Aren't a lot of powerlifters Asian? I think muscle building genetics is not bad, bodybuilding just does not work well, because the bone structure is quite thin. I think you are right with everything you say, though. Asians are also maybe the most discriminated group after gypsies, at least here in Europe, I don't know any other group with so many pejudice about them.
That is already quite soul crushing to hear, pursuing love is something, I am trying for all of my life and now at 28, I would like to finally find peace with myself. But I appreciate your honesty!