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| 1 | Do most women choose the Bear?Yes, and you’re proving a hungry bear is better than at least you. Because I can’t say women, as I’m not into misogyny, like you seem to be into misandry. I also mentioned to report illegal things. Two or more assertions can be true at once!!! I can say it’s bad for bad things to happen to people. But it’s necessary to generalize a topic to get an idea of a topic—and what the most likely outcome is (logically). I don’t wish for anything bad to happen to anyone…but that doesn’t mean I support som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Do most women choose the Bear?I literally made the argument of overarching, verifiable statistics…instead of personal anecdotes. Are you not capable of having a rational conversation, or is ad hominem as deep as you are capable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 11:50 AM |
| 0 | Do most women choose the Bear?Only to professional victims. How about make a cogent argument, instead of emotional appeals? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 03:58 AM |
| -2 | Do most women choose the Bear?Right…yet you picked or surrounded yourself with types of people like that, with that frequency of offenses. Tell/show me any verifiable stat that shows a high number of males commit violent crimes in the USA or other western countries. If you check Pew and FBI’s BJS for the USA, it is on the order of less than 0.4%. And that’s just violent crime per 100,000 and doesn’t account for repeat offenders. I’d suspect if rates are substantially higher, it says something about the people who put themsel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 04:48 AM |
| 4 | Do most women choose the Bear?Define “problem”. Like a man tried to kill you? Or eat you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 06:31 PM |
| 17 | Do most women choose the Bear?I think that’s what most guys have a problem with when women say bear…. It presupposes that the majority of men are bad and intending harm. If extrapolating crime stats, it’s a very small % of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 12:35 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to deal with being the hornier sex?Unexpected mood swings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 04:39 AM |
| – | The red pill men on youtube have 30 and 40 YEAR OLD WOMEN terrified of aging. Can we please normalize older women being just as beautiful as the 20 something year oldsWhat?!?! You’re telling me it’s women and gay men driving the cosmetic and fashion industries? It’s not straight white males? 😏 I’m absolutely shocked, madam. It’s sad but shouldn’t be hard for us to state simple truths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 07:07 PM |
| – | The red pill men on youtube have 30 and 40 YEAR OLD WOMEN terrified of aging. Can we please normalize older women being just as beautiful as the 20 something year oldsNot that I’ve seen….and no more frequent than women questioning or degrading men on their standards.. And I didn’t say that men know what women want better than women do…. But that society and people in general tend to know what women generally value—moreso than what men value. …and there’s the shame at the end of your comment? 😂 Like I said…Notice how you made ad hominem and I did not? Because I’m just relaying ‘my truth’ and how I think men generally view things. If I am looking to change mind… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 09:45 AM |
| 2 | The red pill men on youtube have 30 and 40 YEAR OLD WOMEN terrified of aging. Can we please normalize older women being just as beautiful as the 20 something year oldsNo, fertility, agreeability, and other things as well. And yes, you caught me…I’m the sole voice out here; it’s all me. 🙌 Tester: ask men what women want and ask women what men want. I can almost guarantee one group will know the others’ wants vastly better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 10:38 PM |
| 1 | The red pill men on youtube have 30 and 40 YEAR OLD WOMEN terrified of aging. Can we please normalize older women being just as beautiful as the 20 something year oldsI think they’ll still find someone to commit to them though, if they have other desirable traits… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 12:24 PM |
| 1 | The red pill men on youtube have 30 and 40 YEAR OLD WOMEN terrified of aging. Can we please normalize older women being just as beautiful as the 20 something year oldsCould you give me examples that I would know? Not sure if it’s ‘a lot”…think it’s only in cases where there’s something of extra value being provided. Or, that’s just the corresponding physical attractiveness level for these ‘beautiful’ women… I don’t think people in general are dating less attractive people than themselves purely for love or out of the goodness of their heart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 12:21 PM |
| 1 | The red pill men on youtube have 30 and 40 YEAR OLD WOMEN terrified of aging. Can we please normalize older women being just as beautiful as the 20 something year oldsTo be clear then, women who judge based on height, income, social circle, fitness, etc….thats silly and insecure of women right? I’m glad we could agree that being focused on those things makes women as equally bad. So, don’t waste life being a jerk because life is short. I’m glad we could at least agree that women who judge on those are as bad as men who consider age. What? We only tend to shame men on their standards? 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 05:37 AM |
