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| 2 | If the majority of children are raised by women, where do gender roles come from?Yes. It is a rational choice to only send men to war, but still discriminatory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 11:36 PM |
| 0 | Is dating casually as a man frequently immoral?I disagree, it is the orbiters here who try to force an unwanted connection. Girl here should bear no guilt over their decisions, especially if she clearly stated that she does not want a romantic connection with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 11:34 PM |
| 1 | If the majority of children are raised by women, where do gender roles come from?No, I did not say or imply that. OP's title mentions mother's role in gender roles, then devolves into general argument about how gender roles are unfair towards men. I stated that this is simply caused by discrimination, done against the gender that is not seen as the victim in many people's minds. I then gave the example of conscription in response to DoubleFistBishh's question here, as an addition to some other ways men are discriminated against, which were mentioned in the body of the post i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 11:20 PM |
| 0 | Is dating casually as a man frequently immoral?No, not at all. Honestly, I would say you are misogynistic here by thinking that it could be immoral. You are assuming you know better than these women about what is the better decision for them. They made their choice to stay with you despite the fact you don't want them for long-term and you are refusing to respect that choice, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 11:02 PM |
| – | Wealthy, 60+ men who marry way younger women, how do they ensure his wife doesn't benefit if he dies under "suspicious circumstances "I imagine most people don't form relationships with individuals they believe might murder them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 10:46 PM |
| 2 | If the majority of children are raised by women, where do gender roles come from?If you cannot understand that putting people in kill or be killed situations based on their gender is discriminatory, I have nothing further to say to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 10:39 PM |
| 1 | If the majority of children are raised by women, where do gender roles come from?Gender based conscription (It is generally men who get conscripted to military. and in the countries that conscript both genders, women tend to have more grounds for exemption or less likely to be conscripted.) comes to mind. And let me ask you, you felt the need to specify real ways. What fake ways would there be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 10:03 PM |
| 2 | If the majority of children are raised by women, where do gender roles come from?Correct. How does this relate to what I've said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 09:02 PM |
| 1 | If the majority of children are raised by women, where do gender roles come from?I would prefer this pendulum to come to rest bang in the middle for once. The political pendulum is more than enough in my point of view. Well me too, but that does not seem to be happening anytime soon. The point of the post is, women perpetuate gender roles, whilst claiming they are enforced by the patriarchy. The post aims to adress the disconnect in the logic there. It is simple, really. Discrimination is mainly caused by fear and hatred, and these feelings cause people to forgo reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 07:28 PM |
| 1 | If the majority of children are raised by women, where do gender roles come from?First of all, I have no idea how the body of your post relates to its title. Did you make a mistake here? As for the body of your post, it is just good old discrimination. In past, it was primarily done against women, now it's done against men (at least in the West). Maybe in the future, hypothetical pendulum will swing back and it will be done against women again. Who knows? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children?Conservative schools have archaic and sexist views towards gender relations which negatively effect students. No shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 04:35 PM |
| – | The Bait-and-Switch women and blupillers pull here is insaneNo, what this implies is: - Some men have difficulty being friends with women and this carries over to their other interactions with them. - Social skills of men given this advice are less developed than most people. Why do you think that there is a subset of men who claim men and women cannot be friends, and any such "friendship" must be the man secretly wanting to sleep with the woman? It is because they are that man and they are heavily lacking in social skills. They cannot even comprehend th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 04:33 PM |
| – | The Bait-and-Switch women and blupillers pull here is insaneWell yeah, but most reasonable advice "You should improve yourself" is quite unpopular as it requires effort. And the next advice which should be given in this situation "You are simply boring and uninteresting so you should just give up." is also unpopular as it forces people to face the uncomfortable truth. So we are stuck with that one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 12:35 PM |
| – | The Bait-and-Switch women and blupillers pull here is insanewomen: get to know women as people without pursuing them for relationship/sex and eventually something more will grow Women do not say that. What women say is "Get to know women as people without pursuing them for relationship/sex and at least you will have some basic social skills.". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 12:12 PM |
| 10 | Why are woman so infatuated with wade wilson?Deadpool? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 10:54 AM |
