yeah, but I think we should all take what's said here with a grain of salt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/21 04:31 AM
1	As a man with low libido, my dating experience is way better than a normal man's. You don't have to worry about someone someone disrespting your boundaries, going to far, or hurting you during sex. This is absolutely not true. There are plenty of women who will go too far, coerce, or even get aggressive when having sex. People just seem to think that just because a guy is horny, that its ok for a woman to be that way?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/21 02:05 AM
2	Reddit admins clarify that they're fine with hate if it's directed towards the right people. lmao, but this is the internet, majority is subjective. Although I know reddit is mostly used in the US...	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/04/21 03:10 PM
3	The reality of dating and romantic relationships in the modern world Hmm, that's an interesting perspective. So do you think these 'settled' relationships are just doomed to not work then? Even if the emotional compatability is there? I guess without the sexual spark it's doomed from the start. Does this end up with scenarios where a top rarely 'settles' for someone since they have so many options? Thus leading to more open arrangements? Are bottoms generally content with this, or would they prefer monogamy?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/03/21 04:14 AM
2	The reality of dating and romantic relationships in the modern world If you dont mind expanding, what kind of pressures/lies did you face in the gay dating market?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/03/21 08:37 PM
1	When was the last time you were asked for consent? Oh I've mentioned this experience at length to quite a few people. Everyone ive told it to has been very understanding, although I wouldn't say it has had a big affect on me. It hasnt affected my ability to be physically intimate at the very least. I still felt physically in control of that situation, if not emotionally, so I never felt a need to see a professional about it. The dissasociation was a weird experience, but overall the gaslighting had a bigger impact on me, which i spent quite a lo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/02/21 06:08 AM
1	When was the last time you were asked for consent? Sometimes yes, sometimes no. In my experience, the women ive hooked up with in flings were more interested in asking for my consent than a few of the women ive dated. I've walked out on a girl at 3am cause I couldnt give them what they wanted and they were looking for full enthusiasm. The biggest event that comes to mind was with this one girl I dated. She was very manipulative and gaslit me quite a bit over the course of our short relationship, maybe 5 months. Most of which was distance. After …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/02/21 04:02 AM
1	The Red Pill/Men's Rights wow, amazingly well worded.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/02/21 09:42 PM
6	As the average American woman is 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 140lbs now considered "high standards?" the fact that the question even had to be asked speaks volumes of our culture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/21 02:43 PM
1	CMV: Men should put effort into dates because they want to meet women more than women want to meet them Then I wish you luck!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/21 03:02 AM
1	CMV: Men should put effort into dates because they want to meet women more than women want to meet them We're talking about a first date, right? Why would I go on a first date and meet someone for the first time if I didn't want to sleep with them? Are you really asking that? Sorry, i mean why go on dates with men who are aren't interested in dating. Like if you think they only want to get in your pants then don't go on the date. Now, many men may simply lie to you to get you to a date anyway, but demanding men to pay/put effort into a date wont change that, men who want to game you are going to s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/21 10:18 PM
0	CMV: Men should put effort into dates because they want to meet women more than women want to meet them well you're well within your rights to not put out to guys you're not interested in, but then why go on the dates in the first place? Dating should be meeting on equal ground, and over time each party can offer benefits as the risk of it backfiring is reduced. Of course, sex is important to a lot of men, so they aren't going to be as willing of offer commitment benefits until they know there is at least some sexual compatibility there. Although, I can see you making the opposite argument, where …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/21 09:35 PM
1	CMV: Men should put effort into dates because they want to meet women more than women want to meet them well you're well within your rights to not put out to guys you're not interested in, but then why go on the dates in the first place? Dating should be meeting on equal ground, and over time each party can offer benefits as the risk of it backfiring is reduced. Of course, sex is important to a lot of men, so they aren't going to be as willing of offer commitment benefits until they know there is at least some sexual compatibility there. Although, I can see you making the opposite argument, where …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/21 09:35 PM
2	CMV: Men should put effort into dates because they want to meet women more than women want to meet them For me the quality of life I can have as a single woman is higher than the quality of life I could have in a shitty relationship. A random one night stand with a male partner has only a 11% potential for giving me an orgasm. Of course there's the dream of finding an awesome guy to build a relationship with, but that's so rare. I used to think it was just that you had to give guys "chances" until you met one that you could build a relationship with. I now think that I need to free myself from hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/21 08:51 PM
5	Men should adopt women’s mindset when it comes to dating and relationships I have no proof for this but I would think that the disparity is more attributed to the different schemes of hormones that are released between men and women during intercourse, and how their brains react to those hormones. Like, sexual novelty is on average more important to men than women for example.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/21 06:57 PM
3	Promiscuity is bad for men and women then why ever have a discussion about it, if your not willing to see it from the other person's point of view?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/21 03:48 PM
7	"Locker room talk"... FOR WOMEN he means the second one	/r/MensRights	22/01/21 05:01 PM
1	Monogamy will cease to exist in the future. why do we not count government funded school part of communal child rearing? like sure some of them are not the best, and need some work, but its the same idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/20 05:06 PM
4	The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl. Bingo	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/20 02:13 PM
1	CMV: women should pay for the date or go Dutch I cant seem to understand why women claim that a man not paying for the dinner isnt confident? Like if i confidently tell the waiter we are splitting the bill, because i know the worth i bring to the table in a relationship outside of money, and dont want to present my value through money. Like if a women doesnt even try to understand that then why have a second date anyhow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/20 09:16 PM