| 2 | The red pill men on youtube have 30 and 40 YEAR OLD WOMEN terrified of aging. Can we please normalize older women being just as beautiful as the 20 something year oldsSure, if we can have women also normalize short kings being as attractive as tall men? Or normalize poorer men being as desirable as richer men? Or normalize objectively more overweight or unattractive men being as handsome as in shape or physically attractive men? Or even normalize behaviors of being dull, boring, stable, and no game as being more sought after than behaviors of being dangerous, exciting, and having charisma? No? I didn’t think so because we all value certain characteristics: so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 05:26 AM |
| 1 | “80% of women date 20% of men” is BSMy main point is to provide evidence and correct your straw mans. Yes, and I said nice straw man to you both because there is not evidence that they DATE the 20, but that they idealize and WANT to date the 20…considering the remainder below average. Do you even know what a straw man is? I said that up front and you conveniently left it out. Correcting someone’s straw man is not “moving the goal post”. That’s for both you and OP because you’re both mischaracterizing the common statement and studi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 11:44 PM |
| 1 | “80% of women date 20% of men” is BSNot at all. I neither liked or disliked it…I was waiting for you to justify your initial claim with any form of evidence. I did, like you asked. Your turn. Oh wait, I provided at least one study. Now dazzle me with one to the contrary… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 10:50 PM |
| 1 | “80% of women date 20% of men” is BSThat doesn’t support your initial claim….and you said if you’re in a huge age gap you’ll end up in the “bottom 10%”…. What happened to the other 70%? Or are you changing your tune on the 80/20? This isn’t an end all be all study…just one example of many. What were you going to do if “just one” example was provided? I didn’t see any admission that your supposition was more incorrect than mine. Only a half-hearted attempt to show why men are at fault—instead of the unrealistic standards of women s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 08:26 PM |
| 2 | “80% of women date 20% of men” is BSCompelling argument; tell me more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 03:00 AM |
| 11 | “80% of women date 20% of men” is BSNice straw man. It’s not they date the 20/us 20…it’s saying that that is their ideal (their standard or whatever verbiage you choose) and that they consider the 80% below average. https://medium.com/yardcouch-com/new-study-shows-why-80-of-women-only-date-20-of-men-3f27432757ce Lists one study, but there’s a lot of data from dating apps too: https://amj.kma.re.kr/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1597&context=journal Your turn. Back up your supposition with evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Men's and women's woes are objectively incomparableOr you could start your own and show everyone how it’s done… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Men's and women's woes are objectively incomparableAnd that’s only a handful of the items…problem is we think it’s horrible now, with no concept of how much men AND women struggled together to eke out a living of survival…and not just squirrel away money, have a big screen tv, nice car, and two big vacations a year. Vast majority of men and women had to do all they could together just not to die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Men's and women's woes are objectively incomparableYou should probably stop propping up the patriarchy by participating in it then… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 04:02 PM |
| 0 | Men's and women's woes are objectively incomparableSo men point out facts, they’re incels. Women point out facts, and they’re boss beaches? Also, I can tell you like to overlook some populations; how do I know? Men aren’t raped less than women…because you didn’t consider the prison population. That also makes men more often the victims of violent crime, but I also ain’t complaining. There’s a LOT worse things for men, especially in third world countries. How about restricting your commentary to first world countries only? You likely cannot as wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't men attracted to Dark Triad traits in women?Men are the standard of all studies, got it. Show me one that talks about dark triad attraction and specifically covers men’s attraction to it. For the record, I can point you to a number of studies that will discuss both genders, most often women specially, having some pull to it. Also appreciate the ad hominem, whenever I see that, I infer the person thinks they are losing and it makes me want to disengage due to lack of challenge. Do better, I have faith in you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't men attracted to Dark Triad traits in women?Picking one subcomponent, or ignorance of some of the traits, is not the same thing. Men generally score higher on dark triad traits for one. For two, women (not men) tolerate and even gravitate towards behaviors like aggression, entitlement, cheating, etc. Pretending that being manipulated is the same thing as this trifecta is disingenuous. For three, tolerating or being manipulated by a person is not the same thing as exhibiting the tendencies when interacting with others. You’re going to say … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't men attracted to Dark Triad traits in women?