| 3 | What do you think the future of feminism is in the west ?I don't know enough about European countries' military situations to comment on them. But for the United States? The military-industrial complex is not going away anytime soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 01:41 AM |
| 5 | What do you think the future of feminism is in the west ?This stupid amount of money mainly comes from oil which, even with the investments they have made, are going to squandered away in a generation or two. Rulers of these countries mostly realize that and are trying to modernize and reform their people's view on Islam, so their country would not fall into ruin when their money runs out. And for the zealots, countries they would fight against have no shortage of weapons and ammunation. You might wanna take a look at this to have an idea of how these… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 12:39 AM |
| 11 | What do you think the future of feminism is in the west ?Religion is not heredity. Many people in those countries have access to Internet and technology and they, especially the young generation, realize modern way of living is not compatible with 1400 year old books and subsequently turning away from Islam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 12:25 AM |
| 6 | What do you think the future of feminism is in the west ?minorities are going to stay mostly muslim Source needed. Islam is dying just like the Christianity. Just maybe not as quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 12:09 AM |
| – | Sexual normalcy is such a contradictory clusterfuck."Some people have views and other people have different views. This is so contradictory!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 10:02 PM |
| – | How both Men and Women are actually on the same page about Body Count.I am assuming you mean the rest of that paragraph? If that's the case, it does not change anything. Now, I know that there is a subset of men who have moved on from it through various methods/rationalization/acceptance and what not. However, it doesn't change the fact that it seems to be something that all men would encounter at some point in their life. There is no rationalization, acceptance or anything like that. We simply knew having sex is something people do in life and did not have any co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 05:30 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: if you aren't able to climax during sex - who's fault is that?Then both. Both partners share responsibility to ensure that sex is enjoyable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 05:23 PM |
| – | How both Men and Women are actually on the same page about Body Count.We're all very aware of the fact that ALL straight heterosexual men have complicated feelings about their wife/gf's sexual past. Heck, even daughters and sisters. No, we are not aware of such a thing. Maybe you have complicated feelings about that, your mind cannot accept there can be people out there who feels differently than you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 05:18 PM |
| 3 | How does one deal with rejection, negativity, lack of desirability, and female affection?The same way you deal with any other adversity in life. Toughen up and keep going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 05:10 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: if you aren't able to climax during sex - who's fault is that?Fault and blame implies wrongdoing. This is simply an unfortunate situation, it's not anyone's fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Woman who want marriage should make it clear from get go and not give him years waiting for him to pop the question. There's no dearth of guys who would drag you for yearsI do agree that women probably should force the hand of their boyfriends sooner rather than later Your comment highlights this issue. Even when they try to take an active role, they can only do this through ultimatums instead of direct communication. I suppose a guy with a girlfriend who he knows want those things also has to be proactive, if he know that he doesn't want those things with her, or within a timeframe that would work for her if he cares about her at all he should leave her to find … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 10:28 PM |
| 11 | Woman who want marriage should make it clear from get go and not give him years waiting for him to pop the question. There's no dearth of guys who would drag you for yearsThe problem here is women's passivity. As long as women leave the power and the responsibility to escalate the relationship to men, the relationship will progress at the pace men want to. In the case of Emily here, the man wants her to stay a girlfriend, so she will stay a girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 11:27 PM |
| 3 | It does feel like the Blue Pillers here are committed to making men feel like they're never the prizeThe source for 28% comes from a study conducted on behalf of Cougar Life, a dating app whose name is self-explanatory. They have an interest in making age-gap relationships seem more common than it actually is. For that, I doubt the validity of that claim. Furthermore, even if it was true, I would argue that the significant amount of repulsion comes from that 28% of women, as in they decided to date older men just once and never again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 11:20 PM |
| 1 | It does feel like the Blue Pillers here are committed to making men feel like they're never the prizewomen have more options because they're inherently more attractive than men Women attract men more than men attract women. This means women are more attractive and they have more options because of that. "Men are delusional for even thinking they can be with younger women". Most younger women are repulsed by the idea of romantic relationships with older men. This means, for most men, it is delusional to think they can be with a younger women. "Marriage is beneficial for men but not for women". Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 07:39 PM |
