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| 1 | How do I get over the fact that I won't have sex until I'm a adult in my 20s and missed out on sex and dating as a teenager?It took me till 27 to even get my first kiss (although first everything happened within 24hrs). I'm 34 and still haven't had a girlfriend (though been with a couple more people since). Being shy and an introvert really doesn't help. It sucks things don't work out. It's lonely. But there's not a whole load you can do (I guess other than working on yourself and putting yourself out there). | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 07:46 AM |
| 1 | How the hell do people do thisIt took me till 27 to even get a first kiss (although basically had my first everything within 24hrs). And even waiting that long sucked (and unfortunately there hasn't been a whole load since). I find the dating apps the easiest. I may not get tons of matches, but have at least had a few dates and slight success from those. Other than that, travelling is the next best option. Everyone is in the same/similar situation, in a new place and not knowing anyone. So going off exploring or for a meal/d… | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 11:16 AM |
| -1 | The only women I can get online are women I would have never approached IRLI'm shy and travel a lot. I couldn't just go up to a stranger and ask them out, so basically only use the apps. I'm an okish looking guy. Could lose weight/get in better shape though. And use Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge (probably my favourite and have more potential matches there). Maybe once in a while a girl I find actually attractive will match, but it rarely goes past messaging unfortunately. And most likes/potential matches are people I'm just not attracted to most of the time. Now when it sh… | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 07:53 AM |
| 2 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youSame. No matter what, I just never seem good enough and just feel unlovable. Girls that like me (at least on apps) are never the girls I'm attracted to. And the very few that have seemed to like me that I am attracted to - we get on super well, kiss and more, and then nothing. It sucks. Yes there's stuff I can work on. But that will literally take years to get in shape, more confident... At this rate I just feel like I'll be alone forever 😞 | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Has a girl ever lost interest in you but somewhat became interested again in the future?I matched with a girl 3 years ago. Talked for 3 months but never managed to meet (in different countries). We matched again a few months ago and finally met this weekend and had an awesome time. Left it confused though as think the distance is an issue for her when I asked if I could see her again (I'm willing to move as not settled anywhere though). Couldn't really read her though so not sure if it was a one time weekend fling kind of thing and she was letting me down easy (we had such a good c… | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 12:00 PM |
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