😂… that’s not why. Among other reasons it’s a drive to protect, a potential that the man doesn’t think he can get any better, that the man doesn’t bring much that’s valued by women to the table, he’s just looking for sex—not a relationship, etc. The toxic traits in and of themselves are not attractive to men in general, neither in any psychological study nor in any anecdotal experience that I’ve ever seen or heard of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Why aren't men attracted to Dark Triad traits in women?Because men (generally) want peace—not more difficulty or drama. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Do you think there’s a lack of good men?Yup, and even less good women… 😢 Or, maybe third wave feminism ‘empowered’ women to act like men sexually, instead of using their gate keeping ability of sexual control to civilize men. Instead, women are upset that they’ve created more ‘bad’ men by not holding them to traditional standards with sexual access. So, now many/most are all rolling in the mud with each other at much younger age and relationship milestones. Welcome! We’re in this room now…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 08:33 PM |
| 1 | The real wall is the fertility wallYeah, they can find men, a certain amount of the time (I’d say often)….those are the men they don’t ideally want but will ‘settle’ for. Thus, a component of why divorces are initiated 70+% by women. “Y’all” need to practice logic and reason over throwing out ad hominems, but I can bring some grass or AstroTurf by, if you want to touch some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 08:30 PM |
| 2 | The problem with stepdads is that most of the time these women wouldn't date them if they didn't have kidsCurious how many of those women are also single, as that’s two traits I’d strongly prefer my partner to have (pro children and pro religion)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 05:12 PM |
| 5 | The problem with stepdads is that most of the time these women wouldn't date them if they didn't have kidsIt sounds like in the arc of your storyline that your mom’s “friends” are the main chumps here. 😂 Good for your step dad too…because just like many women wouldn’t have dated him for reasons you listed, many men wouldn’t have dated a woman with kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 12:20 PM |
| 3 | Domestic ViolenceYes. We built this city, we built this city for rock and roll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Domestic ViolenceIsn’t feminism about equality tho? 🤦🏼♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?Don’t be squeezing my juice! 😕 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?Translation: women like fit men. 💪 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?If a guy is completely kind with no hint of masculinity or dangerousness, that’s just a recipe for friend zone. And it’s completely disingenuous to act like personality doesn’t come after physical attractiveness—for men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?Nothing at all!!! I was just underscoring that ‘attractive’ isn’t a singular (or low number of) traits, but a complex web of multiple. …and I’m not a gym bro, ignore the cert tho. 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?Might want to look up stats for 100k + and 6’3”+. Sure those are competitors….but those are extremely uncommon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?This is the way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?…and the women are perfect angels. Never trust a rationale that is one sided; it might be, but that’s highly improbable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 10:00 PM |
| 4 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?Agree with first paragraph. Disagree with second….because what you need after being very physically attractive is really easy to accomplish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 09:58 PM |
| 3 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?And probably ‘average’ women’s not-so-average standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?Yeah, attracted to by being a certain level of physical attractiveness/symmetry, with some level of physical strength obtained from working out, at least the same height or taller, makes the same money or more, and… 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?A woman validating an analysis of men vs women requirements. What do you have besides a vague suspicion? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BO_vcT2lICc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 09:52 PM |
| 2 | The real wall is the fertility wallYeah…meaning people are just waiting longer to commit and get married. I didn’t see any mention of being remarried though. …unsurprisingly, any guess who files for divorce at a much higher rate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?Fact doesn’t need belief to exist…for us all, perception outweighs reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?Or they don’t have the universe of traits the woman/women are seeking…while his desired traits of a female partner would likely fit in a cabinet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 08:30 PM |