| 8 | Women don't really have high standards, they just like the exact same guyWell yeah, women like hot men and the hot men are rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Is acting as if all men are predators sexist or not?Exactly, people don't really want to say they are prejudiced because they feel it is "wrong". Wanting your children to avoid specific is gender is discriminatory. But that's okay. It's okay to consult statistics, anecdotes or experiences and make judgements on people based on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 03:45 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: We hear a lot about the "Modern woman". Describe the "Modern Male" that WE have to deal with when datingYou inability to except reality is comical. It's accept, not except. If the number is caused by a increase in women then, it follows MODERN women are more addicted to porn then before and men are just as addicted at their fathers were and it's nothing new. If it's caused by a decrease in men then it follows MODERN men are less addicted to porn then before and modern women are more addicted then their mothers. Either way you're wrong. This does not contradict my statement at all. If men of today … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 10:44 PM |
| 36 | Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's lifeThe probability of her being ok with that is extremely low Yes, but not because they do not understand. It's because this is not what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: We hear a lot about the "Modern woman". Describe the "Modern Male" that WE have to deal with when datingThis decline in percentage does not mean male use is declining. It is entirely possible, likely even, that these changes in percentages are caused by the increase in female porn use. Also, even if the male usage was decreasing, that does not mean vast majority of them are not addicts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 02:36 AM |
| 1 | What women say online/reddit vs. Reality is totally night/day and 180 degrees of difference.My point is that if they stopped doing that, it would affect them. Internet is only real life for some people because the consider it to be real life, and if this is a problem for them, then it's an easily fixable one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 04:50 PM |
| 2 | What women say online/reddit vs. Reality is totally night/day and 180 degrees of difference.Because you can just stop scrolling, as I've been telling you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 04:03 PM |
| 5 | What women say online/reddit vs. Reality is totally night/day and 180 degrees of difference.It probably would affect you. But it's a problem that can be solved by closing your phone and computer and stopping posting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 03:56 PM |
| 4 | What women say online/reddit vs. Reality is totally night/day and 180 degrees of difference.Are you comparing your life to lives of internet celebrities? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 03:49 PM |
| 5 | What women say online/reddit vs. Reality is totally night/day and 180 degrees of difference.We are not living on 2000, it's 2024 and internet IS REAL LIFE, it affects your REAL LIFE in a mechanical and emotional level. Only if you are terminally online. Just close your computer and phone. It's literally that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 03:44 PM |
| 2 | What women say online/reddit vs. Reality is totally night/day and 180 degrees of difference.Which women denies they love sex and hookups ? Which women denies that they like dominant men in bed? Are you sure you are not imagining things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 03:35 PM |
| 2 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.Correct, but you also have to consider significant amount of men with no standards are not real options because women want nothing to do with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 12:42 PM |
| 0 | The weakening of social bonds is underestimated as a factor in social trends in dating and marriage todayIf anything, it would be the other way around. A relationship formed out of obligation would end the moment that obligation ends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 10:44 AM |
| 3 | You Weren't "Put In The Friendzone", You're Just A Shitty FriendDesire is for its own sake, not for reciprocity. It's also often non-voluntary, feelings are not something one can turn off. However, this is a rather moot point, as I do not think it is a good idea to desire people who don’t desire you nor trying to argue for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 03:28 PM |
| 5 | You Weren't "Put In The Friendzone", You're Just A Shitty FriendI remember there was a poster here, Gimp Girl or something like that? Besides her posts, this is the most ridiculous take I heard in this subreddit that comes from a woman. Congratulations OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 03:18 PM |
| 2 | You Weren't "Put In The Friendzone", You're Just A Shitty FriendWhat did the disinterested friend do to you? Nothing, besides the rejection. What did she do to change the terms of the friendship? Nothing. Are you gonna argue wanting to change something is selfish or wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 03:11 PM |
| 1 | You Weren't "Put In The Friendzone", You're Just A Shitty FriendCompany, time and support you give your friends is not the same as the company, time and support you give your lover. It is often more painful to have something just out of your reach as opposed to never coming close to it. This is why staying just friends after rejection hurts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 02:21 PM |