| 1 | The real wall is the fertility wallCtfu? Who hurt you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 07:58 PM |
| 2 | The real wall is the fertility wallNice ad hominem but it’s beneath me to report—and actually the exact opposite. So whatever helps you sleep at night. Blame my love of dissemination of truth, as I see it. Oh, and yeah….date, not marry. Thanks for proving my point; high five, go team!! 👋🏻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 07:56 PM |
| 0 | The real wall is the fertility wallGuys marrying 60+ year olds first time? Not many…. 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 07:54 PM |
| 1 | The real wall is the fertility wallWe are talking about men here right? Average men, not average women or top tier option Chads? Have you seen a lot of men vs a lot of women rate their physical attractiveness on a 1-10 scale…? …and technically, last I checked, 40-50k is above average—even though you may not deem it so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 07:50 PM |
| 1 | The real wall is the fertility wallWatch the first or second most popular YT video from the channel ‘hoe math’. It much more clearly breaks down men and women choosing patterns based on not so rudimentary psychology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 07:48 PM |
| 0 | The real wall is the fertility wallIf you say so, keep telling men what they’ll do and see how it works out. What are the odds you’d tell me how women generally behave, and I’d say no, they act almost completely opposite? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 07:46 PM |
| 4 | The real wall is the fertility wallMuch more likely a man (on average) would commit to an early to mid 20s than an early to mid 60s. But I didn’t say that either one was ideal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 07:44 PM |
| 1 | The real wall is the fertility wallI’m not nearly there but started considering in mid 40s, and haven’t had a shortage of takers…only takers I’m willing to commit to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 07:42 PM |
| 4 | The real wall is the fertility wallI mean….geriatric pregnancy for women starts at age 35… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 07:40 PM |
| 2 | The real wall is the fertility wallSaved me the reply… 💯 agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 07:39 PM |
| 13 | The real wall is the fertility wallYes…hit on for sex, not relationship/commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women?Well points for you on intellectual consistency then. We just don’t agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women?I might give you 18, but are you equally concerned about a 19-40 year old woman going after a millionaire 18 year old male? Chances are men would be much more willing to go after much older women, if they were more traditional like their grandmothers etc…. But even being 18-20, women seem to be much more likely to have the experience levels of women over 40 from the traditional generations. I’d be totally on board if women went back to being more like the discrete sexual gate keepers to civilize… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 06:35 PM |
| 0 | men's dating experience is unfair and feminism has failed to address itMostly women that want to date us/men or have us/men commit to them. But in the rare moments you give them the direct, honest answer then you’re either an out-of-the-ordinary outlier, some “-ist”, or unreasonable for having different standards—that are generally easier to meet (or the same) as women generally have. Again, generally for western cultures since we can’t talk about edge cases or all people everywhere with hope of arriving at a mutual understanding in a finite time. Women can have wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Marriage is a trap.Still ways out, like saying it was signed under duress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 02:01 PM |
| 1 | men's dating experience is unfair and feminism has failed to address itFeminism isn’t going to address it. Maybe pre-third wave it would. Now it’s only about lifting up women, not equalizing men. When the post secondary enrollment for women was at a LOWER rate in the 70s than the imbalance for men vs women in college is now, we had legislation to equalize it….but NO ONE is talking about equalizing it now that women have surpassed men in post secondary enrollment/graduation. Since you specified dating, at a more simplistic level… women are seldom shamed for their st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women?Yeah, then you also had to throw in “late teens”, versus 18 plus. Don’t couch the statement. lol Don’t quote me, but I think there are places/states, even in the US, where it is 16… not that I advocate for that. But the point is, if it’s truly THAT important for men, you’d have tons flocking to those areas to date the youngest legally possible…and I’ve never heard of anything indicating something like that. So pretending the edge case is the majority here is just intellectually lazy. I noticed y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women?Prove the minority of cases via a couple of references. I can back up my claims with evidence beyond the anecdotal, and you? I know of zero references that make this overly common, even if you consider help line calls that were not reported to police. Again, western world…not talking about the Congo or other cultures. Ok, early 20s. Still trying to use the pedo claim on a legal age. Surprise, surprise. Also, let’s equally shame women then for their POV on mass excluding men based on height (whic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 12:53 PM |
| 3 | Men don’t care about loveYes, the majority of men do ALL of these things and worse!! 😂 Why don’t you fact check first based on DOJ statistics? Men also die at work more, work manual jobs that build society more, do dangerous jobs in the protection of others more, etc. The problem with your argument, which I’m guessing is going to involve ‘toxic masculinity’ is that…the traits that make men more likely to be the villain—are the same ones that make them more likely to be the hero. And please live in reality and check stat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women?Well, I’m pro age gap, but it occurred later in life…largely driven by the near inevitable topic of female geriatric pregnancy. May search for comment as I’ve been unimpressed with counterpoints I’ve seen. The pedo one seems common; and to me, when a discussion goes into ad hominem or addressing the minority cases, it’s because there are no great retorts that delve into the root. Oh, and idk if guys go as low as they can. I thought there were studies and polls that indicated peak attractiveness … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem.I got those six, but it’s still a struggle…as the basics I seek were easy to come by 20+ years ago. Now? Not so much… We calling up Dr Frankenfurter to make more Rockys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem.You go, queen! 👸🏻 …😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 05:07 AM |
| 4 | Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem.What rights do women no longer have in the western world? Which do men have over women, and vice versa? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Why do men sleep 'down' so much?On average? I said look up bureau of labor stats first!! 😂 Some making six figures is not most or all. I do appreciate you chose nurses; look up female professions with higher rates of infidelity and then give me a reason or two why…. Lesson: you cannot name random professions and just assume the mean, average, or majority make a certain income. (25% < 50+% for Registered Nurses) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women?All this is missing the point. The point is to address the OP’s question as it pertains to legal adults. By bringing kids into the mix, it’s taking the discussion out of context—likely because there is no good counter point without painting men (or men with that standard) as pedos. It’s designed to discredit, just like calling someone an -ist, so no effort needs to be given to address the true topic. Oversimplifying, the preference is usually for one or more of: less trauma, fertility, agreeable… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women?I was referring to YOUR comments, not OPs. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Why do men sleep 'down' so much?How common is it to make six figures for ANY person in the US? Look up the bureau of labor stats before you respond and then tell me about the majority instead of the minority…. Also, six figure income might not be attained before someone is a manager, has direct reports, or climbs the corporate ladder in their industry. Then again, you might be right—with current hiring practices there are preferences and mandates to hire females in some/many industries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is a trap.“That’s bait!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is a trap.…and a 70% chance to lose half your stuff….if you’re a male. Oh, sorry. 80% if your wife is college educated. Still, I will agree that it’s optimal when offspring are involved. STILL prenups are not ironclad. Even at the celebrity level, plenty are able to throw out that contract… 🫣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women?I enjoy how the question is about legal adults…and to make a counter argument, it has to go to minor children to try to equate the two…that is not the same thing. Or is 20 the same as 12? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women?I know! I can empathize because my male friends who are better off financially, it comes from a place of concern when they’re dating women who aren’t in the same income bracket. When did we get to a place where we are pretending 20s is not the point where we are legal adults. I guess you need to be 21 to drink and buy a handgun, 25 to rent a car, and 65-67 to draw social benefits…but that’s still all an adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do men sleep 'down' so much?I’d be curious on number of us that do…because none of my male friends (myself included) do. I’d be curious to see a poll breakdown on this based on age. Maybe it varies based on that. Most of my friends are in the 30-60 bracket. Anecdotally, I’m not a fan mainly because (I’ll overslimply with a rudimentary root cause) success in the workplace usually needs the masculine trait of disagreeableness. And that’s something I’d tolerate in a short term partner, but have trouble signing up for a lifeti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do men sleep 'down' so much?Weak sauce. Who hurt you? Based on? I said that because of the injection of minor vulgarity in the response. Did you just say that because you don’t like your position challenged? Do better. 