| 3 | You Weren't "Put In The Friendzone", You're Just A Shitty FriendFriendship has already taken a hit. Swallowing your feelings up and pretending nothing has happened is more likely to damage the relationship further than fix it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 02:16 PM |
| 8 | You Weren't "Put In The Friendzone", You're Just A Shitty FriendI'm not saying you can't or should sacrifice yourself. Yes you are. You are straight up saying if you do not force yourself to keep the same level friendship after you are rejected that you are selfish and a bad friend. You know what's a selfish action? Expecting your friends to ignore their feelings so your relationship cannot ever be in a situation where it's uncomfortable for you, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 02:07 PM |
| 7 | You Weren't "Put In The Friendzone", You're Just A Shitty FriendExactly, and a good way to make that easier is to put distance between yourself and that person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 12:37 PM |
| 5 | You Weren't "Put In The Friendzone", You're Just A Shitty FriendNo, it's like that: "I liked her as a friend, and the more I got to know her, the more I got to like her. So now that I like her a whole lot, I cannot handle being "just friends" anymore." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 12:31 PM |
| 11 | You Weren't "Put In The Friendzone", You're Just A Shitty FriendBecause you're being entirely selfish about what you want, and you don't care what they want. This is stupid. Wanting something and another party wanting something else does not mean you are being selfish or a bad friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 12:29 PM |
| 2 | You Weren't "Put In The Friendzone", You're Just A Shitty FriendSince you already get to be around them and share your life with them as a friend, the ONLY thing you aren't getting from a Friendship is Sex. OP, you do understand there is more to romance besides sex, right? A lover is not just a friend you have sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Why haven’t more men quit the market?Seems like a skill issue to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 10:35 AM |
| 2 | How do you believe that the dating world is working?Current dating system works perfectly for attractive and desirable people, and it does not work at all for the others. This is the intended outcome, not a fault of the system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 12:25 PM |
| 3 | Why haven’t more men quit the market?Because they don't have the will to quit. They fundamentally need women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:58 PM |
| 0 | Why haven’t more men quit the market?They're also drinking water, are we going to blame water as well? They're breathing clearly this is the reason for less sex. Oh nonono I KNOW, most of them have two legs so their legs are the reason why they're not having sex Alcohol is how most hookups happen. This is incredibly obvious to anyone. Avoiding actions that lead to sex with of course cause people to have less sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:56 PM |
| 1 | The standards of "not fat" and "no kids" are the BARE MINIMUM, not "extremely high". Bluepillers are disingenuously abusing semantics and population statistics to try to shame men out of having any standards at all.When I said find partners I meant as in successfully enter a relationship with them, not as in encounter. Of course, it's all too possible one's lack of success can be caused by their environment, but I was in particular replying to OP's post where this hypothetical Joe has such women around him yet was rejected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:04 PM |
| 15 | The standards of "not fat" and "no kids" are the BARE MINIMUM, not "extremely high". Bluepillers are disingenuously abusing semantics and population statistics to try to shame men out of having any standards at all.Your standards are high if you cannot find partners that meet them. I'll start with an example- say we have an average guy called Joe. Joe is a 20-year old, upper-middle class, average-looking guy attending a liberal arts college. He calls himself average because he is pretty average. His dating market primarily consists of middle-class/upper middle-class college women around his age range, and among these women, 100% are young, 90% aren't fat and 99% don't have kids (because as it turns out, ob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 11:00 AM |
| 41 | Spending 50/50Not at all. I don't base my masculinity on paying for women. In fact, it offends me (and I imagine a lot of men too) when it is implied or stated that I should pay for women to spend time with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 11:07 PM |
| 6 | CMV: A woman's ideal future partner MUST stack up to all of her past partners... COMBINED, which is not realistic.Because she misjudged their value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 03:24 AM |
| 5 | Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him.Women don't need to do that because men already desire them. What's so harsh about this reality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 12:07 AM |
| 8 | Older women over 30 and revenge fantasyThen why are things like this popping up everywhere? They are popping up because there is a huge amount of men willing to consume the content stating that the older women are less desireable, thus increasing the demand for such content. Why do trends change so drastically as the populations age regarding singledom? Older women are single more because their husbands are dead. why are the graphs of attraction between men and women so different, where women like men their age, but men consistently … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 12:01 AM |
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