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do men sleep 'down' so much?I have but that’s still anecdotal. I was hoping for something more concrete and objective. Not impossible at all. Have plenty of friends and have (unknowingly at first) been “the other guy twice”. Stay out of ad hominem area, makes argument look weak. If you want to believe the ‘math’ is impossible, you also haven’t included into the calculation that many women can actively choose to share the same man…and that a woman may pair off for a guy she doesn’t really want as much because her options ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do men sleep 'down' so much?I’d agree…she shouldn’t be, but… Still no, she doesn’t need an education and career that’s what most women value, not what most men do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:00 PM |
| 0 | Why do men sleep 'down' so much?Just because you didn’t ask for the medicine, doesn’t mean the medicine wouldn’t be useful. 💊 My mistake for assuming triggered; just my automatic default when people use emotive vulgarity or ad hominem…when objective language will do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 09:57 PM |
| -2 | Why do men sleep 'down' so much?One, triggered much? Two, would it make you feel better to caveat with “men will sleep with (almost) anything”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Why do men sleep 'down' so much?I’d love to see evidence that women date and sleep down. They don’t. It’s across and up. If it appears down, it’s either because that’s THEIR level as well, or because there’s something he has in value that you’re not seeing…status, income, looks, height, bad boy vibes, attention from a lot of other women, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Why do men sleep 'down' so much?But not attractive enough to commit to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Women in engineering careers get a lot of help from their male co-workers.Do men in health careers get ANY help from their female co-workers? Especially to the same level that a male co-worker might help a female engineering co-worker? Feel free to maintain a reductive, misandrist outlook. But I doubt most individuals would come to the same root cause as you. (And, even if that was the cause, doesn’t that automatically demonstrate that men place love/romance higher than women? Just using your same rudimentary logic. 😂) | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/10/23 02:43 AM |
| – | Do you believe the wall exist for woman & do you think life is easier for them ?I sort of want to ask… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 04:05 PM |
| – | Do you believe the wall exist for woman & do you think life is easier for them ?Life isn’t easier across the board for men OR women on the whole. It obviously varies by gender and individual levels. We share some challenges and benefits, but also have unique ones. To focus on dating/relationships, I’d summarize to say that sexual access is usually easier for women and relationship access is usually easier for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 04:04 PM |
| – | Do you believe the wall exist for woman & do you think life is easier for them ?I’d conjecture that it depends on the root cause of the ‘wall’. Maybe if it’s about income or education, I’d concur with you. (Point of note the education gap is now officially larger in post secondary education for men than it was for women in 1972. I assume someone else knows what occurred in 1972?) But, if it’s centered on biology…. If men want kids at any age, they can produce them (on average). I wouldn’t advise this, but they tend to be biologically capable—even as senior citizens. For wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 03:58 PM |
| – | Do you believe the wall exist for woman & do you think life is easier for them ?Has no one SEEN women posting on social media in their 30s, 40s, or 50s? Oh, there are guys willing to give them sexual attention then…and a much smaller number open to giving them commitment then. But in both cases, the majority of those men aren’t what the women want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 03:49 PM |
| 2 | If you're a white incel you're either racist or lazyI didn’t say how high or low their standards were…I just indirectly said that women have higher standards than men. Again, typically and on average; there’s always exceptions. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/10/23 03:29 PM |
| 1 | If you're a white incel you're either racist or lazyYes, because men usually have higher standards in dating than women. If you believe that, I have some radioactive farmland in Russian to sell you. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/10/23 12:00 PM |
| – | Too much about high standards but what do they really mean?Right…and men are more likely to not get dates as a result of it, if it’s the main ‘undesirable’ factor. 👌🏻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Too much about high standards but what do they really mean?That’s right. It was predicted in the US. The prevalence to women is global, not specially to USA, which leans to males. It’s a good thing there’s body positivity in the US, huh? 😂 “Women are slightly more likely (40%) than men (35%) to obesity.” March 2022 https://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/overweight-and-obesity/women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Too much about high standards but what do they really mean?A. I’m not; I watch/read a lot, but that’s not one. I could also do an ad hominem and tell you to stop watching Sex & The City or Mashable, but there’s literally no value in that and is intellectually lazy. Most women I know say that…as well as via my male friends who are all 5’9” or taller! 😂 Example: a female friend who is 5’10” is annoyed a lot of tall men are being snatched up first, as she mentions her and her friends focus on 6’ to 6’2” first for minimum height in men. She often says “wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 07:38 PM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Good for you! I’m the same; in part because I grew up below the poverty line and don’t put most of life’s value into monetary assets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Too much about high standards but what do they really mean?It’s also a commentary on women. They can have a ton of potential suitors, but say that they’re lonely because men don’t want to commit to them. But by that, they’re referring to men level(s) above them that likely have better options—or zero reason to commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Too much about high standards but what do they really mean?Almost. https://www.npr.org/sections/thesalt/2015/11/13/455883665/cdc-more-women-than-men-are-obese-in-america-and-gap-is-widening | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 05:32 AM |
| 3 | Too much about high standards but what do they really mean?<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Too much about high standards but what do they really mean?Standards are individual/relative. But then can you explain why the 6’ height and six figure standards for men have become common place? A lot of women just randomly picked that out of thin air? 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Too much about high standards but what do they really mean?I wish, but you give humanity too much credit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Too much about high standards but what do they really mean?Yes, but one of the key points is that men value attractiveness more, while women are harsher judges of attractiveness. It sounds close, but vastly changes things. But also, the average man doesn’t tend to care about height (at least not to the level that the average woman does). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 05:22 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Men will also expect some financial assistance, if there partner is…how would you say, high maintenance. If your spending requirements were less, I suspect what you encounter for “financially stable” requirements would change too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 05:18 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Financial stable, yes. But not being financial irresponsible isn’t the same as a financial earner. And I know that isn’t the case because I’m located where you are, but closer to MD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 05:16 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Because you made money? 😂 If so, I suspect they were in one of three categories: -deadbeats using you for money -lying to you because you were at peak ‘value’ for dating purposes -the vast exception (to prove, ask men you are related to how much a woman’s money means to them). It’s rare, which is why an average to above average earning male would consider seriously dating a woman who works fast food at a minimum wage job…but a woman typically wouldn’t. Typical female standard is that men need to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 05:00 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Rephrase. What do they bring to the table that men VALUE? It’s anecdotal, but I’ve noticed that women struggling to get past the bedroom phase and get a guy to commit…don’t know what (I think) the majority of men want. So, they end up focusing on providing the things that THEY want in men. But a lot of that is not things commonly valued by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 04:35 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.That’s fine. Women who think like that better not come crying to men when they: -want someone to lead, pay on dates, and plan things for them. -search for someone to commit to them because they are sleeping above what their level is (and most above their level won’t commit due to a plethora of options). -want kids (instead keep doing the single mom thing and turning out a higher probability of kids on drugs, in jail, etc). -need physical protection. -require updates to, new, or instructions how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 04:23 AM |
| 2 | What's wrong with average men?‘Game’ is some crazy theory? In the existence of mankind, people don’t get more skilled the more that they practice. Right because a 40 year old virgin man has similar game to a 40 year old Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 06:13 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with average men?Which translates to game, if it’s not looks or some other attribute you cannot control (besides weight). But its still a skill gained by repeated practice / being a Chad. 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 01:48 PM |
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